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Lol, so red pill has come full circle and the conclusion is no different than normie advice. Funny how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/19 03:54 AM
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Working out really helps with confidence. Keep it up man. When you get further in life, use it to get yourself even further.
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:20 PM
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That’d be when we were hunters and gatherers. That also meant leaving behind/killing unneeded babies. When the first civilizations were born, so was marriage to avoid the social unrest caused by polygamy, because wealth had started distributing unequally which meant some men could create harems of women and many men were left lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:44 AM
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Their ”true sexuality” was when we didn’t have contraceptive pills and condoms. Not now. ”Expressing biology”, lol. Is a man on steroids just expressing his biology too?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 09:27 AM
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So the top guys don’t like online dating also don’t need online dating? I guess that makes sense, but I don’t think it applies to younger generations considering it’s so common now. I’d imagine 30+ men who use online dating are kinda in the bottom in their age group yeah. I used to think like you, that online dating is too superficial, but considering almost all women are on there makes the dating pool too limited if you as a man refuse to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:53 PM
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I met my partner online and I’m definitely in the barrel.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:24 PM
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Then only match with those looking for a relationship and don’t have sex until you know the guy is serious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:23 PM
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In contrast to bars/clubs/etc not being shallow? Pretty sure looks are important when finding a partner offline or online. Haven’t you see the study that says 50% of dating now happens online. It’s becoming the norm for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:08 PM
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Huh? Bottom of the barrel men usually avoid online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:46 AM
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As a man to girls: Download Tinder, swipe to find a suitable partner If step one fails, lose weight, learn to dress and use makeup better and go back to step one. This process has a 99.9% succes rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 11:22 AM
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Eat greens, basically zero calories. And some proteine, you don’t need to starve to lose weight. Unless you are trying to fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 01:49 PM
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The latter, because womens rates hasn’t decreased. So smaller amount of men are now having more sex with higher amount of girls than before, so your interpretation is off. So it validates the RP argument of 80/20 rule when it comes to online dating etc. Blue side blames porn/games and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 11:18 PM
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How’s your addiction? Or is it still not one?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:58 PM
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Online dating. It’s how young generations date now. Women have higher SMV due to high demand from men. So why would they settle for lower SMV males when online dating lets them have higher SMV men. It’s great times for ”Chads”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 09:49 PM
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You said rolls again lol..
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:40 PM
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Do you relate to this? Have you tried not masturbating while in a relationship? Did you find your partners attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/19 08:33 PM
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So any woman who wants casual sex can fuck chads and then settle for a beta male later. If a beta male wants casual sex, he won’t get it. But he will bring the bread on the table for the woman who rejected him when he was younger. Isn’t life just fair and nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/19 03:01 AM
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Yeah. OP should have at least bring some proof to the table to have this discussion. But knowing Reddit’s stance on men in general, I don’t have a hard time believing him. But it’s just because it’s Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:34 PM
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I glanced through them and in all of them the thread is downvoted to zero or OP is downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 10:20 PM
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Looking at your IG pics and captions you seem like a narcissistic meathead with boring personality. And not even close to a 9, maybe a 7. Your shoulders, triceps, forearms and back (+most likely legs) are pretty unimpressive at their current state.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 03:33 AM
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Does it trigger you that me, a fit 23 year old would bang those 40 year old milfs in a heartbeat when given a chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 01:06 PM
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Citation is from basic economics book, cited by wikipedia. Now take a look at the graph, would you? Basic supply and demand graph of labor markets, and you can see how rising wages unnaturally affects labor markets. I study economics and the graph indeed is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:59 PM
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Yes it does. https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/c/cc/Wage_labour_2.svg If a higher minimum wage increases the wage rates of unskilled workers above the level that would be established by market forces, the quantity of unskilled workers employed will fall. The minimum wage will price the services of the least productive (and therefore lowest-wage) workers out of the market. … the direct results of minimum wage legislation are clearly mixed. Some workers, most likely those whose previo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:47 PM
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Raising labor costs doesn't necessary mean less jobs or lowering their employment capability. In most cases it does. Prices are going to go up either way due to inflation. Yes, and how is that relevant to the discussion? You can't justify unions with ethics. If you aren't willing to do a job with the pay they offer, someone other will. That's how job markets work. So make yourself worth more, and stop preying on someone elses money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:22 PM
