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This is what they do not want to acknowledge. Men are not saying that women who are okay to split the bill do not exist. But let's not act like they are the majority. And plenty of women like you said might accept out of courtesy, but you can be sure that you will not see them again. Of course, one can say that it means you were not compatible and it is a good thing if they filtered themselves out. But it can definitely make a man question if splitting is a good idea, because you seldom meet wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:26 AM
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It’s not that deep. ...? I wasn't attacking you or anything Why this comment? I just felt like you already received great answers and that, I actually didn't need to give mine. That was why I said that you already received a bunch of great answers You took my comment the wrong way. But anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:07 PM
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I have only heard it used in the context of Then you are lucky Because when men hear it, it is used to shame women who actually love men and are not afraid to show it; any woman who does not believe that all men are misogynist rapists and that men suffer too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:03 PM
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Oh I was just trying to make you understand his point (I hope) Beyond merely wanting that, what evidence would you, or he, accept as being enough to feel pretty confident about it? I believe you have received a lot of great answers on your thread already that should answer your questions. But if you want me to say something, I believe men might feel truly appreciated (physically and any other aspect) if the woman initiates 50% of the time (wether for going out, paying them stuffs, cuddles, showi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 11:56 AM
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He just wishes that she actually is attracted to him physically. There might not be a sure way to know or tell, because women can be really great at faking it. But even then, there might definitely be little details that could tell that she is not truly attracted physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 09:08 AM
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There are always going to be so many different variables to it all. This is so funny. Because it is so obvious when one tries think about it for a second. But they just want to keep their distorted views and act like it is all black and white. Really refreshing to see someone like you here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:10 PM
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Okay I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:33 PM
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Could not agree more. If the men and women on here all decided to be more balanced in their view like you (and in real life too to be honest), the (dating )world would be a better place. Please, it would be actually great if you commented more on here. People like you are actually needed in these kind of places.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:31 PM
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Your comment is the most balanced and satisfying one on this topic. This is actually the only correct answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:07 PM
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And tbh, him withholding sex would actually make me feel special and different than all the other women And I am sure that you know that, a man might still do this, and as soon as you have sex, he ghosts you. No saying I am pro or against. Just saying that I hope that you are not foolish enough to believe that, even if he does what you are saying, it proves that after you have sex, it will not be for "the sex and the love of the game" (if that was his intentions from the beginning) then. Because…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:04 PM
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Less than 2% of men in the world do this lmao If a man said Less than 2% of women aren't gold diggers, I am sure you would be saying "well stop surrounding yourself with trashy women , because this not the case at all. And the vast majority of women are actually good people who actually love men, so choose better" But here you are, saying what you said. Perhaps it is you the problem, surrounding yourself with trashy men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:54 PM
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Your comments were really interesting to read, as a man looking for a woman like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 07:51 PM
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Nobody cares about that. This is why we are where we are now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 10:04 PM
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of times it’s not because he’s hot or because of sex, it’s because the apology and love bombing that happens after he does something bad is a dopamine rush. The bad behaviors lead to grand romantic gestures and that’s what is appealing about the relationship. I have seen a lot of women here say that they would rather be mistreated by an attractive man rather than an ugly one. Which means that hotness is definitely a reason A LOT OF THE TIME. it’s because the apology and love bombing that happens…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:39 PM
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We were conditioned to believe that if a manreally desires you, he will pine for us. Yearn for us. Go through great lengths to demonstrate his undying devotion and obsession over us. See Disney, Hallmark movies, romance novels, etc When a lot of the men on here say that they were conditioned to believe that, only personality matter to women, that being nice to women and treating them respect will get them women, you guys come and say how stupid, naive and brainless those men are for believing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:31 PM
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Hey Hope you are doing well Sorry to message you again without an answer from you But I wanted to know if you would be ok with me messaging you privately once I will need some advice about what martial arts to practice for self defense later.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 09:51 PM
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Chinese folks finding the oversized white girl with green eyes who speaks Chinese pretty hilarious Why do they find it hilarious? I could beat them up Beating them up... Like actually punch them and all? And they get turned by that idea? That feels so weird... I would understand getting a bit excited by the fact that you partner can overpower...but by beating you up?... I met on OKC who thought a perfect first date was picking me up in his truck and going out to the woods... And he found this no…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:40 PM
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My primary art, and the one I also teach, is Chen Taijiquan. I've crossed trained in a number of Chinese martial arts (and studied karate in my teens, as well as european swordswork) and also study Shaolin Gongfu, especially Dragon. Wow that is impressive. Are you Asian? By GOD'S GRACE, I should move to China soon. I would love to learn some martial arts, for self defense purpose. But I am not sure how, I should be able to do that... Like I would be a foreigner there, will I be accepted as someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:39 PM
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To your first paragraph I am not sure that you should expect women to make traditional gender roles obsolete, by paying for men on date or relationship. It would not and does not benefit them to do so. Plus they do not have. To your second paragraph Women being chivalrous to men? I get where you are coming from. But I am afraid this is a dream that will never come true. They do not need to and do not have to. It does not benefit them. But a man can dream. To your fourth paragraph Well Is it not …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:30 PM
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I'm certainly better suited for "protecting the house" than most. You are tall and strong? Muscular maybe? Interesting Self defense? What martial arts do you practice, if you do not mind me asking? You are the second woman I have seen on this , who would describe herself as more suited for protecting the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 09:11 PM
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I see. Thanks again. 🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 11:00 PM
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I'm also not saying I don't believe him. The user was not talking about you. Much more about the women who do what he was describing. You are good. You have actually been showing empathy on this all thread. Which is really great and surprising. I am not even sure More than 10% of the comments from other women in this thread are like yours. Actually this prove that you know how to handle it when men open up. Because it is basically what you were doing when responding to the men expressing themsel…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:00 PM
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It was more of a joke lol Yeah I know 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:13 PM
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Be a good incel and back tot he basement This made me laugh But more seriously Are so called incels not supposed to actually go outside? To touch grass and see real life outside, like people advise them to? How are they supposed to, if good incels (according to your statement) are the ones who stay in their basement?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:19 PM
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That is nice. I am too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:12 PM
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Hey Are you Christian?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 08:58 PM
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I agree with you that it is shitty. Though the user you replied to is not necessarily wrong. I am sure some of the women were virtue signaling. Not all them. That is I said some. Maybe 2/5 are virtue signaling. Why do we think that? If the question was instead "would you date a virgin man" you can be sure that a lot of the answers would be stuff like "if he is a virgin there must be something wrong with him" Sometimes, we have our eyes , to see how things happen in real life. But, like I said, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 11:06 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:01 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/25 10:01 PM
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Now saying that we don't need men at all and they all could die and nothing will change, that's a bit extreme. Why though? No more men No more trash men No more rapists No more creeps No more men who do not take no for an answer No more catcalling No more oppression No more orgasm gap No more wage gap No more feeling worried walking at night then spotting a man No more sexual assaults No more patriarchy. Is it not what women have been praying for all that time? Sounds like a good deal to me for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 09:34 PM
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And far too many women do not want to teach men how to please women Because "uhh..uhh...you are a man...you are supposed to know" and "we do not want to teach men how to do it, they should know"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:08 PM
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My point was that women judge men past as much as men. They just like to believe that they are better beings than men and are not like them. I am not sure you have a proof that women care less about men past. Yes, men lose their virgnity by having sex with women. Does not mean that the woman knew beforehand and still accepted. Most men know that women judge men for their virginity. So they do not say nothing to women before sex. The same way promiscuous women will get by men who do not want prom…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 11:09 AM
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than promiscuous women who care about a man’s past. How do you know that? You know that past can also be, virginity right? Most women would not want anything to do with a virgin man even if they are virgin themselves. Is this what you call women not caring about men past? Because they do. As much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 11:58 PM
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Thanks. At the end of the day women and men will never understand eachother when it comes to the dynamic of heterosexual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:24 PM
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a beggar or starting from a position of weakness. Rather to see it as starting from a position of "I choose who to approach." I agree with this. But at the end of the day It means nothing really (talking about saying that choosing who you approach put you in a position of power) You can choose who you approach all you want But at the end of day You are not the person who gets the final word (yes or no) It is just like gambling (for men) 50/50 The woman has the final word If she says yes, great. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:13 PM
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I am not sure that if you chose to ignore company x and z and decided to apply for company y, that means you are not in a position of weakness, just because you CHOSE to apply for y and not X or z. It is the same. If they reject you, it is over. How could you not be in a position of weakness? Like really? Beggars can be choosers now? The company is in position of power by saying yes or no.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 08:09 PM
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Well Thanks for that. But this does not seem to be a sentiment shared among women in general. Misandry is okay because it only hurts feeling. Misogyny kills. This is what men are told by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 10:53 AM
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Feminism communities have to push against misandry Bu...bu...but... Misogyny kills Misandry does not...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 10:45 PM
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I almost feel a little shame about my boyfriend having a tiny one From the op herself Is this how women feel about small penis men? u/cs342 You did not see this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 02:06 PM
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The men who feel that way go see sugar babies and prostitutes. Those men do not want that either They want free sex but they cannot get it. Beggars cannot be choosers. But those men want to still be able to choose. Delusional, I know. I actually don't think the men saying this mean this in terms of just lack of sex. I think most men conceptualize romantic loneliness in terms of the whole intimacy, like in the context of a relationship. Because they aren't satisfied with a sex worker either—what …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 09:09 PM
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This shouldn't be surprising. Most women are extremely turned off by submissive men. So most men who want any sexual sexual success are going to do their best to not be submissive or exhibit any traits like that publicly. They're not going to count on the tiny possibility of a woman actually finding that attractive. Agreed I do subscribe to the subby male dommy female dynamic, but I know that the women who are into it are way too rare. So better assume that you will have to act masculine dominan…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:51 PM
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Some have tried to play the roll, but eventually it comes up that they just can't do it, they need a submissive woman who gives them the "dream" Hi That is weird. Do you mean that those submissive men, do not really walk the walk? I guess perhaps, it might depends. Are you hardcore BDSM? Really aggressive, slap, hurt , choke? Perhaps, they are afraid by that? What do you mean though by the dream?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:48 PM
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Lets say I served my full 20 years in the military and was very young when I joined . Oh I see. Fell free to ask any questions you mi have. I definitely will. I hope you still be on reddit once I believe that I have what it takes financially to be in a relationship. Since you already know South America well and South American women even more, that will be helpful. Thank you for the compliments ! Welcome.!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 03:47 PM
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How old are you sir? If you do mind me asking. You are living the dream. I have got an interest in South American women. I am not from the US. I will come back to you when I am much more established physically and financially. Hope you will not mind helping me out. Just do not forget about my username. I read all your post. You got me interested even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:24 PM
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Ironically that would make you the outlier I agreed with all the things you said above. All of them. But this one part, no. to win a guy over, It happens. But it is rare for the average man. Win over? I am not sure women feel like they have to win over the average man. If it was the case, most average men would have experienced it; at least once in their life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 06:37 PM
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She made a typo error I believe. The question should be negative. Why aren't you all trying to reduce rape (implied from women on men). She just meant to tell you that she does not agree with your use of humans instead of men. She believes that men do all those you mentioned, not women. So why use humans (which include both genders) when it is just men who are bad? I believe that this is what she meant because from her answers on this sub, it is easy to tell this how she thinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:12 PM
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Nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:42 PM
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As a North African, I’ve noticed that many Muslim men are often socially excused for engaging in sex, while women face far stricter expectations. When men catcall women, it’s often dismissed as “natural” behavior, as if men are just driven by uncontrollable urges—a narrative largely pushed by men themselves. Thank you . That was informative. It is really sad how women are treated there. A shame really. Definitely wish things would change there. Women are humans too. They should not be treated th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:30 PM
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Wow Thank you for saying it. At least you do not just defend your gender just because you are a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:23 PM
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I do not know if hold women accountable. But I know you will say you do anyway... However when I am holding men accountable for their behavior I’m told “some women deserve it.” Those men are trash I agree with you. They should be called out. These are the men that should be put down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:17 PM
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I still can't believe that she wrote this. So this is how women think? Well. It is over for men. Dark days are coming...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:11 PM
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The bear one wasn’t anti-man and most men who don’t hate women agreed their daughter should pick the bear. Men who do not hate women agreed with this? So men who disagreed with this hate women? My goodness So this is how things work now?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 06:09 PM
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Do not waste your time brother. She will deny that. We all know men are pigs is because women believe that men will rape, abuse all the time them if it was legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:59 PM
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It is really nice that you find men attractive. I guess with a certain body type though. But let us be real here. Men or at least most men aren't physically desirable to most women. It is what it is. I lurk on a lot of female oriented subs. Only minority say they find men physically attractive. Most are all about how men are all unattractive and that women are much more attractive than them. I am not saying it is a bad thing. Women are allowed to find men unattractive. But women finding men phys…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 05:54 PM
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Yes you are right I completely agree But what would you say is the problem? Do you make the first move?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 10:14 PM
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I do not know what to say. But I feel you. I have felt the same way about myself...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:37 PM
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Some where in one of your comments above, you said that are the bad ones who hurt women Now you come and say something like this? So men are at fault for you ignoring the red flags because good dick? You guys are the one hurting yourselves, not men. If the dick is good I will stay and ignore red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:33 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 09:21 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:30 PM
