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| 5 | Guys of r/seduction, what is your rejection ratio? | Logistics | EvanMcCormick | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or are girls with nail extensions DTF? | Field Report | EvanMcCormick | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 07:47 PM |
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| 0 | Someone recently asked on reddit “women how do you know when you’re attracted to a guy”My biggest problem with this take is that you're assuming "Man women want to fuck" == "Man with big muscle". While looks are pretty much where the buck stops with men, women are legitimately sexually aroused by all sorts of other things. Much of what makes a woman want to be fucked by a guy is in personality: How he dresses, the way he carries himself, the way he interacts with the world. "muscular" does not equal "fuckable" for a lot of women. | /r/seduction | 07/07/25 12:38 AM |
| 1 | A review of top AI dating assistants [Wingman Live, Rizz, PlugAI]Coming from a chess background, this take rings hollow to me. The presence of an effective AI doesn't mean that people can't train themselves to become better. In fact, it provides them with a better training tool than ever before. It just also allows some lazy people to "cheat" by simply doing what the model tells them to do. IMO, the most useful feature of such an app would be it's ability to criticize your responses, so you can instantly recognize your mistakes and try again. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 07:09 PM |
| 2 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsChill out bud | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsI disagree, I think that most of the advice on this subreddit is in the form of either "be confident in yourself" or "be comfortable getting rejected", which are both good pieces of advice and run counter to the idea that saying the right thing will entitle a guy to a date/sex. | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 03:46 PM |
| 2 | I just cold approached at a bar and the rejection stung more than the appsDude it's just how it be approaching in person, rejections hit harder because they're happening IRL. If you wait a week and re-read what you wrote here, you'll realize that you didn't have a bad interaction at all. The girl was perfectly friendly and just didn't agree to go on a date with you, which is fine. You just gotta learn to move on from these rejections, and realize they're just rejecting a date with you right now, they're not rejecting you as a person. Taking rejections sucks, and in a … | /r/seduction | 19/06/25 03:44 PM |
| -2 | The hidden female communication explained.Nah, putting myself in the other person's shoes, if a stranger walked up to me and asked me how my day was going, and I responded with "why do you care?" in a neutral tone, I'm absolutely looking for an answer, and further conversation. Essentially I bet that he's selling something and I'm curious as to what he's selling. If I didn't want to be bothered, I would say "fine."and hope the conversation ends right there. If I was in a terrible mood maybe I would be like "why do you care?" in an aggre… | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Great success on Hinge, no success on Tinder & Bumble whatsoeverDepeds on where you live. I always thought that Tinder was just better than Hinge, then I moved somewhere new and all of a sudden my matches completely switched. | /r/seduction | 11/06/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I don’t need a pickup line. I need a man who knows when not to speak.Nice ad | /r/seduction | 04/06/25 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Approaching groups,while the goal is only one of them(not engaging with entire group) is the hardest thing everI think that any time I go out with two or more people, it's understood and accepted that conversation will splinter off into smaller groups, and group members may break off to interact with strangers. If I go out with one person, it's because I want to hang out specifically with that person. So unless we're wing-manning each other, you're not breaking up me and my partner. It's just not happening. | /r/seduction | 28/05/25 09:44 PM |
| 17 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?wtf lmao this is just blatant sexism | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:20 PM |
| 36 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?What does that story mean XD? "She really wanted to see this waterfront property he was talking about, but instead they fucked each other." | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:19 PM |
| 9 | How to stop being easy to sleep with?1.) Make it clear you want a relationship from the get-go. If you do that, many men who would otherwise go for a fling will just go for someone else. 2.) Ask for logistics early on. I.e. what do you want in a relationship?, what's your life like right now?, are you planning major life changes? This will filter out people who say that they might commit, but really aren't interested in a long-term relationship. 3.) Consider the trajectory of friend -> lover. Generally I don't think it's a good ide… | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 08:17 PM |
