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I figured with your age children would be a big priority. When a guy is ready he will commit. 2 months is more than enough time to know what his intentions are in the long term. How many years did you waste with your previous relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/23 03:45 PM
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If you keep him happy and there is proper communication, he will rekindle that love. He just doesn't love the situation and what the relationship has turned into. And that translates to him not loving himself, his life, and ultimately you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/23 03:30 PM
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Can you be more specific with what you're looking for. What do you want to learn about?
/r/MensRights27/10/23 02:23 PM
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How old are you btw
/r/MensRights27/10/23 12:36 PM
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You're not giving much context, but I'd say your should be clear about what you want. Do you want someone ready for a long term commitment? Do you want children?
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/23 12:32 PM
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I don't know why it matters if other people think she paid. My husband usually pays. Sometimes he forgets his card and I'll pay. I won't pass him the card. I just pay.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 11:10 PM
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100% they have a prenup. I'd be interested in how it was set up. We have a prenup and we don't even have a jet lol. The only times when there is money, but no prenup is If they got together as a couple before the wealth. You agree on the basics, and then there's a lot of back and forth with lawyers from both sides. Most likely she will receive spousal support in the case of a separation, but it would be very limited compared to the total assets. Financially speaking, it would be a net loss to se…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/23 06:06 AM
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Enjoying sex is not the same as being a walking slot machine. You can enjoy sex with one person. Removing the stigma is what's making women sluts tbh. Bring back hoe shaming.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 02:11 PM
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I dont know if you're serous but I don't know much about that kind of stuff
/r/MensRights23/10/23 05:56 AM
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Yeah I'll agree if you look at it that way. I'm not too familiar with abuse. I'm not imposing my views. But in my case I respect my husband. I don't only respect him I obey him. If he doesn't want me dressing a certain way, I won't. If he doesn't want me to speak to someone, I won't. I do everything I can to make him happy. I'm turn he gives me everything. I couldn't imagine a scenario where he's physically abused by me. This is not just my husband, but his brothers, my brothers, pretty much all…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 05:54 AM
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I don't really know too much about the rules these days and how alternative relationships are. I'm personally in my 30s and agree with you on such a boundary. I feel like they are young, however، and may have different boundaries. It's not my cup of tea, but it's also not my tea to drink. They're adults they can figure it out themselves. I'm not going to tell her to break up with him because of it. Especially when I'm not sure if that's the best course of action for their specific circumstance.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 05:11 AM
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Yeah I dont know about that stuff. Whos molesting him, his mom? O don't understand what you're saying? Men being subjected to SA is a reality I don't know much about, but I feel like this is a different category than what I'm talking about.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 05:07 AM
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I've heard a few stories of men being violent with other men to protect someone unable to protect themselves. That is an honorable thing to do. Essentially anyone who is able to protect someone should. They don't have to, but it's the right thing to do. Of course, keeping in mind your own safety. You shouldn't protect a stranger if it puts you at risk is just common sense. The matter of protecting woman is as follows. Every man must protect at least his mother, wife, and daughter. This is unesca…
/r/MensRights23/10/23 03:49 AM
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I'm sorry but that is such a wrong way of looking at it. Men watch porn because it is mostly positive for them. No Sure, they may get erectile dysfunction, but for many men that cannot get even one woman, that is not an issue. In any case, plenty of married men watch porn with no issues. Whether a man can get a woman or not, porn does nothing good except burn his time. There's a lot of men porn ruined their lives. Even though this is not the majority, it's more common than you think. No one ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:38 AM
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Unless you're not mutually exclusive, following half naked woman is more than a valid concern. If it's bothers you, you're more than justified in bringing it up as mature adults without gaslighting each other and come to a mutually agreed conclusion.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 03:30 AM
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I would heavily digress. For me and the people I'm around it works different. Every male is responsible to protect at least, his mother, daughter, and wife. No one has the right or authority to having a say in a girl's life because he has a crush on her. That's called being a stalker. I don't know why we're even talking about that. It's not a matter of consent. If you're a man you have the duty to protect. This consent business is really going too far and getting a little cuckoo. A guy doesn't n…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:15 AM
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Because feminism failed men and women. The patriarchy worked and everyone was happy. Now girls are sluts and men are disposable.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 09:40 PM
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We live in a day and age that being protective is seen as being insecure. Masculine traits are discouraged, shamed, and punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:40 PM
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Lol. I probably talk more bad about women than I do about men. I'm just giving my opinion. I haven't been around the bad end of experiences. Please don't judge me. I am hurt tbh. I have kids and they're going to grow up in a tough world. Women take advantage of men and grow up old and lonely. Men have no purpose and it feels like they're a dying breed. What do you want me to tell you? It's all woman's fault? A big portion of it is, but men also have to take some blame. Is it all men's fault? Tha…
/r/MensRights22/10/23 03:25 PM
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Gazelles and Lions eh I'd argue men are idiots and no longer men. If you guys wanted, you could change it. Stop marrying run-through women with high body counts that are going to take your house, your children, and your money.
