| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | Do you think a relationship with a power imbalance can work or do you consider it always wrong? | Euthanasio2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/21 01:46 PM | |
| 1 | Would you be able to date/hook up on the lower/upper end of half your age + 7? | Euthanasio2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 07:00 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Do you think a relationship with a power imbalance can work or do you consider it always wrong?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a relationship with a power imbalance can work or do you consider it always wrong?Yes. Your explanation was exactly my point. There's an area you have power over him, his height could give you power over you. Power dynamics does not always equate to abuse of power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think a relationship with a power imbalance can work or do you consider it always wrong?You definitely do whether you like it or not. You are privileged to not have it. Everybody who got it will tell you it made their lives harder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 12:39 AM |
| 7 | He defended an age-gap relationship. A relationship between two consenting adults is “grooming” now….They also have those generic dumb replies "The brain is fully developed only at 25, anybody who wants to date younger only want to do it for power and control" First of all, the 25 part is only for the prefrontal cortex(it still develop in your 20s, but not as much as it does between 13 and 18) 2nd women's prefrontal cortex fully develop at 21. Anyway, some part of the brain starts to decline after 30s, so by their logic only people between 25 and 30 should consent. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/21 04:54 AM |
| 16 | He defended an age-gap relationship. A relationship between two consenting adults is “grooming” now….Redditors litterally said that a 20 dating a 18 was grooming. I wish I was kidding, I am not able to take the word grooming or the p word seriously anymore due to these trivialisers. I know nobody in real life who would freak out with things like 27 and 22, Redditors are pretty much becoming twitter 2.0 | /r/MensRights | 07/08/21 04:45 AM |
| 3 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanI beg to differ. I did receive death threats when I said no to men my age. Just look at gay men sub, it's more common than you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/21 12:57 AM |
| 2 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanNo. Everything is consensual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 10:48 PM |
| 3 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanThey aren't outliers though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 10:30 PM |
| 1 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanOk, but I started dating a 21 years old at 29. I did not target that specific age. We just happened to meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 10:29 PM |
| 0 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanAt what point do you consider age gap innapropriate? In quebec, people are rarely judgemental when everyone's an adult(Although thing like 18 and 60 will make people raise an eyebrow I admit) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 09:39 PM |
| 6 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanIt is, as a gay guy on dating apps, I had TONS of people older than me hitting on me when I was in my 20s. Did I want to date them? No, they were way too old for me. Do I consider them "predatory" for making a move? Hell no! They just made a move, I say no and they respected by non consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 09:37 PM |
| 2 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanThey are still together, all of them except one 9 years later. The ones that break up still has a good relationship with her ex. I also a couple where a man was dating an older woman and it turns up the younger man was the abuser(I know she was telling the truth, I witnessed the abuse) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 09:31 PM |
| 3 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanI know many where the women were younger(although the younger one was usually at least 21) why would these women lie in real life to me about their relationship being fine? Although the biggest age gap was 11 years though.(23 and 34) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 09:10 PM |
| 5 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanI personally can get when people are saying someone who just turned 18 can be easier to manipulate than someone who's 25. But the same can be said about very old people. There's a reason that 95% of people who fall to online scammers are over 65 years old. It's due to the fact that they are older, their body and brain have declined a lot(no offense, it doesn't mean you are stupid if you are older), just more vulnerable. Anyway I know plenty of couples who started dating at 19/24 and many years l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 09:00 PM |
| 4 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanBy the logic of "pOwEr dYnAmiC". Handicaped people should no date people with no handicap and the rich should only date rich people. Also people should only date if they share the same muscle mass since physical strength can create uneven power dynamic. Anyway, there's also plenty of brain scan that has proven women brain do develop faster than men https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.medicaldaily.com/men-mature-after-women-11-years-after-be-exact-british-study-reveals-246716%3famp=1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:47 PM |
| -2 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanI know a lesbian couple with a 17 years gap(youngest is 28). Just because I have nothing against that does not mean I would date 17 older(or younger). By your logic if a straight guy is tolerant to gay men, he is automatically gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:37 PM |
| 3 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanAs a gay guy who had homophobic parents. Raising the age to 21 would have made my life hell for even 3 more years. Thankfully my parents evolved, but a few years ago, I would not have been able to explore my sexuality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:35 PM |
| 3 | American culture is simultaneously hyper-sexualized and sanctimoniously puritanYou realise that 25 is for the MALE BRAIN right? Take 3 seconds to google "do women brain develop faster than men" and you will see tons of sources saying it does. Also "everyone is a kid under 25" is a chronically online take(usually from americans). People in the real world won't panic if a 24 years old date someone who's 33 no matter the gender or sexuality. I started dating my boyfriend when I was 29 and he was 21. Just because something makes you uncomfortable does not make it non consensua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Don't believe PDD women - IRL Most Women actually PREFER OLDER Looking GuysI think it's fine. I am 33 and my boyfriend is 24. We have been together for 3 years and when I met him and I met him in a bar. At the beginning I hesitated a lot because of the age gap. (I put my dating range at 25-35 on dating apps) so sometimes age gap works, but I feel it's different when two people with an age gap meet and someone who absolutely want to date younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieYeah. What he said what nonsense and I genuinely have no clue what he is talking about. Anyway I met my partner when he was 20 and I was 28 in a bar and I was not actively seeking someone younger. I hesitated a lot at first, but decided go give it a shot. 3 years later we are still together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to Diehttps://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.medicaldaily.com/men-mature-after-women-11-years-after-be-exact-british-study-reveals-246716%3Famp%3D1&ved=2ahUKEwjgrMab-fbxAhUQUt8KHQAEBmQQFjAGegQIIxAC&usg=AOvVaw3kIXZLzKWv_U3m_-Ex17WM&cf=1 You can litterally take 3 seconds of writing "do women brain develop faster than women" on google and you will find tons of medial sources that it does. It also decline at an older age. By the logic of brain development the age of consent fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Dunking on Legal Age Gaps Really Needs to DieI live in Quebec, technically from the west I guess. And noboy cares in general about the age gaps that makes americans panic. Unless it's like 60 and 18 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 02:50 PM |
| 1 | What's gonna happen if you call grown men "boys"?I suppose you have a point. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | What's gonna happen if you call grown men "boys"?I am 32 and I was called a "boy" by some 40 years old man. I was amused and did not find it offensive at all lol | /r/MensRights | 09/10/20 10:09 PM |
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