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I agree with what you said but it’s funny calling it Machiavellianism and then adding the Lao Tzu quote since in The Prince, Machiavelli literally said that it’s better to be feared than loved since people betray but they don’t dare crossing boundaries with someone they are afraid of
/r/TheRedPill25/06/24 08:29 AM
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For game I heard this from Todd V “always assume things that if true, would lead you and the girl to have sex” In life, understanding that you will die and nobody give a fuck about helping you, so it’s your responsibility to make your life worth living
/r/seduction10/06/24 09:18 AM
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SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS GET TF AWAY
/r/seduction07/06/24 07:48 PM
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As I said, phase 2 is emulating and I mean emulating attractive guys behavior, there are plenty resources online to learn it. Also confidence is not a zero sum game where you either are confident or you are not, it’s more of a spectrum so you can make progressive improvements in your confidence. What can’t be faked is not you being confident tho (a lot of pua material is about learning how to act as a confident guy and it works to a degree), it’s you getting the subtle cues the girls send you (a…
/r/seduction07/06/24 06:15 PM
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I have changed myself. The point is that I didn’t change the way I act, I changed my self image, identity and perception of who I am at the core. When it comes to seduction you must BE “that guy” that “gets it” and that girls naturally want to get with, you can’t fake it even if you tried. Your goal must be to change who you are for yourself, you want to get to the point where you look yourself in the mirror and see a winner. The steps to get there: 1) Define who you want to be. You need a direc…
/r/seduction07/06/24 11:51 AM
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There is one context where she is right, but overall the advice is terrible fr. Most girls flake if you "force" a number, aka she wasn't really attracted but she still gave it to you because she didn't want to feel bad about it. The only case when you should go for a number/IG is when you can tell she was DTF but you couldn't lay the same night because of bad logistics.
/r/seduction26/05/24 11:01 AM
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I feel you, I also feel way more confident cold approaching when we have friends in the environment because if things go to shit usually I will laugh it off with them while when I’m by myself I’m left to deal with it and it’s easier to get stuck in my head. A solution I found is to just befriend guys at the start of the night and basically recruiting wingmen for that event lol
/r/seduction13/05/24 12:34 PM
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If you being “a good guy “ means that you buy drinks to chicks hoping they would fuck you, start by stopping that. Also, how many girls do you approach per night?
/r/seduction02/05/24 12:44 PM
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I’m not saying his way to answer was the best, but that in this space a bit of blunt/teasing advice is still good if taken at face value. I didn’t say that the op was offended by it but that IF he was offended he would have to work on his sensibility to thrive in game
/r/seduction02/05/24 12:42 PM
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Sell crack cocaine, customers always come back
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:35 AM
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Also grow a beard and be in shape, it’s a must for baldies
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:03 AM
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22m here, I used to shave my head from 20 to 21 and I used to wear a cap too due to my “hip hop” type of style (I also always wore them since I was 12) I’d say if you own it it doesn’t matter cap/ no cap because you accept yourself as you are and you have a strong frame so even if a girl says anything or rejects you because of that it doesn’t bother you. If you are insecure about it though don’t wear a cap until you are ok with it💪
/r/seduction02/05/24 10:02 AM
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I lost my virginity after hotseat at home, it has probably more than 10 hours of infields and that’s what made me click . It’s more about abstract concepts than do this, do that type of program but it works with my personality. If you are more on the intuitive spectrum it might change your life and your whole perspective on game, if you are more on the sensitive it might sound like a lot of fumbling and bs ngl
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:56 AM
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Maybe it would but he has a point, Game can be FUCKING BRUTAL. If you get offended by a joke on you being the weirdo that judges weirdos here w the fuck are you going to deal with girls that ditch you to kiss an uglier guy 5 minutes later, or worse a better looking one. How you gonna deal with huge flackyness, girls straight up insulting you if you either look too beta or too alpha and other shit like that. Guys coming in your set to steal your girl and using all types of disqualifiers on you, i…
/r/seduction02/05/24 09:30 AM
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I mean, pre social media was even more degenerate since people used to hang out more😂 Pua started in late 90s/early 2000 and the female sexual revolution is to track back to the 70s with hippie movements with orgies and shit. What changed is that people care more about appearance nowadays and egos are inflated
/r/seduction02/05/24 08:51 AM
