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He can, but he should be focusing his efforts on improving himself. That's the only way he will be able to move on.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:29 PM
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To maintain someone's interest long-term you will need to regularly present new and exciting opportunities to experience together. This could be accomplished by many means such as traveling, going out for meals, backpacking, road trips, or anything else to break up the day-to-day routine of life. Generally, people look for companions that can improve upon their own lives. Maintaining this kind of lifestyle can be very expensive, which is why you should have your financial and career affairs in o…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 09:31 PM
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As you can see, muscles and appearance are helpful for attracting new mates but less so in maintaining that attraction. Attraction can not be negotiated -- once it's lost, it's lost. Over time, the familiar becomes less exciting.
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:40 PM
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Dogs are great companions and can help you grow to become a natural leader, if you present them plenty of opportunities demonstrating you are the leader. By this I mean taking them on hikes, having them chill at the crag when you climb, trail run off leash, etc, basically by bringing them along to do the things you already do. You will want to learn how to properly train your dog by reinforcing good behavior and by not rewarding bad behavior. Do your research, there are tons of resources describ…
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:31 PM
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Update?
/r/askTRP16/12/20 07:30 PM
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Seconded. Know a super hot ortho surgeon. Dated an NP. Chicks with good jobs and $ dont seem to cling as much as lower value women.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:19 PM
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Tell her to come over to fuck. Since you already have it shouldn't be a big deal. The worst that can happen is that she says no and you break a plate -- big deal. You also get to skip the BS and games. My question is, why do you want the woman you fuck to feel attached?
/r/askTRP11/08/20 06:59 PM
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Smh...this is literally in the sidebar bro. You just soft next and keeping do your thing. There are plenty of weights to lift, who gives a fuck about this one lift?? You are the prize bro, these weights should be begging to be lifted. Keep increasing smv spin plates read sidebar
/r/askTRP11/08/20 06:52 PM
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You're right and this entire sub's understanding of testosterone is flawed and it shows that 99% haven't studied anatomy and physiology past a basic level.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/20 05:53 PM
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This one. Then you lean back with your hands behind the head and pretend to daydream about it
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:39 AM
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I've had girls respond that way too. As long as you convey you don't really care --because of your abundance mentality-- you're good.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 07:32 PM
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Either ignore or reply with something like "go spread your wings girl"
/r/askTRP13/05/20 06:25 PM
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I agree -- experience is the best teacher. I think at such a young age it is easy to rationalize that you like someone "for who they are" when all you really want is sex. When I was that age I certainly chased pussy and convinced myself that I "loved" the girls I was regularly having sex with, without realizing that all I really wanted was pleasure. Perhaps because I was conditioned to feel guilty about sex outside of love.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:44 AM
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Had the same thing happen, girl working front desk added me without asking. After seeing her observe me swim in the pool and check me out in my speedo (there are giant windows between the pool and desk) I asked her after that workout if her neck hurt from looking over so much. I think saying that was the right move as it made her blush, sexualized our interaction, and put her in my frame. Not long after I invited her to hangout and within 30 minutes we were fucking. After a year she continues to…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 12:36 AM
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It's already over, you can't negotiate desire. It's not your turn anymore. You demonstrated low value by trying to win her back after you broke it off because you realized you missed having regular pussy. She'll never see you the same again. If she accepted your offer to re establish the relationship, but didn't want to have sex, would you accept? What does she offer you other than a steady source of a fuckable wet hole? Read The Rational Male. IMO that's the best place to start to begin your re…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:20 AM