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Yep, further prove me that the men in this sub are low status and lazy men. Unions raise wages higher than they would naturally be, raising costs for the employee and thus lowering their emplyment capability and rising production costs, forcing them to rise product prices to keep being profitable. Just because your emplyment isn’t worth shit, doesn’t mean you should force others to pay more out of their pocket. Ultimate beta male logic. Typical redditor though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 09:04 PM
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You think others don’t expect sex when seeking for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:45 PM
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Yeah because unions are good for employment?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:33 PM
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Humans are animals after all. It's hardwired in our brains to seek for a good partner. That is the case for women too. For some it's status, for some it's looks, for some it's personality. Women come in all types.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 11:54 PM
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What's up with some of you implying there is something wrong in that? I have a hard time believing you don't fantasize about attractive men, unless you are asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 11:37 PM
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single father dating a male I'm confused, unless you are a gay couple?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 11:33 PM
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Same. Not weird but a bit crazy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/10/18 02:18 PM
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”Guys show interest by bullying”. Yeah no, teasing sure, but not by bullying.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 10:03 AM
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It’s so weird it could work lol. Unless you look serious while saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 10:02 AM
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Is it still manly if I know that I’m an absolute cunt?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 09:51 AM
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And empathy. Women are by nature much more empathic than men. So a safe environment to show vulnerability. Guess it’s included in the ”gay shit” part lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 07:49 AM
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If you are on good terms I think you could very well ask for some private time, if you don’t do it too often. Or just ask to go to the girls place lol, why is that an issue.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 10:02 AM
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Moral superioty? No, I feel bad for you. I don’t need to argue at all, I know my stuff about SSRIs. And like I said, I stopped max dosage escitalopram with no issues. 20mg escitalopram to 75mg venlafaxin (starting dosage) which means close to zero serotonin inhibition for few days. Didn’t notice any side effects at all. SSRIs help in long term, they aren’t some happy pills like benzos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:52 PM
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Getting called a junkie by an actual junkie. Hysterical.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:07 PM
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SSRIs are not neurotoxic, benzos are. Now go pop one instead of adderall so you can stop replying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 09:07 PM
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Works the pretty much the same as SNRI’s as it increases nodradreline levels. Why would I read that paper? Cherry picked paper which goes against the general consencus of professionals in medical field. Why don’t you read the sources cited in wikipedia? It’s actually hilarious you are popping benzos and opiates and say I’m the addict. Just projecting your own issues I assume. Guess the drugs have fucked up your brain for good.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 01:45 PM
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SSRI’s don’t cause weight gain. Only mirtazapine does (SNRI), and antipshychotic drugs which are not SSRIs. SSRIs are not dangerous. If you knew how they work you wouldn’t say this. Ironic when you use physically addicting drugs that bind to opiate receptors and release serotonin/dopamine. Now THAT destroys you and will make everything but drugs boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 11:47 AM
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I take them for medical depression and anxiety disorder, you are self medicating or using them for recreational purposes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 11:39 AM
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It’s not weak when you have zero tolerance, just not even near the level of oxy. And what are you on about? I already switched my depression med, stopped escitalopram cold turkey with no issues. ”Worse than opiate withdrawals”, jesus. Here’s something for you: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Effects_of_long-term_benzodiazepine_use https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/side-effects/201011/brain-damage-benzodiazepines-the-troubling-facts-risks-and-history-minor Neurotoxic, ruins your memory. Now…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:40 AM
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Just trying to talk some sense to you. I’ve tried codeine and I know well how addicting it is, especially mentally. And oxy is on another level. Maybe I’m a buzzkill but I know what’s better in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 10:05 AM
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I’m not American. I just know how drugs take people down in the long run. I’m sure you know that too. Charasteristic of a weak minded person to lie to yourself just to get that short term pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 09:34 AM
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And is there any thing that can even get close how good that oxy buzz feels? You will crave for that feeling probably forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:27 AM
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The issue I have with RP is that the best parts of RP have already been said better in other places by other groups (stuff like telling guys to work out, be more assertive, and take control of their lives) True, most of those things are what most men understand at some point. What I have issue with is how nowadays it’s not okay to say such things aloud and even the opposite is often endorsed. How do you think it made me feel when I saw my friend having casual sex since his teens while being a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 12:25 AM
