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/r/seduction15/07/20 07:37 PM
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I didn't have a real kiss or girlfriend until I was a college freshman. I just didn't bring it up until after I kissed her, saying "Believe or not, but that was my first kiss".
/r/seduction08/07/20 06:33 PM
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No, not a savage, just a narcissistic asshole (And that's assuming even half of your post is true)
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:17 PM
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Going to be honest, it's pretty difficult, almost impossible, to ask a customer out unless they're the one leading the flirting. You're going to make someone uncomfortable to the point where they'll contact management, and you should be focusing on work regardless. Main recommendation is to pick up a hobby or frequent venues that attract your type while you're off the clock.
/r/seduction25/05/20 09:26 AM
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There's two issues that you have to deal with. First, you have to deal the issue of your self-centeredness. Acknowledge that she doesn't owe you anything, and anticipate any girl you're casually dating to change directions. Don't expect it and ruin your self esteem, but simply be ready if it does happen, so it doesn't impact you as much. Second, you have to acknowledge a much deeper emotional issue that comes when a girl drifts out of your life. You think of all the "what-ifs" or the "what happe…
/r/seduction25/05/20 06:34 AM
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Go to more accessible and beginner friendly gyms. You'll see less meatheads there. Also, the college campus gym will obviously have college aged girls. Not sure where you're from, but at least in my college town, clubs are still open to 18-20 year olds with a cover fee. If you don't want to shell out a little bit of cash, house parties are happening every weekend, even in the summer. In fact, there's maybe even more parties during the summer since there's no school days, so more open nights. Eve…
/r/seduction25/05/20 06:21 AM
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Yes, you should be enjoying your weekend and doing something worthwhile. So do it. Let the texting come naturally while you prioritize something fun and interesting.
/r/seduction25/05/20 05:57 AM
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There's a negative stigma for guys who specifically prioritize picking up women over other aspects of life. Guys who go to work just to hit on co-workers, go to class to hit on the girl sitting next to them, go out at night to hit on women and ditch their friends or go shopping only to approach random women. The guys who are doing something else first, working, learning, having fun, shopping, are the ones who girls find naturally attractive and not creepy. Going out to a park 3 hours a day only …
/r/seduction19/02/20 07:33 AM
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No, she'll just forget about you.
/r/seduction09/02/20 02:01 AM
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/r/AskSeddit and not enough context regardless.
/r/seduction09/02/20 02:00 AM
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You gotta worry about angry baby daddies, increased responsibilities, difficult scheduling, and likely a large maturity gap. I could never date a mother at my age (20) because I still feel like a kid myself.
/r/seduction08/02/20 07:35 PM
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Determine what her mood is. Don't be super romantic when she's being a little distant. Don't be distant when she's being super into you. Reciprocate.
/r/seduction05/02/20 08:17 PM
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someone's mad
/r/seduction05/02/20 08:12 PM
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Agreed. A lot of this sub are pick up artist robots and they wonder why they're not getting laid.
/r/seduction05/02/20 06:11 PM
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Great job! Hope you can continue the momentum with her!
/r/seduction01/02/20 12:02 AM
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that's what I was expecting. I guess I've always seen this sub as something for early stages in relationships.
/r/seduction01/02/20 12:01 AM
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[email protected] please!
/r/seduction31/01/20 10:59 PM
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wait, you've been married for 11 years, why you on this subreddit? not judging, just wondering
/r/seduction31/01/20 10:58 PM
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Great vid!
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:05 AM
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Doesn't work if the girl isn't in to you.
/r/seduction31/01/20 12:05 AM
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Don't take it personally, wait for her to contact you, don't get attached until you're actually dating
/r/seduction30/01/20 11:57 PM
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Don't have scarcity mentality. You should not have intense feelings for a girl you never dated.
/r/seduction30/01/20 07:23 AM
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might just be you
/r/seduction30/01/20 06:37 AM
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We get it, you’re a baller.
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:58 PM
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Get her to suck your hair or something.
