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I think it's because I feel like a lose control. I do whatever I want with my life and don't allow others to control me in any way (within limits, of course). When someone does what she did, they are signaling that the group can still cut me down and control me, and I think that's why I get triggered. Had she made the same joke from a professional standpoint, it wouldn't have bothered me because I feel untouchable in my job. However, she made a personal joke ("the guy is unbearable, lets exclude…
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:48 AM
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You are probably right. It just bothers me, I don't know why. A few minutes later, another girl in the office texts md whether I'm ok because I'm not my "usual funny". What ma I suppose to do, follow a script? Be what they want me to be? I'm honestly tired of this crap at work. These are women I cannot tell to screw off, and all I want to take it easy and chill. Somrthing tells me I cant...
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:53 AM
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Because she added something along the lines of "... alone with Pete"
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:49 AM
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It was a cue to start busting my balls. She wasn't laughing, nor where the others, so what's the fun in that? It just seemed fake-exasperated, and that bothered me. If she wanted my attention, she fucking lost it
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:38 AM
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She meant that without Martha in the room, being alone with me would be difficult/unbearable/a pain/etc It isn't true and she knows it, so why did she say that?
/r/askTRP08/01/18 09:29 AM
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Ironically, I did told her that multiple times, and she went as far as opening my shared calendar to see what I was doing and threw to my face the fact "I wasn't really busy". I still blew her off because I wouldb't let her use me in any way, but you get the idea... I talked logically to her because I didn't know any better back then, and the other women I work with are not like this.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 09:50 PM
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Even if he owns part of the company? How can things change?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 09:47 PM
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Yeah, the way she uses others (men and women), and the way she reacts when you don’t want to help her the way she wants to, clearly shows she’s a little bitch with serious entitlement issues. It’s like she grew up convinced this shit is her right, and the same goes for complaining and gosisping behind your back, even with your own coworkers. Toxic fucking bitch. I don’t know what she’ll do, all I know is I have her in my life now, and it’s a pain in the ass to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 07:16 PM
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I don’t think documenting will do much difference, one of our bosses likes her and, to a point, protects her. She even run to him a few times to complain about other coworkers (me amongst them) because we were doing our job (it was a demanding one), and she was in a dire situation, and before taking the heat for being an voluntarily incompetent lazy bitch, she targeted others. No harm came to us, but working with her always ends up the same: we tell her to shut up and do her job, and she ends up…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 07:14 PM
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I made a social experiment on the other post, haven’t yet posted the results here though ;)
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 07:08 PM
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This one works hard to promote what little attractive features she has, and the rest is just “cute” attitude and we-get-close-so-I-get-to-ask-you-stuff attitude. “NO” makes her mad and triggers, at least, gossip and latent anger.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 07:08 PM
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True, but I'm also guessing that the huge amount of money and powe he has counts. Put yourself in his shoes... you can tell him anything, and yet, he'd still be near the top of the world and you'd probably be nothing more than a low life compared to him. I would't understimate how all that money makes you feel compared to the rest.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 08:38 PM
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Exactly, stop talking to women or they may sue you. thanks for validating me anyways.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 08:24 PM
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The funny thing is that the more they are used to getting ahead in life because of their pussy, the more they go mad when you disregard that "power"...
/r/askTRP08/07/17 08:16 PM
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Hahaha, white knights are the worst. One of my coworkers in that office would actually work during weekends for that girl, and then join her in trying to shame me. This idiot thought that I was the bad guy because she would run to him for help each time I blew her off. And the dim-wit would comply and he never realized why he was at the bottom and never respected for anything.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 08:13 PM
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No, she couldn't cut my balls, sorry. And no, she wasn't into my head, she was right outside my head, at work, making noise for nothing. And yes, it made me feel good she got angry and I wasn't even around to get the heat.
/r/askTRP08/07/17 07:54 PM
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Yes, I know, that's why I started bulking months ago. It wasn't clear from the post, my bad: this shit happens behind my back. I have "insiders" that show me/tell me this stuff. To my face, they don't say squat.
/r/askTRP15/06/17 06:08 AM
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Next time I'll try to candy coat it, thank u
/r/askTRP14/06/17 09:14 PM
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How do u use Dread Game once her friends find u unattractive or don't approve of u?
/r/askTRP14/06/17 07:41 PM
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Yeah, I guess U are right. I just wanted to tell them "no, this is ur job, I'm not doing it for u, no matter how free I am at the moment" Total ego boost, and a recipe for social disaster in an office where these kind of women act oblivious to the idea that people can say "no" to them...
