EstablishmentDry1988 Archive

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2	Sharing a man? The hard part is not having any legal skin in the game when it comes to marriage. If he dies or decides to get a different young woman to mold and kicks you and your babies out, then what? Or tried to take full custody of the kids and just says goodbye to you, in theory he’s got all the money and you’re grifting off his business, a judge could decide to give him sole custody if he wanted it. Idk if there are legal contracts that can be drawn up, but that would be important. There’s just no guara…	/r/RedPillWomen	04/03/25 02:38 AM
3	What are little things you do or say for your man to show him love? One commenter ,mentioned not fully submitting to a boyfriend and I agree. Get very clear on your non negotiables, your preferences, and the outlook of this relationship first. Men don’t get a lot of compliments; I’m always telling my husband how sexy he is and I get specific, “your tattoos look amazing in this lighting.” Making his life a little easier by ensuring his uniforms are always clean, making him a yummy smoothie. 99% of the time I’m very enthusiastic about sex and am happy to initiate …	/r/RedPillWomen	25/02/25 02:55 AM
16	how to NOT be jealous of porn? “It’s not acceptable for me to be with a man who watches any form of pornography. It hinders my desire and attraction and strains how I show up in our relationship. I would love a healthy sex life with you. What actions can you take to reduce and eventually eliminate your pornography use?” Be firm with your boundaries, use I statements, get curious and ask open ended questions. Then back off. Observe any behavior changes and celebrate the small wins (satisfying penetrative sex, him openly talkin…	/r/RedPillWomen	28/12/24 06:39 PM
3	How to act in your feminine energy? I think Anna Kristina came up with this, picture a white light/aura surrounding the people you engage with. I’ve started doing this and it instantly softens my approach to the conversation because I can also be bad-tempered or quick to get an attitude. Her podcast is pretty great for learning about receiving, surrendering, etc. to inspire the masculine energy in the men in your life. Also, fall in love with yourself. Learn who BambiUndercover is. I saw another video that recommended asking yours…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/12/24 07:59 PM
8	Field Report and Discussion: Things are more dire for men than I realized I haven’t met many women who are using men for sex, but I can see his point of looking for someone kind. A lot of women I’ve been around are totally entitled, uninterested in an opinion or thought that’s not their own. I also have met many women just totally unwilling to change “for a man.” Even if that change is better health, communication skills, and a stable relationship and life.	/r/RedPillWomen	07/12/24 09:57 PM
1	Just got my black card removed It’s nice to see some RPW supporters here. People equate incel RP with the mindset that sub has and it’s just not related at all.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/09/24 02:10 AM
13	Low effort on dating apps I believe your standards for a man you don’t really know are a bit too high for men swiping on dating apps. If the profile caught your eye, what is the harm in texting the guy? You can create a Google number just for this purpose if you feel unsafe giving out your real number. You’ll know almost immediately if he’s ready to take your budding friendship from the web/texting to dates/vetting.	/r/RedPillWomen	30/07/24 11:38 PM
1	Could women unconsciously sabotage other women's relationships as a form of mate competition? Great advice!! Early on in our relationship, my fiancé emphasized protecting our relationship, especially from women who consciously or subconsciously hate men.	/r/RedPillWomen	28/06/24 04:56 PM
8	Do you guys have any workout advice? The process isn’t going to be THAT fast, but beginner’s often make the most progress in a small amount of time in their first year of taking fat and weight loss seriously. Cooking at home is great! Prioritize protein in every meal, like 30-40g of protein per meal. This will help you stay full for longer and help with the muscle building process. A lot of people lose the most calories from the movements they do throughout the day outside of dedicated gym time. I go for a 10-15 minute walk after e…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/06/24 02:37 AM
2	Porn addiction in men (reasons to avoid?) I’ve been blessed to be with a man who does not masturbate nor watch porn. He stopped both about 6 months before we started dating and this encouraged me to stop those habits too. I can’t speak for the other side but I find the advantages to be incredible. He has pure love and adoration for the natural female body, sex doesn’t last for hours, his sensitivity has remained in tact, and we have a really healthy sex life. I’m incredibly grateful and can say that my sensitivity, etc. increased when I…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/03/24 07:47 PM
2	Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into you What are folks thoughts on a man wanting to be more financially established? He’s got a job now and is currently in school for a trade to start his own business. I’m 24 and he’s 28. We have been together for 2 years, lived together for 1. We’ve talked about marriage and we both want more stability, especially since we don’t want to settle down/buy our first home in the state we live in. Any advice or thoughts? I have been having this gut feeling that maybe he isn’t the one because I see on the w…	/r/RedPillWomen	07/07/23 05:04 AM
16	Need advice on relationship You deserve a man with self-control. You will always wonder if he is cheating on you or using pornography. You’re in your prime. Don’t waste it on this situation. He needs to be alone to cultivate his faith in Christ. He is being ruled by his emotions and his flesh. You simply deserve better. He cheated on you. You let this fly now, he will betray you again.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/05/23 01:50 AM