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Agree with you mate, the older you get the harder it is to get the traditional kind of woman, the sort which is usually more loyal. I never really understood women who have problems with a guy who slept around lol, after all he rarely will cheat cause he already experienced what he wanted to experience. Just an indicator for huge insecurities
/r/seduction25/06/20 03:13 PM
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This. I dont know why so many guys keep pondering if they're in the friendzone or if the girl is really into them. Just ask her out man and you will know. By the way, your profile name is fantastic hahahaha
/r/seduction25/06/20 09:54 AM
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hahahahhaha
/r/seduction25/06/20 09:52 AM
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Remember, many girls are on dating apps only to get approval. I had so many conversations with girls about this, many of them are just there to get distracted. Secondly, you should be familiar with the process. When you started cold-approaching, initially you were also kinda attached by the outcome and then over time your emotional immune system builds up and you simply dont care anymore. It is the same for online gaming. Just takes some times bro but the same principles apply.
/r/seduction25/06/20 09:50 AM
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No man I think its actually fairly balanced - you got the traditional girls as well as the fuckgirls. However it is shifted depending on the demographics. So for 20year old girls, they usually want to fuck around and "experience life" but as you get older there will be less of those (depends on what your target group is though).
/r/seduction25/06/20 09:46 AM
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Bro the virus won't last forever - and if you're a guy your "golden gap" is actually bigger than you think. You can easily go pimping 20year-olds until you're 35.
/r/seduction25/06/20 09:42 AM
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Can be anything really. Maybe he got stuck in that PUA rabbithole and is now applying oldschool game techniques (Hot and Cold; Push n Pull etc.), maybe he lost interest in you. Text him and if he does not answer after one or two weeks write him off.
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:50 AM
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Yeah I don't think the people on this sub will disagree with you - it's pretty much consense both in old-school PUA game as in the new stuff not to put girls on pedestals for various reasons.
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:48 AM
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Regarding girls: go out and approach and then escalate. Will be hard at first, but get easier over time. Read books on how to become more social, read How to win friends and influence people, join sport groups, hobby associations whatever to get friends. Getting friends really is the prerequisite to everything else you try to achieve.
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:47 AM
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Did it and it helped in several ways. You will appear less needy, firstly because you can't write her/think about her that much when you are busy working on yourself and secondly because you will become less needy if you feel grounded in yourself. Girls also like it when guys are goal-getters and disciplinedly getting what they want - something that is also conveyed when you visibly work on yourself. That being said don't use it as an instrument to attract girls but WORK ON YOURSELF because of y…
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:46 AM
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Has to do with culture.
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:42 AM
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This ! After this quarantine, we all are gonna meet our peers again and there will be visible divide between those that have worked on themselves and those who did not. Perfect time to change. Work on your physis, work on your Inner Game, read, eat clean and do all that shit you said you did not have the time to do.
/r/seduction18/04/20 10:41 AM
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Yeah you are the average of the five people you spend the most time with. That being said it's sometimes also necessary to allow yourself to truly change. If you are around the same people all the time, they got a certain solidified view of you and you and your subconcious got a certain view of who you are around them. If you get new friends, deep-level change is easier since you get to decide who you are around them, you can reinvent yourself so to speak.
/r/seduction16/04/20 11:47 AM
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Agreed brother.
/r/seduction14/04/20 05:29 PM
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It is so easy right? Nonetheless 70% of the posts here are exactly asking this. It's always about escalating. It's no big deal, if you don't try you lose anyhow
/r/seduction14/04/20 05:24 PM
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Sounds like humble brag to me. You know the answer already - escalate. How? Kiss her, touch her etc. If you try to kiss her and she rejects you? So what, learn to deal with it, it's no big deal and normal part of game. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take bro.
/r/seduction14/04/20 05:22 PM
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It's not the strategy you're looking for - sure some girls will receive you as more attractive or at least more popular when you hang out with hot girls on a regular basis but for that to happen you would have to meet you target girl with your hot girls around. It doesnt sound practical to me. It is a minor factor, that might improve your game by 3,5% but other things are way more important (e.g. regular cold approaches, confidence, self-amusement, looks).