/r/askTRP13/06/17 08:08 PM
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IF they ask for help. ask them to show you what the issue is (forcing them to still do the work). I know they've been screwing around and procrastinating on purpose. I don't want them to show me squat. I'm not her boss, I'm not her manager, I'm just a simple coworker who's 100 times better than her at her job, that's all. i dont understand what the issue is here?. SHE: I need help, please! ME (knowing she's been doing nothing all day on purpose): sorry, that's your job, not mine. At that point, …
/r/askTRP12/06/17 10:02 PM
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Have you read my post, lol? I don't wanna help them, they want me to do it. read it man...
/r/askTRP12/06/17 09:53 PM
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Great insights, thanks. What about being good enough that women wanna fuck u, even at a subconscious level? My bet is that many of the people playing DnD aren't the kind of people others wanna have sex with...
/r/askTRP11/06/17 03:08 PM
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Unless I'm mistaken, doesn't "game" encompasses all the interactions u have with women that would lead u to fuck them? If that's the case, wouldn't a nice body lower the level of difficulty when interacting with women?
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:59 PM
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Already on it!
/r/askTRP11/06/17 02:27 PM
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I have a coworker that acts like a manipulative little bitch, trying to use men and women to get her work done, and gossiping like an angry little ravaged pussy when you tell her "no". Guess what, I'd still fuck her brains out if she wasn't my coworker. It doesn't mean she isn't a piece of shit.
/r/askTRP28/05/17 04:06 PM
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Last week a coworker showed me a picture of the guy she's marrying: flabby, no muscle, looked like shit. She even looked kind of embarrassed, because I know for a fact she rode better dick on her youth, and that made me feel kind of good, because she loves looking at my body :)
/r/askTRP28/05/17 04:04 PM
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Eh... 41 with low smv (I'm guessing single) and you say you are jacked? Unless you have 0 game or she is really socially "impeded" to fuck you... it should be easy.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 08:21 PM
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Pussy is pussy, it doesn't mean the rest is hot.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 06:09 PM
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It depends. There's a difference between not being bothered by words and trying to ingnore attacks. If u are 19, then people are just giving u shit, probably. In either case, the easiest way is to give shit back. It will make u feel better, and it will make the ohers think twice about what they say.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:25 PM
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I'm 29, got here almost two years ago, and have changed greatly. I was alreayd driven and had confidence, but thanks to TRP I managed to solidify those values, I found out tons of info about women behaviors, about the concept of "value", and cannot stress this enough, I started fucking lifting.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:22 PM
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Yeah, throw in "entitled" also and you have a nice picture.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:08 PM
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So, you are letting guys that are boring, you dont wanna fuck and give you nothing, stay around? U get vslidation from them, even if it's subconscious.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:06 PM
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So... this is like batman and the whole russian vallet, right?
/r/askTRP27/05/17 04:01 PM
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No. Always treat her as inferior. Ever wondered why they sometimes do shit just so that u can mock/tease them? Exactly...
/r/askTRP27/05/17 03:59 PM
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Strong frame + inner game + no looks = unneccesarily hard. If u are aware of the RP, then drop the rationalization crap and start lifting.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 03:54 PM
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Legwork for another guy = the other guy is a pussy. There's a reason why tne pussyest women sre those who try to get others to do their bidding. Wanna make ur brother grow? Push him in the right direction and then let him be. It's up to him
/r/askTRP27/05/17 03:50 PM
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He probably didnt mean cumming every 5 minutes lol...
/r/askTRP27/05/17 03:37 PM
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Interesting. I'm around my 30s, and every time I'm tslkomgmto a girl my brain realizes I might get laid, I go hard. And I'm not desperate, either. So, just saying...
/r/askTRP27/05/17 03:34 PM
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Sexual being = someone others wanna fuck and knows how to fuck. No way around it. As for strategy goes, too hard to tell, there are too many variables. However, outside of clubs/bars/whatever, it's all about subtextual context. For example: u meantioned u are good in the kitchen. Imagine urself going to a cooking class hoping to meet women and actively trying to hook up with them, and u will likely fail miserably. However, imagine urself in the same classm doing your thing, doing it remarkably w…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:53 PM
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Lose weight, get fit, lift hard. Girls, unless u are really ugly, will start feeling attracted to u subconsciouly. Guys will start messing with you less.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:44 PM
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i agree with this: there's a difference between deminishing attraction and seeing someone for who they really are. A chick I worked with had great chemistry with me. When I stopped helping her doing her job for her, she turned into a bitch. And for what other people told me, she's always been a bitch. But, chemistry's still there.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:38 PM
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When I was a virgin, I was so horny that girls had no idea I had never had sex before. I was confident, enjoying the moment, and pushing forward. Had any of them ever asked me whether I was a virgin, I would have just replied "totally" and then went for her body.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:32 PM
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Something tells me that u are scared of how the others may react. Self-esteem issues and/or low SMV are probably the cause. Imagine this: if you were jacked, brad pitt face, and rich, would u be scared to approach a girl with other people around? There you go ;)
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:28 PM
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What skin disease?
