Etoile67gp Archive

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1	I lost 40 pounds, got interesting Hobbys but It’s not about ‘results.’ It shouldn’t be about getting a ‘result.’ It should be about learning to understand women, want they want and need, seeing them as a person and not putting every woman into the same basket because some girls have been playing ‘mind games.’ Dint put a woman on a pedestal. Don’t be clingy, demanding or needy. Let her open up to you and mirror ( don’t divulge your whole life story during the first couple of dates). Women have evolved to want a man who can provide for her. …	/r/seduction	10/12/21 10:57 PM
2	Looks matter.. A person can be very physically attractive but as soon as they say something it can be a turn off. Men claim that it’s a lot easier for women nowadays. I disagree. Yes, a woman who’s reasonably attractive could get dozens of men lining up to date her because they just want to f__k her. That’s not a quality relationship. It’s easier for a woman to get a hook up if she accepts the first guy and doesn’t care about her own safety and well being. The majority of women want more than that. Most women …	/r/seduction	29/11/21 11:47 AM
1	Looks matter.. Being physically attractive will get you a foot in the door but it won’t get you a quality person. What I mean is that a person has to attract a person’s attention physically first of all f( unless it’s purely a business transaction ie sex worker), and afterwards other things come into play. If you’re a man then a woman will in the majority of cases want to see other things on top of the initial physical attractiveness. They’re looking for self confidence ( not to be confused with cocky alpha ma…	/r/seduction	29/11/21 10:55 AM
2	How well would a guy who doesn't smoke, very very very rarely drinks and has no social media fare with girls? I can only guess but on one hand being surrounded by images/messages that tell them ´you’re worth it’ and on the other inbuilt conditioning that reinforces stereotypical ideas/ beliefs. Honestly I was expecting the more educated/ financially independent the woman the more she would want a man who respected her as a modern independent woman ( male feminist?). What I got was the complete opposite. I had three dates ( sounds old fashioned) with a 39 year old IT network manager working for an intern…	/r/seduction	26/06/21 03:21 PM
6	How well would a guy who doesn't smoke, very very very rarely drinks and has no social media fare with girls? Those things don’t matter. Here in Europe for a lot of women only these count: - a man must earn more than the woman. -he must be a home owner/ own a recent or new car. he mustn’t show any emotional vulnerability or reveal any ‘feminine’ emotions ie cry. Others: a man who on social media shows off his status. One woman who was head of IT for a NGA for women’s rights told me this is what she looks for every time ( especially how big his house was !) Let me just explain that I’m 54, and after gett…	/r/seduction	26/06/21 08:57 AM
2	What is a realistic percentage that the girls you approach will stop and talk to you Firstly approaching women isn’t a game. That immediately proves that the person doing that doesn’t respect women. A woman is a human being just like you. Treat her like a decent human being. Women have an inbuilt early warning system that detects this kind of behavior in men. Never compliment a woman you approach. This automatically triggers the above reaction. Instead wherever you are pay attention to your surroundings. Spend some time looking around and watching. Find something interesting or …	/r/seduction	24/06/21 08:48 AM
1	Do you think girls can seduce faster than boys? Must be fun having a conversation with you in a pub.	/r/seduction	23/06/21 10:27 AM
1	Do you think girls can seduce faster than boys? Just based on appearance, probably. But if you’re looking for less superficial qualities in a woman then no.	/r/seduction	23/06/21 10:25 AM
-1	Dating tips for high quality women You’ve just proved that your dating tips don’t work	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:51 AM
-1	Dating tips for high quality women So by your own admission they weren’t high quality ( yellow flags) but you still continued to see them. 70 is a lot of yellow!	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:45 AM
0	Dating tips for high quality women So you dated a lot of yellow flag women?	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:38 AM
0	Dating tips for high quality women Do you mean red flag?	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:35 AM
2	Dating tips for high quality women If they were that good why the need to sleep with so many?	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:30 AM
3	Dating tips for high quality women Were any of the 70 high quality, apart from your soon to be?	/r/seduction	23/06/21 05:21 AM
0	The most important thing for improvement in life The best advice I ever read… ´Do the thing you fear the most. It’s your sub conscious telling you that you need to follow a certain path.’	/r/seduction	16/06/21 04:21 PM
2	[deleted by user] Alpha and beta mean absolutely nothing in the real world. There just two more words to categorise people ( essentially men) and then convince them that they should do certain things for the benefit of others. I live in France ( expat Brit). I was married to a Frenchwoman. French women love men who fit the archetypal image of a masculine man… strong, silent, not showing his inner emotions except to declare his eternal love whilst simultaneously wooing other women. After my divorce I must’ve met w…	/r/seduction	16/06/21 11:05 AM
