EryNameWasTaken Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Is a spark important in a relationship? For me, I could not see myself being in a relationship with someone who I didn’t feel a spark with 😬 I might be in the minority on this sub, but for me it is necessary for the “seed of love” to be planted. You must be careful though, because spark doesn’t necessarily equal long term compatibility. The trick is to find someone who you have that spark with AND are long term compatible. That’s more rare though, for sure.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/25 04:09 AM
5	Is a spark important in a relationship? I would say that I agree the spark is not an indicator of long-term compatibility, but, for me, is necessary for the seeds of love to be planted.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/25 04:00 AM
2	Is a spark important in a relationship? Genuinely curious what a relationship without a spark is like? Sounds like a business partnership?	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/25 03:37 AM
–	CMV: Hiding money and assets in a divorce should be illegal Definitely a troll post	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 10:39 PM
1	Using dating apps is beta male behaviour You’re wrong but okay	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:24 AM
1	Using dating apps is beta male behaviour In my experience, as a man, you will get below your looksmatch on a dating app. The women who find me attractive who I meet in real life I find very physically attractive, but on dating apps the only women I can actually land a date with are significantly less attractive	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 04:05 AM
1	Using dating apps is beta male behaviour Ngl I thought this was rage bait, but I think you're onto something. The girls I meet in real life who find me attractive are way hotter than the ones who respond to my messages on dating apps. There's a hot girl who works at my gym and has flirted with me on several occasions, but I've been too nervous to strike up a real conversation with her, even though she's initiated a couple times already. Going onto the apps is way easier. You're all on there for the same reason so it takes way less cour…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 03:55 AM
3	Using dating apps is beta male behaviour This is something I've definitely noticed. The girls I meet in real life who find me attractive are way hotter than the ones who respond to my messages on dating apps. It's actually the reason I'm off of dating apps completely. I figure even if it takes a little longer, the quality of the woman I meet irl will be higher so it's worth it. That being said, I still don't see how using them is beta behavior. Edit: wait actually no I kinda get what you're saying and I think you're onto something.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 03:48 AM
2	Straight men and women generally cannot be friends. I agree with your points that male-female friendships would be weird if they were treated as same-sex friendships, but that doesn’t mean they can’t or shouldn’t exist. It only that m/f friendships are a little different and should be treated as such. As long as the dude isn’t attracted to the woman, m/f friendships work just fine. For example, in medical school I had many female friends. I was not attracted to these girls so it was very easy for me to not cross any boundaries with them. We hung …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 03:37 AM
6	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? Men are reluctant to be vulnerable around other men they don’t know very well. But with my close male friends? I could tell those bros anything and I know they’ll have my back and respect me. I share things with my male friends that I would never tell anyone else, and by far the most common response is, “dude me too! Bro, I thought I was the only one.” So I guess what I’m getting at is that I can be vulnerable around my close male friends because we are going through a lot of the same issues. Th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 02:52 AM
6	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? I appreciate that man. But frankly, I'm happy it happened. Its painful experiences like that that turn weak an emotional boys into the men that women are attracted to. That is to say, it taught me a valuable lesson and has helped me grow and mature into a better man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 01:53 AM
7	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? It's not that women have used my expressed vulnerabilities against me, but that they lose respect and/or attraction for me. I've experienced this both in relationships and with my own mom and sisters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 01:36 AM
10	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? I'm 100% sure it had nothing to do with the stigma against video games. Video-games were not even the main point of discussion. My real issue was I fell behind in med school and instead of facing the problem I ran from it and found all sorts of ways to procrastinate: deep dive into random hobbies, workout 3 hours a day, go to music festivals, etc. etc. video-games were just one of my many methods of escapism, I just simplified it to "anxiety and video-games" in my comment for the sake of brevity…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 01:18 AM
16	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? I learned this the hard way when I was going through a tough time in med school. My sisters and mom knew I was struggling with something, they just didn't know what. They kept prodding me, and one day I finally broke down and cried and told them about my crippling anxiety and video-game addiction. Big mistake. I never forget the look of disappointment in their faces. They tried to be supportive but I could tell they lost a lot of respect for me that day, and it never fully recovered. And who can…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 12:35 AM
17	What do you mean you can’t be vulnerable?? 100% this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/25 12:17 AM
1	CMV: Males avoiding women at work are sexist That could be part of it. Also it’s less of a concern if you are not in a position of power. The higher up you are the more behaviors are deemed inappropriate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 10:41 PM
3	CMV: Males avoiding women at work are sexist Sounds like you trust them which makes sense since you're part of a very small team who likely work together everyday. I work in a leadership position at a hospital alongside many people who I barely know; doctors, med students, nurses, med reps, receptionists, cleaning staff, etc. A lot of staff rooms in hospitals are centrally located meaning a lot of windowless rooms which carry an even greater risk. I hear my fair share of gossip and the things people get offended by you wouldn't believe. He…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 07:36 PM
4	CMV: Males avoiding women at work are sexist Not sure if it's a man or a woman, but definiitely a troll	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 04:06 PM
7	CMV: Males avoiding women at work are sexist "the number of male managers who are uncomfortable mentoring women has more than tripled" In the past, many men took advantage of high status positions to gain sex from their female colleagues under the guise of "mentorship". Some women played into this game and leveraged it to their own benefit, while others refused and were left behind or were sexually harassed. It was a bad system that was addressed with the #metoo movement. The #metoo movement empowered women, but it came at a heavy cost. Wh…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/25 03:41 PM
2	Young chronically single men thanks to their mothers As a man raised primarily by my mom and two sisters, I 100% agree. I’m just now learning to be a man, and I’m in my early 30s. I wish I had learned this much earlier on	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/25 09:06 PM
8	Social Signaling Totally agree. I think maybe they mean humblebrag tho? In which case I totally agree. Nothing annoys me more than an thinly-veiled humblebrag post on social media	/r/TheRedPill	15/01/25 04:59 AM