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Most people have sex outside of marriage, male or female
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:25 PM
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I am a centrist but I prefer centrist/conservative men. I cannot stress this enough conservative is not the same as redpill. Many conservative men disagree with redpill ideology. My father is a Republican conservative Trump voter and he thinks the redpill is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 10:22 PM
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You can’t control your age like you can your money. Also a man making money is producing something else useful. A woman simply being hot and young isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:18 PM
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If you’re 50+ and wanting a fertile woman, you’re a bit late for that my guy :/ Unless you’re looking for sugar baby/daddy dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:11 PM
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Many men have some feminine traits and many women have some masculine traits. It’s human nature
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:10 PM
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Not all men or women that are single past 30 are single because it’s their fault. Could just be bad luck
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:08 PM
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You shouldn’t be mean or nasty to people you aren’t attracted to male or female
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:06 PM
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Yay there’s hope for me :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:57 PM
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Aye I’m a late bloomer too :D
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:09 AM
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Some women are also single in their 30s because they had bad luck or have personality defects. Some people are single through no fault of their own
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:09 AM
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Let’s say you are in your 20s and interested in people in their 20s. If you’re a normal with a healthy sexuality, you’ll be into old people when you’re old. If you’re in your 50s and you’re still into women in their 20s, that’s wierd and gross in my opinion. When I’m in my 40s, I’m hopefully gonna find men in their 40s hot. I was attracted to 13 year old boys when I was 13. Am I attracted to them now? No, because I’m too old for that shit. I only like 18+ guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:07 AM
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As a younger woman, I find it wierd anytime an older woman criticizes an older man with a younger woman they thin she’s just jealous because she likely did dating older men when she was younger. What they fail to realize is she could be speaking out of regret and wanting to warn younger women rather than jealousy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:00 AM
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Facts 👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:58 AM
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It’s usually non promiscuous women that have a problem with it. We don’t like guys that are gonna cheat on us. You manwhores belong with the whores 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:12 AM
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With a few exceptions like the ones you listed, looks are generally subjective. What I find hot, many women find mid or not that hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:07 AM
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That’s what younger women do, they just want a fun boyfriend they are attracted to. Yep! I can concur, we do want to have fun! And it’s usually with younger men!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:04 AM
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Some goals are different but some are similar. That’s the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:03 AM
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Denyce Lawton is in her mid 40s and she’s f*cking gorgeous as shit, prettier than the average woman half her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:01 AM
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Very good point. That’s why it’s not the age that matters, it’s the mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:58 AM
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Top women are only going to fuck the top men. I don’t think top women will even entertain a date because it lowers their perceived value. If he’s low tier but rich, she will And me personally, I’m picking the mid male over the top tier male.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:53 AM
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I’m mid and investing in my equals (also mid) and still get rejected cuz of my personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:52 AM
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I guess to them, all women are trash so might as well date a hot woman that treats you like crap. Actually that’s literally the only women that they go for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:51 AM
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Personally I prefer mid men over Chads. Genuinely find them more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:50 AM
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You still have a pretty decent fertility at 30-35.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:49 AM
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According to some people, a woman in her early 20s who has slept with tons of people is still more “high value” than a unmarried 30-35 year old that’s only slept with 4 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:48 AM
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Well what if she wasn’t a 304 in her youth but was busy getting her life in order? Not all women 30+ are single because they were messing around in their youth and to act like women should all be married by 25, 30, whatever is extremely ignorant and out of touch with reality. I used to believe in that fairytale that everyone had to be married and have kids in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:46 AM
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were you attracted to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 03:44 AM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 01:13 AM
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You’re 21. It’s normal you aren’t into women 30+.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 08:49 PM
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That’s a mild age gap
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:48 PM
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Doesn’t really count for late bloomer women since a late bloomer in her early 20s is mentally like a high school girl and most men don’t want to marry a high school girl. Also studies show late 20s to early 30s is the best time for marriage. Getting married at 18-25 only ever works out if they are mature. If they still don’t have their shit together, marriage is a terrible idea. You could say late bloomers are better off getting married in the later years of their “fertility” if you wanna put it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 05:39 PM
