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I don't pursue anyone I let my past relationships come to me. Build tension and let her ask to be with me and I currently have a girlfriend. What most people have to offer isnt that different between eachother. Also men are desperate for companionship and will fuck anything that moves. Lots of men pursue ugly women thats why theres alot of delusional women who rate themselves 10 in the name of body positivity or because men have actually picked them and thier confidence has gone up significantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:34 PM
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Not really. Then again I'm kind of like a friendly dog in I compliment everyone if a situation on looks arises.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:56 PM
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Reminds me that I'm ugly no matter how hard I work in the gym financially nor how playful my personality and psychologically studied I am and try to cram growth into my day. Some guy can and will steal my girlfriend or ruin our relationship just by being born attractive enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:49 PM
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Because in order to obtain said things you need experience at all cost baring intellect. Im not redpill for the record I'm black pill. The common denominator is confidence. The thing alot of people preach to just have in order to be successful in alot of things. You have also chosen to omit sex from your list for some reason despite it likely being the top debatable 3 where most lies occur.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:43 PM
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This whole post makes me suicidal
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:37 PM
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In my experience that just gets you taken for granted and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:22 PM
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So they could fight and die later on. Its as basic as milking every drop out of a persons life to be used or a simple career path. Not some righteous guardian angel crusade women wanted because of a caring nature. Hell most feminists would tell you they were forced into that role.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:19 PM
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Lots of but majorily no. Besides all he has to do is keep the conversation under wraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:15 PM
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Meh its because inherently males are lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:12 PM
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I disagree. Women seem to hand themselves out for good genes rather than good behaviour. Which in terms of substance is completely soulless and effortless. Women give said geneticslly blessed guy free attention. More chances to fuck up. More sex or sex at all basically for something he has barely had to develop anything for and expect him or hope that he's a nice to decent person. Its insane. The main issue is how many women are opposed to admit this is what they subconsciously do. Men are gasli…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:11 PM
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I disagree. Women seem to hand themselves out for good genes rather than good behaviour. Which in terms of substance is completely soulless and effortless. Women give said geneticslly blessed guy free attention. More chances to fuck up. More sex or sex at all basically for something he has barely had to develop anything for and expect him or hope that he's a nice to decent person. Its insane. The main issue is how many women are opposed to admit this is what they subconsciously do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:09 PM
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I chalk that more up to porn than likely the redpill content you think i consume. The issue is its imposaible not to feel this way when society itself is obsessed with sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:06 PM
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Use them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:02 PM
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If you interact and use social media at some point you can find women empowerment. Thus you are supported and not isolated. Any type of male empowerment is simply called inc*l media irregardless of if its not malicious or bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 09:01 PM
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Less insecure more humble. I know and am fine with the fact that far more handsome men exist and know that even despite my effort in the gym even with the exact same body I may never look better than them facially or other aspects. Doesn't mean I can't call out hypocrisy or feel bitter about the fact that pretty people get better treatment. Hell I may get better treatment than someone uglier than me. That is a fucking disgusting fact about life. Fact of life or not, I'm not going to not point it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:58 PM
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The seatbelts have less of a margin for error than seemingly a womans filter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:54 PM
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Somehow I helped one last 5 years. Currently in a new one going on a year and a half to my memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:33 PM
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No its more so I doubt that my partner actually finds me attractive. I dont mention it. I just sit and wallow and continue to try and support
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:30 PM
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The men that learn to challenge it are fine. The women that don't have support. I would argue that maybe they just don't have the internet. But benefit of the doubt, then they will learn to be the true definition of independant or crash and become a wreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:28 PM
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I consume black pill content actually. I also rarely participate out side of ppd and form my own opinions sometimes of of anecdote others off of statistics and mainly just womens stories and actions. (Not just on reddit) I was already assuming this with kissing hand holding hugging or even talking when I was a teenager. If it wasnt happening she doesnt like you or likes someone else. Especially with talking. I fully expect you not to believe me and think no one could arrive to this conclusion wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:25 PM
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I agree completely with your take. I guess what I'm asking is. Is it a good analogy to make a woman better understand that particular preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:19 PM
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I love how I asked a question and you think I'm making demands lol. I just personally think if theres no signs of attraction continuing the relationship is pointless. Im asking if a guy not asking a girl out is equivalent to that for women...?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:15 PM
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Do women assume you didnt like them enough just because you haven't shot your shot or backed off.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:56 PM
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Yes thats the issue they also do the opposite for special reasons. They sleep eith a guy on the first date that they may mentally/morally like less because hes attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:55 PM
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I guess men have the reputation of silently posing the question for a date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:51 PM
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Didn't have to filter out a more attractive dude even if he ended up using you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:03 PM