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. Men who have a very high body count but only want to get with inexperienced women Questions Are short women who want to date tall men insecure? Are poor women who want to date rich men insecure? Are virgin women who want to date experienced men insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 08:13 PM
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I can’t have discussions with unreasonable people who can’t think outside their box. You do not know me yet you can say something like this? Well the only thing I can say us thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:54 PM
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Really? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:49 PM
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So this is what you got out of what I said? To the point of even downvoting what I said? Nice. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:48 PM
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OK I am not going to debate any further, because you would be feeling like I am trying to invalidate your experience. But let me tell you this. It is not because you have seen those men getting in relationships that it means the average can get an option on average. It is not like I am the only one saying. The average can live his all life getting zero option. This is the reality. Some exceptions? Sure. But those are exceptions. I have no one woman in my life who I know have been raped. But I am…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:43 PM
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My goodness I learned something today Did not know it could be hard for a woman to get in a relationship with another one. Since men are considered the worst by women and women are more open to other women. Wow sorry Hope you find someone soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:33 PM
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Less options than you guys do I am not the "you guys" you are talking about are the ones who have a hard time finding a partner. The average straight man can have 0 options throughout its life. I am not sure the average lesbian woman does. Struggling? Sure she might do. But less options compared to the average straight man? Do not think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:05 PM
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So you are single right now? Are you looking for a relationship? When was your last relationship? Do you have difficulties attracting women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 06:00 PM
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That is a good question. Just commenting to keep an eye on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 03:16 PM
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I do not know if it is one those posts from women to circlejerk and make all men appear like sexual pigs. If it is not, sis please, find a way to never work or even be near this man again. He scares me. Or at the very least please inform some authorities about it. Please. I know you might be scared but you need to find a way to stay away from this man. He sounds like a degenerate. Hopefully, this is not one of those "men are pigs" post. Too many women do that on reddit. I do not know who to beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 09:44 PM
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Oh got you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 12:57 PM
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He was 35-48 years old and I chose to belive him based on everything tbh. The reason I gave that range is because I can’t remember that exact number but I can remember how I felt about that number(that makes no sense) but like hearing that age it’s like “okay this person has lived and isn’t a child talking, good. But also kinda giving 10-20 years off of being a bitter old man”. Like I remember my thoughts and feelings. My goodness If he was that old and thinking like that... that is worrisome...…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:43 AM
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May you continue spreading this kindness and pointing out positivity because it’s really encouraging to us to hear it! Thank you. I shall try my best. I believe it is important to encourage positivity and kindness. This world is to cold and harsh. It would be nice if we could back each other up. At the end of the day, feeling loved, heard, wanted, needed, appreciated, is what most people would like. How old are you if I may ask? 5 years older than you Why did you come here? I wanted to hear abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:22 AM
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May I ask why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 08:12 AM
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Huuuh So you are into Yaoi? It is neither his fault nor yours. It is just his preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:43 PM
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My pleasure. Also if you are already this calm, kind, patient and empathetic, with time, you will become an even more awesome person. It is rare to see youngsters like you. May your heart stay the way it is, may you stay strong enough to go through the bad times when they will come, without getting drowned by darkness.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:25 PM
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Well here was the situation, guy was saying bunch of “blah blah that’s why I don’t like women and I stick with prostitutes”. Idk if he forgot some prostitutes are women, especially the ones he’s sleeping with but I pointed that out and pointed out his whole issue was being used for money. That is so stupid. How can not he see that him paying for prostitutes is the same thing as getting used for his money? Well now he’s really being used for money and they don’t even like him to hang around outsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:18 PM
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It is a bit shocking that those men were mad at you for that. Your points were accurate. It is crazy how some men are so desperate for sex that they think it is OK give money to someone you will only ever interact with on a screen and nothing else. They just show their body on the screen and you give them your hard earn money ? You will never meet them in real life (probably), you will never be able to touch them, have sex with them. But somehow you happy with splashing your money just for some …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:37 PM
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You seem young. Your way of speaking. Also you were quite calm and patient with that guy you were talking to. You even want to hear about his experience. Perhaps you are old, but you seem to be able to control yourself. A lot of people would have lost it speaking to that guy. But you stayed polite, calm and even empathetic. That was impressive, really. I’ve never heard that view point from a guy They do exist. Not all men are sexual pigs like women believe. ask why or how you came to have that s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 09:30 PM
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It can accidentally lead you to giving more of yourself than is truly healthy It did In my relationships with some acquaintances. It hurts a lot. When not reciprocated or taken for granted. It's something I struggle with, so this advice is coming from a place of experience Thanks for that. I shall keep it in mind. Give freely and lovingly, but don't lose yourself, if that makes sense. I decided to do that after getting hurt. Not easy sometimes, particularly when they tell you that they feel like…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:26 PM
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Like if one's general mindset and relationship goals (whether nature, nurture, or combo) is to be "feminine", aka receiving, protected, provided for, gentle, soft, pampered My feminine energy is a bit higher than my masculine one. I crave all those things you mentioned. But what I crave even more is to shower a potential partner with those. I feel like I love to give more than I take. then that's what you'll be trying to get from your partner It is be the case I believe. is that the difference? …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:53 PM
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Also The fact that you have a higher masculine energy, plays a huge part in your egalitarian mindset, I believe. Most women have a higher feminine energy. I doubt egalitarianism is appealing to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 10:53 AM
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Well, I see no other choice than cloning you and women like you to achieve that / j 🤓 On a serious note, I do not know sis. I wish we could find solutions to achieve that. In the dating scene at least, most women benefit much more from the current state of it. Most men have little to no benefit at all. I am not sure most women would be happy if things became more egalitarian.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 08:59 PM
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Hey. Hope you are doing well. women who legitimately treat men as our equals are very few and far between. There lies the problem. They are a small minority. They are hard to find. Yes, one needs to vet thoroughly. The problem is that it will take so much time to find those types of women, that you will either have to lower your expectations or just decide to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 04:03 PM
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Just real women (not trans, not new half or anything else I do not know) with a penis (Sometimes with a hoohaa too). They are considered to be born women with penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 09:54 PM
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It’s silly, I know Not necessarily Yes, there might be a lot of wrong reasons why you decided to stay. But you also wanted to make things work. Even if it might be because of those wrong reasons again. You made an effort, at least. That is great thing I believe. Unfortunately the men who might be great for women, do not come with the attractive package usually. So, it is understandable that women would stick to those who do, even if those might not be good people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:29 PM
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I have personally met great guys who are nervous and do give off nerdy shy guy vibes, but by being very friendly and showing interest back these guys can be capable of being interesting, funny and proactive. But I have also met shy guys who are just very passive and are too afraid to say what they really think or want and I will end up getting frustrated and lose any potential interest. Those two points made me understand the difference. Thank you for that. I understand a little bit how women mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 05:37 PM
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It'll all be okay! Yes. That is my wish 🙏🏾 Of course. It's not as if being hypocritical is an ethical issue or a moral failure. It just means you're not holding yourself (or another person) to the same standards as someone else. Like if you were willing to hire your cousin with only an associates degree, but required every other worker to have a bachelor's degree. It's hypocritical but not immoral Yes. I do understand your point of view. Nobody said that hypocrisy has to be malicious though. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 02:56 PM
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We're working on a rough patch in our relationship but I know things will eventually get better. Oh no. Praying for you guys🙏🏾 Hope things go well. When you explained the dynamic in your relationship, I liked it so much. Please stay together. I know sometimes there will be some frictions, but I just hope you guys will stay strong together.💜 I do think that short women who want ridiculously tall men are hypocritical. Like damn, lady. You're 5'2 yet refuse to date any and all men who are less than…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 09:33 PM
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I'm doing alright. You? That is great. I am fine. Thank you. How is Mr. Egalitarian? Like if he said that he'd had 150 sex partners but wanted a woman who never had sex...yeah, that's hypocritical. Can't get any more "strict rules for thee but none for me" than that. I do not agree. People can have preferences. If it is not hypocritical from a short woman to want a tall man, while she herself is SHORT, then a promiscuous person wanting a virgin is not either. The same way a poor woman wanting a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:29 PM
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Hey. How are you doing? Your question was interesting. You asked if he was a virgin himself since he wanted a virgin. I guess if he said he was not, you would have said that he was ab hypocrite, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:45 PM
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I understand you without actually understanding you...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 12:19 PM
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Why do not you tell her that you do not want her in your life anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 10:03 PM
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And this is primarily enforced by other men who make fun of men who are not breadwinners or whose wives make more. I disagree with that. Society, both men and particularly women are the primary enforcers. But I guess we cannot have a debate so anyway. presume that it’s the high earning women that want men to make more, when it’s actually the men who feel uncomfortable Again, disagree. Most women would rather have someone who earns more or at least the same amount. More men than you think would b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 10:29 PM
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Luckily I have no problem attracting younger men who can meet my requirements. What is weird is that you, as a woman saying you go (can) for younger men, is not considered a problem. But a man would say the same, I would get attacked by women. I do not understand why.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 09:35 PM
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I can take care of myself. I can do things on my own. I have been leading my life and doing things on my own. But I have realised that the perfect partner for me would be a woman just like you. I love women who are not afraid of taking the lead. Mind you, like I said, I am able to do things on my own. But I have realised that I am quieter and laid back than most men. It is not even that I am feminine. Though I do believe that my feminine energy is slightly higher than my masculine one, 55-45 I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 09:43 PM
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Exactly what I thought lmao Mr. boyfriend must be lucky to have you.😏
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:24 PM
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Most of the redpill and blackpill men here automatically assume that the man is inherently providing far more in all aspects of the relationship. From paying the majority of household expenses, to being the primary breadwinner and working longer hours, to being the core emotional support, to funding all the dates/vacations. All while being sexually frustrated because they don't get nearly the amount of intimacy they crave. But do you agree at least that you are the exception and not the rule amo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:17 PM
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Sorry for asking but What is meant by BTGGF ? I have an idea but I am asking to make sure that it is what I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 06:06 PM
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It is crazy to me that some people get confused when they see you writing stuff like that. I do not know since you have been on reddit. But the first time I saw one of your comments where you wrote female women, I automatically thought about the era we are in, and quickly understood what you meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 03:50 PM
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Who knows brother? Perhaps they really do get women hit them up when they do that? But I believe it is just about how it makes them feel good to shit on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:40 PM
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Mate you were wasting your time with that guy. Is so biased that it can't even see how inconsistent he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 07:31 PM
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Oh okay I see Thanks anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 12:55 PM
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It showed that although 80% of the male members were considered less than average attractiveness, female members still messaged the overwhelming majority. The members were ranked 1-5, and women messaged men who were 5s far, far less than the men they ranked 1-3, with 4s being a steep decline. According to the graph, the bulk of messages from women to men were sent to 2s and 2.5s. When women say this, do you mean that they were the ones to send the first message to those men? Or was is just a "hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 10:00 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 08:28 PM
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to surprise his sexual needs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 07:59 PM
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The phrase is a bit demeaning, Yes, that is what I was saying Apart from that I definitely agree that people learn from each other when in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 06:09 PM
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If you do not agree with that sentence, then you might actually understand why men hate it. At least, I hope. Women should stop phrasing it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:58 PM
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Oh my GOD I feel bad now I thought you were old
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:54 PM
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Maybe I could attract young men if I put myself out there more and approached them In fact you would Those among them who actually like might feel like you would never be interested in them since you are older So even if they wanted to approach you, they would not. I like older women But I am afraid that they might hate a "kiddo" like me if I did a move on them
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:41 PM
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It is all over reddit Men see it already
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:32 PM
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I taught him how If only you knew how men hate that sentence It is crazy to think that women do not see any problem with that sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:31 PM
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Hi there I do not like to say this But too many red flags That man sounds toxic You should avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:34 PM
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Hi there I do not like to say this But too many red flags That man sounds toxic You should avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:33 PM
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Do not think I would But I would feel like she does not like me anymore because she has found out that she likes women more
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 09:57 PM
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When i read this, if this is what game is for women, then I guess I am only compatible with 1%of women...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:24 PM
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The post was made by a woman...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:32 PM
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He definitely did not read You said you are close to your 30s and he says you are 50? Like come on dude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 11:00 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 11:45 PM
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I’m not attracted to most people I encounter daily, does that mean I think they’re “ugly”? No. No it does not. There is a difference between not being attracted to someone and finding someone unattractive What I see/hear (and that is just me)and I believe other men might see/hear too is women saying that most men are unattractive. Plus the problem is not that it is only one woman saying it. I lurk a lot on female oriented subs. And generally when that feeling is expressed, it is by a lot of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 10:45 PM
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It is not men here say It is that, when asked, a lot of women on reddit say that they find most men unattractive/ugly/not gorgeous like women are. So of course, the men on here will think that men are ugly to women Reddit is not real life But anonymity helps people express what they truly think or feel. You can say a woman find a man unattractive =/= finding him ugly But do you think that if you tell a person that you find them unattractive, they will believe that you do not find them ugly too?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 08:51 PM