| 3 | How to handle a girl that seems to play this game.Now you can move on lol | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 01:21 AM |
| 2 | What kinds of things do you say to her when dancing so that you can escalate and try go in for a kiss?I've kissed a girl when dancing once before and it was all physical escalation. Just get your face close to hers (we're talking a couple of inches, like slow-dance close), make brief eye contact, then look at her mouth, then back, etc. and if it feels good you go for it. I also follow the 90% rule when going for a kiss, which is to say you go 90% of the way in, and stop there. If she wants the kiss she'll go the 10% to meet you. If she doesn't she'll slip you like Mike Tyson. I hate to burst the… | /r/seduction | 04/04/25 03:37 AM |
| 1 | I analyzed 120,000+ of your responses to girls’ shit tests, here's one thing you need to know to winYeah I agree. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 08:34 PM |
| 5 | I analyzed 120,000+ of your responses to girls’ shit tests, here's one thing you need to know to winThank God someone else has some sense. I used to be fairly active in the self improvement community. Compared to the other forums I've been a part of, this one has so many guys who seem to have zero concrete experience dating. It's like a college physics department in the USSR after all the teachers and bright students got purged, and all the students left are rifling through random physics textbooks and applying concepts at random, pretending they know what they're talking about. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 08:32 PM |
| 5 | I analyzed 120,000+ of your responses to girls’ shit tests, here's one thing you need to know to winYou don't have to. This guy is misapplying the concept of "standing out"in dating. If a woman is shit testing you, it generally means she is at least somewhat attracted to you, and you already stand out to her. In fact, most shit tests happen in the dating/relationship please. You don't need to be "quirky and unique" in response to a shit test, you just have to be detached, confident, and positive. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | I analyzed 120,000+ of your responses to girls’ shit tests, here's one thing you need to know to winIt's important to say that the game as designed incentives players to give the same generic response quickly. Last time I played, your scoring system considered 2 things: the response itself and the time it took to type it out. The response score itself was generated by your back-end LLM and will give the same high score to the same "good" response. So in you example: "Do you say that to all the girls?" The response "Only the ones that catch my eye", or some variation of it, will always receive … | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 08:20 PM |
| 2 | How should I kiss a guy who is shorter than me without making him uncomfortable?IDK, don't feel uncomfortable about kissing him, height difference is such an arbitrary and silly thing. No one else will be in the room with y'all when you're kissing, so what are you afraid will happen? | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 05:19 AM |
| 8 | I Confessed to a Woman on a Date That I Practice Approaching - Her Reaction Was PricelessThey don't want to fuck a whiny person, an emotional telephone pole, or a fat slob. Neither do I. OP is saying that a successful approach is fun for the man and the woman. They do want that fun experience with a quality guy. | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 03:15 AM |
| 2 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?I've never pulled a girl from a bar and slept with her, although I have studied pick up a fair bit and learned a lot about dating/pick up strategy. The closest I've gotten was dancing and making out with a girl at a bar once. Truthfully though, I don't think it's a skill issue. If you look at how many girls I've APPROACHED at a bar, I'm probably at less than 10 lifetime. I just find approaching women at bars to be massively anxiety producing and I don't have enough motivation to go and do it IRL… | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Do i have the right to be mad? Gf still following her ex.Some people can't handle talking to people they've had sex with in the past, I get that. But to hold as a standard "No communicating whatsoever with anyone you've been in a relationship with previously" is pretty fucking silly. Adults should be able to handle themselves just fine around their exes. If the person I'm dating can't do that, that's a massive red flag. To be fair, I agree that it's hypocritical for your GF to be holding you to a standard that she doesn't follow herself. If I were you… | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | I know this has been asked countless times but I still haven’t got a good answerIf you grew up with a similar worldview to me, winning a girl over for a date or more with a single interaction might seem like a fantasy. Everyone in the comments can tell you that a particular opener works, but you still can't imagine that it would work for you IRL. You can't even imagine how such a conversation is supposed to go. To get over this hurdle, you should watch some 'infield' videos. You get to see an experienced guy approach a girl, and watch the whole interaction, from start to fi… | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 12:08 PM |