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Personally I dont think its pre-meditated I think its just thier nature as a woman. I however do advocate for all men to not put up with this behavior as her settling for them is doomed to fail or lead to an open relationship, hot wifing or cuckoldry if the man has too much of a sense of loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 12:01 PM
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Its less malicious than that I feel but its definitely in thier nature and something alot of women try to falsify.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:59 AM
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Uh alot of clubbing women do have that standard thats why women majorily bash men about thier bank account and dick size if they do shame them. The main way to offend a womans ego is to imply how little you've had to do to get her thats another reason why women pursue men with money and status comfort and it appears good or implies what they "actually deserve" . One more example is how many clubbing or non clubbing women complain about the "bare minimum" even though you're both just getting to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:58 AM
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A sober woman has to be into a man at least somewhat to be willing to sleep with him. Women are not men who will fuck anything that moves or go gay for the sake of getting off if they're desperatr enough. majority of the time women less than men go that route. It is very rare a woman can have substanceless sex what with how many women in general and on ppd will claim to give a guy nothing if he doesn't mesh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:48 AM
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Sorry thats too much text but i am curious why are you 2 even together if your bull is so much better?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:04 AM
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Men- Raises the standard even more for men to perform in bed leading to an even smaller pool of men actually getting dates and relationships. Leading to more and more bitter men who are further shit on by society. Not only are they considered rapists out the womb or a potential threat now they are even more undesirable than before because why haven't they had sex when its so available. Less wives more dejected possibly suicidal men Women- Not to mention it incentivises promiscuity in women but w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:59 AM
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There is nothing to commit to. Those men have simply adapted as most men are not studs that can get women whatever night they choose. You're right on that analogy because they are women most men cannot just choose to fuck around. The statistics support what they are doing currently loosely but not what led to it. They could have changed perspectives all of a week before taking said survey. So I'll state the obvious again. Most men cannot just wait and or walk up and immediately pursue. Men and w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 02:37 AM
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That man likely won't get a woman if he's a virgin by 35 or if she learns that he is. 8% isn't alot considering an entire global pandemic was preventing them from doing so ontop of less hetero relationships. This article also speaks on how same sex intercourse is also up along with sexual experimentation and that only biblical piv is down meaning yes women are more promiscious than ever younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:06 PM
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That is literally what the data shows you are still bringing up the minority of people. I think we agree 43% not looking is less than the remaining 57% of men who claim to be in relationships the number further subtracted by situations I had stated. Lets say a small number despite the amount of people who have issues in thier relationship lets say 5% are hiding the truth to make up a margin for error. Meaning 52% of men in relationships were looking for relationships...and the remaining 73% of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:48 PM
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You realize I'm a black pilled male right? I thought you were a femcel. I don't advocate for teens to have sex early teenagers I'm literally pointing out that it is happening more and getting worse. Leading to more young women wanting to sleep around and that sustaining likely later on in life too. Me and op are saying men only get less attractive if they're older and a virgin ireguardless of assets she'll dump you for someone more sexually competent and in order to become/stay the full package …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:35 PM
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Because they've learned effort doesn't mean much. The divorce rate, women dating scummy bad boy assholes then complaining about being used by them. All that matters is if she finds you attractive enough physically because then she'll try more give you more chances, orgasm easier etc. So many men either give the bare minimum or give up. I am one of them. Not much implies the same scenario wouldnt happen again with another woman. So if theres not that much difference between womens attitudes and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:13 PM
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I did, I dont care too much about punctuation as I'm working out in between replies. Sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:09 PM
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Of course you once again try to bait someone into a battle of ethics. You're strawmanning to dismiss the fact that many behaviors can be curbed. Such as SA from men. Also earlier implies more but in the past, currently and in the future. Whatever is supported will only continue and continue to grow as communities normalize women hooking up and having casual sex. Not to mention another skewing of the numbers of what began as casual sex that then spiraled out into a relationship that said women as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:08 PM
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They are alot of work. Especially if you don't the following. A car to make planning more spontaneous and less complicated, decent clothes, excellent hygiene and game to seal the deal. All but 1 of these things are a bare minimum not to date women but to have fwb or a booty call. Most average men have to work for at least of these things as they're competing with better candidates women can actually have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:47 PM
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No theres push back because it should not become a norm. People adapt to what they believe and what others believe. That being said, unless its out of extreme desperation choosing to sell your body places a literal price on the worth of your prescence. If someone wanted to see you they would'nt have to do much except take $10 out and not ruin it for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:34 PM
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If you wanted positivity you shouldnt have raised this as a question friend. The best way to show love is an us vs them mentality. For men its if he fails and not a thing changescor better yet he gets love and support. As with men love we recieve is completely performance based and can be tiring For women its showing her that you are ok with the real her and that she can be unfiltered women fall into facades far too easily as the way they deal with the weight of expectation. Before red pillers j…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:29 PM
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No. Self esteem or self image is sadly very dependent on our experiences growing up. For men most don't get support or propped up as much as women especially as life goes on. Men learn to cope with insecurity women learn to challenge it and will alwsys have support. If a man complains the issues is his fault if a woman complains typically the blame is usually shifted to some other villan and self responsibility is staved off again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:20 PM
