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| 0 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….I don't know mate, by being direct working a whole lot better for me? | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….Being direct works, but you have to believe it, like truly. Most succesfull I've ever been was when I genuinely would like to sit at a bar alone than to be on a date. Don't get me wrong, I liked her energy, but it was strangely succesfull period of my life, so I've been sitting there, listening to maybe third or fourth woman's hobbies I will never try in a week's time, so when we've finished our drinks, I just ask if she want's to get out of here and offered my place. If she would have said no, … | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….That spark is actually from your perception of what a man does. Vast majority of people can watch two exactly the same behaviors from different people and have different feelings about them. If someone is attractive to you, you tend to give him more leeway. Like you are sitting at a terrace, enjoying the setting summer sun, and there comes this head-turner of a guy. Great physique, attractive face, like a solid 10/10 for you. He comes to you, tells you that to him you are the most beautiful woma… | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 01:57 PM |
| 0 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….but women know how men are. They know we are risk takers and that our attraction is looks based. They need to understand what are you doing. If you go indirect and talk about her favorite color and hopes and dreams, that's what women do, she will classify you as a friend... When you state she is attractive to you and you are being more direct, you are also showing you are willing to take a quick no.... most men try to talk themselves into her liking them, because they believe that time in a conv… | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Being direct isn’t about getting sex, it’s about saving time….There are a million things you can say to any woman, with cold reading you can lower that number depending on your skill. The thing is women are now so saturated by choice, they can afford to not think about what you are saying, because if it's a weekend night, chances are she will meet someone who says precisely what she is thinking about. If it's not, couple of days will do, it doesn't make much difference tho. The thing is with indirect approach you walking on thin ice, you can screw up any m… | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What's the most "controversial", yet effective, advice you've been given?Women aren't some magical social machines. Very good chunk of them have very little to none social skills, because even if they are boring, men would bend over and try to push through. So basically she can get nervous when you approach, which is from her POV you forcing her to interact with you. And with all that's going on around "women vs. men" she can reject you very harshly. so yeah, "just do it" is a great sentiment, but not very appliable in real life. Maybe if you go to another city to pa… | /r/seduction | 03/07/26 09:35 AM |
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