| 1 | You need to put your Ego aside for a WhileI agree with the concept of getting out there and working on it, but girls aren't video game levels. There isn't a direct correlation between hotness and how likely she is to fuck you. The best version of this advice is 'get out there and talk to girls if you want to get better at dating'. But guys, if you don't want to fuck someone don't go for it just to put in reps. That's a massive waste of time. | /r/seduction | 17/02/25 11:58 AM |
| 82 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DaySeriously. Work smart, not just hard. You could have approached 10 other girls in those two hours, any one of which would probably have made a better date then this girl. | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 08:52 AM |
| 8 | You don’t need to run game. You need to run ‘you’If you don't like the term, fine. But your list is stuff most people would call 'game'. Get shredded, Travel, Make money, Do an MMA class --> Get an interesting lifestyle. This is classic 'game' advice. Be happy without sex, cognitive distortions, Master your mind, Stay busy --> Inner game. Also pretty classic advice. Social engineering, High-status communicator --> This is the most classic form of 'game'. One of the first companies to teach this stuff was called 'Real Social Dynamics'. As for l… | /r/seduction | 13/02/25 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Why KINO is the Difference Between the Friendzone and AttractionFriend-zone gonna getcha. I agree though, touch is necessary but far from sufficient to seduce a girl. That being said, I get that it's something you should get in the habit of doing regularly if you want to date, but don't expect that the moment you touch a girl she's going to have a massive positive reaction and go out with you. It's more like if your conversion rate is 25% without touch, now it's 35%. But in my experience, friends gonna friend-zone, physical touch or not (everyone has had dif… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 07:39 AM |
| 3 | I built a game that help you pass her sh*t testslmao, could be. Either way a score for each comment would be a big help. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 06:28 AM |
| 21 | I built a game that help you pass her sh*t testsI did a few play-throughs, and it's really high-quality. I love the timing feature, because it pretty much forces you to start typing a response immediately if you don't want to time out. Some criticisms I have: Firstly, it always gives a + and - for each response, so it's not clear how good/bad any particular response is (except for the banger and flop at the top). I assume the back-end is giving some sort of score for each individual response, and if so I think it would be beneficial to displa… | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 05:34 AM |
| 59 | I built a game that help you pass her sh*t testsThis is super cool! Does anyone know of any other games in this vein? I feel like with dating and pick up advice, I can only really internalize it into my behavior by practicing it, and while I do often go to bars, social events, etc. to improve my pick up skill, real life dating usually lacks the kind of immediate feed-back that would really help me improve my behaviour quickly. I feel like simple games like this are to dating what a tactics trainer is to chess. | /r/seduction | 11/02/25 05:03 AM |
| 2 | How to neg, push pull without hurting her feelings or making her mad?Women are attracted to things that trigger emotions in them. I wouldn't use that line because racism, but you will have more success saying things that make her mad at you then things that make her bored with you. Girls love to fuck guys they can complain about to their friends later. | /r/seduction | 17/01/25 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Indirect game makes no sense to meI agree with you in principle, but in practice flirting is distinct from a logical business pitch because you're really just trying to create an enjoyable, emotionally charged experience for the other person, and then selling the opportunity for more. I see indirect flirting as kind of a performance. You're just trying to make sure the other person has a good, fun time. Why would you do it? Well, most people aren't just interested in fucking (me included), they want to make a genuine connection … | /r/seduction | 16/01/25 05:18 AM |
| 9 | Is there any proof that vibe is more important than what you say?There are approach videos on YT, where you can watch dating/seduction coaches approaching women at bars/outside. I find watching them to be a massive boost for my self-confidence, as watching someone else do it shows me that it's completely possible. It's also extremely mild exposure therapy. But yeah, if you watch those videos you might notice that the conversations are rarely anything special. Most of the fundamentals are non-verbal. Maintaining good, open body language and solid eye contact w… | /r/seduction | 12/01/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | sex for first time with more experienced girlYeah, sorry man, don't tell her you're a virgin. Just don't. It's a bad idea, ~80% chance she'll be turned off by