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I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 10:00 PM
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Why ? Is it because you do not want to hurt because she is a girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 09:17 PM
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Once, I saw she wrote that she had been raped. I guess, since that day she must hate men so much to the point where she does not even realise how hateful she sounds.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 09:19 PM
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Oh my God Sorry I misread your post This is the second time in two days
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:47 PM
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Oooooh Well done That was masterclass in silence If you didn't write this I would have forgotten about the age gap in that case, and would have only focused on op point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:45 PM
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Interesting Considering the "do not shit where you eat" Glad for you though What would you say are the downsides of working at the same place?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 09:40 PM
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she’s not just going to give it away to a meh individual. You say this But most of the comments from women on this thread from women who said they had casual sex, said the men were ugly. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:19 AM
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Yeah Sorry Really I should have read it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:11 AM
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Honestly I did not I guess I was definitely arguing with no one else but me. Sorry again. I just saw your comment and thought smv=looks
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:05 AM
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Remember women aren’t visual creatures like men are. Speaking for all women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 12:02 AM
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My bad then I am not knowledgeable enough when it comes to those smv and blabla things. To me smv was only about looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:54 PM
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you should be attracting at least some of them. This is the part I am talking about And I do not agree with. Because there are definitely 6-7 men who cannot attract their female equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:48 PM
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If we to take personal anecdotes then we will get nowhere. I did not say that no 6-7 men cannot get with their female equivalent. But your argument that if a 6-7 man can not get his equivalent then he definitely is not 6-7 is false That is what I was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:41 PM
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We are talking about women here And asked you a question You change the topic to men I guess with that answer what you are trying to tell me is that the women would choose the 10 men. I asked this question because you said that if 6-7 only get 3 women it means that they are 6-7, because as you said, if they were truly 6-7, there would be at least some 6-7 women who would get interested in them. What I wanted to say is that there definitely some real 6-7 men who do not get 6-7 women. Because, as …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:29 PM
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I do not believe in all those smv things and all. But honest question If you put in the same room 5 men smv 10, 5 men smv 6-7 and 5 women smv 6-7, and tell the women to choose the men they want to have sex with Be honest, do you believe That 1 of those women will choose a 6-7 man?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 11:15 PM
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What about hitting men?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 10:29 PM
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Nothing At least from me But I was thinking about you and op chatting to try to know each other Since you said hey to him
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:18 PM
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OH do you fitl ops description?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 10:07 PM
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Oh I guess I did not see it that way. Guess it might make sense. I do not I just hate shit testing so much Sounds like a way to just start an argument I do not know I feel annoying a male partner = shit testing She can annoy me with wanting to cuddle all the time though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:21 PM
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Sounds like fun. Would not annoy you? I am sexually available to him and let him perv out on me most of the time You definitely are a good partner Nothing sexier than a woman letting you perv out on her when you feel like it. He is, indeed, a spoiled man
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:16 PM
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Oh okay I guess annoying a male partner from time to time is a thing women like. I hate it though...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:13 PM
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Is it actually that bipolar women give the best sex? I see people all over reddit say it time and time again, but I do not know if it is the truth? my childish antics? As long as it is from time to time... Also, how would feel if he started doing the same to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 11:02 PM
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What will happen the day he will call you fat because you tricked him into calling you fat? Would you say "ha! I knew you did not like me and did not find me attractive?" Or will you acknowledge that you were at fault for tricking him?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:58 PM
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You are right to block him Pff some people do not know how not to fuck things up. Why so desperate? She gave you her number. Perhaps he thought you gave him a fake phone number and wanted to check it out?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 10:49 PM
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It would be so beneficial for men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:46 PM
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Maybe The brain has such a way to put things that make sense and things that do not together when it comes to dreams, it is crazy. I am saying because, I believe the main reason you did not see your car anymore was because the store was up on a hill. So your brain decided to put you in worried state because logical conclusion "car slip and roll back down". But now, rolled back down to where? That is where the illogical part comes in (if we ignore the already illogical part of the store being up …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:31 PM
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Dreams can be so weird at times
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 10:12 PM
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to ALL women This is a hyperbole, and you know it. The comment below puts it better. Men do not want to appeal to all women. We all know this is not possible. Men do try to appeal to the maximum of women possible. instead of focusing on the women they appeal to I understand what you are saying. But men (at least the below average and average) do not know which women they appeal to. Why? Simply because men are not the ones getting approached by women. Women can know which men they appeal to becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 09:46 PM
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a woman strong enough to be a good partner and a mother, will also be strong enough to oppose her man when she feels that she needs to, No problem with that. Where do I sign up?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:45 PM
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They think women have a duty to be morally superior or something. Ooooh Makes sense Now I totally get it Like they want to people to feel like only men are shallow and bad But women are saint because they do not mention any physical preferences. But that is just stupid. Because when some men will lurk on those subs, they will believe that "oh so women do not really care about my height, face... because on their sub they only say they want kind men". But those same women will get mad and say men …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 09:18 PM
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I am shocked At first, I even thought it was a mistake and that you meant men insteadofwomen. But I cannot wrap my head around the fact that even in women's space online, you get attacked for your preferences, by WOMEN. I do not get it. I definitely believed that women were united when it came to preferences and not being judgemental.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:37 PM
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By other women? Interesting I thought women all agreed to the idea of preferences are preferences and women have the right to have any preference. Were they older women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/24 08:24 PM
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because it's too confusing If you were a man This would not be an excuse. if we are not sitting together he's constantly making eye contact, You are a woman Do not women say that a woman who makes a lot of eyes contact to a man is an interested? Well this apply to your case. but now I'm thinking it's disinterest. He mirrors your movements, laughs at your jokes, eyes contact, but you still think he is not interested because no dm first? And someone asked for his phone number so.... If you are not…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:27 PM
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And what proof do you have that lot of hot women are dating ugly men like you mentioned on another comment, apart from your own personal experience? See how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:50 PM
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There was a thread today on askmen, where the woman literally told the man that he gave her the ick because he was sick
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:05 PM
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There was a thread today on askmen, where the woman literally told her that he gave the ick because he was sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/24 09:00 PM
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The only place I’ve ever seen guys talk about wanting quiet/introverts is in the manosphere and never in real life which is what this is addressing. I get your point But The so called incels, not only see women online complain about how all men are trashes and there no good men, that women wished there were more nice guys out there who would treat them right. But they also hear women say it in real life. But when they try to (just like you) address it, I am sure you know how they are treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 11:07 PM
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Now look I’ve tried working on it, but the idea of women just wanting good,nice guys/introverts is so beyond me. I was called the weirdest and ugliest boy in front of the entire class, laughed at for being quiet, always looked over in favour of my more extroverted and partygoing friends. Even now the people that end up in relationships are those that are confident and bubbly. I have zero confidence even now What would call a man who would post this? An incel right? And you would that man to fluf…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:24 PM
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You are brutal This sub needs more women like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:24 PM
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Why are there so many answers from women saying it is not gender thing and that both men and women are bad But when the gender are flipped l, those same women are more than happy to put men down, talk about how men are trash, toxic and, surprise surprise, do not say it is not a gender thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 11:40 PM
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WoMAN WoMEN Still confused? /j
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 10:46 PM
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got tired of the topics that are frequently discussed here You are not alone mate Same feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:02 PM
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Oh okay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 04:01 PM
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u/Hazzymemory7 Where are mate? Long time since I have seen here Did you retire or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 11:04 PM
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It is funny really. I never understood why a lot of male gamers hate female gamers and believe that they are inferior too males. I guess it is just that, video games have always been associated to men more. Like how going shopping has been to women. But I find that way of thinking so dumb. Like, I wish there was more women interested in video games. Actually, bunch of them are so good at it. I dream about being able to share my passion for soccer games with female friends, relatives and even par…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:33 PM
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I hope so.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:24 PM
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What you wrote made me laugh. Because in 2022, I had high hopes for 23 but got smashed with disappointment after disappointment. Fool me once shame on you Fool me twice...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:17 PM
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You have the right to have your standard. But do not call men who like to be pursued by women "princess". It is mean and toxic. Wanting to be pursued is not a feminine trait. A man does not become less of a man just because he wants to be pursued. You calling such man a princess, is like saying he is not a "real" man. Or perhaps that is what you believe That only men who pursue women are real men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:31 PM
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he was a princess Why a princess,? Can't he be a Prince? A Prince who wants to be chased? You make sound like wanting to feel wanted and pursued is something only women have the right to feel? A feminine trait? Men want and like to feel desired and loved too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:35 PM
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It is really nice that you thought about pleasing the little ones. Hope they will enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:23 PM
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Looks delicious
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:14 PM
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quiet with dark circles under their eyes, who have scruffy hair and are tired, etc. I look like that lmao from girls saying they want I have not met them in real life so far
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/23 10:13 PM
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Last time someone summoned her like that She came back full force. Do you guys here like her this much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 11:05 PM
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Do men think that they own their wives/girlfriends No no That is why men are told it is just their turn as a REMINDER that "mate she just accepted to be with you for now. But be careful. A mistake and she can go find someone else." It was never said because men believe they own their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 11:38 PM
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I love this kind of thread. Fathers, brothers, husbands, uncles,boys, young men, nephews, read this thread carefully and take notes. This how and what the women around you feel and think about you and men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 12:14 AM
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I could help any guy from this sub Mate,( instead of people on this sub) try to look for your male friends, acquaintances in real life who want to be in relationship but struggle to find a girlfriend, and help them Mate. I am sure a lot of them feel too ashamed to ask for help from anyone but would love to have someone like you to help them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:44 PM
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And now I asked you the question Would women choose ugly scholar over beautiful Mcdonald worker man?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:30 PM
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a beautiful McDonald’s worker over an ugly scholar Would women take ugly scholar over a beautiful Mcdonald worker man? Also I thought people should date people they find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/23 11:22 PM
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It does in fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:11 PM
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A man saying he had women almost raping him, then you have this response from a woman. Or even this Really nice behaviour. Only men are monsters and trashes, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 11:00 PM
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Not trying to put you down nor trying to downplay your experience. Just pointing out something. I didn’t get any real interest until I was like 20. Any real interest; meaning you still got some kind of interests at least. Just that you either did not like the persons or the motives behind those interests. But you still got something, at least. Until you were 20; a lot of men these days (and I believe even in the past) can go till their late 20s to 30s before having something (casual or relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 10:38 PM
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It is not like women on reddit were showering men with love and appreciation. A quick on this sub alone is enough for any man to feel the hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 10:54 PM
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The narrative is that men are the evils who have made and still make society, women suffer. Plus patriarchy So they ask themselves "why should we be nice too men anyway? They are the reason why we are in this mess "
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:36 PM
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I am not disagreeing. And it is sad we got to that point. But I believe both genders express those feelings towards each other. But one gender actions are more loud and visible than the other. But yes, it is unfortunate we got to that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:45 AM
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🤣 Oh well Now you got me even more interested in experiencing this in real life. Shame it is not possible 🚪🚶🏾‍♂️😔
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:17 PM
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men just like to make these threats It is just frustration talking. You are right Men are not living. Most men love women and want to be loved and wanted by a woman. It is just that sometimes it is difficult for men, when then try their best to have at least one woman interested in them, but get none.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:12 PM
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You’ll be swimming in fat asses. As a big ass lover, I wonder what it would be like to literally be swimming in fat asses lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 11:07 PM
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Do not forget to also tell them that it is not because they are Chad and Stacy that they should play with people emotions and break their heart/s Who am I kidding? Tell them to enjoy their super powers in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 10:35 PM
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May I know why you feel embarrassed by it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 10:18 PM
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but better looking men are more worth the risks. I was shocked when I saw SOME comments from women saying: "Well, if I have to risk getting pregnant, used just for sex, raped, better go with the attractive men. At least it is worth it" So I guess it isnt the risk thats the issue it more about who you are taking the risk for and how worth it she thinks the guy is. That is what I realised, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:03 PM
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You are a desirable person... But to certain percentage of people... The problem is finding those people...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:02 PM
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That is great. Hope all of you will start relationships soon lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:30 PM
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Nice. How did it go?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:01 PM
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all that weird shit. It is not weird shit lmao You are just the dominant type. That is quite hot. I hope you will find the right partner to explore your kinks. It is not easy, because even submissive men tend to hide it, because they are told that women want to be the submissive one and are turned off by submissive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:25 PM