/r/MensRights22/10/23 03:09 PM
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He ignores you when you talk to him You hang up on him He cusses you out You hang up on him He says things to hurt you You say things to hurt him I've never hung up on my husband. I take his shit, but he's never insulted me. He takes my shit, but I don't say things to hurt him. I dont think you're acting in a way that's conducive to a healthy relationship. I don't know what you should do, I don't have enough context for that, but you should start off by not hurting each other the way you are rn.…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/23 02:52 PM
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Lol, I'm in my 30s and got married before tinder. It wasn't as bad as it is right now. Women were still promiscuous but not as rampant as now. Most guys didn't have as much a hard time as they do now. I'm seeing a lot more men who are virgins these days. My parents are boomers. During their time is when feminism became popular. It was at the same time birth control came around. Sex no longer had the consequence it always had, and feminism equated promiscuity with freedom. I mean if we're talking…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 02:32 PM
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Lol, I'd have to say that a lot of women have to work these days, so it does become harder if you also have to do all the cooking and cleaning. Marriage should still be a partnership where one helps the other. Also, a lot of women stop having sex once they get married. There's a whole subreddit for that. I have this automatic defensive reaction when I hear stuff like this, but unfortunately, a lot of it is true. Most women don't offer the same value we once did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:43 PM
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You say a lot, but statistically, it's only 4%. Promiscuity should be shamed. Across the board. That doesn't start with men. It starts with us. We are the gatekeepers to sex. There will always be men lined up for a woman who has her legs open. In terms of are you better than anyone. Well, no. Not in terms of human rights. No one man or woman should be better than anyone. However, in terms of value as a woman, mother, and partner, I'd say you are by a long margin. You're much more likely to have …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:34 PM
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"The color white represented purity, symbolizing both a woman's chastity and her transition to a married Roman matron. It was also associated with Vesta, the virgin goddess of hearth, home and family who was served by temple priestesses garbed in distinctive white clothing" A simple Google search will yield a ton of other sources. Just 100 years ago 80% of us were virgins on their wedding night. Another 10% had only had sex worth the person they were marrying (shotgun) Now it's only 4% We expect…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 01:14 PM
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The wedding dress is white to signify purity. How many girls do you know got married as virgins? Standards may have changed, but we've moved backwards. Also I'm not attacking you. I'm attacking this modem mentality that is so accepting and encouraging of promiscuity. I apologize for not choosing my words more carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:21 AM
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A person who desires to sleep around is horny Watching porn doesn't produce babies
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 08:12 AM
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I've heard so many stories of girls who say set up dinner dates on tinder with no intention of pursuing a relationship. When a guy becomes a floor mat, that's on him
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:55 AM
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That's just a minority of men. The majority are barely getting any.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:48 AM
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Lol, 30 is exaggerating. I think the number is like 10-14 depending on where you live. That's not very nice to call me that. I'm not being disrespectful towards you. I'm generalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:47 AM
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Yeah that's the worse. That's why I say guys are idiots. A girl can be promiscuous, have multiple one night stands, but then a normal guy comes along and she makes him wait. Makes him overpay for something she's given to half a dozen Chad's for free
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:41 AM
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For the most part, the average guy isn't getting any. 30% are virgins or haven't had any sex in the past 12 months They are getting married in their 30s. Usually what happens is we go through multiple toxic relationships with guys who are above our league. They're willing to sleep with us but not willing to commit. We try to change them and then after a few years we realize they'll never commit. Then we settle for the average guy when our eggs start to run out. We fantasize about the toxic guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:32 AM
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Also when we say guys only care about sex and don't value us, the truth is the guys we're chasing are toxic, and we make them toxic because we're all flicking to the same guys The average guy isn't going to mistreat you or cheat on you. But we just don't give them a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:23 AM