it. The people who are like 'be yourself!' are re-iterating a common platitude that, unfortunately, specifically doesn't work in this situation. There are a few things like this in the dating world, which are going to turn off a lot of otherwise receptive girls. If you want to turn off those girls and filter for the girls who will be down to fuck regardless, then go for it! But be aw… | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | sex for first time with more experienced girlThey were probably upset because you lied. If you're going to lie about something, you gotta stick with the story. XD XD | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | sex for first time with more experienced girlMORE PASSION. MORE PASSION. MORE ENERGY. MORE ENERGY. MORE FOOTWORK. MORE FOOTWORK. | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Getting hot girls seems so difficult.I don't really understand your point. None of these things makes it hard to talk to women. I assume what actually happens is you feel a spike of anxiety and discomfort when you're about to approach and start a conversation with a girl. Just talk to the hot girl. The worst thing that could happen is she rejects you and thinks you're creepy. As long as all you did was start a conversation with her in a public area, then that's really not too bad of an outcome. Are you dead? Are you dying? Or did y… | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 07:10 PM |
| 11 | Th power of saying no !That doesn't make sense. You're saying that a girl literally invites you over to her place, and you say "no" and feel good because you know that you're demonstrating preselection? I don't think so. I think OP, like many of us, feels inadequate or invalid because he doesn't believe that he can talk to girls. When a girl does finally ask him over to her place or asks to go over to his place, he feels validated because he succeeded in seducing her. But now the jig is up, and he isn't really that in… | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 02:31 AM |
| 3 | Everyone thinks I’m a player but its the total opposite.Being percieved as a 'player' isn't an advantage whatever you're going for. Girls will be less likely to want to be your girlfriend, less likely to have sex with you, and less likely to go on dates if you have a player vibe. The one exception is friends-with-benefits/flings, where the girl might fear that the guy will catch feelings -- that's about the only scenario where I'd say being perceived as a 'player' will help you get with a girl. I'd say you should take a look at the way you dress and … | /r/seduction | 10/01/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | The Mindset That Attracts Women InstantlyI agree. Something I've been trying is to spend 5 minutes working on an important task the moment I realize I should do it. So if I refuse I have to get a haircut soon, let's just spend the next 5 minutes looking for a good haircut place and see when it's open. | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Total conviction that you are attractiveI think both the posters and the readers lack inherent confidence. If I was confident in myself to begin with, I wouldn't bother to write a post about how to be confident. I've always been rather empathetic towards people, and I've never thought about 'why it's important to empathize with someone'. It's just a thing I do without thinking too much about it. I think that both the posters and the readers have learned how to be 'confident' late in their lives precisely because confidence didn't come… | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Girls assume I'm a playerI get it, girls aren't going to enter long-term relationships with you if they think you're a player. I have two thoughts. First, you should take a good hard look at your style: The clothes you wear when you go out to meet girls. What celebrity/famous person would you say you look most similar to? If you saw someone who dressed similarly to you on the street, what would you assume about them? Worst-case scenario: you're wearing a supreme shirt, ray-bans, one or two earrings and a custom pendant … | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend.Can't tell if shit-post...... | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 12:10 AM |
| 1 | how do I stop fucking girls I'm not into?I understand that this could be a bad habit to break, much like binge drinking or chain smoking. It's probably worth figuring out when you decide that you don't like them, and when you decide that you're inevitably going to have sex with them anyways. I think a good solution of this would be to have the mindset of "flirting is filtering" rather than "flirting is attracting". I mean obviously escalating is a part of flirting, but it's one side of the coin. Rather as you're flirting with someone y… | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Should you always ask out / get contact info when cold approaching?I've actually had some decent experience talking to girls for a bit and straight up leaving, then meeting them later, chatting them up and asking for contact info/setting up a date. If it was a good interaction and you really want to see her again, ask for contact info. Otherwise it's fine to end the interaction at that. