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Good point. Never thought of it that way. They are just more “hardened” by years and years of having to eventually reject guys. I’m slowly becoming more hardened as well come to think of it.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 05:17 PM
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I genuinely feel bad when I no longer have feelings for a girl that has still has feelings for me. Genuinely awful. I dread trying to find ways to let them off easy but no matter what it’s a painful and hard process. But I feel when girls aren’t into you anymore they just get distant and start talking to other guys. I can’t generalize across all girls but it seems they don’t have that empathy about feeling bad towards hurting your feelings. The funny thing is, on social media girls complain a lo…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 07:40 AM
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Oh man. I remember I was SO angry at girls for their flakiness and general flightiness. “How disrespectful! These dumb sluts have not a single ounce of respect or decency in their body! How hard is it to commit to plans or at least not flake at the very last minute” Then after some time I realized that I was flaking on girls (mostly low-SMV ones admittedly). And I realized I was acting exactly like the girls who’s behaviour I despised. Not directly saying no to advances but giving an ambiguous y…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 07:35 AM
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Very well said. We can say AHALT (all humans are like that) when talking about our tastes for sugar and fat laden food. It’s an evolutionary predisposition to enjoy the flavour of fats, sugars, and other calorie-dense tastes. Does this mean all humans are fat slobs? No. Some humans are better at controlling these impulses than others. The same way some girls are better at controlling their promiscuous and hypergamous desires than others. Upbringing and surroundings make a huge difference. A tind…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 07:50 AM
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Can you elaborate on the point about what Todd V was saying about the lull point from intermediate to advance? I think I’m possibly in that spot.
/r/seduction25/11/18 05:24 PM
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You’re getting shit on a little in the comments cause this is high-level advice. I agree with your post 100%. And I also agree with what people are arguing against you. Such paradoxes like this are abundant.
/r/seduction21/11/18 05:06 AM
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“The median woman wants nothing to do with the median man” Hit the nail right on the head. Something that would take me a full paragraph to explain has just been succinctly delivered in one sentence.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 07:26 AM
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Fair point. I think it’s a bit deeper than that as well. Publicly proclaiming that you love a dad bod is a form of virtue signalling. “I don’t like those douchey loser ripped gym guys! I want a soft cuddly man that’s nice and funny and has a great personality. I’m such a pure and simple woman. I’ve never been double teamed by two ripped guys at a frat party before. Nope not me!”
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 07:18 AM
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OMG ewwww. Girls don’t like gross stinky gym rats!! They want a nice sweet sensitive guy who has a dad bod! They are even better to cuddle with because they are so soft! 🤗 teamdadbod /s
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 05:50 PM
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Good reply. I agree with every point of this post save for the examples at the end. Why is it always that when PUA advice columns give examples of responses, they almost always sound super gay and try-hard and unnatural?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 05:53 AM
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I have also come to this same conclusion, mainly from my own experiences, and from watching the way girls treat my good looking, high-SMV “natural” friends: they make everything as easy and smooth as possible for them. If the pussy ain’t coming easy, it probably ain’t coming. Hard advice to truly understand and appreciate, especially for someone just starting out.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/18 06:14 PM
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Christian, I've been listening to your podcasts since back in the day with your old co-host. I'm a paid subscriber to your man in demand radio podcast. I follow you on instagram. I used to read all your posts on the RooshVForums back in the day. And I take a peak at your project playboy (if it's still called that) forum every now and then. No homo, but I think you're amazing and I love the content you dish out. I also resonate really well with your style and vibe of game. It's the most "cool" an…
/r/seduction28/04/17 12:22 AM
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Good point as well. This competition is "unhealthy" because it seems that OP's buddy is much better at attracting / closing girls than he is. So I think OP should now look up to this guy for mentorship (even if he is an asshole, doesn't really matter - the girls especially don't seem to care). And yes, scarcity is a dangerous black hole that sucks the juices dry out of any vagina in a 30-foot radius. And abundance is difficult to fake. OP will have to "fake it till he makes it" and apply the raw…
/r/seduction04/03/17 01:20 AM
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And thus, OP must choose to sink or swim. That jerk pushy over-aggressive friend might light the fire that is so desperately needed under OP's ass.