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I first gamed at 14 after reading the Game and some material on pua blogs and i was crushing it for that age, kissed my first girl (even hot!) and a few more and I used to be the leader of my group and to get a lot of attention in school and in social situations. Then from 16 yo something happened and I got depressed and back to my incel loser middle school days. From 21 yo I got back to studying material and applying it, going out every weekend and I’m now fucking often and crushing it again so…
/r/seduction30/04/24 10:12 PM
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Once you become “red pilled” there is no real going back. The better you get, the more horrible behavior you see from women, the less you idealize them and getting into a “real relationship “ becomes harder because you see what’s going on below the surface. This being said, don’t get jaded and instead look at the reality and understand what you want that you can realistically get from a relationship, than work your way up from there. It’s called Game because that’s what it really is. I heard onc…
/r/seduction30/04/24 10:00 PM
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Unless she fat
/r/seduction30/04/24 09:42 PM
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Yes. If you “love” a girl you dated 3 years ago you have what’s called oneITIS in PUA terms, which means an irrational obsession and idealization of a specific girl. It’s caused by scarcity of options, if you date multiple women you get back to an abundance mindset and you can see your oneITIS for what she is and you are able to walk away finally because you have other options of girls who want you
/r/seduction30/04/24 08:39 AM
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When you talk about human behavior statistics and logic play a little role unfortunately. This consistent inconsistency happens to me also, I believe it might be a self image related problem, maybe you have been on a dry spell for 2 months but the moment you get a girl and you get some positive feedback you go back to your playboy mode and keep having results until you get some negative feedback in a row and you go back to your virgin mode and the circle starts again
/r/seduction30/04/24 08:32 AM
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Fuck a dozen new girls and see if you still love her dude
/r/seduction29/04/24 08:10 PM
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Don’t double text , super needy and creepy. If she answers say something funny, don’t let the conversation dry. Also, movies and restaurants are boyfriend plays for dates, if you are just meeting each other go to places where you can have fun and talk together. Leave cinema and restaurants for after you fucked the girl first and you are committed otherwise you are classifying yourself as a provider instead of a lover.
/r/seduction28/04/24 02:51 PM
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I agree, Also on a date try to do something you enjoy and that you will be likely to do even if she wasn’t with you. It’s like playing home as a sport team, you know the field and you will be happier and more confident, even if the date doesn’t end with sex you at least had fun, and having fun is the key to getting laid.
/r/seduction28/04/24 09:36 AM
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Congrats G, your first step towards abundance was taken. In case you went direct (you explicitly told her you like her or you asked her out straight up) she probably “rejected” you because she was with her friends and also because she has no clue on who you are, you might be a weirdo or a serial killer for what she knows. Next time in a similar situation try to engage with the whole group by telling a story or a joke and try to vibe with them, so you can afterwards focus your attention on the gi…
/r/seduction28/04/24 09:32 AM
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Congratulation Man! Always good to see people who push themselves in uncomfortable territory. I have some feedback for you: Regarding the bad night you were spot on on not being in the right head space because it can indeed fuck he game up, although remember that you always have a choice and your actions matter, it happens often to me that I could turn a bad night over by taking small consistent actions, like just asking where is the toilet to a stranger, then asking a cigarette to a girl, then …
/r/seduction28/04/24 09:27 AM
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Try to reconnect after about a week after the first message if you care to see the girl again, this time by sharing value (a meme, a photo, an interesting topic, whatever engages her really). If they flake a second time call it quits in that one. Also consider that some of them might not even remember that they gave you their number so doing a callback on your interaction helps a lot if the number was from cold approach. Obviously if 2 weeks or more passed from your first message and interaction…
/r/seduction28/04/24 09:17 AM
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Ngl a lot of overthinking approaches😂 When you start especially you will find every single escluse to NOT do the approach but you have to understand that your thoughts are not the reality, they are just your perception of it. If you never did cold approach my advice to start is to just hang out with some friends to a bar, have a couple drinks to alleviate the tension (right now I don’t drink anymore and I approach sober, but I wouldn’t recommend it unless you already don’t drink alcohol). Joke w…
/r/seduction28/04/24 07:31 AM
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Good point, I guess routines work if you are actually enjoy “performing” them though. I cannot see it working if the frame you are coming from is one of needing to get a specific reaction, it would come off as weird/creepy then. I simply go off the top when I game because I prefer to develop my natural style instead of relying on canned stuff, but for beginners having routines as training wheels might be helpful
/r/seduction28/04/24 07:21 AM
