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Its different when you’re a man and so much of how people treat you is dependent on your romantic success
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 10:00 PM
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I’d rather be in the most toxic possible relationship than my current state.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 09:48 AM
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Just get internal validation! Genius! Why didn’t I think of that? Internal validation for what? I have nothing to be proud of or feel good about.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 02:50 AM
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I appreciate your optimism, this reply made me feel something. But I really think if you’ve never had a proper relationship at 19 it might just be over. As for correcting my self destructive thinking, I try and challenge these thoughts but I always end up conceding I really am as bad as I think. I really don’t know what “mental and emotional labour” you want me to do.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 02:07 AM
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Okay, and to be happy I want a relationship, but to get there I need to be happy first (according to you) but you’ve never said how I’m supposed to be happy and proud of myself when I’m clearly being judged as worse than my peers on the dating market
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 02:05 AM
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Because I can think?
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 02:04 AM
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Why should I love myself? I don’t believe things because they are helpful, I believe things because they are true. If I am a worthwhile person even without a relationship than I should acknowledge that, but to me it seems like thats just at odds with reality.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 01:58 AM
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“Vibes” are an evil concept
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 12:02 AM
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Wow, assuming that I’d do any of that feels great. Thanks a lot.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/24 12:00 AM
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Easier said than done.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 01:52 PM
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And I really can’t think of anything that compares in meaningfulness to a romantic relationship.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 06:52 AM
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I will. But we’ve been through it all before.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 06:52 AM
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Well idk how to have self esteem without that. I can’t just be okay with being unlovable and unattractive and single thats just not a person I can live as.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 06:40 AM
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I’ve been seeing my current therapist for over a year and made 0 progress. And you know what would change my mindset? Being in a relationship, because then I would know its possible for me to loved and I’m not worthless, so no this wouldn’t be an issue.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 06:32 AM
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I have asked people previously and they say I act fine.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 06:30 AM
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Theres nothing anyone can say, no matter how many degrees they have, that will suddenly make me not care that I’m incapable of being loved.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 06:29 AM
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I’ve been seeing various therapists since I was about 12 mate. Seen about a dozen by now. I can confidently say, it doesn’t work.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 06:26 AM
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I have, its useless.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 06:22 AM
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Yeah, so you tell based off their social cues. My social cues give off normal guy. People can’t read my mind and find out that I have these issues.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 04:25 AM
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I don’t believe in such mysticism.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 04:16 AM
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I still can’t believe you unironically suggested I should get self esteem from my car and clothes, capitalism is going to kill us all.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 04:12 AM
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No, because I hide it well.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 04:11 AM
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I’ve been “putting the work in” for years. Been at the gym for a year. Had a job for two years. Saved up a lot for my age. I do volunteer work. I get good marks at uni. None of it makes me feel any less worthless because my dating experience PROVES that all of that is worth jack shit.
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 04:04 AM
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Could you wake up every day and be excited about your life? About what you have planned? The car you drive? The clothes you wear? That sounds like an absolutely miserable, torturous existence lmao
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 03:57 AM
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I heard a question years ago that really helped me. "What if no woman ever found you attractive ever again?” I’d off myself
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 03:55 AM
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Read a book then
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 12:59 AM
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Because they are better people than me with positive traits and achievements they can celebrate, I guess
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 11:47 PM
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This is just hedonism. Theres more to life than fleeting dopamine.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 10:21 PM
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You’ve fallen into the issue I laid out in the post. Self respect and love is vital to a healthy relationship and you probably won’t have much success dating until you cultivate these things. But you absolutely cannot expect people to the love version of you that you yourself don’t even like. Again, how can I be expected to love myself if no one loves me?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 09:40 PM
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What makes a person worthwhile?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 09:36 PM
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Dates or not, I still don’t have a gf, just like at the start of the year.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 12:21 PM
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I can get dates, I’ve gone on dates with five different people this year, just none of it has led to anything. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 10:34 AM
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If I don’t base my self esteem on validation of women what should I base it on?
