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You both sound deluded. You know what’s more fun that mindless concern rants on Reddit? Chasing after your flesh and blood giving them a great experience of life. You know how you exist now, right? The only reason to get married is to protect your ROI with kids. Why else did you form a contract with the state? If you want kids you shouldn’t be on BC. Simple. Dude doesn’t want them? Divorce immediately plenty will be lined up. Or just get pregnant with your husband. You know, like you’re supposed…
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 05:32 AM
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Stop following the fake family court orders. Unload your cash. Go. At least sit under a tree a bit. Also - peace is priceless.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 01:44 AM
1

Mine shows clear signs of not-talking-to-humans much, and starts jabbering even when I literally obviously ignore and pay attention to my kids. It's absolutely grand. Maybe you need to remind her that 'I don't care', etc. Meanwhile catch a false allegation of abuse, the next level is: block (on socials), block on phone. Talk to my lawyer bizitch.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/26 01:38 AM
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I happily covered 70/30 expenses for early childcare, otherwise was fine with 100/0 even if she worked. I’m high enough earning I guess so no sweat. We all win and are a fam. She got reverse financially and physically abusive and then silver bullet executed poorly. Twice. Now she gets 0/100 calling for her daddy to be her daddy and support of false allegations, legal playgrounds, and facing actual judicial and criminal consequence. It’s grand.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:08 PM
2

Been through it. Got the divorce. Got the kids. You are correct. Worst aspect of family: living with her.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/26 12:36 PM
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My friends that have lasted are all connected to my hobbies, go figure. Sounds like you forgot we are not women with the trope of needing a tight group going to get milkshakes. I much prefer such functional friends. I struggled with too much dating though up until the moment I decided not to anymore and lock it down. The problem now is women are predominantly not worth dating, leaving more dudes in a lurch or not gaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 03:55 AM
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Two years and still no interest in womens, only hobby buds. The ladies. They are not worth.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 03:06 AM
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I’m not reading that drivel
/r/MensRights22/07/26 11:45 AM
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Entitled worker shocked there's a job to do called customer service
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:38 PM
0

Hobbies and video games, obv
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 01:16 PM
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I’m at 5/14 40:60 I guess w modification update incoming because she defrauded the legal system and took into her own hands. But worry 50/50 will constrain me slightly lol. But I do miss them harder on the weeks where I miss a mid week hang for couple days.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 01:15 PM
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I can’t be bothered. It’s incredible.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/26 06:13 AM
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You’ve got to sleep w her first or at least now to calm her down. That’s how I handled acceptable female colleagues when I went into an office. That’s what she wants GL.
/r/MensRights02/07/26 12:18 AM
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Don’t ever do it no matter what. Getting married is being taken to the cleaners by the state. Fuccccckk that. Enjoy the hypergamy while you can.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/26 07:00 PM
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I ask these questions to random people on the street, works great
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 07:29 PM
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That grass sure does smell nice. You probably made the 50/50 wrong call, but also right as you shouldn't be deciding that so young. Plenty of time for a new redo and learnings carried throughout. Then there'd be no way your future would have happened without the past!
/r/ExRedPill29/05/26 03:55 AM
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Dude - tf are you gossiping and sharing your life with the enemy.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 04:33 AM
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That stat is old fake biased and outdated by now I bet.
/r/MensRights12/05/26 12:36 AM
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Nice bro whatever your kink to make it work for you both
/r/ExRedPill07/05/26 04:59 PM
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According to most states there certainly should be. Giving the kids the ‘same lifestyle’ like all the income goes to them. Such BS, judges and courts have no credibility or fairness in family law aka fake enriching the system law.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 12:40 PM
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4500 for me at 40/60. I’m taking on the state and daring them to test me, put in jail for the system encouraging abusive dv wives to walk away with houses and half my pay. The state uses gross pay’ like there’s no taxes, much less bills. F that. I’ve been paying half. Turning into a criminal. Good.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 12:38 PM
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Working through it with fitness hobbies and video games and trees and friends
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/26 02:47 AM
0