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has you pegged as beta already in a LTR already looking to branch swing (according to you) history of cheating Why are you sticking around? You have Oneitis, plain and simple. Move on and stop wasting your energy and time on this hoe
/r/askTRP27/04/20 06:07 AM
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I used to bite my nails and I brought this up with a therapist years ago. I imagine what he told me applies to you as well. He said that I bit my nails as an anxiety-response, meaning that whenever I was ruminating over something I was avoiding, my body needed to take action to respond to that stress which manifested as biting my nails. Your body recognizes the need to take action to address some problem. Ask yourself, what are you avoiding doing? How often are you distracting yourself? To stop …
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:20 PM
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Sounds like Oneitis to me bud. As for your question, well you failed what may have been her shit/comfort tests. You told her “that’s not who I am and I will never change the core of my being to fit another person’s wants." You should certainly feel this way, but never be this overt and say it aloud. You should have maintained frame and assumed amused mastery, instead saying something like "Only good girls get flowers. You'll have to earn them first 😉" It sounds like you were headed for a LTR sin…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 04:27 PM
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You can show your appreciation and still be independent. Your relationship might actually improve since you're all no longer under the same roof.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:29 AM
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12/M/Your mom
/r/askTRP28/03/20 08:35 PM
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I just brought them over. My parents didn't care and left us alone. In the beginning, I'd have girls come over later at night to decrease the chances they'd meet -- this seems to put girls at ease. If you show any insecurity about living with your parents, girls will pick up on it. I think it worked out for me because I was doing quite well in class and was always busy with work before I was able to move into my own place. I was demonstrating that my mission came first and that I was making move…
/r/askTRP28/02/20 03:46 PM
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You are either talking about the gym/ working out way too much around them to the point you are annoying, or they subconsciously sense your increase in value and are shit testing you, gauging your reactions, to affirm/deny their suspicions.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 10:53 PM
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They want you to take the initiative. Timing it appropriately is key
/r/askTRP26/01/20 09:32 PM
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Might be this. I have an uncle who lives in Alaska and he works either on a boat just like that from the deadliest catch show or as a bear guard for various logging companies. As a bear guard I think this means that he protects groups of people from grizzly bears and has to kill them sometimes. You can imagine doing this work requires great frame and it shows when he visits for the holidays. Vicelike grip for a handshake, laser focused eyes contact when speaking or listening, yet charismatic and…
/r/askTRP05/01/20 02:49 PM
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If she truly wanted to get with you, do you really think she would bring up her boyfriend from another school? Learn what an orbiter is, why women keep them around, and think about this situation.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 06:23 PM
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DO YOU EVEN LIFT??!
/r/askTRP30/10/19 04:45 AM
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I'm going to disagree here because I didn't explicitly end the relationship, I just set my boundaries. She realized I wasn't going to become anything more to her so she branch swung.
/r/askTRP07/10/19 01:25 AM
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Just to add to this, I plated a single mom (the first kind) and she nailed the pornstar act for months. Pretty awesome. As things kept going, I could tell she was seeking something that more resembled an LTR, so eventually I told her I didn't have the time or inclination to take it any further. She respectfully apologized and said she would back away. Two weeks later she got a boyfriend and is no longer a plate. That's hypergamy for ya
/r/askTRP07/10/19 12:28 AM
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I'm going to withhold from the usual echo-chamber "advice" you typically see in posts like this and try to give you some actionable advice. Unfortunately, holding a full time job is necessary for a stable income and sense of purpose. While working a 9-5 can be tedious, it is profoundly better than living with the anxiety and depression that comes with being homeless, unemployed, and broke. Perhaps you are feeling distraught because you have no real work experience and have no idea what to do aft…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 12:19 AM
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I was thinking similarly to your first idea -- in a way it's a shit test. Could she be testing OP's frame?
