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| 1 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?I hate that testosterone causes sex desire even in women, instead of estrogen because to me testosterone being what gives males our features makes sex desire being dependant on that more of a male than female quality, even though I know women have testosterone too. The amygdala is much more active in men than women from seeing anything arousing, so men naturally can't be as desired for the same reasons we sexually desire women. But then why do women's sex desires correlate with estrogen amounts … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?I hate that women need context to be aroused and that far fewer women than men have spontaneous sex desire. This is cited as a reason women don't want to look for visuals of men to masturbate to as often as men look for those of women. The most popular porn for women is gay women because just the thought of being desired and pleasured is enough to get many women aroused. More women than men also get aroused just by seeing anything sexual, regardless of if it's focus on their gender or non humans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?I hate that women need context to be aroused and that far fewer women than men have spontaneous sex desire. This is cited as a reason women don't want to look for visuals of men to masturbate to as often as men look for those of women. The most popular porn for women is gay women because just the thought of being desired and pleasured is enough to get many women aroused. More women than men also get aroused just by seeing anything sexual, regardless of if it's focus on their gender or non humans… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Why can't men be marketed to women as sexual objects / receivers of desire?I hate that the areas most often thought by men to be sexiest on women aren't as commonly thought that way on men by women and that the butt and torso on men doesn't have as much size variation to be as eye catching to as many women. Most women aren't even visual enough to want to see as much exposure of those areas as often as they've been shown off on women! There being more variety in what's sexiest to women than men gives a major visual sex desire disparity with the genders. It's very upsett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:56 PM |
| 1 | unselected men for some reason blamed for the behavior of the men women actually chooseI know many women stay silent about being as visually sexual from the same body areas on men as most men like most on women because of judgement some get for it, it being more likely to be dangerous for a woman to make her attraction to a man known in person, and that sex is more often not worth it for women because too many men care only about their pleasure. I know many women don't like that far fewer men try as much to look as attractive to as many women as women do to people, even though man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 10:00 PM |
| – | CMV: There is no discernible difference between an asexual woman and the average, heterosexual-identified one.I know many women stay silent about being as visually sexual from the same body areas on men as most men like most on women because of judgement some get for it, it being more likely to be dangerous for a woman to make her attraction to a man known in person, and that sex is more often not worth it for women because too many men care only about their pleasure. I know many women don't like that far fewer men try as much to look as attractive to as many women as women do to people, even though man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 04:52 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I know many women stay silent about being as visually sexual from the same body areas on men as most men like most on women because of judgement some get for it, it being more likely to be dangerous for a woman to make her attraction to a man known in person, and that sex is more often not worth it for women because too many men care only about their pleasure. I know many women don't like that far fewer men try as much to look as attractive to as many women as women do to people, even though man… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/05/26 02:03 PM |
| 1 | How do Men Want to be Seen as Physically Attractive?I know many women stay silent about being as visually sexual from the same body areas on men as most men like most on women because of judgement some get for it, it being more likely to be dangerous for a woman to make her attraction to a man known in person, and that sex is more often not worth it for women because too many men care only about their pleasure. I know many women don't like that far fewer men try as much to look as attractive to as many women as women do to people, even though man… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/26 01:33 PM |
| 1 | For all the talk about the differences between men and women, men here seem to ignore the gender differences when it comes to the topic of sex.I know many women stay silent about being as visually sexual from the same body areas on men as most men like most on women because of judgement some get for it, it being more likely to be dangerous for a woman to make her attraction to a man known in person, and that sex is more often not worth it for women because too many men care only about their pleasure. I know many women don't like that far fewer men try as much to look as attractive to as many women as women do to people, even though man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.I know many women stay silent about being as visually sexual from the same body areas on men as most men like most on women because of judgement some get for it, it being more likely to be dangerous for a woman to make her attraction to a man known in person, and that sex is more often not worth it for women because too many men care only about their pleasure. I know many women don't like that far fewer men try as much to look as attractive to as many women as women do to people, even though man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/26 01:24 PM |
| 1 | “Men would love to be sexually objectified”I know many women stay silent about being as visually sexual from the same body areas on men as most men like most on women because of judgement some get for it, it being more likely to be dangerous for a woman to make her attraction to a man known in person, and that sex is more often not worth it for women because too many men care only about their pleasure. I know many women don't like that far fewer men try as much to look as attractive to as many women as women do to people, even though man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/26 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Women have male-like sexuality when they attracted to other womenDuring a woman's cycle there's a time when estrogen increases to more than double the normal amount but testosterone only a little, and their sex desire increase correlates with the estrogen. Women need some testosterone too but men also need some estrogen for libido. How come that's not talked about nearly as much? When women have menopause their estrogen amounts decrease a lot while their testosterone amount doesn't change nearly as much and the loss of sexual desire again correlates with the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?What people do is part of expression and so many people have different experience with this that you that saying other testimony and studies aren't reliable would just as easily disqualify what you're saying. You're not consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?To be less easily visually