/r/seduction04/03/17 01:03 AM
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Agreed. Me and my buddies constantly have healthy competition with each other all the time. We even fuck around with each other now and then in clubs just for shits and giggles. But then again, we are all very comfortable with ourselves, have notch counts well past triple-digits, and, I suppose more importantly, have a few "fall-back" girls we can always count on if need be. I think OP isn't very "advanced" quite yet. If his buddy stealing his girls is causing so much anger and ill-will, then it…
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:54 AM
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Because, in my opinion, it seems a lot of guys on here are demonizing that guy for taking all of OP's girls. I'd say for OP to try and learn from this guy. He can be a "friend" in the sense of an asshole mentor, not a noble companion to escort your sister to the ball.
/r/seduction04/03/17 12:35 AM
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I'm going to post something contrary to what everyone else is saying. You can stand to learn a thing or two from this "horrible evil friend" of yours. He clearly has better game than you since he keeps taking your bitches. Like come on man, girls want the best option available to them. Not uphold the honour of the first nice guy they are taking to. If something better comes along, they will leave your sorry ass faster than you can blink. It seems to be happening a lot and your channelling the fr…
/r/seduction03/03/17 07:39 PM
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I suppose you're right. Like pickup information, it was initially very overwhelming sifting through all the garbage before finding proper weight lifting information. Like Julien from RSD said: "do it, then calibrate after the fact"
/r/seduction22/02/17 06:06 PM
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Fair point. But that being said, wouldn't it be better to start them down the clear path right away? Sure, getting off the couch and doing some hip new full body movement from the magazine is better than nothing. BUT, it would be astronomically better to get someone to start off a 5X5 starting strength beginner program. Teach them the basics about bodybuilding nutrition (not the Men's Health variant of "calories are bad! Eat less food!) and working out as an ectomorph or a mesomorph (are you goi…
/r/seduction22/02/17 06:01 AM
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"TOP TEN TIPS TO GET YOUR SUMMER SIX-PACK WITHOUT WORKING OUT!"
/r/seduction21/02/17 08:11 PM
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Damn man you worded that really well. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 06:24 AM
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Man get out of here with that autistic shy. Sensory problems. I've seen dudes in fucking wheelchairs pull up to clubs and try and pick up bitches. Stop making excuses for yourself.
/r/seduction28/01/17 06:18 AM
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1 - socially smooth ill agree with good looking I won't. Being good looking helps A TON. but it's not necessary. Socially smooth is pretty damn vital though. And that can be learned and comes with time and experience. 2 - fuck yeah. You will get so so so many flakes. It's the nature of the best. Paul janka and a bunch of other conventionally "good looking" PUA's posted their stats and of the phone numbers they got, only about 11% resulted in a lay. 3 - Ugh, you're over thinking and conceptualizi…
/r/seduction27/01/17 07:06 AM
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By "grinding" I mean hitting the pavement. Instead of playing video games / watching tv / just hanging out at home you instead get dressed, and go out of the house and run an hour or so of daygame at the mall or whatever. Even if you're just saying "hi" to cute girls that you pass it's still 1000 times better than staying at home. You will also slowly get more and more comfortable in your own skin as well. But this isn't easy, it's hard and a lot of people don't wanna put in that work. Like Ronn…
/r/seduction27/01/17 06:10 AM
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Hmmm. There isn't really much to it brother. Walk up to the guy and say "hey, don't I know you from somewhere?" That's a really common girl opener and I've seen it used on others and on me many times. Other than that, girls will just try their best to be in the immediate vicinity of you and give you every green light possible that says "come talk to me" They have very fragile egos and will play things safe and cool at first. The exception to this is a guy that she's really hung up about. Like an…
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:42 AM
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Hey man, this is a totally normal phase of this whole "success with women" journey. You are going to want to give up a 1000 times. The odds will seem stacked against you (and to be honest they probably are). But keep your chin up and get grinding. I promise it will get better if you put the work and soul into it. Things will soon start to "click" more and more and you're gonna find you're stride.
