EternallyRed Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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6	Men like younger women but do many actually attract one? You made a bunch of blanket statements many of which are quite off, so not going to go through them in detail. Two major points you're missing: First, there is a lot of variation by location/state/country. Your examples might be accurate for your city but are definitely not for mine. There are plenty of confident, sophisticated young women with older men. Secondly, and I think this is the big one: you're not seeing them because they don't want you to see them. The college bars are a good example…	/r/askTRP	22/01/21 09:58 AM
2	Input appreciated on this conversation. You’re her orbiter and she just checked in that you’re still orbiting. Let it go, there is nothing for you here.	/r/askTRP	26/10/20 08:15 AM
5	Input appreciated on this conversation. That’s not how it works.	/r/askTRP	26/10/20 08:09 AM
12	Got "tricked" or beta'd HARD. Flew out for a roadtrip with a plate I hadn't seen in months. First night we don't hook up and I assume it's really due to her being sad about leaving her family. 2nd night she tells me "were not like that anymore" and that she wants to be just friends. Why are you listening to what she is saying? She went away on the trip with you. It’s all a big shit test. By getting defensive you failed the test and proved her right - you’re not the type of guy she wants to be with. What would the type of guy she wants to be with be doing? Not sitting in a room having a whine on the internet. Go do fun shit, enjoy yourself, interact with people and have an awesome trip. Then, later, it will ‘just happen’ and she will have a ‘crazy night’ that ‘isn’t like her…	/r/askTRP	15/10/20 09:05 AM
3	To those who went from buff natty to juicy, how did things change on tinder? Absolutely right. OP isn’t asking the right question. If you’re considering juice in relation to women and talking about genetic capacity, you should have absolutely everything else sorted first. Examples of things you should have perfect first: flawless skin (see a specialist, upgrade your routine), impeccable wardrobe (are you always the best dressed in the room), great teeth (when did you last get them whitened), grooming (are your eyebrows sorted). Spend your time and effort in doing things …	/r/askTRP	05/04/19 05:18 AM
3	Will women start becoming less attractive as a whole in coming years? If only one in fifty swipes are fuckable, your profile and pictures must be terrible. Tinder ranks you based on the quality of the likes you receive. If only landwhales are appearing, you’re only getting liked by them.	/r/askTRP	19/03/19 05:35 AM
2	2nd date with dating app girl at club, i suggested we go to her place and she ghosted me once we got into our cars.. where did it go wrong? So? Did knowing that work out for you? Read my comment again in more detail.	/r/askTRP	18/02/19 01:31 AM
2	2nd date with dating app girl at club, i suggested we go to her place and she ghosted me once we got into our cars.. where did it go wrong? Why would you try to head to her place? You should have logistics sorted before the date. This is basic sidebar material. Also, any last minute resistance like that I immediately assume she has a boyfriend or nosy friends. Don’t push back, you have no idea what the situation is like, and this is out of your control. You should be pulling her along with your plans for the night, your locations, your frame - not hers.	/r/askTRP	17/02/19 09:42 PM
1	LJBF after sex.. denied it, now im blocked Don't put any decisions on her. You just threw your frame out the window. Don't take it seriously, continue with your day. I would have just replied with "whew" or "nice" and ignored any follow-up messages.	/r/askTRP	02/02/19 12:20 AM
11	I'm so paranoid of cheating now. Yeah, it’s a bitter pill to swallow. This is why abundance is so important though. Both you and her need to know that you’re a damn good option for her, but also that if she was gone, you can have someone just as hot to replace her in less than a week. That will build over time until you realise you reach the point you don’t care any more because she’s not yours, it’s just your turn.	/r/askTRP	31/12/18 12:22 AM
60	I'm so paranoid of cheating now. This is correct. The key takeaway is that men look at value objectively. A woman perceives subjectively, based on how she feels at the time. She can get tingles and rewrite everything in her head so she can act on them and not feel bad about it. You can go from “hot boyfriend that I feel so close to and makes all my friends jealous” to “annoying, works too much and he’s probably thinking about cheating on me anyway” in 30 minutes out with the girls at happy hour. On that note, I don’t allow any …	/r/askTRP	31/12/18 12:11 AM
54	Are all of you really fucking around this much or are some of you exaggerating just how much sex you’re having? After putting in the work you’ll have no trouble. Girls want to fuck and will fuck. You just need to be the one they are fucking. Correct diet, gym, groom, tinder, whisky bar, uber, done. Just don’t try to skip steps. Always follow rules one and two. Also, if you’re wondering whether you have put in enough work at the gym, check that you A) have abs, B) look good shirtless at the beach.	/r/askTRP	29/11/18 07:36 AM