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The most valuable trait is whatever casts the widedt net to keep you running in the race. For both it is looks as that will always get you chances. Jobs, dates. You can even build a personality off of looks because people will socialize with you more often if you're pretty enough. Depends what age though. If a person blooms too late that leads to an attractive introvert who may not get approached st all due to surrounding peoples ebbing confidence. Thats why society is obsessed with getting or M…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:12 PM
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I haven't donated or given any money to the manosphere. They're just parroting supressed truths that many men have come to observe happens in thier daily lives or in thier past if they're lucky. An example is you could be punished more harshly in kindergarten for hitting a girl than for a girl hitting a boy and a string of double standards happen. Then you observe how backed up these double stabdards are in different forms of media and or peer groups. A man paying child support to an evil woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:05 PM
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I agree but your example is a bit too cliche. Many stay at home moms seem to actually end up doing a job they love or have compromise around due to being able to rely on a man and nitpick a great job. I would re-evaluate your post. I'm not entirely sure how true this is in recent years
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 05:01 PM
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Pfft blue pill is about accepting rejection gracefully and that it wasnt in the cards or she just didnt like you. Red pill is about accepting rejection and improving to be as unrejectable as possible. Results are the only true thing that matter that is how you become better end of. The route you take doesnt matter unless it comes to light and even then barely. Fear itself isnt cowardly and it is a powerful motivator. Your concept of it is actually extremely illogical because it has righteousness…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:57 PM
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Involuntarily. What I'm saying is at least some portion of statistics have to be lying. Ones that support my claims and ones that don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:45 PM
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Growing from our instincts is all we're meant to do in todays society especially ones that hurt others or yourself. Younger women are having consensual sex earlier and earlier as sex is introduced much younger than in previous years simply due to the internet existing. The desperation gen-Z feels to have experiences with friends and intimately grows because they have less opportunity as peers stay in more often now. Meaning they encounter slut shaming earlier to and a common defense against it i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:42 PM
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That last line quite literally argues against what you're saying. Again a lesser amount of men (even nott counting peoples reluctance to admit they're unhappy and or losers) stay single by choice. 59% of men still consider it an option in some capacity or want. I imagine that number is lower if we take into account what small percentage of men state single to avoid embarrasment, start affairs, or have had to change thier view points due to more women having experiences with the more rare percent…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:00 PM
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No one is going to admit to being a loser lol. Same way women won't admit to cheating or don't consider certain things as cheating any concensus not actually taken from action and simply claims is borderline irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:52 PM
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A nice attempt at reverse psychology but you don't even understand. How is it beta bux to get what you want if "alphas" also tell lies/white lies to ease and play a woman into bed. The people eho do this are accounting for the phrase "life isnt fair" and are adapting to such. They are taking accountability. Being forthcoming about virginity doesnt help 95% of men get laid. You also assume this man doesnt still work his ass off. Be it at the gym or financially hell maybe even personality wise. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:51 PM
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Wonderful for you. You are 1stand alone woman. At some point you will likely think of them when you come across something he can't provide. Or you're lucky enough that what he can't provide isn't big enough for you to do so. Do you mind telling me your ages by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:53 PM
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The math still doesn't take away that the chads and fuckbois (the ones with ACTUAL choice in whom the date and when) are still an even smaller percentile of all the numbers you provided. What would convince me is a study on what percentage of women choose to stay single as this study makes no mention of trans or gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:49 PM
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The men who want a relationship with her simply don't speak up because they know they're invisible to her or a slim to none chance of outshining who she actually intiatally wants. So no her attention isn't just bowchickawowo. She can find intimate companionship easily. Women find said men to be less than average because generally women can score above thier league with little effort and are too busy most of thier lives lusting after and idolizing the to sub 20% of men as classism makes average s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:37 PM
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Not my faukt they picked the lifestyle. Also if you want to play the depression olympics I point you to the discussed but never really fixed mens suicide rate ;) men are also less likely to be diagnosed or seek help due to stigma. They have autonomy and still choose to take that risk...i don't even get your argument here if I'm honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 05:13 PM
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So what you really mean to say is (being kind here) 54%of men are single involuntarily as chads and fuckbois despite what women want to believe are actually extremely rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:49 PM
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And at the end of the day that makes you flip floppy because no guy has the qualities of every guy you've let hit meaning its an impossible task for you to be satisfied with him and not reminisce about the old days. I don't obsess over body count, but it is a good indicator of where this ship is landing and where your heart is at. Women only need experience to feel confident in themselves, men need more experience than women when it comes to sexually satisfying a partner. You are completely over…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:47 PM
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Oh my god you're so silly. No people tell stories about eachother. Stories from the past because they're stories they're reminiscing about. A story potentially of an old fling a girl had an old ex boyfriend, a bad date,an old crush. Hell an un updated coworker could off handedly mention or ask what happened to an old ex of your partner. You could be hosting a get together where an old coworker fling tags along. Hell old pics on social media could tip you off. I find it adorable you immediately w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 04:40 PM
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You think 63% of young dudes choose to be single or are attractive enough to play the field and compete with tiktok e-boys?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:04 PM