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Are you single? Are the friends you called singles? Are the women you are going to meet all single? If yes to all of these, then I hope everyone will connect with someone and exchange numbers to chat and try to see if they want to date. Tldr: I hope (if all you are single) that meeting will get everyone a potential date opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 11:20 PM
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Perhaps I do not remember well. But I am sure I saw you write something like you wanting to sit on their face. I saw it a long time ago. Do you see yourself more like a dominatrix or femdom? If you do not mind me asking of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:58 PM
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Ah yes angecruelle The insufferable Virgin as you call yourself lmao I mostly lurk on here I remember one time I saw you wrote something about you sitting on ex boyfriend face (saw another time that you said that you two are not together; find it sad to be honest but such his life) So this is how you unlocked the femdom in you? Or would say you are dominatrix? I do not like dominatrix I like gentle femdom. And just like you, I found out that I was the submissive type after reading a manga (henta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 10:39 PM
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I cannot Sorry about that. pretty much. If you want to partner, did you try to, despite that lack of attention or did you just tell yourself that it is not worth it, without trying?i
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 09:18 PM
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Reading, soccer, making digital art, nerd stuff like DND, games etc For reading I do not know. Aren't there ways to meet other people who make digital art? The only thing I see about gaming is if there are some esport events.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 12:01 PM
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It has not worked out at all I see Would you say that people in your social circle know you well? It can be very important in the matching process. but it's all just really tiring and hurts my view of myself relationship partner. That is true I completely agree But men have no choice unfortunately. If you want a partner, you need to be active and not give up. Women can just decide to sit and do nothing, and still get a partner .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:56 AM
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Aside from the one person who called me a “slave” and nothing more than a f**k hole. God bless her wherever she is. Was it from a woman on here? I am not surprised. As soon as I read the title of your thread, I was sure that the women would call you all names. I think the women on here do not like women like who take care of their partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 11:16 PM
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I can't keep focused long term, In any aspect of your life? I need some vacations. Can you get them, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:22 PM
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Oh I wanted to say that you need to find which method you are the most at ease: between the so-called "cold approach " or "using your social circle ". But I guess you are at ease with using your social circle? So you tried using your social circle, and it has not worked yet? You are not the most attractive guy, but you are attractive enough for one woman. And it is about finding that woman. I believe you should not give up on the social circle thing, as it is I believe one of the most effective …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:09 PM
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Okay. I get it. The only solution I see is trying to find a kind of compromise. If both of you agree that in 5 years, it might make it difficult, why not try to see if, for example in 2 or 3 years, you will be in the financial situation, that both of you will feel right to get kids? Because on hand, you do not feel ready. On the other , your partner wants to have kids since you are at the age both of you agreed to. Plus, you said that you two are getting older. The only thing I see is waiting 2 …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:05 PM
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Nothing much to say, no woman has ever shown any sign of interest in me I get it. But I would say it is rather that no woman who was interested in you has shown signs (directly or indirectly). Because we all that most women even if they are interested will barely show it (hints). But yes. At the end of the day, no clear interest means no interest. I only feel that sometimes and only in a romantic relationship context. It is a shame that dating has become so hard for men in general. People (mostl…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 02:26 PM
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Knees are getting better they were pretty bad this past month. You had some issues with your knees? What was it? But glad to know that they are getting better. Single, gave up on finding a partner. I’ve accepte Is there a reason as to why you gave up? Feeling unwanted sometimes lonely but I’ve always been anti-social and every year like people less and less so it balances out. I am antisocial. But I am sociable. I have realised earlier in life that humans are the worst. It made me wary of people…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:05 AM
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Yep I am struggling with that. Can you tell me a bit more about that? What are the problems you are facing when it comes to dating? I feel lonely and unwanted Do you think that it is related to the fact that you do not have someone in your life right now? I can definitely understand that feeling. Question: what are the things you love about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:44 AM
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Having some issues with attention By that, do you mean romantic attention or just feeling acknowledged by people in general? Or something else? No That is good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:37 AM
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Okay. I have read some of your comments. I think that I get why you do not feel ready. To be honest, I kind of understand you. The two of you have stressful jobs that take most of your time. Also, it seems that you do not feel financially stable enough for that. Did you tell those reasons to your partner, though? I believe communication is always the key. If you did, what was her reaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 09:34 AM
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That is a though one, in fact. It happens. I do not know if you have already talked to her. If not, it would be important to tell her that you are still not ready. Of course, she might get sad and disappointed. But being truthful is always the way to go. The ideal would be for both of you to find a compromise. But may i ask why you do not feel ready to start having kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:29 PM
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Men of PPD: How are you doing in life? Are you okay? Physically? Mentally? If you are single, are you struggling to find a partner? How do you feel? Lonely? Unwanted? I am here to talk. You can open up if you wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 11:07 PM
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I add you to the list of the few sane women I have seen on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 09:36 AM
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I like lurking on reddit. I have read on some female centred spaces that misogyny is far worse than misandry. That misandry is OK because women do not harass, assault, kill, or rape men. And that women are less violent. Do women are actually OK with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:46 PM
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If I understand correctly, you wish you did not have to initiate? You feel embarrassed initiating? You wish your partner would be the only one initiating? You feel desperate when you are the one who initiated? Would say that your partner is desperate when he is the one who initiates? Do you even think about your partner feeling on the matter? Do you realise that when you initiate, your partner feels loved and wanted to? Or are you like most women who believe that it is the man duty to always ini…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:33 PM
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Could not agree more. That is why I miss her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:40 PM
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Guess she did... It is sad though Really liked her energy on this sub. Always comprehensive and calm.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:26 PM
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Where is u/cimzim? Miss her so much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:18 PM
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I like your flair
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:15 PM
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It is pointless to argue with them. They will always believe that playing with their hair is making a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:26 PM
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but people should be = allowed to have their preferences without being shamed. That is what people do not want to accept on here. Op is the perfect example.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:07 PM
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This post feels like it has been written by a female incel. The same speech like so called "male incel" just genders have been swapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:22 PM
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I believe it is because they seem themselves as true manly men who have manly preferences when it comes to what they like in women. And they must believe that any other man who is true manly man must have those preferences too, or he is not a real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:44 PM
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It’s probably the most underrated part of the entire comment So true lmao . I was quite happy when I managed that one. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Blueshit 😂😂😂😂 I will never forget this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 06:16 PM
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blueshit. Sorry cannot stop laughing.😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:48 PM
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Couldn't agree more. It always like that. I do not know why. A lot of men think that because they love x in women then all men must love it too. Sometimes they even go so far as to mock the men who do not share their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:13 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:39 PM
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Because of men. If men decide to have standards, and stop simping for women, women will realise they are not that special and will have to work hard too to get a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:39 PM
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Guess you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:33 PM
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if the woman is leeching his time and money while completely misleading him. The simple fact that you mentioned this proves that at least some women out there can acknowledge men problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:44 PM
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And I am saying that they should be like that. Otherwise women will always the upper hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:20 PM
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Simply by men having standards, boundaries and being picky too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:05 PM
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Going so far as to say amalt? Okay I guess you know what you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 09:01 PM
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Even the ones who say they don’t. Mmmm... . So i have to remind myself to play coy and sort of like a woman who needs help - ingenue. You know. Play the hero. I guess the type of men you want, look for those in a woman. Thanks for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 06:50 PM
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Are not women who say it is weird to teach a man what to do in bed, because men are supposed to just know?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:18 PM
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Yes, you've met them, I am 100% sure of that. They just lied that's all SsShhhttt Do not break the illusion they are in. Ignorance is bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 11:07 PM
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But, in all seriousness, who would even want to be with a man that considers your only value to be how close to a virgin you are Do you hold the same view when it is women who are repulsed by virgin men? That they see virgin men as no value? I don’t know, nor have I ever heard of an older lady who slept around in her past and is now struggling to find a relationship. Most of them are with men who also slept around. Women can do whatever they want. They always have options any time they want. Pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:52 PM
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If you do not mind me asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 10:41 PM
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Okay What are those personality traits you have noticed that men find attractive in women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:52 PM
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Okay. I already know men have to work hard to get women. I was just asking out of curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 09:28 PM
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So men need all those to get women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/22 08:51 PM
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And op, in all honesty, you believe that men standards do not give women body dysmorphia?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:18 PM
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And op, in all honesty, you believe that men standards do not give women body dysmorphia
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:17 PM
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I do not think it will bring me happiness. But I understand why so many men want to have it a lot. Women love to deny it, but they are the one who value promiscuity in men. How many women get delighted about the idea of virgin men? The older the man, the worst they assume about him. "He is surely a pathetic misogynist pig, an incel, a socially inept man. How come no woman has ever wanted to be with him? That is weird" So many women have such toxic, fragile femininity that they find inexperienced…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/22 09:13 PM
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Men please, PLEASE. STOP SIMPING FOR WOMEN. STOP SAYING THINGS LIKE MEN CANNOT HAVE STANDARDS. I agree, women are the privileged one in the dating game. But, please have some self respect. Have standards and boundaries. You people say that women have inflated egos because they are flooded with attention from simps but at the same time, you people say that men have no choice but not to have standards and not be picky. Do not you realise that by having such mindset, you people are the one who enco…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/22 10:04 PM
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Women say that men make their life more miserable. Marriage is a trap for them. And they do not need men. All men are trash. So it obvious that women will be more than happy to stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 10:37 PM
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I believe this the best answer. Unfortunately, too many desperate men for that scenario to ever happen. Men need to realise that simping for women is their first enemy in the dating world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 09:18 PM
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a male and a women I see.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 08:35 PM
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Very good point. I do wonder what the answer will be.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 08:01 PM
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Okay Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:48 PM
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Okay thanks for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 10:05 PM
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Okay thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:56 PM
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If you are a woman, when you see the thread from men here, do you despise the men on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 09:21 PM
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The women on here are like :"men only look at women wearing make up" Men say :"no we are not really into make up (but some of us are)". But all in all, we prefer a naturally looking woman. Women:"bullshit. You people only go after women wearing make up." The attitude the women on here complain and hate about the men on here, meaning the fact that they do not acknowledge what women say they "mansplain", it is that attitude that I see on this thread from the same women. Womensplaining and refusing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:55 PM
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Pretty simple. The world is a cold place when you are a man. Men are thought since childhood that no one give a damn about their feelings. They are told to suck it up and man up. Men are thought that showing emotions, being vulnerable, is not good for them. They need to be strong and stable. Mothers (and fathers at times) teach their boys to be strong, not to be cry a baby, particularly if they do not want to be seen as week by girls. Emotions, vulnerability are only for women, not for men. Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:57 PM
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I kind of agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:19 PM
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Okay. Genuine questions Do you get mad when a woman who is short (or not) does not to want to be with a short man; because she does not want to feel like a bigger than a man, or feel like a "monster". That she wants to feel feminine? Do you get mad when a woman who is a virgin (or not) is disgusted by virgin men? Because she believes it is gross that a man never got the opportunity to have sex, and it means that such man must be an incel, a socially inept. Also she finds it gross to have to teac…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 03:08 PM
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glad to know some people here have sense! You asked a question, some men on here answered. The answers they gave did not match what you wanted them to say, so those men do not make sense? Just because they did not say what you wanted? I am sure you would get mad if a male op had the same attitude towards women on a post. Anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:40 PM
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Then short women must only date short men and not feel entitled to men taller than they are. They have such a toxic fragile femininity that they need a man bigger than they are to make them feel small and feminine. See how stupid it sounds? It is not because a man is promiscuous that he must only date promiscuous women. That is not how attraction nor standards work.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 01:33 PM
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If exclusivity isn’t established, I always assume the dude is still exploring his options or still banging other women. Why would I assume otherwise You have the right to. You can ask them to. Even if they might lie about it. but how does the woman know he’s not courting other women the same way too? Especially early on? Courting is not the same as having sex. Men and women have the right to be courting multiple people at a time. It is called not putting all your eggs in the same basket.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:25 PM
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The amount of women answering by shaming, putting down the men who just want virgin women, it is worrisome. Why do the women on here like to do that? You people will defend to death any woman who only want to date men: taller her (while said woman is not tall herself), only earning x amount (while said woman makes less), only experienced men (she despises virgin, wether she is a virgin herself or not). All those will be seen as just said woman standards, so other women see nothing wrong with tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 11:09 PM
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Just ignore my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 09:13 PM
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I love how the women on here try by all means to blame, shame, and try to convince the men who only want virgin women are toxic and all the what not, by making post after post, thread after thread about it. But, I am hard pressed to see at least just one woman on here, who blamed, shamed and tried to convince a woman who do not want to be near virgin men. No woman on here ever did that. I am sure most women on here believe that a woman have the right to despise virgin men. It is her right, her s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 08:45 PM
