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Inner Game Erbium-Oxide/r/seduction12/05/22 07:45 AM
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Fundamentals Erbium-Oxide/r/seduction28/06/22 02:09 PM
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7

“Might have been 18 (…)” Bro, lemme stop you right there.
/r/seduction01/11/22 06:53 PM
2

Is this a message? Sounds to me like she’s telling you she likes you, and that there’s something “je-ne-sais-quoi”.
/r/seduction19/10/22 10:18 PM
2

I know, looked it up.
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:29 PM
1

Oh look, they paid a man to code them a website. How cute.
/r/seduction19/10/22 07:28 PM
0

I’m 20 and I’ve yet to start dating. I’m just confident that starting would be easy.
/r/seduction08/10/22 02:38 PM
1

Again, you only plan to sleep with her. Eh. Consider yourself judged.
/r/seduction06/10/22 03:03 PM
2

I don’t advise keeping that information from someone you see yourself in a relationship with.
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:50 PM
2

You must only intend to sleep with her then.
/r/seduction06/10/22 02:48 PM
2

Cultural differences perhaps.
/r/seduction06/10/22 11:34 AM
5

Why don’t you just… answer the question?
/r/seduction06/10/22 08:59 AM
6

Most decent women are also unwilling to date “broke” guys. That’s how it is.
/r/seduction06/10/22 06:56 AM
1

Here’s my advice: Try to converse with women you aren’t attracted to, and then realize that the cute ones are the same.
/r/seduction28/09/22 05:25 PM
5

“Big investor” just means money though.
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:42 AM
1

Followers on Instagram? You think she’ll sleep with you if that number is higher? lol
/r/seduction27/09/22 08:26 AM
2

This is my porn account.
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:39 PM
1

There are 730.928 members in this sub. You are not the oldest.
/r/seduction25/09/22 02:38 PM
1

Mark Manson sounds like a serial killer.
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:47 PM
1

You don’t build confidence by purposely being brash or annoying. Rather, you shouldn’t.
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:40 PM
1

It seems to me like you’re comparing your inner with their outer. It’s no wonder you come up short when you compare true yourself to the facade put up by a charismatic extrovert in a social setting. These are watermelons and beans. While I am, because reasons, really shit at reading social settings and interacting with larger groups, you’d never know at a dinner table, or in a one-on-one conversation. I don’t like people all that much, but projecting confidence goes a long way. A more practical …
/r/seduction21/09/22 10:06 PM
-4

What a condescending format. Especially from people who themselves find validation from sleeping around.
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:30 PM
1

👉👉
/r/seduction19/09/22 10:40 AM
1

Sounds like a confidence issue. On both sides. From your description, I doubt he gets around.
/r/seduction19/09/22 08:16 AM
1

Bro, you can’t just say you have Asperger’s. That condition ranges from ‘not even noticeable’ to ‘social cripple’.
/r/seduction19/09/22 08:09 AM
1

I thought you said he was a Liberal Arts student?
/r/seduction19/09/22 08:03 AM
3

Periods ( . ) are pretty nice, should try ‘em.
/r/seduction19/09/22 08:00 AM
1

The fuck is number 4 for?
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:59 AM
2

I suspect the difference is one of intelligence and knowledge. While I’ve no issue holding an “intelligent” conversation with either gender, a topic that one side knows nothing about does not make for a great topic. In essence, new bits of information should be kept on a surface, ‘hey, that’s cool!’ level. For deeper stuff, you’re better off probing for something that interests them, or something they have an opinion on. Otherwise, you’ll quickly be conversing with yourself.
/r/seduction19/09/22 07:53 AM
3

Bro, tf is an AMOG?
/r/seduction19/09/22 01:02 AM
1

I’m your huckleberry. Edit: In that I’ll smoke it with you.
/r/seduction19/09/22 12:09 AM
1

Dude, CHILL. I’m Scandinavian myself, and last I checked, these “rules” were an American thing. These disgusting numerical standards of yours have yet to spread.
/r/seduction18/09/22 12:28 AM
1

— Urban Dictionary on “Love”
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:47 AM
20

Bruh. This isn’t even about money, it’s about attitudes you want in a woman.
/r/seduction11/09/22 08:21 PM
3

In the US, he goes to prison. The woman can still do as she likes.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:08 PM
0

