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This is literally the Chad and Stacy incel rhetoric. Fucking highschool and pop culture stereotypes.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/23 08:09 AM
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Gosh you poor thing. These guys need intensive therapy. I can imagine that cutting out the toxic dating apps and all this gender war content would help too
/r/ExRedPill03/04/23 10:11 PM
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Spade is a spade
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 03:35 AM
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Andrew Tate needed a daddy. He idolized his father, who was terrible to him.
/r/ExRedPill12/02/23 01:06 AM
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What you describe is common sense and basic social skills. That's different from being a psychopathic manipulator or some fake fuck.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 04:31 AM
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About 5 years ago I began to question it. I met women who liked me for me. Then it took being away from this crap and getting life experience which helped with some things. Finally I started therapy this year because I was still bad and that has helped me become more comfortable with myself. It helped me learn that people that like me and who are worth it will stick around and it isn't always my fault if someone doesn't. Biggest thing for me was letting go of that need to be in control and keep …
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 04:14 AM
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This is reddit you can't criticize the left here
/r/ExRedPill25/12/22 04:06 AM
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What is more courageous and manly? A guy who expresses himself or a guy who is afraid of what others will think if he does. If you don't then you just end up as a pent up angry fucker idolizes Andrew Tate. Showing emotion and vulnerability is not the same as emotional vomiting and if anyone in your life is worth a damn then they will not care about "frame" or any bullshit. You can be strong and show your soft side. In fact it makes you and your bond stronger if they respect you.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/22 12:37 AM
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As one of the young guys who's mind was warped by PUA and dating advice on the internet, you are spot on about how the demographic is becoming younger and younger. Luckily I never fell down the MGTOW or pure Red Pill jargon. It never felt right to me. But I still suffered from the alpha male pua crap. I was a good looking teenager too. If I had been more confident and bold I could have had girls fawning over me. Yet this stupid shit made me feel like no woman would ever be attracted to me. Now i…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/22 07:48 AM
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For you I would recommend you communicate and tell her your insecurities in an honest and straightforwardway. Vulnerability is actually not weak. It takes vulnerability to have a satisfying and healthy relationship. It's also not the same think as emotionally vomiting which is in fact, needy behavior. It also takes vulnerability to build trust and intimacy Be honest about everything. That means all the crap you learned from redpill.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 05:55 AM
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What is some advice? I have some codependent tendencies I've discussed but sometimes that gets hard to deal with due to distance and uncertainty of the future.
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 04:41 AM
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I never thought I'd root for Jake
/r/ExRedPill13/11/22 12:14 AM
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Talk to married women. Ask about their husbands and why they fell in love with them. Better yet, just look around any Walmart
/r/ExRedPill26/10/22 10:08 AM
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Being sued and being banned are two different things.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/22 01:00 AM
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It might get rid of him but it only makes his false narrative more powerful for those who believe in him and the Red Pill as a whole. The Red Pill will only look more credible and appealing if Tate is censored. It may stop him but it won't stop TRP influence.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/22 12:44 AM
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Banning Andrew Tate makes him a martyr to his cult followers. That does more harm than good.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 11:57 PM
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Red Pill is mentally damaged men preying on mentally damaged women. The only women that would actively want that behavior is someone just as shallow and narcissistic.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 11:54 PM
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Yes you are correct. We have to realize that men and women need each other and we are both important. Same thing with race. The more we focus on race and being white/black/asian the more we label and divide ourselves further. We all have more in common than we are made to believe. Political labels, racial labels, gender labels, sexual labels, and generational labels are all a means of getting us to tear each other apart and not worry about what the very top 0.01% are doing to us.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/22 06:37 PM
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In a way yes. A lot of people on the internet are introverts and the people more commonly into PUA/dating advice are introverts or guys who feel different or smarter than "the masses" so they coined the term "Sigma" which is the idea of the quiet mysterious bad boy/loner type. From what I've seen online, Sigma Male has become a more popular term.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 11:09 PM
