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EquivalentOtherwise/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 07:30 AM
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I guess I can’t blame them...been burned one too many times I’m sure. To set the record straight-I’ve been working since 13 years old and if I were in it for the money I probably wouldn’t have settled for a civil ceremony...he is definitely a different person now. Everything is about making more money and being the “ruling class” (his words).
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 06:57 PM
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Thank you for the sound advice!
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 06:44 PM
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You know, I’ve been seriously considering this route, getting my masters, looking into ways of creating passive income...the downside is spending the next 5-10 semi youthful years in a lie. I don’t think I have the mental fortitude for that, coupled with the incessant criticism...that’s like a recipe for cancer or a mental breakdown. What will make me the best mother for the two innocent lives who are the most vulnerable?
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 04:29 PM
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Our state doesn’t recognize domestic partnership as a legal union. It is intimidating to go against someone who is powerful in status and wealth. But if he resents me that much, maybe he won’t put up much of a fight. I definitely have no intention of making it difficult and 50/50 is right for the kids. Is staying in a dead relationship more damaging to children than separating? My friend said it’s better to come from a broken home than live in one. Idk
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 04:16 PM
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Do men ever have a change of heart or is he pretty much done with the relationship?
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 04:01 PM
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When you say I’m along for the ride, what does that mean? Just trying to understand your interpretation of this situation.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 12:24 PM
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I appreciate the thoughtful reply, and the resource! I will definitely check it out.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 11:33 AM
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I wish I could go back in time and tell my 24 year old self that he will always be looking for the next shiny thing.. ugh
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 11:32 AM
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He’s actually pretty smart, just kinda narcissistic
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 11:21 AM
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I don’t view breaking up a family as uncomplicated. If he prefers talking to other women, why doesn’t he leave?
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 08:37 AM
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Just thought I would add that my spouse wanted to marry me to advance his career. A family man is seen in a more positive light in his career...ph and in his words he wanted “a trophy wife” it goes both ways.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/20 07:46 AM
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