My btch xw turned monster and provoking once she learned she could go ride random diks, take my house, sleep in my bed, and made 5k/month for nothing but a call to the police and her lawyers. Fck risking all that again for a closet whore con artist. Women have to go extra far to prove they are not just repeats of this modern trash woman era. You asked for it. Paying for it is so much cheaper and better. I still haven’t but the freedom to is lovely. I do have other ways still lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 10:15 PM
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They strut in front of me like they want a notice. Kinda nice, esp ignoring. Never progressed to social media or dating them though.
/r/MensRights29/04/26 02:43 AM
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Yes 100%. You are the enemy if you join them for a joint sesh. Be prepared. "You can get divorced for any reason now, just so you know" "That [observation of your wife's behavior] is mysoginistic"
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/26 05:12 AM
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Annnnnd he’s ded
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 08:41 PM
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lol your viewpoint is all wrong. You don’t care about ‘a night out’ after you have kids and start a family. Especially if you just started a family. That is your life. It’s awesome. You need to get away from it? You have just an opinion and no experience I suspect, and this is more misandry. My wife became literally jealous of the stronger bonds that I developed with the children than she had - in no small part to my loving calm demeanor, vs her toxic raging and hateful screaming and needlessly …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 03:37 AM
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Abso fucking lutely - send her away for as long as you can. Teach some lessons.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 02:30 AM
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They lose access to me based on their wretched only child’s actions. Eventually my kids too.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 06:31 AM
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😜
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:56 AM
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I think catching them at the age 30 w marks of first panic (from her side) is ideal lol. If you’re 45 by then, perfect haha, maybe a bit of an old dad though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:19 AM
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I don’t follow the ‘get married after 45’ vs being 30 attracting better prospects. If you get a good catch in your 30s I’d say go for it. I interpreted what you wrote first as ‘only be married until 45’. I totally dig that logic lol. The sky opens I bet!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:13 AM
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That’s generalizing I’d say. I was completely dedicated and involved in 2x newborn processes to toddler stage, and relished being 100% involved everywhere that I could. Fights broke out for who got to do pickup/dropoffs at daycare and do playgrounds/activities. The only thing the mom did that I couldn’t was breastfeed. And I made her life heaven in terms of food shelter and care. And yet, she still turned into an ungrateful monster who sought out separating me from my children (2 boys, mind you)…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 02:06 AM
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Uhh so which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:57 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 01:56 AM
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My kids 2 and 5 have adapted fully. I got silver bullet ejected from the marital home, but the kids prefer to come to my normal place that predates the relationship, but also a random nearby apartment to be near schools. And yet, still they cheer for me and plot to end her, fr (I don’t condone), and cry at the sight of being near her drop off. Two year old even says “mom you can leave now” on a couple random ‘join us’ dates (I ironically call them). Two boys, maybe that’s the reason? My bond was…
/r/Divorce_Men20/04/26 03:41 AM
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No she is 100% a stranger that’s never talked of by the kids ( 2 at or under 5) during my times, so there’s zero discussion of such celebrations or dates. Let them decide for themselves on future mother’s days. Other way of understanding: I saw my dad get my mom Mother’s Day gifts, not encouraging us to do the same until it was our own idea. Ex gets no birthday texts, no Mother’s Day celebrations after doing her best to tear apart lives of children. The kids already have an impression and detest…
/r/Divorce_Men13/04/26 11:23 AM
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The most magical thing I've discovered (much less time betrothed/tied down) is that hermit mode is acceptable, new (old) hobbies are acceptable, going out is acceptable, staying in is acceptable. Making new friends that are ladies is acceptable, even more friends that are dudes, many in similar situations, is acceptable. In sum: you can embody the freedom that your human body is able to provide, not locked into various control apparati (marriage, contracts with states, is a HUGE CONTROL APPARATU…
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/26 04:21 PM
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Yeah but 15 years since 2010, right? Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 10:48 PM
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Biggest bad move
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/26 05:40 AM
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Divorced dad here. This is the correct take. But I got two boys as prize, and extra bonus of not having to be near the ex!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:02 PM
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Nope give zilch nothing without a court ratified ‘full settlement agreement’. You would have to sign it in agreement. Hint: don’t do that.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/26 02:50 AM
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This is my boat. Though I’m starting to flirt slightly with women who may need my services. I say I don’t date. Come and get it if you want lol. That approach is not terrible.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/26 03:19 AM
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Time is long past putting up with the current beyond rearing age wife was my point. Agreed w time but I’d not push it. Hope to get lucky and control all variables he can hopefully, live life unfocused on being otherwise desperate.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/26 01:27 AM
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For you to have stuck around simping is on you. No kids while viable? Then cya, there’s always more fertile women.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/26 09:44 PM
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My corporate wannabe boss man wife turned into a SAHM part time worker: to juice child support including daycare 50+% of my take home. I take issue with the court, and have only been paying half. Let them destroy me can’t be much worse. She talks like the kids are hers not mine, and with silver bullet false police reports, she’s supposed to make bank over it. I don’t think so. Family court is not legal. PSA
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 12:57 AM
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I mean your comment here is notably dumb and short sighted, no offense intended. I barely even cared about finding ‘the one’ til I started aging out of parenthood parity. Met my now ex at 30, and feel more like I did at 25 afterwards and not caring to engage in dating cuz no rush aka who cares focus on bettering yourself, or older and fulfilled my genetic duty fathering two awesome dudes (phew). Then - let it all work out. Look up that quote! 20s are for fun and finding, not incel red pill cultu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:48 AM
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Way to turn a corner in your post. Gave me a good chuckle. My ex went looking for greener grass. Mine was the greenest in every sense. Her comeuppance has been great and your post reiterates why haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:10 AM
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I did it for a bit cuz I was young and milf hit all the boxes, including squirting first time we F’d - so I could tell she was really into me lol. I eventually left to have my own kids. That milf was still the coolest chick I’ve been with. Wish she’d been younger and want more kids lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:08 AM
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Ignore it - F the judge.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/26 06:03 PM
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who cares - it's your final troll. Mine kept my name, and I make fun of her for it. Earned it.
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/26 04:20 PM
2