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I agree with you, and perhaps I didn't explain it well in my post but that is one of the appeals of any counter culture - to say "Screw the system because it doesn't care about me." So people pick the opposite political side naturally. Politics does play a role. The reason I primarily focused on the right is because a lot of people in these movements are right/alt right. But explaining why a lot of them are the way that they are does involve their opposition to the establishment and the left. Cu…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 06:45 PM
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There is some truth to that. Divorce courts are terribly one sided. Men are in need of father figures. And that is where the Red Pill comes in as the scapegoat father figure. It's a counter-culture and a reaction to liberalism. But just because it seeks to reverse some things that are not beneficial to men does not make anything better. It brings back the old system which is still full of problems. Red Pill promotes a very damaging and toxic version of masculinity which ironically isn't even emp…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 01:14 AM
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Yup. I had a friend tell me he wanted us to be like Andrew and his brother. Hr looked at me like I was an alien for not even knowing who he was. Luckily Tate wasn't around when I was younger and naive enough to fall for that crap.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 12:59 AM
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For me, it was gaining more self worth and realizing that I didn't have to be what others told me to be for me to be worthy of love. The core beliefs of people that try to act alpha is that they feel they are lacking in some way.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 11:24 PM
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Therapy and going outside and have actual experiences.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 10:06 PM
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Those people are the weakest. See how hard they try to prove that they are stronger than everyone else?
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 09:56 AM
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Do you have any hobbies? You may be able to find female friends and even girlfriends from those. Also, I know this sounds so counter intuitive because of what Red Pill and PUA teaches, even for me to some degree, but a lot of relationships that last grow from friendships. I know a few married couples that came from friends. That being said, if you are friends with a girl and start to like her, be bold and honest with her about it. Dating to find a real partner is a numbers game and luck. Chemist…
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 08:07 AM
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No, red pill is about fucking and pretending to be alpha. It is nothing more than that. They use the self improvement stuff to draw in more boys and hide their extremist views behind some appealing and rational advice. But self improvement is self improvement, not red pill.
/r/ExRedPill25/05/22 03:03 AM
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That's what I have realized I need to do. They used the whole "woman subconscious" argument to hide their faulty logic. This shit kept me from asking girls out for years. Now I have some dating apps and a church community my female friend is wanting to get me involved with. Alongside therapy I just need to date more. I've had several girls fall for my natural personality in the past.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 08:52 PM
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Same bro. I wish I never had the internet as a stupid teenager. The cult made me feel not masculine enough. My self esteem would have been a lot better. Fuck every single one of those con artists pushing that cult on young impressionable boys and broken divorced men.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 08:46 PM
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If you do leave him, make sure to tell him the reason is because he is no longer the man you fell in love with. Maybe that will snap some sense into him.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/22 07:12 PM
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They should all get their own island and live on it like Jim Jones and his cult. Can you imagine the shitshow?
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 10:43 PM
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It's divide and conquer. I wish I had grown up without the internet. I'd have been spared all of this psychological trauma. I consciously know it's a load of crap but my subconscious still holds onto it. There are absolutely real psychological tricks that are used. You'll point it out to a lot of guys and they won't even know how bad it is. They'll excuse some behaviors. They'll defend parts of it. They'll say "Yeah but..." I don't think we realize how dangerous the internet can really be with d…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 07:54 AM
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There was a time when I considered myself super smart, but in actuality, I spent all my time on the goddamn internet "learning" things and parroting them despite not having any life experience myself. Now, I don't pretend to know whatever I read or hear online. I admit I know hardly anything. What I did "know" was ALL bullshit. Every single group or cult I was getting my information from was skewed and false. Those false beliefs did damage to my psyche. I'm smarter now, not knowing anything than…
/r/ExRedPill15/04/22 07:09 AM
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You're more likely to meet compatible people doing things you are interested in. Also, you may meet compatible people, but they are married or taken. So yes, it is a numbers game.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/22 01:15 AM
