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| – | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.I do not care about people’s ROMANTIC preferences. Not sure why you think things means I wouldn’t vote. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 08:14 PM |
| – | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.Of course I vote. And I still do not care about the romantic preferences of others. Why would that impact me at all? It literally doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 04:31 PM |
| – | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Hm. I might agree with about 10% of that. You’re correct in that girls are usually not socialized to not hit. Which is understandable because we can’t cause as much damage, and we need to defend ourselves. That said, I still do not think abuse is higher in female/female relationships. At least in my experience this is not the case. One more thing - that “man hits woman - man gets in trouble” scenario simply does not happen. The career with the highest rates of DV are in law enforcement. They can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/26 04:29 PM |
| – | They Know What to Say and Who to Say it To. It Depends on Where You Are on Their Value Hierarchy. Selective Preaching, Pandering and None at all.This is just the halo effect, which is not gendered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 12:52 PM |
| 10 | Have you ever asked yourself why the patriarchy and hypergamy exists and why were they created?OP, you’ll never convince me that you have any earthly idea what you’re talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/26 02:42 AM |
| 9 | Men will accidentally push anti-male propagandaYou don’t have to “make a claim of rape and violence” when men have already been violent rapists. Look at history, war, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 03:55 PM |
| -1 | Red Pill men trust their self-motivated inccorrect observations of women more than women's own explanations.Well, it is a debate sub. If someone is an asshole, there’s nothing to debate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 03:49 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Not sure why you’re telling me all of this. You’re preaching to the choir BTW. I’m an advocate/survivor. My post was not intended to be all encompassing advice. I stayed with my abuser/groomer for my kids. It was a mistake that I regret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 10:42 AM |
| 1 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.Saying what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 08:21 PM |
| 8 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.No need. No one is inventing ways to interact with y’all. We’re coming up with ways to avoid interacting with y’all. Like women only Ubers for instance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 08:06 PM |
| 14 | It's always considered men responsibility to make women feel safe around them.You keep saying this. We are ok with men “ignoring” us. Most of us wouldn’t even notice 🤷🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 08:00 PM |
| 7 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.No. I don’t see how it’s unfair. Other people’s desires/standards mean literal nothing to me. I’ll never care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?I’m not exactly sure what you’re asserting/asking. Also, any questions about attraction, safety, preferences are very personalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:59 PM |
| 3 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexThen you weren’t a natural, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 06:05 PM |
| 8 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Not sure what you’re challenging here. I’m speaking for myself. I pretty much like the same traits in people - both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:59 PM |
| 6 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Men have always betrayed one another for sex/women. It’s not new at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexHave you been with a lot of men? How can you even measure that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:51 PM |
| 10 | What’s the most controversial negative opinion you have about your own gender?Women give too many chances in romantic relationships, IMO. Y’all need to be breaking more hearts and quicker. Stop remaining in relationships that are syphoning your energy. BONUS: Do NOT “stay for the kids” 🙅🏽♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Dating men and women is not even comparable. Women offer - Orgasams (this cannot be understated, the orgasams are out of this world), closeness, full intimacy, deep friendship, etc. They’re also wayyyy better to date. I have gotten so much care and attention when dating women. They plan cute little dates. I have gotten thoughtful gifts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 05:10 PM |
| 7 | Women have little intent.Ew. I feel badly for her. I hope she’s well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:59 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?Answer? I didn’t ask you a question. Thanks though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:59 PM |
| 4 | Women have little intent.You see it “MORE” in women because you date women. You’re likely hyper fixated on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:57 PM |
| 13 | Women have little intent.She didn’t want any y’all (but mostly you) to think she’s ever date you. It was a pre-rejection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Women have little intent.No. You just see it in women, because you date women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:53 PM |
| 7 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexAh, you’re talking about “PARTNERS” - this post is about casual sex. I’d like to keep it there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:51 PM |
| 6 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?“Even then I see women not really “taking more risk” in the sense of going out of their way to approach women.” ———> Are you often in spaces where lesbian/bi women could approach women? Our dating pool is small as it is - not sure how you’re able to speak confidentially about a “sub-culture” (for lack of a better term). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexOur anatomies are similar, yes. But the way we orgasm will be slightly different. Practice will only do so much. BTW… I have been with women and they need VERY little guidance/training, etc. Again, some people are naturals, most are not. Practice with randoms won’t help, IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:42 PM |
| 17 | Women have little intent.What do you think are the hidden layers behind their actions? Also, how can you even know much about other people? People that you only have a casual knowing of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:38 PM |
| 15 | Women’s Selectivity Is a Major Cause of the Orgasm Gap in Casual SexIDK… I think some men are naturals, most are not. Also, “practice” doesn’t mean much because our bodies are different. What feels great to me, might feel horrible to the next woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 04:30 PM |