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Sounds like me, I have some serious mom issues (narcissistic mom). But at least I’m aware of it and I won’t let it control my views or let it make me hateful. I used to have such feelings but depression meds have helped me a lot. A girl I’m seeing has a personality of a mother figure and she has helped me trough so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:49 PM
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Tattoos and drugs, really. I swear all the men in this sub are dirty as fuck. I feel like all RP men are just low status men with revenge/power fantasies towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:30 PM
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Enjoy your opiate addiction my man. It’s all downhill from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:27 PM
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Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:04 PM
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Like what kind of advice? Avoid being dominant because it’s toxic and women aren’t actually submissive by nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 11:00 PM
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My girl (19) thinks I looked like a kid at her age (i’m 23 now). I think it’s obvious that youthful looks aren’t favored by girls/women, though no way men peak in their 30’s. Test levels go downhill from 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 10:52 PM
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I’m still giggling at words like currycel and ricecel. Never seem them here though. But racism should be banned, which those term would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 10:44 PM
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Oh cmon.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 10:42 PM
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I don’t think they should ban the word ”cuck”. There’s no better way to describe certain men. And cuckoldry is a real thing. Recently met one at a party (they obviously had an open relationship, his girl was fucking around with the guys friends while next to him). Every stereotype fitted so well too, he was vegetarian, small and unmasculine. No hate towards him at all though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 10:38 PM
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How is it not? Just read some of their stuff. Where does the anger come from then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 06:04 PM
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True. But people here are at least open minded to discussion. Elsewhere people are very PC and won’t even engage in such conversations. IRL it’s actually pretty easy to talk about these things and I find many girls agree with some ”red pill” statements (like most women enjoy being submissive and men vice versa).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 03:06 PM
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Generally 16-23, but pretty faces are pretty regardless of age. I’m 23 myself and currently dating a 19 year old. I look a bit younger if that matters (~20-21 according to her).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 02:51 PM
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Ohh, thanks. I should’ve read the announcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 09:08 AM
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Seriously, every vegan man I’ve met have been so feminine as it can get. Recently went to a party where there was this vegan couple and one other guy was really intimate with the girl and kept kissing her while they were all next to each other. First I was confused but then realised they are in an open relationship and the guy was an actual cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 08:01 AM
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I’ll double my meat consumption just for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:55 AM
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Lucky you get tired. I have to use meds to even get some sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:54 AM
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What’s up with the cirklejerking in this sub? Just confused as rules are pretty strict elsewhere but some threads are obviously not serious. Not saying it’s a bad or good thing, just confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 07:16 AM
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No, the study does not say anything about confidence>looks, so it’s not relevant. Nowhere have I said that confidence isn’t important. Bad hygiene is perceived from looks. You are arguing towards my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 07:41 AM
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I like how you want to argue from a standpoint where we must believe you are correct and I must disprove you. I simply disagreed with your (confidence>looks) and you ask me to source. Your study is not relevant. I’m obviously not saying confidence isn’t important. The study found that sexual success and confidence are related, no shit. I’m yet to see any argument why would confidence be more important than looks. Ironically you tried to undermine my position by saying nerdy men are lonely becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/18 05:45 AM
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Yeah brb finding peer reviewed studies on how much nerds get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:13 PM
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So one has to fake confidence to get women. It’s a really nice world out there for unconfident men. Every fault can only be found in men. Nerdy men who are confident most often aren’t succesful with women btw. How about you accept the fact that humans are superficial, and that includes women as well as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 08:48 PM
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Yeah I didn't say that though. Confident women will be straight about how they feel about men's height, fitness, status etc. They know what they want. What do you make up of the fact that complete dick men who have good looks often do well with women? Doesn't that ring the bell for you that looks>personality, when they do well but nerdy smart men do not?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 06:56 PM
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Right. I actually had such mindset about myself and it went away when I got help for my depression. Incels should promote the importance of mental health rather than hatred of women. But they’d rather call it a scam and not even try. It’s very obvious many of them have mental disorders. There’s too much stigma around mens mental health issues. Even school books promote the ”fact” that women get depression twice as often as men do (yet men suicide a lot more). I’m pretty sure men don’t seek for h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 06:02 PM