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:39 AM
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Ugh. I suppose all I can say is thank goodness we can see the truth?
/r/seduction27/01/17 05:37 AM
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Yep that's true. I'm sure if we were all 6'2" Abercrombie and fitch models we would probably never have heard of this community. And dude that's disgusting. I hate hearing stories like that.
/r/seduction27/01/17 12:55 AM
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I agree with you except for one small caveat, really good looking / high status men (top 5-10% or so) can sit back and be passive and girls will still flock to them en masse. I have some really good looking friends that are complete soft betas and girls still swim upstream despite this to have a chance with them. I always think about how much these guys would kill it if they learned a little bit of game / red pill principles. But I don't blame them for not trying, they already have so many optio…
/r/seduction26/01/17 05:09 PM
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Spot on answer. They are actually super socially awkward and very nervous... if they like you. If you can manage to befriend a really good looking guy or a guy with really good game, try to watch how girls act around him and what kind of "girl game" they use to try and get him. It's textbook "newbie" stuff.
/r/seduction26/01/17 04:45 AM
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"Omg this RSD stuff is so weird and creepy!! Like who has to learn how to pick up girls? Eek! Only losers would have to read a book about girls! Just be yourself! Trust me, the right girl will come along just be patient and nice and generous!"
/r/seduction05/01/17 11:00 PM
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It was already touched upon in a previous comment thread but I will reiterate it: Your friend is probably handsome / good-looking to a lot of these girls. I'm sure you're not doing anything wrong, OP, it's just these girls probably aren't very attracted to you. Sometimes you gotta play the numbers game more. Guys like your friend will have it easy and things can "just happen" because the girls WANT it to happen right from the get-go. Girls aren't some brainless creatures drifting through the win…
/r/seduction09/12/16 05:21 PM
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I dunno, man. The problem I find with that advice is "being themselves" is what caused a lot of guys to be unsuccessful with women and thus prompt their studying of the community. That's how I originally started learning about "game." If I could compare my beta self 4 years ago to the man I am today, the biggest piece of advice I'd give myself is "do the total opposite of everything you think you should do. Have a massive paradigm change and re-write everything you think you know about dating an…
/r/seduction18/07/15 07:14 PM
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"Just be yourself" Yeah, best advice you can possibly give. Bravo. /s
/r/seduction18/07/15 06:00 PM
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When I say he shouldn't have his emotions dependent on what women say, I really mean what people (men or women) say. I simply only put women because it applies specifically to women in this context.
/r/seduction23/02/14 08:54 PM
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The sad part is receiving a text message saying "you're confident" is not a guarantee that anything could happen. She could still be "busy" whenever this guy decides to muster up his oh-so-mighty confidence to ask her to hang out.
/r/seduction23/02/14 05:37 PM
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Yes but the sooner her stops letting other people dictates his emotions the better. But you're definitely right.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:29 AM
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Well put. I said essentially the same thing in response to someone else in this thread before I scrolled down to your comment. Glad to see some men in this sub know what's up.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:28 AM
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Cold advice but incredibly true. We all have to figure this out the hard way. Things like this don't elate me in the slightest but I remember a time when it would. Having your emotions (good or bad) dependent on what women say / do to you is something you must strive to transcend.
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:25 AM
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Very true. I'm surprised that this is not immediately obvious to some guys.
/r/seduction20/01/14 06:50 AM
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Amen brother
/r/seduction17/01/14 04:02 AM
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Very well put. Excellent words my friend. Throw me a PM sometime if you can, I'd love to further discuss this aspect of game.
/r/seduction14/11/13 06:19 AM
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