Er3016 Archive

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6	Guy I’m seeing going red pill I'm sorry, but I don't see why you would assume he is going red pill. Based on your post, he seems to be hurt by not getting what he wanted, and acting immaturely in response. Sure, there is overlap between immaturity and red pill behaviours, and someone that follows the red pill might also act this way, but that wouldn't be my first assumption. Either way, whether he is being red pill or just immature, that behaviour is enough justification to cut ties	/r/ExRedPill	31/07/26 08:31 AM
1	Do most feminist / left women truly desire eliminating male gender roles in relationships? If not, then why? Do you have any sources about the statistical gender gap you mentioned? I would love to learn more about it. I don't think the "red pill" guys represent a majority of guys, the same way that I don't belive the women on FDS (which are emotional parasites) represent a majority of women. That's also why I didn't use stoic in the same sense of those TikTok edits, but in the original sense. Where it is certainly a good trait to have during tough situations. The same way there are emotinally immature …	/r/ExRedPill	07/07/26 07:58 AM
0	Do most feminist / left women truly desire eliminating male gender roles in relationships? If not, then why? I think you have some good points, and some I can't agree with. One of them is the invisible emotional labour. It feels like you're not considering the invisible emotional labour that men do: offering safe spaces for her to vent (even if some men need to learn when to let her vent and when to offer solutions), being often the one to decide, equally stroke women's egos (the old "does this dress make me look fat" or "would you still love me if I was a worm"), being expected to be more stoic in tou…	/r/ExRedPill	06/07/26 10:44 PM
7	fear of men potentially being redpillers I think you have a couple of factors that could protect you. First of all, if someone is deep in the red pill, chances are they have some degree of bigotry in them. As a trans women, those men might avoid you for that. Second, as an ex red piller, you are more aware of their tactics than most women. If they start using tactics like negging or spouting some red pill talking points, you are likely to easily identify it. But some general tips is having clear and defined boundaries, and enforcing th…	/r/ExRedPill	26/06/26 03:56 PM
4	Depressed about aging (21F) Youth is indeed seen as a physical attractive aspect. But men are not some animals only attracted to youth. Youth is not even a majority of what makes someone physically attractive. You will probably have so many qualities, both physical and in terms of personality, that make you more attractive than most 20 year old girls. I'm only 25, but there is no way I would date an 18 year old over a 29 year old. Maturity is something that matters to me. Regarding if you'll find the right man or if he wil…	/r/ExRedPill	20/06/26 08:35 PM
6	Depressed about aging (21F) If you can, try to avoid the sources that are putting those thoughts in your head. If it's from a social media algorithm, try changing it. If it's your cousins, if you can, try either talking less with them about that topic, or just address it with indifference and just move on. They might be trying to rile you up. What makes you think you won't be able to find love in your 20s or 30s?	/r/ExRedPill	20/06/26 08:25 PM
3	Is 'Survivorship Bias' making us out of touch, or is dating discourse just too extreme? I feel like you're not really giving enough context to really understand your question. What do you mean when you say "However, he got afraid because of insecurities and self sabotage occured". Or, can you get elaborate what you mean by survivorship bias making you out of touch?	/r/ExRedPill	11/05/26 06:38 AM
22	do non red pill men exist? Yes	/r/ExRedPill	03/05/26 07:47 PM
33	The Red Pill Paradox: If women are truly "villains," why work so hard to attract them? I'm not saying I agree with the logic behind it, but I can give a brief explanation since I was somewhat in the rabbit hole. I belive it comes from two different factors. On one hand, they believe there are exception to those rules (aka tradwives), especially among women with low body count. That's part of why they obsess so much over body count. They belive, based on a study, that women's capability of pair matching (in other words, loving your SO) is dependent on the body count. So RPillers th…	/r/ExRedPill	07/04/26 07:14 PM