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A very small sect of woman would be ok with dating you if you're a virgin in your 30s. Let alone sleeping with you. It sounds worse the higher you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 01:00 PM
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I was lol. Currently 24 and to get nsfw I was a virgin that read alot on womens pleasure and would only get her off using toys and my mouth and hands to get her to enjoy our time and I was cripplingly terrified of being inadequate in piv or for how long I would last. To hide that I hid behind " putting her pleasure first" and "I'm just so into watching you.". Also theres tons of information about how to take your hygiene and fashion more seriously as a man. All of these are gateways to becoming …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:57 PM
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Eh sometimes it can be your introduction to getting people interested in you. Pop a dirty joke here and there or just not be afraid to talk about x thing and coworkers/associates may become interested start asking you questions that get more intimate over time. The intimate questions will likely stop if you say you're a virgin as theres no deeper level to go. Personally I say never admit to being inexperienced it turns a woman completely off as though she has nothing to look forward to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:46 PM
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I don't think anyone argued against that in this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:41 PM
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Not if you're a virgin beyond 31
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:41 PM
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Gonna say about 36 well into thier wizarding powers.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:40 PM
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Yes but in vanilla/first encounter sex things are relatively the same. A girl may enjoy having certain parts touched others not but you would at least have a basis, sexual confidence or knowing how to even start foreplay is foreign land to a virgin which isn't something many women would be willing to put up with. Most women/men aren't marriage material thats a given. You're stacking layers of obstacles between you and intimacy wasting your life by not getting the right equipment for if you meet …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:39 PM
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Paying for it is not an actual intimate experience. Irreguardless of how nice the woman is typically its a onesided interaction as intimacy isn't just sex. You want her, she wants to be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:29 PM
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I agree. My arguement most men have to take what they can get and most women even in relationships right now probably aren't worth marrying. Lets not pretend people especially men get thier first pick on who to go out with. Let alone virgin men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:25 PM
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Even red pillers don't. The reason people discuss things isn't so you can grill them about said topics its because eventually someones past comes oyt either through actual drama, reunions or repressed emotions so we discuss it so that way guys know what to actually think of this info through friends family or the girl in question defending her actions and see through the bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:21 PM
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More likely to have repressed urges and cheat. Also what is the likely hood that a majority of the 4 billion are also virgins. There are people who have migrated to these religions after not being raised as such keep in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:07 PM
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If you're a virgin you don't have the qualifications for any woman as most people are only interested in instant gratification and women especially want a man with experience. How exactly does a virgin of any age get that experience? Be attractive? Thats subjective all but in the way op is advocating for lol. Not counting the fact even if during your niche hunting she doesnt leave you in general or for someone with more experience. Also you're delusional op is quite literally telling people to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:04 PM
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It is as it fully closes the door on you being able to have intimate experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:57 AM
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No most people want things instantly and arent willing to wait. Leading to you wasting years of your life whilst waiting and having no experience to keep her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:56 AM
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Delusion I think. You being conservative plays a huge role in who you attract lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:52 AM
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You assume she'd find out lol even experienced dudes can be bad in bed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:50 AM
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Thats awful you had to go through that...yes once the stigma is on you its so terrible. In your case I think you should wait to make up for the fucking abhorent introduction you had to sexual encounters. It is your life though and I know waiting can be a form of shackle to that event. Whatever you choose good luck with healing and whatever you set your mind to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 02:08 AM
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Hmm maybe misintepreted was a bad way to describe it. Its more so the younger generation starts to strive for that level of confidence or apathy about what others have to say about you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:59 AM
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Thats part of it as you can't actually tell whos good in bed and who isnt until the deed is done. Many just follow what they believe are signs or someone hot enough the dudr has to do the bare minimum.Many are actually proud of how much they sleep around or pretend to be to fight off slut shaming and naturally that gets misinterpreted by a younger generation and that becomes the new normal leading to more of what I stated above.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:17 AM
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Simply to form some type of confidence in her own ability or for just having experiences. I'm not advocating for women to do this but this seems extremely predictable and common where understandably younger they don't see the value in keeping it or keeping thier body count low because of the messages around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 12:08 AM
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Yes they let me be fat, I'm fixing thier mistake
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 11:40 PM
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Men have a clock to not be virgins thats literally all op is saying lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:29 PM
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Op is advocating for them to lie about it because its such a turn off for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:28 PM
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Natural selection love and dating couldnt care less about your moral code. Worse men than most virgins alive now a days have always had a woman on thier arm or have had sex at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:26 PM
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Thats not how it works for most men. You have to take what you can get as you're generally undesirable or else you will never lose your virginity.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:22 PM
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But they do care if you're a virgin the older you get. Op is advocating men lie about not being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:21 PM