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I'm talking about the honesty of their answers. Shit like dick size doesn't matter past a certain point though lol, and even microdicks can work it out. Wrong, they tell you that because you don't have a big one. Ask girls anonymously somewhere and you will notice the difference in preference compared when asked face to face. I'm seeing a girl who very much prefers guys with muscles, but before we met she said "just a normal body is what I prefer". Women often downplay the importance of looks wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 05:16 PM
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It does, but I was just giving you an example of women resenting men who are not ”naturals” as you said you have never seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 05:02 PM
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Women say things like personality >>>>>> looks and shit like dick size doesn’t matter lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 04:48 PM
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Red Pill likes to say that women resent men who are not "naturals," but I've never seen any evidence of this. I don’t necessarily agree with that either, but think about how short guys who work out in the gym are viewed by girls vs. tall guys who work out. Short men are often said to be compensating (for lack of height) and thus seen as insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 10:50 AM
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But if one has absolutely no interests in bettering themselves, doing so solely to get women is suddenly seen as misogynistic as that would imply women care about the status of the man gives them rather than just the man. So bluebill rationale: work out because you enjoy it, women is a bonus. Men who put in effort are attractive. Red pill: Work out to get women, enjoy it or not, because it increases your worth in the ”market”. Which one seems more true? 2nd one to me. So do it for the women then…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 12:31 AM
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Wishkey clit, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 05:38 PM
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Hey, thank you. I should've mentioned I'm doing better now though. Lost my virginity couple weeks ago and went on my first date ever too :). My medication is working well and I'm not suicidal and as anxious at the moment. I held way too much importance on being virgin, having someone who to be intimate with is way more important. I still haven't approached anyone though, she approached me :D.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 05:36 PM
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More feminine features imo. +3cm height compared to Italians, +2cm to Germans so not that much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 03:52 PM
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0, never approached a girl due to anxiety. Rejected maybe 7-10. Also rejected (or ghosted) many due to anxiety. I also felt bad about being a virgin while doing that. Being depressed and antisocial sucks dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 12:03 PM
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Why would you suggest Southern Europe? Their women look like men compared to what we have in North.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 11:58 AM
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There's /r/trufemcels but I think many of them are trolling or not serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:10 AM
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Lol. I wish we had female incels so I could get the same amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 05:44 AM
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It’s not a result of men thinking women can’t be right, but rather multiple factors like slutshaming and culture that wants women to be quiet about their sexualitt. As a result they they downplay their sexuality. As a result men think having a nice personality matters. Nah, women don’t want a nice guy, they want a dominant male. A partner that has looks, status, and doesn’t care about others. It took me years to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:26 AM
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So Red Pill is just a collective of men who have misogynist views of women rather than a colletive of men who’ve been told lies about what attracts women? How come many report more success when it comes to sex life and attraction from women when leaning on Red Pill views rather than what was told by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:15 AM
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We get to experience how women actually feel about us in different states of life (young, older, low status, high status..). How is it not more credible than spoken words by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:10 AM
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Because what women say doesn’t match their actions. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:01 AM
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You are exactly the type of salty woman who OP is talking about. And they are wondering where the butthurtness stems from.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 10:00 AM
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True. Any user in this sub is a retard by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:53 PM
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Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:19 PM
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Duh, normal women don't use Reddit at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:18 PM
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It's implying that intimacy isn't important. But I now understand that he didn't mean that, but that's how I understood it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:24 PM
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It felt really bad. Like I stated earlier, I recently got meds for depression and I was very suicidal not long ago. That's why it's triggering for me to hear "losing virginity" isn't important, because I see it as as people referring to complete lack of intimacy. At least in my case it was that. Losing my virginity with her wasn't the big thing, it was the fact that I have someone to hug now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:23 PM
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Nah I was referring to intimacy. I just assume people who cry about being virgins mean complete lack of intimacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:18 PM
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Was nice talking to you even though we disagree on many things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:10 PM
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I don't, like at all. Pretty much zero affection from my parents or friends. Intimacy (even non sexual) between heterosexual men is pretty much a no-go. So there's some pressure to find a partner. I didn't have anyone to hug prior to meeting this one girl. She's cool, likes to hug, give body massages etc. even though we aren't together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:09 PM
