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| 1 | Why is it easier for men to separate emotions from sex and sexual fantasy?This isn’t a gender-specific quality honestly. Women absolutely detach from sex, otherwise they wouldn’t be able to engage in sex work. Also women notoriously shag assholes all the time, talking about how much they hate him but still ending up in bed with him. In romance novels, the “enemies to lovers” trope is one of the most popular tropes ever. On the flip side there are many men who get emotionally attached after sex - it just looks more like possessiveness than neediness. There are also a l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 05:01 AM |
| – | The sexual revolution didn't liberate women; it just turned female intimacy into a cheap, free commodity for men.Yeah. I do believe women caused men to like pornography and I hold women 100% responsible for pornography, especially caucasian women. They’re literally the face of every single video. And they’re not victims most of the time, they’re enthusiastic participants, contrary to what libfems want people to think. And I learned very early in my life that women aren’t “poor innocent victims”. They’re manipulative and straight cold-hearted. They’re “victims” when they want to be. I remember my own mother… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 02:16 AM |
| – | The sexual revolution didn't liberate women; it just turned female intimacy into a cheap, free commodity for men.I agree. I come from purity culture and a very oppressive background. My mother was obsessed with virginity testing and accused me of being a slut for getting my period at 10 and growing breasts, all while SA’ing me anyway. I thought sexual liberation would save girls like me from abuse and make parents leave our bodies alone. I was never into pornographic sex or being a “freak”, I just wanted the freedom to have a boyfriend and have lovey sex with him after being hurt so much. But I saw that li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/26 12:36 AM |
| – | It's completely reasonable for men to view a ONS as more of an achievement than a relationship.This. If’s due to chance a lot of the time. And also the woman’s cycle. During ovulation, you’re pretty much fantasizing about anything that crosses your path. It’s funny, if guys could track women’s cycles they’d probably get laid a whole lot more as a collective. But apparently homo Sapien females evolved to hide signs of ovulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 04:12 PM |
| – | It's completely reasonable for men to view a ONS as more of an achievement than a relationship.If you get chosen for a ONS, usually it means you passed some serious criteria for stereotypical physical attractiveness (tall, well-built, handsome chiselled face). Most of us choose ONS’ based on whether you fit masculine beauty standards, because we need a good visual to feel good during sex. I guess you could say that’s an achievement. It likely means you looked really handsome that night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Women, are your sex toys bigger or smaller than your partner's penis?Mine always have been bigger by a few inches, yeah. And thicker girth-wise. I orgasm via penetration, don’t like it clitorally. It doesn’t mean I don’t like my partner’s size. It’s just easier to finish if it’s lengthier and thicker, and the material harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 03:41 PM |
| – | Men choose the wrong women for ltr or marriageThat’s exactly how it goes. Men will take sex when offered, but they’ll fall for the hottest ones that offered it (or the ones they vibe with more, whatever). Women are fed this harmful idea that a guy leaves when they’re given gave sex too quickly but honestly, he leaves because you’re just not HER (physically, emotionally, etc.). It doesn’t matter if you think you gave him a precious coochie gift, he can’t force himself to like you and commit to you throughout an entire LTR just because you di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 05:01 AM |
| – | Men choose the wrong women for ltr or marriageI love this post and the fact you pointed out that men pre-select women with low-sexual interest in them. It’s completely ironic how the advice to men is to choose the “make-him-wait” woman, when the fact that she can make him wait is often due to lack of sexual interest to begin with. Women that genuinely want you won’t be able to wait. Men should be choosing the women with high sexual interest, especially after they claim that women allegedly give sex easily to men they sexually value and make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Most above average men want kids and I think a lot of women that want a child-free life don’t fully realize that.But the post isn’t even true though. It’s not a package deal — you can easily find emotionally mature males, even wealthy males, that don’t want kids. In fact nowadays, partially due to the RedPill itself, men want their dad’s life less and less. I’m also really skeptical that men have a “biological drive” to change diapers and wash sippy cups. Because now that women are demanding chores get appropriately spit, that “drive” seems to be lessening. Men make a lot of videos talking about how pleasa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/26 12:47 AM |
| 5 | Most above average men want kids and I think a lot of women that want a child-free life don’t fully realize that.What’s interesting is that the more intelligent someone is, the LESS likely they are to want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/26 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Most above average men want kids and I think a lot of women that want a child-free life don’t fully realize that.Yeah as a woman, I’ve noticed it’s the other way. It’s actually less desirable males that tend to be baby-crazy. The ones that don’t want them tend to be wilder and untameable, and because they don’t want to be tied down, it increases sexual interest. Many women are sexually attracted to unpredictable males, not structured ones. Dreaming to be a prim and responsible, 9-5, domestic male pushing a pram and covered in baby spit up frankly makes you boring to women. I’m sorry but that’s just reality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Most above average men want kids and I think a lot of women that want a child-free life don’t fully realize that.No they absolutely do not. Domestic men want kids. Men that want kids or the family life are literally described as boring, too stable, too structure, too rigid, and women claim they don’t give them fanny flutters. They’re not sexually high value, otherwise we’d be flocking to them. Baby-crazy guys are never chosen for casual sex because they’re too into settling down. They don’t have the chaos that many women desire. Even if you describe high-value as “wealthy,” many wealthy males don’t want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/26 09:52 PM |