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I feel you man, those make me feel a void in my stomach when I think about them. When those happen though is time for self reflection to understand what you did wrong so the next time things will go differently or maybe to come to the realization that you might have misinterpreted the signals from the beginning and you should have moved on earlier :)
/r/seduction28/04/24 07:15 AM
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I agree with you that you are supposed to learn by those failed interactions but 5/10 approached girls in your life is not a good sample to see a pattern in your and their behavior
/r/seduction28/04/24 07:12 AM
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I’m average G, both in looks money and status, I just approach girls every weekend because I want to improve in this area so I foumbled over 300 girls at least in the past year ahahah But I also had plenty of good reactions and slept with 10 girls (started as a virgin)
/r/seduction28/04/24 07:10 AM
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I would suggest you to try to understand where the girl is coming from, if she is making fun of the accent to tease you she is flirting so you don’t need to feel butthurt at all, if they are actually making fun of you walk away. After you built a bit of rapport if the girl brings the joke back you can tell her you feel insecure about your accent and you ask her to stop in a lighthearted way, it’s not the tipical Alpha advice but if you are very self conscious about I it’s the best approach
/r/seduction27/04/24 07:47 PM
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You need some resilience my G. Confidence + Positivity = Resilience. Confidence: You don’t even have to back it up, irrational self confidence makes you feel better about yourself and you get perceived as having more status (if you CAN back it up, better) Positivity: This is the attitude you live with, a sort of Thomas Edison attitude: “ I didn’t get rejected 100 times, I found 100 ways to NOT pick up a woman!” Positivity really makes or brakes your progress, if you reframe rejections properly y…
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:27 PM
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Why are you gae?
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:18 PM
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Those are rookie numbers😂
/r/seduction26/04/24 06:16 PM
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Flight attendant here (m22) Becoming a pilot is a decent choice (not as good as the one you listed, but still legit) 6 figures income, is one of the jobs that gives you the highest status and you get to fuck hostesses no stop which is a nice added bonus
/r/TheRedPill25/04/24 02:33 AM
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If you OP do game yourself show him so he has “proof not promises” as RSD would put it that it’s ok to approach. We all know that the only way to overcome approach anxiety is to do the fucking approaches, no video, no book, no post will ever move your ass for you. If he doesn’t want to do cold approaches and you are trying to get him into it don’t . You don’t choose this shit, this shit chooses you so if he didn’t ask you himself tips on how to approach, he’s not ready.
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:55 PM
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I read you are tall as fuck so you can go for the Viking style, some girls are definitely into that. Also a beard helps if you don’t have a perfectly symmetrical face (as in my case, I keep a stubble and it seems to work). This being said, as long as you are in decent shape and well groomed, maximizing your looks will make an almost insignificant impact on how many girls you actually sleep with. The biggest leverage you can have is to believe you are the best fucking man she will ever meet on th…
/r/seduction24/04/24 02:47 PM
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Yes bro, don’t overthink it and just assume she likes you when you are with her
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:19 AM
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Also don’t wait to go out, FIELD EXPERIENCE IS KING. I studied “game” for over five years and I got laid ZERO TIMES (in high school), I only started getting results (over 10 girls) in the past year when I went out and approached every weekend night
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:14 AM
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This is a bit out there but read Psycho-cybernetics by Maxwell martz. Is the best book on self image and identity I was able to find and I was amazed by how many concepts relate to pick up and dating. Chapter 11 is all about releasing your true personality, which is FUNDAMENTAL to good natural game. Also the premise of the book is great: The author is a plastic surgeon who noticed that after his surgeries some patients found a new sense in f confidence and self worth, while other kept feeling ug…
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:11 AM
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I think he’s talking about the cringe PUA routines like the cube and shit. I have some routines too but they are lines I came out naturally that I like and occasionally I repeat when the context fits
/r/seduction24/04/24 08:03 AM
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I don’t know if this is the best way but whenever the conversation dies I just walk away ahahah. If I like the girl I was talking to I might reapproach her later and they usually never mind and I get into conversation again easily
/r/seduction24/04/24 07:58 AM
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Hello always works. If you want something more advance assume that you already know each other and make a comment about anything that can spark a conversation as you would do with a girl that you know. I’m not saying that you pretend you know her, is more like asking yourself (if I knew this girl already what would I say to her?)
