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I mean if this isn't attraction or the start of a relationship, then I don't know what is. Honestly could there be a better story? Not really. Sharing feelings and thoughts, laughing, with a little touching. Feelings of comfort and being present.
/r/seduction11/10/22 05:03 AM
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I don't find this to be true all the time. From my experience most women enjoy the conversation and compliment. Yes it's true, not all women want to be approached, and you sound like one of them, which is completely fine. However some women are open to it and they like to talk, and they will politely tell you if they're interested or not. And you can definitely tell by their body language to see their level of comfort.
/r/seduction11/10/22 12:14 AM
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I wouldn't listen to any of these idiots on here. Nobody finds what they want in the first approach. You just have to put in the reps. Be polite and honest. A compliment is necessary because you need to show intent otherwise she'll be wondering why you're speaking with her. Be present.
/r/seduction10/10/22 11:51 PM
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You don't have to finish for her to have a good time. Also, stop watching porn immediately will kill your sexual energy.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:57 AM
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You have no idea what you're talking about. I cold approach and was never humiliated. If you do it correctly they're usually flattered, you'll get her number, or she's just unavailable. So you're going to sit around your entire life waiting to hit on a girl you "know"? Fuck that. How do you even know someone if you don't meet them? Be a man and go for what you desire. Sitting around waiting for some shit is pathetic and thats what betas do.
/r/seduction05/12/21 07:02 AM
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You need to be groomed and all that shit. But first let me give you a lesson. Don't change yourself to try and impress her, guys often do this with no experience. Be 100% true to yourself and who you are. Women are amazing at recognizing the bullshit "nice guy" appearance. They subconsciously know if you're not being genuine just to get her to like you or in her pants. Don't act needy, don't fake agree with everything she's saying. Instead disagree a bit and show you have your own beliefs and st…
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:49 AM
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Good, you're killing it then.
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:27 AM
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Good on you man for realizing. This is totally okay, as a man we have to mature and learn things the hard way. If you can understand your mistakes and apply your lessons to the next girl it will work out great for you. I really have high hopes for you being able to honestly admit this stuff, I've had the same exact thoughts about past women in my life, but I learn everytime. Trust me there will be an even better girl waiting for you where you will just naturally never do these things.
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:25 AM
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Don't approach women when you're drunk, that's just stupid. They deserve more than that.
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:18 AM
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When women can sense you're okay with rejection and their shit tests, that really makes them want you.
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:15 AM
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This is all true, take notes. It doesn't matter what your income is or what car you drive if you can't follow these simple steps. You have to have the mentality there are tons of attractive single women, and you can pick any which one you desire, and it all comes down to flipping your mindset which will lead to a self confidence.
/r/seduction05/12/21 04:00 AM
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Fuck yeah dude good job having some balls. Word of advice don't ask girls for stuff. Be assertive and say it in a way like it's gonna happen. Women will explain themselves if they like you, if they just blow you off or flake with no explanation then you have your answer and onto the next girl. Just remember us men have to show interest first. Nothing wrong with that that's how nature works. Be persistently PLAYFUL with this girl, not NEEDY and she will come around and make time for you.
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:53 PM
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First off desiring attractive women is not creepy in any way, it's biological, it's how all of us exist, your parents hooking up. Secondly I know this feeling. You tell yourself over and over that you can approach this girl, but you can't actually do it because you're just denying yourself in your head. It's happened to me, but I remember if I didn't do it, I let that opportunity walk away without knowing. You'll be so proud you did what you wanted to do, regardless of the outcome, this is the s…
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:33 PM
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They didn't help, she was already turned off. Take the word "hope" out of your texting vocabulary. Don't make small talk like "I hope you have a good day" and all this bullshit, that's what her friends are for. When you've been together for months you can say that cheesy stuff. She knows you're just trying to be the "nice guy" that cares about her so much when you barely even know her, that comes way later. You made it way too serious for her early on and laid all your cards on the table, like y…
/r/seduction04/12/21 03:12 PM
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That may be true, but girls know if you're trying to hide your desire for her man, that's how you become her FRIEND. It doesn't matter what religion she is. All men biologically know to spread their seed, and show sexual desire to a girl, but not directly, flirty. No man doesn't want intimacy, girls know that, don't hide it but embrace it. I'm not saying constantly stare at her boobs or tell her you want to fuck her, but be assertive and show her you desire her in a playful way. You need to acce…
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:57 PM
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I would say keep doing your approaching and building your confidence. It's not like the universe is against you or some weird shit, stop believing that. Maybe don't try so hard, but still try sometimes. And I agree you don't want to settle with someone you aren't sexually attracted to. I don't think relationships last if you don't maintain that desire for each other.