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Yeah op is advocating for more men to lie so that they can but many women of ppd are saying not to. Also men have to mention it if she asks and if she does then its better to lie. Its even ok to lie to friends about it to have other potential women you want to not deem you an undatable loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:18 PM
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Confidence is a game changer. If someone headed op's advice I would tell them to focus on her and learning a womans body and lrt her touch you so intimacy isnt so foriegn to you to start conquering the social anxiety
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:58 PM
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Telling her you haven't had sex in a while covers a few mistakes and you not lasting as long once you get to penetration. Up until that point you get to explore a womans body, how it reacts get rid of any nervousness. Make no mistake I understand not all women are the same but at least you'd have a basis to go off of.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:47 PM
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They likely do consider it. Thats a part of why bullying even happens. Put someone down to put yourself up is a simple cheap tactic that many women mistake for confidence. Thats why people can be so at eachothers throats in high school. Your persona to the people around you is in jeopardy because at that age rarely do most introspect or think of why things are actually happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:40 PM
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No. After your current girlfriend leaves. The next girl you talk to you wont have to lie about not being a virgin as you 80% likely wont be a virgin because you had sex with the first girl. Hopefully enough that you're experienced enough to do well in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:37 PM
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I think this post is aimed at most people or at least most men as most are kissless virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:34 PM
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Even if its true? Its like going to an entry level job that requires experience. You either have the experience, lie, fake it till you make it, get the experience an extra curicular source or do a trade. Most average dudes alot of these are not viable options. If you're vying for us to simply let natural selection take its course then I hope you also want to legalize permanent euthanasia.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:33 PM
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I think thats what the post is about and why its ok to not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:22 PM
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Try not going for the obvious red flag before you try to argue a point. Most people will only bring it up when asked or ask friends to tell people x.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:21 PM
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I think op is more so justifying why its ok for men to lie about being virgins because of the stigma around it. Same way women want it to be ok to omit/lie about thier sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:20 PM
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You completely misss the point yet again, with a woman attention is guaranteed. With men its not. So average men actually have to take what they can get/ what comes thier way. Even despite the fact women find less meen attractive than men find women, men have less chances at relationships or keeping one due to hypergamy and your statistic proves that men are quite literally less often picked than women. Thats backed up by who majorily does the approaching to start dating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:16 PM
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It only gets more unnattractive with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:07 PM
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Men can rarely get sex by just sex alone and have to mimic at least some relationship qualities. Be it being fun to be around, supportive, understanding, taking care od others. Either way it gets you experience with dating/relationships with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:06 PM
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And yet more and more women are going out and participating in casual sex or sleeping around with multiiple prospects.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 09:00 PM
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Or just for herself yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 08:56 PM
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Looks are an asset and yes he does that is why he should do anything even lie to make use of his clock.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:10 PM
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If you can't use that one time to better cultivate your game/experience then that's on you for not being smart enough to. Also you assume she's immediately going to know or be disgusted or not give you the benefit of the doubt when you say you've been healing for a few years and havent had much of any recently.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:08 PM
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Its not a double standard most dudes have accepted women lie too. The issue is most of her actions lead to her having to lie where it could be luck of the draw for men needing to lie. I slept with too many dudes vs No one said yes to me asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:06 PM
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Yes for men what becomes attractive to a woman as he ages isn't himself typically its assets . An asset could literally be sexual satisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:03 PM
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Yes and I've learned how to avoid most of if not all of the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:01 PM
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We're not complaining. Its just the best course of action. If you lie to get a relationship and/or sex the next time you look for it when she inevitably leaves you. You will no longer be lying. This is a lie becomes the truth type of situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 06:00 PM
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I think thats the underlying tone of this post. More women will accept you without knowing you're a virgin so no matter what you shouldn't tell them you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:55 PM
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It is implied through music and how much other women brag be it irl or on social media, tv or simply how glamourous its presented. You heavily underestimate how maleable teens or young adults actually are and hoe long it actually takes them to change especially encounterijg positive reinforcement to said behaviours
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:53 PM
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For men that means potentially not dating at all lol. So you're telling them to stay single and alone until they die.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:49 PM
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What would they be accountable for? Being rejected or not being lucky enough to get laid leading to more rejection or getting cheated on because they're inexperienced?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:47 PM
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I dont think they're confused why men get rejected. I think they're advocating it as a valid strategy and that the women on ppd who scorn this are wrong. I agree to an extent
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:46 PM