aroused is to have less libido because then it's more complicated to feel sexual. Did you miss the part where I was citing real world experience as evidence for many women being as visually sexual and why many women are just not comfortable expressing their very visual sexuality? And for such data to be in studies, they need to get their information from the real world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I don't either. I meant only expressing a greater sense of beauty in the opposite gender, not how aggressively she did it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Complete nonsense. You don't pay much attention and having same working libidos can't make the genders the same because we have structural differences already. It makes no sense to act like just because we're different that libido should be one of those differences. Here's what I've seen from the large amount of reading I've done on this. Many women have said they're sexuality is as visual as men's and many men have said they've been with women like that. So much for men needing same sex partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?As if you can speak for women in general. I've seen so many people claiming most women's sexuality works the same as men's and others saying it's more complicated, basing it on what they've witnessed, experienced and on studies, so why should I care about the study you referenced? There's enough conflicting information to show that many women's sexualities are as simple as men's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?You're confusing me with another guy. I've seen the comment you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 07:14 AM |
| 4 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?The arrogant part was claiming their gender is nicer to look at and saying it in a way that seemed she thought it was a fact. She later said she only meant that it's by women taking better care of themselves, not them naturally looking better. Nudity not being inherently sexual is a moot point. Visual differences are a major part of sexual attraction for many people, so I ain't got a clue how you could think they're not meant to sexually attract. My point about the desire and admiration disparit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 07:13 AM |
| 3 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?It's not a victim complex and you oversimplified me again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?You very much don't understand and it's not difficult to. I explained earlier that I don't mean one gender being often admired by many of that gender but just don't like that one gender is admired that much more often than the other by both genders. Of course I'd admire women to if I'm attracted to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:52 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I didn't say that. I'm talking about both genders being perceived as just as beautiful as often to both genders. That means men being thought as attractive to both genders as often as women have been. What's it going to take for you to understand me? I do admire men lots of times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:43 AM |
| 6 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Mutual means getting the same treatment as the other, in this case men being as admired as women as often as women have as well as visual sexual desire. Are you playing dumb? And straight men can admire the male body the same way straight women admire the female. People perceive attractiveness in both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:36 AM |
| 4 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?That's just wanting mutual admiration and desire, drama king. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:34 AM |
| 10 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Inherent means just naturally as is. That's why I contrasted it with how well someone takes care of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:13 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?It's not a victim mentality and you oversimplified me. What upsets me is not women being affirmed as sexy so often by their gender but that men haven't had that affirmation for being sexy by both genders as often. Many men want our gender to be as admired as often and sexually desired just as visually by women. I thought I was clear about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:08 AM |
| 9 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?If it was just a matter of taking care of ones self being why most women say they think more women look attractive I can understand that. Many of them, though, speak as if women just inherently have more attractive faces and bodies regardless of effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?This guy get's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 01:45 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?According to who and what? Visual differences are a major part of sexual attraction to most people from what most people have seen and read. It's so simple, that's not even a question worth asking. And jigglyness isn't inherently more attractive than firmness, of which there's variations of both in both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Very arrogant nonsense! The body proportion differences are meant to attract the opposite sex. Both are just as nice to look at and men shouldn't feel any less visually attractive and less sexually desired by the opposite sex any more often than women have been. How have so many men been fine with this kind of thinking being common with women, when that means our reasons for finding women attractive aren't mutual as often and then just a waste more often!? It's so stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Thank you heterosexual woman for being as supportive as most other heterosexual women should be. This world is looney tunes crazy. If only you could fathom how infuriating reddit and the beauty double standard in general is for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 11:42 PM |
| 6 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?That makes no sense. The very simple reason for that is because since men's visual attraction is a major part of sexual attraction to women, many men would much prefer our gender to be thought as visually pleasing and matter just as much for sex attraction as often to women, so it's very strange and upsetting to us that so many women would think their gender more sexy. We don't get to have that same combination of factors for attraction and arousal felt for us by them, causing a major desire and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 11:21 PM |