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | How is cold approaching NOT needy behavior?That's definitely a zen koan of dating. Someone who is genuinely being themselves and doesn't alter their behavior because of what others think of them is non-needy. But if I'm someone who normally wouldn't approach a girl during the day and say she's cute, is altering my behavior so that I could potentially get a date with her needy? I'll be a little more specific about how I define non-neediness, because it's a nebulous concept here and different folks 'implement' it differently. Non-needine… | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | [33M] My game is tight in all areas: look good, feel good, make good money, well built etc. I just don't have the balls to approach! How to work my way up to an approach?So I'm in a similar situation to you: Decent looking, reasonably able to talk to people, but very afraid of cold approaching. The approach I'm using is one that psychologists use to help patients overcome phobias (psych major here) called progressive desensitization. The idea is that while approaching people scares you different types of approaches might scare you different amounts. For instance walking up to a stranger and asking about the time is probably going to provoke less anxiety than wal… | /r/seduction | 07/09/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | The most important thing in game (in my opinion)I think that there's a lot of things you can learn from people who've done it before, but ultimately the one factor that makes the biggest difference is how much time and energy you're willing to put into approaching. It's like any other skill, the more time you put into it, the more you'll learn, and the better you'll get at it. A person who's approached 100 times is usually gonna be better at it then someone who's read the lines but never approached. It's like skiing or riding a bike. Interact… | /r/seduction | 04/09/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Got her number, what should I text her?"I would like to stick my dick in your vagina, mam'". Works every time. | /r/seduction | 03/09/22 01:43 AM |
| 2 | How many cold approaches until your first success?If by success you mean a positive interaction then probably three, although I'll add that I'm not super brave so I generally don't approach directly. For reference I'm a climber so I will approach most commonly at the gym or in another public area. I think people who tell you to just approach are right, that's the best mindset to have. Numbers do matter though, they're a good way to learn and calibrate your approaches. However, If you're asking this question it probably means you have a large am… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 08:01 PM |
| 3 | How many cold approaches until your first success?What's the difference in your mind between cold approaching and approaching overall? | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Did I fuck up there?Yeah, left on seen usually means she's deciding if she's still interested, and it's not a great sign. I'd wager 1/3 she responds today, 1/3 she comes up with a lame excuse later on and 1/3 she ghosts. Unfortunately, asking again would come across as needy and wouldn't help much. I'd just leave the text conversation there, she'll respond if she's interested. I don't hate the idea of going out to dance with your own friends on Thursday and seeing if you run into her. Actually one piece of advice o… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up there?How long ago was this conversation? There's a good chance you're overthinking this and she's going to respond in a bit. That being said, going to meet her at the club and escalating there is great advice. Good chance you can go on an instant date if that's what you want. Just ask her where she's going on Thursday. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 07:56 PM |
| 33 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.Yeah I disagree with the people telling you "just forget everything and up your game more, that'll solve it". The truth about relationships is that they all eventually end -- and more often than not they end with one person leaving the other. Think about it: If you expect that you're going to have multiple relationships in your life then you can expect that all but one of them will end with one of you leaving the other. THIS IS GOING TO BE PAINFUL. There's always pain when a good thing ends. You… | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Anyone Else Think Abundance Mentality is a Complete Crock?Look man, I'll use jobs as an analogy. An abundance mentality will generally get you a better job than just begging your boss for a raise, and that's the main reason we recommend it. But it won't make you the CEO of Google. From what I've heard it sounds like your standards are incredibly high, and unfortunately that's just going to make it a lot harder to find someone your compatible with. There's another common belief in the dating community: The idea that while every girl is unique, some girl… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:32 AM |