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Alot of women 18 to like 29 get the wrong idea that they arent wanted if they can't perform like a pornstar thats why theres an uprise in pride about going clubbing. High body counts etc. Its just about insecurity. Some other women will talk shit about a virgin woman to put her down in highschool or college so they come out thinking that its bad to be sexually inexperienced. Teenagers are easily influenced and most people dont have the introspection to look around if thats actually true and will…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:43 PM
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Most do anyway least you'd be better off in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:41 PM
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I think Average men need to settle more often than not because they're also undesirable. Also I get what op is saying a bit. Even if you get dumped next time you'll do a bit better and build that up over years or months.i highly doubt op or anyone using this is sharing this with the women they're dating that much is obvious. I think in ops mind all women at one point or another will judge you this way. Post and comment history says they think women will change up and leave on a dime if you're no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:41 PM
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Women shit test men they're interested in, I highly doubt much of that is going on here let alone the internet. Either way proves my point they did it here and probably dont at all or as much irl. Besides I'm talking everyone on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 07:22 PM
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Personally I can't do a girl if she tucks her belly into her pants and it literally hangs over her crotch but thats it, thats the cut off for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:58 PM
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Alot of the internet is like being drunk its how people actually feel. People bite thier tongue in real life or go silent when someone has shitty viewpoints in normal settings/conversation. Men are called/considered sexist for stating any preference women are not. As an off color example i dare you to really look into body positivity on the internet lol. Its a sphere mainly taken up by and for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:50 PM
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I think that society as a whole; supported by human nature places too much focus on love and relationships. Too much of both negative and positive reinforcement. To be honest I dont think it can be, I think that's just life showing its cold hard truth that men more than women are only valued by what they can actually do/results and are replacable and people of both genders will never meet/have someone or never even experience intimacy for a second. Something worsening this is people seem to comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:41 PM
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The issue isnt not supporting the men its supporting the stigma that everyone should be ok withmen being isolated. Especially for x reason. Again most of the time a guy vents about his problems he is not emotionally understod he is reaffirmed that yeah he should get better and be better. Seriously Imagine no matter how you approach a subject or whatever yoi're going through in life you hear " Yeah you're right about yourself, there is something wrong with you" You'll hear it from the people yoi'…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:33 AM
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You are so uneducated on this topic. They are the same thing. Having a lot of muscle "aka a chris hemsworthbody" while still being lean is just not physically possible without PEDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:27 AM
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No we can't live without love and you can have a deep friendship but it will still be far removed from an intimate loving relationship. It is a choice that will fuck you over. If you do settle with someone they'll never be sexually satisfied with you especially as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 12:25 AM
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Oh no they do exist its just a long list sometimes varying. Also you must live on a perfect planet then. You didnt even provide an argument for that statement because you see the truth in it lol Veins are determined by body fat percentage which certain ones are healthy for long periods of time others are not be it too low or high, or even attainable while still having enough muscle. Also then explain the volume and success of thirst traps on social media. I guess they're just bots and millions o…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:01 PM
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It doesn't make you superficial but fubnily enough physical attraction will get uou more chances than someone who isnt, with deal breakers like abuse, cheating, emotional unavailability etc. Men are guilty of this but many women virtue signal giving ugly people delusions. If you're ugly you likely won't get break up sex and won't be missed especially physically. People get called superficial because being superficial likely means uou're a hypocrite (people are terrible at having a vocabulary/exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:49 PM
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As you go down from the non muscular/skinny guys they will typically have a higher successrate and or chances to recover the relationships or a different one. Its not a secret agreement its evidence based and they dont even realize they're doing it. Divorce break ups and cheating are evidenced by whom they really desire. The person a woman cheats with is always always more physically attractive than thier partner. If not then there will likely be multiple different men. Actions and support of sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:33 PM
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All are transactional its just nice enough to where it doesnt feel or appear that way especially in the moment. A common issue with dating is men don't think things deep enough but women think things are deeper than they are. Thats why women talking about a man they slept with bring up "his energy"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:16 PM
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All are transactional its just nice enough to where it doesnt feel or appear that way especially in the moment. A common issue with dating is men don't think things deep enough but women think things are deeper than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:16 PM
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Bullfucking shit. You are either thinking about being made to orgasm by someone, Some attractive person, a scenario, feeling sexy or just at the thought of relief/the orgasm itself if you're not fantasizing about someone in particular. A woman can relax and orgasm but the fantasy still need to be there that's why roleplay and literature is so prevalent in sex for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:14 PM
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Indifference for men means isolation. Indifference for women means they will aleays have support. As an example girl power
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:17 AM
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Seems to be the case anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:12 AM
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He's more calm because he doesnt have to try. He has enough affirmations and that will eventually become a problem for you if you're not one of his better options. He may not do it full of malice but that is damn sure what happens. If you're ok with that cool but most women would demonize him for wanting someone on his level.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 11:09 AM
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Alot of men supported femenism. Men in power also allowed femenism to happen. Just putting that out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:57 AM
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Yes this post/anyone complaining or putting a counter point is TRYING TO STOP IT BEING A POPULAR BELIEF because it is spewed everywhere and an unhelpful delusion of cold hard facts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:46 AM
