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"I still cannot believe we let them vote." - yeah that's pretty much all I need to know to see that you're someone who believes he's superior to other people. Every man on this sub should know he is superior to women. That's why men take charge and women take care. That's why we lead. Holy shit you seem like an insecure, abusive, and controlling person. You sound like you read buzzfeed
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 01:19 AM
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The caveat being you better fucking believe you are the top dog when you do it. If you are some little bitch trying to choke her, she is going to freak out Can verify this. Was on a first date with a girl and got talking about her past sexual experiences. Choking came up and she told me she didn't like it. Surprised, I asked why. She said because some guy had tried it while fucking her and she didn't like it - it turns out the guy had a micro penis and sounded like a hipster manlet. Anyway, fast…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 09:12 PM
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Yeah, except he got bankrupted how many times? How many companies and business has he run into the ground? Of all the smears against Trump this is one of the most downright stupid. Failure is a necessary and inevitable part of becoming successful. Every billionaire businessman has had failed businesses. Every sports star has failed to win. Every bestselling author had stories that never got published. To quote Michael Jordan: "I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 03:02 PM
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If [Donald Trump and Bernie Sanders] retired to a comfortable upper middle class existence tomorrow, I know which woman would bounce like the escort she basically is Every woman is basically an escort, the only difference being the currency you buy her with. Instead of cash, it may be your looks, your status, your power, your game, whatever. But both Sanders' wife and Trump's wife are no different in this regard. Relationships are transactions. She brings youth, beauty and fertility to the table…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 11:31 AM
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What do people do about their onshore living arrangements if they don't own their own home? Obviously it would be pointless to be paying rent for 6 months of the year for a property you aren't using. Do people rent and then sub-let their rented properties while they're at sea, or just not rent at all until they return to shore?
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 01:44 PM
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I doubt this even happened. She's not attractive enough to be complimented on her looks by a complete stranger "Did you hear me honey? I said you have nice legs. Damn. Thank you." No one fucking talks like this. This sounds like exactly what a goofy girl would say if she was imagining a creepy guy complementing her She works for some non-profit that supports girls getting an education. In other words, her entire career is predicated on the world being this evil patriarchal place that oppresses w…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 02:52 PM
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Right but that's not really the issue Archwinger originally addressed. That's the obscenely rich you're talking about. But when it comes to people who are very well off (bankers, lawyers, consultants etc) but who are nowhere near the level of lobbying governments for tax loopholes - many poorer people think they all got there through luck and that they don't work any harder than they themselves do in their cushty 9-5 office job. Luck definitely plays a part, without doubt, especially in terms of…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 05:27 PM
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You'd be surprised how dumb most of the world is. People genuinely believe that those who have more than they do are just lucky This is so true it's unreal. I'm from a fairly poor, working class background. The other day I saw a comment thread on a facebook post written by a group that campaigns on a host of political and social issues - mostly good causes except they are basically socialist when it comes to wealth related stuff. One guy commented some bullshit about how he literally thinks all …
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 07:42 PM
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That's interesting to know. I think a little religion is the sweet spot between insufferable bible bashing and being just another typical girl.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 09:12 AM
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From my experience, upbringing is the biggest factor in determining the quality of the girl. I am loath to oversimplify it because there are many factors that contribute to an upbringing but a degree of money is usually a good thing. But I am English so the concepts of our class system may not align perfectly with the US system. I grew up pretty poor too and most of the best quality girls I've known were middle class - not 'upper class' by any means, but not working class like me either. I notic…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 10:50 PM
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This is the reason dealing with women nowadays is so risky and being Red Pill is so important: women face no consequences. Physical consequences are illegal, legal consequences are non existent, and even social consequences - which women respond to - are being cleverly eroded as slut shaming becomes socially unacceptable and things like 'revenge porn' (i.e. showing the world what a slut she is) are outlawed. In a world where women face no consequences, you must enforce consequences strictly. And…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 03:39 PM
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Brilliant. A red pill man can't not chuckle at that. Agree & Amplify really is one of the best things I ever learned, full stop. When it comes to observing randomers handling shit tests I'd say probably 95%+ fail miserably. Not me. TRP is like the hammer of happiness I use to build a better life for myself.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 06:42 PM
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However in Australia it would not have mattered if I did not marry her. It is deemed a common law marriage after two years of domestic cohabitation. This why many, including myself, are against cohabitation as well as marriage unfortunately. Again I'll probably follow Patrice's lead - she can stay over sometimes but she needs her own place and she needs to understand that she does not live with me. I always wanted kids. I have two kids and I have primary custody (not a normal result, I am a lawy…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 11:28 AM
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You've just written like a billion words to try and prove to me that this catastrophe of a relationship wasn't your fault. It smells of the desperation of the rationalisation hamster. You really want me to tell you it wasn't your fault because she was pregnant and you love your kids but you're still not getting it. It can always be traced back to you: Marrying her was a mistake. And it was your decision. All the subsequent bullshit about not being able to leave when you wanted because divorce is…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 07:59 AM
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Excuses excuses. You married a bitch - your fault. You made a decision not to kick her out, not to show her that her poor behaviour has consequences - your fault. That's your role as a man and you failed to perform. Take responsibility for your own life and accept that it was your fault.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 11:31 AM
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Here's why it was your fault: You should have kicked that bitch out sooner. You even said in your post that as soon as you kicked her out she apologised! Women are abusive but only if you allow them to be. Christ, read your first paragraph again. You were 'trapped' and 'depressed' by a fucking woman, a creature that is physically and mentally weaker than you? You were a little bitch and not a man, that's why it was your fault. You facilitated her being a tremendous cunt by allowing it. You are s…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 11:28 AM
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Agree + Amplify. "You never listen to me" "Sure I'll have a beer" The key is that you do NOT take her shit seriously. If you give a serious answer you are entering her frame by accepting that her complaint is legitimate. It isn't. And you should be amused that she thinks it is. And you should show that amusement.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:34 PM
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Read my reply to NaughtyFred above. If you still have questions afterwards then reply and I'll answer them. But a general rule of thumb is that if you instinctively feel like she is trying to get a specific type of response from you, it's probably a shit test. If you can sense she is trying to get you to admit something or deny something or give in to something, it's probably a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:02 PM
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No, not necessarily. If it were that easy to define and recognise a shit test, we would just say that. This is why I said: Newbies should dedicate some time and thought to the process of trying to understand shit tests and actively trying to spot them in real life as they occur I'm not repeating that to have a go at you; what I'm trying to say is that you can only learn so much about shit tests in theory. After you reach a point where your theoretical understanding is reasonably sound, you have …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 08:59 PM
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Learning to understand, recognise and handle shit tests correctly was a fundamental game changer for me when I first swallowed the Red Pill about 18 months or so ago. Some elements of TRP are somewhat self explanatory and allow you to see some positive results even if you don't fully understand why. But shit tests are something you have to fully understand in order to turn them to your advantage and improve your game. Newbies should dedicate some time and thought to the process of trying to unde…
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 09:54 AM
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Because she cheated on me, it wasn't my fault, all girls are evil waaah waaaah. Guys need to understand that even if it isn't your fault, actually it is. If a dog bites someone in the park you don't really blame the dog because it doesn't know any better; you blame the owner because he has failed to train his dog correctly. Your relationship is what you make it because you lead it and mould it by moulding and training your girl(s). You need punish bad behaviour, reward good behaviour and set fir…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 11:45 PM
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You were not to blame at all, all along it was her Abandon this mindset. Regardless of the shitty behaviour your woman exhibited, you must acknowledge that when your relationship turns to shit it is your fault. Why? Because you are the captain of the ship, the CEO, the expedition leader. Anything that goes wrong can be traced back to you because you are the responsible party. It doesn't matter that you have evidence that your employees have become unproductive, if your company under performs the…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 01:07 PM
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No doubt. If they find out about each other in the end then you just deal with it but it's not something you want to happen. My point is that OP was open about it and that was really the root cause of this drama (which could have ended much worse). Why not just keep your mouth shut about your other women and live in peace for as long as possible? I see no benefit in being openly forthcoming with the truth in this scenario, you're asking for trouble.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 09:28 AM
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You admitted that she only turned up because she knew your other girl was hotter and she wanted to fuck shit up with her. This can't happen when she doesn't even know the other girl exists. I think you're creating a rod for your own back by being open with them.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 09:23 AM
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Don't. Ignore her sorry arse as if she was a 2/10 (which she may as well be if all she's giving is half-arsed handjobs). If you're genuine when you walk away from her there's a ~30% chance she'll come crawling back with a better attitude - see throwaway aa2's comment above - but don't expect that. Learn the lessons from this post and try again with another woman, sans the beta attempts to negotiate her desire.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 12:04 AM
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/u/OmLaLa has this encouraged you to reconsider allowing your plates to know about each other? Personally, this kind of unnecessary drama is exactly why I operate a 'don't ask, don't tell' policy whenever I've had multiple plates or a plate + ONSs. Allowing Lucy to see a picture of a hotter plate on your phone was asking for trouble.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:56 PM
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There is no rule, it's simply the outcome of red pill observations taken to their logical conclusions.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 04:04 PM
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If her friends had "insanely strong math backgrounds" as strong as the best freshman boys, they would be in Math 55a Yeah in addition to personal choice, probably the other primary reason why men outnumber women in high level maths courses like this is the gender difference in IQ distribution.* It is well documented that men's IQs more frequently populate the extremes of the scale whereas women cluster more towards the middle. Thus, regardless of the mean average IQ of the genders, men will make…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 11:55 AM
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"Well, JP, this Blue Cross insurance is pretty expensive, I found a Humana guy who can get me insured for half of what you're quoting me." "WOW, really!?!?! That's a really good deal you should go take it. Again this links back to the parallel between sales and game. This is a lot like a shit test I've had before and you simply Agreed & Amplified like I did: Girl: so when are you inviting me over? Me: [some joke about how only girls who provide photographic evidence that they can undress themsel…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 01:48 AM
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Rekt. I'm almost tempted to upvote this poor creature just so everyone can see your response. How to wreck a blue pill mangina in 7 words or less. Good post btw. Any advice on how to get into a sales job with no prior sales experience, i.e. what are they looking for?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 01:33 AM
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This is genius because now he can fuck Heather on the side. She will know she is sharing him and she won't mind, but Jess won't know because allegedly she does mind. Now he gets his better quality main chick, his slutty side chick AND comes out looking like a right honourable old gent.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 01:59 PM
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Perfect summary. Notice how in the original trilogy we are told (or it is VERY strongly implied) that the force is strong with Leia as well as Luke BUT because she never trains as a Jedi, she only benefits in limited ways, such as abnormally strong perception skills and the ability to share a kind of telepathic link with Luke. For all we know Leia might have had the potential to become a great Jedi too but crucially SHE NEVER DID BECAUSE SHE NEVER WORKED TOWARDS THAT GOAL. Instesd she became a s…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:28 PM
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Nine times out of ten, self declared 'enlightened women' are simply those women who have realised that pretending to be 'one of the guys' is a good way to get shitloads of attention from thirsty betas. Fortunately the mods here are not thirsty chumps and they're well aware that women cannot bring any fresh insight to what we discuss here.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 06:06 PM
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This post was garbage but your comment saved it from being a complete waste of time. Eat healthy, sleep well, lead her, dominate her, workout, fuck the shit out of her, laugh off little problems, work hard on your big problems, don't tell her about any battles you fight internally. A relationship is TRP on hard mode Consider also, whether she's actually worth making your life more difficult for less sexual freedom. This is basically a very apt and concise answer to an initiated RP man asking the…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 04:09 AM
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I tend to agree. As has been said plenty, women fantasise about rape partly because the complete and utter domination by a man much stronger than her turns her on, assuming his high value. But for men - especially strong men - we already know that we could easily overpower virtually any woman if we happened across her in a darkened alley or whatever. And it's akin to knowing that you could knock out a 5 year old child with one punch. It doesn't show that you are strong or powerful, since the maj…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 03:15 AM
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Great explanation. The only bit you missed is that tattoos are also the calling card of alpha widows. She got fucked and chucked by a few Chads who had sleeves and tribal tattoos. She thought they were hot as fuck, so she decided, using the completely sound and not at all retarded logic of projection, that she should get tats too because they will make her more attractive just like all the Chads she could never get to commit. For any newbies who are skeptical, check out pornstars, prostitutes an…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 10:29 PM
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I didn't even have a clue as to what I should've done to go in for the kiss. Suggestions on that specifically are much welcomed. Sometimes a natural and obvious point to go in for the kiss will reveal itself but often it won't and you just need to take the plunge. Having said that... One specific trick I use to set up the first kiss on the first date is this: ask if she has any special talents or party tricks - she'll probably feel pressured and say no, but if yes then you'll be entertained for …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 10:15 PM
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But from my understanding what I've been reading in comments etc, isn't it that we upgrade women from plate ->top plate-> gf based on not just her offering sex but also if she has other qualities that distinguish her? This is correct. Fuck knows why he said you can't upgrade a plate to a girlfriend. That's about the best way to (a) make her work for your commitment whilst you get the sex you need, and (b) vet her for positive non-sexual characteristics as you said, which are virtually irrelevant…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 09:56 PM
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Moderating a forum and controlling what an individual wants to do with a set of ideas are two different things. Indeed. I never asked you to control anything, only to moderate consistently in line with mod policy OR state that policy has changed. He hasn't broken any rules, we're not removing it. I never suggested it broke any hard and fast rules nor did I advocate removing it necessarily. I'll restate part of my original comment: "If mod policy has changed [and TRP is now a movement], just come…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:34 PM
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Charge of Irascibility (Code Red), Discussion: The target is accused of having anger management issues. Whatever negative emotions he has are assumed to be unjustifiable. Response: Anger is a legitimate emotion in the face of injustice. It is important to remember that passive acceptance of evil is not a virtue. I mean, to the exact definition, that's what you just did. Is that what I did? Where did I accuse you of anything? Where did I suggest your anger was unjustified? I made an observation a…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:20 PM
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When you have a sub that grows 30k subs and 30% in about 7 months, despite mostly negative publicity and opinion....that's a movement, whether you like it or not. I can't argue with someone so brazenly stupid. That's not a movement, that's called an influx of people to a discussion board pal. NB: you might want to work on what we call maintaining frame because you seem incredibly angry. If all it takes is my disagreeing with you for your frame to disintegrate into hurling random insults like 'co…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 02:31 PM
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Jesus Christ. I provided the sources, quotes and thread titles and now you're bitching because I didn't link them directly? Are you oblivious to the search function or do you just have an aversion to being proven wrong? Do you want me to wipe your arse for you as well you fairy?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 01:08 AM
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Day 8: cycled to the gym - shoulders and biceps.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 12:06 AM
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I'm not stupid enough to try to control him moderate: verb mod·er·ate \ˈmä-də-ˌrāt\ : to guide a discussion or direct a meeting that involves a group of people You are a moderator of this forum. You have the power to control what is and is not posted here so don't play the powerlessness card. The mods' collective refusal to remove GLO's call to activism is tacit endorsement of it, which is in direct contradiction of existing policy of the mods and the sub generally that TRP is not a movement. If…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 09:25 PM
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There is no reason why TRP feminism can't have programs in place to cause real change in the real world. Sound familiar? Yeah. We're not SJWs, we don't campaign for shit. I would argue that it increasingly selfish to benefit from a community and at the same time not want more people in it. 'I would argue that it is increasingly selfish to benefit from a community wealth and at the same time not want more people to share in it.' See what I did there? If sharing is caring and looking out for numbe…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 09:10 PM
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/u/redpillschool It's dishonest to make an entire post rebutting the small number who complained about GLO flogging t-shirts but make no attempt to address the main complaint people had with his recent post; namely that mod policy has always been that TRP is not a movement. Yet here we have an EC trying to make it into a mirror's image of a SJW stickering campaign on campuses. If mod policy has changed, just come out and say so, or else have the bollocks to say 'yes GLO is a valued member of thi…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 04:30 PM
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As usual, Patrice put it best: "If I'm the King and I marry a useless bitch, what does she become? The Queen, the highest level a woman can be, just by marrying me. I make you the best you can be. Now if a Queen marries a motherfucker that ain't shit, he's a motherfucker who ain't shit who married the Queen. And she can't elevate him to his highest level. No woman can elevate a fucking man to their highest level. The King is better than the Queen."
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 12:31 AM
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Day 7: rest day so just did some walking.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 11:58 PM
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Ask and ye shall receive. From 'A Movement?' by MODERATOR /u/SoftHarem: Some of you are under the delusion that TRP is a movement, an army, a fraternity, or some kind of support group. We don't have conferences, fundraisers, bro walks, or well funded RP organizations, and we never will. The Red Pill, simply put, is information. Theroies, stories, anecdotal evidence, peer reviewed studies, and most importantly - experience. Experience is the basis of this community... I've seen multiple people ca…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 11:55 PM
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Fair enough. Then allow me to elaborate. What I meant by that is not that women won't be attracted to the things that we know they are always attracted to. I meant that for those of us who are not yet fully realised alpha males with 12 side bitches, it would be harder to pretend that you are if the women in your life knew of this place. Example: you're casually sleeping with a girl and she asks if you're sleeping with anyone else. You apply what you know, using Agree and Amplify to simultaneousl…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 11:18 PM
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"Dont talk about TRP" This has always been mod policy you imbecile.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:51 PM
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Jesus you need to learn to read. I never put TRP on par with 4chan, all I did was reference something 4chan recently did. You're a rubber-stamped retard if you think shit wouldn't kick off if news of The Red Pill reached the mainstream. We've seen a pioneering scientist who landed a satellite on a fucking comet almost have his career ruined because of a fucking shirt he wore. How do you think the rabid feminist hate mob is going to react to us when people start screaming about muh misogyny, muh …
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:48 PM
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The irony of your comment is outstanding. I never claimed to be an authority. I clearly said it was the mods' very clear policy line that "TRP is not a movement" To someone whose tongue isn't jammed up GLO's hairy arsehole, it looks a lot like the mods had a very clear policy that TRP is not a movement and then GLO comes along with a retarded idea to make it into a movement and now all of a sudden the mods are either keeping quiet or changing their tune in remarkable unison.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:40 PM
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Unless they're training for strength, in which case I'd recommend 3 sets of 5/6 reps.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:35 PM
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You can't fake true abundance Yes you can You can't fake dread Yes you can You can't fake social proof Yes you can You can't fake being willing to drop your LTR at the drop of a hat Yes you can You can't fake being popular and social Yes you can If you can mimic the behaviors of someone that has those things, then you're a good enough sociopath What are you on about? It's fucking easy to fake dread game - tell your SO you're going out, go meet your mate down the pub, drink until you smell of boo…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:34 PM
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I'm pretty sure I just gave some very clearly bullet pointed reasons why it does matter if women know about us.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 02:17 PM
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Start a campaign, yes, but keep TRP out of it. Exactly. See e.g. 4chan's hilarious success in creating a faux feminist campaign which had SJWs post pictures of themselves wetting their pants in solidarity with rape victims or something. Troll level: under the bridge.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 11:28 PM
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Good answer. Though I still maintain that a good deal of reformed beta incels will simply apply wishful thinking to this approach and get burned, but what can you do.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 11:20 PM
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What happened to "TRP isn't a movement"? What is the rationale for supporting the public advertising of TRP? As soon as this happens, we can all wave goodbye to the last remaining male space we all shared.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 11:11 PM
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Sure, but publicising The Red Pill is just about the worst possible way to have fun. It's like telling an angry mob that you know 130,000 people who know the secret to eternal life, then giving them the addresses of all those people and supplying them with pitchforks and torches. It's retarded. And whatever happened to the mods' very clear policy line that "TRP is not a movement"? They were fucking right, so where are they now?
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 11:07 PM
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I'm disappointed that 'There will be blood' wasn't a period reference.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 11:01 PM
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As long as they didn't have 'The Red Pill' or the logo on them these would be great. Our mockery should be anonymous.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 11:00 PM
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Something like this but which does NOT explicitly name TRP would be best. Like a troll campaign based on Poe's Law. Something like what 4chan recently did where they managed to convince feminists to post pictures literally pissing their pants in solidarity with rape victims. We need to satirise them using their own ridiculousness but we don't need the mainstream public to know about us and to know where we are.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:59 PM
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I'd be all for trolling them but only in an INDIRECT way which doesn't explicitly state who we are. That would be retarded. Look at what 4chan did recently - they managed to convince feminists to post pictures literally pissing themselves in support of rape victims and it was absolutely hilarious. But if we post actual Red Pill identified stuff everywhere then the mainstream is going to know us, come here and: Troll the shit out of us en masse (the mods won't be able to cope) Learn and spread aw…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:53 PM
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More explicitly, it means 'not looking for a hookup with anyone stupid enough to believe I'm not looking for a hookup.'
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:37 PM
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On Tinder I'd argue that's a shit test. If you buy that horse shit, meet up with her but don't even try to fuck her she'll place you squarely in the Beta NobodyTM box. If you disregard that feeble, pre-emptive, pretend-ASD and treat her like any other Tinderella you'll most likely get the lay.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:36 PM
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Interesting theory. The difficulty is this: The best way to find LTR material is to find a girl who sleeps with you on the first date UNCHARACTERISTICALLY The obvious dilemma being if it's the first date, how do you know if her sleeping with you is uncharacteristic or not? Most likely you don't because you don't know her and people always display a heavilly edited version of themselves on a first date. Using this approach would also tempt many guys, even aspiring RP men, to engage their own hams…
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 10:30 PM
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I think he was sarcastically mocking the other guy, bro.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 08:50 PM
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Day 6: back to normal. Cycled to the gym - squats, chest and lats.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 08:46 PM
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Day 5: still felt like shit and stayed in
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 08:45 PM
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Day 4: felt like shit, stayed in
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 08:45 PM
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Good. That's the only way to deal with this kind of bullshit. If it's mandatory, then go but make it absolutely clear that you are only there because it's mandatory and you have no respect for the garbage you're being fed.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 08:40 PM
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I'm being pedantic but jews typically are regarded as a race because of the fact they share a common geographical origin coupled with their tendency to only marry other jews, meaning most jews even now are entirely descended from a single place and race. That's what I've been told anyway. I don't know much about jews.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 08:38 PM
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I agree. That's why I suggest a temporary relocation strategy. That way, when women say Where have all the good men gone?, we can send them a postcard from Asia. It will read "When all the bad women leave, we will come back" (the hamster will approach lightspeed). I laughed. With the migrant shenanigans going on at the moment I daydreamed about a scenario whereby, as Europe and the USA became overrun with third world minorities and feminists, all the masculine European and American men moved en …
/r/TheRedPill07/10/15 12:55 PM
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A man will always have sex on the first date without paying. A woman will not have sex with a man on the first date, especially if he doesnt pay. Either the man is getting laid that night, or he will surrender his frame. Your analysis is wrong. His frame cannot be 'I will have sex with you tonight, full stop' because he is not in control of that outcome. That's not a frame, it's simply a desire. In fact, his frame is 'I will have sex with you tonight OR I will terminate this interaction/relation…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 12:51 PM
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If she said she only fucks in relationships and you proceeded to enter into a relationship with her, it was a shit test which you failed, which is why the relationship then failed from the start.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/15 12:39 PM
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"I feel you [name]. I wish you the best, goodbye." Lol that goes too far the other way. Too polite. It shows you care about her, which is a mistake. I didn't even show that much care when I ended my last LTR. "OK" works perfectly because she has no idea how to interpret it and her hamster accelerates into warp speed.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 11:51 PM
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Day 3: gym - shoulders, biceps and abs.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 11:29 PM
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Day 2: completely forgot about this challenge. Fail.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 11:28 PM
