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Damn. It's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 10:00 AM
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I think if anyone else said that to me, I'd laugh in their face and run for the hills. That said, I could see wealth at this scale being intoxicating. Being able to put a child in an ICU without financial strain, being able to travel where you wanted... It's a lot of human comfort to sacrifice for the purity of your soul, confidence, overall well-being. Good for her for finally standing up for herself and good for you for getting TF out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 07:33 AM
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Oh my effing God. Me too!!! I wear them just so no one sees my nipples. I'm slowly practicing going out without them on my quick errands to help me be more comfortable with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 01:31 AM
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If we did that, so many companies would go out of business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 09:17 AM
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Yeah. Two of my girlfriends were talking about their favorite lubes and I was so baffled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:29 AM
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Yes! I feel like it may very well be "normal" for a lot of these women, but only because of hormone issues and PCOS. Mediocre slobbery dogtongue Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:27 AM
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Yes! The nails! Even when they're short they somehow get to the most sensitive tiny spot imaginable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:20 AM
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Well... That's like saying we can't diagnose cancer or premature ovarian failure because we don't know how bodies are supposed to work... We have a general idea of what is normal and when things fall outside the normal range we have studied that there is usually x, y or z wrong. Women, if properly aroused, (clitoris and labia engorged) should be able to produce enough lubrication- sure, it MIGHT be a natural variant, or it could be PCOS, POF, low estrogen, a thyroid condition, etc. Sadly women's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 05:09 AM
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Interesting! I'm the exact opposite. I want it dry and have to dry it off because my fingers slip off of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:06 AM
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Fuckin' PREEEEEEEEEEACH!!! I'm an oven and it's gonna take me a while to be warmed up. My husband goes down on me pretty much every time we have sex, or takes a long time seducing me, kissing me, touching me. EVERY. TIME. . I have been in plenty of relationship that didn't want to do that and made me ashamed I wasn't totally ready immediately and they bought me lube to use. My husband and I don't own lube because that pressure isn't there. This should NOT be controversial. Also. Lack of time can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:03 AM
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This could be totally normal, but it also may not be. It might be worth getting your progesterone, estrogen and AMH checked out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 10:58 AM
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Well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:58 PM
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Yep. Same story with my mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:36 PM
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The same reason why a man with peck implants wouldn't be seen as virtuous. Or a man with calf implants. Not accepting/loving your body and injecting temporary, silicone implants that need to be replaced every five years, otherwise you have a high chance of facing health detriments isn't something to applaud. Small boobs aren't going to kill you. And, I could make an argument that giving into societal pressure to look like a Kardashian (something that isn't attainable without massive amounts of p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:11 AM
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I can't do it. It's seriously the stupidest, most sad form of entertainment. So demeaning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:06 AM
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Woah. If this isn't truth I don't know what is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:08 AM
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Do you have your eyebrows up in the center? (Like the opposite of furrowed?) I have known a few women who 'rest' their face like this and it looks like a concerned/sad face. I know a few women who weren't very confident who did this regularly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 04:11 AM
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👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:51 AM
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Oh Jesus. Ex-Coastie here and know a lot of scumbags but that's next level. Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:21 AM
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Thanks for being receptive! I appreciated the conversation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:40 PM
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In intersectional feminist theory this is problematic, but going into semantics is losing sight of the point. Yes I agree completely. I guess I push back hard because I have dealt with a lot of sexism in my life. From the military to medicine. The idea that feminine energy is different from masculine energy seems extremely regressive and solidifies a lot of sexist notions that directly harm women (and have directly harmed me in the past). I don't have an issue at all with being or doing energy, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:24 PM
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Masculine energy is the "doing" energy, while feminine energy is the "being" energy. So... Isn't any talking and communication "being energy"? Or is it all "doing energy" since you are technically doing something about what you're unhappy with/being active in creating different communication? The fact that there is "feminine" and "masculine" energy that has nothing to do with our genitals, is troublesome to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:32 PM
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The idea that "feminine" energy is 'nice'/'polite' though, is problematic. That women are automatically more nurturing is largely due to socialization. Using something that is used to oppress us, as "empowering" is akin to saying that the corset actually makes us look beautiful. And therefore corsets or compression underwear are inherently womanly. It's not womanly, it's a mark of an oppressed class. "Feminine energy" is however women communicate. But you are meaning it to have the connotation o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 09:13 PM