/r/seduction14/04/20 05:21 PM
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Yeah which is exactly what I highlighted in that paragraph lol...
/r/seduction13/04/20 06:53 PM
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google IOIs - there are exhaustive lists out there. Learn it. Then when you see them infield, make a move.
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:47 AM
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This.
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:47 AM
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Stop fishing for compliments. If you rlly want to improve your game, go and escalate it with the girls. If they reject you, learn how to deal with it since its a normal part of game.
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:45 AM
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You don't understand game at all.
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:43 AM
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You should elaborate on why you don't think its true. The way I see it, being productive and having several projects in life is helping your game: you show that you got goals in life and now what you want out of life and go get it; you necessarily don't ponder minute by minute about girls, simply cause you don't have the time to do it etc. But mind you it's just one aspect - if you don't game then its worth nothing. But imagine the opposite, you are a loser couchpotatoe type of guy who does noth…
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:42 AM
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Spiking up your conversation is key - if you appear to be someone with the personality of a toothbrush, chances are high she won't engage with you. Works both ways tho.
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:40 AM
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Generally speaking it's still the guy who is doing it or expected to do it. I had several girls telling me that I should be more "gentleman"-like and invite them to stuff. LOL I just didn't care enough about them to do so. Times are changing though, in some occasions I had girls asking me out. In fact in my last relationship it was the girl that was initiating the date haha and she directly earned bonus point from me for having strong will and going to get what she wants.
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:38 AM
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It basically is a gut-feeling that you develop over time, when you get more experienced. Generally speaking it is good not to go "open book" to her too soon. So if you got a girl and you just want to fuck her, don't text her daily, don't tell her your lifestory but use an incremental approach. Push/Pull is a concept that was wildly applied while IN conversation, but it is different from staying mysterious - as push/pull is aimed towards the girl and the mysteriousness mainly is about how much yo…
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:37 AM
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Key is to have balance between both: game and productivity. Productivity alone won't get you far with girls, but it will help tremendously when you're still gaming. Simply because many core principles of game (don't be needy, don't give the girl too much attention) automatically come when you are on your productivity mission and generally living a busy lifestyle.
/r/seduction13/04/20 11:34 AM
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Yeah man we all have been there. My revelation came when I read Neil Strauss' The Game and the depicted concepted of "nice guys", which was something new at that time.
/r/seduction12/04/20 07:42 PM
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What he says on alpha behavior is the answer you are looking for. Also start reading about inner game, there's lots of material out there to help you feel better and more on even ground with so-called "alphas"
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:16 AM
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Seems like you're just starting your journey on pickup and GAME. If you do all this to impress one girl than I got bad news for you: you might suffer from oneitis. Try to improve yourself on several sectors (financially, professionally, socially, physically, visually) and push your comfort zone on a daily basis. That being said be prepared that it might take years to get to a point where it feel natural for you to approach a girl. One other advice that older PUAs used to give when guys where to …
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:13 AM
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Attraction either happens or it does not. The best PUAs out there don't develop crushs on girls that are not attracted to them. Don't try to make it happen, chances are you got oneitis and chances are high you won't be able to change their mind.
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:08 AM
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LOL with enough experience you can still discuss GAME during quarantine. In fact it might be the best time rn to reflect on it.
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:07 AM
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Do your own research on the stuff he recommends. Lately he recommended some silverstuff which apparently isn't safe on your system and can cause serious heavy metal damage to your body. Reishi also is controversial.
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:05 AM
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LOL its not RSDs fault that a chode is not using the advice they're given and gets high on watching their vids.
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:04 AM
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Don't fall into the trap to misinterpret her wanting to go to Europe with you as sexual interest. It could also mean that you are deepass into the friendzone. Meet her after quarantine, make a move (escalate, escalate, escalate) and see where this leads. It's the easiest way to find out and 100% more effective than pondering. We here can't assess your situation enough, since we're lacking all the contextual variables.