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Yeah but low n count women generally have too much self respect to deal with a himbo
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 10:40 PM
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What is stbx? Also did this woman go chase some bad boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 02:37 AM
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Smart answer
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:21 AM
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It means he cares to an extent
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:35 PM
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I know a guy who's an absolute blue pill, charming tall, etc etc, had an amazing loving happy family. His soon to be ex got hooked on bullshit social trends and they're divorcing in less than a year. He still loves her, but the poor guy doesn't understand that she's gone. Her brain is now permanently warped by the whatever shit she's putting in it. I wonder if she left him because the 4B movement told her to leave your husband/boyfriend if they voted for 🍊🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:28 PM
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You should date a gym girl or an Asian women. These kinds of women usually stay thin even after marriage/pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:53 PM
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I’m saying the men that say all women are the same say that because they’ve been heartbroken by many women. And the women that say all men are the same say that because they’ve been heartbroken by many men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:47 PM
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Being emotionally immature, lazy, overly emotional, neurotic, those are things that can be fixed but it takes time and growth. I don’t know any man that wants to deal with a woman that doesn’t have her shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:09 PM
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Wdym submissive? Idk about submissive but cordial and willingness to work things out and compromise? Yes. Men and women should bother be partners in a relationship. They should be communicate and hear out each other. Maturity and having your shit together are both things required in a relationship doesn’t matter your gender. Even in a trad relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 05:05 PM
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I’m not clinging out to comfort. Quite the opposite, I’m accepting and acknowledging my harsh reality. I’m probably not gonna end up getting married before 30 just like how I’m probably not gonna end up with a man that makes 6 figures. The harsh reality I mature slower than others my age. It’s not that it won’t happen. It just won’t happen immediately. Plus the odds of divorce within 5 years of marriage are: * 32% for 20 or under * 20% for early 20s * 15% for mid to late 20s * 14% for early 30s …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:13 PM
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Even if I may reach that point a few years later than average?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:12 PM
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as for having children older, please don't. as someone whose parents gave life to me in their older years, I advise against it. Won't work out for the children nor the parents You know what’s worse than that? Having a kid by accident when you haven’t even began to have your life in order. If you’re irresponsible in your younger years, then having children later is clearly the better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:11 PM
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Weird, on dating apps I see wishlists like "tall, athletic, great hair, rich" and so on, not "responsible, would make great husband and father" or anything like that. Because they’re dating for a boyfriend not a husband Fit, sane, stable 30 years old woman with no burdens from previous relationships is a great catch for let's say 37 yo man wanting to start own family rather soon, but not for a male your age Here’s the thing, though. I’m immature for my age and always have been behind for my age,…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:07 PM
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Well women are more emotional. It's normal. As long as your not letting your emotions control your actions you will be okay. Be around more matured women who can school you on the things you want to improve on. Trust me young men do the same thing. I know that. That’s why my youth will be spent molding myself into a better person so I can attract a good person. I also have my father to guide me on my path to adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:02 PM
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Ok but I myself need to since at 20, I have yet to master basic adult skills and I still have the competence and maturity of a high school girl. Yeah my cooking skills are okay and I can work a job but I can’t drive, I can’t pay my bills, I can’t do financial stuff 99.99% of adults can do plus I’m overly emotional but that’s something I’m working on Some people reach maturity at a young age, some take slower. Women get married early is only beneficial if she matures faster. None of these women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:10 PM
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What do you mean have her shit together? One that is emotionally mature, competent, responsible. And before you say “but I don’t care about job or education!” THIS ISNT ABOUT THAT. It’s about basic life skills. Maturity, competence and responsibility are things valued in a partner for both genders. When are women that lack maturity, competence and responsibility ever good mothers or even wives?? I know I’d be a bad wife/mother now cuz I can’t do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:01 PM
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What do you mean have her shit together? One that is emotionally mature, competent, responsible. And before you say “but I don’t care about job or education!” THIS ISNT ABOUT THAT. It’s about basic life skills. Maturity, competence and responsibility are things valued in a partner for both genders. When are women that lack maturity, competence and responsibility ever good mothers or even wives?? I know I’d be a bad wife/mother now cuz I can’t do shit
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:01 PM
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Yeah I definitely do have a plan mapped out for marriage. Which is also merged with my other plan of getting my life in order. My father taught me self improvement is going to help me be able to find a good partner. My father is a man I look up to, he has excellent judgement and I look up to him and view him as a role model. Self improvement, meeting people, getting to know people. I plan on starting out dating as a girlfriend in my early 20s and then I can develop into dating as a wife in my mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 04:30 AM
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No im not gonna hoe around. Just trying dating like a lot of people do before getting married. And I’m not talking about dating 10 guys. I’m not gonna refuse to marry my first just because I wanna see what else is out there. If I end up marrying my first, great! If I find that unicorn guy I can grow with, then awesome! If not, no big deal. Even the most of the women that got married at my age dated a few guys before getting married