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I know. I was talking to a friend and told her that I don't consume romantic comedies or any romantic stories, and stopped when I was dating. At some point I realized it was romanticizing the idea of being an anomaly... like, I could possibly be the girl to make the asshole change. Or the player was going to magically stop being a douche and fall in love with me... So many stories and narratives to make me feel like the exception to the rule (even like the movie long shot? How tf is that a reali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:33 PM
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They really do. This is insane. I have been talking to more of my friends about how dangerous men are. How we need to look out for one another and share abuse cycles and red flags. Women are at such a high risk to be abused or killed by their male partners. Why is saying that, misandry? And why would women intrinsically trust them spending the night with another woman. Like... How are women being gaslit to this measure?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:44 PM
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Lol, you can only have soft feminine energy to connect with a man? My issue with her response is that if she is having to negotiate being engaged to him, he likely doesn't want an engagement and she should dip out. Not try to convince him to marry her. But no. I talk to my husband like a grown up and make energy is always "feminine" because I motherfucking woman. The idea that you need "soft feminine energy" to connect with a man is the same idea that they aren't fully-formed adults and need som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:25 PM
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I have Endometriosis and I can't be on top without sex hurting, but reverse cowgirl is actually great. We hardly ever do it but its actually pleasurable...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:23 AM
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For a while this was the definition of asexual... And I would laugh and be like, "guess I'm asexual, because I don't want to get fucked and my orgasm be completely ignored, silly me for thinking this was normal!" It's absolutely ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 09:21 PM
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Oh I totally forgot that part apparently. lol. Yeah. I think it's hard to get over our programming. Internalized misogyny is a hell of a drug. I think in general, women need to be very cautious of judging one another. The I'm not like other girls phenomena is, I feel, reserved only for the women who say that, or say they don't get along with other women, and sometimes when they identify out of being a woman and call themselves non-binary. It's all the same thing, a way to separate yourself from …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:16 AM
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Yeah. I agree. Anne starts off totally as a pick me. April is just awkward, cynical and apathetic. She doesn't mind Tynnifer and gets along with other women. She isn't a cool girl, she's just different and learning to grow up. She actually becomes my favorite character after Leslie. I love that show.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:51 AM
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Oh it's so great. Both Anne and April became such cool women. And it gets better and better. Have fun!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:41 AM
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I agree but they ended up developing her character really well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:33 AM
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Yep. I hooked up a bit and then realized I never orgasmed and decided against it until I got married. It was mostly out of spite but my friend at the time was really supportive and encouraging and then later we started dating and I thought if I went back on it, if jinx myself. We've been married almost 5 years and it was so worth it. Our sex life is kickin and the waiting was perfect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 09:40 AM
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I don't even send them to my husband. I will send some innocent ones with my face is cut off if I want to hurry him home. But they 1. Are NEVER asked or requested and 2. Aren't compromising in anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 04:11 PM
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All those comments too from straight men defending him. Gross. What an awful "friend" to just go no contact because he propositioned her. I'm honestly appalled that so the straight guys on there don't see how fucked up this was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:54 PM
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on you" as a fake situation. For what they don't classify Even then, it's the victims fault because you were: running alone. Walking alone. Dressed in workout gear. Wore a skirt. Wore a tank top. Wore tight fitting jeans. Wore jeans. Being a woman who was alone. Had headphones in. Had the audacity to have a vagina and again, be alone. Wore clothes. Aka. women are always asking for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:14 AM
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I had lots of sex. Hated hookup culture, got burned a few times and decided I was fucking DONE. Decided to wait until marriage and it was the single greatest decision I've made. My husband is incredible. Helped me financially start a business and is so supportive. I know if we have dry spells, he isn't holding it against me and is okay with masturbating. Doesn't pressure me for sex. Doesn't make me feel like our marriage is failing if we don't have sex. Doesn't make me feel like he's going to le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 09:04 AM
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I'd be so much further in life if I had a dick and all the privilege that brings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 08:55 AM
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Same thing with my husband. Wrote a list and the next day, a friend introduced us. We were friends for a LONG time but he was exactly what I wrote down. We stayed friends and slowly became best friends as I dated other people. Eventually we fell in love and got married. When I find the list, it still freaks me out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 08:48 AM
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