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:56 PM
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Depends. If you’re doing specifically to get laid, you’re going to be dissatisfied. If you’re doing it to become a better person, it definitely is. That’s why I never refer it as “picking up girls”, brag about getting laid or cold approach girls who’re just trying to study at the student center. You just get yourself into the wrong mentality and just look thirsty.
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:56 PM
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??
/r/seduction29/01/20 06:53 PM
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Ah yes, still denying that I pulled direct quotes from everyone in this thread disagreeing with you... embarrassed for you.
/r/seduction28/01/20 10:53 PM
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Slowwwww down there. You spend 11 hours a day talking to women? Are you doing it specifically to talk to women or is it for other reasons? I know that most guys on here advise to take time out of your day for cold approaching, but 11 hours? From what I'm sensing is that you REALLY want a girlfriend, way too much actually. Girls can sense if a guy is thirsty, and that might be your problem. Anything you do, finding a girl shouldn't be your first priority, because not only are you more likely to b…
/r/seduction28/01/20 06:30 PM
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This is hilarious that you're envisioning yourself as the outlier in 12 Angry Men, thinking that you can eventually convince everyone that this girl was "testing" you. Keep doubling down on the ad hominems, maybe the girl who was "testing" you will think you're cool or something.
/r/seduction28/01/20 06:23 PM
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I'm doing pretty great. Finished my first feature, working on my second and got a job on decently budgeted feature documentary. Doing film school mostly for the connections. Transferring to UNT for that. Currently a fine dining server so having that salesman mentality helps a lot. Always like to tease my filmmaking, progressively showing her how serious I am about it and not putting it all out on the table, as to build up the mystery and make her more invested.
/r/seduction28/01/20 06:17 PM
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Well if you're interested, you still have to set the man to woman frame from the beginning, but prioritize what the conversation is actually about, whether that be recruiting, advertising. Eventually, you finish what you have to say and then start asking her more personal questions, escalating like normal etc.
/r/seduction28/01/20 06:13 PM
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Not trying to self-promote but I answered some of this in a thread I just posted just didn't feel like typing it out again haha
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:14 AM
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I count 6 people in this thread (not including me) saying it isn't a test and one person who just asked a question. The only opposition is you. /u/harryhoudini66 ""Who is this" was from the boyfriend that checks her phone" /u/Milkdew "There was no "test" lol" /u/Insaneflirt_max ""who is this" most likely was just her genuinely forgetting about you, not a test" /u/6inandsomething "Why you keep saying it’s a test. She was just never that interested in you." /u/DarkArtsPUA11 "you're a jackass. this…
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:10 AM
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The unanimous consensus of this thread is that she wasn't testing you, yet you couldn't accept it and decided get toxic towards everyone instead. Move on, everyone on this sub faces rejection, you're just deciding not to accept it. Why would you ask for advice on this sub if you were just going to argue with everyone who isn't telling you what you want to here?
/r/seduction28/01/20 03:03 AM
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Yes, men often approach at the gym and I guarantee she gets often approached elsewhere. And a girl isn't going to just full on abandon interest because of a tiny shit test, unless you didn't build any attraction early on. Looking at how defensive your post and replies are, you just look insecure that she isn't in to you. Go out and approach more women, one rejection shouldn't be making you upset.
/r/seduction27/01/20 11:47 PM
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Yes, these guys don't have the money to stage that many interactions. They just approach dozens a day so they can cut to the best. Plus, they're highly experienced so they're going to have a disproportionate amount of success compared to the average guy.
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:07 PM
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Hey, at least you're getting yourself out there. Continue to momentum, learn from your mistakes, keep dating.
/r/seduction27/01/20 06:04 PM
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Are you sure you're confident? If you have to take a Xanax in order to cold approach, you're not. Just say fuck it and approach people you find attractive. If you're not willing to do that, befriend the taken girls in your class and they might introduce you to others. From what it looks like, you're focusing WAY too much on getting a girlfriend. I'm sure a lot of girls can see right through you and just view you as the "thirsty guy". Put the classes and being a likeable, personable guy before tr…
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:55 PM
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You don't know her so you have no clue if it was a test or she just genuinely forgot about you. She's probably a girl with a lot of guys at her doorstep trying the same thing as you. Solution, respond "Ok, let me know when you're available" and her forget about her. I'm gonna doubt it was a test because a girl who's genuinely interested wouldn't completely lose interest simply because you didn't respond playfully.