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I was waiting for the bit where you pick out the fattest Inquisitor and start benching her
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 11:20 AM
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It's not even a remotely new law, it's an old common law offence. But generally you aren't going to be prosecuted for common assault unless you do something else too, like actual battery, because 99% of people don't even know what the crime of common assault is. But yeah. You could argue that the 'manspreading' law criminalises """aggressive""" (according to the subjective frailties of feminists) body language.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 02:14 AM
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Look, I disparage single mums as much as anyone but this just reads like pure confirmation bias. 95% of the shoppers are women What's wrong with that? It sounds like the perfect job for a first mate. If I were ever married or in a serious LTR I would probably be working longer hours than her and I'd expect her to go and get the stuff I put on the list. A disturbing number of single moms base their kids nutrition in coke, chips, sweets and pre-cooked food How do you know they're single mums? Did …
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 02:11 AM
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No there must be words said or things done that reasonably cause someone to fear immediate violence, e.g. saying "I'm going to fucking murder you!" or swinging a punch at someone, even if you miss.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 12:25 AM
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Exactly. Squatting was the main culprit for me too. Also deadlifting. As someone who previously had bad posture due to years of gaming, lifting significant weight with my back straightened me up and made me feel like I was wearing a back brace for days afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 12:12 AM
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I'm not sure of any specific legislative proposals but this has been mooted in UK criminal law for at least a few years. I believe it stemmed from the idea of drawing a distinction between sex with a condom and sex without a condom as being two wholly different acts, meaning that lying about wearing a condom could constitute rape because the woman didn't consent to unprotected sex, she only consented to protected sex. I can see some merit in that particular argument because the presence or absen…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 06:40 PM
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I think the point others are making is that actually becoming a top 20% male takes a long, long time and there's no reason to go without pussy in the mean time if you can tell a couple of harmless lies to get it.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 06:32 PM
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The reason this is effective is because it works the same way as abundance mentality. In both cases, a woman will pick up on the fact that you are not supplicating or giving her preferential or deferential treatment. She infers from this that you are not a beta male incel desperate for any female attention, but an alpha male with options in the Sexual Marketplace. This signals preselection by other females, which itself signals to her that you are attractive to other women and generates her attr…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:45 PM
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Surely if they are using your photo and details without your permission, and writing shit about you that probably isn't true, you would have grounds for a libel case and some sort of data protection claim?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:21 PM
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The beauty of this quote from the woman herself, found at the end of the article: As innovators we want to make your life better and have the opportunity to prove how great it feels to be loved by so many in a public space. Women's social media validation addiction spelled out clear as day by the hamster itself.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:18 PM
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Having an abortion is more responsible than trying to raise a kid as a single mother, inevitably fucking it up and ruining that child's life.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 12:34 PM
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I couldn't give the slightest of fucks who agrees with me and who doesn't. Consensus doesn't determine right or wrong, in this case it simply shows that most are as ignorant of the rules as you are. So I'm going to quote one of our Mods /u/redpillschool from a thread written specifically for people like you, entitled 'You're New Here? Welcome! Now Shut Up. Read This': But you're new here, so shut up, read the sidebar, and consider how you participate here. We expect most new people showing up to…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 02:35 AM
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Kudos on a really interesting and novel post. Is it the result of an original thought or did you draw these ideas from elsewhere? I'd be interested to know whether a tribe's likelihood of expelling a woman from the tribe for any reason increases with [her] age. As you rightly said, her skills are easily replaceable but her child-bearing capacity may not be. Thus I'm wondering if a fertile, young woman would be treated more leniently if she were to 'break the rules' because she is a valuable sour…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 11:58 PM
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I don't know why anyone is even answering your question. If you've been here less than 24 hours you should be balls deep in the sidebar and keeping your mouth shut.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 11:27 PM
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Day 1: cycled to the gym - squats, chest and triceps, my favourite workout.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 05:04 PM
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You might be surprised by how addicted you get. Just aim for consistent, steady progress. And train yourself to love the pain you will feel for the first few weeks/months. It sounds masochistic but if you learn to love the pain of feeling your muscles being broken down and rebuilt you will make progress.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 11:48 AM
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Easiest. Challenge. Ever. I can't wait. Edit: /u/bsutansalt I think you should consider adding a caveat to the following excerpt: If you're working out so hard that your body is just destroyed and you can't hit the gym fresh in 48 hours, then you're doing it wrong! I would agree with this UNLESS the person in question is new to lifting and is still within the first month or two. I can't remember exactly how long it lasted but when I started lifting I was hurting like a motherfucker every single …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 12:01 AM
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There's nothing wrong with critique but be specific or your comment is worthless.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 09:19 PM
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So what? Even during that 20 year period any HB6+ will get more gratuitous attention, free stuff and pussy passes than a man will get in his entire lifetime. And even after that when she's unhappily married to her beta bux she can still divorce rape him and if she had any sense she could use all that free money to do so much cool shit. No sympathy from me whatsoever.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 08:38 PM
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Yeah it was Brazil. One thing I'd add to your description of Patrice's change is that he sculpted the strongest IDGAF mentality imaginable. I mean, he calls all girls 'bitch' by default to their faces and still gets laid. Think about that for a moment. Imagine starting a cold approach with 'hey you goofy bitch' and still getting laid. Related, he also had abundance mentality in spades. When advising callers on The Black Phillip Show he would frequently talk about 'taking the L', which to my fell…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 01:31 AM
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A lot of guys say this just to rationalise the fact that they don't have the balls to approach hotter girls but nevertheless, this is so true. Besides, 6s and 7s are great for us guys who are fledgling alphas on the long road to building our SMV - they can see that we are legitimately higher value than them so you can easily get away with practically anything if your frame is solid enough.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/15 12:50 AM
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Lift. If you commit to lifting you will find it teaches you a lot about how to live the life of a Red Pill man in a way that you intuitively understand. It will teach you discipline, mental strength, determination and the importance of setting and achieving goals. It will teach you about reality and the value of accepting how things are rather than focussing how things should be. I'd love to be able to add 5kg to my press every time I workout but the reality is that lifting heavy things above yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 01:16 AM
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Here's how men work: we experience something, an event or a stimulus; we apply step by step logic to reach conclusions about the event or stimulus; then we recognise how we feel about the conclusions we have reached based on how those conclusions fit with our desires and goals. Here's how women work: they experience something, an event or a stimulus; they feel an emotional reaction to the event or stimulus; they rationalise backwards to find the best explanation they can to justify the emotional…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 11:48 PM
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Within 3 generations, the feminist society is finished and replaced by another patriarchal society. The scary thing about this is that it looks like that patriarchal society is going to be an Islamic one here in Europe given the decline in white European birth rates and the steep rise in net incoming migration from the muslim world.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 11:25 PM
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I have to admit I do miss what LTR's have to offer So do I at times. But for me it's like saying I miss believing in Santa Claus. Back when I was young enough to believe in him, it was magical and it made Christmas amazing. But I can't simply regress a couple of decades and pretend not to know he's not real. Likewise I liked having an LTR back when I last had one, but now I know and see so much more courtesy of TRP. Once the illusion is shattered you can't go back. I'm not ruling out LTRs for th…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 10:49 AM
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It sounds like we're of a similar mind. I just wish I had 3 or 4 more good male friends to hit up if I fancy a pint or a game of FIFA or to drag to the gym with me. And a bit of social proof wouldn't go amiss. I keep my private life under wraps when around my plates because they attach so much value to social proof as you alluded to.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 04:00 PM
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The practical takeaway for guys dealing with women is this: Don't tell her what you know about women, show her through your behaviour
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 10:45 AM
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Read all the FRs on here, especially the more detailed ones which include specific actions taken and excerpts of conversation. These helped me immeasurably. Read both the successful and the unsuccessful ones and as you read through them, try to identify where the OP did something positive to generate attraction and where he fucked up. Over time you will pick up both the general attitude of the guys who are successful in getting casual sex as well as some specific tips, lines, and behaviours that…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 10:41 AM
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So same problem, different cause? It's hard to advise you to be honest because I can't pull time out of thin air. Maybe try to find a way to take up one of those activities at the weekend?
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 10:23 AM
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It sounds like you're based in the UK Correct. I don't want to drink so it is seen that I am less of a male I've seen this a lot with guys who don't drink. I like drinking but like anything else, it's only as good as the people you do it with and I won't waste my time if I know I'm not going to enjoy it. So at uni I didn't go out as often as some people because there simply weren't that many people I wanted to go out with.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 10:19 AM
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Ha, that's almost word for word what I said to her. She talks about how she doesn't want to get married or have kids etc and you can just tell that she feels proud of it, as if being a traditional womanly woman who wants to settle down with a good man and have his children is worthy of contempt. I just smile and think yeah, we'll see if you change your tune when you're 27, you look like shit and your pussy has depreciated by 80%.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 04:41 PM
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I was chatting to my 18 year old plate the other day about the concept of marriage and she says "Everyone dreams about their wedding day from a young age" I couldn't hold back my laughter and I immediately said "Woah, stop there. I'm going to give you a chance to correct yourself. Everyone? Everyone dreams about their wedding day, really? Fuck no bitch, girls is the word you're looking for." She protests: "No, no I think everyone does, it's natural." I'm genuinely belly laughing right in her fac…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 04:21 PM
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The one thing I haven't improved upon since I began implementing TRP is building a strong social circle of guys. I struggle with it but I don't think it's because I lack the skills. I just don't have any interest in the majority of guys. To give an example from your post, I've been going to the gym for nearly a year now and loving it. Whenever I see a guy there that I know (a guy from uni or an old school mate) we'll chat a bit and then continue with our own workouts. But I don't make new friend…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 01:31 PM
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Being yourself is great. As long as you are someone worth being. Bold, underline and triple the font size of this bit.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:45 PM
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At the end of the day, stuff is just stuff. No one wishes they had accumulated more stuff when they are on their death bed Not really. 'Stuff' when you're married means those expensive new curtains your wife picked out, the people carrier you had to buy to ferry the kids around, and all the useless shit your wife buys because material possessions help her display status to her social group. Then 'stuff' becomes '0.5 x stuff' when she decides to leave you and take her """fair share""". 'Stuff' wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 03:27 PM
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How many times does it have to be said that TRP will always be repetitive because The unplugging process is neverending. Hundreds of new subscribers arrive every day and over time they go through the same phases, make the same connections and reach the same epiphanies you made months before. Just because it's not new to you doesn't mean it's not new to thousands of others 80% of intergender dynamics is rooted in biology and psychology, both of which change at an incredibly slow rate
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 02:52 PM
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Heartiste and his 16 Commandments of Poon in all their glory: XV. Maintain your state control You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passes. She will not drag you into her chaos or uproot you. When you have mastery over yourself, you will have mastery over…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:59 PM
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Department of Education's Mental Health Tsar Stupid cunt. Regular exercise has been proven a thousand times over to improve mental health and lifting 3 times a week makes me feel fucking awesome.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:40 PM
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similar for meeting a tispy/drunk girl at a bar or club Maybe it's an American thing but to me this is irrelevant because you shouldn't be arranging future dates with drunk girls in bars and clubs, you should be taking them home that night. That is literally what they're there for.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:14 PM
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There's some truth in this but equally if you're on Tinder and you try and set up a meet for that very night, you're going to look desparate and you're on Tinder because you have nothing else going on in your life. Aim for the middle ground and plan it for 2 or 3 days time.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 11:09 PM
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The return on a happy marriage is higher than what most men believe Why not just aim for a happy LTR without promising to give half your stuff away though? That's my point. The point of the post was what to look for (outside influences) to give you the best chance of success I get that was the point of the post. But what I'm saying to you is this post is like saying 'OK so for those of you who want to try riding a shark, here are the things you can do to give yourself the best chance of not gett…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:16 PM
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Yeah it's differentiation. I have a few male friends - good guys but beta - who show interest in my increased success with women and particularly ask me about Tinder. Although I'm having some success using it, I'm both more attractive than them and have learned some game. Because of this and because Tinder is a waste of time for average looking guys, I always advise them that if they want to get women they should practice doing it in person (whether it's bars, clubs, day game or general social c…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 10:06 PM
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I knew as soon as I started reading this that it was going to be heavily downvoted, despite the fact that actually, you show an extremely solid understanding of the main concepts like abundance mentality in practice, holding frame and how women respond to them. To be honest your attitude seems spot on. The only recommendation I would make, and it's personal preference rather than an RP necessity, is don't break up with girls cruelly if they haven't done anything to deserve it. She was a HB5, the…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 09:58 PM
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This study was talking about long term partners not short term, fwb or one night stands. That's the point though, women can't distinguish because they aren't aware that they have a dual mating strategy. Women want to have long term relationships with alpha males - even if that isn't what the alpha has in mind - and so when asked questions about what they look for in a partner they recall characteristics of both their Alpha and Beta mates. The result is that the characteristics of both get confla…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 08:45 PM
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Take your transparent humblebrag and fuck off. Come back when you have something to contribute.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 06:47 PM
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This is a great observation which applies to a lot of the poor advice given on text game. Trying too hard to be alpha of the century via text, especially before you've met and fucked the girl, almost always backfires. Confidence, dominance, aloofness are all powerful things but she needs to FEEL them and she can't feel anything over text when she hasn't already spent time in your frame to give context to those texts.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 06:45 PM
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Yeah as in all dealings with women, set your own clear boundaries and stick to them. I also have a 2 flake rule although if her first flake is the first date then I might next her there and then.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 03:29 PM
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Another good tactic when a girl informs you that she is flaking, or thinking about it, is to treat it as a shit test and calmly but firmly blow through it. Example: Her: I don't think I'm going to make it for coffee this afternoon. I'm too hungover lol You: Pull yourself together. Get a wash, throw on a summer dress and meet me in 2 hours. Girls respond surprisingly well to being given commands like this.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 02:42 PM
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Nothing new under the sun. But these types of studies can be misleading because they are incomplete for 2 reasons. Women's dualistic mating strategy is not accounted for We know women have a dualistic mating strategy, the ole Alpha Fux, Beta Bux. We also know from our individual and collective experiences that the requirements are very different for each of these roles. These requirements are neither set in stone nor exhaustive but we've seen it a thousand times before: the Alpha Fux is the phys…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 02:14 PM
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OP is correct, most likely a form issue /u/PaulAJK. Bad knees run in both sides of my family, all of my immediate family suffer to varying degrees. I suffer quite badly when running or playing sports on hard surfaces and my brother dislocated his knees almost 10 times. Yet I have never had any problems squatting. It is a mechanically efficient movement for the knees. Obviously it's impossible to diagnose what's wrong remotely but I would suggest looking at the angle of your knees when you squat.…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 12:34 PM
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You seem to have missed the point. I understand that 4 sets of 8 is harder than 8 sets of 4 - but that's a change in difficulty, NOT volume as was originally stated. If you keep most variables (rep x sets x weight) the same, but one increases, this has a positive effect on volume, and thus overall strength That's the point, none of the variables were increased in this case, the number of sets and reps were simply swapped so again, there was NO increase in volume. OP has edited his post to clarif…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 12:21 PM
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Surely your 4th method of training for volume doesn't actually fit your description of what training for volume is. You described it as ...methods of consistently increasing volume... but then included you can target a specific number of reps then strive to hit that same number in progressively fewer sets. For example, targeting 32 reps you might start off with 8 sets of 4 reps, but end with 4 sets of 8 reps at the same weight. Assuming there is no increase in weight (as it's not mentioned) then…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:10 AM
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The second example has a better chance of leaving her thinking, "I did something bad and lost a good man! Better not do that again in the future!" and moving thoughtfully into her next relationship. Exactly. I broke up with an ex once and she didn't seem to see it coming even though she really should have. Or perhaps she just didn't think I'd have the balls. Anyway it was because of a pattern of disrespect towards me which I might have been able to forgive but for which she refused to accept any…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 12:35 AM
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This should be in AskTRP. We have a separate sub dedicated to personal scenarios such as this. Also if you want good quality answers I'd recommend being a lot more detailed.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 06:34 PM
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Strong and interesting post but, importantly, should not be taken as advocating that any sacrifices of Red Pill attributes and behaviours must occur in order to accomplish this goal. Self respect, decisiveness and no-contact should always be observed in breakup situations. Leaving her better than you found her does NOT mean bending over backwards to make sure the breakup doesn't cause her emotional pain; it does NOT mean staying in contact with her to make her feel better; it does NOT mean lower…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 02:18 PM
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It seems people believe being in a LTR or getting married makes them a beta. It's not really about whether it makes you beta. It's about taking an unnecessarily huge risk for no additional benefit. A non-cohabiting LTR is like someone offering you a temporary happiness increase for £5 - not a bad deal for such a small investment. Marriage is like someone offering you the same level of happiness at best, but instead of paying £5 you have to bet 50% of everything you own on a coin toss. And the pe…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 01:32 PM
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this can leave her with some unfulfilled tingles and she'll be anticipating some escalation later. Exactly. I wasn't even withholding escalation with this ulterior motive, I just like films and when I got into it I decided to watch it first then fuck her after. It was incidental that as the film progressed I noticed her anticipation growing as she was licking her lips (girls do this all the time when expecting a kiss) and """accidentally""" brushing her hand on my thigh or arm when changing her …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:57 PM
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I never ask. (a) I don't care, (b) I'm not looking for an LTR so it doesn't matter, and (c) when they realise you don't care about their sexual history + they can sense from your behaviour that you are experienced they typically begin volunteering information in order to show how sexually experienced they are too, because they think it makes them more attractive. Pure projection. I don't know how many dicks these girls have had. But I go off my gut and the information they voluntarily reveal. Th…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:47 PM
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The essence of good attitude towards frame is that you've decided what you feel like doing and she gets to tag along. If you want to see a movie, you can take a plate. I'm not addressing this specific situation with this guy because it's more complicated, but a strong alpha with good frame can do whatever he feels like. When the attitude and aura radiate from you, she knows the subtext is that she's lucky to get to go with you wherever you are. Work on attitude and stress less about choosing act…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:30 PM
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yes but looks are by far the biggest factor. You only need status and game if your looks aren't on point. Bullshit alert. Looks only determine how easy it is for you to get the initial 'in' with a girl. If you're 6ft and swole she might be making eyes at you from across the bar before you even notice her, whereas if you're 5ft 7in and skinny she won't. But it's really irrelevant because your job is to go over and approach with boldness and confidence no matter which guy you are. At that point, w…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 02:11 PM
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My ex-GF epitomised the 'I don't have many girl friends, I just get along better with guys' type and her main problem was daddy issues. She was raised by her mum alone, daddy wanted nothing to do with her despite her efforts and the result? She needed male attention like I need oxygen. She was addicted to it. In the end I broke up with her sorry ass precisely because I got sick of her compulsive need for male attention, even from objectively low SMV guys and guys she barely knew.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 01:48 PM
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Is this a British phenomenon or a global one? Young British male here, can confirm our women are a fucking disgrace. They think there is something cool about trying to drink like a man even though they can't fucking handle it, ever. And it's not just young women either. My city is a hotspot for hen nights ('bachelorette parties'), which typically consist of groups of fat, 30-something women HB2s wearing fishnet stockings and heels that must be made of reinforced steel stumbling around, shouting …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 01:34 PM
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Oh it gets even better. 'I like socialising, spending time with friends and having fun. Family and friends are important to me.' The stupidity of a creature who thinks there is any value whatsoever in the truism 'I like having fun' is mindboggling.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 01:03 PM
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From what I've seen that rule is pointless. I'm currently plating a 19 year old slut who I would estimate has probably had at least 30 dicks, more likely around the 40 mark I reckon. Maybe I'll ask her. The last girl I met off Tinder before her was a 21 year old who told me she lost her virginity at 14. She had at least 2 dicks that year. Now even if we assume a generously conservative average of 3 dicks per year, by 21 she would have already had 24 dicks. And let's be honest, three of those yea…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 01:00 PM
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It was so funny how she kept saying and implying that she's "different to most women" without realising that all she is is a poor imitation of a man. Like in relation to the dick-getting contest with her sister, she said that the reason she lost is because she eventually got bored of it. Why? Because it's not in women's nature to want to fuck every guy, they just want to fuck the best guy. And because women can get dick any time they want without working for it, it has no value to them. As a man…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/15 12:32 PM
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/u/BetaMaleFeminist The biggest mistakes were by far #2 and #3. These were the ones that shafted you big time because she intially put you in her AF box but after date 2 she realised her error and put you in her BB box. Mistake #4- when we got back to her place, I should have initiated sex within a minute. Instead we had a drink and watched some TV. Dudes... don't be a couch cuddler. This is not a mistake in and of itself. I had a date the other night under the pretext of 'let's watch a film at …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 01:33 PM
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but with the low end one I'm thinking like "man i've failed at getting a boner with legit 8.5s, how the fuck am i gonna get one with this 6?" Because the reason you can't get it up for an 8.5 is almost certainly psychological - specifically, anxiety. How do I know that? See here: I've only slept with 2 girls in my 26 years of life and I know i gotta up that number fast You're putting waaay too much pressure on yourself to go from Blue Pill Beta Billy (no judgement here, we've all been there) to …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:53 PM
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This proves the point in the post about finding what works for you personally. If you don't mind taking bitches to your gym and spending your time teaching them shit - I couldn't stand it - and if you can make it translate into fucky fucky then all power to you. But others should not read this as an automatically good strategy for anyone who goes to the gym. Every week I see a different guy bring a girl into the gym under the guise of a mentor/student relationship while it is blatantly obvious t…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:30 PM
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Tinder is simply so far removed from reality that it's basically a woman's fantasy land of constant validation. Whatever standard of girl any man gets on Tinder he can do significantly better by approaching in real life because while any guy will send a HB9 a message on Tinder (because it requires no balls and there is no risk), it is much, much rarer for the same girl to get approached by a guy who has a clue what he's doing.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 12:06 PM
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It sounds weird but I'd recommend trying to fuck either a girl who is at the low end of your boner test spectrum (probably like 5 or 6 for most guys) and/or a girl with a terrible personality who makes you think 'I'd never LTR you in a million years' when you're with her. The reason is that in this situation the amount of fucks you give is minimised because (a) she's not hot enough for your subconscious to pedestalise her and (b) her shit personality means you don't really care about her. It amo…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 04:02 PM
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I'm 22, just about to start out on my career path so I find this really interesting. How do you / did you go about networking with the older guys? How did you start? Because I can imagine many workplaces are quite hierarchical and age-segregated in the sense that the younger guys will go out with the younger guys for drinks on a Friday night, whereas the older, married guys will arrange to go golfing together at the weekend or some shit.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 01:17 PM
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Marriage is an institution that should be destroyed Don't worry man. Check the marriage rates, they're only heading one way and it ain't up. Marriage is destroying itself by being a fucking awful deal, it's just that it's going to take a while because as this thread proves, good men get suckered in by 'love', societal conditioning and a sense of duty.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/15 12:02 PM
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I can't say for sure because since I started actually getting girls I haven't been in any kind of situation where I've been considering an LTR and discussing that type of stuff with a potential girlfriend. But my honest answer is I doubt it. I imagine it would make them feel a bit insecure at first due to fears of inadequacy. But I really cannot envisage a situation whereby a well-adjusted, LTR-material girl* would refuse an LTR with an alpha male she found attractive on the basis that he has fu…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 06:45 PM