Increments of 6 months for me, approaching two years since last being permitted to enter the home I bought her. At a point and seeing the different human she is now it helped to realize and justify it all as fake and a scam and be thankful I have a life of freedom not artificially construed to be tied to a wicked person.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/26 02:13 PM
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yes but not weekly/regularly and it was pulling teeth and often I was extorted for thousands of dollars for random "not before you Zelle me for XXX" requests beforehand lol.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 07:18 PM
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My wife made only blithe remarks about "why don't you just sign papers" or move back to my other house (yeah, I bought her one and kept one). Only discussions were her dragging me to her personal therapist where they both tried to convince me to move on with a fucking Dr. telling us"you can get divorced for any reason you want now". Therapy = her safe place to fully unload her venom on me. We still were intimate (rarely). But she made her move, shrieking and attacking me which I brushed off. The…
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 05:51 PM
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Good take, makes sense.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 02:48 PM
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Women bad, and children are worth it but decision you have to make is whether you accept the welfare system you are entering into - the likelihood that she’s looking for a long term payday. By and large, her plan is to leave you. Tough going in with that mindset and being prepared. The court system is not there for unbiased legality and fairness, nor the children. They get paid by you just as much as the woman.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 02:18 PM
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Same boat but luckily(?) in my 40s. You went through the scam of marriage early, which could be interpreted as good with plenty of time for the future. Friends of mine describe my similar almost-repulsion/no interest in dating women (putting up with their inevitable shit). Friends say give it 5 years (I can't imagine dating at 45 but that's my perspective lol). You are only battling with the conditioning of the status quo. My take: enjoy your freedom from desire to chase a bad investment. Invest…
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 10:02 PM
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Mine was the opposite but initiated the hostile silver bullet try putting me in jail route. She was almost making six figures and figured she was on her way to not needing me. Now she's on welfare of my child support which fully supports her as an unemployed, new-age SAHM POS. She slept in separate bed for half a year also, but w a newborn as an excuse. She doesn't deserve it or you. Cut ties, separate finances, go for it. It's glorious on the other side. Granted I don't have the guilt of having…
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/26 09:28 PM
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The family law system is not legal, it is a biased system meant to create the control and whirlpool sucking away of the family's resources: for the woman, for the courts. You are wrong and live in fairytale land. Police arrested me because my wife called and said 'it was untenable'. No tears, just her attacking me then me pushing her off, and the rest is history: protective order, her custodial 60/40 custody. All criminal charges thrown out, yet she still wins the house, the kids, the finances. …
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 02:56 PM
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Forget it stop paying more than 25%. Fuck that woman judge (presumably) and fake calculations with nonsensical multipliers. Ask me how I know.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 01:58 AM
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BS calculator in Maryland with an underemployed unskilled laborer with a masters degree puts me out over $4000 / month, with no alimony or spousal support. Two kids, one in day care. That's the killer, high end day care for a 'professional mom' working part time less than $20 / hour to claim she's 'working'. 60/40 split (me 40). I do not intend to pay that amount. Come at me family fake courts infiltrated up and down by women...but I digress.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/26 01:31 AM
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Marriage is life’s biggest mistake for most men. Only a small blip of your life hopefully. You dig your way back to yourself as described here.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/26 09:51 PM
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My wife turned into a demon revealing her true nature after kids. It was her that couldn’t handle me being the more available and involved and caring parent (non verbally/physically abusive spanker) than her. The children now suffer, youngest crying out in his sleep for me at night and at all dropoffs in her direction
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 06:07 PM
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Record all times or you will end up in jail. Encourage her to gtfo - don’t voluntarily leave yourself. Generally speaking. A Nest cam works great til she throws it away.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/26 08:32 PM
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They lose out to the go getters. Like everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:14 PM
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When a woman chases me that’s exactly what I was looking for, I marry them. Only happened once though (being chased vs simping all over). 90% of eligible women will not do this probably 99%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:12 PM
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F*{ her it’s a trap. Lawyer up kick her out - let her start experiencing the consequences she desires. Women after multiple kids are not the same… She’s the enemy now.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/26 04:15 AM
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American children are traumatized at a young age with the nonsensical solo sleep in a bed stigma. It's wrong - Asian and Latin families co-sleep with much less stigma and the children and families are documented as stronger and better off. Don't believe the American pysop aginst tightknit families and 'independence from a young age'. My boys are two and five and I'm finding issue with space to sleep on a King and they migrate over and the youngest does ask for a quick snuggle before finding his …
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 06:07 PM
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my trick: don't get married (#1) til late window, pop out kids around 40, then who cares, assume the wife will leave. Single life is far better than married to an antagonist adversary who is supposed to be your partner. The second any woman turns adversarial with me again: she's out. There will be no more future marriage. Marriage was the beginning of my wife turning into an abusive monster. Modern parenting: you look weird to be under 30 and taking kid to kindergarten. This my anecdotal observa…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 05:36 PM
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Forget her, she's flipped. Cut your losses, lawyer up, be thankful she left the house and no kids etc. Don't see anything about kids at least. That action/behavior is unacceptable and not the woman you married. She's the enemy now.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/26 08:49 PM
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The workforce.
/r/MensRights16/01/26 04:01 AM
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Women after pregnancy man. smh Same shiiiit
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/26 02:09 PM
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Couples therapy is self reinforcement of the bomb headed your way and will be weaponized. Save the time and effort and pull the ripcord for best resuls.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 06:14 AM
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Sounds like you're not gay
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 08:59 PM
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Oh great I’m an expert in all this by now
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 07:48 AM
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Wife got me out w a false DV accusation. By now we’ve got divorce settlement agreement that gives her the house but time constraint to refinance me off or buy out within 30 days (been 6+ months and no action). She lost her job (DEI, AI) and has aging retired parents(can’t refinance easily). I own another house AND am renting nearby for the kids. I’m mentally checked out of the place and have not stepped foot back inside, and am treated like I’ll expect to be in jail if I ‘so aggressively violate…
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 02:42 PM
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Yes agreed. But it’s soooo much better. Get a remote job, set off. Travel where you like. Your kids still have you in their thoughts. See them as much as possible to counter any detachment. Prove yourself having a better life without her. The rest will work itself out. Kids don’t judge time missed like we do - silver lining. Hard learned. I’m now generally an advocate for divorce or never-marry lol.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/25 09:03 PM