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:43 PM
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No not at all. Approach with a smile and open body language, comment on the enviroment, the situation, something relevant etc. or just say "Hey, I keep seeing you around and I think you look (insert compliment, I usually go with 'Interesting' because it makes her ask "What does that mean?", but I wouldn't use 'Cool'). Then, she'll say thanks, you follow up and ask her something relevant and go from there. Keep the interaction going for about 5 minutes, plant ideas of different "hang-out" ideas, …
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:32 PM
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Great post! Going out in an hour so hopefully I can make some improvements.
/r/seduction25/01/20 02:56 AM
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Learning how detrimental neediness is. I've always wondered why every one of my relationships in the past failed, and it wasn't until I got into self improvement videos that I realized my neediness held me back significantly. Whenever I dated someone, I would want to see them every day, would never want them to leave when hanging out and would get hurt if they spent time with other guys. I would act like a complete bitch and lash out if a girl didn't satisfy my neediness. It took me a couple mon…
/r/seduction23/01/20 01:36 AM
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This post. I was exhausted by some of the posts on this sub, guys sending in their field reports, talking about how well they conveyed their value, disqualified the girl, escalated etc. but didn't end up closing or going home with the girl... Well yeah, she probably saw right through your facade. Some of these guys take game WAY too seriously and I guarantee most of these girls can see right through them going down their game checklist.
/r/seduction21/01/20 07:22 AM
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First off, it's clear that you're not willing to walk away. In this situation, I would just say "Well let me know when your schedule clears up" and leave it at that. The post to me comes across as neediness, and she might have picked up on that. If that's not the case, you didn't build your value up enough before you asked her to see the movie, so she's going to be unreliable. I know it's hard, I've been in the situation before, but if she's not interested like you say she is, forget about her, …
/r/seduction18/01/20 11:49 PM
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I've been in this situation before haha. I usually put some of my stuff on the chairs, turn on the fan or the AC, give a reason for you two to feel cold, then naturally just sit on the bed and throw the blanket over yourself. Flash a playful smile and she'll say "what about me?". Tease her, pretend like she can't sit on the bed/use the blanket, then eventually you'll end up sitting in the bed together. Turn to her, smile, lean in for the kiss. She probably wants to make out just as much as you d…
/r/seduction18/01/20 11:11 PM
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To me, looks like her ex reentered her life or at least some other guy.
/r/seduction17/01/20 08:43 AM
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I would've approached the group no matter what, because a missed opportunity is still failure. However, on the advice, I'd always open the group with something pertaining to the current situation or location or the group themselves. Are they dressed irregularly, did something crazy just happen, do they look like they don't fit in at the location. If you can't come up with something, I usually just approach with a wide smile, open body language and unwavered confidence and ask the girl I specific…
/r/seduction17/01/20 08:37 AM
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From what I can tell, it seems like your friend makes you self conscious, even if slightly. I've gone out with friends much more conventionally attractive than I, but I never see them as barriers to my success, because while girls are initially going to be drawn to my attractive friend more, I'm not going to let myself feel like the consolation prize, I make it apparent that I'm at the same value as my friend. It's all about how you see yourself, and I'm sure that these girls picked up on you fe…
/r/seduction17/01/20 08:22 AM
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Just keep in mind to not be needy. And don't try and fake not being needy either, sincerely, talk to other girls, work on other fulfilling things and don't let yourself be preoccupied thinking about her. Don't overthink contacting her. Only text if you have something genuinely valuable to say to her, like an event that involves a shared interest between you two, a post/joke that you'd think she'd enjoy. Don't engage her with something mundane, you want to continue the momentum from the date and …
/r/seduction17/01/20 08:07 AM
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