| 1 | For the people who know womanese when a girl says shut up after a tease what does that meanIt means she disagrees with whatever you said, and is playfully teasing you back .... | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Weird CorrelationGirls exist in real life. Girls also exist on tinder. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:19 AM |
| 10 | Have you ever dated two girls at the same time? how did it go?I'd wager it happens pretty regularly if you're not in a committed long-term relationship. I've only dated a handful of people and it just so happens that two of them were at the same time. You never really know when a girl is going to say yes to a date, and sometimes you just happen to get two yesses right next to each other. That happened to me last year and I freaked out thinking that I was being dishonest with them. What pretty much everyone told me that helped me out is this: that it's perf… | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Guys of r/seduction, what is your rejection ratio?Yeesh that sounds rough. It takes a lot of balls to be honest about that. Where do you mostly approach? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 5 | Guys of r/seduction, what is your rejection ratio?Wow, that's pretty neat. Is it mainly in clubs/bars, day game, or just people you know in daily life? | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Guys of r/seduction, what is your rejection ratio?You're not wrong that zero rejections gets you zero dates. But I disagree that numbers are meaningless. I think they're a very useful tool to understand how you're doing and where you want to go in the future. A lot of people (me included) have gotten discouraged in dating in the past and believed there's something wrong with the way they communicate with women. And often they're right, but other times they just haven't talked to enough people. Without a baseline it's really difficult to tell wh… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Guys of r/seduction, what is your rejection ratio?Hey, if your filter looks different, that's cool. I'm still curious what it is. It's a good way to avoid the sense that you're "doing it wrong", I think a lot of people get discouraged when they get rejected. I think I avoid it myself, but it would be reassuring to hear that no, after about 40 rejections, I can expect to get a girl who's interested in me. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 02:44 PM |
| 6 | Girl I liked taking interest in my best friendIf you're already in a monogamous relationship with them, sure. But of you're trying to pursue them and you're not at a mutual dating phase, then them being attracted to your friends just means they're more attracted to your friends -- they're going to be more attracted to one of y'all. If anything it means you should probably give up and maybe set them up with said friend (if you want to be respectful and considerate). | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Won't I bother a girl if I approach her without her saying if she actually wants to be approached beforehand?I see, if you dislike talking that's going to make dating really tough XD. The whole reason we approach and flirt with women is precisely that they find social conversation enjoyable. The vast majority of people do enjoy conversations, with a few caveats: they generally enjoy deep/interesting subjects, emotional topics, improvisation/joking, and expressiveness. The more routine or monotone a conversation is (e.g. so how's the weather today) the less interesting people generally find it. This is … | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?Yeah this is bad advice even from a logistical standpoint. It means you'll waste a ton of time and energy being "fun and sexual" only to get pissed off when you find out the girl only wanted to be fun and sexual -- she didn't want to have sex she has a fucking boyfriend for that. Yeah, better to fail fast than waste my time on girls who will 95% of the time ignore me for the boyfriend. (I also don't want to date a girl who will leave the person she's dating to fuck someone else but that's just w… | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 02:56 AM |
| 1 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?So .... She started dating someone else she found attractive? And she decided she wasn't into you? That happens all the time bro, lmao just move on. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Gaining some confidence back. My local barista gave me her number and agreed a date, then stood me up... I just saw her againI would be friendly to customers for tips. I think it's silly not to. also I think most people (you included) probably would do this. and I know most people who are baristas do this. It's no surprise, considering they're usually attractive women (also a main reason you see a lot of cute girls in tipped service roles -- they get more tips. From guys. Who assume that of course the barista is flirting with them because they like them, and slipping a girl a fiver must be the way to her heart). | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Gaining some confidence back. My local barista gave me her number and agreed a date, then stood me up... I just saw her againWhat is the specific shitty behavior? Not showing up for a planned event? Might not be the best in the world, but it's something a lot of men do as well. Frankly, I didn't see enough details to call this shitty behavior. Did he set a specific time on Friday? and did she respond to his texts leading up to the date or was it dead air? I like telling her off, though it would have been better to be more straightforward rather than saying 'you should be sorry' to her. That was kinda toxic IMO. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 08:45 AM |