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:38 AM
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The first Hemingway book I read was The Old Man and the Sea, and this was immediately after I had finished Moby Dick. I don't know how familiar you are with Melville's work but he tends to drag and be overly descriptive. Getting through Moby Dick was a slog, so transitioning right after that to Hemingway's simpleness and clarity gave me a sense of relief that I imagine a gardener must feel after a great pruning. Your experience could be different. But I always recommend The Old Man and the Sea f…
/r/askTRP10/09/19 09:06 PM
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Hemingway
/r/askTRP10/09/19 04:02 PM
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It's common knowledge but can be a challenge to do everyday when you're working fulltime, living in Phoenix where it's 110 outside, and taking night classes. Not saying you're wrong but a multivitamin is the next best option it seems.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/19 10:20 PM
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Of course she wants you to feel crazy for suggesting you pay independently -- she's manipulating you. She's not your child or your wife. She's just a person with a vagina that you have attributed value to for your own reasons, and she is using that to get what she wants. You're not helping her, or yourself, from allowing this to continue.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:14 PM
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Scribe for about a dozen orthopedic surgeons here, many of them specializing in knees. Arthroscopy is a very routine and minimally invasive procedure to repair a damaged meniscus. Your doctor (if he is a surgeon) will know immediately after reviewing your MRI and examining you if it warrants arthroscopy. Some people can live with a torn meniscus cause they do fuck-all and get around every day with a motorized scooter. For a young active guy like yourself, ask yourself how much the knee pain is i…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 11:29 PM
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Sounds like you need to focus on class. I hope you're taking English.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 11:49 PM
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Hang the purse from your erect penis to show her how alpha you are.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:28 PM
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What happens if you learn your husband is cheating on you? What if he dies young? I sincerely hope nothing like that ever happens to you, but these things do happen to people and it would be foolish to presume they never will. Your happiness can not be conditional on any one person other than yourself. Your husband is fallible like every other person. If he leaves you one way or another, will you forever be alone and unhappy? This is how many men become cynical and turn to the red pill. By belie…
/r/askTRP12/08/19 05:31 PM
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Damn this guys alpha
/r/askTRP06/08/19 09:21 PM
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Shorthand for light switch effect
/r/askTRP22/07/19 08:16 PM
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It can work in your favor if you do it in a way that escalates the situation (think amused mastery). She's doing it to get your attention anyway. I met a current plate in class that started way in January. The entire first week she kept looking back at me during lecture, which I found kinda annoying, but I later went up to her and asked if her neck hurt....from turning and looking back at me so much. She immediately blushed and I banged her that weekend.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 05:05 AM
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Ernest Hemingway. Start with The Old Man and the Sea. Also see Islands in the Stream and For Whom the Bell Tolls
/r/askTRP17/06/19 11:14 PM
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She pissed in his mouth after he begged for it
/r/askTRP07/06/19 12:02 AM
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I guess I should be more specific. I work part time for a few surgeons and their PAs within a specialized practice. I need to continue working with these men since they will write me letters of rec and mentor me. Finding a new job is not an option right now. Soon I will be transitioning to full time and working with even more docs. The current office manager is a woman however the previous one, the man who hired me, no longer works there. I negotiated a higher starting pay rate with him before I…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 05:49 AM
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"She's not yours, it's just your turn" My ex had a long history of moving around the country bouncing through life between boyfriends before she met me. I thought I'd be the guy to save her (lol). After we moved in together the dynamic changed, and before I knew it she was already moving along.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 12:04 AM
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I have a nutribullet which totally changed my protein shake game. I can now add oats, chia seeds, peanut butter, bananas, and frozen fruit to my almond milk and protein powder. I look forward to drinking these every day
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:09 AM
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Lmfao the try hards in this sub coming out over a fucking protein shake
/r/askTRP17/04/19 01:06 AM
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Probably those who can't pay off their student loans, rent, and other expenses right out of college.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:47 PM
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Exact same experience here
/r/askTRP09/04/19 11:56 PM
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Last week I examined a cadaver in class for the first time in my life. I had about two minutes of anxiety upon seeing it whole -- the spongy looking flesh cut and stripped away, sunken lifeless face and hollow eyes, the smell of formaldehyde.. but that subsided as I was more interested in observing an actual body instead of plastic models. It's kinda crazy to think that she was a thinking, feeling, living person...but she donated her body to be cut open so people like me could learn. The more I …
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:22 PM
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She wouldn't have texted him back immediately of this was the case
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:33 AM
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I apologize for this uneducated question, but have your ejaculations changed at all in terms of pleasure, consistency, volume, etc?
