Ethnopharmacist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together:	Debate	Ethnopharmacist	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 05:56 PM

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1	Please tell me YouTubers like Casey Zander have it wrong with women…. Look I think Casey's opinions are simple: if you overcare, if you overthink, if you overreact, if you put her into a pedestal and you show yourself as feminine and emotional or you try to "earn her love" with compliments, favors and all type of attention... then she is going to see u as a weak an uninteresting guy with no value and she is going to get bored and let you down eventually, and sadly, I think that's pretty real in a lot of cases.	/r/ExRedPill	02/09/25 03:04 PM
1	Perhaps women no longer being attractive to men as they get older is a good thing. The thing that you may be overlooking is that purity (innocence) it's a extremely valuable "token" as a personality trait, because women who are not "innocent" as they grow older, can be very dangerous, in terms of being full of resentment and mistrust towards men in general and their partners in particular, based on an irrational but determined and fierce fear of their partners, simply because of a kind of emotional echo that resonates from the first failed relationships. This is a very very re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/25 09:25 PM
1	15 years difference of age I want to tell you my case, perhaps you have a good advice, I'm a high school teacher, i have 35 but I feel (and look) a bit younger, it's like the last years were some kind of a blur (a difficult break up with an (older) BPD girl). Now I'm in a high school but only for some weeks I will end very soon. there's a girl there (student) 20 years old. By the signs I get from her it's quite clear to me she is trying to contact with me out of the "professional" bubble. It's very clear for me, I have ve…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/04/25 06:42 PM
1	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: Hi to everyone, excuse me for not replying every comment yet, there was some family issues and I need to be out of home for an urgent travel, I won't have internet connection (nor I have the reddit app in my cellphone) so I will reply to every in a few days. Cheers!	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/01/25 12:49 PM
-2	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: Of course, but that doesn't mean that our mating strategies are not biologically oriented. They are not just succesful int erms of biologic success. Same way some animals do odd stuff to shock the females and they ignore them or some animals that commit mistakes when fighting and then they die miserably. If you wanna say that there's thing that are not biological at all, I do agree with you, because in my post I didn't want to say that everything is biological in terms of every decision being ba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 08:33 PM
1	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: what you mean by "populations are never truly defined"? I think what makes us human (so, above biological beings) is that we are not ever truly defined, but I do think people think that this or that is most evolutionarily advantageous. The irony is that what makes us human is that we can go against certain biological stuff at a personal level but not affecting the society if there's trends that work. The question is, are those trends always based on biological needs? I wouldn't say so, but a lot…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 08:01 PM
1	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: what's innanet?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 07:54 PM
1	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: Yeah you're right, I just think the "date and hookup endlessly" is one of the most non-biological thing going on, because not having children and not having a family it's completely unnatural in terms of reproducing the species....lust is biological, but not having children as one of your goals is pretty odd if we think about it at the "species" level.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 07:54 PM
1	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: How would you support that? you mean that most the decisions made are about biological needs?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 07:51 PM
3	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: Yeah, I could agree that's more like 40-60 but for a lot of people, the animal dimension of sorts is quite quite important, specially in hard times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 07:17 PM
0	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: There's in fact a lot of animals who use specific plants when they are ill.. in fact some of the medicines we've found has been observing animals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 07:15 PM
-7	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: I am going to rephrase it in another way, being animals, the biological aspect will always exist, but it is encoded in a special way that normally only exists in higher animals, culture and learning. However, these encodings are historical, and therefore social, but that does not make them any less biological in that: - They are geared to survive or live better, more easily, often directly related to basic issues such as eating/sleeping/fu**ng/seeking better genes to reproduce. - On a more tauto…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 06:13 PM