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My new strategy is to cut them off as soon as I get a whiff of disagreeableness. Some women like to keep men on the hook for their own selfish reasons, it's pathetic. I.agree with you. That is a good strategy. You have boundaries, and it is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 05:38 PM
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That being said, putting in my pussy would be a way of REPLACING me not engaging the experience. It is the same when you want your boyfriend to use a dildo or penis sleeve.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:43 PM
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Like wtf men can say they like big boobs Yes. But a normally adjusted man, will not say TO HIS GIRLFRIEND "oh sweet heart, I wish you had bigger boobs. My exes boobs were so big. I am addicted to big boobs. Please sweet heart, could you go through surgery so that you get bigger ones for me?" And yes I used surgery like you used dildo and penis sleeve because nothing can actually make a woman boobs bigger if not surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:36 PM
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Just one question. Would said woman be okay with this scenario? "hey babe put this fleshlight in your pussy so I can fuck you and feel something because your pussy is too loose."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 10:12 PM
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I believe you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 04:17 PM
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they don't trust poor foreign women, either Yes you are right. Maybe the general consensus might be "wether north or south, east or west, women are the same evil minded". Without forgetting that the American culture is getting more and more on other societies. But I do agree with you that going abroad, could be great idea. But, I have seen a lot of women here, shame the men who suggested going abroad to look for potential partners. he's afraid that these women will just take advantage of him, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 03:29 PM
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It depends on what you mean by feminist. If you are a feminist who is aware that women and men both struggle in this world, and both need help, then you are not annoying. And a lot of men would love to be with a woman who is all natural. If you are a feminist who believe that all men are privileged because, patriarchy. If you believe men do not suffer at all, and are all sexist and rapist pigs, and that men should all go to hell so that women will be safe and happy, then I guess most men would n…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 01:23 PM
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Tell me tell me Where can I meet this kind of women? Please tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 11:15 PM
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it’s really up to successful men to teach other unsuccessful men how to attract women and not to expect much help from women. I have been thinking about it. I think older men, successful like you (if I am not wrong, you are married) should make some threads in which you try to give pieces of advice to other (younger) men. It will be quite helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 10:07 PM
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If the man sticks around you know he is into r’s instead of just f’s. Nope. You are playing the wrong card. Humans are shitty. A man can wait till the woman is okay, will have sex with her and disappear. A gold digger can go through all the test a man will make her go through, till he believes she is not after his money, to suddenly start using him for his money. I am sure you do know how humans can play pretend till they get what they want. Also if a man approaches you on the street and asks yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 09:30 PM
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It's more like waiting for the dudes she wants realise they want to ltr her. Yes, you are right. I'm not saying it doesn't happen, but anybody using such a strategy will be frustrated often.. Of course, they will. Wether men (unless he is super attractive) or women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:56 PM
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Op I tried to read all your comments on this thread. And main things noticed were: You seem to be attractive, since your male friends tell you so. You seem to have a nice personality, according to you and to them. I believe your main problem is that, you are passive like most women. You are waiting for those men to make the move. Because, according to you, it shows that a man actually likes you ( and this is not true.) You mentioned that you have an inferiority complex. Let me give you a fresh n…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:51 PM
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Consistent bad luck I have tried to op comments through out the thread. It is not bad luck. She seems to be like most women. In a passive role, wait for the men to magically realised that they actually want to be in a relationship with her. She mentioned that she had inferiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:21 PM
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I like men asking since it confirms their feelings. Do you know that a man can ask you first and just use you as a friend with benefits down the line? Why? Because humans can be shitty. We are all humans. We know what it is like. We all know that we can play pretend for a long time, just to get what we want, men or women. But eh? At the end of the day you do you sister. You are a woman. If you do not want to make the first move more power to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 12:03 PM
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Really? I just mentioned what happened when a female user did the same kind of post. How come this is a personal attack?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 12:45 PM
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Last time a woman tried to make a thread about the fact that she understand how hard it is for men, because even as a woman, she had so much difficulties to date women; most answers from women were: Women do not care about wether it is hard for men or not; why should we? We do not owe men nothing. For sure, this post has been written by a misogynist sexist pig of incel; there is no way a woman would write this. The OP of said thread literally had to put a photo of her, with a paper in their hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 09:42 PM
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"i dont know what kind of gross nonsensual inexperienced men need to be "instructed" in getting me off, but i was never havign sex with them so who cares lol this whole "teach a man to sex" seems to be something fat ugly asexual nerds have to do because they dont have genuine attraction" Now tell me, where did she say that those men are not good in bed? Gross nonsexual inexperienced men: means she considers inexperienced men as gross. Fat ugly asexual nerds: really? You know, it is not a problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 12:49 PM
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I would ask her what her favourite food is. Then I will cook and bring it to the table. To the women here, would it be great idea? Do you think that I could improve my chance of getting straight to her heart if I brought that to the table?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 09:44 PM
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Could not agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:16 PM
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Yes Somehow. But there are ton of men who just want to feel loved by a woman. I know men are seen as gross sexual predators, pathetic incel. But a lot of just want a genuine relationship with a woman whom they can give their love and receive some love back. That is why I made that post. I am in no way a good example. But I just tried to give them some pieces of advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 08:13 PM
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Sorry for making you feel like that mate. But I had to give proofs of what I was saying to the Op.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:09 PM
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Maybe the kind of men you would love to see approach you are not the ones who do it; but the one who approach you, you find them so ugly that you decide that it is better to consider that they never approached you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 12:58 PM
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That is true. The women on here believe that men just want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:34 PM
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She was literally shaming virgin men. That is what I wanted to highlight. Women have the right to be disgusted by virgin men the way men have the right to be disgusted by promiscuous women. Equality, equity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 11:20 PM
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Thank you. But I realised that the option are limited. While I sometimes see some users with sentences as flair for example. How to do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:59 PM
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I kind of agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:55 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wlq3jk/q4w_would_you_say_most_or_all_men_can_be_great/ijuxa0a?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 Here is one shaming virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wlq3jk/q4w_would_you_say_most_or_all_men_can_be_great/ijuxa0a?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 Here is one shaming virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:51 PM
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a lot of women struggle with a “savior complex It would be much more accurate if you said some women. A lot of women? Most men do not see that in real life. What most men see is that they are expected to be omnipotent. Men are expected by most women to be the saviour not the saved one. You and your friends are attracted to struggling men. Good. But it does not mean a lot of women are. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wlq3jk/q4w_would_you_say_most_or_all_men_can_be_great/ijuxa0a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:37 PM
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I guess the thing is, you can put all the effort and still struggle. It is a hard pill to swallow for men. The expression man up has never been so meaningful when it comes to dating for men. Unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:25 PM
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I believe your post will be loved by a lot of men here, while a lot of women will resent you for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:21 PM
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This is why women don't fuck men unsuccessful with women in the first place! Okay got it. So women see unsuccessful men as some socially inept men. I think I understand why most men here are obsessed with having casual sex. They are right when they say women are the one who value and promiscuous men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:18 PM
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Please, I would like to know how to add a flair or change it. Could you explain it to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:10 PM
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I believe it is does not occur frequently, but it still important to mention it so that men remember about it. Keep in mind that it is always the minority that gives a bad rep to the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 10:00 PM
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I have reposted it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:28 PM
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Okay thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:03 PM
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I do not understand. Does my post breaks the rules reason why it has been removed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:44 PM
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I think no, I would not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:51 PM
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I wonder if you argue this much with women when they do not want to be near a man who has not a certain height, or when they do not want to have nothing to do with a virgin man. I am sure you tell yourself it is okay, it is their standards. Do you even consider arguing with them the same way you are here arguing with men who do not want to be with a promiscuous woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 10:05 PM
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Do you consider a woman who is disgusted by virgin (wether she is virgin or not) men and wants nothing to do with them (dating them), to be a sexist woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:57 PM
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Do you consider it to be a moral judgment if a woman, wether she is a virgin or not does not want to be near a virgin man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:53 PM
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The women on here seem to like to say that men are ugly. I guess it gives a lot satisfaction to women when they said that. I just hope you are kind enough not tell little boys that they are ugly. You can say it to grown men all you want. They are used to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:04 PM
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Those men are headaches, even for other men. It is like they want to force women to date men they do not find attractive. Then you will see the same men be like, I do not want a woman to betabux me. Like what is wrong with you? Women have the right to only go for men they find attractive. If a woman thinks she can get super attractive men,that she only deserves the top men, so what? Let those women be.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:48 PM
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Some men can lose attraction for their women over time, the same way some women can lose attraction for their men over time. It is a bit childish to believe that women are not interested in their men look. Women do not marry personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:29 PM
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Okay. Thank you for your answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:51 AM
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Maybe I worded my point the wrong. Because I feel like you move the point of my debate to another one. But, thank you for taking your time to give me an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:31 AM
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Thank you. But I did not say that I was basing what I said only what I see on reddit. I said, I see a whole bunch of threads from men about how to get women and not the other way around. But the rest of my argument is based on my personal life experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:19 AM
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I know plenty of women who’ve been cheated on. I know plenty of women who have started a relationship with someone and years into it they became a completely different person — abusive, narcissistic, etc. My only point is that trust-breaking situations happen for both parties. There is not a single shred of evidence I’ve seen, anecdotally or empirically, to suggest women are more likely to cheat on a partner. Okay. But the question I asked, is what pressure does women have when in relationship? …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 11:16 AM
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It’s a risk on her side of the relationship too, you know? I do genuinely wonder how? Being on reddit, a lot of posts are from men on how to get a single woman. Most pieces of advice are about how men to always improve themselves, how they need to have a lot social skills, social circles, how they need to be charismatic. Most of those things, advised by both men and women to men. A lot of articles online, on how straight need to step up their game for a single woman to be interested in them, bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 10:39 PM
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I get your point OP. But what do you want? Women can be delusional if they want. They are not the ones expected to go after men Not the ones expected to plan dates. Not the ones expected to most of the work. They have the power to say yes or no, at the end of the day. So, I do not see how you can expect them to drop that privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:16 PM
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I mean, women are not the one who have to make all the efforts. Wether dating, sex or relationship. It is obvious that they cannot understand what it is like for men. This is unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:28 PM
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I do not know if you have read all her answers down. She literally shamed, put down men who are inexperienced. Called them gross. Lmao, imagine what would happen if the case was reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:20 PM
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You will not like this one then. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/wlq3jk/q4w_would_you_say_most_or_all_men_can_be_great/ijumfi0?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:11 PM
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It has always been men have small penis. But, no one mention the reverse case. What if it is the woman who is loose? I do not know. Women (and society) are happy, have no problem to tell a man is penis is too small. But God forbid a man to even attempt to mention that maybe, just maybe, the woman is a bit loose. Women get mad, calling a man who would say that an incel, a misogynist virgin who had never been with a woman anyway. But somehow, they do know that vagina comes in different size and sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:59 PM
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how would i have amazing chemistry with someone i'm not attracted to? Thought I was the only one who felt like that did not make any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:15 PM
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takes on women Oh yes I know. But I do try to focus on the women users and what they say. But yeah you can link that comment above. Okay thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:02 PM
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Maybe at a lesbian bar this is true, elsewhere you are wrong Oh really? I guess the billions time I have seen on this sub and on reddit in general, say that men are unattractive, those women were lying? Okay. Do you authorise me to link your comment, every time I will see women say men are not attractive? So that you can have a word with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:18 PM
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Why do you use man in the title to talk about men, and female to talk about women? Why the use of man and suddenly when you want to talk about women, the thing that you write is female? Anyway, do as you please.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:58 PM
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1) she can teach you something An inexperienced man should probably try to find someone older and more experienced partner Considering the amount of women on here (and in real life) who believe a virgin man is surely a misogynist incel, or that a man must know his way around a woman body as if men were born with a book that teaches how to please a woman, this scenario will happen on rare occasions.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:46 PM
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That is sad. Women can have standards. Men cannot, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:07 PM
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I do not understand the shaming. Plenty of women would not want to be near a virgin man because: It shows that there is something wrong with those men. They must be unattractive, inexperienced, pathetic misogynist incel, socially inept. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/w045x7/whats_the_appeal_in_dating_a_woman_with_no/igdeqwi?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 But apparently, there is no problem because women can have standards. But as soon as a man says: well I …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:14 PM
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Okay thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:29 PM
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Let's try to avoid jumping into the hate, we have the rest of the posts for that! I was not talking about the answers on this post. Much more about answers I have gathered from posts since I am on this sub. And yes, I do hope that not all women hate men. But I said, considering the answers I have always seen on this sub from women, if someone told me that women hate men, well I would believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:24 PM
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Shall I delete my answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:21 PM
