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Domme is the female term for a dominant. My bloke would look at me in confusion if I asked him what bdsm term he was though as I find most people don't use bdsm labels and someone I am married to would not need asking.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/22 11:47 PM
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It depends on the country. Land can be privately owned or a national park, especially if its somewhere smaller than the states.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 08:36 PM
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Some places in Europe have a 10km limit to prevent people travelling or vacationing and spreading to safe rural areas (with an older populace).
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 08:33 PM
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Freud mostly wrote about women, his clientele were upper class women. His daughter did suggest to students they study male trauma, but Freud's basis was women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 09:55 AM
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Most people marry with a forever mindset. But divorces unfortunately can happen and married couples are blindsided daily. That's like saying life insurance is a bad idea.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 08:46 AM
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So porn addiction only exists in radfem terminology?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/20 12:04 AM
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So are you suggesting that people watch porn as an addiction but don't masturbate?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/20 11:15 PM
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You're not an addiction therapist, OP didn't ask for input regarding that.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/20 05:49 AM
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When I went to Dublin the hotel manager got my number from the check-in and phoned me to ask me to go walk in a nearby wasteground with him. He even called it that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 01:34 PM
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Any timing that can save you from further injury is good timing. I've been where you are, he'll say the right things and do the right things but the cycle between attacks will shrink.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/20 01:46 AM
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Yep, because god forbid a rpw respect herself and her boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/20 06:59 PM
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No, the mods left due to views on marriage of TRP iirc. This sub has changed a lot over the years.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 01:15 AM
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It was an ex mod. Before the mods all changed over.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/20 12:11 AM
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Plate School as a term was a derogatory joke when the old mods left that the RP men were turning this subreddit into a plateschool by insisting on putting out quickly and being anti marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/20 09:23 AM
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That was a brilliant show, the struggles the lad went through. But all for naught if only one person gets a job let alone in this UK jobmarket.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 10:41 PM
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So that online activism was instrumental. I've never heard of those names so consider me schooled.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 10:24 PM
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Do you find the online communities helpful? I think self diagnosed people can be a hindrance but I've never seen it from the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 10:16 PM
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My best friend teaches kids on the spectrum (ofsted recently said outstanding) and her view is it's far more prevalent than people think however online echo chambers don't help the kids. Numan is another interesting one, so outwardly filled with stage presence yet open about his obsessive nature. Edit: My aspergers ex is beyond fan level with Numan and always bought up Numan's 'differences'
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 09:55 PM
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Interesting you mention Jim Morrison, he was convinced he was physically ugly and oddly terrified of performing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 09:38 PM
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If he can turn women off then there are bigger issues going on there. I fully admit I skew towards more overt masculine features in my preferences but I've seen the most outwardly handsome men in a pub have women avoid them because of lack of 'game' aka desperation. Also in my single years, the typical American man did not look like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 04:39 AM
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I am still baffled at images of men shown on here. There is no concept of what women generally find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 04:31 AM
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To be fair you ascribe morals to false ideals of a society (iirc?) so you've led Hugmuffin down the garden path here as they are not something you find exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/17 04:22 AM
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So you have been laid but are angry you don't get HB8s. That's not incel, that's anger you don't get to fuck models. I'll never get to nail Russell Crowe at his prime, standard reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 05:28 AM
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Look I can give you advice till the cows come home, I've been an immensely successful wingwoman to actually diagnosed asperger friends whose idea of a fun night was painting World War 1 models. However first step of not being a loser is to stop calling yourself one and if you are adamant you'll take anything that comes your way then no real actionable advice will ever work. At which point you're not an incel, you are volcel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:31 AM
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Ok first of all let's drop this low value thing, that's unattractive to have a man self label. That is already convincing women why she should be 'mistaken' by being interested in you. Imagine if your girlfreind kept pointing out stretchmarks and you wanted her to shut up and just be naked. Like the muscles you work hard for, socialisation and confidence muscles take practice and time, then it becomes second nature to work out right? For right or wrong we are social beasts and women will approac…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:22 AM
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Have you considered if you want to share interests and hobbies with her? It seems a silly question I know but women are pretty adept at knowing if a man just wants anyone and it puts them off. If you can nail down specific interests you want to share it gives (for want of a better term) a plan of attack and places to meet them and become more at ease in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:06 AM
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I won't suggest the bandied around terms of 'just be yourself' as frankly I think that's simplistic and patronising. You are going by your instagram attractive in features but a key component of getting laid is to force yourself into scenarios you might not enjoy, clubs, pubs, gigs etc. Your niche sport will no doubt have you socialise with women that share the passions but that is a small subset. Learning to get used to and comfortable in generic club or gig environments is incredible to get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 05:00 AM