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If you feel unworthy, a relationship will make you feel worse. You will live in constant fear.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/22 10:42 PM
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I'm tired of online cults in general. Everyone thinks they know what is best and that they have all the answers just because they congregate about it on the internet.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 06:05 PM
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like a girl less if you want her to like you more That is a belief I struggle with. I'm afraid of showing too much interest for appearing "beta". Red Pill had me believing that men should always be the less investedHere you are, a woman, clarifying common sense in that women are human beings and attracted to different things, having different attachment styles, yet my mind still cannot fully process it because I was brainwashing throughout my teens. God I hate those red pill gurus. How did you r…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 06:32 AM
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I am very handsome and I was still sucked into the red pill shit because I was a dumbass when I was younger.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 01:37 AM
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That sounds awful, coming from a guy. No way would I be interested in someone like that. Funny how both of these pills from either gender promote being aloof and playing games, so if both parties do it, how is a connection supposed to form. As I've gotten older, I've realized you cannot fake a connection with someone and you cannot fake chemistry. If they don't like you then nothing you do will make them like you.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 03:35 AM
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I understand. I was somewhat into PUA when I was a stupid teenager. Not that I applied any of it to where it worked; I was in school. But, I learned a lot of red pill beliefs that messed me up. Thankfully, I never fully bought into the hypergamy thing but even to this day my mind will spout nonsense about me being left or how the more in love with a woman you are the less she will love you, etc. It's a cult. Maybe I wasn't ever deep enough to where if a woman called me on my bullshit and facade …
/r/ExRedPill30/03/22 10:01 PM
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Talk to him first. Be honest and ask him. Tell him straight up that you know he is putting on a facade, and you don't like it, and you are thinking of leaving him because of it.. This may temporarily snap him out of his hypnosis long enough for him to be vulnerable with you. Red Pill ideology is fear based, and that's one reason why it has such a following. Then get him some therapy. Communication is important for relationships and all of these mindgames and red pill or needy behaviors come from…
/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 10:24 PM
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I used to watch Corey Wayne in highschool. His advice only exacerbates insecurities. Corey makes like it seem like if you do even one thing wrong, women will lose interest in you. His advice really fucked up my self esteem and played on my insecurities and fears. That's why his content is so appealing. It appeals to men who do not believe they are good enough.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/22 07:14 AM
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I'm a guy. I never used the number scale. I always disliked when other guys asked me to rate women on a scale. Either I liked them or I didn't and that was based on a number of factors. Number scales just made things superficial and complicated.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 08:01 PM
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One last thing, stay away from porn. It will harm your sex life and motivation to accomplish your dreams.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 10:03 AM
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Biggest thing is mindset and also knowing what to look out for in a relationship and what you personally want. That can help you understand yourself more and how you want to be treated. I once dated an extremely gorgeous girl but the relationship was very toxic so I had to end it. It really is common and simple. It's not rocket science. Women don't always make sense but be the best you can be for you, put yourself out of your comfort zone, follow your intuition, prove to yourself that you are go…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 09:57 AM
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Just think about it rationally. If you were physically fit, somewhat sociable enough to get to know people you were interested in, did what you loved to do either as a hobby or career, and earned enough money to at least live on your own, and were healthy minded, do you think that at least somewhere in the world there would be women who would be interested in you? The answer is most likely of course! Some would even find you as their dream partner depending on where you both are at in your lives…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 09:48 AM
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Beyond school popularity becomes insignificant. Especially because you change and grow as a person so people who have an image of you from highschool end up either not recognizing you as you changed or changed themselves and either way they don't usually care unless the change was radically different like mine, and most of the time then it's usually based on physical appearance or I went from the skinny, nerdy, quiet guy to the fit, ambitious, talented actor. So nobody who had seen me in a year …
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 09:24 AM