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:25 PM
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Yes, I am.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:59 PM
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Ego is what get's u to stump on everyone else. U just have to control how u act. Sorry, but that's the way it works, and it takes time to master.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:48 PM
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U tell her how it is. She acts pissy? Stop acting pissy. She doesnt wanna jump u? U can find better. She expects u to help her in exchange for sex? U are not getting used. Pick whichever is ur line of thiught and stick to it. No need to give shit tests. The only exception is at work, I'd be cautious there.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:44 PM
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Yeah, human contact loses it's attractiveness when u jer off too much man. Seriously, u know how it is when u haven't been with a woman for a while and suddenly the chubby hb4 suddenly looks like a sexy hb8? Stop jerking off...
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:41 PM
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The focus on ur studies. Learn more. Push ur lomits there. Once uni is over, u can change jobs. Or u can drop out and open a start up, but that's tricky.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:37 PM
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U do realize this is not a scale, right?
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:36 PM
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Ego is not the problem... the problem is when u get emotional because of it. Learn to deal with your emotions, don't blame ur ego lol... Do u think that people like Elon Musk or Trump got to where they are right now without an ego? LOL...
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:31 PM
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Why do u wanna kill ur ego?
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:29 PM
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Couldn't it be that u are giving off contrasting vibes? I mean, if they wanna drop her their pants and give you some, and then change their minds becuase you changes your attitude, then u are the problem. In particular... are u faking ur initial self?
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:27 PM
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Not exactly. if the person is a weirdo (low SMV), then getting rejected is not exactly an SMV boost. However, if you get rejected by some and accepted by others, things change. Bottom line, grow some balls and approach women. And also improve, work on yourself.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:21 PM
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I found that the best way to supress that feeling is to make those hobbies part of your daily life, if possible, your job. By that I mean instead of having a job and a hobby, try to make it so that your hobby becomes your job. Trust me, your life will improve dramatically as you will be living a constant thrill drive.
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:18 PM
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I guess the "kid" is bigger than u, right? Otherwise, you wouldn't be posting here, you would have got close and ask him to shut the f* up. No need to get violent, but a bigger dude would be enough to intimidate a "kid"
/r/askTRP27/05/17 12:11 PM
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We focus on web tech so there are tons of graphic designers, and they are mostly women, and mostly hot ;) Ironically, the few girls working with us that are 100% programmera, are actually not so hot :p. PM me if u wanna hear something funny about one of these hb5...
/r/askTRP23/05/17 10:33 PM
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12.5kg each dumbbell.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 10:28 PM
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Naturally thin means the opposite of what you said. In what way? I've been eating a lot daily for the last ten years, and I've always been between 48 and 52kg. Always since my late teens. I've put on weight only now that I've been eating a lot more.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 06:38 PM
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... just saying xD
/r/askTRP23/05/17 06:33 PM
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But one thing is certain, now you're starting to understand why TRP advice numero one is lift! It took me a while though :)
/r/askTRP23/05/17 06:08 PM
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I already had many of the other qualities going for me. The problem is, they were kind of a joke because my physical aspect was holding me back. For example, me flirting or joking with a girl an throwing a sexual innuendo has one effect if I'm short and thing, and a different effect if I'm muscular and good looking. This is why you can see a bunch of skinny hipsters still getting laid. There are women for everyone, the problem is people tend to have really high standards.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 06:07 PM
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In big companies. In the really-small ones, there's more elasticity.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 06:04 PM
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Isn't more muscles = jacked? It doesn't matter, I said I got more attention because I got bigger by lifting, I never said I looked like a bodybuilder.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:57 PM
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Don't look if you don't like it man, it's a free world.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:55 PM
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Don't look if you don't like it man, it's a free world.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:52 PM
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I'm 29. And a woman showing me her ass or wearing a cleavage so I can see it, makes me feel good. Don't look if you don't like it man, it's a free world.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:51 PM
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Exactly. I went from 116lbs to 130lbs in these six months while gaining little fat. I went from short-skinny-fat, to short-bulky.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:49 PM
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Exactly. I have some fat too, but I always stand straight and it doesn't show, basically. And it definitely pays off to have bigger arms under a t-shirt than 5% BF under a t-shirt. Let's be honest guys, they wanna be pumped by guys who are strong/powerful/bigger than them, and big body = strong. Whatever they say, they will still dig you big time if your body looks big. Of course, some body fat is not the same as being FAT. If you have a bowling ball in front of your abs, you may have gone too f…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:47 PM
