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| 1 | Having nightmares, can't sleep because of exgf. How do you get past this subconscious fuckitude?*building things especially. Having tangible creations (songs for me) reinforced the hell out of my sense of self worth. | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Having nightmares, can't sleep because of exgf. How do you get past this subconscious fuckitude?Yeah, money is a great and powerful jam up. The best thing I can offer is to double down on all your interests and keep reminding yourself that it will get better. It will. | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Having nightmares, can't sleep because of exgf. How do you get past this subconscious fuckitude?I turned it into music. It's real easy to be macho about it and pretend that it isn't happening or like you are fine, but there's no simple solution. I just tried to channel it as best I could and push myself to move on with my actions until my sleeping mind caught up. I recommended therapy. It didn't really do it for me, but it helps a lot of people, so that is always an option. Don't beat yourself up about it, though. It's a normal human reaction. Just keep pushing through and try to find your… | /r/seduction | 30/07/11 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Having nightmares, can't sleep because of exgf. How do you get past this subconscious fuckitude?After getting out of a five year relationship it took me months to really get my confidence back. I had a lot of nightmares as well, but basically I just kept busy and time healed a lot of the wounds. I feel for you. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Having nightmares, can't sleep because of exgf. How do you get past this subconscious fuckitude?The nightmares go with time. A therapist can help. Send time with friends. Have a few drinks or a smoke, but that is only temporary relief. It doesn't fix it. Forcing yourself to be social actually goes a long way. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Having nightmares, can't sleep because of exgf. How do you get past this subconscious fuckitude?I think that's the point. He needs advice from someone who isn't thinking that way... | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you get over feeling like a phony everytime you try to be confident?Acting confident and see the resulting reactions will over time build the confidence you need. It's like building any other habit. You have to do it consciously for a while before you do it automatically. | /r/seduction | 04/07/11 06:25 PM |
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