/r/askTRP29/03/19 12:52 AM
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Not helpful
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:45 PM
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The best course of action now is to just move forward with what you've learned from the experience. An easy lay with a fat chick is unfulfilling? Good, now you will be less tempted to repeat this behavior and can focus your efforts on greater things. No point in throwing yourself a pity party.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:37 PM
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Don't go to the wedding if you're worried about relapsing. Don't even put yourself in that position if you're not absolutely sure you can abstain. No one else is going to hold you accountable for your actions. Does she know you're a recovering alcoholic? You could tell her about your past but might risk devaluing yourself in the process, it just depends on how you go about it. As for your other questions, I'm not getting the sense these statements of hers are shit tests. It seems like you have p…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 02:31 PM
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"ok"
/r/askTRP20/03/19 07:57 PM
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Screenshot texts and save in a hidden folder, you never know what she may do with your phone when you're in the bathroom...
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:47 PM
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I just watched 12 Angry Men, it's a movie about 12 jurors coming to a consensus over a murder trial. It begins with all but one juror voting Guilty, and the one holding out never collapses despite intense scrutiny of the others. I think it's an excellent example of holding frame.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:18 PM
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Unplug your console and put it away, or uninstall your games.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 07:37 PM
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Anything from hemingway
/r/askTRP23/01/19 07:06 PM
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The ideal situation is having 1 plate per class, with girls who don't know each other. Get too greedy (2 Or more in 1 class) and they will eventually realize you are gaming them all, and to save face, they will probably reject you. I'm currently taking a few classes at a local community college that I missed out on during my undergrad so that I may apply to a master's program. Since I am also working and know I will be off to my program by next year, I do not treat it as "don't shit where you ea…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 05:07 AM
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Serious question: what's wrong with the gardein and beyond meat brands?
/r/askTRP12/01/19 09:38 PM
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Your last sentence and first paragraph are very contradictory... what's your goal here? You clearly are lying with all of this vague business talk.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 04:23 PM
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Both. I was at work when I received a huge text message --- probably like 5 or 6 full messages broken up because it was so long --- explaining all of this. Looking back I can see now that this was a big red flag because she clearly had a history of making poor choices for long term partners. It told me that she is the type of person who needs to be in a relationship to feel any self worth, despite how terrible those partners may be to her. The fact that we had sex within a day of meeting each sh…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 05:08 AM
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Within 2 weeks of meeting up with her (through bumble) she dumped her entire history on me...including a miscarriage, divorce, an abusive ex-boyfriend she was still in contact with.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 04:43 AM
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Nice to see a prime example of personal growth on here. Your bullet-pointed assumptions illustrate the indoctrination we all have been raised to believe.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/18 07:29 PM
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If that's your attitude you're right
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:45 AM
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I'm going to disagree with you here. A healthy dose of mushrooms at the right timing and in the right environment can help you rethink and reconsider your "mission" and overall life's trajectory. Psilocybin reconstructs the way you perceive your self and your personal problems, which can help you break out of a negative, pessimistic thought pattern loop.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 10:08 AM
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Give us more details op. Are you a recent college grad? Living at home? Fat? Tell us why you hate yourself at this point in your life.
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:04 AM
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Lifting is one way (and probably the fastest and most convenient for a lot of men) to begin improving your self if you are already not doing so. Lifting requires physical exertion, which improves your mood and helps you fall asleep. Gone (or fewer) are the days of staying up until 3am playing video games. Over time you feel more well rested, stronger, and look better which helps attracting women. Lifting consistently during the week means putting together a plan and sticking to it. Committing to…
/r/askTRP28/10/18 03:00 AM
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Yeah man the others have already said it, but her asking you to "console" her and playing the mental health card is manipulation, whether she knows it or not. You can't fix people and you won't be a savior. Of course it will feel "cruel" to next her, that's exactly what the manipulation is meant to do. But you have to put your needs first above all. Save yourself the trouble and quit her, now. Since you are new to game maybe you don't have much experience, so this feels important. But ultimately…
/r/askTRP25/10/18 07:38 PM
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You are not running enough to "kill gains" Anyone who points to elite endurance type athletes saying that running kills gains has probably never run competitively--to get to that elite marathon level (for example) you are putting in 60 to 100+ miles a week of intense, specific training. And yet there are still guys out there who can run a sub 3 hour marathon and still bench 225 for reps. You are running like 10 miles a week? That's hardly anything. You won't make the gains you want if you don't …
/r/askTRP19/10/18 05:49 AM
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In every relationship I've "loved" someone, that relationship has failed. Does this mean that I am incapable of love? That maybe I just haven't found it yet? Or does this mean that what I thought was love never really existed in the first place? I realized while reading The Rational Male that I'd been conditioned to believe those first two questions. I had never even thought to ask the third. Asking and internalizing the third question sort of nulls the first two. It shifts the paradigm from thi…
/r/askTRP16/10/18 12:05 AM
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Idk man, one of my girls smiles as her eyes roll back...like a junkie or some shit. I am definitely doing something right when that happens.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 01:55 AM
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I once read (then gave away) this extremely helpful book called The Lost Art of Listening. Looks like you might find it useful. Try looking for it on Amazon
/r/askTRP08/10/18 06:18 AM
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She wants the D. She's gonna get the D. It's up to you whether it's yours she gets. If you want to plate your ex... just be careful I guess. If I were you I'd only ever text/talk to her to make logistics for banging. She's your ex for a reason so be careful not to catch any feels.