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I am speaking for myself. The average women these days is getting married at 30 with a body count of 30. If you disagree, you can start with where you disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:19 AM
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We've become promiscuous. Most woman are not good mothers or good partners these days. Our expectations are too high. A girl who's average will not settle for the average guy because she thinks she's above average. It took me a while, but now I really think we're a big part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:13 AM
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I've seen animosity on both sides. I'd put 80% of the blame on women though. We've become whores and men have feminized.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 07:06 AM
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Probably because they're expired and no longer get hit on like they used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:09 PM
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Both men and women have it bad these days. The wall exists. The quality of men Women have access to after they expire significantly decreases. If a woman is looking for a high quality guy to commit to, the time to secure that man is in her 20s. This is why woman post wall are always complaining about men going for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:57 PM
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A woman paying for sex is not the same as a man paying for sex. They're both bad. But why is a woman paying for it. Guys who pay for it usually it's because they can't get it. A woman paying for sex probably has some major issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:50 PM
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Are you paying support or alimony?
/r/MensRights21/10/23 01:33 AM
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What's that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 12:42 AM
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Guys who don't act thirsty just act that way because they have so much waste they're drowning in it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:38 PM
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This is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:35 PM
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It is both. They are being sluts with the Chad's And they become too picky with the average guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:32 PM
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Yes. I'd only say the average guy isn't unattractive. Thats what I understood from your contents.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:18 PM
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When guys have a lot of options they are more likely to act narcissist and cheat. Maybe not all of them, but a significant amount. People become disposable and for recreational use. When a guy has a lot of options, that In itself encourages toxic behavior. That's true on the flip side of the coin. When girls have a lot of options of "unattractive guys" they tend to mistreat them and take advantage. Ghosting, flaking... tinder is a perfect example. Girls are toxic to the average guy, in the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 11:03 PM
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Can you elaborate on the Patriarchy. How is it natural and how is it beneficial. What system do we have today and how is it not a Patriarchy, or something close to it?
/r/MensRights20/10/23 10:55 PM
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The guys who will cheat make up 10% of the male population. Basically what you're saying is 90% of guys are unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:45 PM
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I think whats happening is you're sleeping with toxic guys out of your league who are not willing to commit to you, but more than willing to use your body.. this causes you to inflate your perceived level. The guys that are in your league are average guys. They would commit to you and not cheat, but you think you're too hot for them because you're under this illusion and think you're settling for a guy beneath you. You're going to realize this when you're 30 and your eggs are running out. Then y…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:38 PM
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Children "belong" to their father. I have my take on this. Hear me out. We live in a matriarchal gynocentric society. Children belong to the mother. Legally, a child's custodian is both parents, but the way the legal system is set up, it's stacked against the father. We live in a society raised by single mothers. Every generation, it's getting worse. Single mother households fare less than single father households in every metric. My solution is to go back to the patriarchy. If a wife decides to…
/r/MensRights20/10/23 10:23 PM
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What is this sub anyways. What's purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:51 PM
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That's not a problem in the family system. That's a modem day problem. An average or below average guy should be able to get an average or below average girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:25 PM
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It should have a value to society. A healthy family system makes up a healthy society
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:21 PM
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Are you? I'm not sure I understand
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 01:20 PM
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She proplbably told you your dad was a no good piece of shit right?
