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| 1 | Does it get better or worse after asking for a separation from an emotionally abusive wifeBe ready to fight for your kids, and skip the collaborative approach. Document, document, document (you’ll need facts at court) and don’t try to agree on anything unless your ex does first. Take everything you care about and make sure you move it straight ahead. Physical properties is honestly a very abstract concept in court and she’ll get away with throwing all your shit and/or deleting your files/wiping our hard drives (speaking of personal experience). I left my ex wife 5 and a half years ag… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/01/24 08:07 PM |
| 6 | What did you wish you asked or knew?I wish I’d knew the following (in not particular order, just a flow of thoughts/experience). First of all, just know there is no « justice » in a Divorce. I had this dumb belief that it would be fair, it was not. If can’t settle and go to court, it’s nasty. If you have kids, don’t put them in the middle. It’ll be tough, and kids go through their own stuff, but if keep the right behavior you’ll be rewarded long term. I wish I’d knew more about the « science » around kids heading into my divorce, … | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/09/21 07:59 PM |
| 1 | My wife wants a divorce but she wants to move 58 miles where we are filing.I was in a similar situation, and the first advice I’d give you is to file for divorce straight away. Filing is going to protect you from having your wife leaves with your kids, as a court order would be in place. Once you file, she can’t leave. What is the risk if you don’t? As you’re married and if your wife goes register the kid in a school in another district, and he attends, this will become the base for any further action. You’ll have to enter a legal process and will have to justify why y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/21 03:23 AM |
| 4 | Anyone ever able to prove emotional abuse?Completely agree. It all depends on the magistrate, and honestly « justice » is left at the front door. It’s more luck than anything else. I’d recommend more witness/testimony during trial. But fighting for our kids pays off long term… | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/09/21 03:16 AM |
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