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Or the ones so desperate for a crumb of pussy that they'll do whatever it takes to get some, because if they shoot it down they'll never get laid for the rest of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 12:20 PM
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"Means, motive and opportunity." Means -- a woman willing to cheat with him that he is also attracted to. If nobody is interested in him, then he won't cheat even if he wants to. Motive -- a desire to cheat. Men with fewer options are likely to be exhausted from the pursuit and want to retire from it for good. Opportunity -- a chance to seal the deal. A man who is introverted and prefers to stay at home rather than go out will stay faithful because he has less chances to cheat. Answer: Find a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:14 PM
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Regarding your blue eyes example: Blue eyes reflect more light where brown eyes absorb more light. In Scandinavia where the ground is snow covered much of the year, the white snow and low angle of the sun reflects large amounts of light into the human's eyes. Blue-eyed Scandinavians were able to see better because their blue eyes helped fight snow blindness (when the light reflecting off the snow is too bright to see in). Brown-eyed Scandinavians would have their eyes let in too much light, leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 07:30 PM
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We need a way of collecting data from the postwar USSR to determine if this is helpful. The postwar USSR had a massive gender imbalance because of war casualties. The USSR lost a massive number of soldiers, more than everyone else, and those war casualties were overwhelmingly male. Casualties of gulags, purges and other horrors committed upon their own people by the government of the USSR were also overwhelmingly male. If it was easier for the surviving men in the postwar USSR to find mates? Do …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 10:41 AM
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50/50 isn't good enough without enforced monogamy. To have hypergamy and still not have a large population of incels you need something like 80% female.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 10:15 AM
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Take human growth hormone until you reach 16-17, then switch to steroids until about 25. Don't pay attention in class, that makes you too smart and women don't like that. Beat up on other boys who are smaller than you. Play contact sports like American football. Take a few hits to the head so you get some minor brain damage if you're at all smart. Rob people and use that money to pay for plastic surgery if you don't have a well defined jaw. Women will flock to you because you'll be tall, dumb an…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:20 PM
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It worked out with eleven million people being killed in a gas chamber and a fuckton more than that being killed on the battlefield or in the streets. Do you want that? No? Then something needs to be done about it. By the way there’s a major overlap between fixing this and “the future is female”. Fix the gender ratio and the problem is solved. The ideal gender ratio isn’t 50/50 but something more like 75-80% female.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:21 PM
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This is, of course, because people who have tons of sexual partners are more likely to use tobacco, alcohol and drugs than those who don’t, and we know very well that those things cause cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:39 AM
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"Incels" exist and are real. "The femosphere idea of incels" is a femosphere boogeyman. The femosphere idea of incels is that incels are these dangerous rapist murderers who will violate you and leave your body in a dumpster because your rejected them -- men who have tons of sex are way more likely to harm a woman than incels are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:42 AM
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The fat acceptance movement becoming coupled to the political left fixed this problem. Now chubby chasers get to claim wokeness and fit in with the political left as if they were LGBT or racial minorities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:27 AM
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The thing is this: I gain a competitive advantage over dudes who have a bunch of child support obligations. Even if "welfare reform didn't increase the share of my money that I get to keep", child support reduces the share of my competitors' money that they get to keep. Let's say I work at the same place for the same pay as Chad. Chad has advantages over me when it comes to attracting women -- he's significantly taller than me, trains at the gym for entertainment, and has the facial features wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 05:21 AM
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The money is being taken to pay the back child support. It still gets paid out as a stimulus, it just goes to mom instead of dad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:36 AM
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(This answer is relating to the United States, specifically non-Nevada states in the US.) Hiring prostitutes is illegal here. In fact it's a felony that will land you in jail/prison. Police officers here will have female officers posing as prostitutes, both on the street and online, to bait men into hiring them for sex. She will go dressed as a prostitute, and then when you're about to start her (male) colleagues will bust down the door and arrest your naked ass and drag you off to jail. Your na…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 10:08 PM
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This is false for two reasons: 1) Men lie to inflate their n counts 2) Women lie to deflate their n counts
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 10:45 AM
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Obviously you haven’t seen the recent spike in incest porn. I feel like there’s a lot more people out there who are attracted to their parents or siblings than we know about based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:27 PM
