EricExplainsOfficial Archive

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3	Do a lot of guys have this common experience dating a foreign woman? No, Guys talk about how dating foreign women are easier than North American because their culture is oftentimes more respective and forgiving of men. Also, in a lot of cultures, Americans are pedestalized. Weather or not this actually shakes out to be of any benefit is definitely up for debate. During my single tour, I enjoyed a few Hispanic women cleaning and organizing my house without being asked which was nice, but ultimately, sarcasm and humor is VERY difficult with someone that can barely …	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 09:27 PM
21	Q4M: Are you experiencing older women competing with younger women more in dating nowadays? Still not as much as I see younger men complaining about older men competing for the same women. But yeah I’d say this exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/07/24 07:44 PM
1	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him Let’s be serious man, if she was REALLY SERIOUS about OLD, she’d obviously SUPER LIKE you, open and lead the conversation, and ask you on a date.. but unfortunately, I’m not as skilled at OLD as you, so help me out here… what should I say that’s less cringe? Give me an actual example?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 10:13 PM
1	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him Awesome man, your turn! Give me some better ones!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 09:51 PM
9	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. AFBB is a useful lens if you’re fully bluepilled and think you’ll get your needs met by trying to please women at all costs. In reality though, it’s way more nuanced, and holds little value. Most women put men in NEITHER category, and it’s possible (and ideal) for women to put you in BOTH categories. And dude.. you’re defending a thesis that says “Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last”. That’s a little drastic, don’t ya think? This is an easy one to argue from my side…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 09:50 PM
10	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. Maybe….., but laying it entirely at the feet of female promiscuity seems a little wild to me..	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 09:45 PM
8	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. 100% agree, but I don’t think “it sometimes comes back” = collapse of society.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 09:36 PM
16	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. No, I don’t think so. I still think women would settle down. My evidence for this is that even when women exist in spaces where hookup culture is the norm and glorified, they still (later in life) choose to settle down AND on average, DONT go back to hookup culture Or if they do, they do for a few years and then lock someone down again. There is, in this model, still enough monogamy to make your worldview that monogamy is the foundation of society work. Your redpill worldview is making you think…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 09:02 PM
35	Without enforced monogamy, civilization will not last. “Unless women are forced to do as men want, society is doomed!” In all honesty though, I think this is example of extrapolating the extremes. Most women only act like this as a phase, then they settle down and don’t go back to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 08:34 PM
1	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him Sorry bro, you don’t get to pull out and change your argument just because you took the cheap shot at me and can’t actually come up with anything better yourself. If you really felt that way, you would’ve said that before I put you on the spot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 05:26 PM
2	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him Never fails to amaze me… “Well.. I mean, you can’t expect me to just COME UP WITH A LINE, I NEED MORE INFORMATION BRO!! But I’m SURE your lines suck”	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:28 PM
2	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him Again… give me an exammppllleee It’s not just you, but it’s a huge pet peeve of mine when I give actual examples, actual advice, and people come back with this bullshit “Well that sucks/thats weird/cringe” Maybe it is. Maybe you’re right. The best way to show me that I’m wrong though is not to do the low effort “that’s no good”. The best way to show me I’m wrong is to show me something better. But you won’t. No one will. And of course, the reason why you won’t is because it would be so easy for …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:17 PM
2	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him Exactly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:08 PM
3	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him Obligatory “not with that attitude” Good luck bro	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 03:01 PM
1	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him I’m sure you can come up with something better, let’s hear it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 02:59 PM
0	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him Perfect, help me out by giving me some better ones!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 02:58 PM
-3	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him She didn’t want to talk to him after that opener	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 01:39 PM
2	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him “Most guys are not witty dropping 1 liners like that” Which is exactly why it is an effective strategy. With practice, you get good at it. If you can make her laugh upfront, you’ll have no trouble making her laugh on the date. She will see you as someone who is confident and funny. There are a lot of personalities and personas you can attempt to take on, and learning to develop a sense of humor is completely free, and will help you in every situation in your life. Don’t give me that bullshit “tr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 01:39 PM
7	That Tinder post where he posted his L but everyone sides with him Women who have created a profile for the first time have a TON of preconceived ideas about the kinds of people they may be meeting. I’m in sales so I’m totally familiar with people having their guard up to defcon fucking 5 when I greet them. I always say this. You have to make her laugh. If you can’t make her laugh you can’t get her to meet you. If it sounds like too much, then dating apps are only going to cause frustration. So no profile? She probably is private and has her guard up. Find some…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 11:52 AM
–	how are so many men here shocked and angry that looks matter? Because of how much people (especially women) seem to imply that they don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/24 11:32 AM
-1	CMV: Women should not have to make outfit choices based on the creepiness of males I’m not sure if this is going to be much of a debate here. I can think of examples of women dressing in a way that I would consider “intentionally provocative” but never while exercising.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:23 PM