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Every single match I get up I ultimately nahhh out before scheduling a date, in far too many cases. Seeing pictures of people at their supposed best and I’m still not finding it worthwhile. I’ve got newly free and clear vibes though so have been keeping things at chatty phase and if someone pursues me like my wife did maybe I’ll take notice lol. Aka don’t put any stock in online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:04 AM
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Throw it out if you see it after warning. I found a dog tracker GPS after ex having suspicious knowledge of our whereabouts (at the beach in the sun: “don’t forget sunscreen today!”). I looked up surveillance laws and confidently threw out. Ok really turned off and put in an evidence bag and put away for any future litigation. It was never mentioned by her again. Sounds like you might get sued again for no reason. Kids flying every weekend? I would destroy the phone every time a new one showed u…
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 02:47 PM
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I quite quit my job because I had gotten rich from investments and wanted to enjoy newborn. Color me confused, she went psycho totally changed then divorced me. From her changes after parenthood, good riddance wtf women are evil.
/r/MensRights14/11/25 09:04 PM
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It’s always the wife ignore the troll. Also F that system, no one needs $7k to survive. Fight the system, move away, eject from the state/country to name your point. If you’ve put in the time as good father, let the kids choose and follow you, not the broken judicial system. Generalizing of course. Also you might have to put up w consequences, fines, even jail. Use that to point out the broken system and try to get away. Still generalizing.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/25 01:45 PM
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I discovered one so threw it in a dumpster. Never mentioned either side.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 10:56 PM
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At peace
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/25 07:26 AM
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So my friend trawled churches and got an orthodox second wife who wants 5 kids w him still. So that’s possible
/r/MensRights27/10/25 10:05 PM
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Just all your typos at the start. Less when I read more at least, is funny though. Maybe you should practice listening…to feedback from your h? I mean did you read what you typed? 😇
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 07:53 PM
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Do you text him like you write here? 🤔
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 06:30 PM
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Earn more money, exhibit/embrace the better life you will live. Best way is make way. Your thinking patterns should migrate away from her towards the much better life you are setting up with the new freeing circumstance. The fact that you are entrenched in your thinking shows you guys fused your lives too much - she’s broken free - you have to catch up and surpass! Odds are in your favor. To anyone ever in the position to get married perusing here. Do this instead haha.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 06:51 AM
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I one or two and done w most prior FWB. Keep them at dick’s length a buddy would say. Should have done same to my xw.
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 06:43 AM
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Nah you didn’t
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/25 06:40 AM
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I wasn't considering kids, that complicates yeah. I have a condo I own and apartment rented to be closer to kids for better custody split, and is not financially reasonable lol. Best is to get her out of your headspace ASAP, think only of kids and time with them, and let that direct your decisions and focus. The crying can be a manipulative tactic even, taken cynically. GL
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 03:13 PM
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without finances it'll end cheaply at least. Who cares about an oversized house you shouldn't have been in. Downsize, get used to it. You can divorce and keep living the exact same life, or... Doesn't sound like you're in the mindset for a breakup, neither is she? Down with the ship! My weird friend looked everything up, filled out all the paperwork, and went before a judge with an amicable one page divorce settlement agreement. And they were done, $100 court filing cost. For the both of you, it…
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/25 03:06 PM
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No fault divorce nullifies your argument and cheating doesn’t matter in any way relating to marriage and divorce. That’s both why it’s commonplace, and why those systems are a sham or dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/25 07:13 PM
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Totally agree. My point here is the father in fact being the father figure, not him or anyone else ‘playing dad’.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 09:53 PM
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Def both. First access order sets precedent. Single room apt single bed plus alternative options for another technical bed (couch, travel/floor mattress) totally will count. Courts nowadays assume split should be 50/50 barring any exceptions that you might have that takes away (drug issue, DV charge, etc). If everything else even, yes fight both for 50/50 now and that or more in long run. If she lawyered up, you have to as well. Lawyering up will help your cause regardless though. GL Oh yeah: pl…
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 09:51 PM
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You just have to. Otherwise you might go crazy and do something stupid. Don’t do things that risk access time, only things that will one day increase it. It gets better, and is better for you in reality. Best of both worlds really. Make kids your 100% when you have them. Source: from exact journey. I read more: get overnights no matter what. Number of rooms? Does not matter. Father figure matters.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/25 08:43 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:29 PM
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Are you my ex wife? She was also self proclaimed Ms Always Right
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/25 08:06 PM
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Female lawyer did me many solids, conserved funds, comped calls, bulldog attacked OP when opportune. Solid investment.
/r/Divorce_Men21/08/25 04:48 PM
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This is right now except the exact opposite and completely trad meme nonsense. Coming from an overly committed and involved father whose wife silver bullet attacked me for everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 09:21 PM
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Right back atcha. Older wiser and not impressed with anything I come across. Healing from scorned wife though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:02 AM
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I wonder if AI girlfriends just speak in memes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/25 03:00 AM
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This is some cynicism that is way off wrong kill any potential doobs having a shot. I have made a number of great pathways in life from being on top of world, running into someone that could tell, and flowed into a smooth easy connect and then ltr, at least in a single by repeatable enough case if engineered.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/25 04:32 AM
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Self confirming therapists are the worst. My wife’s encouraged her: “you can get divorced for any reason you choose”. Yeah, you can also. It waste everyone’s time, money, exchange vows, and sign a shitty contract with the state.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/25 04:44 PM
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Just as lamely as when you’re 20s or 30s. Much wider range to shoot for is actually net positive, just with all the modern lame OLD tools at your disposal. Maybe the boat house or lambo will help.
/r/Divorce_Men14/08/25 10:53 PM
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I’ve unintentionally turned into a player after devoted 10 year relationship and awesome kids torn apart by a perimenopausal 40 yo wife. The women can’t get enough and don’t know what they’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/25 11:27 PM
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Two kids and $$ in her eyes
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/25 09:30 PM
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They just need to keep turning that corner by the cafe to stumble into their perfect fit admirer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:36 PM
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They just need to turning that corner by the cafe to stumble into their perfect fit admirer
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 10:36 PM
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Successful men have been through it, and have learned they're better off with the short term situationships than the distorted mess that is modern women.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/25 03:22 AM
6