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 03:01 AM
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So is it over for womenchildren? This feels like a blackpill ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:58 AM
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The vast majority of history, women didn't go to uni or have careers, and yet they turned out to be great wives and mothers. I never said they needed to have careers. These women probably still possessed maturity, competence and responsibility instead of acting like lazy womanchildren What does she need to get in order? If a young women needs to "improve" herself it means she's already messed her life up, like maybe she's got fat What if she’s mentally unstable and brings to much emotional bagga…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:50 AM
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So they admit it’s not their place to give advice to women since women cannot give advice to men because themselves aren’t men and don’t understand the life of a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:45 AM
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No I’ve done lots of thinking about this for years and talked to my dad about it. I used to think it was my looks. He has very sound judgement. I came to realize it wasn’t my looks because I’m decent looking and none of the guys I’ve liked were above my looksmatch. (Most of these guys were average looking. Like YOUR definition of average looking) And actually lots of people say I’m a pretty girl. I’m not supermodel I know that. People apparently view me as more attractive than I view myself. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:36 AM
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My immaturity made it hard for me to get a boyfriend. all I know is I know more men with get with plus size women/single moms than getting with childish women. And some of these men are decent looking fellas.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:29 AM
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AWALT is similar to when leftists say all white people are racist. They argue “we aren’t saying all individual white people are racist, we are just saying all white people, as a result of living in a white supremacist culture, have internalized racist thoughts, racist norms, racist attitudes”. Or ACAB, when they say “we aren’t saying every single cop is bad but every cop is part of a bad system”. Aside from having a uterus and vagina, what do ALL women have in common? The only one I can think of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:28 AM
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IIRC doesn’t redpill tell women they need to self improve in order to secure a committed relationship with a “high value man”?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:25 AM
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Well then it’s not like they are actively looking for an immature woman they can take advantage of. They’re just accepting a woman for immaturity. Like men will also accept a woman that is older, single mom or plus sized
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:21 AM
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Oh yeah 100%! But I don’t think I’ll be wife material until my mid 20s. I think it’s natural I do girlfriend stuff first then wife stuff. And obviously I don’t mean date 100 guys then settle down 😅 I mean simply trying out dating a little. Get to have a taste of what relationship is like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:14 AM
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Ok, so you'll probably hate me for this a little, but Disney-like or Notebook-like "first love" is kind of a lie. It's not unique, it doesn't "happen" to you, you don't fall in it, love is actually a choice Oh I don’t mean like that. I meant just a normal first relationship. That's why the "why" of dating is important. All these single women around you, they dated to have a boyfriend, a partner, to "fall in love". All the happily married women around you, they dated to marry, to find a man worth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:02 AM
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Is that really true? I wish there was a way to get accurate stats on it I don’t know if there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:57 AM
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So basically you’re saying that I, as a late bloomer, am screwed and it’s over for me. Tell me, when do you ever hear of women who have never had a boyfriend by 20 get married before 30? I know many women who gotten married before 30 and every single one of them have had their first boyfriend as a teenager. And I literally can’t make more opportunities. I can’t drive and I don’t really have any friends. If young men and women are equally attractive, why do men in their 30s consistently date wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:45 AM
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You’re right. There’s also guys that fall in love with single moms, men that don’t have a lot of money, etc It’s not a bad thing. Immature people deserve love too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:41 AM
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Redpill is right about SOME women, it’s when they paint them all the same is where they are incorrect. Take it with a grain of salt instead of gospel.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:28 AM
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What if that’s inappropriate 😭 also he’s 18 and may or not have a girlfriend….or be in high school
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:26 AM
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What if she’s an emotional trainwreck, high maintenance, argumentative, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:25 AM
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I imagine that unless he won’t want an immature woman (unless it’s for a fling or if he wants someone he can manipulate) but will want a woman that is also attractive and has her shit together
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:24 AM
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I have virtually no opportunities to interact with guys my age and I’m not allowed to do online dating. I did see a Russian guy at work that catches my eye. But it wouldn’t be profressional to try anything. Idk what to do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:22 AM
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They are so narcissistic some like shrimp tacos. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:20 AM
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Tbh married redpill men are rare (not counting redpill men that used to be married.) I know there’s Andrew Wilson, Rollo Tomassi, Elliot Hulse but they seem like mass grifters. Rollo married a career woman and Andrew Wilson married a single mom. Not bashing women that are any of those things but they are considered “low value” by redpill standards. Also Elliot Hulse talks about how women should endure physical abuse but I bet he would think differently if it were his own daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:18 AM
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I’ve never had a bf but I have had lots of crushes. And they were actual nerds. Like the guys you see irl
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:16 AM