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The only real way is to change your expectations of women, quite drastically albeit that it can be done over quite a long time. In our Blue Pill days we all had a box we wanted women to fit in, The Girlfriend Box. We thought of all women we were attracted to and whom we thought seemed nice as potential girlfriends, because that's what every BP guy wants, the fairytale ending with the perfect monogamous relationship with the perfect girl. After swallowing the pill over the last ~18-24 months, my …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 05:12 PM
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Great advice, always worth repeating in threads like this. Such texts are the most robust evidence most men can ordinarily be expected to gather in such a case. And the reason it works is because without evidence like this, the jury is left to fill in a lot of gaps with their imagination and most people don't have any problem imagining a man as a violent aggressor and a woman as a helpless victim - we see it all the time. But when you have texts from the girl the morning after saying 'I had a gr…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 04:59 PM
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I'm just sat here imagining a montage of all the wry smiles on the faces of every guy while reading this post. I think there is a legit risk they would get banned though, the most likely rationale being something vague about 'breaching the moral standards of society'. And you can see how the shaming tactics would be used - any guy who came out saying there is no basis to ban them would be met with choruses of "Ewww why would you want to have sex with a machine?" and "Awww what's the matter, can …
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 04:43 PM
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That was pleasant to read. A man who simply knows his value and his leverage and acts accordingly. Especially this part: Shortly I will moving into my own place in the downtown core of my city for a new job and she has expressed the desire to move in with me. I told her that she is free to stay over but that the lease is and will be under my name and I am solely responsible for rent. This is a good arrangement for me as it keeps the ball in my court and gives me the ability to always walk away a…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 12:21 PM
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Lol you're autistic. He meant "the worst things you can do are not X, Y and Z [implying they are the things that most people would think are the worst], the worst thing you can do is bore a woman." He was drawing a comparison, saying that X, Y and Z are bad but not the worst as most people think - in actual fact, boring a woman is the worst.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 12:37 AM
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Fucking, this. I touched on this in my recent FR. As well as it being different from girl to girl and from guy to guy (depending on if you're actually good at text game), it may also be different depending on location and culture. Here in the UK I think text game is often important for building comfort and rapport before pushing for the date in cases where you haven't met face to face before, e.g. tinder matches. I've also found text game to be very effective whereas sending a one time message o…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 12:29 AM
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Don't play the game when you know the odds are stacked against you. 300 thirsty guys and 80 women? What the fuck are you doing there? Take your ball and go home. Go get your game on elsewhere where the odds are in your favour.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 12:20 AM
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To answer correctly more detail is needed because it depends on her precise emotional state when she made the statement - context is king here. If she was faux-indignant, i.e. pretending to be pissed off but not actually being serious, the correct response is to laugh it off as I said above. Imagine what she said was said by a 6 year old and you'll see the funny side. Then I'd throw in something fun to amuse myself and show her I Don't Give a Fuck: Her: I don't need you to say nice things to me,…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 12:12 AM
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Just laugh it off. Everything she says when angry, imagine she is saying it as a 6 year old. And then maybe follow it up with some cheeky shit to amuse YOURSELF - maybe I motion to the waiter and say "Hey can we get a sense of humour transplant over here ASAP please" like it's some sort of medical emergency. Understand that if a bitch is getting angry, you're winning because a woman's anger is close to a woman's love - it means she's feeling something. The opposite of a woman's love isn't anger,…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/15 12:01 AM
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My advice is to game and fuck some HB6 with a shitty personality and who isn't hot enough for your old, withering Blue Pill brain to pedestalize. Honestly, fucking some girl you can't stand is a great way to help you familiarise yourself with the feeling of gaming a girl from the point of view of genuinely knowing you are better than her.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:55 PM
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The crucial thing that timid people have to understand about being bold is that it won't work outright every single time but people will respect you for having the balls to try it. For example, always try to go for the fuck close on the first date. Sometimes it won't work, for this reason or that reason, but she WILL respect and admire you more for having the balls to go for what you want with boldness.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:40 PM
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Yeah same for those of us who are lifting, which should be every one of us. When I've got 3,000 calories of good, whole food to eat and I'm having chicken for the 5th time this week I'm not savouring that shit.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:28 PM
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/u/tellyourmom as a guy who has lived abroad and seen hundreds of girls holidaying and travelling, the odds are so high that you should assume she has cheated on you. Seriously, trust the more experienced among us who have seen this a thousand times. But it's an awkward situation because you've already let her go when really you should have been here asking for advice before she left. But I want to add something else. -Edit - guys just for some context she paid over $1500 before we were together…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:16 PM
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Notice how frequently it's explicitly stated, or highly likely given the situation, that the man in question has access to other women: I'm in this stage right now with an FWB. I know he's not relationship material and he even told me that himself. Every time I sleep with him I think it's awesome and then a couple days later I'm cursed with a mountain of feelings and start getting (internally) jealous and upset over the fact that he doesn't feel the same and is fucking other girls. And then I de…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:35 AM
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You need to grow up and stop feeling sorry for yourself. It sounds like your problem is you're too self conscious about your bad looks to project enough confidence, which is the cornerstone of game and male attractiveness. The most sexually successful guy I've ever known was a guy I knew for 3 years at uni. We were on the same course and played football ('soccer' if you're American) together. He was 5'10", he had a beer belly because all he ever did was go out 4 times a week, he had never been t…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 11:09 AM
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I've seriously contemplated doing the same to my ex, albeit just for shits and giggles rather than vindictiveness since I broke up with her 4 years ago now and really don't bear any ill will towards her. Problem is, she got fat. Legit not sure if she'd pass the boner test.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:48 PM
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This is related to Law of Power #30 - Make your accomplishments seem effortless. irrational though it clearly is, women want a natural alpha, not someone who had to put work in to get there and had to fake it until he made it. So sometimes women will not react positively to your gradual improvements. But conversely, we know that the bottom ~80% of men in the given setting don't even register on a woman's radar so if you go from languishing in that 80% to the top 20% then chances are you might ge…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:32 PM
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I always find it ironic now that on dates, the more faux-pissed off the girl gets as you tease her, the more she unwittingly initiates kino by doing stuff like the shoulder punch, playfully pushing you away, grabbing your hands/arms to move them away if you are using them to gesture etc. At that point she is literally doing your job for you by giving you kino and making it easy as fuck to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:23 PM
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Also undoubtedly a substantial part of why rape fantasies are so common among women. It seems in some cases women can even enjoy actually being raped - source: a sex blog written by a woman (Life of a Lover Girl, ugh): Actually, and I know this is terribly un-pc and perhaps a bit dangerous to admit (thank God this is fairly anonymous) but there was at least one time I was raped for real and actually enjoyed it.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:18 PM
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Women can't go back in life I think that's true for both men and women Not at all. I've plated 7.5s before but I'll happily try and plate a 6.5 tonight because the pickings are slimmer where I am now as opposed to a year ago + I just want to get laid. Men will happily downgrade (as long as it's within their acceptable range to pass the boner test) just to get laid because getting laid is important to men. In contrast, women will not knowingly downgrade on men because they perceive the value of t…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:12 PM
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The general approach is good but there are a hell of a lot more requirements / green flags for an LTR. Anyone interested can search for previous threads and comments regarding vetting women for LTRs as there have been some good ones in the past.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 05:01 PM
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People can take and use TRP however they like but OP's declarative statement that sexual strategy "should never be the focal point of TRP" is demonstrably false and represents only his view.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:41 PM
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If you don't know what SMV is you shouldn't even be commenting yet. Read the sidebar material and lurk for twice as long as you think you need to before posting.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:36 PM
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Good story, although TRP is not a jutsu that will turn you into Chad that bang the chics. It is a way of life that stresses on self improvement. Yes, you will turn into Chad that bangs the chics but that is and should never be the focal point of TRP. Actually TRP is first and foremost a sexual strategy based on self improvement. You got the chicken and the egg the wrong way around. Straight from the sidebar: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 04:32 PM
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There's a simple, albeit fucked up answer as to why this is so. In every case where some wrongdoing occurs and there is some degree of intoxication involved the system always needs someone to attach blame to. A cynic like me would go as far as to argue that society generally doesn't even care whether the person punished is actually guilty or not provided that the person who is generally perceived as most likely to be guilty is punished. It's really quite a sick attitude that whenever something b…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 03:47 PM
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Freudian slip of the fucking century there
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 12:08 PM
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Therefore no police, no judicial system, and - why not - no Congress either, no need for laws whatsoever Wait, this is the Red Pill. Since we're all misogynistic abusers and rapists shouldn't we be campaigning for a lawless state because then we would be free to rape, beat and kill women just like we've always talked about?
/r/TheRedPill11/09/15 12:06 PM
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Exactly, that's why the anger phase often lasts a long time and people find it hard to break out of - because it generally takes a long time to make substantial improvements to SMV (e.g. lifting, game, and career/money).
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:54 AM
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Great comment. I have noticed in my own life that when I am in a period of rapid "improving", I feel like the world (particularly women) take note of me in a certain way- almost like I am in a state of "God Mode". When I stagnate, I find, even if my baseline SMV is higher than it had been, its next to impossible to unlock "God Mode" for any extended period of time. A notable example from my life is this: I had a particularly rough year in 2012 that set me back in multiple areas of life (as an as…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:49 AM
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Combined with the Rational Male link, this is an extremely high quality post for those of us who have an interest in the theory at this level. (But unfortunately due to the retarded voting patterns of the mass of newbies who upvote basic, non-contributory shitposts but downvote better posts, you won't get the right amount of recognition for this). The only part I would modify slightly is this: Oneitis The loss a “war prize” signals defeat. But it is not the loss of the prize (e.g. a woman) that …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:28 AM
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...my "friend" wanted me to sleep with chad's friend so she could get closer to chad... Ironically this is just another example of females exhibiting masculine behaviour to add to OP's list. What you just described is wingmanning.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 10:10 PM
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If you read the fucking sidebar first like you're supposed to then you would know.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 09:30 AM
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I live in London, England and know loads of guys earning £250k+ a year Doing what? Just curious because I'm hoping to move to London in the next year
/r/TheRedPill07/09/15 08:33 PM
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/u/SpeakNoTruths I'd like to hear more about this part: She begged and pleaded to work it out, bargained to be "just fuckbuddies, no strings attached," and made a touching scene. In the end she gave me an enthusiastic bj, tried for anal, and left crying in the morning. The whole situation has not only made me feel immensely more at ease about jettisoning her , but has also allowed me to forgive her. Specifically I can't really imagine a scenario in which you are ending the relationship with her …
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 05:47 PM
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ITT: intellectual pissing contests.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 03:37 PM
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If you're not a troll then you're a massive autist
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 09:09 AM
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Feminism is like chlamydia: we know what it is, we know where to find it, and it is not welcome here. Now take your shitpost and fuck off. We don't need this noise.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/15 12:03 AM
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But the age of consent is 18 right? So she might not quite be 21 but surely you'd be able to tell if she was 17, especially considering OP had access to her friends. It just seems weird to end such a detailed FR with 'but I didn't go for the close because she had a fake ID'.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:34 PM
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Decent FR, the detail is all there but I don't get what happened at the end. She was using a fake ID, meaning she is <21 so you just decided not to go for the lay?
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:49 PM
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On one hand I hate the redpill it's so harsh and bleak, part of me wishes those bluepill fantasies were true. But I also love the redpill as it is reality so I have no choice but to accept it, because who the fuck does not accept reality The Red Pill is itself a test of strength. It's a choice between the palatable fiction or the painful truth. All of us here have moments where the truth is particularly painful, where it really stings to the point that we wish we could escape reality and go back…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:23 PM
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Two things: I also recognise that she will probably come crawling back after Chad has his fun and finds a new cum dumpster. It is my responsibility not to entertain this, she is no unicorn. That was going to be my warning to you but clearly you are sufficiently aware of Red Pill realities that you are already anticipating and mitigating this risk. Props to you for that. In reality I recognise these are tell tale signs that some Chad has picked her up Speaking from experience, having spent a year…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 11:47 AM
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I don't have a great network of RP friends but I can say without doubt that the awesome way I handled and recovered from my second major breakup compared to my first was due to my RP best friend and his excellent advice.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:54 AM
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"I'll suggest watching a film at hers" Same again, I think that this is too forward/obvious It is deliberately obvious enough that she knows what's going to happen without me going as far as stating it outright. Why? Because she's a cock carousel rider, no question, and if she isn't ready to give it up on the second 'date' then I'll simply go elsewhere because there's no way I am investing any more time or effort in trying to get something from her that she has given away for nothing countless t…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:17 AM
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Women are optimized to ensure their children's short term survival. Why do I say short term? Yes I literally just said in another reply that rather than 'children' I should have specified infants, i.e. from birth to maybe 3 years old, as this is the child's most vulnerable stage of life and thus it is the stage wherein mothers are biologically programmed to be most in tune with its core needs; where the mother empathises most. Now imagine that 8 yo has more rights and legal protection than you, …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 08:03 AM
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So what? The proportion of parents, male or female, who kill their own children is far too tiny and marginal to be used to support a claim about the rest of the parenting population. It's like saying that 3% of shop workers will take money from the till therefore this shows that shop workers lack integrity - it's quite clearly bullshit because you're talking about a small criminal element as of they are representative of the larger group. And by your logic how could I be confusing empathy with s…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:36 AM
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Read my comment again, I never went as far as saying women are good with children. I should perhaps have specified that by children I meant specifically infants, i.e. from birth to 2/3 years. But empathy is not the sole requirement of good parenting, clearly. There are many other elements to the job. But it's incredibly useful when babies are unable to communicate verbally for mothers to empathise with them and recognise their core needs - feeding, sleeping, etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 07:28 AM
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/u/RedPillMat this is great advice, it works for me very well. Another brief tip that can also help prepare her for the first kiss is looking deeply into each of her eyes then at her lips in a triangle. Look deeply into one eye for 5-10 seconds, then the other, then the lips. At first you may feel slightly stupid doing it but honestly it never fails.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:51 PM
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Women suck at empathy I was thinking about this very issue in the car earlier and at this point I would amend that statement. Women don't suck at empathy, they are just designed to empathise with children. Think about it. From an evolutionary standpoint it's incredibly useful for mothers to be able to empathise with their kids in order to understand their needs. And this also explains why, as we here have noted, women are so similar to children; they are able to empathise with infants because th…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 10:20 PM
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They're flaky as fuck to the point where you can literally have a date set up, including time and location, and then you'll text them on the day to check they're still game and they're like 'Oh I can't make it because <bullshit>, sorry!' Oh, nice. Were you ever planning on telling me that if I hadn't asked? I mean even this girl admitted to me that she 'almost didn't come' and whilst I was satisfied that my morning text had persuaded her to come, I was thinking 'fucking hell, you flaky hoe.'
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 06:04 AM
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To be honest I think I'll suggest watching a film at hers as the plan for the second date because I have a 2 date rule anyway so if she rejects that idea it's a pretty clear sign that she's not DTF in which case I'll just ditch her. And if she says yes, well it's a piece of piss to get the lay from there.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:17 PM
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Quite likely. Various red flags indicate strong carousel presence which is why she the best she can hope for with me is plate status.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:15 PM
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Hence why I said "claim to believe"
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:13 PM
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Is it getting matches that you struggle with or is it talking to them once you match?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:01 AM
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Quite right and as you can see from the report, I identified this as my weak area so I am quite happy that I am aware enough to know where I need to improve. This was my first ever first date that took place during the day - I'm much more comfortable with evening dates, like going for drinks - and I think that definitely contributed to my failure because I am much more adept at coming up with an 'excuse' to get back to her place at the end of the night.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 09:00 AM
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Exactly. Without this line: Me: Pull yourself together woman. Get a wash, throw on a summer dress and you’ll be fine I probably wouldn't have had a date at all. And in a perfect world I wouldn't have to send a fucking text the morning of a date just to check she's still coming but it's par for the course now. The whole reason I checked is because a few girls from Tinder have flaked on me recently and I'm sick of wasting my time and I think you can see that come through in the text tbh. I'm glad …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 08:57 AM
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Mate one thing I've learned is that women filter guys out on Tinder for the most ridiculous reasons simply because they have too much choice. Example: I met a girl off tinder who was wearing a bracelet with a dog on it. I looked at it when I met her and said 'Oh it's a dog. In your pictures I thought it was a horse.' She said 'If you'd said that I'd have unmatched you.' True story.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 12:24 AM
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I originally suggested evening drinks but she specifically said she wanted to go for a coffee or something during the day instead. And if I'd suggested it at the end of the date it would have gone on way too long.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 11:08 PM
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It's even quiet on a Friday night during summer when the students aren't around. But I think I've doxxed myself enough in this thread already!
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 06:01 PM
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Yeah I've only lived here my entire life... trust me, the bars are fucking dead where I live until mid evening at least.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 05:51 PM
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The obstacle is simply her Anti-Slut Defence (ASD) so there's no need to ask. It's a case of get around it with tact, destroy it with brute force or accept defeat and go for the lay on the second date - which will be me.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 05:50 PM
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I think it's just a whole new level of desperate hamstering over here. A fair number of girls claim to believe that Tinder is 'just for meeting people' or 'making friends', like are you fucking serious bitch?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 05:49 PM
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Of course I could think of an excuse now but in the moment I was caught out. I have a good handle on the main concepts and I'm not a newbie but nor am I some kind of player. To be honest I was quite focussed on doing the main things right - amused mastery, holding frame, escalating etc that by the time we were leaving I was thinking I had done all the hard work. But alas I forgot about LMR and was caught unprepared...
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 05:47 PM
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You're right. I knew there was some obvious excuse I was forgetting.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:51 PM
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Makes no difference. The scrapped knee and the dirty jeans still work in this case. You could make the phone one work as well. Of course it makes a difference because it would be easier and just as quick for me to go home to do those things. You live at X right? I'm actually meeting my friend in that direction but I'll drop you off first. Once at her place, pull out the bathroom one and Bob's your uncle. Could work generally but wouldn't have worked on this occasion because when she told me wher…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:49 PM
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You've got a point here to an extent - be indirect about it. I agree, but the problem in this case was we were in the city centre and my place was a bus ride away in one direction and her place was a bus ride away in the opposite direction. I didn't make it clear but her place wasn't within walking distance so most of those indirect excuses didn't apply which is why I said the best thing I could come up with on the spot - wanting to see where she lives. Edit: also: Unless she's begging you to co…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:34 PM
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it was the middle of the afternoon, bars would be closed or dead. Also her place wasn't exactly just around the corner. The only way I'd get near her place was under the clear pretext of actually going to her place.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:31 PM
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i'm very impressed that you got so much kino in out in public I am a bit like an animal in heat, I just don't give fuck once I'm in that situation with a decent looking girl.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:29 PM
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Not exactly the response I expected but you're welcome. It's way better than ass.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 02:44 PM
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Exactly because if Ashley Maddison didn't exist, she'd have just gone elsewhere to get fucked. The hypergamy was already present when Ashley Maddison provided the solution, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 10:35 AM
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Love the sound of the masculine hobbies idea, my only concern is that such activities are going to be in short supply here in the UK where the word 'masculine' feels like a borderline swear word nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 09:43 AM
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Day 27: I think I got about 9 hours - fell asleep somewhere around 11pm and woke at about 8am.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 09:38 AM
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I was talking about this on a date yesterday. We were discussing the ripped girls I talked about above and I said that frankly, as long as a girl looks after her diet and does enough exercise to stay slim and healthy, the only thing I would want her doing in the gym is squats because dat ass. Nothing else is going to aid her attractiveness in my eyes. She doesn't need physical strength and shoulder striations ain't going to help her pass the boner test.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 09:36 AM
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Day 26: got 6 hours. Fell asleep around 2am and woke at 8am.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 11:10 AM
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I know two girls personally who fit exactly what you're talking about. They're not huge in terms of size because women struggle to achieve that but they are muscley with probably 8% body fat so you can see a clear six pack, biceps etc. Yes it is projection. Both have fucked numerous guys who are muscley gym rats. The problem is these girls get positive reactions when they start down this path due to a mixture of: (a) the 'you go girl' mentality which means anything a girl does is amazing and emp…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 08:05 AM
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Agreed (although not always easy to achieve for obvious reasons). One of the hardest elements of TRP to nail is the IDGAF attitude but it's actually hard to give a fuck when one girl is on her way over in nothing but her underwear and a coat while another is texting you arranging to come round tomorrow night.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:38 AM
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I would genuinely like some advice on how to "move on" as a man from a woman you enjoyed close company with for a long time. The two best ways I know to get over a girl: No contact, cold turkey. This lifesaving advice saved my ass from being a whimpering beta after my first major breakup. It requires serious discipline not to even answer your phone when she calls you at 10pm and you're laying there thinking of her but it is so worth it. For the sake of clarity, no contact is absolute and means d…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:35 AM
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4 years at uni made me realise people are shit at saving money. I'd say it's one of the few advantages I've gained from growing up relatively poor, I can and do save like a motherfucker.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:11 PM
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Perhaps this question will betray my naiveté but wouldn't you be better off keeping the steady £100k/month profits (and increasing them year by year) than selling out for £10m but having less passive income? If you got your business to £100k a month then in 10 years maybe you'd get to £1m a month and all of a sudden you're making more in a year than you'd make selling off the business..?
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:05 PM
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I wasn't raised by a single mum but I have an anecdotal contribution nonetheless. From when I was a toddler until I was about 7 or 8 I was an absolute horror of a child. From the age of 2 I threw the worst tantrums in public and in private and was infamous among my extended family for doing so. I was a moody little shit and tbh I think my mum was probably close to hating me. And I was stubborn as all hell (something that hasn't changed), so if I was throwing a tantrum because I really wanted som…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:13 AM
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Day 25: got 9 hours. Fell asleep early at about 11:30pm and woke at 8:30am. I could have set my alarms earlier but I didn't expect to fall asleep so early. Good times.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 09:02 AM
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...she's thinking to herself "My man is so attractive that other women want to have sex with him, but I'm the one he chose to commit to." It's a tremendous ego-boost for her. You have no idea how right this is. There's a dating show on TV in the UK at the moment and there's so much Red Pill flying about I am seriously considering making a detailed post about it. In it, there's this girl who openly admitted she wants to date players. She goes on a date with the biggest Chad I've ever fucking seen…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 11:57 AM
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Day 24: got about 8.5 hours. Fell asleep around 1am, woke at 9:30am. I find myself going to sleep at a more consistent time now but because I'm not currently working I'm often either sleeping too long or staying in bed long after I've woken up in the mornings. I need to rectify this - hopefully having a regular 9-5 job soon will help.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 10:18 AM
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Day 23: got about 7.5 hours. Fell asleep around 1am and woke at 8:30am.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 02:54 PM
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I'm also from the UK and every single part of this is spot on. It's an especially astute observation about the difficulty of being visibly and unashamedly masculine here whilst also having a high paying career that isn't a trade. Even guys like us who are actively trying to be more masculine find it difficult because while it's easy to do it at the gym or at football on a Saturday, there are certain areas of life here where it just isn't acceptable, like working in an office. The working class g…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 05:50 PM
2