I absolutely notice a ghost town of men when I go out (usually with girls lol, am dude), far different than the inverse only 5-10 years ago. There is like a 3:1 girl guy ratio lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 04:04 AM
1

Yeah that was the case - a decade of wonderful romance and growth. And I showed her the world, literally. I still am bonded to her and enjoy our interactions mostly, maybe weirdly considering what she put me through, breaking family, etc. She tries to hide it but is a lost confused fish out of water now. Some schadenfreude, but interacting w her minimally and cordially is honestly enough fill for me given the trade offs and her occasional still rageful outbursts. Def a good riddance but you bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 10:26 AM
2

Immediate creep skill level
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:58 AM
1

Shit dude you nailed me to T. Everything was perfect til her rage and hatred inexplicably started, kid age 1 and 3 by that time. She’s happy and 40 and suddenly broke/unemployed now and I’m free from her terror, getting plenty of options from all aspects of life now (and hello Facebook dating haha). But: my kids are awesome, reading to me by age 4 and excelling with the perfect combo of genes I aligned. Absolutely worth. People that look and act old at 40 didn’t take care of themselves. More par…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 09:44 AM
1

Guys DecipherText is $30 one time or something and dan download full copies of texts with all metadata. There is no magic power you require OFW just to think a judge will see it. My lawyer uses to pull texts from phones any conversation any time window at any time. I do it to save on legal fees of them doing it. These are submitted as official evidence. Output is court admissible pdf. Screenshots of texts often are not. OFW seems like a ripoff.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/25 04:27 AM
1

It will write properly toned messages informative messages and you can instruct it via shorthand. I send a hilarious amount of ChatGPT emails to my wife cuz I’m not writing that gook. Usually with as little as 5 words from me as input.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/25 04:24 AM
4

Dude your phone has a block feature. Use it, require email or OFW but you’ll likely get the same.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/25 04:18 AM
10

My two year old says ‘no mama’ more and more emphatically at dropoffs now. Older kid has screamed he didn’t want to stay with her from the start. I say nothing. But I internally keep track. This is just the start. I would never invite my ex anywhere. Take silent pleasure in what she’s missing, if anything.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/25 03:59 AM
5

Considering an ironic OnlyFans hustle
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 04:24 AM
5

I raid the 401k portions she'll be able to touch
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/25 04:21 AM
6

Uhh no? My 4 year old asks and I say mommy doesn’t want daddy to live with her anymore. No discussion of marriage. They cry wail saying they don’t want to stay wi th her at dropoffs, cheer wit excitement at pickups with me. I’ll take it.
/r/Divorce_Men05/06/25 01:55 AM
7

Dude I’ve got similar backing mind thoughts with two young toddlers, yet I am already happier coming out the end of a love story turned toxic terror with a wicked snake. You don’t even have 17 years of child support to look forward to! And your freedom? What a deal! Stay strong, rebuild friendships, get some new hobbies and find out who you are for the next stretch! Many would love the option but stick w Mrs. Wicked out of fear.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/25 11:27 AM
5

She’s jealous and trying to break it. Mine did it out of nowhere.
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/25 02:59 AM
1

Nope, I was the stay at home worker dad since pandemic (prior distributed but traveling a lot via plane), making 3x-4x her, yet her bigtime career still commuting 3x a week (now 5x) was more important. She actively bullied and attacked me and even made me quit a FAANG career even. Oh hindsight (she was trying to cripple me before launching her attach).
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:31 AM
3

My wife went from hearts and xoxo, never being materialistic, to pumping out two kids and then going to war with me to leech an income for herself for 20 years as soon as the youngest turned one. She masked a despicable character that I willed myself to not believe was there. Until it was too late. My wife gained real capital, social standing, financial and real security with me. She offered me none of that. Good riddance.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/25 05:10 AM
2

Because the multiple income streams
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/25 11:19 PM
3

You guys walking back such serious actions are walking into a trap and at risk of arrest or worse. That’s how I know I’ll never be going near my x again.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/25 11:21 PM
1

Thanks. I dig your username btw. Just noticed lol.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 12:47 AM
1

Md. Lucky her lawyer is aggressively incompetent on many levels. My team is top notch.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/25 12:30 AM
16

Dude the moment divorce started, pleasantries like happy birthday, happy Mother's day are out the window, over. How can it be any other way?
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 07:21 PM
3

Pendente Lite - It's a mini divorce trial, conveniently looking only at finances, and specifically 'not merit'. Supposedly to act 'quickly' in the interest of children. I did receive weekend overnights as opposed to two hour insane access restrictions (at the mother's whim prior) - judge tossed a book at her at least. Merit based custody trial in June/July to get more access towards joint (judge claimed jumping to joint would be 'too disruptive to children's routine at PL, but found her access r…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 07:06 PM
0

No, don’t do that. Keep your life, it’s a legal method to ruin yours. Don’t pay, raise exception, appeal.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 05:30 AM
8

My wife makes six figures but still scored 60k plus 30 arrears in only CS to pay for private early school while she commuted away from her children to do low skill writing work. Just from PL. I’m paying 25k over e months before custody hearing then I’m out. I will not tolerate a broke system made to incentivize a wife destroying a family and marriage for a little scratch. Will I actually be held in contempt getting behind on impossible (job change impact) 5-6k / month? Put me in jail, I’ll enjoy…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/25 05:29 AM
7

Sounds like the cause of their ED haha. I can't stomach a 50 yo at 40, either. Never had to.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 04:05 AM
9

Me snagging a 36 yo 'cougar' in my mid 20s counted. Now thinking back, man 36 she was in her prime taking me for a nice 5 year ride. Would do again. Way better than my eventual wife...also by then, 36 haha.
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/25 04:04 AM
0

Coming here as attractive enough successful nerd awkward social surfer dude. What I projected I got. Boys never learning how to interact with humans of the opposite sex does not justify blanket generalizations described here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 01:42 AM
1

So I am in the middle and have some new expenses to explain - parawing foiling! A water wind sport. My explanation - way cheaper happiness than the wealth destroying plot she embarked on. So the point is - dive into a legit new experience/hobby. Not just working out. Enough just working out, esp that’s already your job lol.
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/25 08:15 AM
-5

Everything still works fine and is cleaner. Skin got a little tight as a teen lol
/r/MensRights15/04/25 03:09 AM
5

This
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/25 05:28 AM
4

Except not. I made the most, worked from home and spent more time care taking. Drove wife into jealous rage of insanity and she hatched plan to try to get me arrested, kids taken away. Too bad for her justice prevails. But is slow, and kids are impacted. The first prob was her thinking her career more important/serious than mine. Despite me making 2-4x consistently. Now we are split and both working to pay her salary equivalent in child care for others to raise our children. It is a shameful fai…
/r/MensRights10/04/25 02:53 PM
11