3	Why do other men support societal delusion? I feel like this was the purest summary of OG redpill doctrine, but the fact that I 100% agree and consider myself “purple pill” as well as incarnate 24’s “purple pill” flair means it went seriously wrong somewhere. Anyways, this is your answer OP	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 06:08 PM
3	Men who fear that women are settling for them and feel they may be reduced to Beta Bucks... would you be okay, if she offers a hall pass? I want to be with someone who makes me not want to entertain the idea of a “hall pass” so nope Also if poly/open were on the table, I’d sure as hell never be asking permission for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 12:40 AM
2	Is Polygyny the future? I guess I wasn’t dating women then… Weird.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 09:32 PM
8	Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid. This is the same for both genders though. Both genders could be chased by people they don’t want to bang. We always chase the ones we want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 04:00 PM
7	Men below 30, would you date a woman who used to be a sugarbaby? Maybe she used a sugar dady thrice her age to cover law school fees or something This wouldn’t disqualify a woman for going on dates, but would disqualify her for exclusivity or relationship. Pinning down “how much” or “for what reason” a girl desires a guy is incredibly difficult. Reasons and intensity are constantly changing. Just look at all the reasons women LOOSE their desire for a man with those “ick” videos.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 03:34 PM
31	Men care too much about women's approval and getting laid. 100% true And the only way to fix is by lived experience. It’s almost like we were biologically wired for connection and we subconsciously judge others worth based on the way they are treated by others. This is the exact same thing as the “money won’t buy you happiness, you shouldn’t care so much about it” And the “you shouldn’t care what other people think” tropes. They’re bullshit. Only people who say that are people with money or lots of friends. When you’re in scarcity, trust me, it matters.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/06/24 03:25 PM
3	Is lying about your career in hopes of getting a ONS wrong or immoral? The only thing lying about helps you with when getting laid is your intentions about commitment. Thats literally the only thing. And even at that. Being honest often doesn’t hurt you nearly as much as you would think.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/06/24 11:50 AM
3	Is Dating Really Hard? Or Are People Not Trying Hard Enough and Unwilling to Compromise on Their Standards? Social media, movies, music, culture has portrayed your romantic partner as your savior. That one person that’s going to fix your world and you. Not only that, but the first few months of a hot relationship can practically feel like that’s true. That’s a hell of a lot of expectations. I don’t think “back in the day” people had even remotely near the same expectations.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/06/24 01:50 AM
1	Are you aware that the "i don't do casual" is a problematic trend? “Omg I never do this!!” -every woman who’s ever hooked up ever “OMG ME EITHER!” Should be your response. Figure it out, man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/24 01:36 PM
–	Do younger women (18-24) actually date older men (25+) as people in the manosphere claim? Most don’t. If anything they may be a higher skew towards older men when talking about hookups, particularly when the hookup is in a nothing-to-loose scenario like a vacation with the bestie or the neighbors friend who’s in town for a few weeks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/24 01:35 PM
3	Not getting hookups? Might be because you're tackling the game while sober and chasing sober women This may be true for the college or party scene but in my 90 lays in 5 years saga, never once had drunken hookup the first time. You’re getting in to dark territory when you’re looking for the drunk chick.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/24 01:48 AM
40	Many women don't realize that emotions are not reality. This is true for both men and women in deferent areas. I hate structuring it like the “gotcha” behind it is that “women have it easier” If anything, attractive people have it easier. But I can’t find enough evidence to say women (or men) as a whole have it easier	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 12:11 PM
18	Are Red Pill and Blue Pill Defined Differently Than They Used To? I agree 100% Found the RP sub about 10 years ago. Consumed the sidebar as well as the top voted posts. I still remember some of them. It was amazing. The purge as well as “redpill” / “manosphere” going more mainstream killed it. A few years ago, the top voted post on the red pill was titled “Andrew Tate is not your friend” That post is gone now. What a shame.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 10:49 AM
3	I think people need to accept the fact women just don't enjoy sex. This is a much better illustration of the typical male experience than a debate. With great work on one’s self comes great reward, my brothers…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 06:25 AM
3	What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience? Yes, being confident helps. Just as cheering up helps if you suffer from depression. Is “just cheer up” bad advice to someone suffering from depression? I had to work through that lack of confidence and it took years of baby steps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 12:35 AM
1	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? These are good except for #3 everyone agreees with that 7 is the most underrated. It can be a total game changer and no one ever asks about that tidbit when someone is looking for advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 07:01 PM
9	What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience? “Just be confident!” Typically said by friends who have tons of confidence to someone who has all the confidence beaten out of them. The equivalent of telling a depressed person to “just cheer up, man! Life’s not that bad!!” Or someone with ADHD to “just focus more! When you’re doing a task, stay committed to it! It’s easy!” Women are extremely keen at sniffing out levels of confidence and subconsciously testing it in the dating world. Men do this too, typically if they are testing how trustwort…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 05:35 PM
2	What is a common piece of dating advice that is worthless in your experience? You explained this very well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 05:30 PM
1	In your opinion, what are your thoughts on NYC dating scene, is it as bad as they say? I met one girl once in NYC and she was batshit crazy. Met for sushi and she talked non stop about herself for 20minutes. Real fast too, could barely understand her. I had to pull the “oh shit I have to help my friend he’s in trouble” card. Only expirence I had.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/04/24 01:28 AM
1	Relationship expert says men shouldn't date if they're broke Relationship experts are always pandering to a specific group of people. There’s a lot about people and advertising you can learn from their free content.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/24 09:59 PM
25	Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using it Everything was built by men! … maybe Every man was built by a woman Factual. Savage.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/03/24 07:17 PM