EurekaShriek Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
157	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open		EurekaShriek	/r/seduction	12/01/13 09:03 PM

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1	When, if ever, is it appropriate to pursue a barmaid? I'm a bartender. That's a bit much if she isn't interested. I think a safe bet for you is just to ask her if she'd like to join you for something outside of work sometime. Keep it kind of neutral, like maybe something you're doing with your friends. Honestly, you could probably ask her out. It is pretty much the worst thing in the world to get hit on when I'm working, but I only mean that when I'm not interested. If someone comes in that really catches my eye, and they want my number, I will giv…	/r/seduction	31/03/14 02:12 PM
1	Anyone else get really depressed by /r/seduction? I didn't see any grounds for hatred in anything I described. I mean I guess if you hate women for the instincts their born with, that's your right I suppose. But if any part of you ever does WANT a good, meaningful relationship that includes sex with a female, then that's certainly going to get in your way, no? If you don't want that, then... cool I guess... What I don't understand is what about what I described is so loathsome to you exactly? That we feel the need to maintain the respect of our…	/r/seduction	16/03/13 05:54 AM
1	Anyone else get really depressed by /r/seduction? Sounds like your loss to me. But you should bear in mind that while men and women have differences, we're all people. For me, it's easy to have empathy even when people aren't as I wish they were. I believe that maturity is understanding that there's a strong chance you would behave the same as others if you were under the influence of the same forces that they are. Generally speaking, whether it's gender, race, culture, or physics etc. It's better to push yourself to understand why someone or s…	/r/seduction	14/03/13 06:02 PM
24	Being TOO alpha with a...different kind of woman? So here's a woman's intuition: You're probably past the attraction phase with her- she's probably already attracted, now she's evaluating if she's comfortable with you. Because she is smart and has opinions, if you're always "entertaining her" by leading the conversation, it could be that she doesn't feel that she gets to talk enough, therefore effectively, she doesn't feel like you want to really get to know her. I would hope it's not really about leading or about who's smarter, but about creat…	/r/seduction	14/03/13 03:18 PM
1	Anyone else get really depressed by /r/seduction? That's pretty ironic because "succinct" is not a quality my writing often displays. I'm working on it though.	/r/seduction	17/01/13 09:33 PM
3	Anyone else get really depressed by /r/seduction? I don't think you've put any time into understanding the theory side of game. Woman here. I know firsthand the difference between someone trying to pick me up who doesn't know how/doesn't have game and someone who does. This quote: "I hate when a guy compliments something I'm wearing. I know you're talking to me for sex, yet trying a new way of pretending you care about who I am. Just STFU and go away." Is accurate in that women hate it when they can TELL you just want sex ESPECIALLY if you have…	/r/seduction	17/01/13 03:27 PM
2	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open Yes, it IS something that attracts. It works as well if not better on me than a sense of humor. A guy could be hot, confident, and funny, but if he's not intellectually curious I will not date him. I probably won't even have sex with him (maybe if I'm drunk.) I've literally gotten wet listening to someone talk about equations, fractals, physics, philosophy, etc. *edit: Attracts SOME, not all, women. Probably relatively few.	/r/seduction	15/01/13 03:32 PM
1	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open Dude, I feel you on the wishing that people could just talk about their subconscious motives openly, but that's not how it is. Most women don't even REALLY know why they're rejecting someone. Most women hear about game and balk at it and think they're above being taken in by it, but the stats say otherwise. The best you can do is seek out women who demonstrate honesty and insightfulness. Tough to spot in a bar though.	/r/seduction	14/01/13 03:16 AM
2	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open You need to meet more women. But typically, this won't really be the case unless she is intelligent enough to appreciate the intelligence she sees. I happen to think the way math reflects physical realities and philosophical thought is super sexy. My current boyfriend definitely won me over with deep discussions about science and philosophy. If she doesn't have her own intellectual ambition, she probably can't appreciate yours. People's definitions of intelligence are EXTREMELY relative. Even a …	/r/seduction	14/01/13 03:10 AM
2	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open It's also difficult because science tells me that I will feel a stronger need for an alpha male during ovulation. I do tend to be critical of my tall skinny boyfriend during hormonal fluctuations. But I'm still attracted to guys that aren't big, it's just different. The attraction to someone's physique is a gut thing, but getting to know someone deeply creates several dimensions of "attraction".	/r/seduction	14/01/13 03:04 AM
1	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open I always wanted to give guys my PUA friend's phone number and say "you'll thank me." when this happened.	/r/seduction	14/01/13 03:01 AM