I was surprised how quickly I got to this state. I don’t give x the acknowledgment of even eye contact, and when doing kid exchange I don’t address her as anything more than a driver for my kids. It is freeing/liberating to not feel the hooks and tentacles of entanglement.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/25 03:34 PM
6

Oof - We haven’t even gotten that far yet lol. Prenups should be required by law sheesh. More than rigged, seems now that is the system… My wife confused me saying a lot (aside from go jump off a bridge and no one will hire you): marriage is a business. After watching divorce corp: she was wrong but right - divorce is the business.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 07:14 AM
6

After getting handed an order for child support that’s better pay than her 6 figure job, despite her abuse lies and legal warfare, it has become abundantly clear the pattern of her behavior: Her trash ‘friends’ convinced her I was better off as just a paycheck for 17 years. So shameful.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 07:00 AM
1

These women described are trash deserving of their deadbeat pickup fates rather than the honorable upstanding providers that are their simp husbands. My wife is one prime example. Married for a paycheck it turns out.
/r/Divorce_Men03/04/25 01:57 AM
-3

Just don't pay - move out of state, get a new ID, don't pay that state any more taxes if they're willing to strip you for her warfare tactic. I'm considering this approach.
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 02:21 PM
3

Kids are amazing and worth. Wife is not. Plan accordingly.
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 11:59 AM
38

Hysterically manipulative hits.
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:14 PM
4

It’s a war zone in there, gotta survive
/r/MensRights23/03/25 07:12 PM
1

Welp I got more reasonable access (1/2 weekends and single weekday every week), no legal fees or additional support, but big chunk of as expensive as possible child support. I think it can only go down over time but I feel like I hear child support only goes up lol. Once out of day care it can’t stay that high.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 06:09 PM
8

Will be very tough with her great aunt or such able to fully finance all her legal needs. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 03:35 AM
21

Hey dummy. Don’t be stupid.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 02:35 AM
2

She was the latter. And a liar to every judge she was in front of(called out by first), and what she had her lawyer write/petition/attempt to compel and claims. My spirits are up for some closure and example of justice in the right direction - we’ll see soon.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/25 12:51 AM
2

I'm in the midst of finding out how much access I'll get shortly, at least from PL hearing. 50/50 or book thrown at stbx, reverse custody arrangement to back to me being full custody care giver (WFH me vs office commuting X). Everything transpired has set me up to have justice served make me come out on top. But could be the exact opposite per what say, so who knows. Will report soon!
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 04:02 PM
3

He already won at life with a little human. I scored two before blowing the hatch.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 05:53 AM
4

I got on apps to see how easy I could get back in. Then I said nahh and stop chatting mostly. Not ready. See people out and about and feel a growing freedom to connect the dots the old fashioned way. No need to rush. And most people your age not dumb enough to be married yet err made diff choices :). So you’re absolutely in no rush.
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/25 05:52 AM
-7

Jesus didn't exist who cares, total lamestream this century.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 10:44 PM
9

They are part of your story, don’t let her take them from you. She’s just random #1. Try blocking instead.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/25 07:29 PM
1

No one marries as young as you these days. Lesson learned. Your career has you in CA? Or a carrier you’re assigned to temporarily? Sounds like you gave away half your stuff with no lawyers and no guarantees for access. They’ll only be young once. Don’t miss out on that if possible.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/25 05:55 AM
2

I’m 7mo out of starting process. The peace is addicting. I thought I’d never experience it again after the ball chain and whip after that one big party.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/25 08:50 PM
2

Every day used to be the refrain
/r/MensRights08/03/25 03:09 AM
2

There’s also the healthy time apart piece. My stbxw claimed abandonment any time I went for an afternoon to the beach w friends to surf. Wrote it literally in a bogus police report that I left for 3 hours on a Sunday morning LOL.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 03:11 PM
2

Many states are equitable contribution so if you paid mortgage you’ll get more etc. retirement 50/50 since married.
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/25 03:07 PM
4

So my wife accused of abandonment after a 3 hour Sunday morning trip to the beach. Turns out she’s a controlling narcissist.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 02:09 PM
1

So similar arrest after fake push police call. Consented to a temp and year long PO to not interfere w criminal case. Then lawyer called state attorney a week or two before trial (that’s as soon as they pick up criminal case). Per no evidence and first ever criminal record, whole thing was dismissed. Still have a year of PO to get through. I had another place to go to. Do not go back, or get away- it will happen again. Will not go as potentially well if cops get called again, no matter if it is …
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/25 01:56 AM
4

‘Hide this face’ in photos and feeds
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/25 12:25 AM
6

Let her file so you can save a little $$, and have something to show your kids someday when you ‘explain things’ There’s no legal difference technically.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 10:36 PM
2

Especially if you never signed any of the paperwork for the private school, you should not be held liable for it. Assuming public school is accessible to you. Private school is very much considered a 'luxury'. Source: my lawyer Also read more: consider moving close to kids/school to take away that concern. The proximity will be figured into the access decision. Another point: if she has a lawyer and you don't, it is not collaborative, and she will be driving. Lawyer up in kind.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 08:52 PM
1

Mine did it in anticipation of turning 40. Quite the deadline.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/25 01:14 PM
-8

I’ll side with modern science on this one, not random foreskin bot army propaganda. But of course the Roman’s were right.
/r/MensRights27/02/25 03:50 AM
1

You got lied to by her lawyer. 50/50 is still the way.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 07:29 AM
1

So I rolled up in the Cybertruck…
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 03:05 AM
3

This for me, but stone cold sober W. Not even caffeine. That much more baffling. Mostly mimicked takes of my severely alcoholic grandmother. Only happened after second kid. Halfway there with first. Strange world, these women think they have control of… Sheltered only child that got sent to boarding school as toddler is all I can imagine happened..
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/25 03:03 AM
2

