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2	The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractive LOLOLOLOLOL, so wrong. You think women feel a "spark" with every attractive man they talk to? I met an amazing guy recently. We had THE MOST AMAZING SPARK. It took me a whole week of hanging out every day to realize he was only 5'7. Spark has nothing to do with what the guy looks like and everything to do with the connection. Stop self-handicapping.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 08:58 PM
2	As a man, your perceived ability to get casual sex will define the tone of every long term relationship you have What craziness is this???? Literally no woman thinks this way. This is like how people who are developmentally stunted think about relationships. Unable to understand basic human concepts like love and attachment, they think everything is about sex. Yikes.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/04/23 04:34 PM
1	If expecting a woman to cook/clean because she’s a woman is misogyny, then wouldn’t expecting chivalry from a man because he’s the man be misandry? Sometimes, when people lack social skills, either due to a developmental thing or because certain skills and awarenesses are slow to develop in them, they ask questions like this, as though behavior exists in a vacuum and context is irrelevant. Let me see if I can help. Pay attention to the answers to your questions, but, more importantly, how context matters in discussions about social, interpersonal behaviors. says it’s a woman’s job to cook, clean, and care for the children, there’s a very go…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/23 03:29 PM
1	Do attractive women even comprehend rejection if it comes before sex? I've never wondered if there's something wrong with me. I know I'm a major catch, but I also know that an insecure man would have a hard time being with me. I was out with a guy recently, and he had to go to the bathroom, so I told him, "Okay, but when you come back, there are going to be at least three guys at this table." He laughed, because he thought I was joking, but when he came back two minutes later, there were three guys at the table. Some men would get butt hurt and upset and insecure.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/04/23 08:31 PM
-1	Is pre-selection actually real? Nope! Here's what's ACTUALLY happening, as per No, Women Aren't "More Into" Married Men. We're STILL Just Being Friendly: When you're a woman, men perceive everything you do as "flirting." Smiling politely instead of scowling = flirting. Making eye contact instead of staring at his shoes = flirting. Nervously playing with your hair because this dude is standing way too close = flirting. The post continues: For this reason, a lot of women are "curt" or "unfriendly" in interactions with men.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 07:01 AM
0	Would you rather date a man who is left wing economically but socially conservative or date a man who's right wing economically but left wing on social issues? I wouldn't date either of these men. I'd rather be alone than be with a misogynist, and both of these men are misogynists. The first one thinks I should have fewer rights over my body than a literal corpse, and believes women should be forced to donate their organs to non-humans. (Legally, a fetus is not a human.) The second supports state-mandated undressing of girls and women in front of males and the erasure of female-only sports and spaces. I'd rather be alone than with someone who wants to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/02/23 06:57 AM
2	Do men really think 30 year old women are past their prime? LOL. No. I'm in my 30s, and if anything, I get more men hitting on me and offering to upend their lives in order to be with me than in my 20s. The reason you think this is because a lot of men are so cripplingly afraid of rejection and loneliness, and so cripplingly immature that they wallow in self-pity instead of fixing their problems and addressing their shortcomings, that the only thing that keeps them going is the idea that beautiful women will one day become infertile. It's quite sad, but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/02/23 09:05 PM
1	CMV: All the character traits women despise in men they display far more frequently Glad we can agree :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/01/23 03:39 AM
3	CMV: All the character traits women despise in men they display far more frequently I think when you act like shit, you attract shit. If people are acting the way you've described, it might have something to do with how you are behaving and who that behavior attracts.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 06:02 PM
2	CMV: All the character traits women despise in men they display far more frequently Oh, no, that's just basic human decency. If you don't have the communication skills to tell someone that you want them to pay their own way and how much you expect it to cost before the date, then obviously you should pay. If you're too poor to pay, then maybe you should get a job before asking someone out or pick a different date that you CAN afford. If you lack basic human communication skills and you can't afford dating, maybe you shouldn't be dating :) I know you don't want to visit my reali…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 05:31 PM
2	CMV: All the character traits women despise in men they display far more frequently LOL, sounds like you haven't has any real experiences with women, or at least with women who were interested in you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 05:01 PM
5	CMV: All the character traits women despise in men they display far more frequently Great point. OP displays all three of these traits in his post, and it kinda helps explain why he's single ad frustrated. I hope he listens and tries to grow from this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 05:00 PM
1	CMV: All the character traits women despise in men they display far more frequently From your post, it's pretty obvious why you are single. Stop reading now if you don't want honest feedback. You feel like a helpless, angry victim. Women aren't attracted to that. We are attracted to men who are confident, not because they think they're hot or rich, but because they have the power and autonomy to change the world around them. Your post reeks of helplessness and self-pity (BOO HOOO I HAVE TO PAY FOR A DATE THAT I INITIATED!!! BOO HOO HOW COME WOMEN NEVER ASK MEEEEEEEE OUT????!!!)…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 04:59 PM