Well done OP, this is one of the better posts about ego. There have been many in the past 12-18 months but most are far too theoretical and convoluted to the point of nonsense, often because someone read a book about ego and tried to rewrite it in their post without the abilities of a published author. The rest are too simplistic, usually featuring a pointlessly short FR followed by some vague message to 'get over your ego'.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 09:32 AM
1

Day 22: got 7 hours. Fell asleep at about 1:10am, woke at 8:15am.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 08:02 AM
1

Perhaps I misunderstood the post but it seems like you've created a false dichotomy between virgins / n=1 girls and CC-riding sluts who've are in double digits but have never strongly bonded with any guy. And from that you draw the conclusion that the former is more dangerous than the latter, and is therefore the most dangerous option full stop. It lacks nuance in my opinion. There are girls who might pair bond stronger with subsequent loves than with their first; there are serial monogamists; t…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 10:11 AM
1

Day 21: got about 9 hours. Fell asleep some time between 12-12:30am and woke around 9:30am. Length of sleep was great but quality was somewhat poor as I woke up a few times because of the heat.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 09:46 AM
1

They call you a pedophile and don't believe it when you mention you're fucking someone half your age and you're in your 40s. I wish I had a dollar for every time I've heard "date in your age group" but what the fuck do I want with fat, ugly, single moms who make bad choices in life and either hate men, want someone to pay for everything so she doesn't have to work anymore, and think they deserve to have the very best of everything? I love this community. Although it would be somewhat contrary to…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 03:54 PM
1

Day 20: got 7.5 hours. Fell asleep at 2am, woke at 9:30am. Should have gone to bed earlier
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:30 AM
1

Day 20: got about 8 hours. Fell asleep at 1am and woke around 9am.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 03:21 PM
6

Ignore the other reply, you're bang on here. I know you know exactly what you had to learn from this experience because you just told me in about 20 words. You said you're young but if you learn from all your mistakes as quickly as this one you will be fine.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 10:41 PM
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I think the 'wasnt even that good' is mostly her trying to spare my feelings I think the NFL player doesn't even WANT to see them again You're probably right on the first two points. You were there so you'll know better than me based on the context and how she said it. But the thrust of my point still stands. There will always be some other guy who's bigger than you, stronger than you, better looking than you, richer than you, more famous than you. But those things really only help you get in wi…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:56 PM
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One month in, I find out that before me she was on tinder and fucked a local NFL player. Taller. Stronger. Richer. She said it 'wasn't even that good', and that he was 'mean to her after' There's also a powerful lesson about game in here. Obviously an NFL player has peak SMV due to top 1% physique, status and money. That will get him endless one-time lays, no doubt about it. But something more is required to keep girls coming back (for any reason other than gold digging). And that thing is game.…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 02:14 PM
1

Day 19: got a much needed 10 hours as I was physically exhausted! Fell asleep at 12:15am, woke about 10:15am.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 12:33 PM
1

Day 18: got about 6.5 hours. Fell asleep around 12:45am and got up at 7:15am
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 06:10 PM
1

Day 17: got 7 hours. Fell asleep at 1am, woke at 8am.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:25 PM
2

It's a fucking joke that the court, which is undeniably superior to the university as a fact-finding and judicial body, finds him innocent yet the university is still allowed to treat him as if he's guilty. So now even a legal verdict of innocent is not enough to vindicate you.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:32 PM
2

Very good summary of the unplugging process. Even if you've been in these parts a long time, TRP is very hard to summarise because by its nature it is complex and simplifications generally do it an injustice. Also good job in answering the question as to why we seek traditional gender relations but train for the modern ones. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:24 PM
1

It's generally regarded as not as good, but the next best thing because Patrice O'Neal died and thus the Black Phillip Show ended/
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:18 PM
2

But I should note that you picked both girls up at a club - and OP explicitly asked for non-club venues I wasn't attempting to reply to OP, I was replying specifically to your comment. My larger point is that not every (attractive) woman is interested in the club scene That was my main take-home point - not every woman wants nor needs the club scene for validation You're more likely to find a quirky dental assistant, or an aspiring artist, etc, somewhere where you might not expect it - Yoga, or …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:28 PM
1

Day 16: got 6 hours. Fell asleep at 1:15am, woke at 7:15am, (unusually early start at work).
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:03 PM
1

Day 15: got 8 hours. Fell asleep at 1am, woke at 9am.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 04:02 PM
1

Please tell me how being the only sex that can bear children is not important to human life. Of course it's important. But so is the male role. Both are required for reproduction. Unless you can do that, you have to agree that men and women are not superior over each other Lol. Are you serious? I listed 4 areas off the top of my head in which men are superior. You listed one where BOTH men and women are literally indispensable and think that proves that men are not superior? Oh dear. Clearly BP …
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 06:45 PM
1

No problem. TRP is nothing if not shared knowledge.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 06:25 PM
1

Day 14: got about 9 hours. Fell asleep at 1am, woke at 10am. Aiming to fall asleep closer to midnight.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 11:08 AM
2

Sluttiness is something that can be "ruled in" but is hard to be "ruled out" Correct. It cannot be ruled out completely because AWALT. In other words, all girls have the potential to be sluts due to their biological instincts. However... but how can you ever be sure that a girl isn't slutty to Chad Thundercocks but acts like a virgin around beta bux? You're asking the right questions. Answer: you CANNOT be sure, ever. Understand that green flags do not offer you any certainty, they merely indica…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 11:06 AM
1

I gave numerous examples of areas where men are superior and explicitly stated the importance of these areas in human survival and life. In aggregate, this suggests male superiority unless you know of any areas where women are superior which are also genuinely important to human life. At the moment you sound like a Blue Piller who would be unwilling or unable to accept male superiority, even if it were somehow proven, because you cannot let go of your BP conditioning that men and women are equal…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 10:18 AM
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You'll find that opinion always gets downvoted to fuck around here unfortunately. It's easy to spot the RP benefits of religion but people here casually forget that's only a tiny part of religion. No mention of its backwards """morals""" (human sacrifice, slavery, murder, genocide, infanticide, sadistic torture, rape), no mention of the fact it encourages blind faith - ignorance - and discourages critical thinking, no mention of the fact that its fundamental premise of a magical sky fairy who co…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 10:12 AM
1

Good job on saving your marriage, kudos. It might even be worth a post at some point for the married guys, even LTR guys, because you provided specifics. We were close to divorce a couple of times... I was blue pill as fuck and 90% of college educated women these days would have left a guy like me and took me for everything I had. I guess I was lucky she never went to college then. She's a hair stylist and works from home three days a week, in a salon and my mom's business as a bookkeeper the ot…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 10:05 AM
2

I was 26, lawyer and self made without any help, from a middle class family (father owns a taxi, mother is housewife) Wankers like you who think you've done everything yourself with no help from anyone are usually the people who got a pretty fucking stellar upbringing courtesy of parents who care about you a lot. You sound like a guy I know whose parents paid for him to go to a private school, then a private college, then after he set up his own company with 2 of his roommates he had the nerve t…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:59 PM
2

Even if she does marry an alpha guy she may still lose because there's a chance that her constant shit testing combined with the inescapability of married life will turn him beta in the end anyway, at which point she will be unhappy again. Then what? She divorce rapes him and either tries to hop back on the CC post-wall with kids (yeah good luck with that) or else just finds herself a new beta provider.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 04:49 PM
1

Day 13: got 8 hours again. Like yesterday, fell asleep at 1:30am and woke at 9:30am
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:07 PM
1

Anyone pick up on this line? But we'll be making the answers hooked up to a lie detector I'm sorry, making the answers? Freudian slip much?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:28 PM
1

I always think about a single mother who lives two streets away from me. We went to school together and she was the hottest girl in the entire school, no exaggeration - a HB9 gymnast, the type you'd chop one of your balls off for back when you were a thirsty beta 14 year old. Fast forward to 20, she's had at least one kid, has a council house, is on a tonne of benefits and doesn't work as far as I know. Surprisingly she's still hot as fuck, easily a hard 8 but really who gives a shit? I wouldn't…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:13 PM
5

That's fascinating. The funny thing of course is that if Paris had opted for Athena or especially Hera's gift, he would undoubtedly become top 5-10% at least which would give him access to the most beautiful women anyway by being an extremely high value man.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:49 PM
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That's the thing with TRP. When you read about it, you kind of get it but you're still unsure about some of it. But when you apply your new perspective to what you see around you, you see that everything you read here is actually true.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 02:32 PM
2

Great post. You can tell this guy is an old school realtalker not just because of his specifically Red Pill ideas but also because he isn't afraid of harsh, unpopular truths. I liked this in particular: From a purely economic point of view, then, the solution to the problem of overpopulation should be immediately apparent. The ownership of children or more correctly the trusteeship over children must be privatized. Rather than considering children as collectively owned by or entrusted to “societ…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 10:42 AM
2

Yesterday I was at the gym and I saw this guy helping a girl work out. I'm not honestly sure if they were a couple or just 'friends', i.e. girl + orbiter. He was in decent shape, lean but not exactly jacked and he didn't give off that alpha vibe. He was teaching her how to do certain lifts until she noticed two guys at the rack beside her who were her classmates when they were like 10 years old (now roughly mid 20s). At least one of them was considerably more muscular than her partner. In the mi…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 10:12 AM
2

It's funny because a disabled girl or an obese girl having a 'raunchy' photoshoot is empowering, but at the same time women being presented as 'sex objects' (read: sexy) in films, games and magazines is 'objectification'. I like to call this Schroedinger's sex object: at any given time the representation of a woman as sexual is simultaneously empowering and undermining.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:52 AM
1

Day 12: got about 8 hours. Fell asleep somewhere around 1:30am and woke around 9:30am.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 09:40 AM
1

I see my former roommates marrying off, fiance's posting pictures, status updates, etc leading up the weddings. Likes and shares all around. That's all they really care about - validation. Even my ex told me she couldn't wait to post up baby pictures and wedding invites. This was huge red flag for me. Go and climb a beautiful mountain somewhere. You will see two types of people at the top. Those who stare out in amazement at the view and soak in the beauty of the world, and those who immediately…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:07 PM
1

Red flags: Doesn't like beer, has no wine knowledge, wears a bluetooth headset What
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 10:35 PM
1

Question: assuming this guy's SMV is high as fuck, what is the reason why a post-wall wife would leave him? Do the divorce incentives outweigh her hypergamous desire to stay with this millionaire when she doesn't have the looks to do better?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:20 PM
3

They're fine for fucking. You don't need to know shit about Jane Austen to suck a good dick.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:03 PM
1

There's probably something in this. I know a girl who reads shit tonnes of books. Objectively she's like a 6, maybe a 6.5 because she has a very nice face, but to me she has the appeal of an 8.5 because in my gut I feel like she is quality LTR material (and I haven't said that about any girls in the last 12 months).
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 09:02 PM
3

Women from these cities might fuck in their spare time but they arent taking a new dude home every other night. Theres not enough anonymity, not enough different clubs to hit up on a rotation. I'm going to chime in with some anecdotal shiz. In the past 2 years I've plated two girls who were both from these sleepy, small towns you talked about, each from a different European country. The first one was basically a serial monogamist, i.e. went from boyfriend to boyfriend with little gap in between …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 08:51 PM
1

I agree with your points and that Switzerland benefitted from neutrality but at the same time you could argue that they could only afford to be neutral because enough other countries had already signed up to take on Germany in both world wars. In other words, if everyone tried to be neutral, Europe would be known as the German empire.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 08:16 PM
1

Maybe it does make you a cunt but I'd rather be a rich cunt chilling on my yatch than a destitute nice guy with regrets.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 08:12 PM
2

Interesting, thanks for the answer. I can't relate to the cowboy boots thing but I don't see anything gay about feeling sexy (except maybe wording it like that). I think most average men have times where they feel sexy, they just think of it more in terms of feeling like a boss than feeling sexy, albeit that that is sexy to women. Like if I walk off the pitch knowing I've had a great game or if I am gaming a girl and it's going ridiculously well I feel sexy.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 08:05 PM
2

To be honest I've seen some quite credible arguments that women are inferior to men in far more ways than men are inferior to women. I can't remember them all but here are some of them: Men are more rational which makes them more useful in most situations, especially emergencies. I can't empirically prove that of course, but I think most men would agree and I don't doubt it. Men are better problem solvers because it is their first instinct when faced with a problem (as opposed to women's instinc…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:57 PM
1

If I'm that much better than you, why am I with you? (Female mindset or no?) Honest question, do you feel like some of the female socio-sexual characteristics are present in you and/or other gay or bisexual men? Like hypergamy for example, indicated by the above quote. I've often wondered if this is the case given how a significant number of gay men seem to display other typically-female characteristics such as high voice, feminine gait and body language, more interested in fashion and other fem…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 07:36 PM
1

Your posts are good but a senior contributor like you shouldn't be using absolute statements where they don't belong. "No exceptions"? Behave yourself, I've helped female friends move before who I didn't and don't want to fuck. And there's female relatives. I helped a fellow student move, it only took a couple of hours because she was a student and she offered beer and pizza after. One of the reasons AskTRP is shit is because OP lays out his situation from his POV and half the responses are uneq…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:12 PM
1

Much to learn, the young padawan has.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:01 PM
4

I mostly go to the Chateau for Heartiste's life saving game advice and his general notion of alpha vs beta. I'm way past the stage of needing feminism to be debunked. As for RoK, I don't see much value in it. Frankly I think it has a much less intelligent authorship and readership than both TRP and the Chateau and it reads a bit like the male cousin of Jezebel. That can never be good.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:13 AM
1

Day 11: got 8 and a bit hours. Fell asleep around 1:40-1:50am and woke around 10am but went back to sleep for another 20-30 minutes. Should have gone to sleep earlier but got sidetracked watching the end of a film on TV.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:04 AM
1

Also choking. You literally won't believe how wet it makes girls until you try it.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 10:46 PM
21

It's finally happened. Feminism has revealed its true end game - as adequately put over at the Chateau, 'teaching women to be second-rate men rather than first-rate women'
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 09:24 PM
1

Day 10: got 7 hours. Drifted off at 1am and woke at 8am, 30 mins before my alarm.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 10:19 AM
2

If you really struggle to eat enough, drink your calories. I struggled with the same problem when I first started lifting and plateaud when I should have still been seeing newb gains. Started drinking 3 litres of whole milk per day - lifts shot up, as did my weight. As I was doing a fair bit of cardio alongside lifting I didn't get fat off it either.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:37 AM
1

Day 9: got 7.5 hours. Fell aasleep at 1am and woke at 8:30am. Still aiming to sleep progressively earlier.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 10:21 AM
1

I've experienced women from both and I live in the UK. I'd say there are some differences but they are mostly just differences in degree and, importantly, that the applicability of game does NOT change in light of these minor differences, i.e. the slight differences between UK and US women does not mean that there is a different version of game needed in each country. By differences in degree what I basically mean is that the general behavioural traits of women are found in both British and Amer…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 08:51 AM
1

FYI it doesn't sound like you have oneitis at all, this guy is talking out of his fucking arse. Probably a newb.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 05:19 PM
1

As our population grows, the proportion of newbies who (a) read the sidebar and lurk, and (b) are intelligent enough to deeply understand TRP rather than just flinging the acronyms around drops dramatically. Especially the last ~15,000 subs.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 05:17 PM
2

I don't get how we're literally the only people who know this. That's the entire purpose of the matrix (read: Blue Pill societal programming): it keeps the remaining 80% of men blissfully ignorant, believing the lies we all believed at one time. They are sat at home waiting for all the girls they've liked in the past to stop dating douchebags and jerks and realise what they really want is a Nice Guy like him. They're the guys who've never heard of game, who don't lift because 'it's what's on the…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 11:29 AM
3

Correct. Don't shame them, learn from them. Most sluts you encounter in your life will lie about their number so there is no point even asking. The better approach is to appear non-judgemental so you can learn the truth as she opens up to you and then, beautifully, after a few years experience with both sluts and non-sluts you begin to notice the red and green flags that she can't hide. Once you develop your slut radar you won't have to ask women for their N count, you can read the signs and tak…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 10:47 AM
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Please don't use the words 'dick' and 'cut' so close together in one sentence. It gives me the willies.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 10:42 AM
1

Has to be a troll. Even if not, mods should delete this steaming pile of shite. OP doesn't understand SMV or nuance at all.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 10:33 AM
1

Day 8: got 7 hours. Fell asleep about 2:40am and woke at 9:40am. Felt a bit lethargic.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 10:22 AM
4

That's actually a great tactic, turning down your first interview date and rearranging it because you 'have another interview on that day'.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 12:50 AM
5

How do you know whether the candidates you're interviewing have 10 other offers or 0?
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 12:47 AM
1

I don't worry too much about my Dad in his marriage. My mum's not perfect, but nor is she a shrill, abusive hag. I do however worry about my brother. He has a few natural alpha qualities but ultimately when it comes to women he is still very much plugged in (thinks his girlfriend of 1 year is a unicorn, even though he also thought that about the last one...). I worry that he will succumb to the 'I guess it's time to get married now' social expectation and marriage will gradually erode his RP qua…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 12:43 AM
1

God can you imagine the AMOGing though...
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 11:04 PM
1

Day 7: got 7 hours. Fell asleep at 4am and woke at 11am. Only went to bed so late because I was having a blast with my best mate and it was a Friday night, but still want to get back to going to bed a lot earlier.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 10:56 PM
1

Some good advice in here /u/trinitys_dildo, especially re isolation and kino; dropping some of those lingering beta tells like being too invested, scarcity mentality etc; and that god awful 'respect' line. But you came here with a story about how you fucked up which shows a commitment to self improvement. One thing I'd add is that you seem to be scapegoating your lack of muscles as your reason for failure. Don't. Working on your weaknesses is obviously a valuable attitude to have in all aspects …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 09:42 PM
1