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The expanse of male taste in women can be proven by porn. Remember that porn is a fantasy -- it doesn't have to reflect what women a man can actually be with. But there's porn of women of all races, body types, heights, boob sizes, and ages from just-turned-18 to elderly grandmas. If men universally, or even overwhelmingly, preferred a certain type of woman, that would not be a thing. Porn studios are in business to make money, and if there wasn't a fairly large number of men that liked a catego…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 11:53 AM
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Basically it's more of a "the world would be a much better place if the blue pill was 100% true. Make it so." Most dating sites have places to write about yourself and what you're looking for. We want women to write in them and read them. Select for the guy who wrote several paragraphs about who he is and what he wants. Don't swipe left or right based on pictures alone, and if someone posts pictures but has nothing of substance in his bio, swipe left. Also it doesn't take three months to figure …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 09:15 AM
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That’s...the point. They aren’t actually dying in accidents. Many of the people they claim died in accidents were actually executed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:54 AM
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As they’ve been doing for decades, kill them in “mining accidents” and “industrial accidents”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 05:09 PM
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A lot of the ones on TV are “yours, mine and ours” though — both the man and the woman have kids from previous marriages and then they get together and have more of their own. Or they’re just “yours and mine” like the Brady Bunch. It’s never “single mom has kids and gets a new man to move in with her and help raise her kids without having his own to bring in too”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 05:22 PM
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If that was the case we would start seeing an uptick in “fake weddings” eventually. A fake wedding is just like a normal wedding — the gown, the ceremony, the reception, etc., but nobody files the paperwork for the marriage license. Legally nothing changes. Nobody actually got married because the paperwork was ripped up instead of filed with the state. A lot of preachers wouldn’t officiate a fake wedding — but churches need money to keep the lights on and to do charity work, so quite a few would…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 10:11 AM
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I mean it's actually a thing though. Having a committed relationship signals to women that you are high value and it makes them want you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:35 AM
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But pregnancy effectively -doesn't- exist. There's this thing you can wear during sex and it prevents pregnancy. They were invented in 1855 and they're really easy to use. They're called condoms, and they're passed out for free by the health dept. Therefore there's no more risk and therefore yes I'm worth the nonexistent risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:18 AM
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They are taking that option when it doesn’t carry a threat of jail time. Remember that it’s illegal as hell in the US and carries a prison sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:40 AM
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False. You underestimate male thirst.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:38 AM
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False. Women are way more likely to be hurt (as in, murdered or raped) by “charming, attractive” men than by “creepy looking” men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 10:04 PM
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Yes but there are men who are specifically into chubby girls and would actually prefer a chubby girl to a thin girl. If there weren’t there wouldn’t be such a thing as BBW porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:30 PM
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Unfortunately this isn’t the case — male thirst defeats this. If it were true and I was one of a select few that could handle fat pussy, I’d be out there buying gallons of herbicide and killing off all sorts of crops at 2 am. Broccoli, spinach, kale, etc., so the only food available is meat and potatoes and carbs that make women fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:53 AM
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As I’ve said time and again, pussy is in short supply compared to dick. Men have higher sex drives than women. Either fix that fact or reduce the number of men compared to women to even out the desire. War is a factor that helps do that. Dangerous occupations are too. And Americans can replicate the effect for our own people today, either by declaring war on Iran/NK or by letting in all the female refugees while banning all the males.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 02:44 AM
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Check the list of female billionaires and compare it to the founders of the companies that are the source of the ladies’ wealth. More were founded by their fathers or grandfathers than founded by their husbands or fathers-in-law.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 03:12 PM
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Most of them got their wealth through inheritance, not divorce. Their fathers were the ones who were rich rather than their husbands. That said, Mackenzie Bezos is your example of what can happen when a woman divorces a rich man.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:50 AM
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Just hire a cleaner? You don’t even have to hire an illegal alien or a refugee, there are Americans (and I assume Europeans) who do it for a living too.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/19 11:19 AM
