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I think my true unpopular opinion is that these dudes that can’t get women should end up dating each other. Sword fight it out via cock, and the loser gets to be the woman in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:08 PM
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Sure, pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:39 PM
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If being immoral is what will get you women then why are you complaining about it? Is your stance really not helping you? https://preview.redd.it/atngdvd62knf1.png?width=3264&format=png&auto=webp&s=928d9f22ac99301ca7622eac270fe59efa9dfb49
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:33 PM
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Darwinism is happening to the animals called humans as nature intended. If men are not going to be kind and empathetic, they will die out and only those traits desirable to women may continue living on. If boring men want a chance maybe they should think of ways to be more interesting. You know, like take responsibility for oneself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:28 PM
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Unattractive men can improve their chances of mating and procreating by harnessing and developing the trait of empathy and compassion.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 02:18 PM
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Wait until someone asks, “If you were a woman, would you date yourself?”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 01:14 PM
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That’s pets in general, or trad wives
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:12 AM
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I’m in criminal justice and the cost of the death penalty is in the millions. It all gets paid upfront, and then taken from taxpayers via the following year. It’s less expensive to house prisoners, and if you believe in second chances, investing in rehabilitation prevents criminals from re-entering the prison system in the long run. But private prisons exist because of the system we live under, which also hurts tax payers.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:19 PM
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That’s a problem with the criminal justice system and the way they exploit people as a whole. When the prison system makes money from having you locked in rather than placed put, they have more incentive on your guilty verdict. Also, some rapists are let go with the slap of the wrist and end up worsening safety for men and women alike. It’s still part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 01:06 PM
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Your finances will absolutely diminish if you have a child. Self care money is the first to go when you realign your expenses in order to fund the child. Women will forgo doing their nails, hair, facial, etc. for after school activity fees. A woman’s value will always be in her looks on top of whatever skill she has as seen by society. Men will say “women hit the wall at 20-30” but not realize she’s 50 because she takes care of herself. Pretty privilege has been well documented and women who are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:08 PM
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Same. Dual income and no kids means we can vacation anywhere for a week minimum and we spend life for ourselves and indulge in whatever hobbies we want. We have so many more date nights where we can explore everything the city gets to offer and splurge on things without a second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 11:10 AM
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I mean the point that OP made about being a single mother is frown on by society is absolutely true. A majority of the population do not see single mother as saints who sacrificed themselves for their children but people who “chose wrong” to put it lightly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:58 AM
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Pregnancy can change women’s biology permanently. Some women lose their eyesight, have it return after birth, but their vision will never be the same. On top of weight gain, which is often regarded by men as unattractive, and risk losing an entire relationship because “you’re not the woman I fell in love with anymore”. You’re not just tied to who the baby’s father is for 18 years (if you plan on co-parenting to make sure your children are mentally healthy), but your entire life as being a mother…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:56 AM
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My argument was literally, “Chad has less incentive to kill than nice guys”, try having a boy of reading comprehension before you start typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 02:36 PM
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I’ll do one from a cultural perspective, “Rouse him, and learn the principle of his activity or inactivity. Force him to reveal himself, so as to find out his vulnerable spots.” Clearly I’m pulling it out of your ass, it’s the same place where you found a war criminal’s quote and the homosexual urge to put regular dudes into Chad positions. Gang violence comes from the individual’s upbringing through the nature they are born into and the nurturing they are given. Violence is bred by poverty and …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 04:14 AM
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Not to mention the amount of feminists who are mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 02:24 PM
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None of those for the description of “chads” unless you find them attractive by your own standards. Men in power does not mean they’re chads. Even then, it doesn’t change the definition for chads would be 6ft+ and 6 figures. You didn’t even categorize the rapists properly. “Agenda driven”, which is also known as a college education for the anti-intellectuals who use anecdotal stories as evidence. Deterrence theory explains, not excuses the abuse of individuals by those in power. If anything, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:57 AM
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Anti-intellectualism is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/25 05:26 AM
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Chad, by incel terminology, is defined as a 6ft male who makes 6 figures. Considering we most likely live in the US, approximately 14.5% of men are that height, and 17% of men in the US make that 6 figure income. When multiplied, they are (a rough estimate) 2.5% of the population. Looking at Criminology, people (especially men) are more likely to commit crime unless they have some sort of social and financial stability that prevents them from experiencing strain. Strain (bio-social-economic stru…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 07:10 PM
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Send me evidence for your claims then
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 08:10 AM
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You haven’t because you wouldn’t be posting this if you did.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/25 05:57 PM
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Chad has less incentive to kill in comparison to nice guys, he’s not experiencing Agnew’s Strain Theory. I’m not even a feminist to know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 03:41 AM
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You’re the one who used “But Chad doesn’t kill?”, I’m only expanding on your argument with the language you use. If you’ve chosen better, then there’s no need to sweat over Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:31 PM
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Well by red pill terminology, Chad is less likely to kill since he doesn’t have justification. He can get women, making him adored and beloved, he has better access of mates due to his skill sets, he has desirable genes to pass on, and since all Chads are 6ft tall and make 6 figures, they earned their place in society being able to contribute with work and genetics that will advance humanity to rise in power. The defeated male is often violent harboring anger issues for refusing to adapt to Soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:09 PM