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Okay. Nice to know that it is only some women who would be like. were afraid to show me their kinky side when they didn’t trust me and showed it to me when they did. This at least make more sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:12 PM
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recognizing it’s a war zone doesn’t make you Rambo I loved that one. And you are right. they’re still the type of guy who needs a “strategy” to talk to girls That is true. But I guess, as you said, as long as they get to have sex, it is all good. At the very least, the men on here, seem to be okay with just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:17 PM
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After being on this sub and askmen for a while now, their argument refers much more about the women who are okay to be like as "terrific"as a porn star when it comes to casual sex but just go like "oh no, this man is my partner, I cannot show that side of me to him, or he will think I am prostitute and leave me." Which yes, I believe, is somehow a pretty stupid way of thinking. But I hope, not many women are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:09 PM
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I was thinking the same too. Wonder how op could miss that obivious point.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:52 PM
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I mean, French people would say: "a la guerre comme a la guerre, tous les coups sont permis" I guess that is what the men on here use like a strategy. It is a war zone out there after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 08:50 PM
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Does the same apply when the case is reversed? I can tell you if a man cheats he doesn’t love his partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:40 PM
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It’s humiliating to pursue a man What do you mean? Humiliating to pursue a man? Do you think men do not put themselves in a vulnerable position to go after a woman? You find it humiliating to go after a man. That is good. It is a good you are a woman then. You will not get humiliated. Humiliating I did not know that for women, to go after a man wass humiliating. You people would not survive if you were men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:22 PM
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I believe the men on here are okay with a woman sleeping quicker with men they do not see as a potential partners, while they make the one they see as a potential partner wait; as long as said woman is okay with the man she sees as a potential partner has sex too with other women while waiting for her to make her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 11:11 PM
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I will play devil advocate. You did not do a post like this one about FDS. Unless maybe, you consider FDS not to be toxic. That subs is a sub where men can freely express themselves about women. Wether you feel like they are just become bitter and all, it is what it is. FDS is still active too. And if a lot of women consider FDS not to be toxic then it means no one must complain when a sub for men criticise women a la FDS towards men. Or is it because that sub is sub for men to express themselve…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:43 PM
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Kindness and personality doesn’t get you anywhere in life The actual problem is that the people who value personality are rare to find nowadays. Plus even if a person valued your personality, they need to at the very least be a bit attracted to you physically. And you also need to be attracted to then too. I agree with you that we are living in a cruel world.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:41 AM
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I made a thread recently about how important it is for both time to try to at least listen to each other. Most of the answers where "listening will not change nothing". People on this sub seem to be happy about their issues in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:18 PM
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Most men in here and in real life feel lonely? Yes. Most men in here are quite bitter. They do not try to listen to women issues but want theirs to be considered. Is it the same in real? no. Men in real life try to be empathetic to women issues. Most men in here complain more about not getting sex than getting a relationship. Is it the case for most men in real life? No. Men in real life are much more concerned about getting into a relationship. So, I am not sure men on here are representative o…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 09:06 PM
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Do you think the reverse case happens less? That women on the other hand, do not leave average men for better looking men, as often than men do it? You are entitled to your beliefs. But if you spent some time on r/askmen, a lot of men have experienced it. Humans can be shallow. It is not just men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 08:47 PM
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there aren't much tips for us, Friend, there are none for men when dating a woman. Simply because what works on one woman might not on the other. Most of the time, it is just about rolling a dice and pray God that she reacts positively and likes you back. my appearance. Do you mean your skin colour? it makes you look desperate as a woman trying to talk to men No. Do not think that way friend. It does not make you look desperate. Do not you see how a lot of men complain and say they wish women wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:57 PM
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To highlight how what we assume or imagine the other gender is thinking is often wrong and harmful because it causes miscommunication, resentment, and continuous disagreement. That is the point I wish both gender could understand...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:31 PM
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I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:28 PM
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Oh i did not know my post has been reflaired cmv. It was not a cmv really. Was A debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:59 PM
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You can then counter it by demanding more genuine connections and relationships, and figuring out how to get that from men Exactly. It's not like men are incapable of emotional attachment, you just need to employ certain strategies to get it from them I think many women on here believe men are incapable of emotional attachment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:05 AM
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I think very few people are actually and irredeemably evil and malicious. I believe that too. Honestly, thank you. You expressed what i had in mind, way better than i did.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:02 AM
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I manage to look beyond that and see what's at the core of it Exactly. I sometimes go to some women subs like askwomen, FDS. Some of the words they use towards men at times are quite harsh. But i just decide to focus on the core. I understand that women have a lot to deal with, which can sometimes make them wary.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:01 AM
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attraction is like a switch and can not be negotiated I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:36 AM
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I think that exactly what i was thinking. And men, by listening to women could have a glance on what they are doing wrong and what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:35 AM
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I give up then. Maybe i do not know how to convey what i have in mind. But i do believe that being sympathetic to one another could help making dating easier and healthier for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:25 AM
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Both genders have a hard time dating. Yes exactly. I just want both genders to listen to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:58 AM
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I just want both genders to listen to each other problems. It is not a matter of equivalent or not. It is not suffer Olympic to say who have it worse. It is about dialogue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:54 AM
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The main issue from my post is that a woman who dates women said it is hard to date women. So that situation opened her eyes on men struggles. Both genders need to listen to each other. If they do not want then it is their problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:51 AM
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You do not have to if you do not want to. But men will not sympathise when the role are reversed. Humans do things and want things in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:47 AM
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I just said that I hoped women would see what troubles a lot of men have to go through when dating, thanks to this thread from an op who is a woman who date women. Now each person has the right to do whatever they want. No one is forced to do things they do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:41 AM
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And that is sad. Honestly, all we want is just to feel loved and wanted by a partner we love and want too. But that dating thing is becoming a war where people expect other to put all the effort but do not want to do something in return themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:38 AM
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I do not know if you are a man or a woman, but do you realise that what you wrote mean that men do not see women like human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 08:03 AM
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your post is great actually. I hope (though I know it is already impossible to see changes) that (some) women will read it and actually recognise the difficulties encountered in the dating game by an average man. Not to say that women must be enslaved, be with people they do not want. But to just understand a little bit why a lot of men feel lost, devastated, sad about dating. It has been written by a woman who dated women, so I hope much more women will give you credit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:41 PM
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Women get the right to be picky because men aren’t. That is it. I wonder how many men cannot understand that. Saying women are picky, are this or that, will change nothing. You cannot coerce another human being into something they do not want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:53 PM
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It is no surprise that many men in a similar situation find it frustrating and downright infuriating that the vast majority of these less attractive women are equally or more stuck up and standoffish. Even once you do get the ball rolling, they will flake in the talking stage 9/10 times over absolutely nothing at all, it’s extremely old and irritating. If all those actually happen and are true, do you know why it happens? Because of this, below: men are significantly hornier than women and must …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:47 PM
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Your point is quite good. I think men should try that more to gauge a woman interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:27 PM
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he was physically attractive I didn't want to be with the guy and he wasn't my type Uhhh A bit confused. He is physically attractive, you did not want to be with him, he was not your type... though, somehow, you manage to have sex with him... I thought only men was blamed because people here say they can have sex with people they do not want. Apparently, men are not the only one who can play that game.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 10:10 PM
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The bar for casual sex is pretty high, though. I think a lot of the complaining guys, at least the ones who are making an effort and are not just stuck in their homes, are complaining not so much because they can’t find relationships, but because they can’t find quick sex Feel this too. Most complaints on here from men are about casual sex. Randomly see complaints about difficulties getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 10:44 PM
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(proclaimed by men themselves in here to be the truth, so let’s just roll with that) I have seen it been proclaimed by women here too. I was sceptical when I saw that comment from.men.on here and believed they were going too far. But when I saw from women themselves, I understood that those men were not necessarily exaggerating things. And mind you, it was not only one comment from one woman that I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:42 PM
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(proclaimed by men themselves in here to be the truth, so let’s just roll with that) I have seen it been proclaimed by women here too. I was sceptical when I saw that comment from.men.on here and believed they were going too far. But when I saw from women themselves, I understood that those men were not necessarily exaggerating things. And mind you, it was not only one comment from one woman that I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:42 PM
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people don’t compromise They believe they deserve only what they want nothing else, because it is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:10 PM
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if men and women don’t learn to listen to each other’s complaints and to compromise. The day those stubborn men and women will understand this, that is when things will get better. Until then, let us continue to enjoy the toxicity and bitterness from both gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 10:23 PM
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it’s a thing. This world is such a disappointment. Day by day you see the worst of humans. To hit on someone who is already in a relationship...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:34 PM
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I get occasional dudes trying to hit on me I’m pretty up front about being old and married. Some people have no morals. What are they thinking? That you will on your husband or what?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 09:14 PM
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What did those men do you, for you use them like animals?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 09:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/uxf9l6/When_discussing_dating%2C_men_are_only_thinking_of_a_small_subset_of_women%2C_which_is_why_they_think_that_women_have_it_easier_in_dating/i9z9yze/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 So op this is how you consider the average man? I was being sympathetic with what you have experienced from those men you were talking about in your main post, unti I saw this. I guess everything is clear now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:38 PM
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My Goodness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:30 PM
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"no ONS" if you actually are very open to sex (what's the point?). At least someone who makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:43 PM
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I was starting to believe that i was not human enough, a zombie who could not understand the point that were from the women who answer to that op. Thanks God, there is at least one woman who seems to be logical here. I mean, who can you say you see a man as relationship material, meaning you consider him high value (those women words not mine), and if wants to have with you, then you go:"oh no. You know you are such a great man. I do not want to have sex with you now! I want to know you better" …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 09:40 PM
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Why is a high N count in a man considered desirable You are actually asking this? Okay, here is my guess. how many women would actually give a virgin man, particularly if he is old, anytime of their day? A virgin man (the older the worst) is seen by most women as socially inept. He must be a misogynist, a pathetic incel, who has never ever been seen as attractive be a single woman? Such a weirdo. Oh, and before i forget, how many time have not i heard things like " a man must know his way around…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 08:06 PM
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It's not different than how a man would react if a strange hot woman showed up naked at his door. Do you people on this sub ever view men as more than sexual beast who just want one thing? Anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 10:04 PM
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Oh i see. Wow. Both surprised and not surprised by the fact that despite the things you mentioned about him, he struggled in the past. But it is nice that you met him. You were made for one other it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 09:02 PM
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You got the point. 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:33 PM
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I guess it’s comparable to flowers and bees, there are many bees and flowers but it’s the bees that fly to the flowers not the other way around. Good analogy. Quite accurate i would say. objectively more valuable than me Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 08:24 PM
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From what i have read here. (Comment from women) Women approach men. If you did not get approached it means you have not been found attractive enough to be worth the risk. Women approach men. It is just men fault if they can pick up the clues. Most men are not attractive enough. Men are used to rejection, not women. So... Not stating my view. Just mentioning the comments i have seen on here. Do with those whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 07:14 PM
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Saying to just approach guys or approach more and I will find them is like telling a guy if he approaches enough he will get some Oh i see. Though unfortunately, men are told to just approach and approach dear. And men do not really have a choice anyway. At least the average man knows he has no choice but to keep on going. But it seems like you understand how frustrating this can be. This is the frustration a lot of men go through. But your complaints make me think that you expected men to appro…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:14 PM
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I call out people for sayinf dumb shit about men as a generalization Are you a woman? Only God knows if what you wrote here is true. If it is true, good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:19 PM
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Does this have anything related to my answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:52 PM
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Yes i see. Edit: i'm sure there are also plenty of men who settle with a woman that they might not be necessarily be as attracted to as the woman they really want Do not know about this though. When you use the word "plenty" I just go by that logic (of course hope you will your view point on it): when we take the case of rape. A lot of the story of rape or sexual assault and all are from women. Plenty of women say they are afraid of getting raped. And always mention it. When the case of men rape…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:50 PM
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Even though shes attracted to the hot guy more, she realises that due to him having options (and often times having being cheated on and hurt by this type of guy) that he's not a very good prospect when it comes to marriage or a long term relationship so when she gets to a certain stage in life where wants marriage or to settle down, she's likely to then opt for the "nice guy" even if shes not really that attracted to him because he's dependable, treats her well and less likely to cheat on her. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 09:10 PM
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Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:59 PM
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He said he is not a native speaker. So have mercy please.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 10:06 PM
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Happy about that. You deserve true happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 10:24 AM
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Sorry this happened to you. That man was toxic. Happy you are out of that now. And the fact you were bigger than him could not even see yourself hurting him, while he had no mercy , show that you truly loved him. Hope you find someone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 09:25 PM
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Good point. Quite balanced. At least someone who considers things from both perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 07:52 PM
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I tend to take more initiative That is it. It is quite refreshing when a woman is not afraid to be in charge. I have more questions but i would prefer in private if you are okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 09:26 AM
