Eredin27 Archive

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1	What is your definition of masculinity That all sounds great and I agree they can apply to women. What makes them more masculine and applicable to men is what is expected out of both from society. Men and women are valued differently and do different things. Is it great if a woman takes on a provider role ? Absolutely but it’s not expected of her and society wouldn’t look at her differently if she wasn’t. I think there’s a burden of performance many guys feel. Have a man be a stay at home dad and the reaction is different. I’m not sa…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 03:03 PM
–	What is your definition of masculinity Masculinity as it relates to men are these things imo. -Doing your duty whether that’s at your job or as a husband, father etc. Doing it without expectation -Having a sense of honor or way to live -Doing something even if it’s hard because not doing it will make your life harder -Treat others with respect and dignity -Emotionally mature and introspective I think it’s better to lean into the positive aspects of being a “man” like the protector and provider roles that many men ascribe to rather th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/23 02:37 PM
2	CMV: TRP and the manosphere over-analyzes dating to the point that it’s detrimental Yes it is emotional but there is underlying logic and patterns that exist whether people are consciously aware or not. Many that subscribe to a pill ideology struggle with dating imo. It’s their way of trying to make sense of a shifting and uncertain dating scene. Is it always good or healthy? No but you can’t deny that there’s some amount of truth in what is preached otherwise there wouldn’t be these big audiences.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/23 08:51 PM
3	The Confidence Effect: Why Women Are Attracted to Men Who Believe in Themselves Respectfully what do you disagree with? Always interested in a different perspective	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 06:57 PM
9	The Confidence Effect: Why Women Are Attracted to Men Who Believe in Themselves While I agree with your points here’s the catch for a lot guys. Guys aren’t unattractive because they lack confidence. They lack confidence because they’re unattractive in some ways and haven’t been externally validated by women. Compliments from mom/grandma or overused platitudes only go so far. Some guys figure it out, accept themselves but recognize they can improve and they get over the hump. But given the modern dating landscape I think it’s getting harder and harder for guys to do that. An…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/23 06:49 PM
1	Women are not a foundation or an organisation or a state. They are not withholding the resource of sex from you. Its down on you. I agree nobody is entitled to anything from anyone. I would say though the men you’re describing are attributing their worth and identity as a man to sex which is wrong. But from a personal development/life milestone perspective I can understand why they’d get to that point. Media and our world has gotten much more sexualized and they feel like they are falling behind their peers. The thing is there’s incels/rp people in that group but also perfectly normal guys that have worked on themselves. A…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/06/23 02:55 PM
1	I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sex If you read my other responses I did acknowledge what you and others have said and am sorry that started at a young age. Yes men hit on women a lot and like I’ve said there’s also plenty of things women think of or do to men that aren’t savory. We can acknowledge both. Men and women get looked at differently and for different reasons that are not always good. I’m sure you’d agree men can be viewed in certain ways that are objectifying just like women. We can and should take steps to cut down on …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/23 12:38 PM
1	I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sex Men and women get damaged by different things all the time. I’m not saying this to minimize your experience but just that it’s part of life and what can we do about it. Now we can and should take measures to cut down what you and op have said happens to women but the fact is it’s still going to happen in spite of that. I’m of the mindset of prepare the child for the road, not the road for the child. Prepare people for life and control what we can control. Hope we can find common ground.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 09:01 PM
8	I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sex Yeah that’s a good breakdown. I think people that are sometimes chronically online take things they see in movies, tv shows and media and run with it. Example being I don’t doubt that people get unwanted dic pics but I don’t think the avg dude like you said is even thinking about that or considering doing it. Weird people do weird things that’s it. And yes women get more attention than men on average whether that’s good or bad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 07:36 PM
5	I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sex I don’t know how commonly that happens but if someone did that to you I’m sorry and that makes them a predator who should be locked up. I’m saying socially adjusted in that girls start to get attention and are approached more than guys. Because of that you have experience in dealing with people and those types of situations more than the avg dude. I’m not saying it’s right or ok that that’s the case I’m saying that’s how it is. Do I wish kids could just be kids absolutely.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 07:26 PM
4	I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sex Fair enough I should’ve read more closely. In regards to this post and sub then I’m not sure what they’re getting at. Men objectify women online and irl for their looks, that isn’t new and there will always be men that do that even if they get educated that women don’t like that. Women do the same thing to men but in different ways both online and irl. I don’t like being looked at as a pack mule for lifting things or as an ATM in my own life but it happens and i deal with it. People will always …	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 07:18 PM
55	I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sex I don’t disagree that women are much more aware and socially adjusted than men earlier because of necessity. Just like you say women who are narcissistic or didn’t get enough attention are the ones who like constant attention I can say that men who aren’t good with women or don’t have sex are who comment on social media thirst traps and lust after anything that’s “fuckable”. Social media isn’t real life and there’s plenty of men that want stable loving relationships and can see their partners va…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/23 04:43 PM
6	So, who's fault is it? Why? Porn, internet, social media and an evolving dating culture that people are still figuring out how to navigate. I think for men and women there’s less 3rd party public spaces to just exist which allowed people to meet organically. I also think the roles men and women have played in the past are changing and men don’t know how to adapt because it’s not something they were ever taught but are expected to figure out. The same for women. Relations are hostile because men think women live life on eas…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 06:10 PM