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The first thing you must accept when falling in love is rejection and being emotionally hurt. Whether intentionally or accidentally. To love, itself, is a brave act that requires one to (at times) place another’s need before your own. Once you accept this, you can move past heartbreak and sadness in romantic relationships. While it is difficult to date in this generation, it doesn’t mean it’s impossible. You might make mistakes, you might be the one who hurts others, but they are all learning ex…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/25 08:21 AM
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Clearly I’m taking the W because both men and women approach me to ask me out, unlike these red pillers who can’t get a date and would rather blame it on some romance novel lead they made up in their head than their insufferable personality that makes them unlovable in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 08:01 AM
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I’m not even arguing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:34 AM
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Someone’s big mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:26 AM
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It’s sounds like a skill issue my guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:24 AM
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Then dance on your own and find joy in that. If you can’t love yourself how can you expect others to love you? If you can’t compel someone to love you, then maybe you should choose better. Someone who loves you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:12 AM
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Become a person worthy of love and you won’t have a problem finding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:08 AM
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Loneliness is controllable. You can improve yourself and make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:06 AM
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That’s why you gotta treat every gun like it’s loaded.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:01 AM
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Who knows maybe the conversation will help him make friends and end the Male Loneliness Epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:57 AM
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If this is about you trying to get a conversation with a woman about your niche interests, you should try speaking about it with Chad. I’m sure he’d love to learn more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:53 AM
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And despite those differences they are still weapons, are they not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:49 AM
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I mean if we’re going to compare women to objects, why not compare men to guns. If you’ve ever owned, held, or are at the other end of one, you’re always taught to treat it like it’s loaded. This isn’t even about appearance, it’s acknowledging that most crime is committed by men and therefore you should take precaution. Also if she gets assaulted for giving a “Nice Guy” a chance, society will blame her and tell her to choose better. So why not choose better to begin with and not risk it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:43 AM
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That’s how women get sexually assaulted and killed. You should try asking the “nice guys” to be better human beings so they can be loved.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:26 AM
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What’s the shame in experimenting? Unless you’re claiming it’s shameful to lay with a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:20 AM
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If you’re so angry at women fucking Chad, why don’t you fuck him too and find out what you’re missing?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 02:10 AM
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Decentering is a complete change in mindset where you don’t even focus on finding a romantic interest. You live life for yourself and find love and joy in yourself. You attract what you are.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 03:06 PM
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Decenter getting women and being in a relationship, focusing on it makes you reek of desperation and women have intuition to avoid that right away. Instead, live life doing what you love and you will attract people who love to be around you.
/r/ExRedPill06/08/25 06:02 AM
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In California my bf and I see a lot of Indian American guys with SEA / Asian American women. We point it out to each other since we’re part of that group. It’s refreshing to see because I’m Viet and my bf is Indian, we’re both Americanized to the point where we’re in a position that makes it difficult to relate to those who were born in our motherlands, but we’re also Americanized to the point where it’s difficult to relate to the collectivistic social norms. Granted it’s hard to date in this ge…
/r/ExRedPill04/08/25 09:39 PM
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You should take advice from someone who’s life you want to live. If you want sexual pleasure, seek someone whose experience in that field. If you’re looking to settle down in marriage, you’ll have to look for someone whose experience shares these ideas or keeps a good marriage. But if you pretend to be someone you’re not, it falls apart in the end because it’s difficult to keep up the act. You cannot ask to attract someone with good qualities if you do not possess them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 04:36 PM
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Among us
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 08:17 PM
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When biological men give birth I think we’ll see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:57 PM
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Look into schizophrenia.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:55 PM
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We know that not every woman is a victim, but neither is every man. Feminism fights for women’s rights. I’m looking forward to the day when you can name three women who aren’t your family members who love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:52 PM
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Okay then that’s your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:50 PM
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20yr olds still get raped. The perpetrators of which are usually men, and older men too. Even men get raped by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:47 PM
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There’s a high chance that men who fuck teenagers and minors are raping them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:45 PM
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You forget the argument of rape. These studies show the power imbalances of age gap relationships, of which are primarily younger female and older male. Domestic violence where the female is the victim and the male is the aggressor. But if we say that people shouldn’t have sex outside of relationships then men should not be having sex at all unless they’re in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:41 PM
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You’re gonna hate this but https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6076385/ https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3706999/ https://link.springer.com/referenceworkentry/10.1007/978-3-319-19650-3_1433 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/339897287_Generation_by_Gender_Differences_in_Use_of_Sexual_Aggression_A_Replication_of_the_Millennial_Shift