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:04 AM
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What you are talking about sounds a lot like old-school game. Don't fall in the trap to think that you can apply their approaches universally - you need to use your social calibration radar, to see if you can use what they recommend in a given situation. Most important here is that these gaming devices don't work with girls you know before - e.g. girls you know from your circle of friends, which you "game" at a party. These devices of game CAN work, if used in the right setting, e.g. gaming in n…
/r/seduction12/04/20 11:02 AM
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Don't overthink it and just be relaxed and chill, giving off the vibe that you could care less how the outcome of the convo will be. You are not their dancing monkey for entertainment, it's a two-way-street.
/r/seduction12/04/20 10:51 AM
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Thats golden advice ! Thank you so much for sharing.
/r/seduction11/04/20 08:17 AM
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Sure, but the chances of getting your message across is way higher if you only meet her a limited amount of time. Everything else will trigger the relationship path.
/r/seduction10/04/20 01:14 PM
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Honestly, given your problems with eye contact and the rest of your text, it feels to me like you got serious issues when it comes to self esteem. It might be advisable for you to visit a therapist to solve the underlying issues. If you decide not to, I clearly respect that and then my advice for you would primarily be to focus on your Inner Game. Read about it (here or on seductionbase) and try to get the basics covered. Mind you, Inner Game only works when you got real life references to manif…
/r/seduction10/04/20 01:05 PM
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RSDTyler is one of the godfathers of my game but he is not producing game stuff anymore. Todd V gained my attention lately, lots of good and practical advice (he also was schooled in the RSD olymp)
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:48 PM
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So this is a tricky one. It is contingent on who we are talking about. Your friends and familys perception of you CAN change from beta to alpha but only if you take a "break" from them, if you have a longer travel or time where you are not present. This way people can perceive that you changed after you come back, but they won't see/accept the incremental change, if they see you on a daily basis. With girls it is even harder, once they put you in one category it is tremendously hard to crawl out…
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:47 PM
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Short answer: yes it will. Why? You will lose tremendous momentum. 6 months without game means losing 6 months in which you potentially could have developed yourself, developed your game and developed your social skills. The amount of content that you will lose if you decide to do this is huge. Wouldn't do it in your position, taking of a month or two should be the max to consider.
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:43 PM
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Common advice I see is that texting should only be for logistics and I think it’s solid advice, but other than that idk OP this is the answer you want to focus on.
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:41 PM
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Bro this is not malefashionadvice and these jeans are way too tight
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:40 PM
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Man I really like your dad haha
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:39 PM
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We need more context bro. But strongly sounds like she's just using you for validation.
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:36 PM
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Brother no that is not true. While these categories certainly do help, you will still get laid when you are a confident penis.
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:34 PM
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Consider a facetime date - dont overthink the date, otherwise you will place too much value on the girl and your RAS will receive her as being on a pedestal and as her being the price, whereas you should keep the mindset of you being the price. Just invite her to your place, drink some wine together, talk and then the formula goes escalate, escalate, escalate...
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:32 PM
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Answer in a witty way - "Watch a movie and then we will see what happens ;)" would be one way, but it does depend on the woman you're dealing with. Some might be turned off by such a statement, cause its quite direct. In that case it might be good to hide your true intention (in the text) and tell her just that you want to hang out with her. I once had a girl asking me if our meetup was a booty call and I responded "No course not, I just want to get to know you better". Of course what happened w…
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:31 PM
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Escalate, escalate, escalate. Show her early on that you want something physical/romantic from her, this way you won't end up in the friendzone. E.g. aggressively flirt with her, apply kino, kiss her whatev. Then you have to choose wether you want something serious (relationship) or something casual. The more attention you give her, the more often you meet her, the higher the chances are that she perceives it as something going in a serious direction. If you, on the other hand, only text her few…
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:28 PM
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There are some books that I can recommend to you, if you are interested in how to handle this essential pillar of your life. So books that tremendously helped me (since I come from a working class family and my parents didn't teach me shit about finances let alone stocks and the like): Rich Dad Poor Dad, Money by Tony Robbins. The latter one has Tonys usual Pathos in it, so if you don't like it, go find another book. All the knowledge is out there and does not cost you much but gives you so much…
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:26 PM
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Damn murdered by words haha
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:21 PM
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Okay brother amazing field report but can you go into further detail what exactly you are doing during these facetime sessions, e.g. what are you talking about, how do you set it up, tricks against awkwardness? Would be appreciated!
