Actually, those preferences can very well be racist. They are never just "how they are". Preferences don't exist in a vacuum. They are closely connected to our unconscious racial biases. Studies have already shown this. Webofscience is your friend. Also, what are you trying to prove with these OK cupid metrics? I don't know why you feel the need to put these forward at all. The fact that you do, somehow, feel the need to 'prove' that black women are less desired, says a lot about you and your bi…
If standards means racist biases then you are certainly right. Also your use of language ('the blacks') clearly shows who you really are. No one that is truly not racist and unprejudiced refers to black people as 'the blacks'.
I don't claim everyone is racist at all. Many people are not. Some people are, here, on Reddit. If you claim to see a black woman as an inanimate objects because they are black, then you are racist.
First paragraph: Yes, it's you. And I dare bet it's because she is black. Start seeing black women as animate 'objects'. They are. Seeing black people as nonhuman is racism at it's finest.