EternalRecurrence Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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130	I dumped the guy I was vetting over the birthday gift I received 🍪 One ex of mine commissioned a portrait of me from my favorite artist for Valentine’s Day. I thought the gift was just to visit the artist’s studio and meet him and I was already elated. Then I saw the portrait. They are capable. They just don’t care.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/22 03:30 AM
3	I have an avoidant attachment style You can't build a secure attachment style without adequate mirroring. Learning to be vulnerable as an avoidant is important, but -as my therapist reminds me- not everyone deserves that privilege (I've learned this the hard way.) You say you only open up to your best friend, your mom and some close female friends. I imagine that that's because when you've opened up to them in the past, they have reacted adequately and consistently by offering comfort and support. The contrapositive also applies h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/04/20 08:26 PM