/r/askTRP07/10/18 07:28 AM
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Read all the Hemingway you can get your hands on.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 03:19 AM
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Text her with a plan to do something, not just a "hey" or whatever. Act like nothing went wrong and you are unphased
/r/askTRP25/09/18 11:04 PM
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Great and specific advice there mate
/r/askTRP25/09/18 10:58 PM
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Assuming the girl you approached is the same age, it could just be that she felt awkward talking about you to your mutual female friend - especially if your conversation was centered on gaming her and getting her phone number cause she sure as shit knows what you're trying to do. I've seen a lot of girls dismiss guys as "creepy" when talking together because it either takes the blame off them if they feel awkward about the encounter or they can maintain plausible deniability about any feelings f…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 06:04 AM
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Dont let the chase of women slow your personal growth. Sounds like you need to get your shit figured out first before regularly having women over. Invest in your self and future -- work, save money, lift, etc and it will pay off
/r/askTRP22/09/18 09:28 AM
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For the love of god PLEASE do not ruin your life just to please this girl. Your relationship will fail and you will hate yourself for getting into this situation. If your gut says no, be the man and set boundaries.
/r/askTRP22/09/18 09:25 AM
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You guess they split or did they?
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:18 PM
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Stick with no contact and move on. If she wants to contact you, she will, regardless if you appear to have moved on or not. Beware of oneitis man. It seems to me you are already putting in a lot of mental energy thinking about all this.
/r/askTRP19/09/18 05:52 PM
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Lol OP, I have to say that despite all the shit you are getting about this post from people who are missing your point I admire how you've kept your poise through it all.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 03:03 PM
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From his post, it sounds like he is able to converse truthfully and unashamedly about masculinity and redpill ideas with a woman he has a neutral (not sexual, familial, or work-related) relationship with. He asked a woman what her ideal masculine qualities are, and her answers align with TRP principles. Why care who states it? I think OP has a valuable opportunity here to garner insight into the female perspective. Might as well make use of it while you can. Don't automatically discredit a perso…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/18 06:27 AM
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Great answer
/r/askTRP31/07/18 05:59 PM
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I'm curious if any of the studies showing soy products to be harmful were sponsored by those with investment in the dairy industry. My gut tells me that milk derived from a bean would have less estrogen and T-limiting effects than milk derived from a lactating cow.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 06:25 PM
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Look up Real Social Dynamics on youtube. As the channel has grown more popular, their thumbnails and titles have become more clickbaity but there is some wisdom to what Tyler says and does. Check out their hot seat at home series too. edit: after doing some more research it appears that RSD is somewhat controversial within the PUA scene, as some people online claim that they are full of shit, fake their footage, and are running a scam. Use your head I guess.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 04:29 PM
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Glad that you asked her anyway bro, regardless of how it ends up. I think inviting her to the class was a smart move, as it wasn't asking too much of her since it stays within the gym and is already a common interest you two share. Curious to know how it went
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 06:46 AM
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I woke up after my first living-together LTR ended.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/18 01:07 AM
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