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That is nice. I do like being in charge. Inside and outside the bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:17 AM
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What type of dom are you? Extreme hardcore who loves to inflict pain and all the humiliation stuff Role reversal who are literally the man in the couple and love when the man wear women clothes Mum dom huge vibe of mummy in the air Gentle femdom who are a good mix between assertiveness, gentleness and respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:17 PM
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u/januaryphilosopher
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 09:26 AM
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If it was a woman who did that post, i know it would be taken much more seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 10:24 PM
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Then imagine if you were a man. Because a lot of men have to handle mountains of rejections on a daily basis. The worst is that, giving up is not an option when you are a man. At the very least if you truly want a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:48 PM
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Op Are you a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 09:37 PM
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I mean, i am sure she is aware of that. And at the end of the day, whatever floats her boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:34 PM
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What type of dom are you? Are you and your boyfriend into hardcore bdsm? Because anytime i see things like level of pain, automatically i assume there is a hardcore bdsm involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:16 PM
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I could not help but laugh so hard to this. Lmao. Thanks God i was not drinking something
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 04:17 PM
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r/askmen is best suited.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 03:53 PM
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It is a good thing you did that. Good thing you had that courage. Good thing that you did not that toxic view that men handle rejection easily than women. Good thing that while you could have been like " oh i am a woman anyway, why should i make a move on a man. Is not it the man job?" You are mature than a lot of women. That is good.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:05 PM
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That is i was worrying about. What i meant was that science will develop those meds but without side effects or at least minimise to high degree. If not, most people would not want to indulge in those. Though i actually think that should be considered, because it will most men so much to get free from the sadness of this cold world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/22 11:48 AM
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try some antidepressants I believe this will be the solution in a near future, for men. Most women claim to happier alone. While a lot of men actually crave a companionship bit cannot get even one. Hope science will help develop meds that can literally erase the needs of men to feel emotions or horniness. This will help men a lot i believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 11:13 PM
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Any one of us could have at least one toxic, its if you keep repeating it. You are the problem. A woman said on a thread on ask men that she was with a man who was emotionally detached or something like that. But from what she wrote, it is like she was trying to blame men. So one man answered that she chose a toxic man because he made her vag tingles and now she is trying to blame men. She answered that it was not because he made her vag tingles, but because she was lonely and desperate. So when…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:29 AM
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True. Which proves that their point is not true in the slightest. As long as the woman is still considered attractive, whatever her age, she will get attention. And older mature women are a thing for younger men particularly. Maturity in a woman can be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 06:41 AM
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Amber: " i did not punch you, i was just playing with me. You are such a baby, GROW UP." Now imagine the same thing but said by a man to a woman. No need to say will all know what would happen. But toxic behaviours in relationship are not a gender thing.they are a human thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 12:19 PM
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I think what actually want to say is that a man will not want you at 50 if he wants kids. If that is not what they meant then they must delusional. Because i am hard pressed to find a hot 50 woman who do not get attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 11:19 AM
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Yes I agree with this. I believe the so called "hot" women, and even women in general who wants a relationship, can make it happen as long as their willing to do the approach when interested in a man. But it seems to be a man job only to do that...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:43 PM
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Yes. I do not know about all other men, but i believe the average just want to get attention, date, be in relationship with a woman he founds attractive. Not a hot woman. Honesty, i always get confused when i see comments from a lot of women on here who are like :"those ugly, lazy bums men look like nothing but want to be with a bombshell..." i mean, men are the one who do all the approach. If as man, particularly average, you believe that you deserve beyonce and nothing less, reality will punch…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:37 PM
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That is nice to read. Thank you for being an emotional support to your husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 07:28 PM
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Though there does seem to be a pretty clear lack of empathy from the women towards men From the men towards women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 06:42 PM
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But I certainly don’t tar the whole lot with the same brush. I just go “that dude was an asshole. Glad I don’t have to deal with him anymore”. Not “all men are trash”. At least some people here are wise enough to understand this. Value yourself kings 👑 leave that bitch. You are a queen too. Do not let any person man or woman treat you poorly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 05:44 PM
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A man with options choosing to be with you is the best sign that he is actually into you. Are you a woman? If most women think like that, i guess men who are not blessed with opportunities, even just one, are screwed then...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 06:23 PM
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But I've never heard of a woman laughing in a man's face just for asking them out. If a man said : "I have never seen or heard of a woman get abused, raped by a man. That sounds like something out of a movie. It probably happens but I will never believe it is common." I am sure you would be wishing he gets burned in hell. But here you are, dismissing what a lot of men are saying, just because you never heard of it. Do you get how rude you even are dismissing their experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 09:36 PM
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Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 05:53 PM
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Coming from men or women? bitterness and whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 04:21 PM
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Even a guy who is a high value 8 who is dating an attractive 8 will be looking at 9s when he sees them, even though there are very few of them out there. And even a guy who is with a 9 might want another 9 just for variety. Are you a woman? And do you believe the same can be true the other way around? Or only men are shallow like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:34 PM
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That is a bit worrisome... I can understand a man could feel lost between he is told and actually happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 10:53 AM
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Thank you. Thank you for being open, caring and support him through though times. Women like are rare and precious.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 08:00 AM
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I do not if your stories are true but if they are, that would be scary. Here are the answer i have seen so far that i have read from the women on here: Only broken women go after broken men. The majority of the stories are from college time or secondary school. The girls were immature and made mistakes. If the average man where given the opportunity to have sex with a crazy woman, he would . What do you think of those answers?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 07:05 AM
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Well, like I said, I am aware that guys can get screwed over financially. But… I also have a track record of not suing for support or alimony- once when I was 25 (the guy wanted out if the marriage from day one, it was annulled, he had been pining for his high school gf and promptly reunited w her after), the second time more recently, at age 42 (my more recent ex was a drug addict, quit his job, started plotting to sue ME for support) Neither time did I go after the guys for money just signed p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 09:37 PM
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Sad times. You actually love him. So leaving seems not be an option. But, i mean, relationships are about compromising too. It is quite understandable that he is feeling insecure because he earns more and had been toyed with in the past. So better be safe than sorry. A lot of women do not understand that and mock men when they talk about how afraid they are of getting ,as they say ,"divorced rape". Getting divorced for a man, can ruin his life completely, mainly financially speaking. But what i …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:41 PM
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Oh Sorry about that. If you love him and want to make things work, maybe you should tell him that those words from him hurt you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:51 AM
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And not bitter. Just wish he would stop saying things like “you don’t really love me its just about money” and “ill never marry you because you earn less” Is this actually what he tells you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:03 PM
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Okay thank a lot. This helped me understand it much more better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:37 PM
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if you condemn manhood you must have an alternative otherwise you just have a bunch of confused men still tryinf to live up to society. Yes I think you have a point. Oh no i agree. As i put in my post. Most of womens suffering comes from men. So its confusing that women would uphold the standards that keep them down. You got women who wouldn't date bisexual men because they implicitly think that gayness and liking men means they are feminine. Thus they stifle male expression of sex and gender du…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:29 PM
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Oh baby. I’m about to bust a nut from you asking me this question. I’m so excited to answer this, but I don’t know how. Looool. Its a long ass answer. We can dm if you want. Lmao. Sure i would like to. You got me way too curious about that. You’re right. It’s a thing amongst most women. It’s an underlying problem and like I said, I’ve never met a woman who never had that, not even myself. It’s a form of social competition women have with mostly one another that leads to dire consequences for eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:16 AM
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Yes you are right to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:04 AM
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Okay Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:01 AM
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1- if you were a woman i would have say that it is the first time i see a feminist who is not being hypocritical. I think women also dont understand the lonileness of manhood. No one likes you and you are judged for what you do. I dont blame guys for pulling out the noose. This man shit is not for everyone and women would suffer if they were us. Theres expectations and everyone expects you to be exceptional. No one likes you and you gotta take are of yourself. If i put a snap of me crying no one…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 09:58 AM
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I’m slowly realizing I’m probably closer to agender but I feel like due to socialization and how other people perceive me, I can still speak as a woman. I think the most frustrating thing is, in psychology terms, benevolent sexism(BS). I don’t entirely blame men for this, it’s socialization. But I don’t need someone come around and open a door for me because I am a woman. I would love for anyone to do that for like an elderly person or something just because I think its a kind thing to do, but I…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:55 PM
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You got it to the chore. I could not have worded it better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:37 PM
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Okay Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 09:04 PM
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Okay thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:57 PM
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Okay thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:49 PM
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I wish men wouldn’t lead women on for months just to use them for sex & then leave. I believe the real problem is that no one can distinguish those who actually want a relationship to those who just casual sex. The latter will lie to the former about wanting a relationship just to get what they want. As soon as they get it, they move on. I wish women would stop shaming other women for being sexually active and enjoying sex. Its weird. I said something women do to the opposite gender (men) that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:46 PM
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Okay. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:23 PM
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) Blame is a strong word. One trend I noticed though is that many women in my life default to a more passive role unless otherwise needing to step up, which puts the onus on the men or other women in their lives to then provide effort or else deal with the fallout. This sub is focused more on relationships it seems, but this pattern of taking the passive role impacts other aspects of life as well: not negotiating salaries, communication style being indirect and hoping hints will address the topi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:18 PM
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Oh okay. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:14 PM
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Okay. Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:12 PM
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Okay thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:11 PM
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I don't really blame them for anything , things just are what they are, I wish women's libido were on par with men, maybe not even a hundred percent but like 75% lol Lmao i get you. So that they could have a little taste of what it is like to be a man. Too much simping going on among the guys, the era of lonely fans and social media really exposed that, too much white knighting, and I feel bad for a lot of the younger guys coming up Yes That is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 07:08 PM
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I wish women were more interested in men as a whole, which I would benefit somewhat from as well ill admit (in theory) Do not think it will ever happen. Women, i believe, are much more happier single than with someone. Men do not get sexualized on a regular basis much at all. So I'm sorry if we pursue too hard/fast when we do get flirted with Good point. 3) I do think men should be more aware of issues women go through especially in the working world. Yes. Much more generally too. A lot of thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 06:01 PM
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man have more awareness on how to take care of themselves this days, having a clean bathroom, clean sheets,knowing how to cook good food etc, should be a standard on both sexes but when man expects a woman to be their mom-maid without realizing it or willing to hear about it,”she’s nagging”, home chores, cooking, child care etc, stop applying Stereotypical gender social roles to every woman. Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:58 PM
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Thanks for your reply. I wish the men that don't commit said violence would held their male friends and relatives accountable when they see it happening instead of looking the other way because "he is mostly a good guy". If it is from a man to a woman, i believe a lot of have been told by women that women DON'T NEED MEN TO HELP THEM OR PROTECT. So some would rather ignore since women can do not need men. Women that uphold the toxic masculinity ideal that men shouldn't cry or be vulnerable. Good …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 04:57 PM
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Good point Balanced point. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:35 PM
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onestly I don't like how women give men 100% agency and women almost 0. They can easily tell you that women date assholes because they are young and naive but if a guy has sex with a woman and change his mind later, he's evil. Once you notice it, you will see it everywhere. It's like all of our missteps were a calculated plan to cause chaos. While women are victims of their surroundings. It's pretty clear we all have the same agency. Men can be young and naive and women calculate evil plans Are …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:20 PM
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fuckstruck What do you mean please? Overall thank you for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:10 PM
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Oh okay. I get it now. thank you. Now I’m curious how much of that could be attributed to my mental illness. It is part of you but it definitely is not, overall, what defines you in bed. I am sure you are naturally much more open and the "bipolarity" just accentuates it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:58 AM
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Oh okay. I get it now. thank you. Now I’m curious how much of that could be attributed to my mental illness. It is part of you but it definitely is not, overall, what defines you in bed. I am sure you are naturally much more and the "bipolarity" just accentuates it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:57 AM
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In either case, it’s easy to wear rose colored glasses and dismiss people’s faults and wrongs I could not have said it better. Thank you. Though what about the freakish side? Because people here said that men only accept because those women are freaky in bed? Do you consider yourself freaky lmao?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:42 AM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:39 AM
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stop complaining about dating and focus on building yourself up don't follow men on the red pill side Best advice. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:31 AM
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Thank you for this. Good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:29 AM
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Oh that is nice. I mean to me, this post seems a bit like a gotcha against men. I am sure it has been written by a woman. And the gotcha is " yes you men accuse women of dating dangerous men (so called chad who might be drug dealers, criminals...), yet you men go weak for mentally hill women... I do not even know if this can be used as comparative... Anyway, you man must actually love you. 5months are not five days. Or perhaps you are a freak in bed lmao, like people on here said, which make thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:28 AM
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thank you. Now what behaviour do you acknowledge is bad behaviour from men towards women that mist be changed or stopped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:08 AM
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Okay. Thank you. Now, what behaviours should women stop to have towards men because you admit is bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 11:05 AM
