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I'd suggest Courtesan over Whore, it carries the same sexual talent and willingness implications but moreso, and also implies more exclusivity and value assigned to the relationship. Whores are seen as disposable objects, courtesans are master entertainers who have a more complex sensuality and are forever in demand.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/24 04:47 AM
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Not the case, that 1/25 is only if height and income are perfectly independent, but they are correlated. V hard to get accurate stats on multivariate distributions. Also trait arbitrage factors in on each individual male's prospect pool, and that along with affecting confidence/developing clout are more relevant for the middle ~ 0.80 of pop, rather than focusing (prophecizing?) on immutables
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 06:25 PM
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Interesting, I respect the consistency of opinion and can even understand the perspective, but I think as prescription for society rather than advice for an individual, it is apparent (to me) that such a response is infeasible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:33 AM
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When you say conservative, keep in mind that you probably mean from the lens of living in NYC. That tends to skew your perspective quite a bit. I'm from new England and consider myself conservative, but traveling to non-coastal parts of the country had me realize that for cultural reasons, I'm not interested in the vast majority of residents of rural America. The density of high-quality, cultured yet not degenerate people is low everywhere, so if you want to find a partner that meets those crite…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/23 12:20 PM
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How do you define success? Having sex with a large N of women? Or building a relationship with a woman who can see beyond that. I don't care about what billions of women are doing, if they all decide to remove themselves from the set of women I consider eligible for a relationship, that's a them and a culture at large problem, not a reason for me to compromise on my values. I would rather die alone than be with a woman whose desires and behaviors I didn't respect. It is a lot about luck, and fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:13 AM
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I've stopped seeing women because they weren't educated/intellectually stimulating enough. If you mean unattractive to everyone then it's a matter of opinion and for any conceivable collection of traits there exists a man who is into that. I don't think that's the point you are trying to get at. You seem to want to talk about how life feels unfair to you as a man who is not currently winning.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:01 PM
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Yeah, it's a feasible strategy, but I think most people view those consequences as pretty awful.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/20 12:08 AM
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Only thing I would add would be a set of hobbies/ avocational skills that they are actually interested in and spend time on, bonus points for being good at it. No one wants a lamprey constantly attached to you, or a puppy always following you around.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/20 02:19 AM
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jeez what a depressing interpretation of what I said. Its absolutely fine to decide that you don't want kids, and no man should try to force you. However, like I already said, if you want to avoid "hook up culture" and instead want a romantic for a partner, those sorts of people tend to want a family, and likewise have no obligation to be interested in pursuing you. Its not about being a baby maker for some LVM, its that the HVM you want rules you out due your childfree stance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 09:03 PM
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Protip: lots of overlap between guys who want a connection with you and guys who want a family with children. Maybe reconsider your opposition to that if you want a meaningful relationship with meaningful sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 02:29 PM
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no but it can cause throat cancers and intestinal parasite transfer
/r/TheRedPill26/07/20 02:15 PM
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not the men they enjoy having sex with typically, but the demanding housewife who has browbeaten her husband into submission might very well feel that way
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/20 06:55 PM
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Obviously it's a case by case issue, and I have no idea what your particulars are, but at very least her case gives a net positive impression, in spite of her dealing with added difficulties, whereas your situation is at best neutral.
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 01:50 PM
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How about what they are interested in, honestly neither sounds appealing personality-wise
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/19 04:37 AM
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Thinking Ape has high quality discussions on more than just mgtow subjects
/r/askTRP29/09/19 03:27 PM
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No one will teach you the secret handshake, sorry dude, it gets passed down father to son on prom night
/r/askTRP24/07/19 04:05 AM
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Hey man, lots of smart people are shit at motivation, whether OP is really a genius doesn't matter, he asked for RP advice for smart people.