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Well then, my friend, this isn’t really for you. It’s mainly for the older men that talk about a traditional marriage w/kids and such. I think what you’re describing is a relationship where you and your partner get to be immature goobers in peace, right? If that’s the case, all power to you. Tbh that’s what I’m looking for at the moment since I’m still an immature goober myself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:15 AM
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Hello kvakerok_v2. Thank you, your words are appreciated. One thing to add, I’m not ready for a husband, I do want to just experience “first love”, the kind of love I never got to experience as a teenager. I don’t think I’ll be ready for marriage until after 26 and I doubt my future husband will be my first boyfriend (He might be my 2nd, 3rd, or 4th) and it’s not like I don’t want to marry my first boyfriend. If it works out that’s awesome. But for most people, it usually doesn’t happen and I mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:12 AM
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99% of my crushes were my looksmatch. And yeah I know where I stand on the looksmatch. I’m average looking but a lot of people say I’m pretty so maybe I’m pretty? Idk. But I’ve always been into nerdy avg guys
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:04 AM
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I think 25-35 is usually the best age to marry. You’re old enough to have your shit together but still young enough to have kids
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:03 AM
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women have a wall? Well so do men! People’s looks fade! Young men and young women are at the same level of attractiveness. Older men and older women are the same level of attractiveness as well. Speaking on an objective level of course. But for personal preference, it may vary
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 01:01 AM
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Me personally, I’m only attracted to average looking guys, the kind you don’t see on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:59 AM
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A woman’s value even as a wife/romantic partner isn’t solely based on her looks and youth and anyone that tells you otherwise is lying and full of 💩 because simply being young, pretty and a virgin doesn’t make a woman a good partner. She needs to have a good personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:58 AM
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They are right about some women but to say women are all like that is bull.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:55 AM
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What is your stance on late bloomer women who are 30+ and unmarried? When do women that are 20+ but never had a relationship ever end up married before 30? Almost never
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:45 AM
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A woman who is immature, irresponsible incompetent and doesn’t have her shit together may be good for a fling to some but she isn’t gonna be wife material. My immaturity and childish nature is something that have turned good guys away from me. Notice I said, mature not older. (Since a woman can be mature in her early 20s) Maturity is an attitude, a mindset. There are only 3 kinds of men looking for women who are mentally/emotionally immature • a guy who is also immature • a guy who just wants a …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:35 AM
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So basically SMV is solely how sexually attractive you are?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 12:32 AM
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what if she had a high n count but is willing to do lots of freaky stuff with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 11:35 PM
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If we can generalize women as hypergamists/golddiggers/all that other stuff, we can generalize men as abusers and grapists. Obviously both are wrong though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:43 PM
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Another truth bomb from Lilith 👏👏
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:41 PM
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Looks matter to an extent. But high SMV doesn’t always mean better boyfriend/girlfriend/husband/wife material. And who determines SMV? The person themself? Or the opposite sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:38 PM
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I mean, it’s kind of the same as wife material. I never thought of husband material or wife material as objectification
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:35 PM
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They act like trashy men then are surprised they only attract trashy women. That’s like a sex worker being upset she only attracted men that just want her for her body and sex
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:30 PM
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You notice men with high N counts are usually with women with high N counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:25 PM
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Some people are unmarried by 30+ simply because of bad luck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 09:18 PM
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What if a woman is unmarried in her 30s but doesn’t have high n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 08:39 PM
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I don’t make a lot of money but I’ll still split the check because I’m not a leech
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 07:21 PM
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You can have an emotional connection with a 20 yr old. I’ve met 20 yr olds that are much more mature, interesting, and respectable than many women in their 40s Yeah women in their 20s can be mature. But men in their 30s/40s should stay away from women in their 20s that are immature. This is coming from a 20 yr old that acts young for her age Even if you would prefer someone closer to your age I’m not older or a man if some hot 20 yr old wants to go out and he’s single, he’s not saying no, he wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 06:00 PM
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Some women are mature at 20, some aren’t. Men in their 30s that go after IMMATURE women in their 20s are the same men that would date lower if legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:53 PM
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It’s usually either men at the top or the bottom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:52 PM
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I’ve noticed that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:51 PM
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Or maybe a lot of them think women 20-24 are physically attractive but don’t want her because she is too immature and maybe he wants someone he can have an emotional connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:50 PM
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Those 20y olds are usually promiscuous or at least non virgins. It’s never the childish or innocent 20 y olds. We usually don’t find older men initimidating. The “bad gyals” our age on the other hand….