/r/seduction24/04/24 07:54 AM
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If your game is tight and the girl is drunk, she will not care others are on the boat. Especially if they are strangers so she will not get judged by her friends. You can also demonstrate high value if you socialize and the other people on the boat seem to like you
/r/seduction24/04/24 07:41 AM
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Because we could go to pick up girls together to do threesomes ngl😂
/r/seduction21/03/24 11:39 AM
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Good luck fr
/r/seduction19/03/24 07:11 PM
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You won
/r/seduction19/03/24 07:07 PM
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If we are talking about the future mother of my children then she has to be smart (care about her knowledge, she reads…) Into my frame and possibly a good family (parents still together, upper class) If we are talking about short term relationships then hot, fun (even a bit crazy) and bisexual would be the cherry on top
/r/seduction19/03/24 07:06 PM
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Sure, hit me up!
/r/seduction12/03/24 08:07 PM
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Once I literally asked if she knew when the bus will arrive. Another time I asked for a lighter. Another time I asked if the green bus was going to my destination. Guys stop overthinking openers, I once asked a woman why she had an umbrella. I laid a girl by asking “why are you here?” They don’t fucking matter, no girl will fuck you because of your perfect opener dude😂 About the flirting part at this point it comes kinda natural for me but what I do usually is simply being cocky and funny. I sta…
/r/seduction12/03/24 06:31 AM
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Realize your limiting belief are social conditioning. Think about how much noise is around about guys being creeps, lawsuits, false rape accusations etc. Fair enough this things happen, but is something like 1 case in a million. I approached at this point probably over a thousand girls and I NEVER had any problems. Once i got a girl saying to me Fuck off I’m not interested. ONCE. I felt bad for about 10 minutes than approached another girl who smiled and was happy to talk to me and I forgot abou…
/r/seduction11/03/24 11:12 PM
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The game is a super interesting reading but it’s fucking useless let’s be honest. It has almost no actionable advice, the biggest thing you can get from the book is being FUCKING HYPED about becoming this new version of yourself that is good with girls.
/r/seduction11/03/24 07:44 PM
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Fuck commitments if you are in your teens/20s If you are on self improvement and you are trying to make the best out of yourself the last thing you want is the emotional baggage that come with a relationship. Usually the first months are amazing and then the slow poison dripping starts. Focusing on your game will actually build many skills you will use in your professional life anyway, the only thing you are missing is depth in your relationship but you should be able to find comfort, respect an…
/r/seduction11/03/24 07:33 PM
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Hit me up
/r/seduction11/03/24 06:44 PM
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The solution for your problem is building momentum. It's a lot like going to the gym, at first you don't want to go so you try to find any valid excuse why not to go but if you push through and avoid to listen your brain once you get to the gym you'll enjoy the work out. I am your age and i dated 10 girls by cold approaching in the past year, but i almost never did it during daytime. I did some approaches during the day and i got a few numbers/IG but I always did them while i was minding my busi…
/r/seduction11/03/24 04:52 PM
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From my experience they only go bonkers if they do like you in the first place, in which case you can just play it normally, or you can try to turn the buyer seller dynamic to your advantage by dropping that you are "already seeing someone else" that works both by 1) showing social proof 2) activate her competition anxiety. I recently friendzoned a girl who explicitly told me she liked me because i wasn't attracted anyway and she is still obsessed with me indeed, but if you are friendzoning girl…
/r/seduction20/02/24 07:17 AM
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Are you always trying to "know your friends better"? I guess with your male friends you tend to joke and bullshit most of the time. Are you giving them a version they want or are you being real with them? Worst thing you can do with a girl you don't know yet is to bore her because she thinks "if he is not even trying to be interesting now that we don't know each other, how BORING will he be if we eventually go on a date?". They obviously don't want to lose their time with a lame dude bro.
/r/seduction20/02/24 06:59 AM
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