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Right. Should be legal so there would be less risks and less shady shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:02 PM
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He has, thus he can't speak in behalf of those who hasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 03:01 PM
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Intimacy is what people refer to when they cry about being virgin. Not just having their dick inside a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:55 PM
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Considering the risks it has. I’m sure you liked it and that’s a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:46 PM
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Hey this just came to mind. Ever seen a male stripper? That’s what women want. I assume you did mostly male clients so you didn’t have to conform to womens needs. So you are lucky in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:34 PM
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Not trying to be offensive but that’s pretty ironic coming from an ex sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:23 PM
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Ever notice how the best students are disappointed when they get nearly perfect score instead of perfect, and others are happy when they get a mediocre score. Guess which ones succeed in life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:04 PM
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Well I am depressed and have meds for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:00 PM
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No, because I’ve listened to psychologists talk about this and I know leaders and men in high positions have low agreeableness. It’s something many studies support. High IQ and low agreeableness. I know in eyes of the employer an agreeable person is often the best as they work well in groups etc. But anyone wanting to be in a leader position can’t have high agreeableness. I myself have low agreeableness but high inhibition which I need to work on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:57 PM
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No, not really, but I’m miserable and lonely if I don’t be that. I’d like to not care about pretty women or status, but I do, so I know what I need to be to acquire those. Low agreeableness and inhibition are psychological traits that are favored in work related environment and thus grant you higher status, income and favorable position in social environment. Sounds pretty molded to me. My guess is you are bisexual/asexual or something similar as it seems like you don’t need to conform to womens…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:17 PM
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So it would be beta of me to agree that fucking whores isn’t sad, even though it’s against my morals. Dominant personalities break molds, they don’t perfect fitting them. Not really. The dominant male is actually a boring person to be around. Their motives and actions are predictable. The end goal is always status or women. What women want is 99% molded by their biological needs and the image they have about an ideal partner. And it’s always very much the same. Tall, social, low agreeableness an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:02 PM
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There’s no winner here as we have different values, just interesting to talk. About your 2nd point is that most people want validation so they want equally or more attractive partner. What you are suggesting is that they should drop that, but it’s not possible for everyone. I’m not gonna get my dick hard with obese woman even if her personality was perfect. How I feel is irrelevant, I’ve tried that for my whole youth with no success. Women don’t care how I feel, I need to be what they want. So I…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 12:42 PM
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If you wanted to fuck men, you would find the exact same problem. Not really. Feminine men have their place when it comes to gay men. I AM an unmasculine man.. ..It has not stopped me from getting laid But I’m 100% sure you have sex with what red pillers would call a low SMV woman, as you said you are body positive etc. Most men are not like this. DON'T TELL HER Not possible. It’s against my morals to not be truthful. And I would want to know if a girl had done something similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 11:44 AM
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Yeah I’ve listened my fair share of what is toxic masculinity, and I agree with you that society puts pressure on men to not be emotional. But I’m sorry to say the blame is on women. What they say doesn’t match with their actions. They want a masculine man and hate men who show weakness. Every man with unmasculine traits know how hard it is to find intimacy or affection. Every man knows the stigma that follows from fucking a whore, it’s something women will shame them for. For years I was that u…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 11:16 AM
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Not with that attitude. I will achieve what I want in life, otherwise it’s life not worth living.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:53 AM
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Fucking a whore comes with a stigma that will follow you rest of your life. So no. ”Just be social bro”. Yeah, just do it man, it’s so easy. Meanwhile ugly ass woman with zero personality is fucking guys left and right from Tinder. A woman who has zero pull on Tinder is morbidly obese or a shaky drug addict. Even them probably get sex if they want. Women are disgusted by men who have mental issues or low confidence. Men aren’t disgusted by such women, so a woman in such situation need to do a ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:52 AM
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Women can get laid the moment they want to. A woman who CAN’T get laid even if they wanted, are complete failures. Morbidly obese, drug users, or something like that. Not counting mental issues as a failure. What you are implying is that having sex and intimacy is pressured by society and one shouldn’t care what others think. That’s not true. Studies show that people who have sex find life more meaningful and enjoyable. Even brain chemistry changes. It’s natural and everyone (excluding asexuals)…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:32 AM
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But you did get intimacy, so who are you to tell that intimacy isn’t what they need, when you don’t know how lack of it makes them feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:13 AM
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Sure, do as you please. But most people feel like sex and intimacy is natural and normal for humans, and feel like something is wrong with them when they don’t get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 10:02 AM