Legal abortions aren’t a thing. If I get a girl pregnant she can say “Eh, don’t feel like it.” If she doesn’t, I just signed an 18-year contract.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:05 PM
4

I judge you, and all women with high bodycounts, as well as all men who do the same. I’m free to do so too.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:02 PM
0

I disagree with 2. Sex is more fucking risky for men nowadays.
/r/seduction11/09/22 12:01 PM
6

“Cute” can mean many things, different things from different girls, and several things from each. You can just ask, you know.
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:28 PM
1

I’ve read a lot of books, but one man can’t hold a conversation. If the stranger isn’t engaged, the conversation will be short when not held out of necessity.
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:17 PM
1

Bro, you don’t learn charisma from books. Sure, you might just come off as more educated or intelligent if you read enough of them, but even that won’t make you charismatic.
/r/seduction10/09/22 11:05 PM
3

Hate to say it, but (a vast majority of) women do actually know how to hold a conversation. If they won’t even engage in polite small talk, they’re either preoccupied or consciously dismissive.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:42 PM
-1

He could go for 16 over here. Seems to be his thing.
/r/seduction07/09/22 10:31 PM
8

I don’t “game” much (not at all) but I make it a point to greet people with confidence. Meet their gaze, not-too-wide-smile, lean in a bit, simple “hi”. It’s not a “haha” smile, or a “kind” smile, but more of a “humored” smile. My greeting formula, if you will.
/r/seduction06/09/22 10:10 PM
1

You model. Can you supply en intellectual woman with the mental stimuli she requires? As for beauty, I suggest having money.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:53 PM
1

Reads headline no.
/r/seduction06/09/22 05:09 PM
1

Wat’s that?
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:48 AM
2

Blaming her entire gender won’t be very convincing.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:14 AM
2

4 inches is longer than the average penis certain places. She knows.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:13 AM
5

While I completely agree that “taller than me” is a reasonable ask, the main issue is probably the lies.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:12 AM
1

If it was 5 inches, I’d call this a troll post.
/r/seduction05/09/22 11:07 AM
3

It could be
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:54 AM
-2

And that’s assuming china isn’t rounding up
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:54 AM
1

“Hey!”
/r/seduction05/09/22 10:42 AM
1

What would you say is the difference between “social value” and status.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:51 PM
1

Now I’m curious.
/r/seduction04/09/22 04:48 PM
5

I too agree that 6’0 is fairly tall.
/r/seduction22/08/22 09:03 AM
3

I’m no billionaire. It’s just that being as good as my father is literally not going to happen. One in a million chance. Being the best in the world at a relatively small field like that can’t be replicated. Income also messes me up, but it’s not as much of an issue as feeling inferior. Edit: Ignore that. Info dump. Tl;dr - Not the issue.
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:01 AM
3

You assume a whole lot. In my case, that is certainly not it.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:56 PM
4

I actually struggle a lot mentally, for this reason and others.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:31 PM
6

I feel you. Even worse since I’m born to money and have shit to live up to.
/r/seduction23/07/22 09:17 PM
2

*my friends and I
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:54 PM
1

Be nice. That’s step 1.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:50 PM
5

There’s always something to be insecure about. My looks are one of the few avenues where I’m confident I can beat most men. I’m still insecure about getting a good career, material stuff, my inexperience, and being socially inept, to name a few. The best attitude is “sucks to suck, I’ll give it a whirl anyway”.
/r/seduction19/07/22 03:36 AM
1

Pretty liberals. Good luck, bud.
/r/seduction17/07/22 12:19 PM
1

Pop culture and practicalities. Mostly the former.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:39 AM
1

Oof, that sounds difficult as all hell
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:36 PM
3

.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:35 PM
1

Maybe the instrument? A decade ago, I picked up the guitar to get girls. I now thank my 9-year-old self for his genius.
/r/seduction01/07/22 03:34 PM
0

Therapy. Try it. Of all the living beings to whom your genes can be traced back, 100% reproduced. You should be no less capable.
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:41 AM
4

Don’t listen to this butt. A worthwhile girl cannot be stolen.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:29 AM
2

And the other nine?
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:38 PM
1

I’m very calm, but I’m also told I can sound unfeeling or robotic. I fear that might be taken as a rejection. For instance, if I’m asked if I “think she’s hot” I might say, “I think you’re a very attractive woman,” but perhaps not in the right tone.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:25 PM
2