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The problem is what you consider an interesting life isn't interesting to a potential date. It's akin to handing a woman a resume for reasons she should date you because you find that interesting from a man's point of view. From my experience when a woman calls a man 'interesting' she's already made up her mind and it's speak for "does he look like he can make me have fun with him?"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 04:25 AM
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I'm 100% sure I read this on MRP recently so I think it's an experiment to see if relationships leap to her defence.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/17 05:24 PM
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Lol to be fair I've not noticed Asian or Indian men as being short but I'm very standard in views on what arouses me which is mostly attitude and balls. I find many trp chaps think it's specific eye shape or male underwear model muscles. Personally I prefer incredibly masculine facial features but that included an overweight biker who was the opposite of the model type in body and height.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:54 AM
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The question is to you is "is his insecurity irrational and baseless?" Or has he had experiences with with his height that you may not have experienced. That's really made me pause. It's so easy to shut down someone and call them silly for insecurities without even having an iota of their experiences. I always despised men telling me to shut up about my own but never really stopped to consider their world interactions. You have made me remember a very recent conversation with my best friend and …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 12:44 AM
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I have always tended to see womens attraction features as changeable, well if we have the money, so never really thought of height and what a barrier it can be for some men. Incel/mtgow threads bring up the height thing a lot and I think as I fundamentally disagree with a lot of their posts I kind of brushed that one aside. Perhaps because I assumed women are the judged ones regarding looks I thought seemed silly to have height as a reason to not fancy someone as been witness to tall women frien…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/17 12:30 AM
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Speaking as a woman and the discussions of men we fancied (believe it or not we don't discuss men weekly over pedicures and tea) I've only heard that once, that lady had a specific type. I have heard far more men say they like petite women and focus on that dainty size. I did date a chap for a while who kept bringing up his height but his painful insecurity about it was his unattractive aspect. It could even be a cultural thing as I am not American. I will disagree with you saying tallness is as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:40 PM
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I can only give you the consensus according to my friends (men and women) and myself, a stranger in that sex regard would be a person who is just there or is hanging around but not a friend of anyone. Random John or Jane in a pub/club as opposed to someone we actually know. Also apparently I've never typed consensus before. I truly don't think average sex life exists, PPD has certainly taught me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:20 PM
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Now you mention it I've seen on reddit the height issue on dating sites, I think as never took that route I've been blissfully ignorant of the problems men face in that regard. I guess like the 'tall, dark and handsome' trope that is bandied about. Have you found men in public situations like a pub are demeaning about height to other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 11:15 PM
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In 33 years I have heard one woman say a man was too short to be with and that's in the last year. I honestly have not seen the dislike for height thing in pubs or clubs. Though I socialise with old punks and any man who has the balls to wear a pvc kilt and cockatiel hair can't be seen as 'less of a man', I would like to know if this height judging is really prevalent?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:46 PM
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If he wanted to know something he is more than welcome to ask and I'd answer. He's never really cared to ask anything as assumes if I wanted to talk then I would. I've always operated as an open book I guess. Edit: Thinking of an example, I for some reason thought he'd want to know about something traumatic because been grilled by some friends, nope he expected me to talk if I wanted which I found very refreshing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:31 PM
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Pretty much everyone in my social group has sex with known people, not random strangers. I've had a lot of sex but only one 'one night stand' with a stranger, and that was when I was 15 iirc. My social group is more alternative (bunch of old punks, skins and goths) but even then the fwb thing is never directly discussed amongst us though we all know who is fucking who, it's pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/17 10:26 PM
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I agree with that, I was really expecting more than sandwiches or scrambled eggs. My theory is that the 'feminine arts' don't come naturally to some RPW or they have not been raised in a household where domestic skills are taught so being RPW in itself becomes a hobby to follow and expand upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/17 08:02 PM
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Pof (in the UK) was very scummy and masquerading as an okcupid but men used it for hookups. A couple of my friends married off there but it definitely had the stigma, at least Tinder is honest about sex I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/17 04:35 AM
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The thing is those two friends were and are very handsome but that absolute shyness led to them seeing women as aliens. I suggested Christian single nights and don't go to meet your wife, go to learn mingling and small talk but their mothers were around which isn't conducive to small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 05:48 AM
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Why is he unattractive? His features are potato like for me, he can't seem to string a sentence together. I also think his chaste image is bullshit and I prefer men to be honest. Also the values don't align at all, say a ONS I couldn't respect him for breaking values that I don't agree with? I think he was used as the posterboy for very devout young women because there is a problem in Christian groups with women saving themselves and raising family but ending up 36 and single. The quiverfull mov…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 05:44 AM
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Tim Tebow seems to have been a posterboy to show young women saving themselves "look, a man who is devout can be athletic and attractive, he gets to choose to turn down women!" but he's pretty unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 05:31 AM
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I couldn't date any man who was doing that as I don't find submission to church attractive. Men who are virgins but not religious never bothered me. I have two friends who were saving themselves, both admitted they were also very very shy of women as had only socialised with them in a church setting and said they thought they would die virgins. I have to wonder if the saving themselves thing was a nice excuse to avoid putting themselves out there as the moment one got engaged to a non religious …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/16 05:26 AM
