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Literally a conversation with every guy in Tinder who has an empty bio 😂😂😂
/r/seduction31/12/20 10:31 AM
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Depends on what you define as masculinity. Confidence can be expressed despite having very soft voice and rather reserved body language. In fact one of the most confident men I've ever seen was the most silent person in the room. As for body, I wouldn't worry too much as long as you're working on it, this year was tricky for quite many of us.
/r/seduction27/12/20 03:42 PM
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Aaah, got it, it seems that we interpret this phrase in different ways, as I haven't read the book and operate with information given within this thread. From woman's perspective I'd say when a guy is showing his interest through actions, then his interest is rather clear. It is not instictive, because then guys interest is obvious ;-) As for the opposite effect... It can happen if you are voicing your interest, but I think this usually happens in conjunction with other factors. I can elaborate …
/r/seduction25/12/20 03:00 AM
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Yeah, I'm referring to making your feelings unclear. I don't think I've seen even one example of healthy relationship with such approach during the dating stage. Of course, there should be assessing if this specific person is a right fit for you, but usually you know whether you are interested in the other person or not (even if you are not sure yet if they are a good match). Making your feelings unclear seems immature at best, manipulative at worst. Healthy relationships are based on communicat…
/r/seduction25/12/20 02:16 AM
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Exactly. It doesn't matter what standarts other people have, what matters is what is necessary for you for emotionally satisfying relationship. There are people who are fine just communicating on dates once per week with no other communication, and there are people who would prefer to have 2-3 short calls in-between to keep the connection. That's why there are so many different people and not everyone is gonna be compatible.
/r/seduction25/12/20 01:31 AM
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Thanks goodness. Just noted it this way because quite many US-targeted books that promise to make you socially successful simply don't work that well in my culture. Not just my opinion, this seems to be a general idea that the mentality is too different.
/r/seduction25/12/20 01:04 AM
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This may be a cultural difference, but in my social circle this is considered as a sign of not really being interested or even red-flag-ish, depending on other circumstances, which leads to one clarifying talk and probably moving on. Just for another perspective.
/r/seduction25/12/20 12:32 AM
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Yeah, maybe it is for the best. For them.
/r/seduction19/11/20 12:19 AM
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Majority won't ever talk openly about that. Only in my circle of friends at least 3 girls were sexually abused as a kids. I mean kids, not even teenagers. In f*cking kindergarten. And that's only in a circle of close friends where we are able to open up to each other about such stuff. If you think everyone is gonna open up about this to all men they know in real life - you are mistaken.
/r/seduction18/11/20 04:42 PM
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You're welcome 🤗 it takes time to sort it out.
/r/seduction12/11/20 01:32 PM
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Uhh, not gonna lie, your statement "all women go for bad guys" is extremely nice-guyish. As a woman thay grew up in emotionally abusive household I'm wondering if you're really that obvious or just manipulative. But since you're asking it here (and not saying it on a date), I'll assume the first option for now. The only women that would be attracted to such attitude are the extreme people-pleasers that would have the urge to prove that they are not like other women. The ones who need approval fo…
/r/seduction12/11/20 11:07 AM
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Totally agree. Even on the text level gives off a strong vibe that it is better not to get involved with.
/r/seduction12/11/20 10:13 AM
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