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Good for you. It's still one perspective. Even in the most researched nooks of psychology there are still more than one opinion and more than one methodology that's been found to be effective. Nobody is saying your way isn't valid. The point is that what you're espousing isn't the only way. If you think there's ever a single right answer when it comes to anything as complex as humans you're extremely close minded.
/r/seduction14/10/13 11:52 PM
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You assumed I need your help. I'm quite happy with my circumstances and I neither asked for your assistance nor need it. If that makes me a douche in your eyes I'm proud of that. As for assumptions about you, the only assumption I made is that what you were talking about was your experience, which you corrected me on: I didn't invent it I learned it (from RSD if anyone cares). If you learned something and it works for you that's awesome, I'm happy for you. My only point was that watching a DVD d…
/r/seduction14/10/13 08:10 PM
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Dude, I'm in an awesome long term relationship with a brilliant and incredibly sexy woman that thinks I'm great. Before that my problem was too many women interested in me. Everything else you suggested about me and what I've recommended is equally wrong. But hey, you watched a DVD. I'm sure you're an expert on everything in life, including me whom you've never met before. Confidence is good. Overconfidence will bite you in the ass.
/r/seduction12/10/13 04:37 PM
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[citation needed] I listened, I just think you're full of shit. And you're the one trolling here. All I've said is that different things work for different people. As I've seen the way I've talked about work for people I'm pretty fucking confident I'm not wrong. You're the one trying to claim your way is the one true and only way.
/r/seduction12/10/13 03:13 AM
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You're the one that brought up professional athletes and said it would be counterproductive for them to do visualizations. Now you're arguing the reason it's OK for them to do visualizations is because they're athletes. I think I'll just let you argue with yourself from now on, you seem more productive that way.
/r/seduction11/10/13 09:31 PM
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For example, if Michael Jordan felt like he had to visualize what a good basketball player would be like that would carry with it the implication that he does not consider himself to be a good basketball player in the first place. You're entitled to your opinion, but such visualizations are actually quite popular among professional athletes. The fact is such strategies are very effective for some, whether they're a pro or rank amateur. Of course everybody is different, so try various tactics and…
/r/seduction11/10/13 08:59 PM
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Role play is a common tactic in psychology to get over fear and learn new tactics. You definitely don't want to go around pretending you're somebody else all the time, but when you're stuck visualizing how somebody else might do something--or possibly just a "better" version of you--might handle something can definitely help.
/r/seduction11/10/13 03:49 AM
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For a serious weight lifter that literally just isn't an option. That would be true for serious weight lifters of either sex. The fact is I've never seen an apartment/hotel/community gym that was equipped for legitimate strength training. It's not some kind of estrogen fueled conspiracy, it's just the way things are. You're free to advocate for better equipment in your HOA. It's within your rights and I wish you luck. But if you insist on turning it into a male vs. female fight not only are you …
/r/MensRights16/11/12 09:00 PM
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If you like to build things consider volunteering for Habitat for Humanity or otherwise donating your time and skills to a worthy cause. Also, watch the local events and make a point to try new things, even if it's not something you think you're interested in. Go on a bird walk. Attend a lecture by an author. Attend a political rally. Take a cooking class. Attend live theater. Go to a cultural museum. Also keep an eye on Meetup.com for interesting activities. Some things you won't like, a few mi…
/r/seduction07/11/11 02:20 AM
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I think it's in-between. There's nothing wrong with casually mentioning an ex in a conversation. If you seem like your entire world revolved around her, or that you're still hung up on her that can be an issue though. In general I'd follow your instincts. If you're unsure or it makes you uncomfortable bringing up an ex, don't. If it's somehow relevant to the discussion at hand and seems normal then go for it, just make sure you don't overdo it.
/r/seduction31/10/11 02:28 AM
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Dating has always been hard. Get over it.
/r/seduction29/10/11 05:49 AM
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I just spent way too long trying to figure WTF ponogamy is.
/r/seduction07/09/11 04:20 AM
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I think it's definitely a sliding scale. It's 100% true for almost nobody, but some certainly care more/less than others.
/r/seduction17/08/11 06:15 PM
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I am so ashamed that I'm laughing at that.
/r/seduction10/07/11 08:28 PM
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I think it's OK to send a follow up message after some time passes if you don't receive a response. I know sometimes I get busy and forget to respond to a message; it doesn't mean I'm not interested. If you still don't receive a response move on. You don't want to be harassing anybody.
/r/seduction10/07/11 08:26 PM
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OKTrends. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/what-if-there-were-not-so-many-white-people/
/r/seduction31/03/11 07:21 PM
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Pay attention to how recently they've been online and how often they reply. I've gotten responses from better than 50% of the people I've messaged. Keep it brief; show you've read their profile; share a little about yourself that relates to them; ask questions so they have a natural avenue for response.
/r/seduction02/02/11 05:28 AM
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