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I mean "out of my league" in terms of popularity I guess and general personality and people I thought of as "basic". Once I actually got to know them they weren't basic at all. I met them through my passions. Passions are an excellent way to find partners compatible with you.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 08:53 AM
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Girl I'm in my early twenties and I know some women 10 to 25 years older than me that I find extremely attractive. You are anything but worthless.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 08:00 AM
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All my girlfriends were from being myself. Some who were formerly "out of my league" liked me once I started following my dreams and working on my personal issues and they got to see the real me. All of them were pretty attractive. Now that I am in a good headspace, I know I can easily find a woman, even if that means not all of them will always like me.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 07:58 AM
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Career probably only matters to an extent to a lot of people. Obviously be able to take care of yourself. People tend to date those in similar groups to them.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 07:53 AM
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When I was in really good shape, a girl thought I was a douchey type of guy because I was tall, good looking, and at the gym. But once she got to know me she completely changed her mindset. Just because someone is tall, muscular, or even appears confident doesn't mean anything. You don't really know what someone is like until getting to know them after a long while.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/21 07:47 AM
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When I thought you had to play mind games and be fake to get women to like you. Btw, that never worked for me so it was a waste of time and money.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 09:22 AM
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Wtf? I'd love to have daughters someday and would do anything for my baby girl. Those poor children of those sick fucks.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 08:53 AM
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One of the smartest and biggest hearted people I know is a woman. This guy is too high on the pill. He needs a drug rehabilitation.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/20 06:48 PM
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Yeah the biggest damage done to me from this stuff was making me feel I wasn't man enough for most girls, even though I like "manly" things like working out and shooting guns, and in recent years I have gotten better at setting boundaries and asserting my opinion. An ENFJ helped me with that. But what does that even mean since women like that too and can do those things? Majority of the women I've been with were NF, and they didn't really care either way. An ENFP girl I met a few years ago fell …
/r/ExRedPill20/10/20 07:29 PM
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They're afraid of a soy bean? Pssh what a bunch of betas. A real man isn't afraid of anything, even soy
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 12:56 AM
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I'm starting different kinds of therapy to overcome this garbage. I can't have a healthy relationship or outlook on one until I get it all out of me. I can't completely shake it off even though I can rationally know it's not true and I haven't read about this stuff for years. Women saying it is not enough. My mind assumes most women are the same and want what was described above, to a certain degree anyways. It's ironic because all the girls I've dated were a lot like me and liked my personality…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 12:49 AM
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It depends on personality and just what kind of people you hang around with. I never grew up referring to any of my friends like that. But a lot of men might because of the way they were raised or if they have some personality similarities. Stereotypes exist for a reason. I can find dark humor funny, but I also know funny women. Some of them have morbid humor too. There are many kinds of humor. My own humor is unique to other people and not everyone will understand it. You can't generalize humor…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 12:37 AM
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You should forgive yourself because you only did the best with what you knew at the time
/r/ExRedPill24/08/20 05:52 PM
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It's pretty much all a mindset. It's how you view yourself. That determines if it's easy or hard to you. You could be ugly but assume you have a great personality and that's why girls like you. Or you could be shy but assume girls still like you. Likewise, you could assume you have to jump through hoops, be fake and hold a frame, and even still just barely scratch by. It's mostly just your self image.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/20 04:45 AM
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Didn't this guy have many emotional breakdowns? Probably from suppressing his emotions
/r/ExRedPill07/08/20 04:29 AM
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They have made their beliefs convictions. It's like a religion. You object to it and the person psychology takes it as harmful. This is because if a belief is held strongly enough to become a conviction, it will feel as though it is a part of you. Beliefs in themselves will do whatever they can to stay alive, so a conviction with a strong psychological identity around it will be even more difficult to face, either from others or from self
/r/ExRedPill08/07/20 11:13 PM
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When you sleep at night, imagine how much she loves you and adores only you. Feel her touching and cuddling with you at night. Impress your subconscious mind with the idea that she still shows as much affection as she always has.