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I get that. I just met a girl like that. And intimacy is something all people need I think. I never got it from my parents so I really really needed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 09:55 AM
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I got meds for my depression 3 months ago. I’ve went from 64kg skeleton to 72kg pretty fit person with lifting weights, lost my virginity two weeks ago, being more social, haven’t taken a single day off work, applying to my countries #1 uni next year. I’m feeling a bit maniac and unstoppable, but everything is going well so I will just keep going. If I was still a virgin and didn’t start lifting again, I’d still feel like a failure. And I don’t want to be a failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 09:53 AM
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Sound like something a person with no high aspirations in life would say tbh. Failure is not acceptable for me. I don’t accept not acquiring what I want in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 09:37 AM
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What people mean by being virgin is usually the complete lack of intimacy.. not just having their dick inside a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 09:26 AM
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It’s a good indicator of who you are as a person. We have an image of what we want to be in life, and accomplishing things that gets us closer to that is what makes our life meaningful. People who don’t set aspirations in fear of failing in them (but in reality do have aspirations) have meaningless lives and are a failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 09:22 AM
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Yes it means failure. Sex is like the most natural thing in the world, and there’s something inherently wrong if you crave for it but manage to be so bad with people that you can’t connect with anyone or create interest in anyone. Kinda like wanting to be physically fit but being incapable of doing it, you are a failure. You didn’t fail because you didn’t crave for it, you aren’t ”normal” in that sense and are irrelevant to the discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 09:00 AM
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OP isn’t implying intimacy is a life goal, but something that is normal, and if one isn’t capable of that, something is wrong. You were capable, you just didn’t crave for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:37 AM
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And he just responded that he is asexual/sees that in himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:35 AM
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”Racking up life experience” but intimacy wasn’y one of them? So asexual or aspie or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:33 AM
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So an asexual and not relevant to this discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 08:02 AM
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You joke but I’ve had this one girl interested in me because I was d1 (top 0.01%) in league, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 05:28 PM
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That men peak in their early 20s and women later? It’s a bait, probably not even serious. Makes you feel better as an old woman though, it’s a nice fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:42 PM
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So some useless arts grad from a school that daddy paid for? I mean you can’t even type ”environment” correctly or have any idea when to use commas. Your parents are ashamed of you, gtfo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:29 PM
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High status women are not even in the reach for lower status men. Neither are high status men interested in low status women outside of sex. You want to deny it because you are lower status women yourself. I mean even the way you write gives it out. In lower status circles higher N sex count means higher status, which seems to be your way of thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 10:07 PM
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Your example is exactly what I'm talking about, those men are not high status. Social circles where job status means nothing are low status itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:43 PM
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Yeah in low status social circles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:33 PM
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And if actually high status field, then they are in a position where they compete with other men in 20s and none of them actually feel any superiority to those who have already established a higher position. And that that social hierarchy will show in their behavior. Also you talked about "beating up guys in their 30s" which is fucking hilarious to me. Sounds something a ratchet ass woman would say.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:27 PM
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No guy in early 20s are set in high status professional environment, so we probably have different ideas what is low or high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:20 PM
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I’m gonna say your social life revolves around low status men. Men in their early 20s are like little kids in social cirkles where degrees and career position matter. In poor social groups I imagine what you say is true - older men have nothing to show, only some shitty ass car, kids and some old hag that they wished was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 09:03 PM
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So you didn’t even watch the video.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 05:31 AM
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But the point was that you will have to settle down with her to see what she’s actually like. That’s not how dating works. You also didn’t address the point about never actually being the real father of the child, thus lowering your creditibility in the household. So quite possible you end up with a kid that isn’t even close what you want him/her to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 07:53 PM
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Nah, but you still somehow see the woman as the victim in this scenario which is fucking hilarious. I can never wrap my head around how feminists think. Now you are implying I have to just ”man up” and get better, invalidating the fact that men can have depression too. She cried over a guy not coming to a party, I felt anxious because of my depression. I got verbally attacked for it, she didn’t. Don’t you see who is in the priviliged position here? Yet you only want to point out that MY behavior…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 12:42 PM
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Replying to thread which is related to the situation I’ve experienced /=/ obsessing about it. You really try your best to discredit me instead of accepting the double standard that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/18 05:37 AM