Replying to re-emphasise that to close successfully in this scenario all you really need is isolation, kino and escalation in that order. It may not be easy but it sure is simple, just remember those 3 words. An alternative to the 'I want to show you something at my place' (indirect) is simply grabbing her by the hand and saying "let's get out of here" or "we're leaving" (direct). These are higher risk higher reward because it's a more dominant and confident move - recommended where her response…
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 09:11 PM
1

Day 6: got 6 hours. Fell asleep at 5am and woke at around 11am. Appalling, no excuses. I will do better tonight.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 07:06 PM
1

Day 5: got 8.5 hours, but only by falling asleep at 2am and waking at 10:30am. The duration of sleep was good but timings unacceptable.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 07:05 PM
1

Day 4: got 7.5 hours. Fell asleep at 12 midnight, woke at 5am for some reason, then slept through to 7:30am. Having some joy following the advice to wind down and rise with the sun - ceased activity on my Xbox, TV and computer when I realised the sun was setting last night, although I had trouble leaving my phone alone after that. Might consider switching my phone off at 11:30pm every night or something.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 09:18 AM
1

Day 3: got 6.5 hours after having also slept during the day. Fell asleep at 1am, woke at 7:30am feeling pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:47 AM
1

Day 2: Got 12 hours after a night on the piss. Went to sleep at 4am, woke at 4pm.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:45 AM
1

Day 1: Got 8 hours. Fell asleep at 4am, woke at noon. (I'm working late at a bar, hence the late nights and lie ins).
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 01:58 PM
1

ErasmusOrgasmus will take part in this challenge
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 01:57 PM
1

That seems fair enough. Those posters to whom I was referring were anything but RP women (which makes sense because any RPW commenting should blend in). I reported a few I have seen and it seems at least one or two of them have been banned.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:21 PM
1

/u/MachiavellianRed First, I fully support the message behind this post. The modding here is first rate and like nowhere else. As others have said, all other online communties see growth coincide with a rapid fall in content quality. My question is what is the mods' policy on female posters? My visits to the sub have been less frequent in recent months yet even I have noticed a huge increase in the number of clearly female users posting (in relative terms, as there seemed to be virtually 0 femal…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:19 AM
1

I'd go with this. Heavy dread with hard next as a backup, no need to go straight in for the hard next. Test the waters with dread - you've nothing to lose as if nothing changes your LTR is already dead and buried.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 09:19 PM
1

People that want to lose weight usually do it for two reasons: 1) Look better 2) Be healthier. Exercise may not strictly be necessary to lose weight but it will help bucketloads with both of those aims. After all, you can lose weight and look healthier, but if you never exercise you won't actually be particularly healthy (cardiovascular health etc). Likewise losing weight will help you look better if you're a fatty but if you want to look even better then lift.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 01:43 AM
1

Too serious. Agree and amplify or amused mastery is the way forward: 'This dick is mine' 'You're adorable' ruffles her hair Don't treat her shit seriously.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 02:33 PM
2

I gathered that because the growing number of spastics on this sub who downvote simple, logical stuff don't tend to bother replying. Obviously frame is important and context is generally needed before labelling someone as alpha or beta. The reason for the link is that if you watched it (or better still, if you watched the whole series - not that I'm suggesting you do that) you would see that it's not even an arguable case. The character of David is that stereotypical white, nerdy scientist guy w…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 11:29 PM
1

I hope it doesn't end in suicide for this guy but I wouldn't be surprised if it did. And even if it did, as kanji_sasahara pointed out below, it wouldn't make any difference because no one outside RP circles cares about male deaths or has the awareness to identify the real problem. They'd just say 'oh well it's because he was depressed' and leave it at that.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 10:38 PM
1

Getting downvoted for commenting on one of the most beta fictional characters on TV is hilarious. Go on youtube and add /watch?v=fa4qwHdc7bQ to the URL. It's a short video of his 'highlights'. He has no frame. At all.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 10:30 PM
1

He had MASSIVE oneitis for her! He lost his V plates to her, married her even though she was the only girl he'd ever slept with and there was an entire episode dedicated to him being a pathetic loser and seeing reminders of her in everything around him (at a hockey game, a can of beer, a pair of boots...)
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:33 PM
-2

Don't get carried away. David was not alpha in the slightest. He was a beta caricature. He was going to sweep all the shit off his desk and throw Phoebe on it to fuck her but he stopped in order to carefully remove certain items first, whilst explaining to her that they were expensive pieces of equipment. That's one example out of literally hundreds.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:30 PM
22

And by pure coincidence, what are the chances that the co-worker she fucked is 6'2" and lifts, the type of guy who instinctively looks like he could protect her from a would-be rapist?
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:26 PM
21

Not to be morbid and kill the party, but Update 5 is more likely to be a suicide note.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 02:19 PM
16

It wouldn't surprise me. Any guy who paid to see that film with his gf failed a shit test right there.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 12:49 PM
7

Forget male strippers, there's only 2 words you need to violently teabag that stupid argument: Magic Mike
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:16 PM
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In theory this seems like sound advice to me but it's quite difficult. With a previous plate I focussed almost entirely for the 3-4 month duration on not showing any attachment and remaining aloof because I was treating the whole thing as a practice in NOT getting oneitis. It worked, and by applying a load of game that was new to me she was on the verge of falling in love with me. It actually reached the point you just described - she was literally in tears in front of me talking about how she d…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:08 PM
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Showing TRP is like a magician revealing his tricks. By revealing the truth behind his skill, he loses his very status as a magician. Now he's just some twat in a gay costume. Not to mention that if you go around showing every Liz, Anne and Jane TRP then you're fucking the rest of us over too. They'll show their friends, and they'll show their friends, and then the shrieking mob will be after us. That may be inevitable but you needn't expedite the process.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 10:57 PM
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Even disregarding the content, this is a great FR because it's detailed as fuck and it shows not just what happened, but how it happened. The quality of FRs has been going down the pan rapidly in the last few months but this was good. As for your situation OP I think many are going overboard by proclaiming that your GF definitely already has a side bitch, but that said I do think your only options are either to employ dread game or simply go out and just pick up another chick and bring her home …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 10:49 PM
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Who the fuck even catcalls women anyway? Whenever feminists complain about it I am always left assuming it's like the same 5 guys who just travel around catcalling women 24/7. What kind of sad act thinks that whistling or shouting at a woman is ever going to get his dick wet?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 10:06 PM
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No one cares. Stop attention seeking and take your narcissistic, solipsistic self appraisals elsewhere to someone who gives a shit.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 09:52 PM
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And the point I'm making is that he isn't even being vengeful - he's not actively creating a shit scenario for someone else, he's just refusing to help the bitch and saying she can deal with the consequences of her actions herself. I agree the kid will probably lose out but you know who he can blame for that? 100% his cunt mother.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:39 PM
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I appreciate the long reply but it wasn't really necessary. What I was getting at is if you write FRs in future, include the detail about things like specific shit tests you faced, how you DHVd, how you held frame etc. Specific examples of conversations or actions you took are the most useful parts for others because they show how you succeeded. A story which says that you got laid is useless. A story about how you got laid is useful. Without such detail your FR brings no value to the table rega…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:16 AM
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Quite right. Cuckoldry is the ultimate male humiliation because it entails sexual infidelity, lifelong deception, and it leads man to believe he has accomplished his primary biological drive when in fact he hasn't. It is among the absolute worst of female behaviour, such that it disgusts rational, RP men when women will justify cuckoldry with offhand hamstring like 'my husband isn't the father but there's no point in telling him, he would just be upset.' It's truly abhorrent yet as you have righ…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 11:09 AM
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Excellent points. I'd also add that I believe most guys do best with girls when they're not specifically out looking for girls, they're just genuinely having a good time regardless. The corollary to this is that if you don't honestly enjoying clubbing you probably won't pick up loads of girs there, whereas if you have a good time doing something you enjoy, women are more likely to be drawn to you because you look like a fun guy. Anecdotally, I can't tell you how many times I've gone out to clubs…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:58 AM
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I agree with this 100%. Spinning plates is absolutely invaluable for practising not giving a fuck, not putting the pussy on a pedestal, holding frame, dominating, etc etc ad nauseum. The big one for me was learning to avoid getting oneitis. It's like a trial run for an LTR in some respects. You can try things you'd never have done as a BP boyfriend and see first hand how they work. Spinning plates also introduced me to the idea of making women work for shit, whereas most BP guys will enter an LT…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:32 AM
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Lacking in detail too much to be useful to other users. For example, there's no mention of: Shit tests thrown at you How you responded to any shit tests Any openers used, in this case prior to the dates obviously Any text game Application of game techniques such as agree + amplify, amused mastery, negging, DHV etc - except very brief mention of basic kino (but no escalation) Also your post and comments suggest you don't understand what shit tests (they are used by women, not men) or plates (girl…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:17 AM
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Guys don't shit test. Shit testing is the girl testing to see if you're alpha enough for her to give up the goods without regretting it. In other words, she's testing to see if she wants to fuck you. Men have a much simpler way to check that: it's called the boner test and it takes about 3 seconds. If you don't understand what shit tests are then you need to read more and post less.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 01:10 AM
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I'd still wait a couple of years after it is released personally, just in case any new side effects arise. Better the devil you know than the devil you don't.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:16 AM
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I love how you quantify money in terms of child support payments. It at least means that if anything puts me off getting a vasectomy at some point, it won't be the pitiful cost.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:10 AM
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Worth it though. Women are easily replaceable. The $100,000s spent raising some kids you never wanted aren't.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:04 AM
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This barely even qualifies as vengeance IMO. All this guy is saying is that the vindictive, manipulative, deceitful woman can deal with the consequences of HER undeniably shitty actions. He's just saying he won't help or offer her an out - and why should he after she attempts to shaft him for literally $100,000s for raising a child which she knows isn't his?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:01 AM
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Ironically I ejaculated a boatload of healthy, potent sperm all over my keyboard while reading that story.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 11:57 PM
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Except we're clearly talking about the scenario where the woman has cheated on /u/LionLaw and is trying to make him spend $100,000s of his hard earned money raising a child which isn't his. So if the child ends up with a shitty life it is entirely the woman's fault, not his.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 11:50 PM
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Fuckin' this. It's that simple. In my Blue Pill days my gf once called me by another guy's name during a conversation (not during sex, thank god) and I regret not dumping her there and then. I made her make it up to me but I feel like a fucking cock 10 years later that I didn't just up and leave her. I did get the last laugh though after dumping her a year later for being a disrespectful cunt.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 11:41 PM
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Of course your wife would flip out - who wants a daughter named That Hooker From That Time in Budapest. You could call her That Hooker for short.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 11:34 PM
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You know a comment is good when it makes you actually laugh, rather than just exhale audibly. That's fucking hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 11:31 PM
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Thank fuck I found a good comment here somewhere
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 11:58 AM
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What? That's ridiculous. After work, have a shower, throw on a shirt and hit a bar/club. In 2 hours you can be on your way home, girl in tow. If you manage not to fuck it up - especially in the morning - boom, plate acquired. How on God's earth is it less effort to get and maintain an LTR than to get a plate or two and simply call them up to shag them as and when you want? Major hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 09:10 PM
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Studies? Quotes? Those sound dangerously similar to facts, which we all know are tools of the patriarchy used to oppress women. Seriously have you ever debated with a feminist? They never cite shit unless it's something they just read on Buzzfeed two seconds ago. They believe that their feelings are sufficient to back up their assertions because their solipsism prevents them from acknowledging the possibility that their subjective emotional experience does not represent objective reality.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:54 PM
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I feel attracted to ONLY this man so what am I possibly losing out on? 3.5 billion men on earth but sure, you're only attracted to this ONE guy who just miraculously happens to live in your vicinity. HAMSTER ALERT! HAMSTER ALERT! Edit: --Also note gentlemen, exhibit no. 445105 of how women just cannot stand to leave men alone and let them have their male spaces.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 08:47 PM
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Who are you trying to convice? Whether men or women are superior in their inequality is a matter of perspective since in the context of sport or philosophy for example there is no contest: men are superior and have been since time immemorial. And I'm struggling to think of any meaningful areas in which women are superior to balance that out and reach the conclusion that neither men nor women are superior.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 05:14 PM
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My preferred way to conceptualise the idea is to use ideas of forces and action. Men act upon the world overtly, using direct 'force' of one kind or another that is easily visible and in the open. If a man wants to make money he gets a job and works hard, or he starts his own business. If a man wants to solve a problem, he simply applies his intellectual force to reach a solution. If a man wants to move a heavy object, he simply applies his brute physical force to it. In contrast, women act prim…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:33 PM
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Good analysis. Let's not forget that the other 'benefit' of strategy 2 (amorally, of course) is that although you aren't investing in those children or their upbringing, a beta male willing to cuck himself will. The single mother will work hard to see to that. So crucially, unlike the ancestral caveman who employs strategy 2 whose children will mostly die because their father has not invested in their protection, in the modern world those children will not only survive but will be provided for b…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:07 PM
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I'll take 'because they want to be around people with the same level of maturity as themselves all day' for £500 Alex.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 08:57 PM
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That's kind of irrelevant to the point of this particular story though. The point was that teaching was what he always wanted to do, was his mission. And he gave it up for something he presumably wasn't passionate about just to fulfil his beta bux role like a good little boy. It doesn't matter if your mission is to be a CEO or a street cleaner, the point is that you do what you want to do and, as summarised perfectly above, Don't let women derail you from your life purpose. Period. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 08:55 PM
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Seems harsh to remove the vote from those who are made involuntarily redundant and pensioners who haven't yet lost their marbles.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 08:00 PM
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Good FR rewarded with even better insights - I hope you're reading the comments OP.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/15 11:12 AM
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I can vouch by way of FR for the idea that the confidence you get from consistently lifting heavy will seep into other areas of your life and will be noticed. I started lifting and was very consistent for 6 months. In that time I acquired plates and ONSs - admittedly as I had before lifting - but it was easier and I also noticed a lot more attention from the attractive women around me (uni). In particular, a HB8.5 actually did that 14 year old girl thing of telling her friend to let me know she …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:42 AM
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Just flowers at most, no card, and especially no thanks. Being sexually available and dirty should be expected from all girlfriends. Flowers let her know you appreciate it but thanks goes too far towards implying that she is going above and beyond.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:16 AM
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Even better, if you have any RP mates who understand the value of dread game you could come to some sort of mutually beneficial arrangement. Dread game on tap.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 02:13 AM
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Is that link right because it doesn't seem to want to work (assuming it was a reddit link)?
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 01:38 AM
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I don't know where you're from but I'd recommend familiarising yourself with the Ched Evans case in the UK. He's a pro footballer who was accused of rape, convicted but still challenging his conviction. It was decided that his 'victim' was too drunk to consent - as you rightly said, one must be deemed too drunk - but on his webpage you can see the CCTV evidence of both parties entering the hotel just before the act. They walk in together but there's a point where she goes back outside to get a p…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 11:07 AM
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I don't think the message behind rape laws is that the woman isn't responsible for her drunken actions because I think that would amount to an admission that her actions were voluntary at the time, under the circumstances, but they were vitiated by her drunkenness. I think the message is actually much simpler: when women drink they get vulnerable (in all cases, with no assessment of the facts necessary case by case), and when men drink they become predatory. Coupled with society's instinct for s…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 10:42 AM
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The problem is, those people force themself into believing it. It's a constant, active suppression of the known facts and true perspectives. Women are naturally gifted for that. Bending the reality to its opposite in their heads is their bread and butter. One of the few natural skills they have. I wonder if maybe this is because women have always lacked the skills to be able to actually change their reality, so they naturally became good at convincing themselves of a different reality that wasn'…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 01:36 AM
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Because women by definition can never be cucked so they have no concept of it, no understanding that in most circumstances men are not inclined to invest in raising someone else's offspring.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:31 PM
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No I'm not saying it depends on context. I'm saying that if you simply state your opinion when asked and leave it at that, it's probably fine. But if you interject with your opinion and then continue to argue with others in an attempt to change their minds, then you are qualifying and therefore weakening your position, even if you're right and the other person is a moron.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:20 PM
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Well we all know how hamsters like myths and fairytales.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 11:16 PM
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Even better, break up with her without telling her why then when she asks why, just tell her to "guess". If she's done even more shit than you know about then it might come out and you can just laugh quietly to yourself and be glad that you got out.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 12:57 AM
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You've hit the most persuasive argument here The problem with arguing with others and voicing your opinion, is that you are effectively qualifying yourself to them By putting it in game terms you've made it much clearer, since we know that the one doing the qualifying is the one in the weaker position. But I think it's an important distinction to say that arguing with people (where the argument is purely academic and isn't going to change anything substantial) is qualifying, but merely stating y…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 12:49 AM
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Girl in the video unknowingly spits quite a bit of RP truth if you read between the lines: Napoleon was a short man, Caesar was a short man. A lot of people who ruled this world and were very attractive to women and got all that attention from women were actually short. Hey great news guys, height doesn't matter at all as long as you're, you know, literally a world leader... Translation: height is important, unless you have mega power and social status, in which case I will suddenly become heigh…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/15 12:21 AM
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Redium also holds the accolade for the state with the most gyms per 1,000 citizens, standing at 50. Clothing sizes in Redium do not conform to international standards. Instead of small, medium and large, the sizes ascend as follows: do you even lift?; noob gains; constant pump; swole; beast mode; and Arnold.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 01:53 PM
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In a depressing-as-fuck thread, this made me chuckle.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:57 AM
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I take your point, they don't get the satisfaction of having truly earned the rewards - but they nevertheless do get the rewards. Off topic, your little anecdote is ridiculously close to a comment I posted just a couple of days ago. I'll repost it because I think you'll enjoy it. I think it was Karen Straughan who talked about this in relation to childhood games. Boys like to establish the rules and play the game according to those rules, then the results provide a hierarchy of competence in tha…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 01:56 AM
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...and thus abundance mentality was born, and /u/Dr_Morsu lived happily ever after.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 10:04 PM
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It's irrelevant that she sees his as BB if he applies Red Pill principles. Best case scenario: she thinks he's beta bux but /u/Dr_Morsu games the shit out of her, escalates, fucks her a few times then ditches her when he wants. Worst case scenario: she thinks he's beta bux and tries to string him along, denying him sex. So he just leaves. He may plough her in the end, he may not. But the fact that she may view him as BB means nothing since he's [hopefully] not a plugged in Blue Piller who will f…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 09:53 PM
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Good comment. The only bit I have to disagree with is the part in bold Fact is, it's just better to be the smarter, faster, stronger, taller, better looking, 'richer', more 'popular' person. Men get rewarded in ways unimaginable to women. The ways in which men get rewarded for being smarter, faster, stronger, taller, better looking, 'richer', more 'popular' are far from unimaginable to women because they get those rewards just for being attractive. But I like your overall perspective that, provi…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 09:28 PM
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Better still, imply you have plates who wish they were your girlfriends: HB8: Have you got a girlfriend? RP guru: They wish! HB8: 'They'??? Tingles ensue
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 09:14 PM
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Fucking astute analysis. Objective, unbiased critique like this is why male spaces like TRP are vital for men, at least those of us who are genuinely interested in the truth and in improving. Women by and large just aren't capable of this nor even interested in doing so.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 12:43 AM
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Good post. The problem isn't being perceived as slutty, it's about being perceived as slutty with the wrong men An interesting perspective on ASD for sure. It fits well with hypergamy, the idea that women must date (and fuck) upwards lest their SMV and social status decrease.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 12:26 AM
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This comment shows a major lack of understanding of TRP.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 01:43 PM
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Bang on. This is why you should always try for the bang on the first date as well, because if this had happened on the first night then OP could've walked out as described above and not got caught in the same bullshit for the second day.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 01:38 PM
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'I need to be with someone who understands my needs'
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 01:32 PM
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I had similar thoughts. In particular I don't think this is necessarily a date because there was no escalation in the conversation that led up to it. There were no sexual undertones or anything.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 01:24 PM
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I think it was Karen Straughan who talked about this in relation to childhood games. Boys like to establish the rules and play the game according to those rules, then the results provide a hierarchy of competence in that game. In contrast, girls feel entitled to change the rules after the game is played several times and they don't succeed. Girls consider it is the rules that are holding them back rather than their lack of competence, so they demand that the rules are changed in order to make th…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 12:00 PM
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Your comment could not have been more spot on. Especially this: Women executives don't want competence and results, they want obedience This is exactly parallel to how women behave socially: women don't want to hear truth or constructive input, they just want agreement and consensus. Seriously, the job description of being a woman's friend reads: your primary duty is to agree with and validate my view of any given situation at all times. Commitment to truth which results in disagreement with my …
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 11:42 AM
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No problem. It's the kind of practical constructive feedback that I find useful - no need to get too theoretical or philosophical or you risk complicating things unnecessarily.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 11:22 AM
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Don't you mean the other way around, we begin to see the coding (the true dynamics at work) rather than the matrix (the fictional Blue Pill reality)?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 10:41 AM
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I'd analyse your responses as follows: First response was transparent and a little pushy but redeemed slightly by the 'I'm a doctor' humour. Instead of 'the solution to that is more sex', which is a bit too direct IMO, I'd say something like 'that's because I'm not there doing XYZ' (reference something specific you do or have that you know she finds irresistible, or the opposite, something ridiculous and unsexy like helicoptering for maximum Agree and Amplify). Not clear cut but I'd say fail, he…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 12:57 AM
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I hope you're not implying that the squat is a press.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 12:58 PM
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Have you read the rest of the thread? Why are you seriously considering marriage?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:28 AM
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Buy her some fucking skittles and be done with it.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:24 AM
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Reason #8295 why it sucks to live in a world of political correctness and white knights: you have to explain every joke because the world has lost its cheeky sense of humour.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:22 AM
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Especially in a science lab. Too soon?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:06 AM
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The alternative should also be borne in mind, the serial monogamist who seeks to avoid slut status on a technicality. A 21 year old in this category might only have had 3-5 partners but you can be sure she's suffering from as many defects and delusions as your garden variety skank.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:03 AM
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A good deal of men who are attracted to science and medicine are because they are good with logic and rules and objective subjects where you are either right or wrong. But to BP men it seems there are no clear 'rules' when it comes to women and they certainly aren't logical creatures compared to such men. Thus in the sexual market place where things must be interpreted and where the rules seem illogical (e.g. jerks get women, nice guys get cucked), the doctors and scientist types tend to struggl…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 05:37 PM
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"There are plenty of fat old ugly sluts. There are no fat old ugly studs." (with somewhat an exception for $). There are also exceptions for men with game and status. A better way of reframing that is: A woman doesn't need anything but a pussy to be a slut; a man has to have something going for him to be a stud (at least one of game / money / looks / physique / status) Incidentally that is also the answer to the classic teen girl complaint 'why are sluts condemned but studs are worshipped?' - be…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 04:26 PM
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To be fair, I too thought the 'terrorist' label was a bit OTT until Protein World actually received bomb threats...
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:39 PM
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Re retaining the ability and willingness to walk away: He who binds to himself a joy, Does the winged life destroy; But he who kisses the joy as it flies Lives in eternity's sunrise
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:29 PM
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Maybe I'm being pedantic but I wouldn't personally conceptualise this as distance directly reducing John's SMV. I think it's fallacious to suggest that his SMV has dropped and the proof is that if he were to go out looking for some side pussy while the LTR is away, he is still able to pull women of the same quality as before - because his SMV hasn't changed. Therefore his SMV objectively has not been affected. The proper way to conceptualise John's problem is that external factors (i.e. the LTR …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:02 AM
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Woman have this amazing flexibility in what they're attracted to. Mr. Beta Bob can be a BP as fuck husband but by developing an Alpha mindset he can make her attracted to him again... She isn't being flexible - she isn't doing anything, he is the one changing himself to become attractive. TRP shows us quite clearly that women are not flexible about what they are attracted to. Woman fundamentally understand that any perfect man they meet can instantly become unattractive with just a couple of wor…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 11:07 PM
2

