Etmn Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	The paradox of choice Having an endless line of matches who might’ve just swiped right on you because they wanted anyone to respond in return can feel like a chore. How does anyone have the mental energy to properly vet that many people? This is such a dumb argument, and I hear it all the time. Just stop swiping after you got some matches. Go through those matches before you start swiping again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/22 07:40 AM
1	“Chads” don’t leave…they get left. Lol it keeps changing No it does not. You should read the sidebar on the RP sub.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 09:26 AM
1	“Chads” don’t leave…they get left. The common idea within TRP is that Chads make up around the top 20% of men. This is not a common RP idea. The idea is that ~20% of men are attractive to 80% of the women. The percentage of Chads is probably ~1% if I had to guess.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/22 08:59 AM
1	Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world? Nerd bars/barcades/tabletopgaming bars Why do people always suggest bars for autistic men to meet people? These places are way too loud/stimulating for a huge swath of the autistic population.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 06:08 AM
1	Do you think men with autism are doomed in the current dating world? you will however find them at geek places. What are these places you're talking about? I frequent both a makerspace and a photography darkroom and it's literally like 99% men. I would love to have some hobby group/space I like with women in them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/07/22 05:55 AM
23	The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrong Funny. I used to go to multiple autism support/talk groups. The women were talking about how hard it was to navigate their relationships. Virtually all the men were permanently single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/22 07:27 AM
2	Roe v. Wade Mega-Thread Does being alive give you the right to use another as life support? Yes, ever wondered why you pay taxes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/06/22 08:17 AM
8	If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down. Life isn't fair and having a romantic partner isn't a human right, it's a privilege. With that twisted logic physical safety is also a privilege.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/06/22 09:53 AM
6	Do men have overall less life satisfaction?, as in they tend to enjoy life less. The only thing that will matter in life is who is there by your side on your deathbed. Why?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/06/22 06:51 AM
1	Guys that are super successful with women all have one thing in common: they are really good at something, if not the best Every stem related course I've taken was mostly women Where did you take those courses? When I was in college a couple years ago it was, no hyperbole, 100% men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/22 04:59 PM
36	Fancy female finds that the factory floor failed to furnish her fate with felicity Therapy is the new religion for these people.	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	12/11/21 07:44 PM
2	Emotional intelligence is the most important part of being attractive I wonder why? People having kids later in life. I'm autistic and I've been part of a vast autism support network. Nobody discusses it but from my observation atleast 90% of the people on the spectrum had older parents.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 04:35 PM
1	Emotional intelligence is the most important part of being attractive tl;dr: don't be on the spectrum.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/21 12:49 PM
14	Is the kindest thing for us as a society to adjust male expectations down to a realistic level regarding their romance and dating lives? I hope he will find value in his life that doesn't come from expecting super-attractive women to like him. As an autistic guy it's hard to get any person to like you. I don't know why you're specifying super-attractive women. You should prepare your son for life as a (semi)-incel. Even the most well adjusted guys on the spectrum I know struggle immensely getting dates/relationships. Do try to get him in to some kind of male only face-to-face support group in his teens. That helped me tremendousl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/21 05:24 AM
8	Is baldness a dealbreaker for most young women (in a young man 18-24) or can they still be genuinely physically attractive overall? But all my friends were into vin diesel and Jason Statham The lesson here is that you can be bald if you're incredibly ripped.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/21 08:43 AM
1	How do you interpret the disparity between the number of sexual partners of unmarried women vs. unmarried men? Not nearly as many sexless men as the manosphere wants everyone to believe. And it debunks the 80/20 rule. It’s more the 20/80 rule. It's about YOUNG sexless men. This study goes up to age 44. The other one you're referring to ony goes up to age 29 iirc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 06:16 PM
5	Fat people fuck more I used to be fat and have fat friends. I can assure you that being fat does not relate to an increase in sexual activity. And for the record, the fat women I know used to fuck fit guys for casual sex while most of the fat guys I knew used to be single until end twenties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 10:48 AM
2	I think women prefer younger and/or more feminine men. Society just has outdated standards and hasn't caught up. That "Hollywood standard" you're talking about is defined by cold calculations and statistical research. Marketing agencies spent a lot of money to figure out what their target audiences are attracted to so they can cater to them and sell them product.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/21 10:38 AM
3	Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life. I know many high-functioning autistic people and they all date, have sex, and marry. I don't buy this. I've known around 500 different autistic people in my life thanks to my work as volunteer for support groups and being part of such groups myself. The vast majority of autistic men in those groups are permanently single and have the biggest issues landing even one date. When I did see those men enter relationships it was mainly at a later age (35+).	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 11:26 AM
4	Height and social awkwardness are the two biggest impediments to a man’s dating life. What makes getting laid difficult for aspies is that they are bad at picking up social cues, they learn best when directly told how to do something. This is only the visible part of the issue. I am autistic and after a literal decade of working on my social skills I would say they're okayish now. My biggest issue related to ASD comes from processing stimuli. Too much noise and I can't follow the conversation. I don't do well in groups larger than three people. Restaurants, bars, clubs, events ar…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/21 10:45 AM
1	What % of men are not stunning but just about fuckable if they have other desirable traits? if you would fuck a 5 and every guy you've ever met (who isn't insane) would fuck a 5, there are definitely girls out there who would fuck a 5 as well. Yes but in my experience the men women rate as a 5 are actually 7s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/05/21 07:52 AM
1	How much of a disadvantage is MALE PATTERN BALDING at a young age? I went bald in my early twenties and I'm 26 now. No big deal I thought I'll just shave it off and get some new pics for my online dating profiles. Oh how wrong I was. Although my pictures are good women just aren't interested anymore. I would say a 80% decrease in success is being optimistic.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/21 08:01 PM