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:21 PM
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People keep underestimating what big an impact inner game has on seduction. It is the conditio sine qua non of GAME.
/r/seduction10/04/20 12:19 PM
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As others have mentioned before, all that other stuff is useless when you are not simultaneously working on your innergame as well. So my story goes like this: Being 20, I barely had any success with girls, was skinny af and a fuck-up when it comes to grades or anything career-oriented. So after my final year of high school I went to Asia for a few weeks and during that time I discovered this subreddit and began reading everything about game, I read Neil Strauss' book, which led me to Real Socia…
/r/seduction07/04/20 12:09 PM
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Thanks for sharing man
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:17 AM
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hahahahha
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:14 AM
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Where the hell do you live where 5ft9 is considered short haha
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:14 AM
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In contrast to the other comments in this thread, I actually think that you are doing the right thing. Hit her up maybe once a month and then again once the quarantine is over, everything else will lead to the convo getting stale or you having a connection to her but not an emotional one (how could you even develop an emotional connection to her, given that you cant touch, kiss whatever her). I am texting some of my girls, but just because I already established a lover-frame with them (we kissed…
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:12 AM
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I think I got the mindset down. I'm just too shy I think. And that is what I need to get over - being shy. I would have had sex already if I wasn't so shy, can you give me advice about that? Approach, approach, approach. It is the most uncomfortable thing to do cold approaches, especially if you are an introvert but trust me it will get better over time. The more you do it, the less you will care about it. Try reading about inner game (either her or over at seductionbase) and work on that one. T…
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:07 AM
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I don't agree with this. Fundamentally lying to a girl to get her to sleep with you is the most desperate thing you can do, will not lead to sustainable success and above all its not even practical: the girls will sense it early on. Try to work on having a lifestyle that authentically allows you to display confidence. A little lie here and there is fine and elevates your game but fundamentally lying about who you are will destroy your self-esteem subconciously and can't be the goal you have in m…
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:00 AM
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Even though there is no shortcut to improve your game, being self-amused, cocky&funny and being outcome-independent will elevate your game (or fuckboi status, however you want to call it). ​ Correct but only because I see it as the way I'll finally have sex! So I get my hopes up. But I recognize it's wrong. See but this is part of the problem, become less attached to the goal of having sex. Oftentimes you will find if you are less needy for sex and less pushing for it, you will receive more attr…
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:56 AM
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So basically what women tend to do when you flirt with them is they test you to see if you are congruent and self-confident. The reasons for this might be evolutionary (high social status of the men being highly important for the womans and her offsprings survival). So an example for this would be a girl that you're dating telling you "Omg no way, am I really taller than you?" or "You look fake with all that muscles". They don't necessarily mean it, but they are interested in your reaction, are …
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:47 AM
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you're welcome brother, we are all in this together. Can't wait to go and work on game again once this is all over
/r/seduction06/04/20 04:28 PM
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If you text your chics, always have a purpose in mind and escalate. Don't just write her "just because". So limit your texting in the quarantine since it leads nowhere, and the longer you text without escalation the sooner you land in the friendzone.
/r/seduction06/04/20 04:08 PM
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Just say "Hi, do you got a minute? Sorry for interrupting but I thought you are really cute and I wanted to give you my number". Always apply social calibration, that is see if your behavior fits the situation. If you sense its okay to interrupt (aka the girls do not look like they are having deep talk right now) than you can approach.
/r/seduction06/04/20 04:06 PM
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Show her that you got some boundaries, but don't do it if she's simply shit-testing you. Shit-tests are part of the game. But you need to have boundaries such as "if she starts smoking, I am going to leave her" and you should show her that but show it to her in an unemotional manner.
/r/seduction06/04/20 04:05 PM
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Would not approach right now, given the situation and all everyone is socialized rn that intimacy and proximity is a possible health danger. And asides, you got no room to date or escalate even since the quarantine is still going on, so...
/r/seduction06/04/20 04:03 PM
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I just commented on your other thread haha but boy you sound way to clingy, probably your game sucks. If a girl shows connection and you are instantly going to date her, then this may come off as needy. Or the girl is just a dumb bitch, then just write her off. Attraction either happens or it doesn't, dont desperately try to make it happen or "change a womans mind". Also the reason why "getting out of the friendzone" doesnt work in 99% of the cases.