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She was 5'10" and upwards of 350 lbs, and she had her hair cut really short. She didn't have the "plus size model" shape either, she was kinda blob shaped and her belly was a lot bigger than her boobs or her ass. We had sex on our second date. I never had a problem with her body. Quite the opposite, in fact, I loved how she would jiggle during sex and squish when I touched her. We were together close to two years. She liked having sex and was actually attracted to me. She was really soft and war…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 07:26 PM
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M31. Last year. The woman who approached me was a single mom but she qualified for MILF status. She became my girlfriend for a bit over a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:13 PM
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Yeah it’s called Brexit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:47 PM
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Guns exist. You don’t need physical strength to overpower him, just point a gun at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 03:27 PM
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So this is a thing. I have personally experienced this. I’ve dated ladies that are, objectively, ugly. And as we got closer, even though I had to force attraction at first, it got easier until I didn’t have to force it any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 07:42 PM
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Felt threat actually correlates negatively with real threat. Attractiveness in males is often a function of height and muscle, so a more attractive man has longer reach and more muscle than a less attractive man. Additionally testosterone levels play a role, with higher T men being more attractive. T levels also correlate with violence, so a more attractive man is more likely to have violent tendencies than a less attractive man. It’s going exactly counter to risk of physical threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 05:29 PM
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Females absolutely put out such a message. You never see females chasing lonely virgins do you? No, they chase guys with high n counts and claim that virgins must have something wrong with them. This is a reason for guys to lie about their sexual pasts — it signals to females that they are desired, and thus desirable. “Fake it till you make it” in action, literally the advice given by practically everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 10:19 AM
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A bottle of wine is cheap. Even a decent bottle is only $10-$20. You don’t need to buy a hundred dollar bottle of wine, in fact I’ve had better experiences with bottles in the 10-30 range than 100+.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/19 09:08 PM
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Because Chad banned hookers because he wants to be the only one getting sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 05:12 PM
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This needs to be a strategy taught in abuse shelters: “only date a man if you’re confident you can kick his ass”. It would prevent a lot of abuse if the potential victim can just beat the snot out of a potential abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/19 03:08 PM
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It is, but only if you pick the right men to use it on. Look for a guy who is low achieving in the career department. A man with a six figure salary does not find your six figure salary attractive — he wants a housewife who will raise his kids while he’s earning big bucks. But a man who didn’t finish college, owes thirty grand in student loans from trying, and works in a warehouse while living at home cause he doesn’t make enough money to pay his loans and have his own place? He will find your s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 11:48 AM
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“Why do so many men tune into porn, tune out their available wives and then wonder why...” You’re putting the cart before the horse. When men have sex often we don’t watch porn. When we are getting sexually satisfied by a real person, we stop watching porn. Porn is a poor substitute for the real thing and we only use it when we aren’t getting enough. (There’s also the part where unenthused starfish sex may not be better than porn.)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 10:00 AM
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I don’t really get the male obsession with n count. All my exes have had n counts of like 20-40 except one. (My own n count is six. At age 31. And I am male. All but one of them I’ve had LTRs with.) It’s irrelevant to me. I don’t quite understand why it’s an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:14 PM
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So what is the difference between a friendship and a relationship? Physical contact. Sex, but not just sex. Kissing, touching, cuddling, etc. If you aren’t getting physical contact, you aren’t going on dates, you’re hanging out with a friend. There’s nothing wrong with that, but if I’m looking for a partner to have a relationship with and I’m getting a friend then that’s not what I’m after.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 07:03 PM
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No. False. 1000% false. That’s the main BONUS of dating apps. It eliminates the thing that makes arrogant assholes attractive. It lays everything bare. Facts get presented, interests get shown, and introverts are allowed to exist. Offline people literally fear introverts and think we’re mass killers or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 10:00 AM
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So I know most men aren't like me. I realize this. I had casual sex one time. I hooked up with a coworker one time. It kinda felt...empty? Like it felt good physically, but it made me miss what sex was like with someone I deeply cared about. It's better when I can lay her down and kiss her all over, touch her, see things she likes and do them, kiss her right as we finish, and then snuggle her after we towel off. It's a lot better with chubby/BBW girls too, and I'm sure that factored in (my hooku…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 10:17 PM