2	How are men supposed to meet women these days? It's okay to approach someone who isn't obviously busy (exercising, reading, etc.). It's CREEPY and WEIRD to keep hitting on someone who obviously isn't interested. You may think that's confidence, but it's creepy. If she only wanted to go on a date with you if she thought it was just as friends, you're going to waste time and money on a date that's not going anywhere. Not if you're genuine in your friendship. It's okay to approach someone who isn't obviously busy (exercising, reading, etc.). It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/23 04:49 PM
1	Women are rude to men without consequences That is a good insight. Women are not magic mind readers. What felt like nervousness to you might have felt like rudeness to her. So maybe that's all it was.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 05:49 PM
1	Women are rude to men without consequences I am being civil. Honesty is the kindest thing I can give this individual. I just hope he takes the opportunity to learn and grow from it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/01/23 05:47 PM
2	Women are rude to men without consequences Maybe you were inappropriate with her when you were partners, then. Were you gross? Did you make unsolicited comments about her body? Did you touch her? Stand or sit way too close to her? She definitely doesn't like you if she rejected you. Usually when guys claim that girls "stare at them" it's a sign that they're very very bad at detecting romantic interest and reading body language.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 09:49 PM
2	Women are rude to men without consequences If you are interested in growth and self-improvement, this would be a good time to ask yourself, "Could there have been anything off about the way or timing of my approach?" Had you been bugging her a ton and she'd been politely brushing you off? Had you been staring creepily at her during class? Were you standing WAY too close to her or interrupting her in the middle of something? You can either do the child thing and blame everyone else for your problems, or you can do some self-reflection and…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 05:58 PM
1	A Modest Proposal: The Bachelorette Tax You sound like you'd thrive in North Korea, you poor broken boy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 05:19 PM
2	Women are rude to men without consequences LOL. What makes you think that? You work in customer service or something?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 05:17 PM
0	Women are rude to men without consequences Bro. You were so emotional, you forgot what 98% means and randomly started conflating murder with rudeness. For sure you made me giggle. Hope tomorrow goes better :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 07:46 AM
1	Women are rude to men without consequences LOLOLOL. Someone doesn't know what "98%" means!!! You sound like you're feeling pretty emotional tonight. Hope tomorrow goes a little better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/01/23 06:38 AM
2	"Just work on yourself, bro" is a polite way of gaslighting men Ignoring good, actionable advice because you're too insecure and immature to actually, you know, self-improve and do better at the things you're not doing well at, is why you are single. Women like men who feel agency and accountability, not boys who feel like helpless victims of the world and people around them. This is great advice. Try to take it instead of having a meltdown and calling me names.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 11:49 PM
1	What women in their 30s seem to ignore is that the biological imperative for a man is slighty more forgiving than a woman and a man can get his shit together in his 30s or 40s, a woman who is 35 and is still holding out for a high tier man is absolutely done for. LOLOLOL. I always laugh at small-dick incels who can only get through the day by CLINGING DESPERATELY to the idea that women eventually become less fertile. It's so sad you don't have anything else going for you in life. Cling to your delusion if that's what it takes, sweetie! LOLOLOL!	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 11:46 PM
15	Women are rude to men without consequences If a woman was "rude" to you, there is a 98% chance that's because she TRIED being subtle and polite, and you either ignorantly or sociopathically ignored her boundaries, forcing her to escalate. If women are rude to you, YOU are the one who is fucking up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/23 11:39 PM
0	It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as them Okay, so "enjoying sex" and "having low-quality sex with low-quality partners" are two different things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 05:56 AM
1	It's bad for men's mental health to tell them that women like sex as much as them "Enjoying sex" doesn't mean the same thing as "having no standards."	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 01:51 AM
1	Do men view 30 year old women as too old for relationships if their ultimate goal is marriage and children? For men who are cripplingly insecure and have little going for them in life, or who are still butt hurt about the girls who wouldn't date them in high school, this is ALL they have going for them. The only thing that brings them any comfort is the silly notion that "once women hit 30, no one will date them." They HAVE to believe it, because it's like the one thing that makes them feel good about themselves. And therefore, it's an excellent quality filter. If a man thinks this, he's totally lacki…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 01:50 AM
1	Does anyone else feel like feminism has ruined a generation of women for dating? > "Hookup culture: it is considered "empowering" to go fuck people casually, and the advent of dating apps has only made this easier, particularly for women." LOL. At every point in human history, it was extremely easy for women to get laid if that's what they wanted. > "What. Do. You. Do? Are you talented at anything? Do you have any dreams at all? " Umm... do you? I feel like if you did, you wouldn't have a hard time meeting other talented, interesting people with dreams they're chasing. I've …	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/12/22 01:47 AM
1	Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than women I mean, I'm right. If a woman is "rude" to you, it's because at first, she was polite and you ignored her boundaries, forcing her to be rude. No assumptions. That's just what happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/22 07:45 AM