Great troll, love it
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:22 AM
3

I’ve been playing guitar for like a decade. Still loser.
/r/seduction29/06/22 12:43 AM
1

Yes, kill it! /s
/r/seduction28/06/22 09:48 PM
1

I see. We’ll be on the lookout in a few months, I guess.
/r/seduction28/06/22 08:11 PM
3

Play it safe, go home.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:46 PM
25

Ask for advice, receive advice.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:34 PM
74

Then don’t “hit”. Have some Goddamn self respect.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:01 PM
2

What are your political leanings?
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:58 PM
86

And those branches are all rotten. Don’t be that branch.
/r/seduction28/06/22 02:00 PM
230

Don’t be that guy. Be a man. Have her break up or quit it.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:56 PM
3

Read your first paragraph. Full stop. Why are you fighting?
/r/seduction28/06/22 12:26 PM
50

It’s a serious suggestion, but he would be telling a joke.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:52 AM
2

So this mod was the one to delete the post?
/r/seduction27/06/22 06:51 PM
6

I suggest that you link it with imgur.
/r/seduction27/06/22 02:07 PM
1

Let’s be realistic; That’s the exception. It’s unreasonable to assume that this is common, and take all that OP writes to be true.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:58 PM
1

Ouch, it really does feel like OP leaves a lot out of the story. Everything after “… banned for 6 months.” is just emotional outburst.
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:54 PM
3

Ah, good. I don’t go anywhere; Insecurity avoided.
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:56 PM
7

Charm is hard to learn
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:09 PM
1

Where?
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:08 PM
1

Fuck if I trust women in tech. When they get special treatment, they’ll actually be less skilled on average.
/r/seduction12/06/22 02:04 PM
1

“Sad and angry” isn’t really the way to go. I too enjoy chinos. Got a social circle?
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:10 PM
2

I started playing guitar to get girls. I was 9. Don’t regret it.
/r/seduction02/06/22 07:45 PM
2

You’re taken. It’s not that complicated.
/r/seduction15/05/22 11:24 AM
15

Ooo, me too! Me too!
/r/seduction14/05/22 10:13 PM
3

This sounds like a person-to-person thing. Would not work on me, for instance.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:24 AM
18

We really are that easy, huh?
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:23 AM
2

YES
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:20 AM
0

“I see, that’s unfortunate. I wish you a good evening.”
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:58 PM
18

Is this even a question?
/r/seduction13/05/22 10:57 PM
6

I’ve no idea what “LSE” is supposed to mean.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:09 PM
42

I just bully her. They seem to like it.
/r/seduction12/05/22 08:10 PM
1

Creepy fuck
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:55 PM
1

I’m positive his personality is lacking.
/r/seduction12/05/22 04:53 PM
1

Are you?
/r/seduction12/05/22 01:31 PM
3

I am good looking. Women tend to be outgoing, but when they make innuendos and stuff, I don’t know what to do and just laugh or nod awkwardly. Example: Her: “I want a hug right now. But I only want hugs from hot people. (Pause) You’d do.” Me: [SMILES AWKWARDLY] What tf am I supposed to say?
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:43 AM
4

Yeah, that’s BS. I’ve never gone looking, not have I ever found.
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:38 AM
6

Friends are pretty precious too.
/r/seduction12/05/22 06:51 AM
15

Dude. Read that third paragraph twice. What are the odds that she’s not into you? Just go slow and avoid making her uncomfortable.
/r/seduction08/05/22 11:22 PM
2

A radical proposal; I like it.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:23 PM
1

I say a) Too many messages b) “lol”
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:52 PM
1

Agreed
/r/seduction08/05/22 02:45 PM
1

Fun, it’s fun. Lots of Indian dudes.
/r/seduction08/05/22 09:20 AM
1

You mean you take it as an insult, and a presumption of your intentions? Sure, I get that.
/r/seduction08/05/22 08:28 AM
2

You’re right, that is a weird flex.
/r/seduction07/05/22 09:28 PM
1

Good on you!
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:30 PM
1

Depends on the tone, obviously, but it sounds like she’s already decided. Pointless, in that case.
/r/seduction07/05/22 04:34 PM
1