State attorney threw out my case against wife’s wishes, on grounds of no evidence. My lawyer (heavy hitter) made one phone call the week before trial and that probably impacted. Context: false accusation of physical assault. Police called, then they left. She drove middle of night and filed her own police report. Then police reluctantly came back and arrested me for the night. All thrown out, no record. You better have a real and good criminal lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 04:31 AM
2

My heavy hitter generally neglects emails but reads them. Saves me money on always responding. If pressing issue, they are a phone call away. Use your phone. I know, it seems outdated.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 04:25 AM
9

My stbxw claimed I financially abused her then requested 7k/month thinking she deserved it. She also said marriage was a business. I can only imagine what fb groups she was in. She has few friends that mostly drop her w the weather and give her horrible advice. In hindsight. But they’ve been ‘besties since middle school’ so they are oddly higher up the priority list.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/25 03:15 AM
7

My wife made me pay her for sex. Literally. (Zelle for her expenses before acquiescing)
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/25 08:51 PM
11

It’s already happening. Good thing. Time for a reset.
/r/MensRights21/02/25 10:45 PM
7

Death sentence now, freedom ticket later.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 05:18 PM
2

I saw some alternatives, but specifically re:mortgage if you sign an agreement that she will get the home, she will have to be on the title, i.e. you will be forced to refinance to get her name on it/yours off. Which blows your good interest rate (we have same one), and is not worth you staying on it/being accountable for. Neither will she be able to afford, so you should expect to sell and move on regardless. That's the impression I've received from lawyer at least. Supposedly 'you can do anyth…
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 05:04 PM
2

Consensus here generally is supporting her in marital home/you staying on mortgage will end up backfiring, not be equitably accounted for, and generally is a red flag to avoid. Why does she get to stay in the marital home? Is the primary point. Sell, get proceeds, move on. She'll be in a new living situation/condition regardless. I'm in same boat - wife got falsely accused RO against me, kicked out of house I paid 100% for, and is now trying to stay in there. Luckily I also had prior property we…
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 04:48 PM
4

My wife has had to crawl back to her daddy to support her abusive bad behavior. She of course hates him too. Not another free cent from me B.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/25 02:32 AM
5

There's so many others in the sea...
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/25 04:05 AM
1

this is the answer. Luckily - you'll still have your kids. Wive's are replaceable and expendable. Change my mind.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/25 04:37 PM
5

From my experience: IT'S A TRAP Was just a sounding board for her to air her grievances and build her story. Check the divorce prep checklist.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/25 07:11 PM
7

Exact match - how to prevent it is the question. In hindsight. I think she was a ticking bomb that I couldn’t help defuse.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/25 02:59 AM
0

Dude edit your post. Aggresseif? Aggressive, aggrieved, aggression? No idea, and none make sense. Edit: ok I’ll land on aggressive.
/r/MensRights14/02/25 12:40 PM
1

They’re the crook kind. Billing her for almost a year prior helping coach/prep her for ‘max wins’ via lies. Except nope. She was a wreck on stand, lying, crying, having no workable memory. I destroyed her attorney and their non arguments, who called me to stand first. Set the stage. And I saved $$$ with much better lawyer (funny story how I got their reference. Hint: ‘jail buddy’ lol) but still spent $$ to pull it off. They were sloppy and unprepared, and we were the opposite. To give context fo…
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 04:17 PM
1

Bro you’re just getting started on attorneys fees. I had PL hearing yesterday - wife bragged of 80k spent and COMPLAINED that my fees were <1/3. Get ready to put some numbers up regardless lol.
/r/Divorce_Men11/02/25 02:38 PM
1

You are correct. Signed: long hair don’t care.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 12:06 PM
7

Congrats, find and be with yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/25 08:12 PM
7

Stopped weed, alcohol lost most interest, work out more. Got tested at wife’s behest for ADHD before all this: negative - and all part of her sick plot. Turns out guess who was driving me to weed, drinking, and escaping w video games? Granted I wanted to be by my kids’ sides 24/7, led to lots of in the house vs out and active time. Probably a bit too much weed in hindsight. Really I just claimed back a fit active lifestyle that brings those natural highs that drugs just can’t. My own supply lol.
/r/Divorce_Men07/02/25 05:54 AM
14

Not the asshole - the fool.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 03:25 AM
1

It was false accusation with no evidence. State attorney looked at case and decided to drop it in spite of wife’s attempts. It took a call with my criminal attorney as well I guess (same firm as the family law side managing the divorce now).
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/25 01:27 PM
2

Man that doesn't feel lonely after getting away from abusive horrible wife. I try to feel lonely, isolate, etc. I only feel more free haha. I do have as many friends as I want generally, luckily. “Whosoever is delighted in solitude, is either a wild beast or a god.” - Aristotle
/r/MensRights03/02/25 01:48 AM
2

Felt great being no contact for my wife’s 40th. She accelerated her treachery to meet that deadline.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/25 01:35 PM
7

An inspiration fr thank you OP. I’ve been uninterested in dating even, but this is evident and eye opening. One chick had her chance at all my riches in life. They’re for my kids and me to enjoy now lol.
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/25 12:24 AM
1

You wouldn’t believe the level where the claim was first got thrown: me not wanting to order mighty meals so much/often and wanting to get back to cooking more (after second kid). She claimed, and I quote: “that is financial abuse”. I was flabbergasted. My lawyer also guffawed laughing.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 09:09 PM
2

The tides are turning my friend. Lying tortuous systemic abuse by women is more readily evident than the farcical claims of rape and abuse. Good on you, taking your vibe into my far less egregious but just as impactful case of wife that started w false allegations and bogus protective order to attempt to break the bonds with my kids and even try and put me in jail.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 12:27 PM
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Screw her, money is only worth fighting for your kids 100% til it’s done. Same exact boat, first criminal charge of my life included. Got a legit lawyer to called the state attorney week before trial. Poof dismissed. False allegations after allegation later, pendente lite hearing coming up. I’m sure I’ll be reporting back here on the outcome. She claimed verbal, physical, FINANCIAL abuse. When I make 4x her and paid for everything. It’s like she has a disease of delusion. Stay strong.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 03:32 AM
1