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 12:25 AM
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I know. Thats what I was laughing at.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 12:20 AM
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Lol
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 12:14 AM
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You state that there’s no point in having hobbies. Hobbies are how you meet people, develop friendships and work on social skills. Hobbies are often how people meet and end up dating because the apps are a cesspool. I have hobbies. I’ve met people through hobbies. I just don’t enjoy them at all. Your entire comment is baseless assumption after baseless assumption. You continue to state that you are miserable and on and on. You say therapy is useless and CBT is a cope. Yea dude, it’s literally ca…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/24 12:12 AM
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sad because lonely get partner no loner lonely The math checks out to me tbh.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 11:47 PM
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You find attractive men attractive. Attractive men also happen to be well dressed. Put an unattractive man in better clothes and you’ve changed nothing.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 11:46 PM
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Nah that's silly. Get some hobbies. Make some friends. Go to school and get into some clubs there. Enjoy life. Have hobbies, have friends, at uni, go to uni clubs. None of it makes me any happier. I can assure you that life doesn't end at 20. I can only go on like this for so long. But you know, if you don't fix your attitude, it's going to be tough to find someone. No woman wants to be the only thing in between you and suicide. What are you going to do, threaten it any time she thinks of breaki…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 11:38 PM
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Well I can’t wait that long. If I get to 20 with still nothing I’ll literally just you know-what-myself then and there
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 11:13 PM
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Impossible. I don’t enjoy anything I do. Everything feels like a meaningless distraction without a partner.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 10:59 PM
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And many women will disagree with you a lot on that. They often very much do look at what a man wears. And when you look at men who are successful with women they are decently dressed. Looks matters and your clothes is a part of how you look. Correlation is not causation. Why are you worthless? Most people who aren't dating or even are struggling to date aren't in such a negative mindset. So part of this is your mindset although I do admit your circumstance plays a big role too. Therapy can help…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 10:57 PM
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You seem hateful. Have you tried showering? Its called being a decent fucking person. You give me the ick. Your vibes are off. Looks aren’t everything. Just be a nice person and you’ll do fine.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 10:08 PM
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What kind of results have you gotten from the gym? Also how have you improved you looks aside from the gym like with clothes or hair? I’m decently fit for my age. Recently started new hair products and bought proper clothes for winter. I strongly believe that clothes don’t matter for attraction though. How much have your mental health issues been resulted with therapy? It sounds like you still have mental health and self-talk issues to work on. None, I’ve found it a waste of time honestly. I thi…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 09:36 PM
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I don’t have a fake persona. Your useless comments make sense now, your projecting your own poor dating decisions onto me and pretending I’m your exes. Throughout your comment chain you’ve frankly seemed dim. Your advice is less than worthless.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 09:20 PM
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I doubt it
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 09:05 PM
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There’s a difference between using people for their bodies and getting happiness from the knowledge someone cares about you
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:49 PM
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Because red pill men are morons who can’t value mutual love?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:47 PM
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Because I’m 19 and never had a proper relationship.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:43 PM
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lol, all I want in life is long term love, id never cheat
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:41 PM
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I can’t be happy by myself knowing I’m an unlovable virgin
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:41 PM
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Wow incredible
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:36 PM
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I do, but I don’t actually enjoy any of them. Feel meaningless without someone to share them with.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:34 PM
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When i thought i could be with that person i was over the moon and super confident. Felt like I could do anything. Funny how that works.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:33 PM
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That’s impossible
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:32 PM
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Again, why should I like myself? I’m a 19 year old virgin, I’m clearly incapable of making women feel comfortable and aroused, I’m unlovable. Knowing this, why should I like myself?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:23 PM
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I feel like I’m waiting for my life to begin because I don’t actually enjoy anything I do, everything I do is done so that one day maybe it will pay off by finding someone special, I don’t actually find any happiness now.
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:12 PM
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Why would I love my own life if no one else does
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:08 PM
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You brushed over “mental stuff” very conveniently. Who’s mental stuff, yours or hers? Hers
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:07 PM
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Why would I love myself if no one can love me?
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 08:05 PM
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I enjoy literally nothing about my life. It all feels meaningless and like a waste of time without someone to share it with. Why do I got to work? To earn money I don’t spend on anyone but myself. Why do I go to uni? To get a better job to earn more money to- not spend on anyone but myself. I’m fucking sick of it and I’m sick of people acting like I’m supposed to be perfectly content being a 19 year old whose never had a proper relationship, its not impatience its shame. I see how people talk ab…
/r/ExRedPill13/06/24 11:43 AM
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Being completely inexperienced in anything and everything romance at 21 is not common. Don’t sugarcoat the situation.
/r/ExRedPill14/05/24 09:28 AM
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Examples?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/24 12:22 AM
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It’s true
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 01:33 PM
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Sad truth is some people just are doomed from the start. You and me both.
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 01:15 PM
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Vibes are an evil and ableist concept
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 09:44 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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