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I agree with the touch ups part, but some have to get bigger. I was 13/14 when I got my first and was tiny, it doesn't look the best now but I'd have to touch it up bigger each time as the ink flares. After 6 or so years my largest needs touching up but honestly I'm lazy or forget.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/16 12:01 AM
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You wholesale assumed something of the OP's life while suggesting you were not a normal blah cog. It's a very 'normal' trait of people to assume they are somehow more different, more passionate or been through worse than another human. Passion isn't a finite resource only special people that want to buck the system have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/16 04:51 AM
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Numbing cream unless prescribed by a doctor and in the case of anal is never a good idea as can mask tears and damage you don't notice. If the suggestion is she goes for it with a numbing cream but ends up in 2 days of pain that's not exactly going to make either of them enjoy it or her wish to repeat the process as a receptive partner.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/16 09:00 AM
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What about pre-agricultural society in the British isles, far more overwhelming evidence of mated pairs than a harem. I agree in certain societies power is linked to having many women at the same time but I don't think it's realistic to take the 'boasting' of Khans and Eastern cultures and extrapolate them onto the average populace.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 04:29 AM
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If you get some spare time I'd love to read it. I'm morbidly interested in how politicians and religious leaders went about their acts with the almost dark ages supernatural fear of the populace aiding them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 04:12 AM
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I'm woefully ignorant on Salem aside from the basics so this is absolutely fascinating and new information for me. I've read a few articles on the theory of rotten wheat sending people loopy but I never quite bought that as the issue because of the majority of it taking part in a courtroom. It makes perfect sense it'd be a political maneouvre because in a puritan landscape how do you disprove the supernatural. I'm very envious you had the opportunity to go through the source material and study t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/16 03:38 AM
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I wanted to give some great reply about local ducking stools but I can't, you win with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 08:57 AM
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I really don't think it was as simple as that. In the later stages yes but if you map Hopkins and the deaths in England along with letters we see why the places were picked, same in Ireland and in Europe it was a church power move against Christians they deemed as obstructing taxation. Sure at the end it was just any woman who had pissed off someone or spurned a man and even her pets tortured but this did not spring up out of random dislike of women. Though King James certainly did not help, he …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:35 AM
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The magic witch juice was believed to be fly agaric and mixed with fat (baby fat), then they'd spend their nights grinding on the brooms. To be honest I can think of more fun ways to spend my evenings. If we look back at the anglo-saxon mysticism surrounding fly agaric (some compelling sources though secondary iirc of Western European shamans ingesting it and their acolytes drinking their urine) and British changeling myths you can ish see how people started thinking they were stealing away poor…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 07:23 AM
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In the UK the old widows were just easy targets for example the land holdings in Lancashire, that with the Malleus Maleficarum and James's view just created a perfect land grab storm. At the same time you had Irish Priests accused of witchcraft so the government and English Church took their holdings which changed the landscape of the Irish church and planted English religious custodians in their place and taking the taxes. A few specific early Christians think women are sinister but much of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 03:15 AM
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I do disagree about forever girlfriends being low value as I know couples that are very respected and together decades but no marriage, however I think unmarried decades long relationships are still in the minority to married couples. Marriage does tend to show a united team and family hence it still exists let alone the bonuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:47 AM
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On reflection there is a definite view of trustworthiness towards married men in business. I've noticed that men married for a long time are seen as less fickle than men of their own age with a new girlfriend every couple of years. It may not be fair but in business partner or client terms they are seen as thinking long term and not the type to change their mind depending on their current girlfriend. Edit: If I turned up to sort out a contract and my clients over time thought I had several fly b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/16 01:29 AM
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Haha, don't make me like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:57 PM
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Oh forgive me, querying a view = "bdsm low rent loser poly fag fat pig nerd clubhouse". By the way, you don't even know if I am a feminist, I just disagree with certain comments of yours. Edit: You know what this is pointless, you hate a type of people and we won't agree. I sincerely (no bs) hope you have a great weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 03:31 PM
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I did not mention hurt feelings just going by your comments and views you repeatedly state that people seek out offence and should not read what they dislike. Projection of character has nothing to do with this though so a cheap tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 02:59 PM
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How does this align with your vociferous view that people do not need to view subreddits that offend them and seeking them out is choosing to be offended. You must have been choosing to read a subreddit post and finding it offensive. I have to say I admire you screaming "cuck fagosexual libtard bullying does not exist!" until you use it to benefit you. How about you live by your own creed, that shaming does not exist and you don't need to read posts that upset you ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/16 02:35 PM
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Poor impulse control used with promiscuous women seems so passive, a bit like "Oh heck, may as well say yes". Women like everyone else know when they want to have sex with someone. I think (as an always quitting) smoker your reference to smoking highlights the difference. I can't count the amount of times I've given in after some wine and had an offered cigarette, wanting to have sex is imo vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 11:32 PM
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I'd say the poor impulse in context of a bike is submitting to the temptation of a dangerous turn without thinking about it. I can't see how a promiscuous woman has poor impulse control though, maybe they just want sex. I've certainly slept with people I have wanted to just shag and impulse had nothing to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 11:21 PM
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