| 31 | Question for lesbian and bi women: Why do women seem to have stricter standards for men than for women?Hm. I feel like I do have similar standards for women as I do men. What I don’t have with women is fear - so I might take more risks, or more of a “let’s see what happens” attitude. With men, I don’t want to see what happens, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:15 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?I doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Man flu is real and proves that women don't have empathy for men.I had to google “man flu” 😐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:54 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?A lot of us have brothers and sons that do well with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:42 PM |
| 0 | Hypothetical Women uprising?Thank you! They ALWAYS frame things as “WE got the right to vote, WE blah blah blah” forgetting that WOC gained nothing and were still being brutalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Are women really don't like male attention only because of safety issues?I probably wouldn’t be “ok” with it - but I can EASILY defend myself. I might be annoyed but not scared in the slightest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Are women really don't like male attention only because of safety issues?Yes. For me it’s safety 🤷🏽♀️ Men are unpredictable and many of us have seen what happens when men FEEL rejected. Just the other day, on another popular sub - a woman posted about a guy that pushed her down over rejection. It happens often enough that we have developed strategies to avoid making a man FEEL rejected. For example, i wear a decoy wedding ring; which helps some. With women i have ZERO fear. There is nothing a woman can do, to make me fear her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:58 PM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?Agree to disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:28 PM |
| 4 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.And they’ll adjust or stay single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 11:24 AM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?Nah. I’m not convinced. Men don’t care and never have. Also, US culture doesn’t support Sharia law, TF? Even if it heads that direction - I’ll be long gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 11:21 AM |
| – | Why should women care that men don't have partners?Thing is, men already don’t care about women 🤷🏽♀️ You can’t threaten with the same thing you’re already doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 11:12 AM |
| 8 | Hypergamy is serious topic that woke and bluepilled people uncomfortable and they are unwilling to take seriously, analyze, and discuss the issue.I just don’t have a problem with hypergamy 🤷🏽♀️ If women want to only date millionaires - IDC. If MEN only want to date millionaires - I equally don’t care. IMO, people should keep their standards as high or low as they want. It’ll never impact me at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 11:07 AM |
| 3 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"Or, “I’m apolitical” 👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/26 12:04 AM |
| 2 | A date asks "what woman do you admire"It’d be your chance to talk about the women you admire. Couldn’t hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 11:59 PM |
| 9 | Discernment needs to be reworked.Feels like you’re kind of admitting (or realizing) that “vetting” doesn’t really work. Even you say that a guy can pretend to be a good guy, then pump and dump 5 years later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 04:29 PM |
| 14 | Men dating younger women may be the only option left.Isn’t this basically a red pill talking point? Feels like you just wrote out that “men age like fine wine, just get your money up” foolishness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:43 PM |
| 8 | Do young women have their sexual partners vetted by family members in 2026?Some parents are also straight up abusive/neglectful. The notion of “your parents just want the best for you” isn’t true for tons of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:32 PM |
| – | The 50/50 Rule: Reclaiming Men’s Self-Respect and Autonomy.It might surprise you to know that there are men who LIKE paying for shit. And, you won’t be able to convince them otherwise. I know, I know - those are the “simps” but still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:26 PM |
| 8 | Do young women have their sexual partners vetted by family members in 2026?Then how can you speak so confidently? I have kids and they have not been released into the world “with no sexual guidance.” Not even sure what that means TBH. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Do young women have their sexual partners vetted by family members in 2026?Are you a parent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:00 PM |
| 9 | Do young women have their sexual partners vetted by family members in 2026?What are you basing this on? How do you know their parents don’t approve? You’re making up a scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 02:16 PM |
| -1 | When it comes to chores, it's not that men won't help out/pull their weight. Women just hate to see men relaxing.IDK… I date women and I get a little irked when she’s chilling after cooking (and not washing the dishes). She’ll make us breakfast then she’ll just start chilling - while I log on to work. I be like…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Sex and fidelity are not needsYou thinking there’s a “hot young neighbor” willing to casually fuck some dude is odd. Y’all do NOT have women lined up like that - and most men are not even attractive to most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 12:59 PM |
| 6 | Do you believe women should cater more to men/be less selective?First, don’t do Kathy Bates like that - she is likely having a fucking ball like the diva she is. Second - what a shallow thing to say. Third - more options don’t mean shit. They both will probably go through a series of LTRs throughout life. Some good, some bad. Neither better than the other. The end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Most people don’t want to be around someone with a victim complex,Agreed. The whole “woe is me” is such a drag. It also comes across as weak, pitiful, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 03:45 PM |
| – | If guys are so into transactional relationships, they’d be better off going to professionals.There are tons of crimes that are illegal. That doesn’t stop some men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 08:52 PM |
| 0 | Why are you not religious?I agree that it wouldn’t be fair, but IME - a lot of men don’t care about “fair” - also, most religious people are just pretending anyway. They don’t really believe religious teachings. They are simply performing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 05:18 PM |
| 0 | Women consistently reinforce that attraction is Amoral. Yet continue to moralize unsuccessful Mens inability to be selected. Depending on Narrative and ContextAttraction is just attraction 😐 Who considers attraction moral or amoral? I have never seen this, personally. Unless maybe you’re talking about attraction towards minors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are you not religious?I always wondered this too. If a guy wants a mate that is chaste or whatever - the best place to look is in church communities. Why date is heathens if you want transitional/purity BS? I used to date/marry for resources - you think I’m going to search for guys at the homeless shelter? Hell no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/26 04:24 PM |
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