Ervin_A Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles. Good point. Never thought of it that way. They are just more “hardened” by years and years of having to eventually reject guys. I’m slowly becoming more hardened as well come to think of it.	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/19 05:17 PM
11	Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles. I genuinely feel bad when I no longer have feelings for a girl that has still has feelings for me. Genuinely awful. I dread trying to find ways to let them off easy but no matter what it’s a painful and hard process. But I feel when girls aren’t into you anymore they just get distant and start talking to other guys. I can’t generalize across all girls but it seems they don’t have that empathy about feeling bad towards hurting your feelings. The funny thing is, on social media girls complain a lo…	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/19 07:40 AM
6	Spinning more plates than you can handle, at least for a bit, is an essential learning experience; it teaches you to empathize with promiscuous women rather than just theorizing about their lifestyles. Oh man. I remember I was SO angry at girls for their flakiness and general flightiness. “How disrespectful! These dumb sluts have not a single ounce of respect or decency in their body! How hard is it to commit to plans or at least not flake at the very last minute” Then after some time I realized that I was flaking on girls (mostly low-SMV ones admittedly). And I realized I was acting exactly like the girls who’s behaviour I despised. Not directly saying no to advances but giving an ambiguous y…	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/19 07:35 AM
13	The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. Very well said. We can say AHALT (all humans are like that) when talking about our tastes for sugar and fat laden food. It’s an evolutionary predisposition to enjoy the flavour of fats, sugars, and other calorie-dense tastes. Does this mean all humans are fat slobs? No. Some humans are better at controlling these impulses than others. The same way some girls are better at controlling their promiscuous and hypergamous desires than others. Upbringing and surroundings make a huge difference. A tind…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/19 07:50 AM
2	The First Commandment. Go LIFT. Fair point. I think it’s a bit deeper than that as well. Publicly proclaiming that you love a dad bod is a form of virtue signalling. “I don’t like those douchey loser ripped gym guys! I want a soft cuddly man that’s nice and funny and has a great personality. I’m such a pure and simple woman. I’ve never been double teamed by two ripped guys at a frat party before. Nope not me!”	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/18 07:18 AM
17	The First Commandment. Go LIFT. OMG ewwww. Girls don’t like gross stinky gym rats!! They want a nice sweet sensitive guy who has a dad bod! They are even better to cuddle with because they are so soft! 🤗 teamdadbod /s	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/18 05:50 PM
12	I Have a Boyfriend. Good reply. I agree with every point of this post save for the examples at the end. Why is it always that when PUA advice columns give examples of responses, they almost always sound super gay and try-hard and unnatural?	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/18 05:53 AM
22	If she wants you, she won’t make it hard. I have also come to this same conclusion, mainly from my own experiences, and from watching the way girls treat my good looking, high-SMV “natural” friends: they make everything as easy and smooth as possible for them. If the pussy ain’t coming easy, it probably ain’t coming. Hard advice to truly understand and appreciate, especially for someone just starting out.	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/18 06:14 PM
1	"Why is your arm so hard? Have you been lifting weights? Ew... gross" Damn man you worded that really well. Cheers.	/r/TheRedPill	10/02/17 06:24 AM
8	A few things I've learned from Tinder. "Just be yourself" Yeah, best advice you can possibly give. Bravo. /s	/r/seduction	18/07/15 06:00 PM
2	[deleted by user] When I say he shouldn't have his emotions dependent on what women say, I really mean what people (men or women) say. I simply only put women because it applies specifically to women in this context.	/r/seduction	23/02/14 08:54 PM
2	[deleted by user] Well put. I said essentially the same thing in response to someone else in this thread before I scrolled down to your comment. Glad to see some men in this sub know what's up.	/r/seduction	23/02/14 07:28 AM
25	[deleted by user] Cold advice but incredibly true. We all have to figure this out the hard way. Things like this don't elate me in the slightest but I remember a time when it would. Having your emotions (good or bad) dependent on what women say / do to you is something you must strive to transcend.	/r/seduction	23/02/14 07:25 AM