The funniest thing from an RP perspective was how many of the guys who said "I have a girlfriend" looked and sounded like textbook beta chumps.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 03:26 PM
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I don't have formal education in divorce law but based on my knowledge of trusts, my best guess would be that if you are the beneficiary of the trust and the wife is not, she has no right to it if she divorces you before you receive the trust fund - i.e. she cannot divorce you and then compel the trustees to pay half to her, because then the trustees would be in breach of trust. But I would imagine that if the trust paid out to you during the marriage then when she divorced you she could go abou…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 12:23 PM
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The essence of a trust is that you cannot be both the Settlor (the guy giving away the money) and the Beneficiary (the guy entitled to the money) yourself. So technically you cannot set up a trust of your own money for your own benefit. But in theory it is possible if you set up a trust with a beneficiary whom you trust absolutely. But it's very risky because the nature of a trust is such that once you set it up, the money is no longer yours. You have no right to it, only the beneficiary does. S…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 11:54 AM
1

Lifting is the shit. After tweaking something in my back I recently had to stop doing 3 of my compound lifts for about a month, including my two favourites, squats and deadlifts. I was still able to do the bulk of the rest of my programme but it didn't feel quite the same. Yesterday I started squatting and deadlifting again and holy fuck, by the end of my workout I felt like challenging a wookie to a fistfight.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 01:02 AM
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This post has no value at all. It reads as if written by a 17 year old who is unable or unwilling to be objective and honest about himself. It seems like you came here to start a circlejerk about how awesome you are and that's not what we're about. But you probably don't care about my response because it's "obvious" that she likes you because she's "mesmerised" by you.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 12:45 AM
2