/r/ExRedPill11/06/20 11:50 PM
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I had read his book multiple times. I was young then so maybe I misinterpreted it with my own insecurities and could not differentiate some of his concepts I did not agree with because I lacked experience and was impressionable. I don't really think it was him, so much as it was much worse advice out there. There are many ideas of what it is to be alpha, and books like "The Rational Male" or anything following that kind of advice paints a very narrow, toxic, and rigid belief system that I was ag…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/20 10:53 AM
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Haha incel
/r/ExRedPill15/04/20 09:40 PM
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I'm wondering if that hate comes from a deep place of resentment and inferiority. It has to. Some people are naturally sociopathic or narcissistic and they attract people with a low value, and probably many of those girls to a degree are like that. But the majority of them I think are incapable of being vulnerable or showing vulnerability that is taught by those cults. At the very least, they are afraid that their true self is incapable of love or desirability. I don't mean emotions, although th…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/20 11:04 AM
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It's just another victimizing term. Complete BS
/r/ExRedPill08/04/20 10:56 AM
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Well you attract who and what you are and what correlates with your self image, so when you are insecure and acting with fake confidence and even narcissism then it will attract people who are also like that or insecure people who are attracted to that victim energy.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/20 02:40 AM
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I have been listening to Mark Manson's "Models" audiobook, and I love how he touches on vulnerability and a good self image (non neediness) I had a good feeling about him and I was right. I can also say he is right. The most fulfilling relationships I've ever had involved vulnerability. Honestly, I will listen to it often and I love how he points out that it applies to both genders almost equally, which I have also found to be true. I believe most problems in dating and relationships come from o…
/r/ExRedPill08/04/20 12:29 AM
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Attractiveness as a wholistic person to me means being confident, charming, kind, humble, funny, loyal, caring, a good listener and a good speaker. I have most of those traits, and I have no problem having all of them. I think I definitely can and I have felt all of those before. I guess the whole hyper masculine thing just made me feel inferior because I also want to be vulnerable and human sometimes. Like you said, the gendered sexualized connotation with that word was what clouded my whole id…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/20 08:19 PM
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What I want to forget and leave behind is the inferiority it helped give me, and most of that came from those teachings. I do not want to think of myself as inferior or unattractive. I guess the positive would be that I can build confidence so when I think of myself as attractive, I will think of that. I've felt attractive before. But I don't want to think women are in it to get something, or that I am less of a person or less desirable
/r/ExRedPill07/04/20 07:56 PM
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I stumbled across DrNerdLove and liked some of his advice as well. I've heard good things about Mark Manson. I think I'll check him out. Evert girl I've dated and most that have been interested in me we have been compatible on some level. I actually prefer that. Thank you!
/r/ExRedPill07/04/20 09:03 AM
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It does help. I am doing a lot of work on my mind. Affirmations. Visualizing myself happy in love. Even revising old memories. Reading counter arguements to their "logic". I've actually read a lot of psychology and personality attraction, which did help some but my mind still rationalized it as only certain personality types that could be attracted to me that wasn't the majority. My biggest thing though was just losing the woman's interest. It might sound absurd to some but I always expected tha…
/r/ExRedPill07/04/20 08:23 AM
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I lost mine at 18. I'm glad I saved it because I had my first kiss with the same girl I slept with, and she was beautiful. I've always been a relationship guy.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/20 01:33 AM
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It's because many redpill ideas have skewed logic and counterarguments for every common sense thought you might have, and they prey mainly on men who have been hurt, inexperienced, or just virgins. It's easy to accept confirmation bias when you have little to no experience, and what experience you do have left you hurt. But how many women have also been devastated, even suicidal because of relationships? Out of the many millions that it was, were all of those causes because of Chads? I doubt it
/r/ExRedPill07/04/20 01:31 AM
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Your beliefs create your reality, so there really is no "scientifically true or not" when it comes to many things. If someone, such as myself, used to be at least somewhat corrupted by toxic redpill beliefs, then I then believing that "Men and Women really aren't different at all" is a great thing to believe. In my own experience it's true. Both men and women can be shy, confident, submissive, dominant, slutty, reserved, romantic, psychopathic, empathic, or shallow etc.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/20 01:15 AM
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Honestly I was and still sort of am in the same boat as you. I think the best thing to help you overcome this negative programming installed into your head is to have actual experiences with people, work on your confidence (not being a Chad but being confident and assured in who you are) and looking back on any relationships you might have had and seeing if they do compare to the crap spouted by this pill forums or pick up datting gurus. It is a bit hard because these guys are either marketers o…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/20 07:45 AM
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I agree. I see op was alpha enough to delete his post
/r/MGTOW06/01/18 07:38 PM
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If you can't go out because you are busy, then try to meet up another night and tell her. If she accepts then great!
/r/askTRP08/08/17 07:18 PM
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