-9	Dating is 50% biology 50%social conditioning, and they mix together: Everything is biology because being animals we cannot escape to the fact of mating, eating, wanting someone who can support us if we need to eat, sleep under a proper shelter, and getting some medicine if we are going to die etc. That's not biology? I'm not talking about specific laws of etology, but surely you can find them if you look close enough to this stuff. Also, the preference of stronger or bigger framed males (or succesful in fight against other males) it's generally a thing that exist…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/01/25 06:05 PM
1	Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys? they do? that would be in your country, I can assure you that in mine most women don't do SHIT in terms of entrepreneurship. I dont' know which kind of idiot invests in crypto and NFTs nowadays, I mean, you can invest in crypto and win, really knowing what are you doing, but most don't so they end up being idiots losing money. there's neither many of them in my country, fortunately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 11:22 PM
2	CMV : women genuinely want attention and affection from their man, and attention and affection genuinely causes attraction towards that man to drop Perfectly explained, this debate is done. Next!!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 03:19 PM
0	Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys? oh come on, that's because women don't do shit with their personal projects, ... because most of you don't have one, so it's easy not to "fail" if you have nothing to attempt. I only ever met a single woman who succeeded economically with a project of her, and it was pretty anodyne bussiness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 03:17 AM
1	Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys? not the "solution" but the only chance, I would say here in Spain, at least, you WON'T date a girl with money and a good job if you don't have at least the same type of job/salary....	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 03:13 AM
1	At what point does being caring and courteous become a turnoff to the average woman? is not a woo, I'm not into any "woos", honestly... you seem pretty mental, more than emotional, regarding your write up. Gemini people seem to be like that, but not always, and not only them. I'm also not very into zodiac, but certainly I've seen some stuff I consider real patterns.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 03:09 AM
1	At what point does being caring and courteous become a turnoff to the average woman? Summming up...: my experience tells me that: "caring" for them means something like: put them first place and never let them down, being attentive and pay attention to their occasional whims and being "courteous" means doing some details that they DON'T EXPECT so they should be surprises, not something too obvious. all the rest on your part would be seen as unnecessary so more like a failed way to gain their attention to win sex or something so it seems overprotective... overwhatever.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 03:02 AM
1	At what point does being caring and courteous become a turnoff to the average woman? You seem a Gemini/mental type...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 02:57 AM
–	Rant: Men on here have not touched grass in their life. Yeah, you know what? I'm 33, my face is at least 8/10, my body 6/10 (not gym fit). I've dated very few women, had sex with 14 if I remember well. One of them was a 10/10 model, some others were quite normal, some 7-8... I could have had much more sex and short term relationships, never gave a damn. the thing is, I have adhd so I cannot avoid talking, but... I'm also kinda Asperger and gifted and I don't give an actual fuck about what MOST women like (superficial bullshit or trends) so I won't da…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 02:53 AM
2	Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43 yes, that seem to be the case, those who take care of themselves don't get "bad" till +40 or even +50 (those with very good genes) but those who just eat bad, don't do exercise or are not very beatiful... they are done when +35. Also, a very important thing: if they are depressed/sad/live unsatisfying lives... they become old much fast. I guess it's similar in males in that last factor	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 02:42 AM
1	If expecting a woman to cook/clean because she’s a woman is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man because he’s the man be misandry? what I consider super sexist is the fact that most women nowadays seem to act like it would be "sexist" to do anything in home, so they just conform with the fact of not knowing how to cook or how to clean, but at the same time they expect the man to be able to do it for them like if it you ask them to cook for both even once ... that sexist but expecting the man to do it for them: that's perfect, chivalry or whatever. fuck this	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 02:30 AM
–	Women Control Sexual (Not Relationship) Market At All Ages hahah,... oh God, how cynic you are.... perhaps you don't even noticed...	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 02:20 AM
1	Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43 I've dated some women long term (years) that when they had 32-33 they were naturally attractive.. when they reached +35 something happen, it was like a click in my mind, they've no longer were the same. I don't know how to explain it, but it was no nocebo/placebo, there's truly something about it, you can feel their faces too, getting old very fast when reaching +35 compared to 30-34. Shitty things, but real.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 02:11 AM