8	Women often use fear as an excuse to be rude to men even though men have assaulted/victimized more men than women LOLOLOLOLOLOLLLLLLLLLLL The reason women are "rude" to you is because you are lacking in basic human empathy and perspective taking. If a woman is "rude" to you, it's not because she is an asshole. It's because YOU ignored her obvious boundaries when she was "polite" and subtle, so you forced her to escalate. Learn to read the room, dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/22 10:01 PM
3	Isn't it counter-intuitive for men who want sex to shame women for having sex? Well, duh. Everyone should be careful when choosing a therapist. You'd know that if you knew anything about psychology, which you clearly do not. I'm still right, though. :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 04:20 PM
-1	Isn't it counter-intuitive for men who want sex to shame women for having sex? Correlation isn't causation, though. They'd've taught you that in school, of course. Women with a "lower body count" typically have been in more long-term relationships and fewer short-term flings or casual hookups, which is likely for a reason. Also, men who don't have small dick syndrome don't actually CARE about body count. I can't think of a single confident, successful man EVER who would concern himself with that. Because he's a fully-functioning human with a lot going for him, he's not cri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 04:02 PM
1	Isn't it counter-intuitive for men who want sex to shame women for having sex? No, sweetie. I'm just being honest. I'm a psychologist. I know these things. But it sounds like you might be kind of upset after being confronted with the truth. That's good, though. Honest is the kindest thing I can be, because it could set you on a path to self-improvement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 03:58 PM
12	Isn't it counter-intuitive for men who want sex to shame women for having sex? It's about jealousy... and profound insecurity. They want someone with a "low body count" because they think their dicks are too small or they're not very good in bed, and they want a woman who doesn't know the difference between him and a good/well-endowed lover.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 03:06 PM
1	Q4W: Would you rather have casual sex with an average in his 20's, or a fit, handsome man in his 40's? I wouldn't have casual sex with either, because I don't have casual sex -- the idea grosses me out. See also: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQkjVt1fNes If we're talking about DATING, obviously I would date the higher-quality man, which is the older one. I don't like that he lifts weights -- gym bodies aren't attractive to me, as they indicate that the guy spends his free time standing in front of a mirror watching himself lift bars and dumbbells instead of, say, surfing or mountain biking or p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 02:49 PM
2	Women of PPD, could we get honest answers about your dating life as you have grown older? (i.e The Wall) Sad, broken manchildren have ONE comfort in this life: clinging to the boring, tired misconception that women who "have it all" now will suddenly become less attractive when they turn 30. This loser Kai Chang just used that to try to insult me -- I think because he tried to hold my hand a decade ago and I pulled my hand away and he's still butthurt about it. And I'm just like... this is how I know you're a bottom of the barrel beta who doesn't know anything about women except what he's read in J…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 02:38 PM
1	Prediction - In the near future, porn tech will get exponentially better and might kill dating & relationships See, this is why you are single. You think dating is about fucking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/12/22 02:32 PM
3	Women think nice men are least sexually attractive but best for relationships Dude, all of this is just silliness. If all you have to offer is being nice, there is no reason anyone would ever date you. "Nice" is a basic, bare minimum requirement. But if that's all you are... I mean, like, licorice is food, but I'm not going to eat it unless there is no other option and I will die otherwise. If all you are is "nice," why would I spent time with you? If you're nice AND you have shared interests with me AND you're incredibly smart AND you're compassionate AND you're funny, t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/22 01:01 AM
2	Men over 30, do you filter out 30 year old women while looking for serious relationships? "No one will want them once they turn 30" is a mantra butthurt betas chant over and over to soothe their damaged egos and crippling fear of rejection. It has no basis in reality. It's just a sad little thing butthurt betas have to tell themselves to get through their sad, lonely day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/22 02:25 AM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? This is probably what you're doing wrong. If you aren't having fun, you think the girl is having fun? It's NOT fun to be with someone who is not having fun. It's uncomfortable and awkward, and I wouldn't go on a second date with someone who didn't have fun on the first date. I don't know if you're looking for advice or not, but mine would definitely be to: Learn to recognize and disrupt thoughts and attitudes that keep you from having fun on dates. Practice cognitive reframing. Do self-affirmati…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 04:52 PM
1	I see countless times women say they are cool with not being in a relationship. Then why even date? Dating is hella fun! You get to meet interesting new people, do something super fun with them -- especially things you couldn't do on your own, like rock climb (someone's got to belay you!), sing duets, rock out, or even just do a float down a river. If it turns into more, it turns into more. If it doesn't, you still had an unforgettable Thursday evening.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/11/22 02:32 PM
1	im gonna prove right with a very simple argument that the dating market is not fair You are wrong. The problem is that RECIPROCITY is important. Is it creepy when someone you just met messages you 70 times? No. Not if you messaged them back all 70 times. But YES! REALLY CREEPY if you didn't message them back and they just kept texting. Reciprocity is important. I wouldn't want to be with someone I was more excited about than they were about me. I wouldn't want to be with someone who was more excited about me than I was about them. The other this is, a lot of the time, It's Not …	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 03:01 PM