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Yeah, sorry, my bad. I meant to say that the first dude looks like he has a better body than what he probably has. Agree with u, the second one (Ben Affleck in batman mode, by the way) is way better.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:42 PM
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Not really. I tried to keep it hidden so that when I take my shirt off in a couple of weeks, they'll see it. However, it didn't work. A week ago I was talking about food with a couple of women in the office, and they started commenting on how I was noticeably bulkier and had broader shoulders. So they noticed.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:40 PM
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The forearm thing is so true, they find it extremely sexy. I'm actually about to start hammer curls to work the forearms.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:39 PM
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What are your other stats? Facial attractiveness, height and so on? Height: 1.67m. Facial attractiveness: average good, white, blue eyes, brown hair. To people who don't believe about getting jacked in 6 months...I think they are right. Sure, I'm not schwarzenegger. However, I've been doing push-ups for two years, and some dumbbells for almost a year. Six months ago I got serious because I wasn't seeing anything more than very basic results, and after buying some equipment and upping my caloric …
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:24 PM
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I think it's important to lift and everything but I don't think getting muscle automatically makes you some eye sex machine. I agree. I was already confident and kind of a smart ass. I had the personality to be on the spotlight, but I lacked the body. I honestly think that what changed wasn't necessarily the fact that I got bulkier, but the fact that I got bulkier and completed the package, so to speak.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:16 PM
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a) Did you make some kind of "extreme makeover" kind of change? Were you scrawny or fat? I was the definition of skinny fat. I'm short (I'm 1.67m tall), I had a thin build, and I walked/moved around a lot. No "extreme makeover", just eating more and lifting regularly. It's very likely that you are giving off a stronger "vibe' now that you've honored your commitment to yourself through consistent lifting and personal development. I don't know, maybe they smell that in some pheremone kind of way? …
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:10 PM
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Yeah, girls showing you their asses or biting at each other is so hard on a guy xD
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:01 PM
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Just remember not to shit where you eat. Don't date these co-workers. I was thinking of hitting on the one who's about to get married :p Just kidding, although it would have been so cool if we didn't work together. By the way, the girl has a picture of her boyfriend as her desktop background, and man that guy is fluffy, skinny-fat. The other day, the picture came up, and she was somehow trying to justify his shitty body by saying "he was thin back then!", in the mist of a gigantic awkward silenc…
/r/askTRP23/05/17 05:00 PM
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Awww look at that, sweet little beta doesn't want any confrontation. How cute! Awwww, look at that, sweet little teenager has no idea how the world works xD Go talk to your boss and tell him a female coworker is using other when nobody else is complaining. Go explain to him that he has to punish her. You go boy!
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:53 PM
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No, I got that, maybe I didn't explain myself. I don't have a problem with her ignoring me, what I don't like are all her behaviors aimed at protecting her in the group just because she sucks at her job and doesnt wanna learn sny new shit.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:46 PM
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If she's bothering me, yes, but if she's using others, that's a different story. Eg, today she asked the new girl in the office to help her out with something she refuses to learn, and during lunch break, the new girl was working in the bitch's computer while she went out for lunch... I can't just go to my boss out of the blue to make trouble. I tried to tell the new girl to take things easy, but ai couldn't order her to NoT help the bitch... Same goes for my boss: talkimg to him = making noise …
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:35 PM
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So the only way to control her is by making her do what she hates the most and can't avoid: her job.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:28 PM
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So, if we guys start cutting her off and tresting her the same way, would she calm the fuck down? Yesterday she came into the office, wasted an entire hour looking up stuff for her wedding, and then said to the guy next to her: "pete, can you give me hand with this? I'm not capable of..." So, when she asks me something at work, all I do is shit her off or make her look the stuff up herself. But it's annoying, and she's not changing...
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:24 PM
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No, but I do pay attention to my environment at work. Last time I wasn't careful, I wasted my time helping her when I thought she needed help while in reality she didn't wanna work. So yeah, I pay attention.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:21 PM
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I know, but she should have figured it out how to dose it down... She showed me a picture of her old job, in which she had a guy all over her (and she also had a boyfriend at the time). she also had two or three guys who she labeled "friend" and were cosntsntly helping her work. She was basicslly used to use men to do her job by playing the "defensless" card. When she came to us, things were not the same. The first time my boss busted her balls for doing a piss poor job, she vented off like a wh…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:19 PM
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The other women I work with don't act like this, which is why it threw me off. I thought they were used to keep their bitchy attitudes outside the office, but now I realize I was just lucky.
/r/askTRP17/05/17 09:07 PM
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