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:47 PM
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Bro there is so many things you did wrong I can't even explain. Everything just reeks of neediness. You should have tried to kiss her again later, the first time rejection is a shit test just to see how you will act. If she didn't show interest I would've ghosted her and been on my way. Never try and be friends with a girl or win her over, you'll be exactly that, a friend. Send me your email, and I'll send you a PDF of a book I love called "the secret language of attraction." It's going to teach…
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:26 PM
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Yeah it should 100% be reversed. He should be doing all of that, except for the feeling good part. You should always just display your true self, never try to impress. I actually don't prefer being approached. I just feel like I didn't earn it.
/r/seduction04/12/21 02:07 PM
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I cold approached a girl at the store today. Looked at her and said "Have we met"? She said "I don't think so." I replied "Well I think we should meet." She immediately smiled and said I have a boyfriend. So I said but you want to upgrade right. She laughed. I said "what happens when he breaks your heart?" That's where I come in. Then I said I'm just messing with you, have a good day. You have to be playfully persistent, not needy persistent. Have some confidence in yourself and assume she wants…
/r/seduction04/12/21 01:58 PM
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Yeah I can't agree completely. The most successful dudes in the world still have huge amounts of anxiety approaching and talking to girls, they suck so they pay these dating coaches to learn confidence. Confidence is about being okay with yourself, knowing your worth and stop acting like every attractive girl you see is better than you, they're not.
/r/seduction02/12/21 04:54 PM
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Never ask a girl for anything. After a short conversation you say "lets exchange numbers" pull your phone out and give it to her or take hers. The best way is to put your number in her phone, then text yourself something like "you're cute omg." Then reply a bit later haha. The more bold and assuming you are the better.
/r/seduction02/12/21 08:33 AM
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Whip out your dic.
/r/seduction02/12/21 08:26 AM
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Whatever a girl says, be playful like you don't care. I have a boyfriend - me too or wanna upgrade? You say that to all girls? - maybe.. but I think you'll be the last one. I'm crazy - that's alright it would be boring otherwise. It's complicated - well I'm a natural problem solver. Last girl I talked to gave me 2 objections but I just playfully didn't care and she willingly gave me her number, even texted me immediately. Take it from an average dude, it works. Just be playfully persistent, not …
/r/seduction02/12/21 08:17 AM
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Yeah foreplay is important. Her body needs to naturally lubricate. Kiss her all over, suck her nipples. Always think how can I please her instead of yourself. Just do romantic things and always take it slow. Body massages, dragging your nails on her skin, play with her hair. Women can have multiple orgams, you can give her one before you even start. She will always remember the way you make her feel. But she will feel if you're being selfish.
/r/seduction02/12/21 08:08 AM
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As men you just accept the harsh reality that we have to show our interests first. Best not wait around for another bro and just make you move. What's the worst that could happen? She rejects you. Big deal we all deal with that. But she'll either say yes and become your wife or at the very least she'll feel flattered you showed interest. Girls love validation. And trust me you'll be so proud of yourself you did it, regardless of the out come, then you'll have built some confidence for your next …
/r/seduction02/12/21 08:06 AM
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It's not your fault for wanting to stay with a physically attractive woman. By default our brains are wired to be attracted to fertility and youthful women fit to make more humans. It's just nature, that's why we generally like bigger boobs, butts, wider hips. But yes you have to rationally decide if she is worth all that, but it can be difficult because the logical part of your brain is feuding with the primal part.
