EtwasNameGehaben Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How to change the focus when a girl starts opening up to you about past trauma on a FIRST date?	Outer Game	EtwasNameGehaben	/r/seduction	04/09/20 05:55 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How to change the focus when a girl starts opening up to you about past trauma on a FIRST date? I get what you mean. I have seen this "toxic" way of bringing up trauma just to get sympathy and to manipulate and I have to be weary of it. However, on the dates, the situation was no where near as extreme / toxic as this. They were just open and honest about it.	/r/seduction	04/09/20 03:18 PM
2	How to change the focus when a girl starts opening up to you about past trauma on a FIRST date? I appreciate this advice!	/r/seduction	04/09/20 03:15 PM
2	How to change the focus when a girl starts opening up to you about past trauma on a FIRST date? Having a upbeat story at hand and saying "thank you for telling me" / acknowleding it more sounds smart, yup! Thanks for the reply	/r/seduction	04/09/20 03:13 PM
46	Pretty much sums it up for those of us that have solid ancestry. Haha, sums up how modern society makes us focus on other stuff, like career, and how much distraction and easy pleasure there is available everywhere that makes women hard to pursue in comparison.	/r/seduction	18/08/19 10:37 AM
-2	Seeing the girl that rejects me everyday! Ask again for her number to set up the date	/r/seduction	23/05/19 07:44 PM
1	Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself. That is good that I can be of help :) When it comes to passion, I recommend you reading about flow. Flow: The Psychology of Optimal Experience by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi. It describes the phenomena of flow, the state where you focus deeply on one task. This could be linked to passion as the things that bring you flow are things you can do for long periods of time. Other than that I suggest you make a list of what you liked to do when you were a child. Me for example always liked singing as a chi…	/r/seduction	14/05/19 03:31 PM
3	Magical spells -women using phrases in normal conversation that are purposefully suggestive but ambiguously so Haha, why are you mad? How about "that's what she said". A classic that can work well if you don't say it too often and it's well timed. The bottle grip could be countered by you opening up your napkin like you are spreading a vagina, and telling her something mundane while looking deeply into her eyes	/r/seduction	14/05/19 03:20 PM
1	Im tired of playing the game. Why can’t I just be myself. It hurts when someone you likes leaves you, but it doesn't mean you are not worthy of love and happiness. I think you are smart to come here and vent and get feedback. You are young and you will be back on your feet soon. One year ago I was the same as you in regards to not knowing what my thing was. I was doing a study I didn't like, I was in some friendships I didn't like and I was not working out or being healthy. I made things better for myself, so can you. You don't have to take Maslow's hi…	/r/seduction	13/05/19 04:15 PM