/r/askTRP24/07/19 03:21 AM
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Theocracy is the political form of government. The economic model in historically theocratic societies is either the feudalism of Europe, or the god-king led, slave-owning priesthoods of early agricultural societies like those of Mesopotamia and Polynesia. The fact that Theocracies seem to be limited to these forms of government is to their detriment
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 07:10 PM
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Sperm bank, the only way having kids makes you money
/r/TheRedPill04/03/19 08:55 PM
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Usually it's occupation, almost all combat soldiers are men, almost all miners are men, and this imbalance in work means something like 80-90% of workplace deaths are men. Men are also typically expected to deal with household repairs and outdoor maintenance, which meets all of those adjectives better than the traditional woman's sphere. Examples of these include dealing with generators, emergency plumbing (including sewage), emptying gutters, and clearing snow. I'm not saying who does more btw,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 07:57 PM
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Not all men do, just like not all women have anal sex. But throughout history and in current year there are lots of men and women doing all of those things for the benefit of their partner, children, and community. If you really can't think of anything traditionally relegated to men that fits those adjectives, I'd be glad to provide examples
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 07:52 PM
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Not necessarily, but it can be in certain ones, like most gay relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 07:49 PM
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That was a metaphor for preference change over time. A better analogy for conceding anal sex to a worthy partner is this: if you were a domestic housewife, you would expect your husband to spend his day earning the money to run the household, while he would expect you to keep house and care for your children. Neither is an innately pleasurable activity, made worse by expectations and routine, but you would be a bad partner if you refused to do your share. Obviously have a discussion on what you …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:19 PM
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I'm never going to put things up my butt, and accept that the potential partners who consider that to be a deal breaker have a right to not consider me, and that it's my restriction, and therefore my fault if it doesn't work out
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 06:11 PM
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When I was younger I absolutely hated brussel sprouts. I avoided them for years. Then I found out I actually just didn't like the way they were prepared that one time. Tastes change. I'm not saying you will be forever alone if you don't take it up the ass, just that an actual relationship will require both parties to make sacrifices, and in certain ones, that involves anal sex. Also, if you refuse to make certain sacrifices, that's fine, but you will be decreasing the opportunities available
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 04:07 PM
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Lots of things people do to maintain a relationship are some or all of those things. The question is whether the relationship is worth enough to the person that they do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/19 03:27 PM
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I think it can be Hot Body alternatively
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 06:49 PM
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Guess is that people who behave atypically might be inclined towards atypically enthusiastic behavior just as a personality trait, or as a coping/hiding mechanism for their abnormalities. Also, novelty is sexy, so a person acting erratically could be attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 06:39 PM
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You don't sell your soul, you sell your life, and then you work to get it back by following the good advice posted in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 02:57 PM
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I would suggest you look up what that word means, but you've already made it quite clear that in your mind reading and knowing things like the definition of words is a feminine trait, so I won't bother.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 07:11 PM
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You are absolutely right. Only women read things in order to find insight and perspective. Real men don't worry about silly things like that, better to just stab someone or call them a bitch if they say something I don't like.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 07:02 PM
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See there you go again making assumptions. You have nothing to substantiate a claim like that, and while I appreciate the concern, its misdirected. I bet if you go through what you and I have written here, your writing will come across as more emotional than mine will. I don't really care enough to be worried for you, but its a shame to see someone who otherwise comes across as decently intelligent so consumed with anger. I'd recommend you take another look at the relevant sidebar literature per…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 06:53 PM
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Nah man. I'm not building conspiracy theories, just expressing concern at a pattern of behavior that I noticed. What I really wonder is why you are so committed to this pretty comprehensive image you've built of me with only a few comments on a forum. You seem right here to really want to lash out at guys who might need to put more work into themselves, rather than recognize the similar struggles they share with you. Its really unfortunate, I read some of your top comments and you seemed pretty …
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 06:43 PM
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No of course not. But if your speech is careless and reflects a lack of thought being put into what you say, I will reasonably assume that translates into an inability to behave otherwise. Careless and thoughtless people don't make good parents, regardless of how tough they might think they are. And being so quick to aggression is the antithesis of Amused Mastery, which IMO is far more important to TRP than seeming like a roided out sperg.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 06:30 PM
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I mentioned potential character flaws that coincide with the character traits he displayed, whereas he made assumptions about my behavior, personality, and beliefs without any context or evidence as a basis for some pretty egregious accusations. Those aren't comparable.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/19 06:24 PM
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I don't think it's possible to reach the conclusions you have about me by reading what I've written, so I'll have to conclude that you haven't. Therefore, I'll summarize: I value traditional masculinity, but I also recognize that individuals aren't perfect clones of an archetype, and that regardless of what category someone fits into, they, will vary to some degree from that standard. That's why I worried about your empathy skills Mr. Masculine. Not because I think masculine men aren't good fath…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 05:52 PM
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I think you are too quick to assume motive and too willing to assume things about people with very little evidence, because that isn't true at all. I wonder how you will respond when your son comes to you with tears in his eyes and tells you how something he saw or heard made him feel really sad. I would hope you would show compassion and teach him how to deal with those feelings, and not shame him for having them.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 04:51 PM
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While you have a point, I think it is reasonable to recognize that raising boys without the opportunity to have emotional support if they want/need it can be harmful and leave them less than they could have been. Obviously it shouldn't be forced on them, just not denied to them on the basis of "you're a boy, you don't have feelings that can be hurt."