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:59 AM
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The worst thing you can do is think. Just introduce yourself. If you're genuinely curious about someone the conversation will flow naturally.
/r/seduction02/12/21 07:46 AM
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Email
/r/seduction27/11/21 10:58 PM
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Email
/r/seduction27/11/21 10:57 PM
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Sure
/r/seduction27/11/21 03:21 PM
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A nice guy tries to please women. He often forsakes his own opinions, beliefs, and behavior that puts on a fake act to try and impress. He fake agrees. He's not being his true self. He has a large filter because he doesn't want to offend. He's worried about the girl not liking him. He puts her on a pedestal. He's afraid to set boundaries or put his foot down against bad behavior because he doesn't want to lose her. He can't lead a relationship, he had no standards for himself, insecure. Won't ma…
/r/seduction27/11/21 03:12 PM
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Dude please listen to me. You need to read this book "the secret language of attraction" by Matt Artisan. It's 5 bucks for a digital download. It will open your mind about building your confidence. Trust me dude. Send me your email in a DM and I will send you a PDF. I struggled with the same issues until I read this book. It will refresh you with an abundant mindset. First thing you have to do is take a step back. Get out of your negative mindset and take on a brand new confident and abundant mi…
/r/seduction27/11/21 02:54 PM
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Mating in this world is fucked up. Men are taught all the wrong ways to treat women growing up, be the nice guy. The average dude has to read alot of material, get rejection, build confidence, screw things up, approach, practice learn social skills, list goes on etc. Women just wake up and generally not over eat and just stand around. The responsibility and risk is basically all on men just so we can have some physical intimacy.
/r/seduction26/11/21 11:53 AM
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How often do you get approached like that. Sucks you might have declined the most alpha dude you may ever meet. Oh well guess some other girl will have him.
/r/seduction26/11/21 11:43 AM
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Good job man. I know you're proud of yourself for just doing it. It only gets easier and this is the best way to find the most attractive women simply because you subconsciously communicate to their brain "I'm not afraid of tension or rejection." This is highly desirable to women.
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:47 AM
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Sometimes after making heavy eye contact with a really attractive girl I can have a hard time listening because I'm so focused on the details in her eyes. Other times I can listen really well because I'm not distracted and so focused on her beauty. You can convey sexual desires just with eye contact and body language, you barely even need to say much. Women just want to talk about themselves. If you ask an open ended question and express interest she will open up very quickly making it very simp…
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:44 AM
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The only thing I look for in a girl before I approach is her left ring finger. I always feel stupid hitting on married women. Don't wait for an opportunity or her eye contact. If it's there, great. If it's not you can make it by getting her attention.
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:38 AM
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Just say "this is totally random, but you're cute, I'm thinking chuckie cheese for our date later." The only way to get the hot girl is show her you're okay with tension and rejection. Never hide your intentions that's what nice guys do. Instead be upfront. It's all about that body language. Lower your voice tonality, make strong eye contact, slow your words down. Repeat it to yourself it'll sound sexy as fuck and women love being desired by a confident dude.
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:25 AM
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It's not over. Give it a month of space, just avoid her. Her emotions and impression of you will reset, maybe she'll get a subtle hint you're with another girl. When you see her again, act like nothing happened. Start with a fresh way to boost her mood. You don't need to say "I'm here for you" EVER. You just give that hint from your attention and body language.
/r/seduction26/11/21 10:22 AM
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I would definitely make a move. Just do it. If you wait too long she'll think you're just not interested.
/r/seduction25/11/21 04:09 AM
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The more tense the situation and approach, the more she will understand you don't care about the tension or rejection. This alone is highly desirable by woman. Approaching a smoking cute girl on the beach isn't easy. The reason women go above and beyond with their physical appearance nearly everywhere they go is for one reason only - they want to attract the most alpha dude with the biggest balls.
/r/seduction25/11/21 03:20 AM
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Very true.