| -1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?It's so stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Very arrogant nonsense! The body proportion differences are meant to attract the opposite sex. Both are just as nice to look at and men shouldn't feel any less visually attractive and less sexually desired by the opposite sex any more often than women have been. How have so many men been fine with this kind of thinking being common with women, when that means our reasons for finding women attractive aren't mutual as often and then just a waste more often!? It's so stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 09:48 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?You didn't pay much attention. My point is I wish it were mutual, not fake. Right, it's irrational to want a very passionate desire to be mutually felt for your gender for the same reasons you desire them. Very few people feel that passionately about the color of the sky. False equivalence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I know the explanations, as you would clearly have seen me state in my first comment. My point is why I hate those differences, doc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 08:30 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I'm talking about finding the same body areas on men as sexy as men think them on women, and women getting their arousal from that. I don't care for women to get aroused by a lot of muscle or a dick either. Most men don't care much about vaginas either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I edited my comment. Re read it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Forget it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I'm talking about looking at their gender but just focusing on the pleasure they see them getting and imagining having that sensation, therefore not having arousal be as dependent on thinking of and looking at the gender they're attracted to, unlike with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I know. I'm talking about more straight women than men being aroused so much just from the thought of being pleasured, that they can get that feeling even when focusing on their gender in sexual things. It's not as much about desiring the opposite sex themselves, like with men, but just getting sexual pleasure. That's less strong sexual desire for men in general than women get from men. I'm not sure how else to explain this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I know this, but more women than men can get aroused just from the thought of being pleasured so much that they can feel that stimulation even looking at women nude and having pleasure. It's not as strong and directly for the gender they're sexually attracted to, unlike how it is with most men. That's part of the desire disparity I'm talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Thank you for being sensible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I tried to clarify that I didn't mean women desiring all men. My issue is there being more visual sexual desire for women than men in general by the opposite sex and not as often being desired that way for the same reasons as why men are attracted to women. That and some other reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 07:41 PM |
| 4 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?Yes to your question, if you meant not desiring men as often as men do women for the same reasons, and more women having less simple sexuality. That along with other reasons I don't feel like saying, but it's all ruined most of my excitement I used to feel about women. That's how much I hate the desire and visual admiration disparity with the genders. I would have never suspected such things until having seen what so many woman say about this stuff online as well as other research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?I'd like there to be no disparity of how often visual sexual desire has been felt for the genders by the opposite one or aesthetic admiration for both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?How have so many men not hated how less visually desired we've been to women, despite sexual attraction being a very passionate desire!? Why would so many men be fine with men not having gotten nearly as much admiration of beauty by women!? This kind of nonsense makes my blood boil! I hate that even most hetero women say women are more attractive even just for the body shape, acting like it's a fact that female curves and other features are more pleasing to look at than uniquely male features, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?How have so many men not hated how less visually desired we've been to women, despite sexual attraction being a very passionate desire!? Why would so many men be fine with men not having gotten nearly as much admiration of beauty by women!? This kind of nonsense makes my blood boil! I hate that even most hetero women say women are more attractive even just for the body shape, acting like it's a fact that female curves and other features are more pleasing to look at than uniquely male features, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 06:58 PM |
| 6 | Why are so many straight women aroused better by female bodies than male ones?How have so many men not hated how less visually desired we've been to women, despite sexual attraction being a very passionate desire!? Why would so many men be fine with men not having gotten nearly as much admiration of beauty by women!? This kind of nonsense makes my blood boil! I hate that even most hetero women say women are more attractive even just for the body shape, acting like it's a fact that female curves and other features are more pleasing to look at than uniquely male features, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women desire men as much as vice versa?I'm SO TIRED of people ONLY mentioning testosterone causing libido! Do most of the people on reddit and quora not know that during a woman's cycle there's a time when estrogen increases to more than double the normal amount but testosterone only a little, and their sex desire increase correlates with the estrogen!? Women need some testosterone too but men also need some estrogen for libido. How come that's not talked about nearly as much!? When women have menopause their estrogen amounts decreas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men?I'm SO TIRED of people ONLY mentioning testosterone causing libido! Do most of the people on reddit and quora not know that during a woman's cycle there's a time when estrogen increases to more than double the normal amount but testosterone only a little, and their sex desire increase correlates with the estrogen!? Women need some testosterone too but men also need some estrogen for libido. How come that's not talked about nearly as much!? When women have menopause their estrogen amounts decreas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Women's sexuality works differently than men's sexuality...I'm SO TIRED of people ONLY mentioning testosterone causing libido! Do most of the people on reddit and quora not know that during a woman's cycle there's a time when estrogen increases to more than double the normal amount but testosterone only a little, and their sex desire increase correlates with the estrogen!? Women need some testosterone too but men also need some estrogen for libido. How come that's not talked about nearly as much!? When women have menopause their estrogen amounts decreas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men?I'm SO TIRED of people ONLY mentioning testosterone causing libido! Do most of the people on reddit and quora not know that during a woman's cycle there's a time when estrogen increases to more than double the normal amount but testosterone only a little, and their sex desire increase correlates with the estrogen!? Women need some testosterone too but men also need some estrogen for libido. How come that's not talked about nearly as much!? When women have menopause their estrogen amounts decreas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Women have sexual needs just as much as men do if not more soI've never been able to enjoy female beauty like I want to ever since learning most breasts and female butts have a lot of fat and because of sex desire differences. It's because fat isn't part of what makes a stable structure, the mass can change much more easily and is meant to be absorbed. It feels to me like something besides the body itself being shaped that way even though it's an organ. It's just a body part like blood and water which is in the body and needed to live, but it's fuel, not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 10:28 PM |
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