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I am a centrist but I prefer centrist/conservative men. I cannot stress this enough conservative is not the same as redpill. Many conservative men disagree with redpill ideology. My father is a Republican conservative Trump voter and he thinks the redpill is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:22 PM
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Yay there’s hope for me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:57 PM
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With a few exceptions like the ones you listed, looks are generally subjective. What I find hot, many women find mid or not that hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:07 AM
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That’s what younger women do, they just want a fun boyfriend they are attracted to. Yep! I can concur, we do want to have fun! And it’s usually with younger men!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:04 AM
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Some goals are different but some are similar. That’s the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:03 AM
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Denyce Lawton is in her mid 40s and she’s f*cking gorgeous as shit, prettier than the average woman half her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:01 AM
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Very good point. That’s why it’s not the age that matters, it’s the mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:58 AM
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You still have a pretty decent fertility at 30-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:49 AM
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According to some people, a woman in her early 20s who has slept with tons of people is still more “high value” than a unmarried 30-35 year old that’s only slept with 4 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:48 AM
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Well what if she wasn’t a 304 in her youth but was busy getting her life in order? Not all women 30+ are single because they were messing around in their youth and to act like women should all be married by 25, 30, whatever is extremely ignorant and out of touch with reality. I used to believe in that fairytale that everyone had to be married and have kids in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:46 AM
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were you attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:44 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:13 AM
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You’re 21. It’s normal you aren’t into women 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:49 PM
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That’s a mild age gap
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:48 PM
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Doesn’t really count for late bloomer women since a late bloomer in her early 20s is mentally like a high school girl and most men don’t want to marry a high school girl. Also studies show late 20s to early 30s is the best time for marriage. Getting married at 18-25 only ever works out if they are mature. If they still don’t have their shit together, marriage is a terrible idea. You could say late bloomers are better off getting married in the later years of their “fertility” if you wanna put it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:39 PM
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Smart answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:21 AM
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Being emotionally immature, lazy, overly emotional, neurotic, those are things that can be fixed but it takes time and growth. I don’t know any man that wants to deal with a woman that doesn’t have her shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:09 PM
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Wdym submissive? Idk about submissive but cordial and willingness to work things out and compromise? Yes. Men and women should bother be partners in a relationship. They should be communicate and hear out each other. Maturity and having your shit together are both things required in a relationship doesn’t matter your gender. Even in a trad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:05 PM
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I’m not clinging out to comfort. Quite the opposite, I’m accepting and acknowledging my harsh reality. I’m probably not gonna end up getting married before 30 just like how I’m probably not gonna end up with a man that makes 6 figures. The harsh reality I mature slower than others my age. It’s not that it won’t happen. It just won’t happen immediately. Plus the odds of divorce within 5 years of marriage are: * 32% for 20 or under * 20% for early 20s * 15% for mid to late 20s * 14% for early 30s …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:13 PM
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Even if I may reach that point a few years later than average?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:12 PM
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as for having children older, please don't. as someone whose parents gave life to me in their older years, I advise against it. Won't work out for the children nor the parents You know what’s worse than that? Having a kid by accident when you haven’t even began to have your life in order. If you’re irresponsible in your younger years, then having children later is clearly the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:11 PM
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Weird, on dating apps I see wishlists like "tall, athletic, great hair, rich" and so on, not "responsible, would make great husband and father" or anything like that. Because they’re dating for a boyfriend not a husband Fit, sane, stable 30 years old woman with no burdens from previous relationships is a great catch for let's say 37 yo man wanting to start own family rather soon, but not for a male your age Here’s the thing, though. I’m immature for my age and always have been behind for my age,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:07 PM
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Well women are more emotional. It's normal. As long as your not letting your emotions control your actions you will be okay. Be around more matured women who can school you on the things you want to improve on. Trust me young men do the same thing. I know that. That’s why my youth will be spent molding myself into a better person so I can attract a good person. I also have my father to guide me on my path to adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:02 PM
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Ok but I myself need to since at 20, I have yet to master basic adult skills and I still have the competence and maturity of a high school girl. Yeah my cooking skills are okay and I can work a job but I can’t drive, I can’t pay my bills, I can’t do financial stuff 99.99% of adults can do plus I’m overly emotional but that’s something I’m working on Some people reach maturity at a young age, some take slower. Women get married early is only beneficial if she matures faster. None of these women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:10 PM