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 04:13 PM
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Hide: conceal from the view or notice of others Overcome: to reach a solution to the Problem, and either putting the solution into practice or accepting the situation as it is. 10 year olds need a place of understanding and security from which they can learn maturity, and thereby stoicism
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 03:25 PM
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I don't think children should be stoic. I think that leads them to hide their emotions, rather than overcome them
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 03:06 PM
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To be fair, while I was pissed off when I read it, amused mastery is neither competitive nor aggressive. I think there are downsides to forcing boys to behave stoically before they even know what their emotions are, just as there are downsides to locking energetic boys to a chair for 8 hours a day
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 03:04 PM
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Get counciling so you don't go through this twice, sounds like a lack of control over your emotions.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 04:39 PM
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What if the data on mental illness suggested rates were increasing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:23 PM
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It's passed on by the reproducing members, just not expressed. The gayness crops up roughly at the same rates at which it's beneficial. If it had been necessary that 1/3 of the population not reproduce, a higher rate of gayness might have arisen to meet that evolutionary demand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 06:21 PM
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Where's the option for having them provide a unique perspective a la contrapoints
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:50 PM
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I agree, but I think it's a dismorphia born from their feeling completely invalidated as a potentially physically attractive individual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 03:52 AM
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What percentage is that of total? I always assumed the progressive activists was just a vocal minority
/r/TheRedPill30/09/18 05:10 AM
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It hadn't even occurred to me to conflate self-control with cuckoldry, because cuckoldry doesn't have a place in the thoughts of those of us who are free from perverted, emasculating fantasies. Have you got something you'd like to share with the group? Self Control was the virtue I was advocating, and its a shame GLO and his ilk neglect it.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 10:08 AM
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A racist and a stalinist. While they might be more colorful, you don't get to claim their innovative cred by dogmatizing their work. I have no faith that reactionary politics can be anything other than mental mastrubation. A true alpha doesn't need social controls to be valued by women. Your incel fanboys, on the other hand...
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 08:43 AM
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Nobody is angry? I refer you to vyrst's comments in this thread, and the fact that we literally have a part of the maturation process called the "anger phase". That's fine, but it isn't the goal. It's fine to talk tough about social reform, but history teaches us that CIVIL disobedience works better than impotent aggression, and that you catch more flies with honey than calling them faggots
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 08:30 AM
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Sad that your approach to the subreddit seems to be with the goal of targeting lost, damaged guys, and using unproductive and juvenile speech, speech that jeopardizes the future of this subreddit, in order to ensnare poor saps into paying you to radicalize them to your dull and simplistic approach to life.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 08:13 AM
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Wow if vitriol had benefits beside making your dick hard you might actually contribute something to the community. Claiming a monopoly on value judgements doesn't make you cool, it makes people draw comparisons between you and the sort of argumentative highschooler that had no friends
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 08:02 AM
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Be careful not to idolize the flawed psyches you're sucking up to, it seems as though your approach to masculinity is to get loud and angry. A truly powerful man doesn't let the words or deeds of others control his emotions, or feel the need to rely on disparaging remarks to sell his argument.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 07:57 AM
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Agree. It's not about the consequences imposed by admins that ought to matter, though. It's that people who bitch and moan about the sour grapes in their lives are awful examples of powerful men, and detract from the goals of amused mastery and mature masculinity to which we aspire.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 07:48 AM
1

What's a*
/r/askTRP06/09/18 03:12 AM
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Thoughts on music, no one carries a separate mp3 player. Not outright addictive in that way, but can lead to getting distracted
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:32 PM
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It's the solitude you need to be free of dependence on outside validation. Maybe you aren't ready yet, which is fine
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 12:06 PM
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He knows it's good for him right now
/r/TheRedPill27/07/18 12:03 PM
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What really matters is establishing to them and yourself that you and your time is valuable. Don't simply tell them to fuck off, instead tell them you tutor when it's convenient for you, and tell them it's a rate that almost seems too high($30-40/ hour maybe). There you aren't closing doors, you are putting yourself as too expensive for them, and raising your value with them and the girlfriends they gossip with.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 02:01 PM
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From a male perspective, yeah probably. Another aspect TRP doesn't like to admit on the limited intellectual capacity front is that most people, male and female, tend to fit the more pessimistic criteria of AWALT, probably should be APALT IMO.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 02:14 PM
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That is actually hilarious. I was feeling down because I still have a long way to go, but that made me feel a whole lot better about myself in comparison.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 05:35 PM
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Fam you owe money, get the agreement in some kind of writing and pay your debt. There's no excuse to not be financially responsible, regardless of whether who you owe money to used to suck your dick. And $200 for a few hours is pretty good money for a novice gigolo, so if she wants you to play dress up and call her mommy in addition, suck it up and finish erasing that part of your life.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:51 AM
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Seconded, I'd like a flair for those kinds of theory posts, or a separate linked sub.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 09:29 PM
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It's not a matter of obligation, but of useful constructive advice. No one is required to give it, but if you aren't going to help don't belittle someone else solely for your own entertainment.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 01:09 PM
1

Yeah, posting non-questions in an ask subreddit defeats the purpose.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:08 PM
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I agree that sidebar is what most new guys need, but there is a better way to direct them. Maybe have in the rules no repeat, basic questions, hold a higher standard for both Q and A, more like ask historians.
/r/askTRP17/12/17 11:53 PM
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Creatine and 1g per pound of lean mass.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 04:33 PM
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Not really full skill set, more like just a shooting course.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 11:49 PM
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I took the same approach, and don't regret it, but have noticed thinner hair as a result, did you have a similar result, and if so, how'd you deal with that.
/r/askTRP06/10/17 06:45 PM
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Well, you don't need to be more wittier, just wittier.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 03:07 AM
1

Anything except brown then.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 08:08 PM
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Aren't all eyes colored? What does that mean?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/17 04:43 AM
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