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:46 PM
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The negative experience likely stemmed from the man taking advantage of her
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:45 PM
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You forgot the third one: younger women with negative experiences dealing with older men hitting on them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:44 PM
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Well that’s different. But if it’s a very immature/average 20 year old and a mature/average 38 year old, then there’s an extreme power imbalance almost like the 20 year old is dating someone like their dad/mom
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:42 PM
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A lot of younger women think it’s creepy too, myself included. I think older men belong with older women and younger men belong with younger women. Call me an ageist if you will
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:41 PM
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They mean a mental and psychological imbalance. And a severe maturity imbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:39 PM
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It could be their personalities or habits. Kinda goes against the point that looks and youth are all that matters for women :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:36 PM
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I guess Norbit, where a nerdy guy is stuck with a fat abusive wife but then leaves her for a beautiful kind woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:36 PM
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The divorce rate is highest among couples with a 20+ year age gap It’s also very high for those who get married late teens/early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:35 PM
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The fact that Adriana Lima and Beyonce got cheated on shows it’s not about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:33 PM
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OP isnt trying to state women over 30 are worthless, she is likely worried that women over 30 are seen as worthless
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:32 PM
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Finally a reasonable redpill man 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:30 PM
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They aren’t any different than the women that got hurt by men and had bad experiences with men and therefore think all men are the same. It’s HER truth, her personal experience but it’s not THE truth. Just like men who got hurt by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:22 PM
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There’s a different between THE truth and THEIR truth. It’s no different than a woman who has had negative experiences with men and claims all men are the this and that, all men are abusers, etc They’re just hurt people speaking their truth (aka their own personal stories) not THE truth
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 05:21 PM
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Not making women the center of your life is obviously not misogyny. What you just described is avoiding not decentering, and to that I say: I don’t know if it is or not. but I do know it’s the same exact thing as a woman avoiding connections with men. As long as he’s not constantly bitching about how women suck and because that’s not decentering women. Same way claiming to decenter/avoid men but constantly bitching about about how men suck. You don’t understand women and don’t pretend you do, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:52 PM
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Are N count/looks/would you rather posts banned
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 08:46 PM
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And not all men
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:49 PM
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No it’s the same. What they say about male nature is based on the same exact thing men say about female nature
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:48 PM
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AWALT is the same as saying all men are rapists or all white people are racist and you can’t tell me otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:44 PM
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Toxic women are women but they represwntive of the female gender. Same way toxic men and grapists don’t represent the male gender
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:38 PM
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I’m sure you think AMALT and All White People Are Racist Oppressors is wrong, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 06:36 PM
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Yeah, men and women are usually less attractive when they’re older but they learn to love each other for their imperfections/aging bodies. Some men take that far to the point where they insult men who do. For the men I was talking about, they're typically average and still single. I've seen this so much in my friends groups that it's no surprise anymore. Maybe they got to their 30s and they have a little better career but they struggle to incite any form of lust from women. I’ve never witnessed …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/24 12:13 AM
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I’ve seen what a lot of the older men in had to say about younger women, most of them said that while they do agree women 18-23 are more attractive ,the appeal is purely based on looks but their personalities are boring because a lot of them are stuck on social media, immature, etc. can’t hold a conversation. I’ve heard many stories of men in their 30s going on dates with women 18-23 and they said it sucked because the women were far too immature for them. They're in a situation where they strug…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 09:41 PM
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It’s wierd, at 18/19 guys in their early to mid 20s irl said I was too young for them but creepy ass dudes in their 30s were hitting on me on social media DMs. Then again, men on social media vs real life are different. And obviously these creeps don’t make up the majority of men in their 30s Makes no fucking sense and totally creeped me tf out. 🤢 Especially since I was a very immature 18/19.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 08:25 PM