/r/seduction06/04/20 04:02 PM
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It all comes one to one thing: become loss needy. The fact that you state that you become too attached to quickly is a result of your scarcity of experience with girls. Trust me, I was once like you are now, if something happened with a girl I instantly got attached to her and thus decreased my chances with her. Ever since I worked on my life, my career, my physique, got hobbies and a purpose that is way bigger and more important than girls. Result is that now I am completely relaxed when it com…
/r/seduction06/04/20 04:00 PM
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Liked your post, especially agree with the last part on how the old cultures influence us! Neediness as well as vulnerability both play a huge role in attraction - the less you show of both, the better your chances with the girl. At least in the early-game.
/r/seduction06/04/20 03:57 PM
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Bro don't directly assume that you are too nice just because one girl dumped you.
/r/seduction04/04/20 12:12 PM
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Brother we can't really tell based on the info your giving us. She clearly likes you, but is that because she likes you as a friend or because she wants more? We can't tell. Easiest way for you to find out is to go on a date with her. Don't make it awkward and ask her "Do you want to go on a date?", this will just create tension, but just ask her to hang out with you. And then its your task to physically escalate, you have to make a move, try holding her hand, kissing her or whatever. Based on h…
/r/seduction04/04/20 12:07 PM
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You already understood a lot by not showing her that you feel jealous. You should honestly just accept it, if she is a hot girl then there will always be guys that try to sleep with her, there will always be guys she hangs out with, because she is in demand. And some girls might even try to play there cards and make you a little bit jealous to test you. So if your ultimate aspiration is to get a hot girl as a girlfriend then you have to be able to deal with this, to not give a fuck about it. So …
/r/seduction04/04/20 12:02 PM
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Bro google the term "One-itis", it's back from the golden-era of PUA but it seems like you got a strong case of that. She is not that special just because you think about her all day. Thats your hormons at work and would literally happen with every girl you are attracted to, even stronger when smth. happened between you. So the advice people would have given you back in the day is "Go fuck ten other girls", given your age it might be enough to kiss 5 other girls. Do this and then see how you fee…
/r/seduction04/04/20 11:51 AM
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100% agreed, many people here tend to focus to much on micromanaging. But rather its about the general frame, the general vibe you have. There will be so many situations which you cant anticipate, which you cant learn from textbook or forums. This is where your solid, unshakeable frame is key!
/r/seduction04/04/20 11:20 AM
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Thanks for sharing! Solid, I will use that
/r/seduction04/04/20 11:17 AM
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Okay here are my thoughts: this girl is taking you as emotional support/back-up for when things are not going well with her boy. She is clearly not interested in YOU as a person, but rather is interested in the validation she can get from you. Worse enough you are falling for it. So if I would be you, I would ask myself, why am I still bothering with this girl. If you are in mindset of abundance or dating many girls, then you would not even think twice about responding to her bullshit. Small Gam…
/r/seduction04/04/20 11:14 AM
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Standard dating conversation rules apply. Ask more questions than her but don’t be an interviewer. When you need to keep the conversation going, suggest things that you assume about her. “You sound like an only child.” Etc. Everybody seems to enjoy that because they always ask why you assumed whatever you assumed and it leads the conversation to interesting spots. In fact if you’re good you won’t have to ask many questions. I had a date a while back through tinder where I set it up but we didn’t…
/r/seduction04/04/20 11:05 AM
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True brother, IMO there is not much sense in trying to build smth with someone new right now. Game dynamics dont work rn since the physical component is non-existing.
/r/seduction04/04/20 11:00 AM
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Agreed, people underestimate how fast they will be able to access their former progress again
/r/seduction04/04/20 10:59 AM
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Bro, it's all about building acceptance and building momentum. For now the only possibility we got is train our mind and focus on our Inner Game so that we can skyrocket once this is all over. We have to accept that we will start with zero momentum when the lockdown is over but in the course of one or two weeks with consistency and discipline Game Skills will come back
/r/seduction04/04/20 10:58 AM
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