| 2 | Fuck me baby ?? CringeWell, you might be in a good community for achieving that. Good to learn self-love as well. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RECOymKBU1g&ab\_channel=Charlie%26BenPodcast | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Fuck me baby ?? CringeIs this a recommendation? Seems a little too sad to be hot during sex | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Fuck me baby ?? CringeTotally understand that, calling your boyfriend a cuck would be pretty offensive. also, who the shit thinks getting called daddy is hot? a girl once dropped that one "fuck me daddy" on me unexpectedly mid-sex and I completely fell apart laughing and had to stop XD as for advice, I think it's better to say something that's natural to you than to say some line you got online (sounds way more genuine as well). I think this sounds like an issue of lowering your filter: Just say whatever comes to… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:45 AM |
| 6 | Is it worth staying friends with a girl I dated?Don't do this to people, it's a dick move. Grow some balls and be honest -- tell her it wouldn't work as friends. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth staying friends with a girl I dated?So your ideal man is one who doesn't realize he wants to fuck you for the first year or more of your relationship? I can tell ya he's not going to be on this subreddit XD but honestly that seems unlikely. It's possible, but more likely such a man is just going to have a relationship with whomever he started dating during that year. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it worth staying friends with a girl I dated?Hell yeah. You just said it yourself: you want physical intimacy out of your relationship, not just 'friendship'. You need to move on, son, because you're not going to get that, and trying to be her 'friend' when both of you know that's what you really want is just going to come across as creepy and disingenuous. That's why 'being friends' with a girl you formerly dated sadly very rarely works out. Basically, most guys will still be simping for the girl and will convince themselves that they 'ju… | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 07:22 AM |
| 8 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedThis also means they likely won't be interested in the actual you beneath all the marketing / manipulation. So enjoy being an actor for the entirety of your time with this girl. Even from a purely selfish stand point it's a terrible idea. (and it's a dick thing to do, I certainly wouldn't want people doing this to me) | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Potentially toxic trick that I use to get girls interestedHow the hell are you getting that interpretation from what she said?? all I heard was that when the other person is obviously manipulative and using marketing tactics, it sucks, and it's a big turnoff. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Girl on dating app ghosts for two weeks, then reappears and wants to get drinks. Do you respond?I think this hinges on the matter of 'what do you want?' If you just want to fuck her, and are fine with a risk of flaking and a very high chance that she will move on from you after a couple weeks, go for it. That's what most guys on tinder want to do anyways lol If you want a long-term relationship or you highly value dating people with personal integrity and honesty, etc. then this is a big red flag and you shouldn't do it. If you don't know where you stand, I recommend going for it and seein… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | I get dates but girls almost always ghost me afterwards. What am I doing wrong?I agree with this a lot, it's really a difference in what y'all want your success rates to be. I think that surely some women (maybe even most of the women someone dates) will be turned off by a guy texting them after a date (not very common in my personal experience, but that's anecdotal evidence and this could be common generally). To fruitCreamsicle, that's a missed opportunity to fuck a hot girl who he could have gotten with by playing the 'waiting game' and not texting. To ImpressiveGro… | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 12:29 AM |
| 3 | why am I successful in online dating but can't get dates when approaching girls in person?I would assume that this is a framing thing. When you match with someone on tinder, she is on a dating app, presumably so she can look for guys to date. Moreover, she's talking with someone she presumably thinks is attractive and interesting, with the implicit goal of setting up a date (now, she will also be filtering out guys she doesn't like, but presumably if she has a great conversation with you and decides she likes you, she's planning to go on a date with you, not ask you to join her lacro… | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 09:36 PM |
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