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Thank you. But my question was about what behaviours men have towars women that are bad to to women not to men. Or do you believe that men do not do anything like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:58 AM
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Okay. Now what must men change or stop to do towards women? Things that are bad that you admit men do towards women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:48 AM
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Thank you. Now what do you, as a man, admit that men have that is bad towards women and should be changed or stopped? What are the things you believe men must change when it comes to women, because it is a bad behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:46 AM
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Okay thanks for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:41 AM
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Attractive men are more likely to behave worse towards you. Learn it. I believe most women will agree that the same apply in a reverse case too. Also, men are generally inexperienced in todays society. Have patience, it's not their fault for not being able to attract women on the basis of their existence. They have to learn, so help your male friends. That is a good one, in fact. Good advice that i think women should consider. Thanks for that. I would like your opinion on the other questions too…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:41 AM
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You are a man who wishes that from women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:37 AM
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Thank you But you just answered one question. I asked other questions too. Would be helpful if you answered them to, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 10:21 AM
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waiting for his answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 08:07 AM
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Life is like that. You will come across bad apples. Always make sure to take your time and know the person better before you het with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:57 PM
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To any man. If a woman is not attracted to you, fair enough. Just keep looking for one who will. I say it all times. Men can complain all they want. But no woman will submit to you just because you want it. Men have to fight to get what they want. Keep looking for the woman you want till you find her.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 06:31 PM
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especially on first impressions. Okay. It is good way for you to vet. At least you will avoid men are not the way you want. A win for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:59 PM
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It shows intention, attention to detail, caring about/for yourself, not being afraid to stand out, etc. and other positive traits that would also hopefully reflect in a relationship as well. Really? So a man who dress simple does not possess all those?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 05:49 PM
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If a woman despise me just because i am not dressed in a fashionable way, it is a good thing. Plenty of fashionable men for her. She dogged the bullet i am. I just dress simply. Provide my clothes are clean, i am okay. And would not expect a woman to be member of the fashion police. Simplicity is attractive to me. I do not like it when women put makeup. Because makeup is a lie. You see a woman with makeup and you believe you found her attractive. Then once, you see her without makeup and you won…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:48 PM
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Statistically men tend to overestimate their attractiveness and women tend to underestimate theirs. Overestimate? Men? please go on r/askmen and look for posts where it is asked when is the last time they got a compliment from women. The answers varies from months, years ago to never since they were born. And you believe someone who receive a compliment once in a blue moon would be like : yes i am massive catch. I am God gift to women? It is okay you want to advocate for women. But please, at le…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 02:10 PM
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The problem with you people on here, and both genders in general, is that none seems to understand that NOTHING BAD IS A MALE ONLY OR FEMALE ONLY THING. The way your post is written is like only men go after looks because they are so shallow. Do you think that if a woman has the possibility to get the most good looking man she has ever seen in her life, she will just not go after him? Humans are humans. Personality is important but generally speaking the first thing you see on an other human is …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:54 AM
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The problem with you people on here, and both genders in general, is that none since to understand that NOTHING BAD IS A MALE ONLY OR FEMALE ONLY THING. The way your post is written is like only men go after looks because they are so shallow. Do you think that if a woman has the possibility to get the most good looking man she has ever seen in her life, she will just not go after him? Humans are humans. Personality is important but generally speaking the first thing you see on an other human is …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 07:54 AM
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When you say most of the people, do you mean men and women? Or just men? they think the world revolves around them and they deserve special treatment. I guess you are Talking about men. What you said is what is the problem of society today. Both gender do not want to hear the other out and believe what they want to believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:08 AM
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I am quite surprised by your reaction. It says a lot. It is like you do not give a penny about how men would feel. Like no sympathy at all. But it is okay since you are okay with men having no sympathy for you either. So it is a win win. mommy was a soul sucking hag. I believe they would only help the women close to them , family and so on. But not a stranger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 06:53 AM
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If someone insulted you everyday , call you all names. Or better, a man (for instance let just say you are promiscuous, just an example) says to you everyday that you are hoe, that your vag is as vast as the big canyon, honestly what would be your reaction? " i think i understand why no woman want to be with you, you are incel anyway" that would be your answer. Would you have anything near to intimacy with such man? I am sure no. So now do you think men are happy when they here everyday they are…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:43 PM
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I believe this one a double edge sword. I can understand both parties. It is true a lot of women face danger in their daily life. So they feel the need to be guarded up to prevent any threat. Also there are a lot things some men here say women should, that i am quite sceptical about. When you say things like women should not try to at least be a bit open with a man she meet at a night club for instance; if women started to block any kind of sympathy and give a slight benefit of doubt to an encou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 09:25 PM
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I say this because you have been very vocal here, time and time again, about how you are not obligated to help or protect women and that women are responsible for themselves. Op, genuine question please. I do not understand that part. What do you mean? Also yes men here everyday from women that they the one responsible for women misery. That they are toxic, aggressive, perverts, rapists, predators. So is not it normal that men would say since we are so toxic to women, we shall leave them alone. …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:32 PM
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Disclaimer: i am not trying to invalidate your point. I am just trying to make you see things on other perspective. And you can answer and give me some points. I want both gender to see things from the other perspective. I think when they say top percentage, they mean this: women on here (reddit) in general say most men are not attractive enough to them. It is not me who is saying this it is the women. Of course reddit is not the representation of real life; but as long as a woman can say a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:49 PM
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The sub r/femaledatingstrategy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:56 PM
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I believe men must stop to complain about women. Live has always been unfair toward men and will always be. Better to accept it. Plus no woman owes nothing to a man. A woman here said that men can complain all they want but as long as what they are facing do not impact women on any way, while should women change something for men? She was right. Fight to get what you want or just forget about, but do not complain. That is life for a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:19 PM
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No no You are not wrong. This is what should happen. Like at least a week of reversal. Men would be in the shoes of women and see what women go through and women would see what men go through. At the end of that week, when things get back to normal, only the most nefarious people from both gender would not still act toxic towards and refuse any sympathy to the other gender. But unfortunately there is no way for it to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:48 PM
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Women aren’t automatically loved for “just existing” Because men are? And it is not because you and your man where okay with him not putting effort into his appearance that it means men do not care about their appearance. What is the advice given by women already? Be well groomed, keep updated to lastest fashion trend, take care of your beard, have a nice hairstyle, wear nice perfume, go to the gym, stay in shape. With all that men do not put a lot of efforts in their appearance like women? Okay…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:15 PM
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The same way men will not go for a woman who does not put effort in their appearance, the same way women will not for a man who do not put effort in their physical appearance. The way you are talking it is like women would go with a man who appears like trash. Women care about about a man physical beauty too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:07 PM
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where there is still the expectation of looking presentable, no matter how objectively unattractive you are. Same apply to men. If a woman spends a considerable amount of time and money on getting herself ready for the date Because a man do not have to prepare for date? What is your point? Do you think men just have nothing to do appearance wise before a date? Because yes men care about a woman appearance but a woman only care about a man personality. So yes if he shows up looking like a dog, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:35 PM
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will very rarely go for women who don’t put minimal effort into themselves Would start a relationship with a man who do not put effort in his physical appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:29 PM
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If you can’t afford two $6 coffees, you’ve got bigger problems than dating. I do not understand this honesty. We are independent we do not need men. Yet, oh, if you cannot pay just a coffee for me on a date you must so broke. I mean, you want one thing and its opposite. Women are independent. Why still expect a man to pay for a coffee on a date? It is cheap so what? Show to the world how women are independent as they say they are. Show to men that you do not need their favour. Show them that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:26 PM
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Why are you being so hypocritical? Do you say the same thing to women when they say they only want a taller man? A manly man? A man who make more money than them? A sexy muscular man? men and women value physical attraction for a potential partner. Stop being so hypocrite; as if you would be in a relationship with a man you do not find attractive. Women are not angels who only care about a man personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:13 PM
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Coercing anyone, likely women, into pairing with and having sex with people they do not find attractive is horrifying. Something to be only considered in true extremis. Do not know if it is what you got from my post, particularly when mention women. Never did i say that women must have sex with someone they do not find attractive. Why would someone want that? People deserve what they think they deserve. I believe one can stick to their standards however they want, but must be ready to accept the…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 08:15 PM
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But would you agree that it is possible to get to a point where those preferences become a problem? Yes. Agree. To some degree. But no one want to readjust their preferences; wether men or women. Particularly in this era where only sex is important. The only solution is to investigate (as you said). Keep on searching till you find the person who meet your standards. no need from both gender to insult, put down, shame the other just because of their standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:53 PM
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You went a bit too far. I was just saying that men and women can have their preferences when looking for partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 07:24 PM
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Many Men do not want to listen to what women have to say. They do not want to understand them and their needs. They refuse to understand that women have the right to have their standards and make the choice they want. They believe all women are the same. Many women do not want to listen to what men have to say. They do not want to understand men and their needs. They refuse to understand that men have also the right to have standards and make the choice they want. They believe all men are the sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 06:47 PM
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Honestly, why do feel the need to put down, shame men who do not want women who had a lot of sexual partners? Saying they are insecure? Do you shame women who want taller men only? Do you shame woman who only want a rich man, muscular man? Do you say to women who want nothing to do with virgin men, socially awkward men, that they are insecure? No you do not. Because you consider that they have their standards. Men have standars too. When men complain about women, they get called misogynist or in…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 05:58 PM
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Good to know that i am even less than bill...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 06:06 PM
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My point was just to say that op statement is false. She cannot say women do not care about number of past partners a man had in the past. Most women expect a man to have had sex before. The same way there are men who find it "disgusting" that a woman had a lot of partners in the past, the same way there are women who find a man who has no sexual experience "disgusting".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 02:49 PM
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I do not know if you think that i was trying to start a debate or trolling. But actually i was not. I am not here to say anything anyone say is false and that only what i believe is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 08:00 PM
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the world beats it out of them very quickly. You get rejected and learn your true value quickly. I try to be as impartial as i can. But i cannot say that this is not true. I guess those who feel entitled are louder than those who know their value. Hence why "men" are seen as entitled bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:55 PM
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Okay. That is cool. I was trying to make a point. But no one so far seems to get it. I will just wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 07:49 PM
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On the other hand i have seen and heard a lot of women say they would want nothing to do with a virgin man... They said they found did so weird and unattractive... It means a man who had sexual partners in the past is much more preferred. So do not know...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 06:51 PM
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Oh okay. If it is in this way, then a lot of men will be okay to wait if they actually want something serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:21 PM
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Do not SLIDE IN A WOMAN DM. REMEMBER THAT? Without forgetting you will just get left on read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:17 PM
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Why marry a guy and try to build something, when you could pimp yourself out and go on websites like seeking arrangements and earn $400 for sex with some middle aged guy? Why keep your n-count low when you could chadchase till you’re 28 and get a billy beta? I mean, yes you can. You do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:15 PM
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I do not know if you are a woman. But if you are , it is good thing you mentioned this: it's about cunning and dishonest women who string men along on purpose. I believe that a man who thinks that while he is trying to know a woman who consider him a potential partner, he must not have sex, is the man who will suffer a lot from this. Why does he not want to have sex with another woman? Because he wants the woman to know (if he is interested in a relationship with said woman) that he is serious a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:43 PM
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I believe the main issue is not with men but with the men who want something serious. Particularly, those who believe that if they are trying to know a woman better they have to not have sex with another woman (at the very least, how i see things). But i guess my vision is out dated. No one should believe that they should focus solely on the person they are trying know better. They must still have back up options just in case...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 04:11 PM
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Yes. That is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:54 PM
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Is it okay if he has sex with other women while you take your time to know each other better?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:42 PM
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Guys should only date women who find them attractive and wants to have sex at the same pace as she did with other guys she found attractive. Yes you are right. On the other hand, the most difficult task for a lot of men. Find a woman who will find them attractive, and accept to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:21 PM
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What just wanted to say in a nutshell is that the man must move on. And i think that is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 03:13 PM
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The battle of the sexes is interesting to watch. I could not agree more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:09 PM
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Oh really? That is good. Wonderful i would even say. There is hope for some of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 04:12 PM
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Men are already judge when they have no sexual experience. Most women prefer an experienced man. A man with no sexual experience is considered by women to be a weirdo, creep, ugly, socially inept geek or the well known term now, incel. Women are judged when they have to much sexual partners, men are judged when they have none. Men who have a lot of sexual partners are judged too. Called players and all the what not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 12:30 PM
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Sorry you feel this way. Hope things get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/22 10:26 AM
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What i notice reading the answers is: Most women here say they do not get a lot of attention. But looking carefully at what they say, they consider get attention = get approached. While i am pretty sure that when a man say women get attention, they mean get seen, noticed, appreciated by men. When a man says that men do not get a lot of attention, is not talking about getting approached. But about FEELING NOTICED, SEEN, APPRECIATED. Men check women a lot. It might be furtively, inappropriately (g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 05:44 PM
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