/r/MensRights20/10/23 01:25 AM
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You don't ask fish on how to catch fish
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:13 AM
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It's funny how having a family has no value anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:00 AM
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I've had 3 kids, and my husband has changed total of 3 diapers in his lifetime. I have never worked a day in my life. I have never taken my car to a mechanic. I don't even know when's garbage day. You want to do all the women stuff and your wife to do all the man stuff? You're in the wrong subreddit 🤣🤣🤣
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/23 12:48 AM
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I stand on this point. Divorced women do not make good mothers. Of course of the father is abusive then she should leave and she should get custody, but this is rarely the case. Don't make it look like the majority of women leave due to abuse. And divorce isn't penalized. Men are penalized. For 90% of women divorce is risk free. So yes. They should be penalized by losing the children and any rights to alimony and childcare.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 11:26 PM
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It is because women are no longer good wife or mother material. The quality ofmodern women unfortunately has gone down the drain
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:21 PM
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90% of the time the reason is not valid enough that it warrants breaking up a family over
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:18 PM
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The sexes complete one another. I'm not arguing this point. I think you do bring up a good point. Women were not a piece of furniture. They were active. They had duties. They had a say in important matters. What's changed is they no longer respect their husbands. They're no longer virtuos or pure or loyal. There's a lot that's changed and it's neither benefited men nor women
/r/MensRights19/10/23 11:10 PM
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Not compete. They should not be competing. They are different. I said they complete each other. Like yin and yang
/r/MensRights19/10/23 11:06 PM
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Women have been going through menopause for the last 100,000 years. That hasn't changed in the last 50 years. This is not new. Women being depressed at the level they are right now is a new phenomenon
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 11:05 PM
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100% Men shouldn't deal with single mothers This is also why If a woman wants a happy marriage she shouldn't have divorced friends. Also why we should shame divorcees and why single mothers shouldn't have custody
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 10:59 PM
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Yes. Breaking up a relationship doesn't make the kids happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:07 PM
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Yes. Prioritize your happiness above the well being of the children. She should lose the kids and any right to childcare. Then she'll think twice when you remove the incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:49 PM
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I'm surprised and curious. You're above 50 years old. No kids, No partner, and you're good. Are you In a relationship now?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:41 PM
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Wow Definitely not typical. Lol Is this your only marriage and do you have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:26 PM
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This is interesting. So you got married and were up front that it was going to be for a short period. Also how much do you make and was the prenup an awkward conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:05 PM
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Most of the times because she feels unhappy or feels a certain way. It's women who are breaking families 80% of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 06:01 PM
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Kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:59 PM
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How long were you married for?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:56 PM
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Who wanted the divorce? What were the reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:53 PM
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Lol, middle aged men are committing suicide because of women. A man's life gets devastated financially and emotionally when a woman leaves him and takes the kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:51 PM
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This is because you had a shit experience. I dont blame you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:38 PM
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You're right. A woman isn't inferior in any way.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 05:31 PM
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Neither men nor women want to grow old alone. It's more devastating for women, though, as they're biologically inclined to have children and a family. More woman above the age of 30 are on antidepressant meds. It's 4 times higher for women than for men. 50% of women above 30 are childless. This hasn't happened before.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:26 PM
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Hey. How does the ketuba work and how is it legally binding. Is this like a prenup? How does it protect you and how is it different than the protections offered by family law?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/23 03:45 PM
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These guys aren't looking for ratchet girls. Most girls these days are ratchet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:39 PM
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Most people won't accept it. It's the truth though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:34 PM
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I'm not blaming men. Feminism made women superior. Woman mistreat men. Women get away with abusing men. Women always play victim. Men build society. They build the infrastructure. Woman were the home makers. They respected and were submissive to their man. Women were the backbone of the family. Now they're useless. A woman who is not wife or mother material is of no use. And that is 95% of modern women these days
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:45 PM
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Anywhere you go in the US. Women are damaged. From the trailer parks and the ghettos to Beverly Hills. And especially on the internet. Most women search filter for tinder starts at 6 feet. That automatically disqualifies 85% of guys. You can find a woman, but the problem is that the majority of the time, they are trash. No offense to the good women who are a dying breed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:35 PM
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It is as simple as that. Men enabled it though and continue to reward hoe behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:22 PM
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Only women are attracted to guys they cannot lock down in hopes of locking them down. The women get run through by these guys, and the simps marry them after the girls realize they can't lock down these guys. This happens when their biological clock starts to run out of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:19 PM
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Didn't change in a good way
/r/MensRights19/10/23 01:45 PM
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Morality makes you a good spouse and long term partner. It doesn't help you get fucked. For a guy being an asshole is a more effective strategy. And a girl doesn't need a strategy. Just needs to open em legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:32 PM
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I mean I could see a situation where a women had been nothing but faithful and how she would be offended. In the other hand most times infidelity doesn't get caught. The best solution is mandatory paternity tests on a state level to when producing a birth certificate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 01:22 PM
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I mean that's how it was. It worked and everyone was happy. Yes, men were "disposable" in times of war. But women were obedient, respectful, and submissive. It was a tradeoff.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 01:15 PM
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It's different in this day and age. Woman don't respect men. Modern day men should not be traditional with modern day woman. Yeah. I'm not talking about now. Especially here.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 02:48 AM
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Yeah. It's pretty heartless when the decision has to be made for who lives and who dies. But you make a good point. Young men should have priority over those who are towards the end of their life.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 02:42 AM
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It's because men and women complete each other.