1	When should you confirm date is still on? Text logistics only. You should have made the location and time clear when setting up. If I ever wasn’t sure about a date, I would text once only earlier in the day, along the lines of “Scheduling issues, ran over time. Let’s meet at 8.30pm instead”, if you had an 8pm date. If you don’t get a positive response, just next, it isn’t happening.	/r/askTRP	12/11/18 12:39 AM
16	For those of you who have been married for 15+ years and have never been divorced, what advice would you in particular give to a man considering marriage? That isn’t a unicorn. Don’t let your standards slip.	/r/askMRP	02/10/18 11:08 PM
3	TRP Developers/Coders/Programmers No offence, but that is completely the wrong approach. You shouldn't start by 'working on some basic prototypes' for a large community project. There is no specification, design brief, functional requirements etc. Designing and building a new system from scratch will take a large amount of time, and far longer to polish to the point that the public should be let anywhere near it. Instead I would suggest that the most critical requirement when migrating the community is a smooth transition for th…	/r/askTRP	01/10/18 11:06 PM
1	Rule Zero of this subreddit is that you are willing to help men achieve their self-improvement goals. Here I am, asking for help. Good steps. Keep with the morning exercise, get lifting and get your diet sorted. Not mentioned so far: get enough sleep (8+ hours). You mention you're going to be studying, working and fitting in exercise. You can't compromise sleep and expect progress. This will help with motivation as well.	/r/askTRP	16/08/18 11:40 PM
38	Told GF i’m bored, now she says it’s over. You didn’t have sex with her for five months? She wasn’t your girlfriend. You were her orbiter, and you tried to climb out of the friend zone and she has shut that shit down.	/r/askTRP	12/08/18 04:31 AM
1	High smv/high social circle status guys, what's your take on cold approaching? You’re completely incorrect. Stop posting about this. “It’s a matter of luck”. No, take some personal responsibility and stop being a victim.	/r/askTRP	24/12/17 11:29 PM
1	Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread November 20 I take everything important to me seriously. You should too. I take my career and fitness seriously. I don't care if someone rolls their eyes at the gym if I am there with a buddy discussing specific form for an exercise. This is based on self-confidence and a clear path for my life. The question is whether you value your masculinity and interaction with women. If you don't, then you don't need to take it seriously.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/17 03:53 AM
1	Style advice for high schooler with $200 to spend Not mentioned so far, aim for a wardrobe or range of outfits. If you're buying clothes, don't spend your budget on one outfit. Get a range of complementary items so you can make at least 3-4 outfits. You want to be confident in being dressed well, not the guy with one look.	/r/askTRP	31/10/17 04:40 AM
3	Having a few slut friends have shown me how women can experience the entire spectrum of dating (simultaneously with multiple men), with complete control, frame and ease. Just stop it. You didn't commit. You didn't improve enough. Otherwise, you would have seen improvement. You need to take responsibility for yourself and accept ownership of your situation. Don't internalize yourself as a victim and 'blame' external factors outside your control. That is feminist thinking 101. You might not have started with the advantages of some. Can't change that, so accept and move on. Don't dribble back some MGTOW answer unless you're willing to post pics and evidence of your…	/r/TheRedPill	20/10/17 02:03 AM
8	The importance of controlling your facial expression. We never were meant to. It's a sign of submission and comfort. Sigh. Nope. A forced smile, perhaps - you're literally simulating happiness in order to encourage rapport. Chad walking down the street is smiling away, a huge smile with his teeth visible. He is smiling because he is having the best damn day of his life. He just left the apartment of the girl he met last night, and he is on his way to his next date. People notice as he strides past. Smaller men step out of the way. Two girls having …	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/17 09:04 AM
1	Being Wired Differently Great post, thanks. Had been thinking about something similar over the past few days. Have a lot of changes underway in my personal life, that I foresaw, planned around and have taken in stride. I am surrounded by people that keep asking "Are you OK?", "Isn't this all a bit fast?", "Shouldn't you take things a little slower?". The thing is - I feel fine, and executing on my plan as the circumstances evolve, I actually feel clarity and calmness. I think it is all about frame - maintaining that ho…	/r/TheRedPill	09/10/17 08:47 AM