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Well, yeah, but the thing about OK Cupid is that it will only show me the profiles of other people who have marked that they are into non-monogamy, and will show my profile only to those same people. So everyone I see and everyone who sees me passes at least that first hurdle. The filtering is entirely automatic and no time is spent combing through profiles of those who aren’t okay with it. With the other apps, I put it in my bio so other people can swipe left if they’re not cool with it. But th…
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:45 PM
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I like OK Cupid, but that's because I'm married (consensually open marriage, not affairs) and it allows me to filter by non-monogamous. That weeds out the 90% of women that are not okay with fucking a partnered man, resulting in a higher conversion rate for me with less wasted time and energy.
/r/seduction23/09/21 05:23 PM
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STIs spread (generally) through fluid exchange. So if you are having intercourse and you have pre-cum, and she is wet, you are likely to spread whatever is in there. Pulling out before ejaculation, while it may help prevent pregnancy, does not help prevent STIs. If you or your partner have multiple partners, use a condom. Risk is lower with oral sex, but there is still a risk. Many STIs can spread to your throat, or to you from her throat. Anal sex is the riskiest, especially for HIV, because of…
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:41 PM
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What went wrong? You sent a pic of your dick before you knew if she wanted one. Major fail. Dick pics are not sexy and no one wants to see them. Some people are exceptions, but never ever assume the person you’re texting is an exception.
/r/seduction26/08/21 01:27 AM
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She's not necessarily cheating. Ethical non-monogamy is a thing (there is even a sub-reddit for it r/nonmonogamy). It requires open and honest communication. If you don't want to have problems with the husband or at the local bar, you need to find out whether husband knows what's going on and is okay with it. If he is, great! Make sure you understand what the boundaries are, and have fun! If not, then you have to decide if you are okay with cheating and all of the potential fallout when you are …
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:33 PM
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Take half your age then add seven years. Dating anyone younger than that is creepy as fuck. 21 or 22 should be your lower limit. Also, and I can’t stress this enough, DON’T LIE ABOUT YOUR AGE! TBH you are showing some major red flags. I am a public defender and you remind me of my clients who get in trouble for messing around with minors. Get help.
/r/seduction15/08/21 05:22 PM
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I don’t think you did anything “wrong”. It just takes two people to be on board. Any number of things could have happened on her end which you have no control over. Probably best to move on. I know it still hurts but it’s not your fault.
/r/seduction06/08/21 05:47 PM
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Masculinity is more than just a good fuck and making money. Leadership in a relationship goes a long way. Men are a dime a dozen for an attractive woman. You want to stand out from the crowd? Actually show an interest. Don’t overdo it, but make time to be available. Or you’re gonna run into the same problem again and again and again.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:51 AM
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Ask yourself, what does new guy have that you don’t? If you want women like her to stay, then you need to work on yourself to be more like new guy. Looks aren’t everything to women. Even a below average looking guy can land a hot woman if he makes her feel safe, sexy, and wanted. Women don’t want “bad boys”, at least not long-term. Most of them want a good guy with a little bit of an edge.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:41 AM
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“I fucked her, that’s all that matters.” If that were true, you wouldn’t be so bent out of shape about her finding her happiness away from you.
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:37 AM
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After reading all of your responses, I can say, with complete confidence, you’re acting like a fucking idiot. The guys your girls keep ending up with have something you don’t: Respect. You wanna be nothing more than a fuckboi, keep doing what you’re doing. You want someone to stick around? Be better. Treat your woman like a person rather than just a place to stick your dick. Conventionally attractive women can get any dick they want. Why do you think she no longer wanted you? Because your dick i…
/r/seduction22/07/21 05:30 AM
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Advanced users aren’t asking for advice from Reddit anymore
/r/seduction04/07/21 07:48 PM
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True. But “be yourself” has never failed me in the long run. It’s sound advice. When I try to be something different I only end up around people and in situations where I’m unhappy more often than not. By being myself I attract people and situations that add to my happiness rather than taking away from it. If you’re pursing a woman who wants something other than who you are, it’s only going to end up being distressing. Sure it may be exciting at first, but unfulfilling. Not everyone you’re attra…
/r/seduction02/07/21 05:21 PM
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Absolutely agree! Go have fun, be honest and find people that want the same kind of connection you want! My point is that if someone is not being themselves, but trying to be someone or something other than who they are, they are selling a fake bill of goods which is abhorrently unethical. Be yourself is good advice. Improve yourself, sure, but don’t try to be something that isn’t you and string people along in the process, or end up being incredibly disappointing when the facade falls away. Fir…
/r/seduction02/07/21 04:33 PM
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I think it depends on what you’re looking for. If you’re looking to bang them then hang them out to dry, sure, get advice from the other douchebag predators out there. However, if you’re looking for real companionship in more ways than just physical, only by being who you are will you find someone that likes who you are. Edit to add: If all you want is random hookups, be honest about that, and find people who want the same thing. But still be you, not something you are not, or you’ll end up hurt…
/r/seduction02/07/21 03:11 PM
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That’s exactly it right there. She just told you how awkward and uncomfortable she feels when men do shit like that, and you do it anyway. If they don’t feel safe with you, it’s not going anywhere. Some women enjoy that kind of aggressive attention, most do not, and usually those that do only enjoy it if they already feel safe with you. Gotta learn to read, and respect, the cues.
/r/seduction18/06/21 03:50 PM
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Simple. Make an effort to connect, but also have your own life, other interests, responsibilities, etc. Let her know (show, don’t tell) that although you are interested in exploring a relationship with her, you are fitting her into the rest of your life and not making your life revolve around her. In my experience, this only works if genuine. Insincere scarcity is easy to detect. So get a hobby, a group you regularly go out with, a cause you are involved in, something. This will also help with a…
/r/seduction02/06/21 07:22 PM
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