Respect of other men + desire of other women. Both are important.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 12:27 AM
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I'm going to give you three brief and relevant examples from my own life: This year I plated a girl who came on exchange from a small town in Spain <100,000 people. Within 2 months of her arrival. She's a hard worker, spends more time studying than half the local students and gets better grades than them. She could easily convince anyone she came here for the educational experience and frankly it could easily be true - but it didn't stop her feasting on my dick in her free time. She was a pretty…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:36 PM
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I appreciate the advice. He's only 23 and they've only been together a year or so, so I'm thinking ahead a bit here. I don't know his plans for marriage and I certainly can't see him with kids within 5 years. I don't plan on pushing any more marriage talk though. Last time it came up organically as opposed to me trying to preach TRP to my family. We had a most interesting exchange in that discussion though. I was essentially describing divorce rape and saying "why would you risk it?" and his rep…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 09:05 PM
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I will remember my first ever RP test run for a long time. I'd read something from Roissy where he exemplified beta as holding a girl's drink whilst she plays on her phone / dances / talks to Chad. It stuck with me. That night I was out at a club with a group I basically didn't know. After an hour, I found myself in the smoking area with a chubby drunk 4 and a sober 7 from the group. The 4 had been all over me and I had been physically rejecting her for about 20 minutes by this point. I was inte…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 06:53 PM
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It's a reaction I expect from women and you can see it coming a mile away because they'll get angry / emotional and make nonsensical arguments in the run up to it. But here we were having a quite rational family discussion, not particularly heated, and all were quietly listening to my points because I was introducing RP observations which were hitherto unheard in my house. But as another user said, Denial phase is stage 1. Truth hurts. It has just dawned on me that at some point in the near futu…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:50 PM
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How do you expect to find wife LTR material with no courtship, if that is your goal? Patrice O'Neal had an interesting take on this topic. I can't remember specifically which episode, but on The Black Phillip Show if you listen to him describe his girl and his relationship with her it becomes pretty obvious that his girl is a bit of a hoe but he trained and tested her over time to see if she had what it took to be LTR material. He used a martial arts metaphor to explain it but I'm not going to p…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:56 PM
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Are women just mentally handicapped? Or is their solipsism so extreme that they can't empathize for one second with the boyfriend and how much he is risking for literally zero benefit? Unfortunately I don't think it's only women and I don't think solipsism is the only cause. The power marriage holds as a social norm is huge. In the minds of those who are plugged in, being married (at an appropriate age) shows you are mature, normal, desired, a 'real' adult etc. I was discussing marriage with my …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:12 PM
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GF: Hey babe, how do you feel about trying an open relationship? Me: Fuck you Hitler!
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:02 PM
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I don't think the phases are necessarily distinct and clearly divisible. I feel like I'm 40% anger phase, 25% bargaining phase, 25% depression phase and 10% acceptance phase. It's confusing as fuck at times.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:29 PM
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This is actually a high quality post. The weed obviously isn't the main point of the post and ultimately it's your house, your rules anyway. Your 5 stages of hamster framework is interesting though and well worth observing to test if it's true.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 12:36 PM
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Obviously you broke frame when you followed her and hit her as you know but you repaired it rapidly and with great skill with the way you handled everything from the point where you decided to pull over and call the police. Your actions limited it to a bad experience when it could have been a life-ruining experience.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 10:13 AM
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We figured out that boys vs girls was unfair in high school Love this. It pretty much explains why feminism and 'equality' these days is basically code for giving women a leg up. Actually pitting men against women in fair, meritocratic competition is seen by women as unfair due to the unspoken discrepancies between male and female capabilities, yet the same women who would say that is unfair are the ones who proudly declare that women can do anything men can do whilst profiting from quotas, affi…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 09:55 AM
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Shit the bed, is this for real? In many ways we here in the UK aren't too far behind North America in terms of feminist prevalence but I swear to God if one of my professors pulled this he would be laughed out of the room. Personally I'd repurpose the word 'cunt' as a unisex pronoun and apply it to everyone in the class. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:37 PM
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True and as a general point, very valid. This would offer a solid explanation for the female invasion of some male spaces like politics, media, and academia where there is power up for grabs. But it doesn't seem to offer an explanation for the intrusion into male spaces which don't offer any real power - more social spaces - such as gaming or the casual watching of sport (I hate it when women demand to join the guys watching the football despite a blatant lack of interest). Perhaps in the latter…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 09:17 PM
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Cue your response: 'well then I guess we'd better make this a standing appointment.'
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 12:58 PM
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Whilst I appreciate the effort that goes into posts like this, we don't even need posts on the friendzone because it is so overwhelmingly simple. When a girl responds to your advances by saying she wants to be friends, there is only one correct response: 'No, I want all or nothing.' Then walk away. Obviously the wording can vary as you please but the message cannot. You must exit the interaction and your entire relationship with this girl calmly and assume that all contact with her is over forev…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 09:23 PM
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It is the crux for me. Whether I know I am better than her or I don't, it will show either way and determine whether I sink or swim.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 09:12 PM
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It is confusing, but usually my relationships don't last longer than 3-4 years Frankly, in light of TRP and the state of Western women at this point, I'd suggest this is healthy and probably shows you're doing something right. Chances are, after a few years most women will probably cease to be worth the investment for you - whether it's because they've hit the wall, they're desperate for commitment you won't give, or your SMV has increased so much in the mean time that you could do better. If yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 08:55 PM
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Lol @ thinking she let you down gently just to be nice / because she cares. If she lets you down gently it's because she wants you as an orbiter. If you're analysing something a woman did and you can't find the 'self interest' reason, you're not looking hard enough or your lens is the wrong colour. Try a red one.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 08:40 PM
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Me thinking I'm better than her, made her think I'm better than her. Once you have the basics down, this becomes the crux of game.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 08:33 PM
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Somewhere a Blue Pill man's head is exploding.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 08:27 PM
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This. Also, he refers to her as his ex: My ex: A blond 9 with a hard body ...but then he says he never committed to her: Fyi...I swallowed the red pill before I banged her, so I got off the hook. I wasn't going to commit to that - no thanks! Sounds like OP edited/exaggerated this story to make himself come off better. There's no need, TRP is about truth and reality. Pretending that 40 year old you banged was a 9 and pretending you didn't give any commitment to a girl you refer to as your ex is p…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 10:35 AM
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Good job smashing the LMR with the phone intervention, that's quite inspired.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 10:23 AM
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An even more enjoyable example from the animal kingdom is lions. I've heard a few feminists try to support their argument that women are superior to men by comparing them to lions and lionesses. 'The lioness does all the hunting while the lion sits on his arse all day and merely eats, sleeps and fucks. The lioness rules!' they say. But here's the fun part: the lion eats first. Why? Because he has already established his position as the leader, the dominant animal. The whole pride knows that he w…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 12:40 AM
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Somehow he's allowed to enjoy these things but any woman that does is simply using it? If you actually look at these situations, the infiltration we're talking about isn't perpetrated by those women who actually enjoy male spaces, but by those women who are seeking to control the space, change it, and benefit from it. Gaming provides the perfect example. There have always been some girls in gaming but no one cared until recently because they were inconspicuous. Those girls were just there to enj…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 12:18 AM
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"""Coincidence""". Fucking Blue Pill sourpuss needs to GTFO.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:30 PM
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TRP isn't an echo chamber because here people actually question shit. The comments in almost every post, especially theory-heavy posts, include other users questioning each others premises, reasoning and conclusions. And we get new field reports every day; we literally have uninvested, unbiased users going out into the real world, applying TRP to real life and reporting back. If it didn't work, people wouldn't stick around. We're not an echo chamber because we come here and debate each other, cr…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:11 PM
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Can we please all just enjoy the way that Girl 4 exhibited the female mindset with absolute perfection: "These girls are... people with families, jobs and most importantly, fucking feelings" You heard it here first folks: the feelings are the most important. You couldn't make this shit up.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:56 PM
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The only other story i have thats as good as this one is when i was fucking a girl in college and her heart stopped Damn that must have been scary as balls. One time my ex fainted while we were doing the deed and when she came to she was blind as a bat, literally couldn't even see me waving my hand right in front of her. It wasn't permanent luckily but it lasted a solid 5 minutes or so and I practically shat myself. Not sure how you explain that one to the parents...
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 10:27 PM
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The clip is great. And Bill raises another excellent point on the issue. Quote: "Why don't you guys [women] band together and start your own league, get your own thing going? But I realised they don't want their own thing; they don't want their own shit, they want our shit. I don't know what is. I think it's because we're happy. We're just sitting there enjoying ourselves, having a good time without them - it drives them nuts. He's quite right. Take gaming as one example. In general, guys play t…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 05:05 PM
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Outstanding post. Excellent explanation of theory, well applied to real life examples and written with great clarity and fluidity (which is increasingly becoming something you can only expect from the top posters here). It's a much more general and simplistic point but I think another reason why women hate male spaces is because they recognise that men are powerful and never more so than when they are together. They see that men are strong, wise, clever, bold, ambitious, loyal and firm but our w…
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:10 AM
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Comparing illegal drugs to consensual sex? Seems fair. /s
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:28 AM
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If I know I'm not going to LTR this girl, and if I actually care for her well-being as a person, then I might not find the same joy in making her into my filthy dirty whore If you don't want to make her your whore because you're not interested, fine. It may be perfectly reasonable to ignore female agency. They are such emotional creatures, that they DON'T choose to do anything. Choice implies logical thought. Could not disagree more. That a choice is made based primarily on feelings rather than …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:26 AM
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You're limiting yourself to virgins? I can only assume you're a child molester then?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 11:40 PM
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Maybe watch more porn? It seems to be generally accepted that the more porn you watch, the more extreme your tastes become. It may translate into your actual sexual preferences.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 11:39 PM
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If I offer you a Big Mac every day and you accept it, is it my fault you became a fat shit or is it yours? You're white knighting by ignoring female agency. You can push the boundaries but if you're doing it right you aren't forcing her to do shit. She is choosing to submit to you. And it's what she wants. Ergo if she is ruined as LTR material forever after, it is because she chose that fate. She is responsible. Moreover, you are white knighting for other men you have never met as well as white …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 11:36 PM
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I'm not sure what you're arguing against because I'm not claiming that any particular thing women do is irrational, I'm saying that they are irrational and incapable of being objective generally. I don't know why you're asking me if I'd be a slut if I could be - what does that have to do with me being rational and objective generally?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:04 PM
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I agree. Even if they wanted to be rational and objective most women are simply incapable of it. Whether that is biological or a result of the very different way men and women are raised, I can't say. As for the rational female friend I referred to above, it's interesting that in that respect she is a rarity among women but at the same time she displayed a number of typical female traits: she slutted it up in a BIG way when she went abroad for a time; she subsequently lied to her current boyfrie…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 08:38 PM
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Why not just plate her or at least pump 'n' dump?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 04:37 PM
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It's good news in the same way everything we learn from TRP is good news because knowledge is power once you learn how to use it to your advantage. I nevertheless phrased it as a warning because we are raised with the fallacy that men and women are more or less the same and that men and women are equally capable in all areas. Thus the unplugged will labour under the illusion that women are just as rational and objective as men are. But it's just not true. In my life I think I've met one woman wh…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:23 PM
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Absolutely with you on this. For all practical purposes 'let's' is NOT supplicating or asking for permission if used correctly. If I say 'let's meet at 5' I'm basically stating what I want to do but leaving a slight opening in case she has a significant objection, so it becomes 'we're going to meet at 5 unless you have any valid objection'. You are in control whilst leaving room for legitimate negotiation. Likewise if I'm walking with a girl and I say 'let's have a look in this shop' and then I …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:13 PM
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Most of this is fundamental common sense in a Red Pill context but well worth repeating. But the last bit about not trusting your own perception is insightful and you're quite right, it is an indirect principle of TRP. Trusting your own perception in spite of AWALT and women's deceptive nature is foolish and results in unrealistic expectations of women and oneitis, which ultimately result in male disappointment. All I would add is that the best alternative to trusting your perception is to repla…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 01:55 PM
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The TL;DR is a nice summary and it's a good post for young newbies in particular. We can all relate to that delusional 'she'll see' beta state of mind from our past. Also a good reminder to never to seek the advice of women. You'd literally learn more about how to pick up girls by observing an 8 year old boy pulling ponytails in the school playground than you would by asking other women.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:46 AM
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Props for the data. As someone whose gateway into the manosphere was Heartiste I am prone to smiles of satisfaction when elements of game are supported by !!SCIENCE!!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:37 AM
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girls can be so into you that there is no way in hell they'd cheat on you even with brad pitt Unless you're George Clooney or close, no they can't. i've been so deep in oneitis that if a rich supermodel chick walked in i wouldn't smash and your girl can be the same way That's because the male sexual instinct does not require you to get the highest SMV mate possible in order to access the best genes possible. But that's precisely what the female sexual instinct - hypergamy - demands. The primary …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 06:10 PM
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The words 'delusional' and 'beta bitch' spring to mind. You are no longer leading your relationship. You have relinquished your position as Captain and passed your hat on to your First Mate. What is really telling, besides the delusions and contradictions in your post outlined by /u/FattestRabbit, is the fact that you neglected to explain why you agreed to this complete overhaul of your life. If I were a betting man I'd wager it's because you are a beta who is blinded by severe oneitis.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:45 PM
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if your girl thinks you're the best thing since sliced bread (you're her oneitis) brad pitt could come along and she wouldn't even give it a thought... What on Earth are you talking about? Clearly you don't understand a fucking thing about hypergamy, one of the most basic TRP concepts. Brad Pitt walks in, hypergamy activated, your girl is gone, end of story. Whatever you're smoking, I want some.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:28 PM
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The corollary to this story alongside the fact that women's judgements of what constitutes average in men is also way off the mark, is this: women's judgement about almost everything is tainted by their associated emotions How they feel determines how attractive they consider themselves. How they feel about a man determines how attractive they consider him to be. How they feel about the break up determines whose fault they consider it to be. I could go on forever. This is the reason women are aw…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:21 PM
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Like it or not these days raising kids is more balanced between parents Like it or not? That implies that the OP has no choice in the matter. Clearly that's not the case because OP has just told you it isn't the case and the whole point of TRP is that you do have a choice to live your life the way you want to. Making the assumption that men have no choice but to conform to the social pressure to share all parenting duties equally is major Blue Pill thinking.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:00 PM
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Isn't the probability of your girl ending up in a gym, even if not your gym, almost inevitable in an LTR situation because you should be pushing her to maintain an attractive body? And unless she is regularly engaged in competitive sport, which isn't most girls, she's going to hit the gym.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:52 AM
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Right, but it doesn't follow that the act of providing cannot be Blue Pill as you said. Betas, omegas and even cuckolds will provide - would you still say "There's nothing blue pill about that"? The act of providing is neither inherently Blue or Red, it depends on the circumstances as I said.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 10:48 AM
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He... has provided for you and your late mother for your entire lives. There's nothing blue pill about that Does the term Beta Bux mean anything to you? Don't act like providing is automatically Red Pill. It's circumstancial.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 12:05 AM
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When did this happen and what was the result? It was a fun read regardless but I'm curious. Also how did this text conversation start? Did you ask to meet her and she responded with this to explain why it's not happening?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 11:52 PM
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Careful how you conceptualise this. Perceiving yourself as the 'victim' is not useful because you are saying that you were merely a passive recipient of her behaviour, that you had no control over the situation. This is both false and unhelpful. Instead of saying you were a 'victim' consider that you failed to keep your priorities in order. By doing this you retain control over your life and you give yourself a clear avenue for improvement rather than worthless victim status.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 08:52 AM
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In many cases yes, that's true. But in others the sex and the secrecy are separate and distinct. Remember, generally these footballers are not the sharpest tools in the shed. Many lack the foresight to think ahead. In Marcos Rojo's case, he got a friend of his to approach the woman and ask 'how much to sleep with Marcos?' It wasn't until after she discovered that he had a wife and child that the issue of her keeping her mouth shut came about. And in any case, even if they are paying for the secr…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 08:35 AM
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I doubt anyone who doesn't use reddit, or associate with others who do, has a clue what TRP is. When I say mainstream, I mean it. I mean a time when it is common for parents to get together and talk about how they don't want their kids to be 'poisoned' or 'damaged' by our community; where school administrators are devising sanctions for anyone caught accessing or propagating TRP; when feminists start a direct smear campaign, probably suggesting that all TRP subscribers be added to some kind of f…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 08:18 AM
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If headway is indeed being made, the pace is so slow that it is barely noticeable. I think the problem is that as with almost every other difficult and worthwhile thing in life, the hardest part is getting started. Every man wants to get better with women and I think it's true that more and more men are realising on some level that the game is rigged against them as long as they continue playing by the rules they have been taught. The problem is THEY DON'T KNOW WHERE TO LOOK FOR A BETTER WAY. Th…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:12 PM
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The aim is right but the blueprint is wrong. The best way to achieve abundance mentality in different areas of your life is to become as successful as possible in each of them. Become the best at running game and you will have your pick of women. Become the most successful guy at work and you will have your pick of job offers. Become the most well travelled man and you will have your pick of wonderful places to live in the world. TRP would probably support the assertion that if you reach the top…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 10:43 PM
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Whilst I think the example you gave was actually a poor one, it is true that there are a lot of surprisingly beta male celebrities, even in football. A better example for me is the number of Premier League footballers who offer girls £100,000+ to fuck or have threesomes with them when in reality their SMV as elite, world famous international sportsmen should easily get them in for free (most recently see the story of Marcos Rojo, who plays for Manchester United) IMO the reason for this is that c…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 06:05 PM
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True, even an inadmissible video might discourage the accuser (although I highly doubt it would deter any competent prosecutor). The point I was trying to make is don't just video shit and then assume you're safe because this could create a moral hazard, whereby you erroneously think you're now safe from any false allegations so you actually stop taking other precautions you would take if you didn't have that feeling of safety (e.g. not sticking your dick in crazy to begin with, not eliciting so…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:56 PM
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Sounds like more or less solid game throughout from you OP. My only advice would be to take her moans/complaints about you pursuing other girls less seriously in future. When she reacted by moving away from you on the couch and saying she didn't want to fuck you any more it's a shit test but she's bluffing - she just found out you are desired by other women and your commitment has a high price so if anything, your value just went up and she wants to fuck you even more than before. By her bluff (…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:49 PM
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Well worth remembering in any relationship. To reduce it to a memorable mantra, Patrice O'Neal said it best on the Black Phillip Show: "women don't want to win, they want a winner."
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:23 PM
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I think the major problem with this idea is being overlooked: more important than whether or not you'd get in trouble for recording the sex is whether it would be admissible in court if she did accuse you of something. Because if it isn't admissible then you can't use it to prove your innocence.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:39 PM
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You're right in so far as the difficulty lies in setting clear boundaries yet not being jealous or butthurt when she tries to push them with unacceptable behaviour. I think the difficulty in striking this perfect balance is the crux of OP's point and he's right to make it. What I would add is that in your example, when your girl tells you she's going for lunch with Chad from work, just as """friends""" of course, you respond by setting up a similar 1 on 1 situation with another girl as soon as p…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:45 AM
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I can't believe I had to read all that but I don't get to read the argument following her comment that 'all vaginas are the same size.' I can't believe you didn't fucking say anything to that. At the very least an audible laugh followed by 'yeah... suuuure' would have sufficed.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:09 AM
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This just reads like an incoherent stream of consciousness. It doesn't contribute anything.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 10:01 PM
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Good comparison. And arguably the shaming of betas is far more severe than the shaming of sluts because when it comes to sluts, we men will just say 'meh', maybe fuck them and then move on looking for better prospects. Unless the slut reveals her slutty nature in the context of cheating on us, we generally don't really shame them that much, especially if they are honest about it. Most men accept that whilst sluts aren't desirable as long term mates, their existence is necessary because sometimes…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 07:25 PM
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Simplest response: "how do you know what a rapist sounds like?" Seriously though this level of white knighting is infuriating. I don't know how you could continue a friendship with someone who has such a warped view of reality.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 10:56 AM
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My problem wasn't worshipping her, it was taking the shit she said seriously from time to time. I failed to turn on the amused mastery, forgot to treat her like the Most Responsible Teenager in the House and thus failed to live up to my established frame of me > her. I've been chasing this girl for a year now (she lives 200 miles away) Your problem seems quite clear. Chasing + 1 year + 200 miles away = pedestalisation. How often do you think a woman would spend a year chasing a guy who lives 200…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 06:37 PM
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Your story rings very true. In particular: A short period of betaness (which we are all going to fall into at one point or another) will dry up their vaginas faster than anything I found this out the hard way with my last plate. I did a good job applying TRP principles and building attraction for ~3-4 months then BAM, she hints that although she has strong feelings for me (true) she might have to walk away and I slip into Beta mode by saying 'let's meet up and talk about it' instead of 'OK bye.'…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:12 PM
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This is a typical theist response. I wrote 7 paragraphs explaining why many of the reasons we oppose feminism are the same reasons why we should oppose religion and your response is 'I disagree.' Zero explanation, zero attempt to counter my points. You're the equivalent of the Blue Pill AFC chumps we read about and regard with contempt, clinging desperately to ideas you have been indoctrinated with since birth. The parallels are uncanny.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 04:33 PM
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Somebody gets it. Bowing down to some mythical skylord and his oppressive ideals because you're told to 'trust' him - the same mythical skylord who refuses daily to use his power to prevent innocent suffering - runs directly counter to the TRP principles of leading your own life, focusing on yourself, accepting difficult truths which reflect reality, and becoming self-reliant and successful by your own standards. And that's before you even consider the fact that there is zero evidence to tempt y…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 04:28 PM
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You're trying to justify the content of religious beliefs to me but that's not my point. The point is that believing in religion full stop is contrary to the mindset of a Red Pill man because you are choosing to believe in a comfortable fiction rather than a difficult reality. But clearly I've touched a nerve, given the downvote to reply ratio.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 02:28 PM
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This may have already been said in the comments but amused mastery fits in well here. To newbies it can be a difficult concept to grasp or to actually apply in real life interactions - I know it was for me initially. But I had something of an epiphany moment with respect to amused mastery when a woman I considered significantly less attractive than me (albeit still fuckable) approached me. The key factors of the interaction besides her attractiveness were my drunkenness and the fact that she app…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 01:59 PM
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I honestly don't understand how anyone can be a Red Pill man and a man of religion for the simple reason that TRP is all about accepting hard, painful truths and rejecting nice, comfortable, fairytale lies. In the study of TRP and game, we are committed to what is true and what is proven whilst we reject that which sounds pallatable but is ultimately hollow, false and baseless. Outside the manosphere there is no better analogy for this than religion; feminism is religion, TRP is atheism. Feminis…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 01:28 PM
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Appreciate the clarification. I was extrapolating your FR to the whole 'relationship' and couldn't see how you could possibly lead and dominate under those terms sustainably. It makes sense now.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:30 PM
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Pretty sure he means letting her get away with checking her phone mid-sex was where he lost frame. Why would he turn off the TV? Seems like his preoccupation with watching what was on was instrumental to the success of his strategy.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 03:14 PM
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I have the money in my account and have budgeted comfortably for the rest of the year. If I want to get my parents a decent anniversary present to show them that I appreciate everything they have done for me in 22 years then I will do so.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 02:13 PM
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I have never read anything, listened to anything, looked at any art, or generally been influenced by much of anything a woman has done. It's a disappointing truth. I'd argue that even besides art and physical creations, it's true in relation to mere conversation. You can have fun in conversation with women, sure, but when I compare the conversations I have with my male and female friends and acquaintances afterwards, the difference in sheer value is incredible. Men will discuss concepts, ideas a…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 12:30 PM
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I can see how this approach would work and I am interested in trying it. However, I would have issues reconciling it with male dominance and some other key behavioural elements that tend to work, such as: The man is generally expected to initiate sex. If you never do, I'm not sure what the repercussions would be but I'm sure there would be some. Some women are very averse to initiating sex, probably because they've never had to before. With some, waiting for them to initiate sex is like taking t…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 12:16 PM
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Whilst my mother was by no means this much of a cunt, this makes me feel so sorry for my father and all the others. I'm sure it was never this bad for my dad (and they're not divorced) but there is no doubt that I have always noticed on some level that he has an implicit awareness of the fact that his needs have always been secondary in my mum's mind to the needs of my brother and I when we were kids. I've felt somewhat guilty about that for several years but couldn't quite understand exactly wh…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 11:09 AM
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rectovaginal fistulas (essentially, you go number 2 out the vagina) This post was worth reading just for that.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 12:12 AM
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I got a handjob so it wasn't a complete fail but I wish I'd used a comeback I later read on this sub. Her: We can't have sex because period / medical reason Me: Do you also have a throat infection and the shits? Her: ...No, why..? There really is no excuse for the female mindset of 'my vagina is out of action therefore no sexual acts whatsoever will occur.'
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 09:16 AM
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Because God knows that since I got my physique together, engaged socially, and moved my career forward, I have never dealt with these type of shit tests again Because you inadvertently initiated dread game.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 06:53 PM
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Simple, yet brilliant. Love it. I actually wish I'd done this to my plate when I went round to hers and she told me we couldn't have sex because she had cystitis. 'Alright cool, you don't mind if I help myself out do you?' and unzip immediately without waiting for a reply. If she falls into the 10% camp and actually falls asleep, that's your cue to leave her place in the middle of the night ...and go to a bar with your best pair of shoes and a wallet full of rubbers.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 06:52 PM
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It's so true. I have a number of female friends I hang out with quite often. Since I discovered TRP I have been treating my interactions with them as opportunities for observation, to see whether their behaviour aligns with what is taught here. And the two things that have struck me the most: The solipsism is off the charts. Women can and will make anything about them. Even when their best friend reveals that she is suffering from a number of serious mental illnesses and has to quit her job beca…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 02:53 PM
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How dare you try to use your so-called 'science' and 'evidence' to contradict the almighty feelz?!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:06 AM
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... and then Logan gave her constant tingles and she kissed him, no? And if it was true to reality, she would've been all up on his adamantium dick in no time. Logan is an aloof, jacked alpha jerkboy. Scott is basically a nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:03 AM
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Interesting, I like this idea Ultimately there is no negative outcome... [because] You can always learn The idea that most situations or outcomes we fear are not worthy of our fear because as long as we learn something useful from them, they actually produced positive outcomes. And as regards fear of death, obviously it's one of very few innate fears that humans have. From an evolutionary standpoint it makes complete sense to be afraid of death because it compels us to avoid unnecessarily riskin…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 09:53 PM
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That's why I started with Whenever your woman expresses her feelings about something... Implicitly she is saying 'I feel' but yeah, if it helps, also add that at the start. And replace 'I think' with 'I feel' too because women think with their emotions not with their head.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 03:08 PM
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A good way to remember this is to use the "right now" appendage. Whenever your woman expresses her feelings about something, especially about you or your relationship with her, in your head add the words "right now" to whatever she said. This has the effect of remindinng you that women are fickle creatures and although they are more likely than men to talk about and plan for the future, in reality nothing a woman says represents anything more than her feelings at that particular time on that par…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:57 AM
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No need for the condescension. Don't act like you weren't new here once.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 09:01 PM
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Absolutely. I had a football (soccer if you're from the US) coach when I was 15 - 17 who would have us running in the pre-season summer heat until we threw up. He would tell us we were weak. He would have us doing circuits and he'd come around while you were doing press ups and put his foot on your back. He would ask why you had stopped. If we ever put in a lacklustre performance in the first half of a match, at half time he would simply tell us that we weren't going to win the game because we d…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 06:31 PM
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Holy shit, the most BP response to a post I have ever seen. Did the post-wall fuggos at Jezebel get bored of eating cake and beating their boyfriends and decide to make a coordinated effort to come here and troll us?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 08:33 AM
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He hasn't created anything. Haven't you been paying attention? AWALT - the slut was already there. The slut is always there, but it will lie dormant until aroused from its slumber. It is just a matter of who triggers her hypergamous desire for an alpha male and when. If it wasn't OP it would have been someone else. How you can hamster that anyone 'corrupted' this girl when she fucked him of her own volition is ludicrous and exposes you as a delusional white knight. You have not swallowed the pil…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 08:27 AM
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If you believe this then what the fuck are you doing on this sub at all? Sexual strategy is AMORAL. As an alpha, OP was attractive and thus triggered her hypergamy and making her want to fuck him. How on earth you manage to derive 'fault' from this is beyond me. You sound like an SJW one step away from claiming he 'basically raped her' with his alphaness.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 08:19 AM
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I simply could not see a circumstance in which they would cheat In essence this is how every guy feels when he falls in love with a girl, especially when he is young and naive. 'I know some girls cheat,' he tells himself, 'but not my girl. She's special and she loves me so much she couldn't possibly cheat on me.' The point about AWALT is that it asserts that all women share certain hypergamous instincts, thought processes and behaviours which will lead to broadly the same results - cheating, bra…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:33 PM
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Visions of /u/nemaxofredpill berating his "weak dick" in public
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 06:09 PM
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Women will of course deny that this was ever the deal, that marriage could be reduced to something as simple as a promised transaction, a bargain, a bi-lateral contract. But interestingly there's a very simple way of proving that your analysis of the marriage bargain is spot on: look at the grounds for divorce which used to exist at law. Adultery. A man would divorce his wife for having sex with another man because it violates her promise to forgo her hypergamous nature and instead commit her pu…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 01:59 PM
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Is it not perhaps quite simple? I have very little experience with gays of either gender and wouldn't presume to understand the intricacies of their sexuality, but it seems to me that men are typically absolute in their sexuality whereas women typically fall somewhere on a continuum. In other words, straight men are 100% attracted to women and 0% attracted to other men, and gay men are 100% attracted to men and 0% attracted to women. If you picture attraction to the genders as a spectrum with ab…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 10:48 AM
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I stumbled across a great response to this type of text by accident just by trying to amuse myself. Plate texted me over the Christmas break while we were in different countries and after I hadn't heard from her in about a week. Her: I don't want to study any more Me: Do I know you? Her: [Ambiguous emoticon, meant to imply 'that's not funny'] Me: How did you get this number? Her: Are you kidding me? Me: Who are you? Her: It's not funny! (she never uses excalamation marks, was very noticeable) Me…
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:50 PM
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At the very least, keep the text messages in case anything does happen. How much info do you have on her; could you track her down if you needed to? In any case I'd say it's probably just talk. You handled it pretty well and explained the situation very rationally so chances are he is angry as fuck but on some level he knows that what you said is bang on right so he isn't going to do shit.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 11:19 PM
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Washing my hair in the shower and some smell will remind me of her or seeing a woman on the street that looks like her Mini rant incoming but I fucking HATE how a woman can become ingrained in your sensory memory against your will just because of the fucking smells you associate with her. You're trying not to get the feelz for your plate but your damn pillow smells of her. You walk past a girl in crowded shop and you get a whiff of her perfume and suddenly you are involuntarily reminded of that …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 11:07 PM