/r/seduction25/11/21 02:54 AM
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What you need to understand is attracting women on the internet versus real life is VERY different. On a dating app the women have like 100 likes per day so naturally they're going to pick the guy with the best photo, cutest, body, career etc. In real life all that matters is your confidence. I'd say get off the dating apps man. You ain't gonna find something real. You need to approach real women to build your confidence and self esteem. You need to immediately make them feel safe and secure in …
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:59 AM
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First thing. All that extra stuff to impress women isn't a big deal, it helps, but even guys with all that stuff fail miserably because their body language and confidence needs work. Read "the secret language of attraction" by Matt Artisan. It's 5 bucks or send me your email and I'll send you the PDF. This book will tell you exactly what women subconsciously desire in a man, and how to tap into her animalistic language with your body language intent, and build confidence in yourself. It helped m…
/r/seduction21/11/21 11:28 AM
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Never, ever ask a girl for permission. Always assume and say "we're gonna make out now" or "lets" while leaning in. If she denies you that's okay, it's only a test. She wants to gauge your reaction. Will you be chill and say "that's okay I'll get you later", or let your let your pussy emotions control you? You try again later, and she sees you don't care she rejected you, that will turn her on big-time because then she trusts you. If you want to get real dirty, lean in slowly, never break eye co…
/r/seduction21/11/21 10:46 AM
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Also women suck at rejection they can't handle the tension like men. They will say the opposite thing they want so they don't have to risk the rejection of it not happening.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:51 AM
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Exactly this. Women love men who can handle and deal with tension. Show her you can handle the tension all night, until she gives in because women suck at handling tension.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:47 AM
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You should've said okay then we're not friends either and don't get back to her. Forget her and move to a girl that wants to date you. Don't chase, replace.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:37 AM
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Exactly this. Women literally are fueled by emotions. Good or bad they don't care.
/r/seduction21/11/21 07:24 AM
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When a girl is "sunny" or in a good mood, that's when you escalate with sexual tension and flirting to eventually lead to a date. You'll know this when she's talking alot using alot of emojis. When she's "rainy" or in a bad mood you usually just wait it out. Women's mood changes like the weather daily and it really has nothing to do with us as men. You'll know this from very short texts, not engaging or seemingly not interested. There are ways to convert rainy to summer. There are many different…
/r/seduction21/11/21 06:26 AM
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"Having your life together" translation is "I'm completely okay with who I am and won't change my behaviors or be more pleasing to women to try and impress them."
/r/seduction21/11/21 06:17 AM
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If you lead the relationship and set boundaries, usually the woman wants to be submissive and will change her behavior when she realizes you aren't willing to accept her shit behavior because of your standards. You show you're willing to walk away will increase her attraction to you and make her loyal to you, this is how its supposed to be. Women are meant to be submissive and be led in a relationship.
/r/seduction21/11/21 05:34 AM
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All you need is confidence, that's it. This is only acquired by approaching women and having correct body language. Showing you can deal with tension and rejection easily will make a woman want you. Also persistence is key. They will always give you objections to see if you'll push through or run away. She wants the man that pushes through. It signals confidence, security, able to deal with tension, safety to her subconscious brain because it says you actually want her for her, not only for sex.…
/r/seduction21/11/21 04:14 AM
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I would've said okay bye not interested in being your friend, it's a giant test man you push through it or walk away. Don't waste your time orbiting her waiting for good moment fuck that. THAT'S how you get friendzone. Be very clear about your desire through body language. If she doesn't take it she's just testing to see if ur gonna get mad or just be chill as fuck and walk away then you move on or she'll come crawling back.
/r/seduction20/11/21 10:43 PM
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A girls number 1 priority is safety. She knows you want sex and intimacy, if she feels you ain't lying about it and just being genuine she will respect that but she will test you about it for sure. Never hide your intentions. You don't want to be friends, make that clear but not in a weird way. Make moves cuz they aint gonna do it until they fully trust you. Be blunt and a little bit of a dick, push pull but don't over do it or be mean. Speak your mind don't worry about what she thinks, she will…
/r/seduction20/11/21 10:39 PM
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