3	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open Overeagerness. I had to learn to rein mine in too. Seduction actually taught me why some guys would stop calling, flake, or never progress toward a relationship with me. I was too open too soon. Some of that is just who I am, I'm an open person- but I would allow myself to want someone very early on- and I did jump into bed with a lot of guys a faster than I could really assess their character, only to be disappointed. But that's what happens when a repressed southern girl moves to NY for the fi…	/r/seduction	13/01/13 04:04 PM
2	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open Thanks. I'm not good with brevity- but that sounds about right.	/r/seduction	13/01/13 03:58 PM
6	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open Sure. I went on an OKCupid date with a guy after only exchanging a few brief messages. He had hot pictures and we appeared to have common interests. Literally the second thing he said to me was a melty "thank you so much for coming out to spend time with me." That would sound like politeness from someone with whom I had already established mutual respect, but this was a guy I did not know from Adam. Why was he so grateful to be spending time with me? I actually corrected him and said "You know, …	/r/seduction	13/01/13 03:54 PM
7	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open At first glance, the red pill seems like a rather cynical place for people who have just given up on finding mutual appreciation in life. It has some fairly misogynistic undertones, and it's clearly a place to bash the hell out of feminism. However, I do think there are some ideas in the feminist movement that are indeed bullshit because they simply deny facts about the average female nature. They're right that women shouldn't be pushed to be one thing or another, but they can't get mad about th…	/r/seduction	13/01/13 03:38 PM
6	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open Yep. Sure are. One thing about "attraction science" and seduction is that it's based around averages and generalities. There are also some women who like shy guys or insecure guys- they're just not the norm. Some women like fat guys or extra skinny guys or submissive guys, they're just a little harder to find.	/r/seduction	13/01/13 04:10 AM
4	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open Well, it is and it isn't. I think for both guys and girls, we have a "threshold scored checklist". It's all contingent upon 1. What type of people you believe actually exist in the world and 2. If you believe you are deserving of the kind of people you want. Generally speaking, game helps men see that they are capable of achieving things with high quality women they didn't think possible before, but if you're looking at long term relationships, you still have to remember that very, very few of u…	/r/seduction	13/01/13 04:07 AM
4	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open I may be unable to change my attraction switches, but I know that those switches are part of sex, and not all of them are essential to love and happiness. Being able to reason with yourself about why you feel strong attraction for a guy who's an ass helps you walk away from those guys, and that's important. Also important is helping reason yourself INTO a committed relationship with someone who's right for you, even if he isn't the hunkiest catch you could bait. Ultimately my point is that guys …	/r/seduction	13/01/13 03:43 AM
13	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open It's more that I simply never noticed, until it was pointed out to me, that if a guy was short he was at a disadvantage. If someone would have asked me if I had a height preference I would have said no, height has nothing to do with love, but then I realized how I would sort of melt around taller, bigger, hunkier guys and how short guys got auto-friend-zoned on average. I wouldn't be absolutely opposed to dating a short-ish guy if he did have great game, but this is sort of like you saying you'd…	/r/seduction	13/01/13 03:40 AM
11	What Seddit can teach women- if they're open Ha, and that's why I should proof read my posts.	/r/seduction	13/01/13 01:48 AM
3	How does one deal with a relapse of their one-itis ? http://www.futuristicwords.com/2010/12/kill-beatrice/ Beatricide, dude.	/r/seduction	14/12/12 12:40 AM
4	Too much kino Well just remember that the whole basis of kino is subtle escalation. You test the waters by accidentally touching her hand as part of expressive body language while talking, you guide her by the waist because you want to move to another part of the night club.. e.g., the first couple of times you touch her, there's an alternative explanation for the touching aside from the fact that you're a dude who wants sex. If there isn't, and she's not totally comfortable with you yet, her anti-slut defens…	/r/seduction	09/12/12 02:02 PM
1	How do you begin to have a game mindset to pickup and talk to girls if you don't know what you want to do with your life? Play the devilish rogue/struggling artist card if you're just trying to get laid. Looking for a real relationship might be harder. Also how old are you? One way to circumvent this problem (temporarily) is to date younger. FTR I love writers- they know how to express themselves verbally, which is usually a big win with women. As long as you're not living in Mom's basement, I'd just be honest about the sort of personal crossroads you're at. I gave up a performing arts career for the same reasons. …	/r/seduction	09/12/12 04:41 AM
4	Too much kino That's a really tough question to answer. I'm a female and I used to go out winging with LS instructors. All I can tell you is that it really comes down to what balance of power you've established with the girl. If she is still "suspicious of you", and you haven't made her qualify herself at least a little or been sure to obtain comfort or investment, that could definitely be a game killer. Basically you're gambling on how into you she is at that moment. With high power women, confident, sexy, i…	/r/seduction	09/12/12 04:29 AM