/r/MensRights19/10/23 12:13 AM
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Equally important but significantly different. I don't know why I got downvoted.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 11:33 PM
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That's something important you learn as a parent. If you want them to treat you well, you treat your parents well. If you want your kids to develop good habits, implement them on yourself. If having children doesn't make you better as a person, you're not doing it right.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 10:57 PM
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Can you be more specific with regards to the misogynistic messages?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:56 PM
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So you have to go somewhere there's no extradition treaties. Better option than suicide if you ask me.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 08:54 PM
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Yeah. The states is very bad with that. Canada is similar. The only difference is you can't end up in jail. Guys here do sometimes leave their job and take under the table lower jobs to avoid getting raped by paying childcare and alimony.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 08:46 PM
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Why does a guy who is a 5 have to compete with a guy who's an 8 For a girl who is a 5? Chad wouldn't commit to her anyway. There's a reason she's not with Chad. This is like overpaying for a product.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:44 PM
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Female sexuality shouldn't be oppressed. Female promiscuouty should be shamed. Single mothers should be shamed. Virtuosity and purity should be valued and encouraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:27 PM
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Didn't expect to get downvoted for that. What I say wrong?
/r/MensRights18/10/23 08:21 PM
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What's to prevent the man from going scorched earth? Sell assets, quit job, take your kids to a different country. Start all over.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:55 PM
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Not only that. The father is usually doing the responsible thing and working to provide for his family. The mother is the primary caregiver. Automatically she gets favored in a custody battle because she's the primary breadwinner. Guys are usually blindsided. While he's working she's planning on leaving him. She's setting herself up with a rebound guy. Sometimes even having an affair. Do you think a woman who had an affair while her man is slaving away has anything beneficial to provide as a mot…
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:45 PM
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I think the toxicity of a feminist mother is worse than the wound of not having a mother around. Not having a father is more detrimental, but people don't bat an eye when it comes to that.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:27 PM
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What's the benefit of going 50/50? Rarely does a woman with a traditional mindset not tainted by feminism divorce. Woman are not good influences on children if the man is not in the picture.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:16 PM
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He should of dropped her off and made her uber
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:12 PM
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Nit trolling. I think he has a lot to benefit from redpill
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 07:09 PM
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I'm so against this. No offense to anyone, but a divorced single women is not good for the mental health of the children. Not to say the kids should not see their mother. She should have that visitation right. But when it comes to custody that should go exclusively to the father. Of course with the exception of abuse.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:08 PM
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What if you had valid health problems?