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:37 PM
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And how often is that compared to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:23 PM
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In general I don’t think people should divulge in hedonism, especially not of the sexual kind. Except there’s a power dynamic at play when older men take advantage of younger women. Even if she regrets it, they should know better than to engage in that. Especially since they have the upper hand in experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:09 PM
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If an involuntarily celibate man is desperate for sex then he should receive shame for his desperation. He’s just not smart enough to see life beyond hedonistic pleasures. If men are revered for having multiple sex partners. Then women should not be shamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:04 PM
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Sexually the 22F is more experienced, overall it’s going the 28M since he has more life experiences. One is Gen Z the other one is closer to a millennial, who is 29 at youngest. But that argument is only valid under these circumstances but often men and women around these ages have already have partners in the past. It’s rare to see a 28M virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:56 PM
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Depends if he consents, his age of consent, any power imbalances, and whether or not both parties understand the proposed exchange. If they are both under the age of consent, it shouldn’t happen. If he says no, it shouldn’t happen, and if he doesn’t understand the proposal of sex, it shouldn’t happen. She has the advantage, but if they are both adults, especially beyond the age of 25, then it’s not our business. A power imbalance will exist if she’s 28 and he’s 22, which in this case she knows b…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:46 PM
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If he’s a virgin it’s either his pledge to it or his skill issue. And?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:22 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/qln3dss9w0xe1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=4d344139c6682691da60457fa3623a0146ef7acd At April 25, 2025 at 1:49pm EST.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:19 PM
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It’s the one where you fantasized about me having sex with a 32 year old man, unless you deleted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:17 PM
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In your previous comment you gave the scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:14 PM
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So you’re telling me if a 28 year old man gets into a relationship with your 15 year old daughter, you’re going to let it happen even if their act of coitus is defined by law as rape? Your future children deserve a more compassionate father that has the empathy to understand how harmful that perspective is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:12 PM
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You just fantasized about a stranger online wanting to have sex with an older man, if anyone is delusional it would be you. I can only wish for your future children to give you the taste of your own medicine. Because clearly there is no empathy for you to understand a woman, let alone covet the love of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:07 PM
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You shouldn’t throw words you don’t know the meaning of around. Sexism is the belief of superiority of one sex and the discrimination of someone based on their sex. If you’re going to try and verbally hurt me, do a better job. I’ve seen Chinese netizens and Xbox game chat do worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 06:03 PM
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Not all men are deranged garbage, who are intent on sexually assaulting children, speak for yourself. You do a great injustice to your own sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:56 PM
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“I can imagine you thinking of a guy who's 32 for sex, yes.” Dude this is just gross, an evidence for sexual perversion and deviance. Just because you make up scenarios doesn’t mean it’s true. Also I have a bf who’s the same age as me, who would never date someone who’s 18 because he understands the power imbalances.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:52 PM
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Power imbalances that exist in age gap relationships usually place fault on the older individual. Consider this in the extent of child and parent relationships where the adult in the situation is held accountable in comparison to the child. Especially in a court of law. Young adulthood and adulthood are not the same thing. These grown men know better than to take advantage of someone who has yet to even share the same experiences as they have. I’m a 26F, and I could never look at a guy who’s 22 …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:45 PM
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She should still be able to complain as you do, she’s giving her perspective. Freedom of speech is not one sided, it suits all parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 05:33 PM
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If it’s a hookup it would make more sense that you’re trying to see what you like and don’t like. When you’re in your early years, you’re in the process of finding yourself and therefore trying different things. So younger women hooking up with older men is to see how they like them. They’re also still hooking up with men their own age, and even women too if they’re exploring their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:44 PM
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I was talking about matrimony and relationships, you were speaking of sexual escapades. Men aren’t always responsible if you look at the rate in which single men abandon their girlfriends/ wives and children. Or one night stands that result in pregnancy (for your hookup case). Women are adults but men clearly want teenagers per your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:40 PM
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Women are responsible for themselves but often the men are not. If you look at court trials you’ll see this clearly. Also, there are cases where women who are younger than their male counterparts who end up marrying older men, but the issue lies with compatibility. Where they eventually cheat with men their age since they are more compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 04:35 PM
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Not all women enjoy sex, some simply fake it to not bruise the male ego. If you can consider arguing with statistics or something instead of using a non-strawman argument, maybe you wouldn’t be red pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 03:48 PM
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I’m 25, turning 26 this year and get mistaken by recent college students as 17. I’m also Asian too, and even my Asian friends have trouble differentiating. I’ve been hit on from when I was 13 by adult men (some with a wife and kids), and even till now. When you’re 22, you’re still young, have limited life experience and still developing your sense of self. It doesn’t make sense for a man in his early thirties to rob a young woman of her time when he has options of choosing women his own age. Not…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 02:32 PM
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She was what, a child? How could she have known better when these men had more experienced than her, which resulted in a power imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:33 PM
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