No. Food > therapy. Pyramid of needs.
/r/seduction05/05/22 10:46 PM
1

Therapy is expensive.
/r/seduction05/05/22 02:15 PM
2

Yeah… What if I don’t want to blow up cafés?
/r/seduction04/05/22 10:35 PM
1

Everyone is a face guy
/r/seduction03/05/22 09:48 AM
5

Every man admires the bad boy/thug who slays tons of HBB. A bold claim. I do not agree.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:09 AM
2

Why are you arguing with your psychologist? “Delusional and naïve”? You’re the patient here.
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:33 PM
1

De Sade had a kink
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:06 PM
1

American college is a debt trap. Go somewhere in Europe. Here in Norway, I believe you can go to a public university for free. There will be living costs though.
/r/seduction26/04/22 07:05 PM
1

I never knew this.
/r/seduction26/04/22 12:18 PM
4

As you can see, this guy is just not that likable. He’ll have to be someone else.
/r/seduction25/04/22 03:36 PM
1

You should not. You’re 15, and r/seduction is poison.
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:43 AM
2

Sounding like a Bethesda NPC.
/r/seduction25/04/22 10:18 AM
1

Do not let yourself discourage! r/seduction is not an ideal place for advice on romance, and I say shoot your shot! Be straightforward, YOU CAN DO THIS!
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:45 PM
1

It depends entirely on the situation, but in most cases, I would tell you to leave it.
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:41 AM
1

Oh, look! It’s a u/norwegiandoggo!
/r/seduction24/04/22 10:40 AM
4

She could have a reason. This girl (female) friend of mine has cancelled on me the last few times we planned something. She doesn’t know her mom told me she has anorexia. Hospital n’ shit. But I’d never have known.
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:15 PM
2

Men absolutely care about body count, and yours being 0 is to your benefit.
/r/seduction23/04/22 07:56 PM
1

Dude. If you’re meeting tomorrow, there’s no point texting. You’re not together or anything, and not significant parts of each other’s lives. Plan dates by text, talk face to face.
/r/seduction22/04/22 01:41 PM
1

Just ask some deep question. “What do you think of the death penalty?”, etc.
/r/seduction22/04/22 01:16 PM
5

While I’m a dude, I’m 19, and I’m sorry to say I would consider this quite creepy. Not Canadian though, so there’s that.
/r/seduction21/04/22 09:16 PM
1

Go to a language exchange. Bars do them regularly.
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:46 PM
4

Bitch virtually every race overwhelmingly dates their own. Fuck of with your white bashing.
/r/seduction21/04/22 10:58 AM
1

This isn’t r/socialskills. Be nice.
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:35 AM
1

Never done this. Am dude.
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:33 AM
13

That’s another thing. My understanding is that he can expect 2-3 inches.
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:19 AM
3

Fellow Norwegian doggo here, did not learn this in sex ed. Thanks.
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:05 PM
2

Get a church girl. Always the right choice.
/r/seduction03/04/22 05:28 PM
1

r/amiugly and r/freecompliments
/r/seduction01/04/22 11:55 AM
1

Try to meet her “randomly” IRL instead.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:55 PM
2

Horrible, even.
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:34 PM
25

Good afternoon, fair maiden!
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:28 PM
5

I know little about Mr. Samuels’ actual background, but F&F strike me as pretentious impostors. For people who are all about exercising self-discipline, this is a strange viewpoint. My personal opinion is as follows; Cheating is immoral, don’t do it. If you can’t be faithful, you should not be in a relationship.
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:21 PM
5

Has nothing to do with approach. If she makes herself available, she’ll sleep with you either way. No difference.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:11 PM
1

Oh, I appreciate the advice, but I just haven’t been searching properly. I consider myself attractive, but I don’t care for anything that isn’t longer term, which I’m not quite ready for.
/r/seduction27/03/22 11:49 AM
3

Not counting rom-coms with female friends, I haven’t been on a date in almost 20.
/r/seduction27/03/22 12:44 AM
1

I can’t help but notice that your own age is not divulged. As always, ask for ID!
/r/seduction27/03/22 12:26 AM
2

Literally me lmao. Not one detail is off.
/r/seduction26/03/22 11:19 PM
1

Depends on what you look like.
/r/seduction26/03/22 11:13 PM
1

Evolutionary biology
/r/seduction23/03/22 11:28 AM
1

After two dates, that’s insulting.
/r/seduction22/03/22 06:07 PM
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