Essunts Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Help! Media for deprogramming?		Essunts	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/25 06:45 AM

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3	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men Oh and the last thing I’ll say is I hear you saying you only want sex, no relationships, and you only want the most beautiful women. Which means you only prize women for their appearance—and if their appearance meets your particular set of standards. Which means, in turn, you asking women to only prize you for your appearance. And then you’re saying it’s unfair when you’re setting up the standard. Do you see the conundrum?	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/25 08:26 PM
3	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men Well if you believe you won’t succeed so you don’t try so you definitely do not succeed. Do you see the problem? This is circular thinking. You can’t break out of it except by some external means, like validation from a woman. Except you won’t get that because you’re stuck in circular thinking where you don’t make yourself available to being approached. Thus you are stuck in a cycle where no internal nor external means can break you out. There is a such a thing as pretty privilege. But it is jus…	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/25 07:30 PM
3	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men Men who know how to flirt, how to banter, how to be charming, also know how to cope w rejection. I think there is an idea that attractive men never get rejected and that is why they are confident, but that isnt true. Attractive men still get rejected, they’re just confident enough to keep trying until they hit a yes	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/25 06:13 PM
3	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men No definitely not. Absolutely not. I think the biggest thing you have to be open to is developing emotional connections w women. An emotional connection improves sex and a woman is more likely to “teach” someone if there is mutual care. But if you’re just going for sex… well I still wouldnt wait then either. The thing you have to be ok with is rejection will happen even if you’re fit. You have to be ok w rejection, which often means trying, getting rejected, and learning how to cope. Regardless,…	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/25 06:06 PM
4	It seems like fat women have a much easier time getting sex and relationships than fat men I’ve noticed a couple things in this thread: you only want women based on looks and assume most/all women are the same when they are not. Women appreciate looks, yes, but that by itself is never enough, even for casual hookups. In general, women’s attraction goes beyond the visual. If women sense you only want women as physical objects, we are much less likely to engage w you even if you are attractive. You live in a rural community. You do not have a wide exposure. You’re likely only noticing f…	/r/ExRedPill	29/11/25 05:49 PM
1	Help! Media for deprogramming? Oh no worries. Actually I wasnt sharing my thoughts in those moments; I was quoting my red-pilled family who has learned this story of women being stay-at-home gold-diggers who only married their husbands to use as a wallet, and who now, because of feminism, dont even want to cook or clean while being a stay-at-home gf. Does that make sense?	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/25 08:01 PM
2	Replacements for interpersonal relationships? Hmmm well thanks. I appreciate careful observation and clear thinking, as well as chaotic muddled pursuits like human nature. Why dont you find people interesting? is the first question to ask in this process	/r/ExRedPill	16/11/25 03:01 AM
2	Replacements for interpersonal relationships? Thank you. That is very kind. I wish you tranquility in return. And I can only say that I see OP expressing fear of rejection. I personally find people very interesting, far outside their interests and hobbies. I might not be interested in every person but in general, I am fascinated w what we are all doing here, what is the point, and why. I can only imagine you must be curious about something. The human animal is a social creature, down to the fact that we are bipedal—which means now we die gi…	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/25 05:16 PM
3	Replacements for interpersonal relationships? There’s a lot of fear of rejection I see in these comments, which is natural and human and we all have some of that. But when you have too much of that fear, it creates a lot of stress and tension when you’re relating to others. I know it’s a cycle: Im terrified of being rejected which in turn increases me getting rejected. I think the solution to this is not to flinch. Like putting your hand near to flame, dont flinch and flee as soon as it gets close. Weather it. Im not trying to undermine emo…	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/25 04:46 AM
2	Help! Media for deprogramming? Oh thank you so much! I have to say I did laugh at the Clockwork Orange reference. I have spent a lot of time also pointing to reality, like how many households does he know—in this day and age—where the woman stays home and the husband does all the work? Probably none. No matter that these kind of situations often end up oppressing the woman, they barely even exist. Not in our social class anyways. He will def watch videos, it’s just a matter of did he understand it? I feel like part of the app…	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/25 03:52 AM
2	Help! Media for deprogramming? Great, thanks!	/r/ExRedPill	15/11/25 03:36 AM
2	Help! Media for deprogramming? Do you have a presence on youtube or other social media or is it only tiktok? Appreciate your response!	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/25 05:23 PM