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What do you mean have her shit together? One that is emotionally mature, competent, responsible. And before you say “but I don’t care about job or education!” THIS ISNT ABOUT THAT. It’s about basic life skills. Maturity, competence and responsibility are things valued in a partner for both genders. When are women that lack maturity, competence and responsibility ever good mothers or even wives?? I know I’d be a bad wife/mother now cuz I can’t do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:01 PM
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What do you mean have her shit together? One that is emotionally mature, competent, responsible. And before you say “but I don’t care about job or education!” THIS ISNT ABOUT THAT. It’s about basic life skills. Maturity, competence and responsibility are things valued in a partner for both genders. When are women that lack maturity, competence and responsibility ever good mothers or even wives?? I know I’d be a bad wife/mother now cuz I can’t do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:01 PM
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Yeah I definitely do have a plan mapped out for marriage. Which is also merged with my other plan of getting my life in order. My father taught me self improvement is going to help me be able to find a good partner. My father is a man I look up to, he has excellent judgement and I look up to him and view him as a role model. Self improvement, meeting people, getting to know people. I plan on starting out dating as a girlfriend in my early 20s and then I can develop into dating as a wife in my mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:30 AM
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No im not gonna hoe around. Just trying dating like a lot of people do before getting married. And I’m not talking about dating 10 guys. I’m not gonna refuse to marry my first just because I wanna see what else is out there. If I end up marrying my first, great! If I find that unicorn guy I can grow with, then awesome! If not, no big deal. Even the most of the women that got married at my age dated a few guys before getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:01 AM
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So is it over for womenchildren? This feels like a blackpill ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:58 AM
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The vast majority of history, women didn't go to uni or have careers, and yet they turned out to be great wives and mothers. I never said they needed to have careers. These women probably still possessed maturity, competence and responsibility instead of acting like lazy womanchildren What does she need to get in order? If a young women needs to "improve" herself it means she's already messed her life up, like maybe she's got fat What if she’s mentally unstable and brings to much emotional bagga…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:50 AM
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So they admit it’s not their place to give advice to women since women cannot give advice to men because themselves aren’t men and don’t understand the life of a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:45 AM
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No I’ve done lots of thinking about this for years and talked to my dad about it. I used to think it was my looks. He has very sound judgement. I came to realize it wasn’t my looks because I’m decent looking and none of the guys I’ve liked were above my looksmatch. (Most of these guys were average looking. Like YOUR definition of average looking) And actually lots of people say I’m a pretty girl. I’m not supermodel I know that. People apparently view me as more attractive than I view myself. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:36 AM
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My immaturity made it hard for me to get a boyfriend. all I know is I know more men with get with plus size women/single moms than getting with childish women. And some of these men are decent looking fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:29 AM
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AWALT is similar to when leftists say all white people are racist. They argue “we aren’t saying all individual white people are racist, we are just saying all white people, as a result of living in a white supremacist culture, have internalized racist thoughts, racist norms, racist attitudes”. Or ACAB, when they say “we aren’t saying every single cop is bad but every cop is part of a bad system”. Aside from having a uterus and vagina, what do ALL women have in common? The only one I can think of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:28 AM
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IIRC doesn’t redpill tell women they need to self improve in order to secure a committed relationship with a “high value man”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:25 AM
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Well then it’s not like they are actively looking for an immature woman they can take advantage of. They’re just accepting a woman for immaturity. Like men will also accept a woman that is older, single mom or plus sized
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:21 AM
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Oh yeah 100%! But I don’t think I’ll be wife material until my mid 20s. I think it’s natural I do girlfriend stuff first then wife stuff. And obviously I don’t mean date 100 guys then settle down 😅 I mean simply trying out dating a little. Get to have a taste of what relationship is like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:14 AM
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Ok, so you'll probably hate me for this a little, but Disney-like or Notebook-like "first love" is kind of a lie. It's not unique, it doesn't "happen" to you, you don't fall in it, love is actually a choice Oh I don’t mean like that. I meant just a normal first relationship. That's why the "why" of dating is important. All these single women around you, they dated to have a boyfriend, a partner, to "fall in love". All the happily married women around you, they dated to marry, to find a man worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:02 AM
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So basically you’re saying that I, as a late bloomer, am screwed and it’s over for me. Tell me, when do you ever hear of women who have never had a boyfriend by 20 get married before 30? I know many women who gotten married before 30 and every single one of them have had their first boyfriend as a teenager. And I literally can’t make more opportunities. I can’t drive and I don’t really have any friends. If young men and women are equally attractive, why do men in their 30s consistently date wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:45 AM
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You’re right. There’s also guys that fall in love with single moms, men that don’t have a lot of money, etc It’s not a bad thing. Immature people deserve love too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:41 AM
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Redpill is right about SOME women, it’s when they paint them all the same is where they are incorrect. Take it with a grain of salt instead of gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:28 AM
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What if she’s an emotional trainwreck, high maintenance, argumentative, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:25 AM