/r/MensRights18/10/23 07:05 PM
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The problem isn't there. Dating apps are one part of the problem. The problem is that the woman are sleeping with guys that are above their grade. Those guys won't commit to them but a girl who's a 5 can sleep with the guy who's an 8. The problem is when a guy who is a 5 comes along she thinks she's an 8 and won't even go for him. She will eventually go for him once she gets in her 30s, but by then he's her 9th choice cuz she's been ran through by a dozen Chad's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:59 PM
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The funny thing about this post is the guy she's sleeping with probably an asshole. She's lucky if he takes her to a coffee shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:56 PM
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Every girl that has platonic male friends at least in some way benefits from this type of relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:55 PM
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I think you should join a dating app as a man. That'll change your views real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:49 PM
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What happens if you don't pay? You get your wages garnished. What if you quit your job and go on financial assistance or disability?
/r/MensRights18/10/23 06:32 PM
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Lol, I've been getting banned left right and centre for having views like this.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 06:30 PM
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Basically feminism fueled hypergamy. The average woman used to stay a virgin, and save herself for the average guy. This guy will commit to her long term, and she gives him purity and takes care of his and the children's emotional needs. Now the average woman she's a 5, but she thinks she's an 8 because she's in a situationship with a guy who's an 8, but he won't commit to her. By the time she's 30, she's been ran through at least a dozen guys who were her first second and third choice. Now her …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:16 PM
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This is an unpopular opinion, but I just came across this sub and want to know what the people here think. Child support is evil. I think divorce should be penalized instead of incentivized. So what that means if someone wants to divorce they should forfeit custody and would not be entitled to child support. That way woman would be less likely to divorce and you wouldn't have a society run by single mothers and deadbeat stepdads. Both biological parents is the ideal, but if it was between single…
/r/MensRights18/10/23 05:51 PM
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I'm all for men rights, but that's also part of being a man. In a state of war, men protect women and children at the cost of their lives. Like the Titanic. Let the women and children survive, and our lives are secondary. It's noble. All men ask is to be respected as such. Men are not respected or valued nowadays.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 05:40 PM
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I dont know. I find single mothers to be the biggest problem in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:33 PM
1

This is why this passport bros thing, redpill, and manosphere in general has grown so much in traction. This is also why most girls who are in their 30s are damaged goods for most the part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:29 PM
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I think redpill is for you.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 05:26 PM
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If your don't agree with it you should be able to hand a conversation with him on it
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 04:18 PM
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Elaborate.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 02:29 PM
1

In the majority of cases this is not true.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 05:57 AM
1

Men value beauty in woman
/r/MensRights18/10/23 05:53 AM
0

Is because men have feminized themselves and women have become whores. No offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:52 AM
1

Sorry to say but most of this is your fault for not seeing up boundaries and putting up with it
/r/MensRights18/10/23 05:51 AM
1

Unpopular opinion here. Cheating is wrong for both men and women. However it is more destructive to the family unit when women cheat. A man cheating is much more salvageable. A woman cheating and she's damaged now damaged goods.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 05:46 AM
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Yeah this is clearly why society is broken. I'm not judging or anything but it's become the norm for women to give a man what he needs without him having to commit. This hasn't benefited men per se, both sexes are actually disadvantaged.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 05:33 AM
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I can't recommend any books but I can give my 2 cents. The best source of yourself. How hubby treats you shapes what she expects from a man. How you treat hubby teaches her how to treat a man. What you do is a better teacher than what you say.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 05:25 AM
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I dont know where you got this from that women are bad people. Feminists are usually bad. Woman are more valuable to society than men. That is if they know their proper role.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 05:14 AM
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Most of the things you say are accurate.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/23 05:12 AM
0

There is a such thing as patriarchy. I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
/r/MensRights18/10/23 05:06 AM
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Dating was definitely better in the past. It's gone to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:25 AM
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It's because being a whore has become the norm. Not trying to be disrespectful to whores or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:23 AM
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Guys struggle in dating because women have become whores.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:22 AM
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A lesbisn does not fit into redpill mentality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:21 AM
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Oof Women like you are very insecure. Men become successful and they never say we don't need women. Women on the opposite hand do that. If you think a vibrator gives you sufficient intimacy perhaps you were missing intimacy as a child or something. Honey you need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:19 AM