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To be successful with women, you must think of yourself as a business-owner with an open position for an assistant. You don't want to hire just any moron simply because you need the position filled. You want to vet your candidates carefully and hire the right person for the job. When you put it in those terms, it then becomes easy to see the importance of creating an abundance mentality (and then ideally an actual abundance of prospects). Guys with scarcity mentality will be much more likely to …
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 10:56 PM
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Most of the replies you have here are very good so read them and take them on board. Because of that there isn't much I can add except the best bit of break up advice you will ever receive: Go 100% cold turkey no contact. Delete her from Facebook, ignore all texts and calls etc and be strict with yourself about it. Don't fall for any ploys she uses as excuses to get you to talk to her and don't check up on her via mutual friends or any of that shit. If you are disciplined it will dramatically re…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 01:03 AM
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I'd say this, except do it at her place rather than yours so that either you can have sex then leave, or if she resists again then you can leave immediately (in my view it comes across less butthurt if you leave her place than if you force her to leave yours. You can just say you have somewhere to be).
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:16 PM
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Be aloof and have no interest in anything other than meeting up or she will simply use you for your resources (in this case, your time and attention). Your best way to achieve this is to text only to set up the meet and if she resists meeting but keeps texting you about inane shit - i.e. using you for attention as above - then just tell her you 'don't really do texting, except to organise things.' Then her options are either agree to meet or just stop texting you completely, and thus you will qu…
/r/askTRP15/03/15 08:03 PM
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Read everything you can here, especially about holding frame, and attempt to apply it gradually in your own life. The good thing about holding frame is you can practice it with everyone, not just women you are romantically interested in, because it's about maintaining your core sense of self and not reactively changing yourself by bending to the will or perception of others. It is important to know that swallowing the Red Pill is NOT an instantaneous event but a gradual process. When you first d…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 12:21 AM
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If you've been in Monk Mode you're likely more vulnerable to oneitis. For the love of God, if you plate this girl go straight out and get another one. The best way to avoid oneitis is to have multiple options. Take it from someone who found out the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/15 11:46 PM
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Sounds like he's bitter that you can get girls and he can't. And that's understandable from his AFC point of view but it's a lame reason to end a friendship.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/15 08:36 AM
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Keep liftin, get those gains, it keeps the oneitis away. Regrettably lifting does not keep oneitis away. Spinning multiple plates and operating from a genuine position of abundance is what keeps oneitis away. I learned this the hard way. In truth I think oneitis after the fact is the combination of two things: missing the sex and missing the level of emotional connection you had to her (it needn't be a high level of connection - I'm not talking about anything as extreme as love, just that basic …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:58 PM
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I think this is exactly what I need.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:42 PM
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This is a fantastic practical example of TRP concepts applied in a real life scenario. It's one thing to understand the theory behind the concepts but applying them to one's own life consistently and when the pressure is on is something that is very difficult for most of us aspiring RP men I believe.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 11:16 PM
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The line that stuck out most to me was this one: Society hasn’t examined the facts enough to really come to a conclusion, and so even in casual conversation people say things like “allegedly”. It reminds me of a conversation I had with a feminist friend of a friend who outright claimed that we should automatically believe the story of every rape accuser and act accordingly. I almost had a fucking brain aneurism. How can anyone actually believe that?! The reason the word 'allegedly' is used when …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 04:48 PM
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He doesn't need to convey guilt for her to think he might have been with or even fucked some other girl. That doubt is never far beneath the surface of any woman so it takes very little to get the hamster going. Also, apologising for ignoring her texts for a day plays into her frame, implying that he is under some obligation to reply to her texts promptly and should apologise for failing to do so. I'd switch 'sorry' for 'my bad' - while the tone is still in theory apologetic, the latter is much …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/15 12:09 AM
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This is good, only thing I would change is remove the word 'sorry' from that text, Heartiste was my gateway into the manosphere and towards TRP and I'll never forget his Sixteen Commandments of Poon and in particular, Commandment VIII. 'Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary.' Once you've got a thorough grounding in TRP and a better understanding of alpha vs beta it's easy to spot that apologising as much as most guys do is a beta trait. Don't apologise for something you're not really s…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:51 PM
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It may seem like we want the same things in principle but clearly men and women interpret concepts like security, status and escape very, very differently. For example Patrice made a great point once about how a female derives a huge amount of her status from a male, which is the purpose of hypergamy. He gave the example of a peasant woman marrying a King and becoming a Queen, thus seeing a huge surge in her status simply due to her choice of mate, and contrasted it with a peasant man marrying a…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 10:29 PM
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Interestingly when I saw the title I thought it was going to be a post about the holy trinity of things WE need and should constantly strive for as MEN. We need security, primarily financial, to allow us to live in a position of freedom so that our choices are as unencumbered as possible and so that we don't owe anybody anything. Otherwise expressed as 'the position of fuck you.' A good TRP example is the frequent advice to avoid debt and not live beyond your means. We need our status to be high…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 08:22 PM
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I'd interested in the question of whether, on the whole, coming from a small town makes a girl more or less likely to be a slut (or neither). Logic would suggest less likely because it would be an inescapable label in a tiny place where everyone knows everyone, but we all know how useful logic is when applied to women... Anyone got any thoughts on this, preferably based on some principled explanation rather than simply 'I came from a small town and all were sluts?' Edit: typos
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:33 AM
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Way too much important info missing for this to be useful. What's your SMV in rough terms? How is your game in person? Whereabouts in the world are you? What level of women are you targeting? 'I used a pickup line' - sharing is caring bro
/r/TheRedPill04/03/15 12:21 AM
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Otherwise good post man. I'm about to graduate and my main challenge is trying to find that 'one thing' that I am truly passionate about because I know that I can succeed in anything if I have a genuine fire burning in my stomach. I just need to figure out what I really want to do and then that will become my One Thing.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 05:44 PM
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He took one year to reach his goal, which is way faster than I expected. But he was a prime example of the 10,000-hour rule Excuse the pedantry but these statements are mutually exclusive given that there are only 8766 hours in a year.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:01 AM
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Yeah except what makes most men happy is shagging attractive people, not signing a contract promising to only shag an ugly troll for the rest of your life. AMALT.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:57 PM
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Anyone think he might just be a super Nice Guy? I know it's rare in someone with his level (and type) of SMV but come on, she is fuck ugly and dried out. Quite a lot of users are suggesting that 'maybe she's just a really good wife' but even if that's the case, we would seem to be overlooking a few very simple Red Pill truths: She may be the best wife on earth but every guy still wants to fuck a hot bitch every day. That's one thing that doesn't change from beta to alpha. And if anyone could fuc…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:53 PM
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Real world experience and not being delusional Still not remotely close to any kind of factual or statistical basis for such a blanket assumption. Again, I'm not saying that a decent number of women won't lie about this but I'm asking what justifies that assumption on these facts? If your approach is to assume that all women are lying when they say this then by all means do so, but that doesn't make the assumption correct in every case. Girls have to lose their sexual inhibitions at one point - …
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 06:00 PM
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Better approach: just spin plates and don't worry about any of that shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 09:08 AM
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What's the basis for this assumption? It's clear that dominant alphas are a very rare breed these days and therefore highly likely that unless she's got uber slut status then she's probably been limited to vanilla sex with passive betas up until this point.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 08:40 AM
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Initially the thought of marrying down sounds unappealing and outright depressing. But the more I think about it, the more I think it might at least be preferable (if you're set on getting married) to the OP scenario - especially if you're a successful RP man to the point where you're a '9', in which case marrying a 7 who stays a 7 sounds much better than marrying a 9 who becomes an immovable 4. May be wishful thinking though...
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 11:49 PM
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When a man dates a younger woman, I've noticed that the charge frequently leveled is that the man is "immature" Hamstering, plain and simple. Older women are in denial about the fact that their attractiveness is inextricably tied to their youth and that when they hit the wall they will have drastically fewer options. So their hamster will work overtime and the result is that when they see a guy roughly their age seeking out or dating women much younger than her (and himself) they have to constru…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 07:21 PM
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Looking at those 2 charts one after the other made me actually laugh out loud. If there's one thing that can be said about men, it's that we're not fucking complicated. We know what we want.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:11 PM
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u/jamesfromdelaware was right. Vagina = power because that is what we want and you only have power when you have something others want. Just answer this simple question: if you see a woman and you know she has no vagina and she is not your mother, are you interested in her? Answer: no. Neither is any other guy. Therefore she has no power. It's not the only factor because things like supply and demand influence the extent of her power but 95% of it is vagina = power.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/15 06:05 PM
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Holy Christ, that was 13 minutes of pure wonder, truth and entertainment. Thank you OP for introducing me to Patrice O'Neal.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 09:40 PM
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To clarify, I was drawing a comparison between girls who go to uni and those who don't as an example of the socioeconomic correlation with attractiveness. I don't know why I said 'top' unis because I didn't mean that at all.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:10 PM
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Agreed. One little bit of spermy bad luck and he's saying bye bye to the carefree life and hello to child support deductions for the next 18 years.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:24 PM
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How do you afford non-stop travelling for 6 years?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 03:01 PM
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I'll happily relate my limited experience for what it's worth. Disclaimer: I am merely an alpha-in-training. My experience is limited accordingly and obviously I do not claim my observations necessarily represent entire populations. That said, hopefully these thoughts might be useful to some. Finland: Quite an unusual brand of women, more interesting, direct and secure with themselves than most. Unfortunately not the prettiest but very, very willing to slut it up, especially away from their typi…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:52 PM
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Excluding other races/cultures about which I'm not qualified to comment, in terms of white Westerners there is a general correlation between socioeconomic status and physical attractiveness in a woman's prime years (~18 - 25). Of course it is only a very general correlation given the variety of other factors at play, but still it holds true. Just look at girls who go to top universities vs those who don't go at all - the former are typically slimmer, well taken care of and have better genetics.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:28 PM
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Being satisfied with your first red pill successes after years of being a beta =/= claiming to be an alpha god. Jog on.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 03:15 PM
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You should reproduce this as a post because it's the most succinct and accurate exposition of LTR dynamics I've seen. No further explanation is needed. It also implicitly recognises the Red Pill truth that the #1 thing you can do to maintain your successful and healthy LTR is to focus on yourself - meaning your SMV - as per the teachings of TRP. This is contrary to the pure fantasy doled out as relationship advice everywhere else, which states that the best way to maintain your relationship is t…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:16 PM
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Sorry to burst your bubble but this isn't the raging success story you're making it out to be: 4 dates in, haven't had sex HER: I don't know, sex just isn't that important to me i guess. At this point i go in a long tirade... Tirade: a long, angry speech of criticism or accusation. Either 'tirade' was entirely the wrong word or you completely failed to hold frame. Even if, as I suspect, you merely meant a long speech rather than an angry and critical one, you're nevertheless playing into her fra…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:44 PM
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Lol that you think the logic worked. Look at how much you wrote vs how much she wrote in response, and in particular at the fact that she didn't actually engage with your 'logical' explanation whatsoever. She didn't give a shit about the logic, it was simply the fact that you stuck yo your guns (held frame) and didn't cave like a beta bitch and whine about how 'of course personality is the main thing I look for in a girl.'
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 02:38 PM
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I hope that Noah can realize how wrong he was about women and learn from his mistake, but Betas have a way of denying all logic and reality in favor of their fantasy land True but pity the guy. Most Blue Pill betas have no alternative worldview to replace it with. As is often said on TRP, we spend our whole lives prior to swallowing the pill instead swallowing the classic 'Disney good guy gets the girl' fantasy. At that point it's pure frustration at the fact that you followed the alleged bluepr…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 08:41 AM
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I feel like that's the most logical and straightforward conclusion given the circumstances but that in itself is the very reason why I'm not convinced. Admittedly she is a pretty honest person but the fact that I would probably have reached this conclusion before I was RP aware is warning me against it.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 06:55 PM
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Going back to what you said about playing into her frame by acknowledging her concerns, how can I avoid that when I see her. Should I just not be taking this whole thing seriously and instead be ignoring it as if she's a little kid who doesn't know what she's talking about? In essence I think I'm confused because there seem to be 2 clear ways I could handle this - the first is to not really acknowledge what she says, play it down, change the subject, keep it light and make jokes and tease as nor…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:20 AM
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Quite right, judge by their actions and not their words. That is what I've been doing, e.g. judging her visible reactions to my dominance, seeing how she was upset when she had to leave at Christmas etc. In terms of my strategy when we're out, there are still a couple of things I'm not sure about: Which approach to I take to the conversation? When she talks about wanting to drop because she doesn't want to go through all the shit when she leaves, do I laugh it off, tease, make jokes and act like…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:14 AM
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You make some valid points. The only thing that matters here is your unphased, take-it-or-leave-it response to when she withdraws the sex Courtesy of my gut, this was going to be my go-to approach if I got no replies on this post. Also I feel like she has inadvertently has given me more power than she realises by failing to hide the fact that she loves my increasing dominance and even openly stating in the summary that the reason she is pulling away is not because she's lost attraction but the o…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 02:32 AM
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Yeah I was thinking keep it light on my end, make it clear that I'm not phased or worried about her dropping and if she maintains her 'I don't think I can do this any more' tack then I was thinking of cutting it off early and suggesting that rather than leaving the bar and walking part way back together as we would otherwise (because we live close to each other), instead I leave the bar first and let her watch me walk away.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 02:27 AM
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I can see how it comes across as kinda formal but that wasn't really how it happened. Initially I messaged her to arrange something like going for a drink this weekend, then she dropped all this about breaking off and because she's foreign and worried that her explanation wasn't clear, it just led on to 'let's go for a drink and I'll explain it better then.' And since that will give me a better chance to guage where she is really coming from, which I can't do over text, it's in my interests to d…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 02:05 AM
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OK I think you're talking about going the same way my gut was taking me (see above reply to Fluviant). If I've understood correctly, my play is to accept it like it's no big deal, I don't really give a fuck and we just go our own ways? That was instinctive reaction. What about physical contact - do I withhold it entirely or do I maintain at the normal level as if nothing has changed, e.g. give her a quick kiss when I meet her on the way to get a drink. My gut says give nothing, or a hug at most.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 01:49 AM
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I appreciate the elaboration. The want for exclusivity or at least greater comfort seems plausible in so far as it seems congruent with how I have interpreted her feelings in reality. In terms of the comfort test, is it realistically possible for me to give her that comfort without (a) committing to an LTR, which I am not willing to do, and (b) coming off as suddenly desperate in response to her getting ready to walk away? For example, a quick browse of an old TRP thread suggested the best respo…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 01:32 AM
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Your head's not in the right place This lack of exclusivity is driving her actions here... but not because she wants to wander Can you expand on these points? I'd actually wager that she brought this up because you left the last time you fucked her I figured this was a possibility, hence why I mentioned it, but what do you mean by saying it is a 'comfort test' and how could I pass it without capitulating and offering more commitment?
/r/askTRP21/02/15 12:51 AM
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It's almost like feminism (and culture in general nowadays) is one big shit test Accurate. If mainstream culture is one big shit test it explains why TRP rose from the Earth and took form as a counter-culture by which to pass that shit test.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:37 PM
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/u/kick6 is right, this is the most simple answer to your question. It's as if we've been sailing a boat our entire lives and we've always been told that we're heading to the North Pole. Then one day, you find out that the North Pole doesn't exist and you've literally been under a misapprehension your entire life. Feeling lost at this point is the most natural thing in the world. Only a fucking idiot would NOT feel lost in such a situation. But in time, you will realise the upshot of the situati…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:25 PM
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Absolutely. It took me a long time to realise but one of the worst parts of depression that nobody ever talks about is the fact that it often hyperdevelops traits we would associate with beta behaviour, such as sensitivity, selflessness and empathy as we've said. The Blue Pill social narrative tells us that these are valuable and even laudable traits - and they can be - but if you don't get a handle on them and control them, you will simply become the ultimate 'Nice Guy' and spend the rest of yo…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 08:08 PM
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If you don't suffer from depression, you can't have empathy Whilst this may not be true as an absolute statement, holy fuck is the sentiment right. Depression is virtually impossible to understand if you've never suffered it. A member of my immediate family has suffered it throughout my entire life and I just couldn't grasp it - until I became depressed too. After that, not only did I understand 100% what my family member was going through, but my general capacity of empathy shot through the roo…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:40 PM
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I'm glad you mentioned these RP portrayals in popular media. I'm watching Mad Men at the minute and once you've become a TRP initiate it's fascinating how you develop a whole new paradigm through which to view and interpret the characters, their actions and their consequences. Mad Men in particular is interesting because, being set in the 60s, it is more socially acceptable for the men to be unapologetic alphas and there is no real push back against that (whereas now we have a culture wherein we…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/15 07:22 PM
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Watching this as a Red Piller is quite amusing because in the past I would have tried to take hints from this, applying the typically unenlightened, BP mindset that 'women must be the best source of information on what women want, so I will listen and take notes.' In actual fact, the last question reveals that her awareness of what she herself finds attractive is pretty poor. When he asks 'what can guys do specifically to not be creepy and weird?' the only thing she could come up with was 'eye c…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 09:11 PM
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Speaking out is the wrong thing to do Completely wrong mentality. If you give a shit about your brother you have a duty to take reasonable steps to stop him from making a huge mistake. And assuming you've read some of the divorce rape horror stories around here, your failure to do this shows lack of character and a lack of care. Consider how you would feel if the roles were reversed and years down the line, after seeing 10 years of your life wasted in a shit marriage resulting in catastrophe, yo…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 06:35 PM
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You need to pay more attention to the concepts you're talking about. This isn't really about frame, it's about abundance mentality - congratulations, you appear to have achieved it. Also, Pam was never on the cock carousel, she was in an LTR. Don't just throw RP terms around because they sound cool. Learn what they actually mean and use accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 06:10 PM
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I literally haven't a clue what the fuck is going on here. It reads like it was typed out by someone wearing boxing gloves.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 03:19 PM
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If your SMV is that low and your primary concern is return on time invested I'd say your best bet is going for ONS at bars / clubs (depending somewhat on your age). Reasons: ONS require minimal time investment - maybe an hour or two at a club then she's back at yours Clubs are like conventions for people looking for ONS The dark, alcohol-fuelled club environment is the best thing besides game to mitigate against your low SMV. Even low SMV guys can get ONS in clubs ONS can and frequently do resul…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:19 PM
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The last point is definitely the hardest for me and judging by the results, it's my biggest area of failure. Funnily enough, as you mentioned it, I'm an unusually good listener for a guy but it doesn't seem to be something most people value. I'd like to think I have something to bring to the table but honestly I have no idea what people want any more and I am struggling with it. Even in such a social environment as university I find that the more time passes, the harder I find it to connect with…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/15 09:35 PM
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It's possible, although it seems unlikely given her particular circumstances. She's only in the country for a matter of months now and although it's possible she may have had some faint hopes for exclusivity, she never explicitly brought it up. I know very little about her friends (why would I care? heh) except that at least one of them is in an LTR. I'll be pretty bummed if she crashes but I'm taking it as a huge positive that I managed to avoid oneitis and consequential beta behaviour because …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 11:06 PM
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Excellent. I fully agree that it's just one of life's truths but the reason the Red Pill is so bitter to swallow for most is because they are uncomfortable truths. It's great to see someone who truly exists in a state of abundance mentality and outcome independence as opposed to just claiming they do. Myself, I think I have been pretending that I had passed the anger phase when actually I haven't, I think I was just happy that I had successfully applied what I've learnt to spin a decent plate. I…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 10:59 PM
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I take issue with the assertion that arrogance is unattractive. If I had to pick the single piece of game advice that has brought me the most success so far it'd be Heartiste's 'overconfidence is the heart of game.' It's so simple and so easy to execute: just make everything into a joke by implying you're the best at everything and they'll be moist in no time.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 09:50 PM
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Broadly true but I'd say you risk creating too much of a black and white dichotomy there. If you find a decent plate and you wouldn't mind keeping her around as long as possible, surely it'd be beneficial to drip feed a little beta here and there, to help her convince herself she's not a slut if nothing else?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 09:28 PM
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This. If she clamps her pussy shut next time, immediately give her the boot. She has no place staying the night in such a situation. The only thing I would add is also that going down on her before you've even had sex with her for the first time is a VERY beta move (coming from someone who used to do it). Even though I like going down on girls, I refrain from doing it too often and instead make it something she has to earn.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 08:42 PM
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I'm now wondering if Valentine's day had any part to play in the fact that my best plate seems to have gone radio silent for absolutely no apparent reason...
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 08:26 PM
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The leader takes care of his people You're not wrong, but I think there is a distinction. The leader takes care of the people he cares about, whereas OP said "I wish I could make everyone in the world happy." As RedPillProphet said above, the latter approach is typical of someone who acts beta and let people walk all over him. The former approach is simply looking out for the people who have earned your care.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 05:11 PM
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The chick is a giant slut so I knew she was ploughing through other guys too, no way in hell was I going to commit I chuckled at this line. That level of frank acceptance is beautiful to behold. Your attitude is the level I want to be at.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 05:05 PM
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Probably because the grass is always greener on the other side (read: bitches be boasting about how their boyfriend is the best and the others believe it. Suddenly their boyfriends look inferior and they conclude that they can do better)
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 04:59 PM
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Even in light of your experience I see nothing of worth for myself in approaching anything below a 6: I'd have no interest and would be bored I'd have no attraction I'm not bothered about getting free shit bought for me I have no interest in acquiring stalkers Going to the effort of not being seen in public and not letting her know where I live is WAY too much effort to put into a girl who isn't even attractive enough to give me a hard on But thanks, you've helped me answer my own question.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 04:33 PM
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Day game is the best game to run to seek potential plates I'm not sure how true that is here in the UK. I'm not saying it's false, as I lack the experience to do so, but I doubt the premise. The problem isn't really with going below my own SMV - I think even top 20% men will do so when plating or looking for ONS particularly (after all, if you only fuck unicorns then you're going to have a pretty empty sex life). The problem is that I just feel no attraction whatsoever to anything below a 6 and …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 04:28 PM
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I don't follow that logic. Just because the scale goes from 1 to 10 does not necessarily mean that a 5 is average in the sense of a mean or median, although a 5 should merit the description of 'average' looks. And the influence of the environment is huge. I'm currently at a very good uni, meaning the average girl in my vicinity is 18-22, affluent and above-average in terms of attractiveness relative to the rest of the population. As such I'd say that 6 - 7.5 is the most populous part of the scal…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 04:20 PM
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So TL;DR: feminists are stupid cunts and you go to a good high school.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 04:12 PM
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This very much strikes a chord with me. I feel like exactly the type of guy who is currently in the 'middle ground.' I've accepted many if not most of the hard truths and have altered some of my behaviours and mindsets for the better; my outlook is now tinted Red rather than Blue but I haven't yet experienced the seismic shift which I think will mark the completion of the transition into an accomplished Red Pill man.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 01:38 PM
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I can vouch for everything in this comment.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 01:17 PM
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Quality post. Cold approaching is probably the weakest part of my game and I don't feel confident enough to try day game yet tbh. Question for OP: would you still open and ask out girls even if you flat out knew that they weren't attractive enough for you to get it up if you got them into bed? I'm not sure if this is unusual or not but I avoid 6s and below because I know from experience that if they fall below that mark then even if I was successful, I literally wouldn't be able to get aroused e…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 01:09 PM
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I didn't make it clear but I should have also said that by looking beyond clubs you are more likely to find that sweet, innocent-looking, well-dressed type of girl. It barely needs saying that such girls are not the norm in clubs, so look elsewhere. Even if you don't give a shit whether she reads or not, you're more likely to find the girl you're looking for in a book shop than in a club. My only other suggestion is to go abroad if your circumstances allow it, even if only temporarily. I can per…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 12:47 PM
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If you've really defeated approach anxiety and your game is good then the obvious solution is to go looking in places where you are more likely to find girls who will be of interest to you. Go to the library if you want to find girls who read, go to the gym if you want to find girls who are interested in fitness, join a sports club if you want to find a girl with hobbies etc.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 12:15 PM
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Then it's a flawed design. I understand that a majority of questions posed in /r/asktrp are probably garbage which wouldn't be necessary with a solid understanding of the core concepts, but by confining ALL questions, including the valid and useful, to that sub-par arena it's not helpful. Swallowing the Red Pill is a learning process like any other - the bulk of the work has to consist of you studying the materials for yourself. But people will always have difficulties and valid questions to ask…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 03:57 PM
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It seems to me like /r/asktrp simply has fewer and lower quality regulars. I posted in Ask recently but before I did I contemplated posting it here even though I knew it didn't belong here because I thought it would be worth getting slaughtered to get a few decent answers before the thread got removed. I'm probably not the only one who's considered it. And lo and behold my post in Ask got only 2 comments... From what I've seen of it, Ask is TRP's slightly retarded, redneck cousin.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 07:50 PM
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You lost me at 'suicide is easy.' If you understood the mindset of someone driven to such a measure I think you would know that it's not easy. For someone who lives in an inescapable living hell, ending their life often becomes in their minds the only rational way to end their constant, ceaseless suffering. Also, comparing the daily struggle of living for a severely depressed person to going to the gym is absurd. Undoubtedly the gym may feel like a chore sometimes, but when you do it it gives yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 05:44 PM
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Thanks. The more time I spent typing out the post, the more I thought my instinctive interpretation was right and I know where I fucked up. It's good to have it reinforced by objective opinions though because this felt like a potential stumbling block.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 08:08 AM
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You just described word-for-word what happened to me in the last few days. I was in a club and saw this girl giving me the eyes but I was way too drunk to try and execute any real pickup so I did what OP did and just gave her my phone on the 'add contact' screen. It worked like a charm but, despite probably the most solid text game I've ever used (teased her with every text + stuck to my frame rigidly when she tried to alter plans at last minute to get me to travel to hers when she had agreed to…
/r/askTRP12/02/15 08:04 AM
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Thanks, that's reassuring. I wasn't sure if I was overthinking this or if I'd missed the mark completely.
/r/askTRP12/02/15 01:08 AM
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IMO you fucked this up for yourself. You can see just from the comments on this post that the way to set this up successfully is to simply do it and be mysterious and vague about it IF QUESTIONED. What you did wrong was you explicitly let girl 1 know about girl 2 ("just as a courtesy"). Firstly, this is full disclosure, which removes all sense of mystery and the tingles that go with it. And secondly, the fact that you mentioned it off your own accord is tantamount to asking girl 1's permission. …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 04:12 PM
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One of the things I like most about the TRP community is the honesty and objectivity of members when assessing their own lives and experiences. You'll read FRs every single day where the OP says 'I know I fucked up here, here and here. What can I do to improve?' That's the kind of mindset that will hold you in good stead because you are acknowledging failure and using it to improve. I really think one of the cornerstones of being a man is having the ability to look at yourself honestly and say "…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 02:20 PM
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I'd agree with this analysis. The oneitis for 9/10 contributed to your failure to get the desired outcome but overall you've done well. It sounds like you could have easily taken home a 7/10, in which case the night would have been a complete success, but kudos for having the ambition to go for the 9 on the night. As I've only recently swallowed the RP myself, and because approaching is by far and away my biggest weakness, I know it's in my best interests to settle for more 7/10s than fewer 9/10…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/15 01:52 AM
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Although this was obviously a downhill story from the start, I actually felt sick in my stomach when you got to the point about the alimony ending and her wanting you to take her back - and I'm fucking THRILLED you had the self-respect to merely be disgusted by it. Well done. Stories like this are such a double-edged sword. On the one hand, I feel genuinely devastated for my fellow man when he puts everything into his marriage and family, only to be given the royal shaft by all. But on the other…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 12:54 AM
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Women don't run dread game, they branch swing. Dread is used to maintain an existing relationship, whereas branch swinging is a means of 'upgrading' from one relationship to another - it's hypergamy in action. The fact that she's doing it right in front of her BF just shows (a) she has literally zero respect for him; and/or (b) that it's not even worth her effort to keep her branch swinging a secret, as it would be if he were Beta Bux funding her lifestyle while she goes around in search of Alph…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 12:46 AM
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Like so many threads on TRP, this one accurately reflects my own experience. Just a couple of months ago, my plate brought up the idea of an FFM threesome (cha-ching!). Upon further discussion, she tried to imply that straight men are the weird ones for never even so much as kissing other guys, whereas this allegedly "100% straight" girl was the one telling me she'd like to get another girl involved - womyn logic! I said to her 'if you're straight, that means you're not attracted to women. If yo…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 12:09 AM
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In my experience, younger girls are wary of judgement from female flatmates / housemates / neighbours. You know how nosy women are, and so does she.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 11:54 PM
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You got that message across well. It stands to reason that the game will change depending on where you are and the demographics of those in your immediate surroundings. That's why I think that firsthand experiences like yours will be invaluable to others who find themselves in a similar situation with a small window of opportunity. I'm from the UK and recently studied for a year in a great little European country. Having previously had an LTR but otherwise having made very little effort with wom…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 11:49 PM
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This is bang on. We talk a lot about the undesirable characteristics common among women but one of the most prevalent and frustrating is that most women are fundamentally unable (and / or unwilling) to view things from any perspective that isn't their own. Any guy who has ever argued with his SO will have realised this on some level. It's not that they refuse to agree with you, it's that they can't even begin to analyse your arguments objectively before deciding they disagree. It is quite a red …
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 08:32 AM
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Decent, honest insight. Will no doubt be useful for any guys planning to visit that part of the world. In fact it would probably be useful if more of us shared insights like this re different countries and areas, and in different circumstances (holiday, travelling, studying abroad etc). I can imagine it saving other users valuable time trying to assess the situation on the ground once they get there.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 08:12 PM
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This. It's pretty obvious to me that the only reason these famous black guys are interested in her is because she has the fat arse of a black woman but isn't black. I think she's straight up fat and disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/15 07:56 PM
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I'm not particularly interested in tall girls (I'm much more attracted to slightly shorter girls) but nevertheless this post was great. It cuts through all the theory which is often overemphasised and gets straight to the point: 'do X because Y.' Simple, understandable, effective. Bravo.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 11:34 AM
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I can't speak for the universality of your whole comment, but your description of what happens when the guy breaks up with the girl is bang on the money with my experience. I broke up with my ex because she basically disrespected me to gain favour with some people she'd known for like 5 minutes and she refused to acknowledge that what she had done was wrong (until 3 months after I'd dumped her sorry arse). She was devastated at the time and for a long time afterwards, yet she openly admitted to …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:25 PM
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The 6 month break thing surely shows a glaring lack of abundance mentality as well.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:16 PM
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I can't help but laugh thinking that if you said that in an ordinary mixed-sex environment like a workplace or family event you would be absolutely crucified in the mother of all knee jerk reactions but if you privately offered any man a decent looking woman who consistently offered good sex, good food and silence as and when needed, he would bite your hand off.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 08:12 PM
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It's kinda ironic that when a man and woman fall in love, the most natural (read: BP) response from the man is to instantly pedestalise her just for being her, whereas the woman will only pedestalise the man if he refuses to do that and instead continues to be the aloof alpha male. In other words, only one person in the relationship can be up on the pedestal. So it better be you.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/15 06:46 PM
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I think it's possible that both girls had an interest in you but that Jasmine mentioned it first (effectively calling dibs when they first noticed you). If you look at the situation again it could be explained by the fact that 'Pocahontas' decided not to pursue you because she knew her friend liked you, but you initially pursued Pocahontas first, which alerted Jasmine to the fact that she was your second choice. Thus, one girl liked you but was bound by her friendship to do nothing about it, and…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 04:22 PM
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