| – | How and when does a woman create a "type"?I’ll be honest, I didn’t find any racial difference. There are a lot of nerdy blacks and a lot of aggressive whites. I find white guys more meaner when hurt, if anything. Black guys are more forgiving. I found that aggression boils down to job type and geographical location. Inner-cities, heavy trades — that’s where you’re gonna find aggressive males. I’ve mostly been with white guys (I’m not white). I do like a guy that could potentially do that, yeah. Obviously hope he can stop last minute if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:51 AM |
| – | How and when does a woman create a "type"?Honestly they do the opposite. The more aggressive and emotionally out of control a guy is, the more possessive he is, and the less likely he is to leave. He’s more likely to put your head in between the washer and dryer than leave. But a lot of women aren’t scared of that, we kind of egg guys on just to see it or we provoke them. We would rather a man feel things strongly than deal with one of those stoic betas that overthinks. Anger or having no emotional control is very sexually attractive on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:25 AM |
| – | How and when does a woman create a "type"?I’d say I’ve tried to make it work with guys that weren’t my type (domestic, wanted kids, passive and stable, wanted one of those organized cool girls with the resting bitch face that could manage a household and PTA meetings). They were somehow attracted to me even though I honestly caused problems. But I had trouble feeling any spark in return. I’m attracted to guys that get heated, are emotionally out of control, get aggressive if they don’t get their way. I can’t feel anything for any other … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:02 AM |
| 2 | How and when does a woman create a "type"?I have a friend, A, who’s into STEM/science nerds because she wants stability (she’s from a broken family, no father) and looks don’t matter to her. I strongly dislike her type and like muscular aggressive males in the trades or from the streets (I’m from an intact oppressive family with a highly sexual mother). My other friend, B, is hot-tempered and likes abusive scrawny males from rough areas (she’s from an intact, dysfunctional religious family). A is non-confrontational, low libido, and mod… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 07:39 AM |
| – | What would happen If science someday proved or suggested that housewives were healthier and lived longer than women who go to work and are finantially independent?1000% this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 11:15 PM |
| 4 | If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material”This. There is a dude in my friend group who has a girlfriend that he frequently calls “wifey type”. Every second this guy gets he calls her a pendeja and shrugs off her attempts at affection. He says even worse things behind her back, saying word for word he won’t like something if she likes it. He genuinely thinks she’s nothing. She gets no sexual attention from men, is loyal, and slaves for this guy and mothers him — classic “wifey” qualities. This isn’t the first time either I’ve seen this p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 07:45 PM |
| 4 | If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material”They’re saying “wifey material” is higher value as if that value means something to us women. It doesn’t. Wifey provides a host of free services to men, including maintenance sex they don’t have to work for — of course it’s “valuable” to men. It’s a matter of UTILITY. Meanwhile we women hear “wifeys” speak all the time — you can’t miss them because they’re constantly on social media complaining about their ungrateful cheating husbands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 07:34 PM |
| 2 | If you think “husband material” is an insult so is “wifey material”You nailed it. Watch how men will try to speak for us and claim we like it, though. Wifey is a humiliating term for women and talked about a lot on YT. Wifey/Hubby type is code for safe option. It describes a useful beta of either sex. It’s not used to describe someone you’re highly sexually attracted to, but someone you can depend on to be loyal (usually due to them having no options), to support you financially, etc. Men like feeling safe. But most women deep-down prefer to be the highly sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a woman exerces different sexual acts depending on the individual?No, many women are actually just against “freaky” or “kinky” behaviours and it stays that way regardless of the male partner in question. I can tell you as one of them that it has nothing to do with the male. Their view of intimacy just doesn’t include kink. Best to respect that. Hopefully people here will offer some insight on where to find kinky females. I know RP-ers cite septum piercings, tattoos, club-hopping, goth culture, tarot-card reading and multi-coloured hair as possible cues that co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/26 01:52 AM |
| 2 | It is not society’s fault that there are men who dont know the difference between casual sex and a relationship.I have the same experience as you, they’re not just horrible at it but they’re also not all “there”, if that makes sense. It’s awkward, mechanical and weird. Men that have lower counts or were mostly in LTRs are more responsive and you could see they’re really feeling the act. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableAll of this. They claim they want ‘decent and average’ but they have snark, disdain, apathy, disinterest, and sometimes outright public spite for their female partner in front of everyone. And when their girlfriends aren’t looking, they make moves on you and get very close. The poor ‘safe-option’ girl gets contempt while you get compliments from her boyfriend or husband. The dryness-inducing “rational, practical, logical” settling-method men boast about ends in resentment and a wandering eye. It… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Women logically are the cause of most dating problemsYou worded this so well I took a screenshot. You used a key word: disgust. No one emphasizes the disgust and pure hatred we feel at intimacy with a male we’re not attracted to, or the somatic response. That disgust causes us severe vaginal pain during intercourse. Lack of attraction makes our parts seize up and we can’t lubricate. Our body literally launches an effort to reject the male and brings us pain to do it. This is why talk of “socially distributing women” is so unthinkable and disturbin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/26 09:33 PM |
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