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Don't see yourself hotter than you actually are. The problem is that the average girl is just average, but isn't attracted to the average guy. Women are sleeping with guys above their level but these guys are not interested in committing to them. Their standards go up because they conflate their value as a result of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:15 AM
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Lol, My sister is the same way. She grew up around 6 boys and is rough around the edges when it comes to being in touch with her feminine side. Despite that she is feminine and a good mother and wife. You seem the same way. You have trouble being a girly girl but you're not masculine. You're probably better at dealing with guys than most girls are because of your unique situation. You know who you are. If the guy you're with really cares for you he'll communicate with you and help you in the are…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 03:47 AM
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I dont see anything wrong with a man prioritizing his career if he is prioritizing it for the right reasons. Family comes first, but a man can prioritize his career in order to build a strong foundation and financial net for his family. Especially in his 20s when he doesn't have the responsibility of children. Long term this is a good strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 03:15 AM
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I'm seeing a lot of relationships here that are making it work well and probably can't work unless you have a traditional RP mindset. Your man is the head of the household. You respect him and bring him up rather than take him down. He loves you, appreciates you, protects you, and is there for you and your children no matter what. A woman should never disrespect a man and bring him down. Don't misunderstand me. Some men don't deserve respect. He doesn't deserve respect if he doesn't respect you.…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 03:10 AM
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How do you guys deal with disagreements. Financial, or otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 02:55 AM
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What do you mean both roles
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/23 02:49 AM
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Hi. Ok, so you work full time and he's at home. What about level of education? Also how are the household duties and responsibilities divided? Have you always been the primary breadwinner?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 11:57 PM
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Not going to argue with you because I agree. I'll only add this point Mediocre sex can be overlooked in a healthy relationship. Superstar sex does not justify a toxic or abusive relationship. Intimacy is something that both parties should strive for. Healthy sex is one way to foster that. You should always be present at all times. The use of the deathbed argument is useful at times in order to look at the big picture. An example would be focusing on your career and neglecting your family.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 10:09 PM
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Yes. It seems contradictory. I'll rephrase. Sex is important because it is the glue that holds relationships together. You can have good sex and be in a toxic relationship. Sex isn't the be all end all. When I say in the grand scheme of things it's unimportant, what i mean is when you're in your deathbed the quality of the relationships you build and leave behind are what's important. Whether the sex was good or meh is really irrelevant. The only issue is if you're unfulfilled you won't get that…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 08:50 PM
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Can't answer that question without more context. I dont want to say you won't find another guy like him, but the honest truth is that a man with his qualities is hard to find. In the grand scheme of things the quality of sex in a relationship is unimportant. When you're 70, you're not going to care much how good the sex was. It's being there for each other. It's having children that were raised properly and in a healthy home. Not saying it's not important. Because it's a physical need and the gl…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 08:24 PM
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So he's a good guy. He has all the traits of a good husband and a good father. Doesn't cheat. Treats you well. I'm assuming he's less experienced in his relationships. This may be an unpopular opinion, but intimacy and sex is a duty in a relationship. Everything can be good, but without intimacy, you're missing the fuel for the fire. Both parties have a responsibility to make it work when it comes to intimacy. Your current relationship is more like roommates, and if you guys don't do anything ab…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 04:54 PM
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How many partners have you had before him?
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/23 04:24 PM
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It doesn't work that way. If he's ready he'll see it right away If he's not ready, he won't see it until he's ready. It's less about who you are and more about where his head is at the current phase of his life.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 05:20 PM
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Your argument that a man can sleep with multiple women because he can get them all pregnant and ensure paternity is valid. A woman is physiologically designed to produce one offspring at a time. During this time, she will be weaker and more vulnerable. Whereas a man is able to produce an infinite amount of sperm and impregnate many women. That point of view, although it's valid, it doesn't take into consideration the social and economic constraints, and neither does it take the psychological imp…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 05:02 PM
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Do you feel like you have to stay in and save this relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 02:53 PM
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Where did you find this guy? How bad did he beat you?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 02:28 PM
2

So you're far away from your family. Do you have any support where you are other than with him? Do you have a place to go to?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 02:25 PM
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All this other stuff you mention are problems that if both parties want to solve are easy to deal with. The violence on the other hand, is the real problem. What country are you in? Are you away from your family?
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/23 01:59 PM
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