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Part of why black women struggle on dating sites is because most of them only want black men and post it as a bolded all caps notice. I’ve lost track of all the black women I wanted to reach out to that said “black men only” and stopped me. Blacks are roughly 13% of the population. There’s also a large number of black men in prison, enough to skew the dating statistics. They’re actually restricting themselves to about the same percent of the population as gay men are restricted to. Black men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 07:09 PM
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People do use them, that’s why Match and OKCupid are still in business. And they work exactly how you think they do, like the older style OLD platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:59 PM
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Well it’s politics. It’s supposed to be dry and boring. Having a “personality” in politics is how we got our current President.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 06:45 PM
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Absolutely. I’d rather her be like 30-40 pounds heavier than female me would be, but everything else would be perfect. She’d even understand how my mind works because hers would work the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 04:16 PM
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It’s a trap don’t do it. Women can tell and would assume the guy is looking for a beard instead of an actual date.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/19 05:52 PM
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Exactly. A standard is something measurable on a sliding scale (even if it’s subjective), such as height, attractiveness, or wealth, where one side is inherently lower than the other. Sliding to one side increases SMV/RMV while sliding to the other decreases it. Compatibility is a value that needs to be shared for it to work, such as political beliefs. Sliding to one side doesn’t inherently increase SMV/RMV. While it does for an individual buyer, it lowers it for another buyer. (There’s a clear …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/19 11:20 AM
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Question: I've self-published one novel (modern fantasy, ~82k words, for reference that would be the same length as Chamber of Secrets) and sold maybe a dozen copies. Am I a writer?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/10/19 11:14 PM
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"As long as she isn't eating crayons" -- pretty much. It's not a sliding scale -- either she's smart enough to date or not. More intelligence doesn't equal more attractiveness once she's dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/19 11:06 PM
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I've never understood why a man would want a virgin anyway. I'd rather have a woman that enjoys sex and knows what she's doing than one who thinks of sex as some horrible sin and has never done it before.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 08:36 PM
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The difference between a job interview and approaching someone in a bar is that for a job interview you’ve sent that person a document with your name and a list of accomplishments that does not include a picture before you meet anyone face to face. First contact for a job interview isn’t them looking at your face. It’s them reading your resume. Many jobs also have skills tests or personality tests that are attached to the application. Before they look at you in the face, they already mostly know…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 02:22 PM
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The issue is first contact. First contact is hard to succeed at. Looks and perceived social status are all that matter at first contact. OLD actually helps more than hurts with this, because it can help you make first contact with non-looks strengths, but the format of many OLD sites still makes looks mostly everything (more serious sites like Match and OKCupid put more of a highlight on personality traits, less serious sites like Tinder make it almost all looks-based). You can get better precis…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/19 01:30 AM
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Unfortunately not enough black girls figure this out. If they did it would be easy for this white guy to find one.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/10/19 04:50 PM
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Part of this is my rule: never go on dates with women that you met outside of purpose-built dating sites (Tinder, Bumble, OKC, POF, etc.). The exception is when the conversation is recorded. Meeting her on a dating site means she’s intentionally looking for a man for romance and/or sex. It tells me her age, sexual orientation, availability, and birth gender, as well as preferences. I can swipe left on girls that state that they want country boys, or black men, or men that make over 100k/year. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 05:11 PM
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Because the stakes are so high. We’re talking about actual life and death. We’re talking about the permanent destruction of all of one’s hopes and dreams and consignment to a torturous existence. It’s like saying “why does a woman care about murderers when she goes on dates?”. In the woman’s case, it’s immediately life and death — she goes on a date with a murderer and he kills her, or he rapes and tortures her, etc. In the man’s case, it’s more metaphorical life and death, but it can and does l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/19 04:52 PM
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This is a corollary to how men are, on average, stronger and faster than women. Women are more flexible and durable than men. Specifically, women have higher pain tolerances than men. This is necessary for the purposes of childbirth. Men needed their low pain tolerances so that we stop and retreat when injured during hunting. Retreating and letting the rest of the pack take it down can mean the difference between surviving being gored by a deer and dying from being gored by a deer. In modern tim…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 04:13 AM
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