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Are you implying I didn’t actually get anxious and just did it for drama? Love the cognitive dissonance here. Isn’t it weird when your false beliefs gets challenged? ”Oh no, men can actually be emotional? No, it can’t be that. Just some weirdo online.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:13 PM
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Did you even read the first post? I’m on meds and therapy now and it happened six years ago. A good part of my mental health would’ve been spared if I was told when I was a kid that I have to act tough around women, not be genuine with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:50 PM
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I know I’m not allowed to show emotions. I’m addressing the hypocrisy. When women say it’s fine for men to show emotions, it’s not true. That’s the thing I want to hear, not lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:42 PM
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The emotions I showed wouldn't be considered inappropriate in females. Otherwise please explain me why did her crying about me not joining a party made everyone there label me as a bitch, even though you know it's completely petty thing to cry over. That's because she's a female and negative emotions are okay and especially men will cater around females when they are shown.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:39 PM
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It was me being emotional which wouldn't get the same response if I was a female. Every man knows they can't show their true emotions because of the negative response they get as a male. Ironically you are saying it's me being overly emotional because I'm a male and you wouldn't tolerate it. In my scenario if I was a female I would be the victim but now I'm just a bitchy male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:24 PM
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I will read it tomorrow when I have time. I haven't really been convinced by red pill so far, but I understand in this scenario the "right" option was to not care (believe in red pill or not). My anxiety back then was just at that point I just couldn't go there because of her criticism. I just couldn't. But I'm more confident nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 08:59 PM
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I know. I'm currently meeting with such girl. They are one in a thousand though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 01:26 PM
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That she is acting like a bitch? Brb making a post on /r/twoxchromosomes and see how ladys actually react.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 01:24 PM
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I know, that's my fucking point. Us men aren't allowed to be emotional.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:15 AM
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Yeah. To me it's obvious that being emotional as a man is unattractive. They just won't admit that because it would prove their logical fallacy. Cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 11:02 AM
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Either way being emotional as a man is unattractive. I was 17 when it happened I think, but doesn't matter. But just look at the comments from women saying emotional men aren't unattractive, then look at the replies I'm getting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:55 AM
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So what you are saying as a man I'm not allowed to show my emotions. That's the damn point. And it's sexist, but women won't admit that. You think men just don't get hurt? It's just normal for men to never get hurt emotionally?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:50 AM
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You ARE using anecdotal evidence. I'm simply saying ask more guys and you will see the which way it trends. Don't make assumptions from your own experience. More data is always better than little data even if anecdotal. You are contradicting yourself, being depressed shows signs of being unstable and thus a risky partner to be with, so one has to fake confidence to appear attractive. Being scared of labeled weak and unstable is the reason men are scared to report depression and have higher suici…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:44 AM
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Ask any guy irl how girls have reacted before when shown negative emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:28 AM
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They don't want to seem sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:23 AM
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No, it's just double standards. Reverse the roles. Imagine me telling a girl that her costume sucks and as a result she doesn't come to my party. She would be the victim in that scenario, just because she's a female. It's 100% sexism and nothing else, probably hard wired in us to always see females as victims and emotional men as unmasculine losers. It's actually disgusting that you say my feelings were inappropriate. I'm not going to buy a new costume because she didn't like it, she's the one m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 10:21 AM
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You're an outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:33 AM
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Emotional as in feeling strongly about you, benefitting you because you want to feel wanted. Any negative emotion is off putting for you, so stop lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:33 AM
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She was my friends gf. Just goes to show you that no emotion in men is tolerated and fellow men will side with the chick even though the girl hurts you. Men can't show weakness, it's off putting. I'm just tired of all the lies told that isay nowadays men can show emotions. It's only true if those emotions are beneficial for women like saying you feel bad because you miss her etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:31 AM
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I’ve only met one girl who wasn’t disgusted or put off with my depression, anxiety and being emotional about things. One example being when I got invited to a halloween party and the host girl told my costume was boring and I should get a new one. It actually hurt me and I was so anxious that I didn’t go to the party. Later I got texts that she had cried about that, and my friend told my I’m such a bitch and hurt her for not coming. So she was the victim and I was just an emotional idiot. Later …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:02 AM
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Did you get any of those who needed your services to lose their virginity? If yes, what did you think of them and how akward was it?
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