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I imagine that unless he won’t want an immature woman (unless it’s for a fling or if he wants someone he can manipulate) but will want a woman that is also attractive and has her shit together
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:24 AM
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They are so narcissistic some like shrimp tacos. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:20 AM
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Tbh married redpill men are rare (not counting redpill men that used to be married.) I know there’s Andrew Wilson, Rollo Tomassi, Elliot Hulse but they seem like mass grifters. Rollo married a career woman and Andrew Wilson married a single mom. Not bashing women that are any of those things but they are considered “low value” by redpill standards. Also Elliot Hulse talks about how women should endure physical abuse but I bet he would think differently if it were his own daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:18 AM
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Well then, my friend, this isn’t really for you. It’s mainly for the older men that talk about a traditional marriage w/kids and such. I think what you’re describing is a relationship where you and your partner get to be immature goobers in peace, right? If that’s the case, all power to you. Tbh that’s what I’m looking for at the moment since I’m still an immature goober myself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:15 AM
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Hello kvakerok_v2. Thank you, your words are appreciated. One thing to add, I’m not ready for a husband, I do want to just experience “first love”, the kind of love I never got to experience as a teenager. I don’t think I’ll be ready for marriage until after 26 and I doubt my future husband will be my first boyfriend (He might be my 2nd, 3rd, or 4th) and it’s not like I don’t want to marry my first boyfriend. If it works out that’s awesome. But for most people, it usually doesn’t happen and I mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:12 AM
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A woman who is immature, irresponsible incompetent and doesn’t have her shit together may be good for a fling to some but she isn’t gonna be wife material. My immaturity and childish nature is something that have turned good guys away from me. Notice I said, mature not older. (Since a woman can be mature in her early 20s) Maturity is an attitude, a mindset. There are only 3 kinds of men looking for women who are mentally/emotionally immature • a guy who is also immature • a guy who just wants a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:35 AM
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So basically SMV is solely how sexually attractive you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:32 AM
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If we can generalize women as hypergamists/golddiggers/all that other stuff, we can generalize men as abusers and grapists. Obviously both are wrong though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:43 PM
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Another truth bomb from Lilith 👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:41 PM
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Looks matter to an extent. But high SMV doesn’t always mean better boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife material. And who determines SMV? The person themself? Or the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:38 PM
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I mean, it’s kind of the same as wife material. I never thought of husband material or wife material as objectification
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:35 PM
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What if a woman is unmarried in her 30s but doesn’t have high n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:39 PM
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It could be their personalities or habits. Kinda goes against the point that looks and youth are all that matters for women :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:36 PM
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I guess Norbit, where a nerdy guy is stuck with a fat abusive wife but then leaves her for a beautiful kind woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:36 PM
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The divorce rate is highest among couples with a 20+ year age gap It’s also very high for those who get married late teens/early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:35 PM
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The fact that Adriana Lima and Beyonce got cheated on shows it’s not about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:33 PM
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OP isnt trying to state women over 30 are worthless, she is likely worried that women over 30 are seen as worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:32 PM
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Finally a reasonable redpill man 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:30 PM
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Are N count/looks/would you rather posts banned
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:46 PM
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What is female nature exactly, what are the positives and negatives, which I’m sure there is some that redpillers don’t put out in case it may mess with their agenda. They are right that there are some women that are red flags but they paint all women with the same agenda and when you think about it, it’s no better than the woke leftists like Robin D’Angelo painting all white people as racists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:39 PM
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The only redpill YouTuber that isn’t complete trash is Think Before You Sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:24 PM
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Redpill is woke ideology/feminism for men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:22 PM
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We all like abusive 6 ft gigachads with 8 pacs and 8 inch peens who make 6 figures a year and think any man that doesn’t fit that category is repulsive and undesirable. Obviously that was sarcasm. 😂 What women like varies. Generally they prefer men that are taller than them, a lot of them prefer the “bad-boy good man” archetype which is a guy that is full of adventure and spunk and courage but also kind hearted. As for myself, I like guys that are sweet, honest, smart, and funny. I like nerdy gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:15 AM
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Both of them are hurt people with victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:29 PM
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It may have started out as a support group but 99% of the MGTOW channels I’ve seen are just 4B for men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:15 PM
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That’s just what I was thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:14 PM
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You can’t judge your attractiveness on your ability to have sex or get relationships. Thats something “all” women can do I think just about any woman could get sex if she was desperate enough but probably not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:20 AM
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