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It does because most women go around partaking in this thought process maybe with no malice but they do. Its called silent agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:43 AM
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The interesting part i. My mind is how many women lust after dudes on roids (chris hemsworth as an example). Don't care and actively subconciously support men taking them. To anyone arguing against this. Lets not forget the fact less attractive people have to try 10x harder to get and about 5x harder to maintain a date/relationship. Double it for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:42 AM
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As if its a choice in general. Be celibate or scrape the barrel to have sex or hell even just physical touch or emotional intimacy is the choice most men face. Men have a higher chance of being deprived of what we all know is human need (its not entitlement its tragic as unless you believe otherwise women offer more than just sex the issue is since they have a majority of the power in dating and in relationships even women that are on your level get more options than the average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:35 AM
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Never do it. Most women are not equipped to 1 handle any of thier mans emotional problems and 2 it will destroy her perception of you as 90% of women only look to thier man for what he can provide
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:49 PM
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Never do it. Most women are not equipped to 1 handle any of thier mans emotional problems and 2 it will destroy her perception of you as 90% of women only look to thier man for what he can provide
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:48 PM
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Age 13 and up to now at 23 simply from the fact that everyone in a relationship looks nothing like me, I was overweight despite doing mma. The only thing that has net me any success with women is using my voice and emotional intelligence. Though clearly has no merit as they left lol. It is a daily struggle I struggle with. I don't even wish to be looked at or breathe the same air as normal looking people. I reclused in my room for as long as I could and every waking moment I'm outside I can't he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 01:46 PM
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Men don't get situational consideration all fatherd abscent from thier kids lives are viewed the exact same way and you just proved it, tell me do you think if a man says 'I want to be in my childrens lives' but the mother says no that it will still happen or any form of agreement will take place where he can be? You forget how many single moms live with thier parents also. Yet another point of support for women. Also I'm also arguing they have no right to thier unborn children either. Heres whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:15 PM
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A deadbeat dad is simply a father that is abscent men do not get situational consideration.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:09 PM
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No those men are just that, average and thats why theg can't grt casual sex, it only benefits those desired aka women and above average men. Men don't get a say AT ALL once a baby is on the table, period. Though they'd have to front the bill an option is still an option, a person with reproductive rights vs a person without and no i'm stating something you simply disagree with. Women get the support of the father, the state and community. As a single father you get maybe support of the state if …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:51 PM
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No those men are just that, average and thats why theg can't grt casual sex, it only benefits those desired aka women and above average men. Men don't get a say AT ALL once a baby is on the table, period. Though they'd have to front the bill an option is still an option, a person with reproductive rights vs a person without and no i'm stating something you simply disagree with. Women get the support of the father, the state and community. As a single father you get maybe support of the state if …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:50 PM
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Virgin by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:13 PM
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You reward him with yourself. Other guy wants you so he mimics what that guy did to get you or at least someone because men go longer without physical touch/love/intimacy/someone caring about us + sex feels good and is deeply apart of how we get fufillment. Also I feel none of what you're saying. Most women don't even know men think like this or that those men that do think like this exist. If you think making an observation on actions not words is shitty, you disagree that actions speak louder …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:06 PM
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Its not an issue what women do. The issue is that women have a problem with what men do in response (play them, become an asshole, be a user, love bomb, lie etc) and sex can easily lead to a relationship. So why would guys not go for that (aka be an asshole)if not at least to gain experience in pleasuring women to better thier chances in the future. Hence the issue/argument that women reward these shitty dudes by giving them any type of attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:01 PM
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Not date but definitely sleep with, know how he is in bed then date him. That guy didn't have to wait.This process happens more often than you'd think. Also she only needs to know the bare minimum of the bad boy but vets the "nice guy" I understand why women do this, it doesn't make men feel any less shitty or that he shouldn't just be a dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:51 PM
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Risk vs reward + intoxication also yes from a biological standpoint it is more risky for women however from a societal stand point men have more to lose than women by spawning a baby that neither want. Child support is a straight neg to your income.Yes we agree sex is risky for women too Men who want to use women remove the risk by trying to instill trust, however she is more willing to set that aside if the feeling of attraction is mutual thats why women whobare careful try to be careful. Also …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 04:11 PM
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The other guys are hot enough she doesn't need to get to know him. Just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:13 PM
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I did for 5 years, forced myself to be into overstim to make sure she was satisfyed still left to find a new dick, tried to come back, I lied and told her I fucked some chick at the gym to get her to leave me alone that was 11 months ago
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:11 PM
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Hate is closer to love than you think. If you didnt care you wouldnt comment at all lol. Revenge takes investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:06 PM
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You post nudes online yet prop up your relationship. Damn that guy must not be the most fulfilling for you to still need even more male attention lol. Go ahead say something delusional to deny it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 03:04 PM
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A fat or ugly woman can still get human touch. Do not compare, women also shame men for not wanting fat women now, and make it a good thing to have fatter features. Not to mention chubby chasers are an actual thing for women but not men nor short chasers or whatever you wish to call them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:59 PM