1	The number one trait you need to get laid. Most intelligent guys know when to talk and when not to.	/r/seduction	21/05/21 09:20 PM
2	The number one trait you need to get laid. You’ve misunderstood what I said. If you’re confident and like yourself then there’s no need to be someone you’re not. Being confident in your own abilities and comfortable in your own skin and trying to impress a potential employer or date aren’t the same thing.	/r/seduction	21/05/21 08:59 PM
1	The number one trait you need to get laid. The number one trait is be yourself. It’s not to get laid or seduce. No games, no tricks, no fancy manoeuvres or whatever else you happen to come across in the internet. Women love taking. If you just talk about yourself you’re going to get nowhere. A conversation is where both sides talk and listen to the other. I love talking but I also love listening to my gf and allowing her the space to open up. Being able to listen actively to someone is perhaps more important than being to impress with yo…	/r/seduction	21/05/21 07:35 PM
1	A bit of a reality check Bad choices.. easy to say with hindsight. One reason I gave up on dating apps was the persistent games playing, telling me one thing in chats then another face to face. Concerning your point about a CEO and a waiter, well I think that’s understandable. However, every woman I met knew what I did for a living, and I wasn’t going to tell them about my other sources of income which easily surpasses my everyday jobs, and a party in Vegas or vacation in Cambodia aren’t my thing ( road trips across Eur…	/r/seduction	04/05/21 02:56 PM
0	A bit of a reality check Superficial.. possibly. They weren’t superficial in their online profiles or when first meeting the . Otherwise I wouldn’t have taken it any further. Maybe it was approach not having dated for over 20 years and being suddenly confronted with the modern way of doing things. I tried OLD, cold approaching, joining clubs and associations I was interested in ( photography, hiking, cooking, local history even volunteering) and I got it everything. Maybe they didn’t like my cars ( Megane RS/Jaguar XK) …	/r/seduction	04/05/21 11:23 AM
-7	A bit of a reality check This comment might get shot down in flames but I don’t care. This is the reality of dating in a European context as a single, divorced dad who brought up his two kids virtually alone.. I earn a reasonable salary. . Work out 5x a week. I’m not a selfish lover and I have an open minded/ adventurous personality. The reality check is that PUA/game don’t matter because most women IRL examine you as a potential partner based on looks and status. It doesn’t matter if you’ve got a fantastic, caring, gen…	/r/seduction	04/05/21 06:32 AM
1	Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1] Nice guys are nice to a woman because they want sex from her and will do anything to get it. That isn’t nice... it’s pathetic and manipulative. Don’t put a woman on a pedestal and worship her. She doesn’t deserve it. -Don’t agree with everything she says just because you think it’s a way into her panties. Don’t do everything she tells you to do or you think she wants you to do just because you want to fuck her. Décide beforehand what you’re going to do with her as fun activities then tell her we…	/r/seduction	11/02/21 09:08 AM
5	Dates are not as difficult as I thought I’m not ‘dating’ right now... I have too many personal issues to sort out. So the first rule is don’t think of it as a date.. that’s so old fashioned. Like you see in a Hollywood romantic film of the 1950’s where the guy turns up at a restaurant with a bunch of flowers. Keep that for later if it progresses to further dates. First face to face meet for me is always for a coffee during the day. It puts the woman at ease. You need to understand how she might be feeling. Secondly, the pressure shoul…	/r/seduction	29/11/20 07:04 AM
2	lifestyle, the key to game. The original point was about approaching someone because of something they had. You’ve misunderstood.. you can wear expensive clothes and still lack self esteem ... someone’s appearance doesn’t always match their personality. Personally I don’t find a supercar cool....	/r/seduction	11/11/20 07:52 PM
2	lifestyle, the key to game. Cars don’t interest me... neither do other flashy things. If they want them then that’s perfectly ok. I wouldn’t go over and talk to them just because of the car they’re driving etc.	/r/seduction	11/11/20 05:53 PM
-1	lifestyle, the key to game. I love someone who uses such eloquent language!	/r/seduction	11/11/20 04:46 PM
-1	lifestyle, the key to game. If I saw someone, male or even female, get out of a Lamborghini I’d look the other way. That doesn’t interest me one bit. If however they were dressed ‘normally’, without trying to hide themselves behind flashy/expensive clothes/gadgets/accessories/language etc, then maybe I might be interested.	/r/seduction	11/11/20 03:20 PM
3	As an average guy, when did you finally start getting girls you considered out of you leauge, and what did you do to achieve that? Why are you trying to seduce them? You’re doing the wrong thing. At that age you don’t have a chance if you’re doing what every other guy is doing. You have to change your mindset. What can they offer you? You can get sex anywhere these days. Don’t chase after sex. Don’t chase anyone. Focus on yourself. I’ve learnt this lesson the hard way. Focus on what you really want out of life... not on just chasing after women. The type of woman you’re chasing after isn’t worth your time and effort if they…	/r/seduction	08/11/20 01:14 PM