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This is true. I find virginity only matters that much to men who are also virgins or it's a central part of their religion. But yeah, that doesn't mean it nullifies the importance of staying reasonable with your count I think if he is also a virgin & religious, thhen thats valid. If not, he needs to sit his hoe ass down lol Then again, most promiscuous men usually fuck with women that aren’t chaste/virgin (unless he was dishonest about his promiscuity) As an okay looking 20 year old, I have had …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:59 PM
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Well physical appearance and personality are a lot more important. A woman in her early 20s or late teens that is a virgin but is unattractive and/or has a bad personality has nothing against a woman that’s older/non-virgin but is beautiful & has a good personality. (I get promiscuity isn’t a good trait but not being virgin doesn’t mean promiscous)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:52 PM
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What is female nature exactly, what are the positives and negatives, which I’m sure there is some that redpillers don’t put out in case it may mess with their agenda. They are right that there are some women that are red flags but they paint all women with the same agenda and when you think about it, it’s no better than the woke leftists like Robin D’Angelo painting all white people as racists
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 11:39 PM
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The only redpill YouTuber that isn’t complete trash is Think Before You Sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:24 PM
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Redpill is woke ideology/feminism for men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:22 PM
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If you want a women with little to no n count, make sure you do the same. Men and women with a high n count tend to have the values and morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:21 PM
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It’s still more common than high n count men getting with low n count women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 07:18 PM
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What if she has a career and is a boss babe at work but then “wifey mode” at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:46 PM
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I'm 50 and quite successful Yeah B is definitely perfect for you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 06:03 PM
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Lily Phillips does not represent us women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:34 AM
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Should be obvious because while you don't bring as much youth to the table, your partner count is lower and that's appealing to men. Oh im 20 😅 that’s definitely not old I'm 33 and I don't even fuck with women over 27. I can't imagine when I'll start. Maybe when I'm mid 40s 🤷 I’d judge you for that but I’m a chubby girl (5’8’ 170 lbs) who is only attracted to skinny guys so I can’t really hate on you for that 🤷‍♀️ I recognize I'm a huge outlier though otherwise I would probably have a different …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 12:33 AM
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We all like abusive 6 ft gigachads with 8 pacs and 8 inch peens who make 6 figures a year and think any man that doesn’t fit that category is repulsive and undesirable. Obviously that was sarcasm. 😂 What women like varies. Generally they prefer men that are taller than them, a lot of them prefer the “bad-boy good man” archetype which is a guy that is full of adventure and spunk and courage but also kind hearted. As for myself, I like guys that are sweet, honest, smart, and funny. I like nerdy gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 01:15 AM
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That’s what I said, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:07 AM
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“The wall” and decline of fertility/youth doesn’t always reach women at 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:29 PM
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You're acting as if men are attracted to the same traits in women, as women are in men Men couldn't care less about her jobs, cars, or houses Yeah but competence, mature, having your shit together and not being an emotional/mental mess is something both genders look for. Idk if you realize this but a woman doesn’t need to be a career woman to be mature. Men never pursue immature women in the long run unless he himself is immature or wants someone he can take advantage of. (And before you bring u…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:18 PM
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You misunderstood. I said MATURE women not OLDER women. A woman can be mature in her early 20s. Maturity is a mindset more so than age. By mature women, I mean women who have their shit together, and are responsible and competent which by the way, isn’t exclusive to career women. This applies to housewives too. If you are married to a someone who has the maturity, competence and independence of a minor, it’s gonna come with its own set of baggage. Being a competent grown ass women is by no means…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:08 PM
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Obviously yeah physical attraction plays a role to some extent. > Sure, nurturing skills and common sense are important. Nobody claimed otherwise and you don't need a degree or high paying career to be a good parent. Never said anything about a degree or career. But basic adult skills, competence and maturity are a must. You can be a housewife and have those traits. Actually being a housewife (a good one, that is) does require those traits
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 08:03 PM
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Both of them are hurt people with victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:29 PM