TIL cool
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 01:10 AM
2

tf is ROFR I can’t even.
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/25 01:09 AM
3

Crazy to been sucked in to begin with imo
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 06:44 PM
7

My wife just rung the police and made up a story to kick it off. Ez pz
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/25 04:05 AM
3

It's like we're different brands of coffee.
/r/Divorce_Men29/01/25 02:59 PM
11

An even better vacation sounds like.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/25 08:44 PM
4

Bring free is better. We’ve had girls, gotten laid plenty, married etc. it’ll come when we care to want it again. Is my guess.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/25 04:08 AM
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Family law doesn’t care about cheating - no fault divorces. Marriage is a nonsense contract w the state these days, not biology. Your post reeks of traditional lock-in and bias. Get up with the times.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/25 04:07 PM
7

Marriage is a dead institution and a modern judicial/institutional trap by women, full stop. Think of it that way and feel lucky to have gotten out earlier than later. Reset, reevaluate, and look forward to the rest of your life. I was blindsided but in a toxic build up of a marriage and where you are at the same point. You’ll heal good luck. And as mentioned below. Cut off your ties/access/views of her. Make your own, block her from seeing them, start anew.
/r/Divorce_Men23/01/25 08:49 PM
4

I buy the same tool whenever I need it fresh. Problem solved and created. Real answer: you can strive for and inhabit a life without tools/hobbies that don't need them, cars that don't need maintenance, and your complaints harken to my boomer dad being very particular about his tools as well. Advice to my kids: I helped set their temperament early, and will teach them to look out for and avoid women like their mother became, though she's doing a great job as a living example to avoid.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 06:59 PM
4

Same but then noticed she started pulling away or hiding it as I walked by…and here we are. I never questioned even then, per hopes she had some dignity.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 02:27 PM
2

By the third session I joined, her therapist was agreeing with me. Fourth session was her last…
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 02:36 AM
8

Separated and on path of divorce. The time to myself has been the best thing ever. I wonder if I should feel bad and like I should be a simp and chase the next tail. Not seeing the benefit so far.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 12:47 AM
4

Therapists and sessions w my wife were used as ammo and only to validate her ends. Old lady therapist said “you can get divorced for anything or reason now”. Like what’s even the point then. Therapy is a trap. ‘Couple’s therapy that is, when initiated by a grieving wife. Prove me wrong anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 12:14 AM
4

Go watch ‘divorce corp’ and it’ll make sense.
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/24 02:37 AM
4

My lawyer wouldn’t get started before $7500 retainer. 4 refills later, burn rate is about half that per month. Also criminal charges - thrown out, PO consented to pre criminal trial, followed by divorce complaint. Etc tally ho
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/24 02:36 AM
1

For me after 3 months restless nonsleep nights resided. I had to stream video to first get my mind off things; then I got a kindle and tried bedtime reading, now I am working out more to bring on exhaustion sooner. It gets better, human adaptability even to this shock.
/r/Divorce_Men18/12/24 02:19 PM
4

This is out of date for MD as of October 2023 - no more fault divorces, and no more waiting period if disputed and extenuating circumstances, e.g. DV/'irreconcilable differences aka anything'.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/24 08:47 PM
1

No shoes no basketball. Forward any notice as such to her and your lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/24 02:55 AM
3

Dude
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/24 05:29 PM
4

So crazy, same story, bill paying, meal providing/prep/cleanup, strain, recovery, sabatoge as me aside from the going out too much at night, more so weekend daytime 'I'm going out with a friend' stories, pay for babysitter, nanny, or stay with kids, which I especially enjoyed without her being there lol. My response: consented to a bogus PO with verbal from lawyer: 'we will file expedited divorce process'. Then my lawyer asked if I wanted to just sit on it. Yes - let her file, which is what happ…
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 03:48 PM
2

GL - how to handle the uncertainty of things that should never be out of our control. Come here lol. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 03:40 PM
1

Actual reason not to marry A WOMAN ABOVE YOUR STATUS. Shameful I'm willingly writing that. This day and age man. Scorch earth with truth and all you can. Watch Divorce Corp documentary though, know where your life earnings are about to go. Alternative approach: poor richard, pay for nothing, let time and truth work itself out. I could never do that, and you'll lose all those years.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/24 05:21 AM
2

My abusive wife followed the plot of divorce corp and got me arrested and full custody of kids, and now can’t afford the life I provided so will get child support. That’s what’s wrong with it. The wives that plot this perversion of family law because they’ve gotten too much power.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 07:16 AM
2

Yeah peace that
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/24 05:50 AM
3

Yeah no long term alimony if any in modern equality minded cases. Especially before 5 year mark.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/24 07:56 PM
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3 months since my wife falsely accused me and spent my first night in jail. Charges all thrown out, divorce petition from her served, but she has temporary full physical custody of my pride and two purposes: two tot age kiddos. She stopped responding to requests for visitations. It hurts, the children are hurt. She was jealous of my better more stable parenting style and relationship with kids, so she’s breaking it. Yet still, my life is already far better without her. Her time for comeuppance i…
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 02:15 AM
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My wife did this plotting. Even agreeing to a rehab and mental testing, therapy for her to vent, that all came back ‘you’re a normal dude’, all was part of plotting a case. Even tried to get me a criminal record that backfired and will weaken her custody/divorce case. In hindsight it’s clear and sick, I had ‘crazy and manipulative’ and isolating of family and friends, but put up with it in interest of kids. Count yourself lucky, the gym is the way back. I got hitched and popped out two great kid…
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/24 04:30 PM
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Reading n writing this from the squat rack at my climbing gym.
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 12:50 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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