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Because women say it then turn around and lie and act like it doesn't matter and get propped up by society as being virtuous. Not only are you 1 lying out the gate but the acceptance of this fact changes on a whim whenever you guys so choose and many men end thier lives over this fact and no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:55 PM
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People want to have casual sex because it feels good, builds experience/false confidence and to be lusted after so much a person wants a relationship with you is the peak of satisfaction in this sex obsessed world we live in even if you reject them. Most women don't like casual sex because they went unsatisfied in said casual sex. If someone gets off on having a new partner or satisfying others, or if they're lucky enough that thier partner is actually good in bed and helps them finish especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:41 PM
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I don't subscribe to either tactic myself, again its just an observation of womens actions and results vs what they say. Theres 0 reason to be respectful when attraction is all that matters. You'll always get multiple chances being attractive. Coming off as an asshole then ever so slightly changing or caring will pique a womans interest. Attraction is the end all be all. It raises the scope of women you can hit on and women actually hit on you. Giving you more experience over guys who will alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:04 PM
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The number of "nice guys" that havent gotten results out of being respectful and nice outweigh the number that have. Its literal insanity to continue the same action expecting a different result. Billions of you guys on earth yet most men can see only 200 out of those billions would give them a chance if they were nice and respectful. Now factor in those women being in relationships, different cities/states/countries your odds of actually meeting them based on scheduling, hobbies workload etc. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:44 PM
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Patterns constitute what you will majorily encounter, meaning same as you most guys should abandon all hope. For peace. Most men on the planet are virgins or sexually inactive. Its a miniscule percentage and far less men than women getting relationship or sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:26 AM
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I don't want that but that is the reality of the situation. You keep acting like it hasn't already happemed Women all want the same guy because it makes her feel sexy or lets her let go of or feel fulfilled in societal beaty standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:04 AM
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Its just a result of what we've observed. Women acting repulsed, making vomiting sounds etc when someone suggests a guy they don't find attractive. Or the responses recieved from said chicks when asked out by an unattractive guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:56 AM
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You still met with him ._.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:53 AM
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You tried to strawman and failed lol, women are a sexual collective. Hence why lots of women are sleeping with the same few guys/types of guys...thats why being shamed or shit talked in front of women results in you getting 0 pussy lol. They simply believe what they hear, thats why men lie too.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:51 AM
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All men do is make an observation on the action of the general public.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:45 AM
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And the consensus from both men and women. If you can't make a woman feel something within the first few moments of meeting her its going to end badly. Women claim they like to get to know a guy over time, its a claasic case where there are other guys who didnt have to wait while the other is jumping through hoops.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:21 AM
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This is the true reasonvwhy everyone is untrustworthy. Base instinct. Instinct based decisions bolstered by toxic positivity or simple positive reinforcement. People are truly nothing more than thier core instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 05:03 AM
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They're not gold diggers, women just want nice things and a guy who can provide moments, most women don't want to to look around and say she isnt getting as much as her friends or just chicks she sees online thats why having goals is important in relationships. If you can't provide that she'll get it elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 03:13 AM
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I am depressingly neutral I am black pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:12 AM
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Incorrect its like ignoring red flags of someone you're meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:09 AM
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Because no one not even the bottom of the barrel chicks want an average dude lol. Like some dudes will know a pornstar has stds and still sleep with her raw or go clap grannys that don't still have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:06 AM
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Seems the only real issue is "instead of" I would do both for ideas on how to more realistically create experiences with us and because my ex loved roleplay so it got hard to keep thinking of new scenarios for 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:54 AM
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It helps your chances and confidence changes how you dress, and what haircut you choose. It helps because you actually look good in those clothes because you had an active lifestyle and because of said compounding confidence you approach more women and less women are revolted by you asking them out. Its simple cause and effect. People elaborate less online because they don't work out the semantics in thier head they go based off results. Lastly attraction is the ONLY thing that matters in a rela…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:50 AM
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I'd rather be dead than life as either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:32 AM
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Men need to be able to perform in the bedroom women really don't or its easily learnable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:29 AM
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Personal insults nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:26 AM
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The bitterness of the red pill stems from society as a whole. Women who are "Wise and burned" get coddled and backed up hy sisterhood. Because of that arrogance less and less young women are actually changing and because of social media becoming more and more shallow and vain. Not only that they are encoraged to be so. So lets say you found a girl who isn't like that yet she will be. Getting a woman later in her years is literally the equivalent of someone burning themselves out then turning aro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:20 AM
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Barely any red piller thinks thier issues are gone, most just continue trying to grind (despite venting online). The red pill helps remind men not to try too hard for any woman a lesson echoed but not learned except thrpugh experience unless you're an extremely damagingly caitious person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:12 AM
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