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6	Despair - The Long Term Financial Implications of Divorce as a Dad Hey mate, yea it’s challenging and you’ll never look back and regret fighting for 50/50 custody of your son. I don’t know Canadian custody/support laws (I’m US based) but our calculation worksheets for support were publicly available so I started tinkering with the numbers. I was paying my ex $2,000/mo for my daughters but I was able to get it down significantly once I took direct payment of a few items. -after school care - she was paying this but I fought to pay for it directly as the higher e…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/26 06:12 PM
–	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! It’s not the date of divorce it’s the date the community property is severed. Those could be the same but probably separate. With kids in La you have to wait a year to get a divorce finalized, but the community property could’ve been severed way before that. Find that date. House is a loss. Yes should would be entitled to what her half grew to in the 401k (under normal circumstances). Anything prior to their marriage is separate property though, so if he had that 401k before they were married, t…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 06:20 PM
1	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! What parish is he in?	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 06:07 PM
1	(Louisiana divorce) is my dad going to be absolutely ruined??? why does La law say women are entitled to so much!!!!!! Did he move the house in his name and get her off of it at that point? Eg is he the sole owner? The date the community was severed is where everything considered community prop stops. So any more money he saved, items procured etc. She would be entitled to her half of the growth of the 401k under normal circumstances though, which would be considerable. If he had 100k in 2009 (she’s entitled 50k for easy math) that $50k has grown aggressively for 16 years now and is worth >$250k I would bet. But…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/01/26 06:04 PM
2	Any other dads... [Light-hearted] 🤚	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/26 09:25 PM
16	Ex wife invited me to Christmas day activities. Go. Don’t worry about her, go for the kids. My ex only goes by the paperwork and I don’t get any extra time with my children that’s not fought for. If you get the opportunity to be with them and make memories, take every single one of them. Don’t overthink it. Just go	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/25 03:07 PM
11	Don’t let anyone convince you your entire worth is defined by your hardest moments. Just had my men’s group tonight with a few great guys, you hear this story far too often.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/25 04:55 AM
1	Best books for working thru this mess Subtle art of not giving a F. Kitschy title but the book and premise are solid, promise it’s worth a read. Just have to get past the first chapter. Also second the stoicism path.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/25 05:47 PM