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Men that want a good wife will. The men that don’t: A) are immature themselves B) aren’t looking for anything serious C) want someone that they can take advantage of It’s common sense, if a woman isn’t mature or competent, she will likely not make a good life partner or mother. Immature girls come with their own set of baggage, like trouble regulating their emotions and taking care of shit. Rich Cooper said himself men don’t want a woman who doesn’t have their shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:18 PM
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It may have started out as a support group but 99% of the MGTOW channels I’ve seen are just 4B for men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:15 PM
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That’s just what I was thinking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:14 PM
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That’s true. That basically just proves it’s the mentality that matters not the age
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:11 PM
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I’ve always been attracted to guys within my “looksmatch” but I’ve never been able to get with them and I now realize it’s not my looks, it’s my shyness, low self esteem and social awkwardness.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:10 PM
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Having relations with an old lady isn’t as harmful as having relations with a little girl since the prepubescent girl clearly cannot consent but the old lady can
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:09 PM
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No man who has the ability to choose will pick a 30yo over a 20yo Not necessarily if he values maturity or if he’s an older man and wants someone he can have a connection with. Some men will pick the 30 yo over a 20yo. I would pick an average looking nerd (not like supermodel with glasses, a guy who is actually mid looking) over some Chad model guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:05 PM
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I just want one kid (and one puppy too). I grew up in a family of 4 and I’ve seen how hard it can be. (Then again, raising me was like raising 1 and a half kids lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 03:03 PM
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Being good looking makes it easier for both genders to attract a partner (but not always keep one). Personality, actions, habits, competence, etc is what keeps them. Alot of men may not care about a woman’s skills or degree but her personality, habits and competence do matter if they are wanting to have something serious with her. Competence is EXTREMELY important if you want her to be a mother to your child. Would you want an immature, irresponsible, incompetent woman to raise your child? ( And…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:59 PM
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Most men at 35 are gonna be with women in their 30s or even late 20s. And women in their early 20s are rarely ever with guys in their 30s Most men and women are with other men and women close to their age
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:06 PM
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I'm not sure your definition really meets late bloomer (4 boyfriends??) though. That’s a separate thing. (The 4 boyfriends thing was a reference to how much would you consider alot of boyfriends before mariage) but late bloomer basically means never had a boyfriend until much later or still yet to have one. (And I’m the latter) They have the same problem as all post-wall women, which is that both their fertility and physical attractiveness are rapidly declining. But at least they offer something…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 02:05 PM
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You can’t judge your attractiveness on your ability to have sex or get relationships. Thats something “all” women can do I think just about any woman could get sex if she was desperate enough but probably not relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:20 AM
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Look I think its a little fair to assume your talking about yourself a little here. Yep. I am. I’ve always done things late. Marriage is definitely not gonna be an exception. But if my dad can find my mom at 29 (I comparing myself to my dad cuz I take after him) then I should be able to find my future husband too
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:18 AM
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So you’re saying it’s not over for unmarried women past 30? (Which I think will 95% be me in 10 years)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:10 AM
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So a woman’s behavioral patterns or personality or mindstate or actions doesn’t really affect that process It definitely does account for whether she’d make a good partner or not. Yeah looks matter to an extent but a woman who is young and beautiful but has negative personality traits, behavioral patterns or mind state/actions won’t attract and keep a good quality man. She may attract men for hookups/casual dating but they won’t wanna wife her, if they got any good sense that is. I’m far too imm…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 12:05 AM
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What if she got more attention or a pool of better men in her 30s than 20s? It could happen if she glowed up or if she’s got her shit together because women that don’t have their shit together tend to attract lesser quality men. I am more attractive and confident at 20 than 16 though I still have a long way to go
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:11 PM
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True women usually look less attractive as they age but men do too. People usually look better when they are in their 20s, that’s just nature. What I meant was period of time when it’s best for them to get married. For women that develop and mature early, yeah, early 20s. For most women, mid to late 20s. For late bloomer women like myself, it would be probably 30+. Yeah 30s isn’t the most fertile age but there’s still a 75% chance of conceiving within a year for 30-34 year old women and 66% for …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 10:10 PM
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